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00:04:10.000It's Unplugged for X. I just got verified so y'all know what time it is, man.
00:04:13.000A.K.A. I did the whole like, you know, I submitted all my shit so that so because the thing is what Twitter is like you even though you pay for it's kind of gay You you do it so that you get more reach and obviously like that when they know it's a real account But the point is this guys I'm gonna be on here I'm gonna be tweeting about a bunch of stuff that you know I might not necessarily cover on the podcast So you guys like Geopotsies guys like certain things going on in the world You guys like my view on certain things you guys want to see my fat phobia in full display display Go ahead and check me out on here.
00:04:42.000I'm actually scared of his Twitter I have a few tweets saved in draft that I'm like, if I post this, I'm going to get banned.
00:05:34.000So, ladies, Aaron C. Foxen, make sure you come on to our show.
00:05:37.000And, yeah, other than that, ladies, have a great show.
00:05:40.000All right, without further ado, ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course.
00:19:39.000They were kind of distant before they were divorced, but I have a younger brother, so it's probably a little bit harder on him than it is for me.
00:24:08.000Yes, so we host a show in Las Vegas called Access Vegas where it's a panel show But we just smother it with statistics on evolutionary psychology We like to talk a lot about that and I host he is the author of the five rational mail books and I am the I am the creator of the Men of Action Mentoring Program, which combines dating and social networking stuff with U.S. military stuff that I learned.
00:25:45.000So I just took out a notepad and I just wrote down every one that I could remember.
00:25:48.000And I did it on numerous missions and started filling in all the gaps and looked at photos on my phone and I finally figured out what the number is.
00:25:53.000I'm not sharing it, but I figured out what the number is.
00:27:00.000Camp Two Times goes, if any of you ladies are on your cycle, be aware because Big Mo smells blood like a shark and eats it like a vampire coming in town with his coffin.
00:27:25.000For the ladies, if your husband admitted to buying escorts because he wanted to have sex with other women without emotion, would you consider it cheating?
00:29:23.000Ladies, if you're a boss babe, good looking, good shape, and providing while your man sits at home, should he turn his head if you step out with other guys?
00:29:31.000Okay, so if you're a boss babe, good looking, good shape, and providing while your man sits at home, should he turn his head if you step out with other guys?
00:29:38.000Can you be open if you're paying all the bills and taking care of your guy?
00:31:24.000This is gonna be a very simple question, and you're just gonna...
00:31:26.000It's green if it's yes, red if it's no.
00:31:29.000It says here, if you're a boss, babe, good-looking, good-shape of providing while your man sits at home, so you're the breadwinner, he stays at home like a woman, right?
00:31:36.000Should he not look or turn his head if you step out with other guys?
00:31:40.000In other words, he's going to turn the other cheek.
00:31:42.000Should he do that if you're paying all the bills?
00:32:35.000Master Tentum goes, would like to know if there's a difference between a good person and a nice guy or if they are the same thing.
00:32:44.000I think it's different, but Rolo, could you expand on that?
00:32:49.000It's the difference between being sort of a doormat and then being just somebody who's agreeable or a high level of agreeableness, I suppose, would be the next thing.
00:32:59.000I think we use the term nice guy and jerk in binary extremes, whereas whenever you ask somebody about this, they'll go, well, I'm really more assertive, but I'm not really a doormat kind of thing.
00:33:11.000But when we say nice guy, when women say nice guy, it means something different when a guy says, well, I'm really a nice guy.
00:33:17.000So a good person that has no boundaries would be a pushover.
00:33:20.000A good person that has boundaries, remember yesterday you were talking about the difference between Captain America and Iron Man.
00:33:27.000Iron Man is a bit of a scoundrel, so he's not a good guy and he has boundaries, whereas Captain America has boundaries and he's a good person.
00:33:33.000A good person who has boundaries, that could be attractive, but a good person who doesn't have any boundaries, he actually isn't a good person, he's just kissing up to you because he wants vagina.
00:33:41.000So he's actually being deceitful, and that's where women walk over those guys.
00:34:30.000Of course, I would tell him and tell him to break the relationship.
00:34:33.000He doesn't have a woman that respects him.
00:34:36.000So, I actually had something similar happen in one of my friend's family and I'm curious, if he didn't break up with her, what would you do?
00:35:13.000I'd pull her aside and be like, hey girl, I know what you're doing and I would want to know all the details and everything like that and if not, then...
