Fresh & Fit - Top 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Live With Your Girlfriend

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00:24:02.000 I'm debating whether we're going to have an after hours that night if we're just going to do the bros.

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00:24:12.000 That is Valentine's Day as well.

00:24:14.000 That's why we picked that day.

00:24:15.000 Yeah.

00:24:16.000 Perfect timing.

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00:24:24.000 And yeah.

00:24:25.000 Speaking of Valentine's, today's topic is going to be why you should never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever live with your girl in the same crib.

00:24:35.000 Now, you're probably saying, fresh, Myron.

00:24:36.000 Wait, hold on, hold on.

00:24:37.000 What if I get married with kids and house?

00:24:40.000 Of course, that's a little bit different.

00:24:41.000 We're talking about a girlfriend that you're actually living with that's not your actual wife beforehand.

00:24:46.000 Now, more often than not, guys, you...

00:24:48.000 Talk to a chick. 1.00

00:24:49.000 You meet her outside, whatever.

00:24:50.000 And if you've got game, you've got some, like, some riz, whatever you want to call it, she might come to your crib and stay a day or two or three or four or five days at your crib.

00:25:00.000 You're like, damn, this is actually pretty good.

00:25:03.000 Like, sex is amazing.

00:25:04.000 She's a good girl.

00:25:05.000 I feel like I could do this shit long term.

00:25:08.000 You see, you know what?

00:25:09.000 You know, you can move in whenever you feel like.

00:25:12.000 And surprisingly, though, this happens more often than you would think, especially here in Miami.

00:25:16.000 So a lot of people will meet.

00:25:18.000 They hook up, whatever, have a good vibe.

00:25:20.000 And then before you know it, they live in the same house together.

00:25:22.000 The problem is that, like, things can always go awry.

00:25:25.000 And when you don't know how to maneuver with a girl long-term, you lose frame, you lose passion, you lose purpose. 0.89

00:25:33.000 You end up being a cuck, pretty much, to yourself.

00:25:37.000 So, in essence, guys, you've got to understand that, like...

00:25:39.000 Oh, TTS? Cool.

00:25:40.000 One sec.

00:25:42.000 Raj, tip $50.

00:25:43.000 Hey, F and F appreciate all that you do for us.

00:25:46.000 Shout to you.

00:25:46.000 Also, Myron, just want to say thank you.

00:25:48.000 The way that you break things down not only makes it easy me to understand, but I can also articulate myself to other people, too.

00:25:54.000 Sweet.

00:25:55.000 I'm glad.

00:25:56.000 I don't know if you mean in the dating aspect or the geopolitical space, but either way, I appreciate the compliment, man.

00:26:02.000 I really do try to, you know, I know some people watch the debrief and you're like, oh, this is kind of redundant, Myron.

00:26:08.000 But you got to remember that we're getting a lot of new viewers.

00:26:10.000 A lot of people are tuning in.

00:26:11.000 So I kind of have to explain things from the beginning with with the stuff.

00:26:15.000 But yeah, I appreciate that, bro.

00:26:16.000 I really do try to, you know, take it from remedial all the way to fairly competent.

00:26:20.000 So you guys get an idea of what's going on here, because I do understand and I'm sensitive to the fact that some of you guys might not be aware of some of the geopolitical topics I cover.

00:26:29.000 So I try to, you know, cover it all so you guys are able to understand it.

00:26:34.000 And if you want to speak on it at a basic level, if you choose to.

00:26:38.000 What else do we got?

00:26:40.000 Any more TTS? Cool.

00:26:45.000 Alright, so moving on smartly, we got like five topics to cover today regarding why you should never live with your girlfriend, long term at least.

00:26:52.000 Now, number one, this is pretty simple, pretty basic, but how about everybody?

00:26:56.000 You could be white, black, Asian, tall, short, doesn't matter. 0.96

00:27:00.000 You lose frame control over a period of time.

00:27:03.000 Now, you could be the biggest, most, I guess, tallest, most masculine alpha out there.

00:27:10.000 We got even our friends at Tate's that live in Romania.

00:27:13.000 And they don't live with their girlfriends or wives.

00:27:15.000 For good reason.

00:27:16.000 It's because when time passes, no matter who you are, things get softer.

00:27:21.000 You tend to like say, you know what?

00:27:22.000 You want to stay in, watch a movie?

00:27:25.000 You get some ice cream with her?

00:27:26.000 You take her out? 1.00

00:27:28.000 Oh man, can we cuddle?

00:27:29.000 And before you know it, time passes along and you're like, damn.

00:27:32.000 I didn't go to the gym today.

00:27:34.000 I didn't work on my business.

00:27:35.000 I've been with my chick all day.

00:27:37.000 I didn't get shit done.

00:27:39.000 And it just takes one or two instances where you do this actual activity where you just kind of say, you know what?

00:27:44.000 I'll do it tomorrow.

00:27:45.000 You put it off tomorrow or next week.

00:27:48.000 Just chill with your girl.

00:27:49.000 Guys, if you understand what I'm saying here, it probably happened to you as well in the past when you live with a chick.

00:27:53.000 You're like, you know what?

00:27:54.000 I could do that next week or I could do that tomorrow.

00:27:57.000 And you may say, well, fresh, I'm strong, bro.

00:27:59.000 I got willpower.

00:28:00.000 I could go past that shit.

00:28:02.000 Well, you can for a little bit, but not forever.

00:28:04.000 And it happens to everybody.

00:28:05.000 No one's really safe because at some point in time, You're going to bend the knee.

00:28:11.000 No pun intended.

00:28:12.000 Bend the knee to her will or her way at some point. 0.65

00:28:15.000 Now, when it comes to frame, if you have a girl in your life that you're going to be with long term, she has to miss you.

00:28:22.000 She has to want to be with you when she's not with you, of course, which means, for example, she's at her crib, she's at work, whatever.

00:28:28.000 But if she lives with you and she's actually with you all the time, which is number two, obviously it makes her heart grow fonder, especially with time.

00:28:36.000 It's because You're going to be with her all day, non-stop.

00:28:40.000 It means you wake up, you get breakfast, you know, she knows when your alarm goes off, she knows what you want to eat, where you go, who's calling you.

00:28:47.000 All these things take away the mystery of you being that guy for her.

00:28:50.000 Which means, automatically, you become pretty much like a friend or roommate.

00:28:54.000 Not lover, not her man, but a roommate.

00:28:57.000 The problem is, guys, that this dynamic here is not made for men to progress and succeed successfully because you're going to be becoming a casualty of Circumstances living together.

00:29:08.000 Which means you become a...

00:29:10.000 I want to say the word cuck, but you become kind of complacent because when you live with a woman, bro, you become almost like in this weird way under her spells. 1.00

00:29:22.000 I know it sounds crazy, but I can't put it into words, but it's more like you become lazy in a way.

00:29:27.000 Which I think is why you should live with your brothers or live with someone that's a man because you're a competitive spirit back and forth or just live by yourself.

00:29:34.000 And then also you have peace as well.

00:29:36.000 Peace of mind.

00:29:37.000 No arguments.

00:29:38.000 No headaches.

00:29:39.000 Listen, I'm all for having a girlfriend or having a girl you care about and you love, but she can live at her own crib, bro.

00:29:44.000 Get her another crib if you need to.

00:29:46.000 Another apartment.

00:29:47.000 Live at your apartment.

00:29:47.000 You guys come together whenever you're ready.

00:29:49.000 You travel.

00:29:49.000 Go out.

00:29:50.000 But at the same time, man, living with your girl, guys, I'm telling you right now, we've seen it thousands of times on the show, outside the show, you lose frame and control over a period of time.

00:29:59.000 And I think for most people here, if you want to actually have a girlfriend long-term or wife long-term, yeah, you want to test out how things are together.

00:30:05.000 But living together for a long period of time, it's never a good idea.

00:30:08.000 So number one, again guys, you lose control and frame over a period of time, you don't want that at all in your lifestyle.

