Impaulsive with Logan Paul - ACHIEVING CONFIDENCE, GOALS & SUCCESS WITH LEWIS HOWES - IMPAULSIVE EP. 16

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00:02:14.320 Floated. Make another fucking vlog.

00:02:16.760 I'm like that guy from Big Mouth. The hormone monster. 0.71

00:02:21.060 whip your dick out and fuck the love life 1.00

00:02:23.700 do you know who I'm gonna go see perform at the comedy show tonight who Chris D'Elia

00:02:35.840 hell yeah that's gonna be fun that's gonna be amazing welcome back to impulsive the number one

00:02:41.100 podcast in the world guys I am here with my roommate Spencer Taylor and Mike Malak today's

00:02:46.760 episode is gonna be fun we have uh hey man um i sorry for interrupting but that's definitely not

00:02:52.480 mike hmm that's not it's not mike at all who the fuck is that i'm your poppy that's right gp oh gp 0.70

00:03:01.640 is in the house yeah you did look different today that's not mike yeah that's my dad that is guys 0.86

00:03:05.880 my dad is here on the impulsive podcast how are you dad good you like the beard i do i just shaved

00:03:11.540 mine yeah i got the idea from you you look good thank you well i'm glad you came to uh the number

00:03:16.280 podcast in the world at your your favorite son's house yes absolutely how's that other not so

00:03:21.200 favorite son doing well he's not as favorite as you so you love to see it okay okay so guys mike

00:03:26.920 mike is mike is gone the joke was mike is gone uh i think that was the execution on that joke 0.73

00:03:30.980 was about six out of ten six i'll fucking take it holidays are coming up mike went home how are you 0.54

00:03:35.400 mike we love you we miss you um and holidays are coming up for us too guys we have been banking 0.81

00:03:40.220 podcast so we're still going to be providing you content when we are on a break but um yeah thank

00:03:46.600 you dad we love you thanks for having me appreciate you thanks gp see you after the podcast we have a 0.55

00:03:51.800 guest coming on friday her name is farrah abraham that episode gets spicy and juicy as fuck berry 0.50

00:03:58.060 so make sure to subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts itunes spotify youtube whatever dude i 0.71

00:04:03.300 want to preface this uh particular episode by saying this this episode is specifically for those

00:04:13.560 who feel like they are lacking motivation for those who may want inspiration in their lives or

00:04:20.000 have yet to create or build something uh that they have not done yet this episode is going to be like

00:04:24.620 fulfilling you will feel fulfilled after this and hopefully hopefully have some direction in your

00:04:29.200 life to do what you want to be able to achieve your goals we're gonna get deep that said i want

00:04:33.820 to introduce our guest guys he is an author olympian entrepreneur motivational podcast guy

00:04:41.640 man he's currently running for the mayor of antarctica wow ladies and gentlemen it's lewis

00:04:47.080 house let's go let's go how are you let's go champ ohio in the house ohio in the house

00:04:56.520 Louis is from Ohio

00:04:57.780 I think that's how

00:04:59.320 we first got connected

00:05:00.480 yes

00:05:00.900 Brandon

00:05:01.460 because Brandon

00:05:02.760 oh wow

00:05:03.900 I just saw Brandon

00:05:04.620 actually a few weeks ago

00:05:05.540 shout out to Brandon

00:05:06.400 yeah

00:05:06.840 dang dude

00:05:07.600 it's a merch game right

00:05:08.680 merch game strong

00:05:09.640 have you seen the facility yet

00:05:12.100 the new facility

00:05:12.700 well the reason I haven't

00:05:14.020 is because

00:05:14.640 my facility is the dopest

00:05:16.900 loganpaul.com

00:05:18.100 slash shop

00:05:18.720 oh

00:05:19.240 but I'm sure it's great

00:05:20.260 yeah it's nice man

00:05:21.240 I saw all the

00:05:22.260 the designs behind the scenes

00:05:24.000 I saw the whole team

00:05:25.160 they're working hard for you man

00:05:26.380 really yeah really incredible yeah it's nice incredible um so yeah i met you like what four

00:05:31.340 years ago i was gonna say we go back four maybe uh i was fine days i was 1920 i was still doing

00:05:36.680 vine and i believe your podcast was the first podcast that i ever went on did you were like

00:05:41.940 what are we doing here how was that you know what was interesting you're the only uh the only person

00:05:47.280 that wouldn't let me put a video out wait what so we did audio and video and logan was like yeah bro

00:05:56.240 can you just uh hold off on the video and not put this out he was like super particular at the time

00:06:00.660 he's like i gotta look a certain way i got my image i don't want other people doing videos of

00:06:05.400 me it's got to be my vlog or whatever and you're the only one today i still have the file and i'm

00:06:11.280 like maybe i'll do like a clip someday and he won't he won't say anything but i um i was hoping

00:06:16.380 you'd bring this up really no you didn't i was really yeah because i also did not forget about

00:06:21.880 that no um jeff's here he's smiling at me my manager he knows why you know do you know why

00:06:27.440 i was emailing with jeff and jeff was like because yeah logan prefers no video just audio and i was

00:06:32.920 like all good well because i not like a diva or anything here did you have like a pimple or

00:06:36.880 something like a big juicy one so here's here's the deal i'm gonna open this open up i've never

00:06:42.140 said this on the internet oh i have a good side and it's this side how you doing how you doing