00:35:21.000You want to know the details, you pervert?
00:36:41.000Something like that is not something you want to just expose somebody and put them in a vulnerable situation so they have to process all that emotion from everyone.
00:36:49.000So he can figure out what he needs to do.
00:37:16.000And then all I'm going to say is, okay, and you can choose to take that route, but if anything happens negatively, you know what you continue to deal with at that point.
00:44:44.000I mean, it exponentially affects family, friends, and then future friends and future family, too.
00:44:55.000The issue initially would be the cheating, and obviously we'd have a conversation, but if it continued and he took her back, my first question would be, as a father, what have I done wrong to not express to you that you have enough abundance as a man to not accept this type of behavior?
00:45:11.000The only exception, obviously, would be if there's children involved, which I say, well, it's going to make things a little bit more complicated.
00:45:17.000But the other thing is, I have 35 cousins.
00:48:24.000Never was with a guy, and remember, this is the white guy that she said she flew over, and they just slept in the same bed, but nothing happened.
00:49:43.000I genuinely think if you're a guy and you're an influencer and you have a girl and she's an OnlyFans creator, You need to take 50% of everything she earns.
00:49:49.000And the reason why is because that's what I call an embarrassment fee or an L-fee for you being with that fucking girl and she's over here sexualizing herself on the internet.
00:50:24.000No, it does make sense, and I'll tell you why.
00:50:27.000When a girl's on OnlyFans, right, and you're an influencer and you're a guy, she's going to make a bunch of money off of being in a relationship with you.
00:50:35.000She effectively gets a bunch of subscribers from being with you.
00:50:38.000Because a lot of times when you're a male influencer, let's be honest here, most male influencers, their audience is mostly men.
00:52:37.000I think in this specific case, more than 50% of her income is going to come from the fact that, like, I kind of want to see what she's got going on now.
00:55:19.000But you do understand that once he gets with her, she's going to get way more exposure and she's going to make a significant amount more money that she would have never made before.
00:56:11.000But to say, if you want to be with me, I have to get a percentage of your work, Yeah, because she would have never made the money had it not been for him.
00:56:20.000So even if he takes 50%, it's probably gonna still be double what she was making.
00:56:42.000I made a whole podcast about this, about women that are involved in sex work, women that are involved in show business, women that are involved in certain professions where they have to sexualize themselves.
00:56:48.000You typically don't want to commit to those type of women.
00:56:50.000It's going to cause you headaches in the future.
00:57:10.000Those girls are making like six figures a month on OnlyFans.
00:57:13.000And I'm like, you should be taking a cut of that because this bitch is literally useless and she's literally farming your audience and making a bunch of fucking money.
00:59:08.000But if you're a guy influencer and you're dating her and you're promoting her and shit like that, yeah, dude, it's a fucking L for you to be dating a sex worker.
00:59:14.000So you better be getting a percentage of that if you're going to do it.
00:59:16.000The best way to go is not to get with a sex worker in the first place, but, you know, whatever.
00:59:21.000But we've seen, for example, RiceGum, Aidan Ross, they say, you know what?
00:59:57.000A lot of these female kinds of creators, they know that it's very difficult to garner an audience for real.
01:00:02.000So what they'll do is they'll latch onto a male content creator that does have influence, that does have people that watch some long-form content.
01:00:08.000And then what they'll do is they'll siphon off people from his audience to go ahead and get OnlyFans.
01:00:12.000Because a lot of these chicks, bro, that are big, look at them.
01:00:15.000They're on TikTok predominantly or Instagram.
01:00:16.000Something that's short-form content and or pictures.
01:00:21.000I mean, they're working smarter, not harder, so...
01:00:23.000Yeah, so it's easier to be entertaining for 45 seconds than it is for four hours.
01:10:43.000I'm afraid to tell you anything because it's 2023 and I'll get cancelled for telling anybody that they're not anything that they want to believe.
01:10:51.000What we're trying to express to you, all jokes aside, is the belief that you are just a 10 is unhelpful and it's dangerous and you're giving your female friends bad advice by agreeing with them saying that they're 10 as they get heavier and when they're not as attractive as they think they are and as they get older choosing to not get into relationships Waiting longer and longer to have kids and choosing to get an advanced degree versus getting married.
01:11:15.000When you do stuff like that, you're telling your friends things that might not be the best advice.
01:11:36.000Listen to the words that you're using, though.