00:30:16.000 Yeah, look man, I think it's very important for guys to realize that when you live with your girl, what's going to end up happening is you're going to start to inevitably become lazy, softer, you know, convenience breeds familiarity.

00:30:32.000 Familiarity breeds contempt when it comes to females. 0.93

00:30:35.000 You know, girls want a guy that they can't rein in, that they can't control, that is mysterious. 0.98

00:30:38.000 And a big part of you being able to maintain that attraction is by you not being too available.

00:30:43.000 And I know some of you guys are like, what the fuck are you talking about, Myron?

00:30:45.000 Like, that's weird.

00:30:47.000 Yeah.

00:30:48.000 Female attraction, guys, doesn't make sense. 1.00

00:30:50.000 This is why so many men struggle with women.

00:30:54.000 Because if you look at things from a logically sound perspective, you would think...

00:30:59.000 The better you treat her, the more you wait night, the more you be a gentleman, the more time you spend with her, the more you invest, right?

00:31:06.000 The more you get back.

00:31:07.000 Well, let me tell you guys something.

00:31:09.000 When it comes to women, women is the one endeavor where the more time you invest, the more resources you put in, the more attention you give it, it actually is detrimental to you, right? 1.00

00:31:18.000 And this is contrary to everything you've been taught as a man.

00:31:21.000 Since the time you were a little boy, what did they do?

00:31:23.000 Hey, go to school.

00:31:25.000 Get an education.

00:31:27.000 Work really hard.

00:31:28.000 Make money.

00:31:29.000 If you do this and you're diligent for 10 to 20 years, you're going to end up becoming successful.

00:31:33.000 So everything about the masculine journey is about putting in effort, having merit, and being patient and having delayed gratification.

00:31:40.000 The only thing that doesn't abide by these universal laws of success is females. 1.00

00:31:47.000 Because, ironically enough, the more time and effort you put into them, The more likely you are to lose your investment.

00:31:53.000 And I know this is completely backwards, but this is why so many men struggle, especially guys that are smart, mathematically sound, engineers, etc.

00:32:01.000 They struggle the most with women because they can't figure them out because it doesn't make sense. 1.00

00:32:05.000 And the problem is because the female is an emotional creature. 1.00

00:32:08.000 And emotions change.

00:32:10.000 They're not subject to the familiarity of a math equation or 1 plus 1 is 2 or things making sense.

00:32:18.000 Women don't abide by these universal laws of Logic. 1.00

00:32:21.000 So, with that said, I think step one is to recognize that you're dealing with someone who, quite frankly, doesn't make sense in their sexual strategy.

00:32:30.000 That's number one.

00:32:31.000 And then number two, by identifying that, you realize that a large part of your sexual market value to that woman is your anonymity.

00:32:38.000 Now, the anonymity, okay, is determined by your availability.

00:32:45.000 And if you live with a girl... 0.94

00:32:47.000 You're always available.

00:32:48.000 Familiarity sets in.

00:32:49.000 And then she loses attraction for you.

00:32:51.000 Very simple.

00:32:52.000 Right?

00:32:53.000 But, you know, you're not going to hear this from mainstream media.

00:32:56.000 They're going to tell you, oh yeah, I live with your girl.

00:32:57.000 Yeah, you save rent.

00:32:59.000 You make money.

00:33:00.000 You're able to have a dink. 0.61

00:33:02.000 Double income.

00:33:02.000 No kids.

00:33:03.000 Like, no man.

00:33:04.000 It's completely detrimental to you.

00:33:06.000 Because what ends up happening is your girlfriend quickly turns into your roommate and resentment is going to come.

00:33:11.000 Okay?

00:33:12.000 So don't live with your girl, guys.

00:33:13.000 It's one of the stupidest things you can do.

00:33:16.000 Now, are there some guys that can do it?

00:33:17.000 We talked about this with Donovan Sharp.

00:33:19.000 He lives with his girl.

00:33:20.000 He's been able to make it work.

00:33:22.000 But not everyone can do it.

00:33:24.000 And I know most of you guys, maybe entry-level red pill awareness, maybe some of you guys have bad habits that your girl can exploit.

00:33:31.000 Like, it's not for everyone.

00:33:32.000 So what we say is, look, for a majority of you guys, you're going to almost always be better off not living with your girl.

00:33:38.000 girl, you know, outside of some extreme circumstances where like you're someone like Donovan Sharp who lives and breathes this stuff.

00:33:44.000 Your wife is intimately involved in your business.

00:33:46.000 So it makes a lot of pragmatic sense for her to be living with you because she's literally running a lot of your social media platforms and that convenience helps you run your business better.

00:33:54.000 But outside of, you know, circumstances like that, most of you guys, 90% of the time should not be living with your woman. 0.98

00:34:00.000 Also, to your point, people will choose the wrong girl to live with.

00:34:03.000 For example, Donovan knows his woman very well.

00:34:06.000 So that choice itself...

00:34:07.000 Was with her for like four or five years before.

00:34:09.000 ...is a W because he knows his woman.

00:34:10.000 You might meet a chick.

00:34:11.000 Oh, she's beautiful.

00:34:12.000 She's a nine.

00:34:13.000 Mind you, it's funny.

00:34:14.000 Oh, I met a nine or ten, bro.

00:34:15.000 I'm a wife her up.

00:34:17.000 When you live with a chick that's a nine or ten, she becomes like a six or seven. 1.00

00:34:20.000 This time itself takes away the joy and lust of it, pretty much.

00:34:25.000 And it's almost like it's going to weigh down on what you think of a person.

00:34:29.000 So even you yourself, as a man, if she knows you that well, where's the mystery?

00:34:34.000 No mystery at all.

00:34:35.000 I got a friend that wears glasses to the club.

00:34:38.000 You might say, that's dumb, bro.

00:34:39.000 Why don't you wear glasses to the club?

00:34:41.000 And he's giving me his riz, all that stuff.

00:34:43.000 He taught the girls.

00:34:44.000 They're like, wow, this guy is like super charming, but I don't know his eye color.

00:34:48.000 It's because the mystery is there.

00:34:49.000 So it sounds kind of crazy, but like having a mystery keeps things alive long term.

00:34:53.000 If not, then, oh, I know this guy very well.

00:34:56.000 I know he's going to do this.

00:34:57.000 He's very predictable.

00:34:58.000 I'm bored.

00:34:59.000 Remember, women's emotions are like a roller coaster, up and down. 1.00

00:35:02.000 Without that, it's a straight road.

00:35:04.000 It's going to be boring itself.

00:35:05.000 So, indefinitely, if she does not have that mystery, she will leave at some point or cheat on your ass at some point as well. 0.98

00:35:11.000 Either way, live when a girl is a L. Especially if you're not going to be masterful or know how to find a girl. 1.00

00:35:16.000 Long term, that's good for you.

00:35:17.000 And I think just in general, what Myron is saying here, you're not going to find the right person, maybe.

00:35:23.000 And even if you do, the chance that you keep in frame the whole time will be definitely lower because, again, it takes experience and time.

00:35:30.000 And to be honest with you guys, it's a chance you're taking.

00:35:33.000 So, I would say, in that sense, guys, avoid living with a girl long term. 0.99

00:35:38.000 Now, number three.

00:35:40.000 She can call the cops.

00:35:41.000 She can even set you up.

00:35:43.000 She gets mad at you.

00:35:45.000 Live with her long term.

00:35:46.000 And what happens is, guys, girls definitely don't want to lose their spot at your crib. 1.00

00:35:52.000 Because they put in time and effort.

00:35:54.000 They invest it into you in their own way.

00:35:56.000 Now, what happens is, let's say you piss her off. 1.00

00:35:58.000 You get her mad.

00:35:59.000 And she's like, you know what?

00:36:00.000 Fuck this guy.

00:36:01.000 I'm going to teach him a lesson.

00:36:03.000 She may even say, alright, I'm going to hit myself.

00:36:06.000 I'm going to boost myself and say, he did it to me so he doesn't fuck with me at all.

00:36:11.000 For example, you may even just say, listen, I don't want you to go out with your friends.

00:36:15.000 What did you tell me?

00:36:16.000 And she gets an attitude or whatever, and then before you know it, four days later, she calls the cops and says, you hit her. 0.93

00:36:22.000 Or it could be something as crazy as like, oh, I think you're cheating on me.

00:36:25.000 Whatever reason it is, she has the option to do this to you at any time, any given time.

00:36:31.000 Now, She gets milk to your house. 1.00

00:36:34.000 She has things come to your house naturally.

00:36:36.000 She has the right to do this because she lives in your house, and she's obviously a resident of your house. 1.00

00:36:40.000 So by default, her even just being there can cause you issues because she has the option to do it to you.

00:36:46.000 Now, at the same time, guys, we can't predict what she's going to do anyway, but what I'm saying is the fact that she can actually do it with an option is crazy.

00:36:55.000 So my thing is having her in your home...

00:36:58.000 For an extended period of time or getting a meal to your house, it's definitely going to be out for you no matter what as well.

00:37:05.000 Alright, we could hit some chats here?

00:37:07.000 Yep.

00:37:10.000 I can't even see it.

00:37:11.000 Fresh, can you read it?

00:37:13.000 I can't even see it.

00:37:15.000 Okay.

00:37:16.000 Yo, Fresh and Fit, y'all the goats, shout out one question.

00:37:20.000 I'll be there for the meet and greet and yacht party, but I'll be there Friday evening.

00:37:23.000 Where's some place laid back where I can meet women at? 1.00

00:37:26.000 See y'all soon.

00:37:26.000 Let's go.

00:37:27.000 This is a fresh question right here.

00:37:28.000 Yeah, pretty basic, man.

00:37:29.000 I would say Wynwood.

00:37:30.000 It's an art district area.

00:37:32.000 It's pretty poppin', kind of cheap, laid-back, and just cool vibes.

00:37:35.000 So I would say Wynwood, of course.

00:37:37.000 You could do Dirty Rabbit, you could do Pilos, or you could even do, like, Centro.

00:37:43.000 Any of those spots are pretty cool.

00:37:46.000 Sluchu says, related to tonight's theme, it'd be cool to discuss strategies on how to build local communities of black men and men, in which we could eventually run the local governments and politics.

00:37:57.000 Yeah, that's not a bad idea, bro.

00:37:59.000 Start with Castle Club.

00:38:00.000 I think that would be a good start to that solution.

00:38:03.000 That's what I would say.

00:38:05.000 11. Met this girl down here in Georgia, and she said she wants to move in. 0.93

00:38:09.000 Of course she wants to move in, bro.

00:38:11.000 They all do.

00:38:12.000 She said she likes me because I'm racist, like her dad.

00:38:17.000 I'm black and she's white.

00:38:19.000 Surely I'll be fine to meet her dad, right?

00:38:21.000 Alright, nigga, you gotta be trolling, bro. 1.00

00:38:23.000 You gotta be trolling.

00:38:26.000 Really?

00:38:28.000 Hmm.

00:38:30.000 I don't know, man.

00:38:30.000 Just don't do it, though.

00:38:31.000 It's going to be L no matter what. 0.98

00:38:35.000 That's it?

00:38:36.000 One last check.

00:38:37.000 One more?

00:38:37.000 All right.

00:38:41.000 First up, this.

00:38:42.000 WFNF. Shout out to you, bro.

00:38:44.000 All right.

00:38:44.000 And cool.

00:38:46.000 Good to go?

00:38:47.000 Yep.

00:38:47.000 All right.

00:38:48.000 So that's number three.

00:38:48.000 You want to chime in on that one?

00:38:50.000 Live with a girl? 1.00

00:38:51.000 You take it first.

00:38:53.000 I already did.

00:38:53.000 Oh.

00:38:55.000 Shit, what the hell?

00:38:57.000 You can call the cops at any point in time.

00:39:00.000 Well, yeah, that's another liability too.

00:39:04.000 The other thing, we could definitely talk about that.

00:39:06.000 So, for those of you that live in a western country, right?

00:39:10.000 United States, Canada, etc.

00:39:11.000 Many of these westernized, first world, common law countries have very strict domestic violence laws.

00:39:20.000 And what that basically means is if the police show up, let's say you guys get into an argument and neighbors overhear it, right?

00:39:27.000 What ends up happening is the cops show up.

00:39:29.000 In many states, guys, and in many jurisdictions, the police have to effectuate an arrest, or they can't leave the premises.

00:39:36.000 It didn't always used to be that way, but after so many spouses were killed because police didn't respond to DV calls seriously, what ended up happening is a lot of these jurisdictions mandated laws where one of you has to get arrested that night at least to separate them.

00:39:52.000 It's their way of almost kind of...

00:39:55.000 Eliminating liability on the police department or the law enforcement agency.

00:39:58.000 Because, God forbid, they walk away and then you guys fight again and someone ends up dying.

00:40:02.000 So they're like, you know what?

00:40:03.000 Fuck this.

00:40:04.000 Someone's going to jail.

00:40:06.000 Sometimes they take both parties to jail.

00:40:08.000 Sometimes they take one party to jail.

00:40:10.000 But what I will say is, 9 out of 10 times, the man's going to go to jail.

00:40:13.000 Because if the woman's able to demonstrate any type of evidence that he struck her, he's going to go to jail.

00:40:19.000 Versus for the man, you need to...

00:40:22.000 Not only show proof, but you have to have a convincing story as well.

00:40:25.000 Because law enforcement, unfortunately, and the legal system in general, almost always takes the female side. 1.00

00:40:30.000 Because women are looked at as the weaker sex. 1.00

00:40:32.000 They're looked at as the victim in most situations.

00:40:34.000 So they always get the benefit of the doubt.

00:40:37.000 So, a lot of women exploit this to their favor and use it to destroy your life. 1.00

00:40:42.000 And they know that a domestic violence arrest and conviction can really fuck you up.

00:40:48.000 Why?

00:40:49.000 Because there's laws out there, like the Lautenberg Act, where if you're convicted of a misdemeanor crime of violence, you can't carry a gun anymore.

00:40:56.000 Right?

00:40:57.000 And that will obviously affect your ability to maybe get in the military, be a police officer, work in any type of civil service.

00:41:04.000 Even a restraining order will mess up your ability to get this stuff.

00:41:07.000 And it's a misdemeanor.

00:41:08.000 So these domestic violence issues, though it could be a misdemeanor, can absolutely have catastrophic implications on your life and in your future, guys.

00:41:18.000 So that is something also that you avoid by not living with your woman. 0.75

00:41:22.000 We had a girl on the show after hours that had a... 1.00

00:41:25.000 Well, I think it was a boyfriend or her husband.

00:41:26.000 I forgot what it was.

00:41:27.000 But she called the cops on her boyfriend at the time.

00:41:31.000 And he lost his job, actually, from...

00:41:33.000 That incident.

00:41:35.000 And what happened was, she felt bored in a relationship.

00:41:38.000 He ended up losing his job, and she left anyway.

00:41:41.000 This is why, like, sometimes living with a girl has a adverse effect, because that right there, guys, she was just bored.

00:41:48.000 She didn't like the guy anymore.

00:41:49.000 She was bored.

00:41:50.000 She didn't want to get overweight.

00:41:51.000 She called the cops, and he got arrested.

00:41:53.000 Even though he didn't hit her directly, it was a case of like, oh, well, I'm done with him.

00:41:58.000 I want him out of the house.

00:41:59.000 Here we go.

00:42:01.000 So, in essence, guys, just be careful, man.

00:42:03.000 And if you want to be careful and cautious, record every interaction that happens like that.

00:42:07.000 She's going to say, oh, I'm going to call the cops on you. 0.98

00:42:09.000 Bring your phone out.

00:42:10.000 Record everything.