01:11:39.000No, but really, you're going to sit here, Adriana Lima, and you're going to sit here, two supermodels, and you're going to tell them maybe they're a 10.
01:11:47.000And you're going to bring another one, like Naomi Campbell.
01:14:18.000They underrate because they're in Las Vegas and they're constantly having to compare themselves to other women who are trying to get cocktail server jobs that make $240,000 a year.
01:14:27.000And they're like, I didn't get the job.
01:14:29.000That's why none of the girls on our show call themselves a 10 because they're in Vegas where they're constantly being reinforced.
01:14:34.000Because it's so competitive with other attractive women.
01:14:36.000Whereas when we're in Miami, it's not the same level of competition.
01:14:41.000My point is, believe whatever you want.
01:14:43.000Just understand it's kind of unconstructive to give yourself a set of value rather than to take honest criticism from the world and say, this is actually what I am.
01:14:52.000You can get better from there, starting from where you actually are.
01:14:57.000It's emotion versus reason is what it is.
01:15:00.000It's like empirical, rational, objective reality versus, here's how I feel.
01:15:04.000I feel like I'm a 10, But the world says I'm a seven, right?
01:15:10.000There's a difference between those two.
01:15:11.000It's good that you want to psych yourself up and be your best person.
01:15:15.000Because if that's what motivates you, awesome.
01:15:18.000But the reality is that there's objective standards to pretty much damn near everything, including art, by the way.
01:16:20.000The world's not defining who you are, it's describing what you are.
01:16:23.000And you can define yourself and say, you know what, I don't like what that is.
01:16:26.000You will only get what you've got if you keep doing what you've been doing, right?
01:16:29.000Well, if the world is saying you're one thing and you say, fuck that, I want to be something else, I'm going to chart my own course, that's different.
01:16:37.000But you still, to get to that point, you have to have somebody give you some sort of, hold up a mirror for you so that you can see that.
01:16:43.000And by the way, you're much prettier without your makeup.
01:17:07.000Number two, the only reason women are able to say the delusional things that you guys say, like, I'm a 10 out of 10, is because we don't tell women the truth that, yo, you are actually delusional, you're not as hot as you think you are, and you've got to live in objective reality.
01:17:18.000If I'm fat, short, loser, girls, remind me that I'm a loser because they won't suck my dick.
01:17:22.000But a girl that's a 5 will be told she's a 10 by some guy so that he can get laid, and they'll actually believe it because women don't get negative reinforcement for their fuckery.
01:18:59.000You need to improve yourself just like a guy.
01:19:01.000If you're fat, you need to go to the gym.
01:19:02.000If you're a noxious bitch, you need to work on your personality.
01:19:04.000If you're annoying, you need to learn how to be more poised and be quiet.
01:19:09.000But we tell women that they're perfect no matter how they behave.
01:19:11.000It's crazy to me how women don't feel the need to self-improve and have the gall to get on a podcast with 20, 30,000 people watching live and call themselves a 10 out of 10.
01:19:33.000No one's telling you the truth that you're an annoying, fat, annoying bitch and you don't want to self-improve.
01:19:37.000That's why so many women are single because they're delusional and they don't understand that their level doesn't match up what they think it is and they think they deserve a guy that they don't necessarily deserve.
01:19:46.000Women need to go back to reality and realize you qualify for a certain amount of men and unless you self-improve, you don't deserve that guy.
01:20:24.000There's people with so much money and you cannot really take beauty because it comes the people that they grow up with.
01:20:31.000And I have seen guys with the most normal girls in the world who have so much money and their wife and their families because it's not only beauty.
01:20:39.000Like, there's so much coming with someone with a good family.
01:20:57.000They understand where they rank, they understand that their man is superior to them, and they understand, okay, if I'm going to go ahead and land this guy, yes, yes, if you're the guy that makes that kind of money, he's superior to you.
01:24:21.000Our money and our status, right, is the equivalent to your beauty.
01:24:24.000So what I'm saying is that if you sit there and you say you're a 10, right, then I should be able to run around and say, I work at a law firm and I make half a million dollars a year.
01:24:50.000Because we don't give a fuck about your money.
01:24:52.000Yeah, but if I look up to you, if we go on a date together in physical, and I tell you I'm a 10, and you don't consider me a 10, I can lie to you.
01:25:00.000But if you tell me that you're a lawyer, you can lie to me.