00:42:11.000 So when they show up, hey, listen, I need to touch her.

00:42:13.000 Here's the footage.

00:42:14.000 Because like what Myron said, they have to arrest somebody at some point.

00:42:17.000 Which means either you or her has to go.

00:42:19.000 So, in that case, record it.

00:42:21.000 You're safe.

00:42:22.000 You're not going to be under any type of issues because it's recorded.

00:42:24.000 The cops can see it right away and you're good to go.

00:42:26.000 But then again, guys, like, if you don't record, who knows what can happen.

00:42:30.000 So, Just be careful at that point.

00:42:33.000 Alright, number four.

00:42:34.000 Keeps you distracted from your goals and purpose and mission.

00:42:37.000 Slow guys actually have goals in place, or they should have goals in place, and having a girlfriend in your life isn't a bad thing, but she's always in your quarters, your living quarters, always next to you, always around you.

00:42:49.000 You end up almost like letting things pass by and just go.

00:42:55.000 Like I mentioned earlier, you end up saying, oh, you know what?

00:42:58.000 I'll put off this tomorrow.

00:42:59.000 That next week.

00:43:00.000 It's fine.

00:43:01.000 We'll cuddle.

00:43:01.000 We'll go to the movies.

00:43:02.000 You become almost like a slave to your convenience because she's right there.

00:43:07.000 It's easy, you know what I'm saying, to smash.

00:43:09.000 It's enjoyable.

00:43:10.000 She's cool.

00:43:12.000 But you kind of put things on the side that you should be putting as a priority because, remember, again, if you don't work your job, work your business, guess what she's going to do?

00:43:20.000 Leave anyway.

00:43:21.000 So, at that point, you put things to the side and put her as a priority, which isn't a bad thing.

00:43:26.000 But the problem is that if your business is not a priority or your work is not a priority, you're going to become a lasting horizon anyway.

00:43:32.000 So my thing is, like, in that case, guys, remember, if she's a priority in your life before your business and your work, that's an L. And as well, your goals are important.

00:43:40.000 But all your goals and your ambition, where are you going to go?

00:43:42.000 Nowhere.

00:43:43.000 So in essence, guys, that's important for you and your actual success.

00:43:47.000 But putting your girl first that lives with you is an L. Yeah, and the other thing, too, Let's just be honest. 0.76

00:43:53.000 A lot of you guys, your default response is going to be to prioritize your girlfriend over other things, right?

00:43:58.000 It's kind of like...

00:44:00.000 Okay, if you don't have red pill awareness, right?

00:44:05.000 What's going to happen is you're naturally going to prioritize your woman over everything else because she's a human being. 0.89

00:44:11.000 You want to make her happy.

00:44:12.000 You want to have her be able to enjoy the relationship.

00:44:15.000 So you're going to maybe forego things.

00:44:18.000 Thinking that it benefits you and the relationship by doing so, but what you're actually doing is you're actually hurting yourself in the long term.

00:44:24.000 So in the short term, when she tells you, oh, don't go to the gym, eat ice cream with me and watch this movie, you might say, okay, I could take one day off the gym.

00:44:31.000 You take that one day off the gym, you're eating ice cream with her and hanging out.

00:44:34.000 So she's happy right then and there, but what ends up happening is you've actually hurt yourself because what you've done is you've instituted almost like a bomb that's going to explode later on that's going to fuck you up in your mind where you now have created a habit where You're okay with bailing on something you had planned for short-term pleasure with your girlfriend.

00:44:53.000 Now, this is all good and dandy the first day, second week, third month, you know, maybe even a year.

00:44:59.000 But what ends up happening is you slowly become a bitch the more you do this. 1.00

00:45:04.000 Now, what's going to happen is you're going to do it more and more because human beings are naturally lazy and naturally want to go ahead and follow the path of least resistance.

00:45:11.000 So, when she offers you something like movies and ice cream over you going to the gym and grinding, It's going to be, you know, a welcome distraction.

00:45:18.000 And most of you are not going to be able to deny it.

00:45:22.000 So it takes a very strong-willed person with an enormous amount of discipline to be able to look at their girl and say, no, no thank you.

00:45:29.000 A lot of you guys are going to bend and be like, okay, I watched this movie with you eating ice cream, not knowing that you've basically just created a very bad habit that you will continue to repeat.

00:45:37.000 Because if you give up on your goals once, right, it always starts with something small.

00:45:42.000 The slippery slope, right?

00:45:44.000 If you give them an inch, they take a mile.

00:45:45.000 It always starts small.

00:45:46.000 And then it builds and becomes worse and worse.

00:45:49.000 Two or three years down the line, now you're a fat piece of shit.

00:45:51.000 You're no longer the man that she fell in love with in the first place.

00:45:54.000 You've lost all the things that made you attractive.

00:45:56.000 And then she fucking leaves your monkey ass. 1.00

00:45:57.000 And then you wonder why she left you.

00:45:59.000 And the reason why she left you is because you changed.

00:46:02.000 But ironically enough, you changed because she asked you to fucking change. 0.79

00:46:05.000 Right?

00:46:06.000 And this is why I tell you guys all the time.

00:46:07.000 Never follow a woman's lead. 1.00

00:46:09.000 All she's going to do is make you a shell of your former self, make you fatter, stupider, weaker, less strong-willed, and she's going to tell you, hey, delayed gratification is lame.

00:46:19.000 Just enjoy your life.

00:46:19.000 No, bitch.

00:46:20.000 Me and you are not in the same timeline.

00:46:22.000 You need to enjoy your life now in your 20s because you lose value as you age.

00:46:25.000 Me, I need to build my fucking value.

00:46:28.000 We're not in the same fucking timeline.

00:46:29.000 You understand?

00:46:30.000 This is why it's so important for you guys to get a woman when you're older in life and you have some things established because then you can actually enjoy the fruits of your labor.

00:46:37.000 But if you and your wife or your girlfriend are tight in age, she's in her 20s, you're in your 20s, guess what?

00:46:42.000 She carries way more sexual market value than you do in the 20s. 1.00

00:46:44.000 And on top of that, right, you already got her more than likely by the skin of your fucking teeth, especially if she's attractive. 1.00

00:46:52.000 So you need to be even more 10 toes down on your fucking goals because if you're not, you're going to lose her.

00:46:57.000 So the point I'm trying to make, Is this, guys.

00:47:01.000 Women make you weaker. 1.00

00:47:03.000 Okay?

00:47:04.000 Women are naturally lazy. 1.00

00:47:05.000 They don't have the same proclivity to work hard as we do.

00:47:08.000 Why?

00:47:08.000 Their sexual market value is not based on their productivity.

00:47:12.000 Sorry, that's just what it is.

00:47:14.000 It's the truth.

00:47:15.000 A woman that's a retard bimbo can be on a boat with future, thinking about her future with that future. 1.00

00:47:21.000 Meanwhile, you're dumbass.

00:47:22.000 You have no opportunities for future.

00:47:24.000 You ain't even getting on the yacht, nigga. 1.00

00:47:25.000 You're not even going to be able to meet him in person and shake his hand.

00:47:28.000 Versus average chicks are able to get in rooms with these individuals and really create something. 0.99

00:47:34.000 So, since you guys don't play by the same set of rules, you guys don't live in the same reality, you can't live life on her terms at all.

00:47:40.000 You can't.

00:47:41.000 So, knowing that, you guys need to understand that your productivity is your value.

00:47:48.000 It's not hers. 0.67

00:47:49.000 So you can't sit there and do the dumb shit that she does and expect to be successful.

00:47:53.000 Do not change for a woman. 1.00

00:47:55.000 A man will take a woman and turn her into something that he loves. 0.99

00:47:58.000 A woman will take a man that she loves and turn him into something she hates. 1.00

00:48:01.000 This is why female leadership has never fucking worked, ever. 1.00

00:48:05.000 All the Abrahamic religions, all the different societies, why were they all patriarchies?

00:48:09.000 Because simply put, patriarchies make fucking sense.