01:25:40.000Like, nobody likes a girl that won't take you anywhere.
01:25:43.000Let me try to square the circle real quick.
01:25:45.000If I had a niece and my niece needed a heart transplant and she got a heart transplant from a cardiologist, the woman who does the heart transplant has tremendous value to society.
01:26:16.000A male cardiologist and what makes him physically attractive, what makes him attractive to women and what makes him valuable to society are the same thing.
01:30:51.000I think the correct way to say it is that women are hornier, but only for a small percentage of men, versus men are hornier for a large majority of women.
01:31:07.000Like, most women would only really want to have sex with a minority of men.
01:31:11.000But men will have sex with most women.
01:31:45.000I feel like men, because I feel like they might be, like, super thirsty, and they're like, okay, women are pretty horny, but then maybe they're like, okay, this isn't worth it, but men are like, all right, fuck it, just come over.
01:36:34.000And I'll tell you the thing, women love to pile on when it comes to hookup culture.
01:36:40.000The only people they're hooking up with are guys who are like the top tier guys.
01:36:43.000So really what the internet has done, or what social media has done, is it's made the top tier guys, they're at a level that no one else can match.
01:36:53.000So if there is anything that even resembles hookup culture, it's women who want to get with the top tier.
01:36:57.000What percentage of men do you think get no sex at all, like in a year?
01:40:51.000And then 80% of men on social media apps are deemed unattractive, 20% are deemed attractive, and 4.5% of men are so attractive that women actually pursue them.
01:41:09.000If we drove by, we went to Chick-fil-A, and we ordered some food, and I asked you guys after we left, hey, what is the guy who gave you your food?
01:42:25.000Is it that women have no agency and they can't take accountability or responsibility for anything they do because it's men who are the ones who are making those decisions for them?
01:43:43.000So I think with the whole hookup culture, it is mostly promoted mentally and literally by women because they do mostly talk about it, blaming men.
01:43:55.000But it's a few men and those few men have so many options with women.
01:44:50.000If you guys are out there, listen, man, hookup culture, all this free sex sounds great.
01:44:53.000But the reason why men are out there listening to this is frustrated because it's not happening for them.
01:44:57.000There's a small group of men that that's happening for.
01:44:59.000And so when women are blaming them, yes, I understand that Brock the bartender fucked you, fucked your friend, fucked your sister, and fucked with other people so you want to complain about him.
01:46:44.000So when I see a girl on TikTok complaining about, I can't get a guy to take me seriously, or this guy ghosted me, or blah, blah, fucking blah, I laugh.
01:46:51.000Because I'm like, you picked the wrong guy.
01:46:53.000It's probably a dude that fucks a bunch of other girls.
01:46:55.000You were too stupid to identify to see if he was a player or not, even though you've fucked other players and you should know by now.
01:47:00.000But women don't understand that, okay, this guy's probably not a good long-term partner.
01:48:39.000Every single one of your girls here at the table has probably two to three guys right fucking now that's in the friend zone that would be a fantastic boyfriend to you.
01:48:46.000But you don't want him because he's boring.
01:48:48.000I mean, I don't keep wanting to say it's subjective, but I feel like there's so many girls who probably say they gave a guy who they may have not been their initial choice a chance, and it pisses them off even more when they get played.
01:49:03.000No, if you feel like you're going out of your usual comfort zone and being like, okay, maybe I should give this guy a chance because what I usually like doesn't suit me most of the time.
01:49:25.000I mean, I've heard other girls over here say, like, yeah.
01:49:27.000Like, when I said that, it was like, yeah.
01:49:28.000Like, I've heard many girls say they've given a not-their-usual choice guy a chance, and it does nothing but just piss you off even further.
01:52:52.000No, but in that process, you're gonna, in that process of you trying to be like, oh, I'm gonna get a better girl, and that girl that you chose, that took a chance on you, that's why people are saying what they're saying.
01:53:03.000Like, oh, I tried to give a nice guy a chance, and he did this.
01:53:08.000So I'm going back to the jerks and the ass hats.
01:53:11.000Yeah, so you're going back to the guys that failed you.
01:53:23.000It's because I think a lot of women, once again, remember the whole 10 thing and I'm special?
01:53:27.000Like, you're not above a guy having sex with another girl when he's in a relationship with you.
01:53:31.000You know, it amazes me how many girls think, well, I'm with this guy, he better only be faithful to me.