00:48:12.000 They lead to great civilizations.

00:48:15.000 Meanwhile, matriarchies lead to failure. 1.00

00:48:18.000 If we had to rely on female ingenuity for human progression, we'd still be fucking rubbing sticks together. 1.00

00:48:24.000 Because women suck at everything. 1.00

00:48:25.000 Let's just be honest.

00:48:25.000 They really do.

00:48:26.000 Okay?

00:48:27.000 And when they are given the ability to compete against men, what ends up happening?

00:48:31.000 They get fucking smoked.

00:48:32.000 We had to bring in Donald Trump, a fucking president, to literally make an executive order so that men can't compete in women's sports anymore. 1.00

00:48:40.000 That's how badly these trans people were fucking these bitches up. 1.00

00:48:44.000 Even being on hormone suppressants, they were destroying them in all athletic regards.

00:48:48.000 Why?

00:48:48.000 Because men are superior to women.

00:48:50.000 We have to sign an executive order to fucking stamp it out and make it obvious for everyone.

00:48:55.000 Meanwhile, they want to go ahead and call me a fucking misogynist or sexist for acknowledging biological reality where the president had to fucking come in and make a law to keep you bitches from getting your asses whipped by trainees. 1.00

00:49:04.000 So, look.

00:49:05.000 I say all that to say this.

00:49:07.000 Men and women are not on the same timeline.

00:49:10.000 Your value is based on what you create.

00:49:12.000 Her value is based on her beauty and her creating a child with you.

00:49:15.000 Don't fuck that up by being a loser and going off of her timeline.

00:49:18.000 If she wants to go and invite you to eat some ice cream or do some other fuck shit, you gotta stay steadfast in your goals.

00:49:24.000 And again, that's why I tell you, just don't fucking live with them.

00:49:26.000 Less opportunities for you to fuck up when she tries to entice you to do some shit that deviates from your goals.

00:49:32.000 Women, 9 out of 10 times, are just big fucking distractions. 1.00

00:49:35.000 Especially for you younger guys that are trying to make a name for yourself.

00:49:38.000 Good point.

00:49:43.000 Also, a lot of guys will drop their friends, family, just to please your girl.

00:49:48.000 And it was funny.

00:49:50.000 You want to delay her leaving because she's going to leave anyway at some point.

00:49:53.000 Whether she leaves now or later on, she can see the weakness inside of you.

00:49:58.000 So, if you live alone, though, you can say, listen, I got to work till 10 p.m.

00:50:04.000 When I'm done with work, then I'll see you.

00:50:07.000 And you know what's funny?

00:50:08.000 What's she going to say?

00:50:09.000 I'm next to you.

00:50:10.000 You're not doing no work?

00:50:12.000 No.

00:50:12.000 She's not with you.

00:50:13.000 So living by yourself gives you the opportunity to say, you know what?

00:50:15.000 I need space to focus on my shit.

00:50:17.000 When I'm done, I'll see you.

00:50:19.000 If you live with her, babe, what are we doing?

00:50:23.000 You're not doing anything right now, right?

00:50:25.000 Let's go have some fun.

00:50:26.000 So in essence, guys, having that space in itself gives you the opportunity to work on your craft, your business, or your actual career.

00:50:34.000 And you can say no and set a time when you can see her.

00:50:38.000 If you live with her, You can still do that too, but it's kind of hard because she'll be like in your face non-stop and it's kind of annoying.

00:50:42.000 So in that sense, be smart about it.

00:50:45.000 Now we've got some more chats here and then we'll do number five at the very end after our sponsor.

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00:52:19.000 Your boy, Lem.

00:52:21.000 Never been to Miami before.

00:52:22.000 I'm debating.

00:52:23.000 If I save up my money for Philippines this June or go to Miami for 10 days, would the flight fares be expensive for 10 days in Miami?

00:52:31.000 Hotels as well.

00:52:32.000 Bro, it's way cheaper in the Philippines, I'll be honest with you, bro.

00:52:35.000 But, Miami's going to be more fun, I think, in my opinion.

00:52:38.000 Because, of course, you can go to Florida, you go to Miami itself, you go to the Keys, Orlando, Disney, Universal.

00:52:45.000 You can do a lot more, but Philippines in itself is going to be mainly girls, I guess, or ladyboys. 1.00

00:52:52.000 But it's going to be way cheaper.

00:52:54.000 So, if you look at cost itself, Philippines is cheaper.

00:52:57.000 Miami, you need to have a good time in Miami and do fun stuff.

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00:53:09.000 Alright.

00:53:10.000 And number 5, the last one on the list.

00:53:13.000 She will expect marriage or be entitled to it at some point. 0.78

00:53:17.000 So, living with your girlfriend itself is obviously has its issues, but the main thing is that she's going to feel entitled to be your wife next. 0.98

00:53:26.000 It just means that right now, when you're living with her, she's planning the season of like, I'm going to be his wife.

00:53:32.000 Even though she may not have the actions to actually be a wife, in her head she's a wife.

00:53:36.000 So by default, when she's entitled to this wife mentality, she's going to say, well, you should know what to do, or you should know how to maneuver, and at some point marry me at the right time. 0.99

00:53:46.000 So I get this, right?

00:53:48.000 Obviously most women want marriage, they want to find a guy that's going to take care of them, be with them, and be a provider. 1.00

00:53:53.000 But, if you live with her, that kind of exacerbates everything, because now she's like, oh, I live with this guy, he's taking care of everything, the bills, I'm going to be his wife soon.

00:54:02.000 So let's say, for example, the time frame was maybe like two to five years.

00:54:05.000 You might marry her or even sooner.

00:54:07.000 But because you live with her, it's one year or six months.

00:54:10.000 You get what I'm saying?

00:54:11.000 So having that time with your girl, living with her one-on-one, she's going to think to herself, oh, this is my husband.

00:54:17.000 This is going to be my time to get married.

00:54:19.000 I can't wait.

00:54:20.000 The issue is that like right now, how things are, you need to vet a girl properly, which is why we say, guys, don't live with a girlfriend because you need to give at least a year to even live with her.

00:54:29.000 Or talk to her like that seriously.

00:54:31.000 Because nowadays, guys, there's so many things you can find out.

00:54:33.000 Like, she does OnlyFans.

00:54:34.000 She does porn. 0.90

00:54:34.000 She does, like, you know what I'm saying? 0.90

00:54:36.000 Sells box on the side.

00:54:37.000 You don't know.

00:54:38.000 So it takes time to actually investigate everything and get a full picture of who this woman is.

00:54:42.000 People can lie all the time, bro.

00:54:43.000 They can lie from six months to a year.

00:54:45.000 You don't know.

00:54:46.000 So to be safe and to make sure you make the right choice, you got to understand, listen, the woman I'm living with right now could change.

00:54:53.000 So by default, if I just keep her...

00:54:55.000 To a distance, obviously we go out every now and then.

00:54:58.000 We go to events.

00:54:59.000 We go to parties, if anything.

00:55:01.000 But living with her, guys, you don't know who she really is.

00:55:03.000 But she's going to expect you to marry her at some point way faster. 0.91

00:55:08.000 Yeah.

00:55:08.000 Living with a girl absolutely puts in her head the potential of marriage, right?

00:55:12.000 And that's every girl's dream at the end of the day, guys.

00:55:13.000 They all want to walk down an aisle and wear a white dress and have all the attention on them. 1.00

00:55:17.000 It's like a female orgasm. 1.00

00:55:20.000 But you definitely imply that by living with her as well.

00:55:23.000 She might try to put the pressure on you to marry her by you doing that. 1.00

00:55:27.000 And again, man, you guys forfeit a lot of your power when you live with a girl, man. 0.73

00:55:31.000 Men don't have the same leverage or relationships that we used to, man.

00:55:34.000 So you really got to protect all the angles.

00:55:38.000 That you have leverage in the leadership because, quite frankly, she can replace you a lot faster than you can replace her in today's modern sexual marketplace. 0.55

00:55:45.000 That's just what it is.