01:53:37.000Well, men typically are only as faithful as their options.
01:53:39.000So, you could get with a guy that's extremely attractive with money, or you could get with a guy that's a loser.
01:53:43.000If he has the opportunity to have sex with other women, it might happen, so I just tell women to prepare for it and just accept that, okay, does he love you?
01:54:04.000Because I know, like, they tell me, like, you know, like, they tell me they fuck in the car, they tell me they fuck in the theater, they tell me they fuck on the train.
01:54:12.000Do you actually think, and I'll go around the table on this one, do you actually think you can sexually satisfy a man by yourself?
01:56:08.000Take a picture of yourself with no makeup on and send it to him.
01:56:12.000So yeah, going back to what I was saying, hookup culture is on women because women are the ones that pick who fucks.
01:56:18.000And what I'm saying is that women typically in hookup culture pick the top 5 or 10% of men that are attractive enough to engage in hookup culture.
01:56:24.000A majority of men cannot participate in hookup culture.
01:56:28.000But a majority of women absolutely can participate in hookup culture.
01:58:40.000The culture that we have, Unhuckup culture and how women behave, yeah, we are in power and we should change our behavior so men change their behavior.
01:58:48.000But to say that it's all awful and men don't have a play in it is just a lot.
02:02:59.000So if somebody had like a survey where they looked at body count and related that to cheating, and somebody did...
02:03:06.000And they used 8,000 women and they surveyed these women.
02:03:08.000And what they did was they surveyed the women who cheated in a relationship and found their previous sexual partners before they were married and the women who did not cheat in a relationship and their previous sexual partners before they were married.
02:03:18.000So I'm going to ask each one of you, the number of sexual partners a woman who cheats in a relationship, how many sexual partners do you think she has?
02:03:25.000And a woman who doesn't cheat, how many sexual partners do you think she has?
02:03:58.000What percentage more do you think the women who do cheat have as far as the women who don't cheat, as far as previous sexual partners before they got married?
02:05:44.000Because I'm just saying, we've had to rephrase questions for you several times, and they've been fairly straightforward and easy questions, but...
02:05:50.000There's three women talking before me.
02:05:52.000I'm allowed to ask you to rephrase the question.
02:05:56.000That's what people who debate do to make sure you can respond correctly.
02:06:22.000So a woman who hasn't cheated, maybe she's had one sexual partner, a woman who has cheated has had five, that'd be a 500% increase.
02:06:28.000How much more do you think women who have cheated in a relationship or cheated in a marriage, how many more sexual partners do you think they have?
02:06:33.000Like as a percentage, what do you think?
02:06:50.000By definition your answer should be zero.
02:07:09.000How much more do you think a woman who did cheat in a relationship versus a woman who didn't, how many more previous sexual partners do you think she had?
02:07:27.000So in this survey, which was 8,000 women that the GSS did in 2021, what happened was women who cheated had about 8.9 previous sexual partners before they were married, and women who didn't cheat was about 3.2, right?
02:08:05.000You shouldn't even have a concern about her path.
02:08:09.000If I just showed you that women who cheat are, on average, have 150% more sexual partners than women who don't cheat, I have just given you statistical data Showing you that you probably shouldn't be with a woman who's been with a lot of men before you get married.
02:08:37.000Remember when, it was about a year ago, when you and I did the promiscuity episode together, and we were actually covering these numbers, but it was older data.
02:08:46.000Now remember, what we said was, like, what's the optimal number of sexual partners if you want to get into a relationship?
02:09:30.000Yeah, but the point is, right there, the next paragraph says, the average number of male sexual partners for married women who cheated on their husbands was 2.3 times higher than those women who did not cheat.
02:09:50.000Women who have more sexual partners make worse wives on average.
02:09:55.000They are more likely to cheat on you, period.
02:09:58.000You cannot say that this is a function of a misogyny or a patriarchy.
02:10:02.000There is actual solid data on this now.
02:10:05.000And this is probably the most offensive thing ever.
02:10:07.000I promise you, I promise you, if there was data out there that showed as women had more sexual partners, they were better wives, you would publish that data and immediately...
02:10:18.000You would be awarded the Nobel Prize in psychology without review.
02:10:24.000You would be granted hundreds of millions of dollars of research if you found any data that showed that.
02:10:29.000But of course, they did this data back in 1995.
02:10:32.000We couldn't find any studies on this for like 25 years because nobody wanted to do this research that showed very clearly that as women have more sexual partners, they make worse wives.