00:55:46.000 And on top of that, we have a society that reaffirms that and rewards them for replacing you and, you know, fighting another guy.

00:55:54.000 You can look at someone like a Beyonce, you know, to the left, to the left.

00:55:57.000 I could have another you in a minute.

00:55:58.000 Like, all of our pop culture reinforces women treating men as disposable commodities.

00:56:05.000 That's just the reality.

00:56:06.000 Versus, you know, if a guy comes in and says, you need to date like women and you need to treat them as expendable commodities, well, you get banned off TikTok for that. 0.99

00:56:13.000 And I know that specifically because I got banned off TikTok for saying, date like a woman. 0.97

00:56:16.000 Treat them like expendable commodities.

00:56:17.000 But if a woman does a video and says, oh yeah, like, just use men. 1.00

00:56:20.000 Go out on dinner dates.

00:56:22.000 Don't, you know, have no intention of hooking up with them.

00:56:25.000 Use this guy for Uber.

00:56:26.000 Use this guy as a sugar daddy, etc.

00:56:28.000 Like, exploiting men is completely socially acceptable for women. 1.00

00:56:31.000 Matter of fact, if I line up 100 women, 90 of them plus are probably going to admit that they've been on a date with a guy that they don't like just to do it.

00:56:39.000 For food?

00:56:40.000 Right?

00:56:40.000 For food, maybe an experience or whatever.

00:56:42.000 Like, a majority of women have absolutely been on dates with men that they don't give a fuck about or don't like. 0.57

00:56:47.000 But why are they able to do that and why are they able to do it?

00:56:49.000 It's because society incentivizes and encourages women to leverage their options and enjoy life and if that means that a guy's got to foot the bill, who cares? 0.86

00:56:57.000 Right?

00:56:58.000 There's this general acknowledgement that a man...

00:57:02.000 Should pay for everything and show you certain experiences even if he gets nothing in return.

00:57:07.000 And I'm here to tell you guys, fuck that shit.

00:57:08.000 I'm here to literally tell you guys, put your foot down.

00:57:10.000 No!

00:57:11.000 We're not going to pay for you bitches to have experiences. 1.00

00:57:14.000 Okay?

00:57:14.000 We're just not going to do that.

00:57:15.000 If you're going to go ahead and deal with a woman and spend money, whether it be your time and resources, etc. 1.00

00:57:21.000 She needs to reciprocate.

00:57:23.000 And most of the time when you guys are going out with women, unless you're a bitch, you want some type of romance. 1.00

00:57:26.000 Let's be honest here.

00:57:27.000 Some of you guys sit there and cope and say, no, we're just friends or whatever, but you're over here helping her out, doing mechanical work when she calls you, helping her fucking change the smoke detector and shit.

00:57:37.000 Like you're doing all this boyfriend shit, you know, lying to yourself, saying, no, we're just friends.

00:57:41.000 But deep down, you know you want to sleep with her, but you're too much of a fucking bitch to admit it. 1.00

00:57:44.000 So I'm here to tell you guys, do not allow women to use you, okay? 1.00

00:57:49.000 Don't let them do it.

00:57:50.000 Because the reason why they do it is because society reinforces it.

00:57:53.000 I need you guys to date like women. 1.00

00:57:55.000 Okay?

00:57:55.000 And you use them as expendable commodities.

00:57:57.000 When the shoe's on the other foot, you'd be amazed at how much fucking power you really have as a guy.

00:58:02.000 And living with a woman, you lose that leverage. 0.99

00:58:04.000 To bring this all back full circle.

00:58:05.000 Living with a woman, you lose that leverage. 1.00

00:58:07.000 And on top of that, you expedite the process of her wanting to get married.

00:58:12.000 Which inevitably puts you in a position of disadvantage.

00:58:15.000 Because when you're married with a woman, you lose all your power. 1.00

00:58:19.000 All your bargaining power is pretty much gone because now she gets rewarded for divorcing you. 1.00

00:58:24.000 Now, I know some of you guys are going to say, well, Myron, hold on.

00:58:26.000 Like, what about a prenuptial agreement?

00:58:28.000 Cool.

00:58:29.000 You signed a prenuptial agreement.

00:58:30.000 Everything that you came into a relationship with is yours.

00:58:33.000 But after you're married, everything is 50-50 from there.

00:58:37.000 So let's say you build a business or you significantly increase your net worth while you're with her.

00:58:40.000 Guess what, dumb fuck?

00:58:42.000 She's entitled to some of that.

00:58:45.000 So this is why marriage in most cases is just a bad fucking deal no matter how you split it.

00:58:51.000 The only way that I could see getting married to a woman as feasible in the United States is you need to do it without the state involved. 0.61

00:58:59.000 You need to do it through a religious ceremony and just go from there.

00:59:02.000 But using the state to get involved...

00:59:04.000 It's extremely problematic and puts you at a significant disadvantage because we have an entire industry, we have an entire pop culture, we have an entire family court that is created to rob you of your resources and transfer to the woman. 0.99

00:59:17.000 And the reason why is because they know that the man most of the time is the higher earner, so therefore he is going to be the target of the financial exploitation.

00:59:24.000 These people, family judges, family lawyers, family courts, etc., they all exist because men pay. 0.85

00:59:32.000 Okay?

00:59:33.000 That's what you guys gotta understand.

00:59:35.000 They all exist because men pay. 0.99

00:59:37.000 So they have zero incentive to help you or protect you when it comes to maintaining your resources.

00:59:44.000 And that's what the Marriage Institute does. 1.00

00:59:46.000 It puts you into a predicament where you are now in a situation where you're in a business deal with an individual that has zero incentive to make it work.

00:59:55.000 But they have every incentive to divorce you and ensure that the courts strip you of your resources and allocate it to them. 0.96

01:00:02.000 Fuck that.

01:00:02.000 We're not paying for that shit no more.

01:00:04.000 We're not buying.

01:00:05.000 Okay?

01:00:06.000 And living with a woman expedites that fucking process. 1.00

01:00:11.000 Don't live with women, guys. 1.00

01:00:12.000 I'm telling y'all, man.

01:00:13.000 All you're doing is speed running the inevitable car crash that's gonna come when you live with a chick. 1.00

01:00:19.000 You know what's scary?

01:00:21.000 We know some big players in Miami that are married to the wife or the woman of their dreams.

01:00:28.000 Five years pass.

01:00:29.000 Six years pass.

01:00:31.000 Things aren't working out that well.

01:00:32.000 And because he doesn't want to lose half his ass, he's kowtailing to her because, you know what?

01:00:37.000 If I treat her right, she might stay.

01:00:39.000 The problem is, he's trapped.

01:00:41.000 Because now, she has the power.

01:00:43.000 Because remember, before he moved in with her, he had the power.

01:00:48.000 But when they move it together, and they get married, pretty much, even with a prenup, she knows the power.

01:00:53.000 Which means, whenever she feels like, or whenever she's bored, she can leave and then say, Sayonara! 0.91

01:01:00.000 Half the paycheck is mine.

01:01:02.000 Deuces.

01:01:02.000 And God forbid you have kids for alimony.

01:01:05.000 Cooked.

01:01:06.000 So guys, listen.

01:01:07.000 It sounds crazy because we're saying, don't live with a woman, bro. 1.00

01:01:10.000 But look at it long term.

01:01:12.000 Where it leads to.

01:01:13.000 It can save you money, time, stress, and your career.

01:01:18.000 Because a lot of guys that get divorced never recover.

01:01:21.000 They live in an apartment by themselves.

01:01:23.000 They're stuck.

01:01:24.000 And it's sad.

01:01:25.000 It's really sad because that guy was successful.

01:01:27.000 Did his shit.

01:01:27.000 Went to school.

01:01:28.000 Worked his ass off, and then all of a sudden, well, you know what, honey?

01:01:32.000 I want a divorce.