02:10:42.000They are less likely to stay in a relationship.
02:10:44.000They're more likely to cheat, and they're more likely to fall for a divorce.
02:10:57.000All right, let me just state this for the record, because I know the first thing that's going to happen in the comments is, well, what about the guys?
02:11:04.000Okay, this is not about the guys, okay?
02:11:15.000If 80% of divorces are filed by women, and we're talking about you're more likely to file for divorce if you've had more previous sexual partners.
02:11:33.000The issue is that this argument comes up, body count doesn't matter, it doesn't matter what I did before, then that should read out from the data.
02:11:41.000You should have maybe a small correlation.
02:11:43.000Maybe women who cheated maybe had 10% more sexual partners.
02:11:49.000That is a full-on statistical correlation.
02:11:52.000And so if you see that and you have a problem with it, again, let me ask you something.
02:11:55.000If I had a niece or if I had a sister and I told her, I was like, hey, just to let you know, there's some studies that might have to do with your endocrine system.
02:12:01.000It might have to do with your neurochemicals.
02:12:03.000But for some reason, when you have more sexual partners, it doesn't allow you to imprint on the man that you end up wanting to marry.
02:12:09.000And so that may cause you to have a worse relationship.
02:12:11.000If I tell that to my niece, is it because I don't love her or is it because I do love her?
02:13:14.000I go on shows all the time and I bring up the 70 to 80 percent divorce rate.
02:13:18.000We talk about this all the time, right?
02:13:19.000So then women say, well, you shouldn't be looking for whoever initiates the divorce.
02:13:24.000You should be looking for the reason why there's a divorce.
02:13:27.000Maybe it's still the man's fault, even though it's the woman who files for divorce.
02:13:31.000So what's a way scientifically we can control for that?
02:13:33.000How about we just remove men altogether and we look at lesbian couples versus homosexual couples and we look at the divorce rate.
02:13:41.000So if what women are saying is correct and it's men to blame, what we should find is the same level of divorce or lesbians should be divorced less.
02:14:46.000It's when lesbian women have children.
02:14:50.000And when they have children, I don't know the data on this, but I will bet you every penny I have that the lesbian member that files for the divorce is the one who is the biological mother of the child.
02:15:01.000Because homosexuality for women is a spectrum, and for men it's more binary.
02:15:05.000So what happens is all of a sudden she has a baby, and she looks over at her partner, and she looks at the baby, and looks at her partner, and thinks about, I need someone to protect, provision, provide, and it's not you, and so I'm going to go start dating men again.
02:16:24.000Why would that be the case in evolution?
02:16:27.000Why would women be able to get over relationships quicker and be able to move on?
02:16:32.000Considering the ancestral past, you have one tribe next to another tribe, and the men sneak in there and murder all the military-age males.
02:16:39.000And when that happens, you're like a woman and you're watching your husband killed in front of them.
02:16:43.000This is called the war brides dynamic.
02:16:52.000But if you don't, Genghis Khan or Kulia Khan comes in the 15th century, kills every single person in your entire tribe, all the men.
02:17:00.000And so you're sitting there and you have a decision.
02:17:02.000Do I take another husband or do I die?
02:17:05.000The women who did not take another husband, as noble as they were, they're dead.
02:17:09.000And the woman who took another husband, she went on and passed that proclivity to take another husband on in her genetics.
02:17:15.000So over years and years and years of that, women are Able to get over relationships easier and they're willing to monkey branch to other men quicker.
02:17:22.000That's an evolutionary adaptation that women had because men have been replaceable throughout history.
02:17:26.000By the way, you were saying that there are more women on the planet than men.
02:17:39.000And here's another thing, just to make it even more interesting.
02:17:42.000Women get aroused by way more things than men do.
02:17:45.000They did a study on this back at Northwestern, out in Illinois, and they showed women erotic images and men erotic images, and what they found was with the men, they were only aroused really by the heterosexual sex and the naked girls.
02:17:58.000But the women, on the other hand, were aroused by monkeys banging, a dude walking on a beach without a shirt on, girls kissing, etc.
02:18:04.000So women are, and these are heterosexual women.
02:18:32.000Lined up with what they're aroused by.
02:18:45.000And they tend to be aroused by dark triad traits.
02:18:48.000They tend to be aroused by guys who are like high bristophilia, which is the getting off on or the arousal by guys who are dangerous criminals, guys who have killed other people.