01:01:33.000 I'm bored.

01:01:34.000 Mine's just fucking Chad for free, not living in his house.

01:01:37.000 And before you know it, you're out of the house, and Chad is living in your house.

01:01:41.000 So it's scary, man, because that could become you at any point in time.

01:01:45.000 But even before that, living with a chick, guys, we listed to you five things that will happen to you, and it can happen to any guy, no matter who you are.

01:01:52.000 You could be a player.

01:01:53.000 You could be a boss.

01:01:54.000 You could be the Riz God. 1.00

01:01:56.000 It doesn't matter.

01:01:58.000 Are human.

01:01:59.000 And being human, hey, we are simp tales.

01:02:02.000 All of us here have been simps at one point.

01:02:04.000 You, the viewer watching, us, we've been through it.

01:02:06.000 I've been through it at least.

01:02:07.000 And I understand what it means.

01:02:09.000 So I tell you this, guys, is because it's a place of love.

01:02:12.000 And hopefully you can see what we're seeing here to better yourself and not be caught up in this trap.

01:02:17.000 Because it's sad, but this is life.

01:02:19.000 It's unfair.

01:02:21.000 It's part of reality.

01:02:22.000 And if you don't make a change now or start making this change or understand what's happening, you meet a chick.

01:02:27.000 She moves in.

01:02:29.000 We take her in.

01:02:30.000 Oh, this is great.

01:02:31.000 And by the way, when guys say, oh yeah, bro, I can move into my crib.

01:02:35.000 I'll smash every single night.

01:02:37.000 Well, you can smash every single night without her living with you.

01:02:40.000 What happens is, she moves in with you.

01:02:42.000 You're like, oh, this is easy pussy. 1.00

01:02:44.000 Let's go.

01:02:46.000 You know what happens when things come easy to you?

01:02:48.000 They also go easily as well.

01:02:50.000 And with easy pussy leads to easy problems because now she lives with you. 1.00

01:02:55.000 My tummy hurts.

01:02:57.000 I'm on my period.

01:02:58.000 And all these things add up where they're like, I'm bored of this guy.

01:03:01.000 He wants sex.

01:03:02.000 I'm over it.

01:03:03.000 The mystery has to be there.

01:03:05.000 Without that, guys, you're cooked.

01:03:07.000 Because the mystery means, oh, I miss this guy so much.

01:03:10.000 Where's he at?

01:03:11.000 Is he with another girl?

01:03:12.000 I don't know.

01:03:13.000 She's next to you.

01:03:14.000 Oh, he's playing his video game.

01:03:16.000 Oh, he's watching the sports game.

01:03:18.000 Oh, he's just sitting here on the bed bored.

01:03:21.000 I'm bored.

01:03:22.000 I'm going with my girls.

01:03:24.000 All this shit happens not only one day, But it adds up every single day.

01:03:29.000 And you take one step into that, oh, I'm going to live with her.

01:03:31.000 She can move in with me.

01:03:33.000 Bro, every guy I know that has lived with a chick, personally that I know, he either had a DV case against him, has either lost a lot of money and time and progress, or lost his career. 0.87

01:03:45.000 I've made a couple of one finger.

01:03:47.000 One couple I know that stayed together over this period of time, and they're like legit older.

01:03:52.000 So nowadays, guys, be careful, man.

01:03:55.000 Be very careful.

01:03:58.000 Alright.

01:03:59.000 Any more chats, guys?

01:04:03.000 Alright.

01:04:08.000 That's funny.

01:04:10.000 Fried chicken.

01:04:13.000 Positive quity Mike.

01:04:17.000 I caused the phrase I caused the phrase?

01:04:21.000 I think you mean coined?

01:04:23.000 Make me a sandwich ban on TikTok.

01:04:26.000 I love the removal of sandwich emoji because I went around commenting on hot bitch livestreams. 1.00

01:04:32.000 Oh, okay.

01:04:33.000 So, I guess it's bad?

01:04:34.000 I think so.

01:04:35.000 Damn, that's crazy.

01:04:36.000 Just that phrase?

01:04:37.000 Make me a sandwich?

01:04:38.000 I believe it.

01:04:39.000 TikTok, I believe it.

01:04:40.000 Yeah.

01:04:41.000 ModernET says, Hi, FNF. I'm a Council Club subscriber and I was trying to start a clip channel with FNF content.

01:04:48.000 As I get monetized, I contact your team, Noble, and ask to be whitelisted with Rumble.

01:04:53.000 He passed it to Rumble, and later he told me to post content later.

01:04:56.000 The same week, all the videos received copyright strikes, and I got demonetized.

01:05:00.000 That's only three months ago.

01:05:02.000 This week, it's happened again.

01:05:03.000 I waited over a week, and then I started posting a second channel.

01:05:07.000 I lost as well now.

01:05:08.000 I want to try again, but how can I avoid strikes?

01:05:10.000 We need to put you in that whitelist program. 0.72

01:05:14.000 Hit up Noble again.

01:05:16.000 I'll verify as well, but yeah, you need to be whitelisted on our channel for Rumble.

01:05:20.000 So, we'll work on that, bro.

01:05:23.000 Tyler Durden says, fresh slash Myron.

01:05:26.000 I've noticed any chick that I date that has an amazing body, they're all alpha-widowed. 1.00

01:05:31.000 Yo, it's a secret, bro.

01:05:33.000 It's a secret.

01:05:34.000 I have a good net worth, good-looking, tall, pause, in shape, and I can afford the delusional worldview.

01:05:39.000 But after I'm done doing my thing with them, I'm like, I could have just gotten it cheaper.

01:05:44.000 I went like, Eros.

01:05:46.000 LOL. Bro, that's the same sad tale we all go through, bro.

01:05:51.000 You know what's funny?

01:05:51.000 I got friends that make a lot of money too.

01:05:53.000 They're like, alright, this chick, I just want to smash. 1.00

01:05:55.000 I don't care about her.

01:05:56.000 Long term, I don't want to wife her.

01:05:58.000 She's a baddie on Instagram. 1.00

01:06:00.000 Fuck it, I'm just going to pay.

01:06:01.000 That's what they do.

01:06:02.000 And listen, I understand.

01:06:03.000 Because going on a date, hoping to smash, paying for dinner, taking her out.

01:06:08.000 I get it.

01:06:09.000 It's certainly time intensive.

01:06:11.000 I get it, bro.

01:06:12.000 I see why a lot of guys do it.

01:06:14.000 And then once you make a certain amount of money, you start to realize that all these girls sell box guys. 1.00

01:06:19.000 Bro, yeah.

01:06:19.000 It's scary.

01:06:20.000 It's like almost all of them, bro.

01:06:21.000 They do it on the side, or they do it surreptitiously, but they're all pretty much doing some form of sex work, man.

01:06:28.000 It's ridiculous.

01:06:29.000 But yeah, that's the game now, guys.

01:06:32.000 Honestly, it's a personal decision.

01:06:33.000 If you want to pay for a box, you guys know that we don't like it.

01:06:36.000 We're not fans of it.

01:06:38.000 Fresh did it one time, and he said never again.

01:06:40.000 Me, I personally don't like it because I think it's important that women respect you, and if you're going to go and pay for sex, she can't respect you while you simultaneously pay her because when you pay her for sexual access, what you're inferring is your time is more valuable than mine.

01:06:55.000 Therefore, I must give you a value-loaded exchange, and I give you money on top of my time.

01:06:59.000 So for me, I just can't.

01:07:01.000 I can't come to terms with that because, to me, I look at men as superior to women in every way. 0.83

01:07:04.000 I didn't bust my ass to become who I am to pay some random bitch money for sex. 1.00

01:07:09.000 Fuck out of here.

01:07:10.000 That's how I look at it.

01:07:11.000 Maybe that's ego.

01:07:12.000 Maybe that's me being an asshole.

01:07:13.000 But, you know, that's me just being transparent with you guys about why I personally don't do it.

01:07:18.000 Now, if you guys want to do it, fine.