02:18:58.000Interesting story after you tell this.
02:18:59.000The other thing is you've got to remember that high bristophilia is like not all women are high bristophiles, but only women are high bristophiles.
02:19:07.000So when they get off on When a guy who's a convicted criminal who has the capacity to kill another guy in our ancestral past, there was no greater demonstration of higher value than for one guy to off another guy and then drag you back as a spoils of war to join his tribe.
02:19:23.000Also, this is ugly as sin, but it's like when a primate troop, when there's like an alpha male monkey comes in and he deposes the existing alpha male that's there, he proceeds to kill off all the offspring of the previous It's the uglier side of the evolutionary psychology of all of
02:19:53.000this, but the fact of the matter is that when women say, why does he want to get with the tender swindler, right?
02:19:59.000Why does he want to get with the guy who's the hardened criminal?
02:20:02.000Because he has a capacity for violence, and that was something that would ensure long-term security.
02:20:06.000One last thing I want to add to that, because you look at Ted Bundy, you look at Jeffrey Dahmer, you looked at Richard Ramirez, the Night Stalker.
02:20:13.000These guys have violently killed hundreds of women combined.
02:20:41.000The last time we asked that on Access Vegas, every girl said they had sex with at least one felon.
02:20:47.000Oh, the other thing I was going to say.
02:20:50.000There's a guy I know that literally runs a service where he has a girl sign a contract and then what will happen is a year or two later, which he doesn't remember, He'll break into her house, kidnap her, and give her, like, a great fantasy.
02:21:11.000But yeah, he basically runs a service where he does this shit.
02:21:13.000And I'm shocked there's girls that actually sign up for it.
02:21:25.000There's a reason why girls, when they're hooking up with a guy that they're aroused by, they want him to choke her and do certain things, etc.
02:21:33.000Women love to be dominated by certain men.
02:21:36.000But what I am saying is that that spectrum of what women are aroused by is a lot wider than women will admit.
02:28:46.000If the relationship is going to be hurt more by the woman cheating, so therefore, from a logical conclusion, the woman needs to control her impulses more.
02:28:54.000No, because the men won't forgive cheating and the women are more likely to forgive.
02:30:33.000So that means, by definition, that you have high standards because most men can't rise to them.
02:30:43.000If you decline most of the men that come up to you, that means that most men don't measure up, which means only a minority of men do, which means you have high standards.
02:30:51.000Now, with that said, if men have to rise up to a certain level to even get a date or get you in a relationship and hook up with you, they're obviously going to feel some type of way if you cheat on them because men have to earn their value to get the girl.
02:31:04.000Women don't have to earn their value to get the guy, but the man has to earn his value to get the girl.
02:31:09.000A 21-year-old girl can be on a boat with a bunch of millionaires and men that have created a name for themselves, and she doesn't have to have a name.
02:31:15.000But it doesn't work the other way around.
02:31:16.000Ain't no chick gonna invite me on a fucking boat.
02:32:00.000So, since it takes a little for us to be happy, if you do something treacherous, it's going to be a big problem because we don't ask for much.
02:37:42.000Only a night that knows about art, about the painting, can actually know his value.
02:37:48.000Someone who doesn't know, who doesn't understand about history, that doesn't know what it represents, does not know the value of something.
02:38:38.000That if we adopted the mindset of a lot of these women here saying that we're tens and the market is not, fuck the market, I assess my own value, etc.
02:38:47.000You guys would never take us seriously.
02:38:50.000Like, men have to live in reality to be attractive.
02:43:56.000Somebody coming from outside, ran a business before, had some success outside the Beltway.
02:44:03.000Anytime you have somebody like that, either him getting elected would be great, but also the questions that he brings to the debates, that's also really important when you have an outsider coming there.
02:53:41.000I actually agree with the guys more because I feel like us as women, we kind of feel like we're up here sometimes and it is based on beauty and the whole confidence thing because me as a female, I like to look nice and things like that.
02:53:53.000Do you think most women are delusional?
03:01:10.000For the rest of you guys who are interested in any of the stuff that we talk about, the stats we talk about, Rollo and I talk together, if you guys are interested in male self-improvement, please check us out at MOAMentoring.com.
03:01:33.000We'll be back on Friday, guys, with Sterling, Mike, and Rolo, and we're probably going to have a talk on a bunch of the statistics and stuff like that.