01:07:19.000 No problem.

01:07:19.000 It is what it is.

01:07:20.000 And honestly, mathematically and pragmatically speaking, it probably makes more sense.

01:07:25.000 But we're just telling you guys why we personally don't like doing it.

01:07:27.000 Yeah, also, I like the experience of going...

01:07:29.000 Out with a girl that I like.

01:07:30.000 That likes me as well.

01:07:32.000 We have a good time.

01:07:32.000 We vibe.

01:07:33.000 And it's not rushed.

01:07:34.000 You get me?

01:07:35.000 When you pay, it's kind of rushed.

01:07:36.000 And it's almost like an issue because now you're kind of like, hey, I'm paying you to leave.

01:07:41.000 I want her to stay a little bit longer. 0.65

01:07:42.000 And some of y'all niggas are even worse. 1.00

01:07:44.000 Some of you guys will have a regular chick that you see that you've been paying for a box. 1.00

01:07:47.000 And then y'all will wife her.

01:07:49.000 I've seen that too, which is crazy.

01:07:52.000 Start off as Trigger Babies, then they end up together.

01:07:54.000 Yeah.

01:07:54.000 Crazy, bro.

01:07:56.000 Oh, did we finish that chat from Tyler?

01:07:58.000 I think so, right?

01:07:59.000 How do you guys handle nines that are alpha widowed?

01:08:02.000 Is it really worth it?

01:08:03.000 They're for the streets, bro.

01:08:05.000 I talked about this probably yesterday, actually.

01:08:07.000 Nines and tens, bro, are community property, guys.

01:08:10.000 Also, the problem is, bro, the dude before you that smashed her day in and day out, busts inside of her guts nonstop and gave her an experience that you can't give her, that guy's always going to be there.

01:08:22.000 So let's say you wife her up, bro, and she's like, oh, this is my new man.

01:08:25.000 If he comes back...

01:08:26.000 Or says, yo, where you at?

01:08:27.000 What you doing?

01:08:28.000 I'm in town.

01:08:29.000 Bro, best believe, even if you're the best guy in the world, she loves that guy to death.

01:08:34.000 So, you could fuck up.

01:08:36.000 Maybe you didn't give her what she wanted.

01:08:37.000 You didn't give her a good time. 0.87

01:08:39.000 The vibe was bad that day.

01:08:41.000 He hits her up. 0.77

01:08:41.000 But she's going, probably. 0.77

01:08:43.000 And at that point, it's like, that's your girl.

01:08:44.000 But she's widowed, alpha-widowed to another guy. 0.98

01:08:47.000 So, is it worth it to me?

01:08:48.000 Hell no.

01:08:49.000 Not for a wife, bro.

01:08:49.000 To smash?

01:08:50.000 Eh, cool.

01:08:51.000 But to wife up?

01:08:52.000 Hell no, bro.

01:08:53.000 And guys, I've been that guy.

01:08:56.000 They got a new man.

01:08:57.000 And I'm like, bro, that's crazy.

01:08:59.000 But the problem is that whole dynamic right there, bro, an ex can always come back into your life.

01:09:05.000 And that's an L, bro.

01:09:06.000 You don't want that.

01:09:06.000 Trust me.

01:09:09.000 Okay.

01:09:10.000 What's the next one?

01:09:11.000 That's it?

01:09:12.000 All right, man.

01:09:13.000 We covered five things today.

01:09:14.000 Why you should live with a girl in detail. 1.00

01:09:16.000 We're going to do a Zoom call now.

01:09:18.000 Answer your guys' dating questions for Cast Club.

01:09:20.000 All Cast Club members, jump in, guys.

01:09:23.000 We're going to put out the link right now for you guys on Cast Club.

01:09:26.000 On Locals.

01:09:28.000 So, yeah.

01:09:29.000 Supporter only for this one, guys.

01:09:31.000 We'll do another free Zoom call maybe next week.

01:09:32.000 Guys, one more time.

01:09:34.000 Live event.

01:09:35.000 February 22nd.

01:09:36.000 Next Saturday, here in Miami.

01:09:38.000 We'll do the first two hours.

01:09:40.000 Cast Club only.

01:09:41.000 And then premium is going to be for the actual speakers, networking, all that fun stuff with lunch.

01:09:45.000 And then after that, the after party.

01:09:48.000 Yachts, girls, us, networking.

01:09:50.000 All in one, guys.

01:09:51.000 You don't want to miss it.

01:09:52.000 Here in Miami.

01:09:53.000 And again, links are down below.

01:09:55.000 It's in one week, guys.

01:09:56.000 This is the last week you can get it.

01:09:58.000 And actually, I think after-party tickets are almost sold out.

01:10:00.000 So you got like, what, five left?

01:10:01.000 So guys, hop in now while you still can.

01:10:03.000 People text me like, no one's not this weekend.

01:10:04.000 Bro, get it now.

01:10:06.000 Log into your account.

01:10:07.000 It's going to be there.

01:10:08.000 Cool.

01:10:10.000 Oh, because we're on Rumble Studio, right?

01:10:14.000 We can stay live.

01:10:16.000 So you just want to switch it to Locals Only?

01:10:18.000 Yeah.

01:10:19.000 Okay.

01:10:20.000 Yeah, so guys, what we're going to do is we're going to switch it to Locals Only.

01:10:23.000 Obviously, just stay where you're at.

01:10:24.000 Don't go anywhere.

01:10:25.000 If you're watching this on Locals or YouTube or Rumble, just switch on over to Locals or just sign up, guys.

01:10:31.000 Guys, it's $35 a month.

01:10:32.000 You're able to join the event.

01:10:34.000 It's a no-brainer, bro.

01:10:37.000 You guys get to talk to us once a week just by being a cast club, which is a crazy deal because anybody else is going to charge y'all a bunch of money for this type of shit.

01:10:45.000 Shit.

01:10:46.000 I know creators that charge 10k to talk to them.

01:10:48.000 Facts.

01:10:49.000 And a balance of y'all, they niggas ain't sharing nothing really that we're not putting you guys onto. 0.98

01:10:54.000 So, for a fraction of the price, man.

01:10:57.000 So, yeah, guys, it's an incredible value.

01:11:00.000 Obviously, you get the whole content log, and on top of that, you get to talk to us once a week, which in itself takes care of the $35.

01:11:04.000 That's fucking cheap.

01:11:05.000 Yeah.

01:11:06.000 You know what I mean?

01:11:07.000 The price of Chipotle and some bitch that you don't like, pretty much. 1.00

01:11:10.000 No-brainer.

01:11:11.000 It's a no-brainer, bro.

01:11:12.000 Yep.

01:11:13.000 Or some bitch that don't like you. 1.00

01:11:14.000 Let me rephrase.

01:11:15.000 Men only go out and date with girls that day.

01:11:17.000 I gotta say, man, I think nowadays dinner dates are dead, bro.

01:11:21.000 Dinner dates are like an L. I used to go on dinner dates back in the day, but now I think it's almost dead, in my opinion.

01:11:27.000 It's not dead.

01:11:28.000 Men are always gonna do it, but it's just not...

01:11:31.000 It's a very...

01:11:33.000 It's a counterproductive way to get what you want.

01:11:38.000 I mean, you can still get it done, of course.

01:11:40.000 Yeah.

01:11:40.000 But, you know, it is a little bit...

01:11:43.000 Most of these bitches don't deserve a dinner date. 1.00

01:11:44.000 They don't.

01:11:45.000 They don't.

01:11:46.000 That's the reality.

01:11:47.000 They really don't.

01:11:48.000 So, that's what it comes down to.

01:11:50.000 And we got After Hours coming up at, I think, like 10.45 or some shit.

01:11:54.000 We got Mr. Organic pulling up.

01:11:55.000 Yep.

01:11:57.000 And some girls. 0.71

01:12:00.000 Alright.

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Fresh & Fit - February 13, 2025

Top 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Live With Your Girlfriend

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