00:06:49.540 and you're

00:06:50.260 what's the other side

00:06:51.200 you shot me

00:06:52.580 I'm on the wrong side

00:06:53.720 you should have told me

00:06:54.540 like switch seats

00:06:55.300 well bro I was 20 years old

00:06:56.780 I didn't want to come

00:06:57.300 into your podcast

00:06:57.900 and be like hey

00:06:58.680 by the way

00:07:00.560 can we switch the cameras

00:07:02.080 to the other

00:07:02.380 like it just wasn't

00:07:03.420 I didn't feel like

00:07:03.880 it was my place

00:07:04.560 so instead he said

00:07:05.620 hey by the way

00:07:06.920 no video

00:07:07.860 the only one

00:07:09.960 the biggest people on

00:07:11.740 they're like yeah

00:07:12.480 do whatever you like

00:07:13.220 I know bro

00:07:13.740 we just like

00:07:14.300 I just

00:07:14.820 like quite honestly

00:07:16.460 like he's impulsive

00:07:17.840 ogre

00:07:18.340 gq man of the year oh ogre oh gotcha i don't know so wait all your vlogs you never show the

00:07:27.080 ogre side of you no no i do yeah it's not like i can avoid it unless i can and deny you posting

00:07:33.080 the video but but you'll notice but you'll notice on my vlogs i'm holding the camera in my left hand

00:07:38.440 yeah yeah i think it's because my hair parts that way swooshes to the other side you don't have a

00:07:43.360 bad side. I'm looking at you. You are a good

00:07:45.480 looking man. Thanks, brother. Good looking man.

00:07:47.860 You're omnidirectional.

00:07:49.920 Omnidirectional.

00:07:51.240 Man, it's interesting without Mike here. It's kind of

00:07:53.280 dope, huh? It's a lot quieter.

00:07:57.180 Is that a good thing or bad? It's a distant laugh.

00:08:00.160 I was just kidding, Mike. We miss you.

00:08:01.580 Mike, we do miss you. We miss you, man.

00:08:03.120 I actually woke up this morning, and

00:08:05.000 do you know anything about this man who sits here?

00:08:07.460 No. He's

00:08:08.340 out there. So out there that he's back in here.

00:08:11.300 yeah 360 degrees around here but uh yeah yeah i woke up this morning with a little bit of

00:08:15.420 emptiness in my heart because because my my mic wasn't here um you got this mic though i know

00:08:21.040 truth truth we we've been having some uh pretty tame episodes and uh i want to i want to dive in

00:08:27.460 and and pick your brain um how many podcasts have you done 730 something i don't know 730

00:08:35.680 yeah sick it'll be six years into january that's a lot dude you were doing podcasts before they

00:08:41.220 were cool before they were cool before like serial kind of made it popular and all these other

00:08:45.200 you know networks started doing big things but um you were yeah i don't remember when yours was it

00:08:50.160 must have been episode 300 i look i have a look it up i have a picture here but you were you know

00:08:56.020 it's interesting that you came on this was before you started vlogging yeah i believe this was before

00:09:02.700 you're doing a lot of these things you had just gotten i think wow look at that look at that hair

00:09:07.620 young logan wow young pale logan damn what the f i'm still that pale and young lewis did you teach

00:09:13.740 him how to pray here yeah you're like this is where lewis taught me how to pray i had a beard

00:09:19.100 yeah this is like pre before i optimized an eye studio too but what happened you haven't aged a

00:09:23.400 bit during this conversation you know what's interesting this was like where the moment

00:09:27.980 where i realized like you had a lot of potential beyond just being like a vlogger and beyond being

00:09:32.660 like a personality and a YouTuber or Viner and like the comedian online, I was like,

00:09:36.980 you probably shared more in this interview than you probably, you know, openly about

00:09:41.260 your mission and your purpose and like how, yes, you want to be the world's greatest

00:09:45.540 entertainer. I think you said that in there, but you also said, you know, I want to impact

00:09:50.740 people's lives. You were like, I actually want to do a lot of fun things and be crazy and goofy,

00:09:55.240 but I want kids to know that they can also be whatever they want in their life. And that's

00:10:00.000 when i was like this guy is more than just a goofball online who's trying to give views or

00:10:06.160 whatever you're like a good dude at heart now you've made some mistakes or whatever but it's

00:10:11.180 like i know that is still in there and that's what's really cool is that you have an opportunity

00:10:14.540 and a platform to really transform lives which is cool truth truth and i try i think um one of

00:10:21.620 the best things i've done this year is surrounded myself with the right people like literally

00:10:25.000 starting with him actually yeah this guy's a good dude yeah and you guys know we just met but i

00:10:29.800 could tell right away his energy and his oh you have no idea we just tried it for like two minutes

00:10:34.000 and i was like oh yeah i get you yeah oh yeah you have no idea bro y'all y'all are aligned on many

00:10:38.920 he's in like the personal growth space you know he's absolutely absolutely he's just like starting

00:10:44.020 off as as we all are but um he just looks like a zen master when you look in his eyes i'm just

00:10:48.720 piercing i'm soaking it up you should see his room you should i'm about to hire you to make 0.74

00:10:54.060 my room look like yours i'm down he's got fucking like crystal lights and crystals and flowers and 0.80

00:10:59.040 plants everything that's good it's incredible so yo this was us like when was this three or four 0.84

00:11:02.740 years three years ago dude but and it's interesting hearing you say like what it was about because

00:11:07.020 the narrative is still the same for me i've just done some you don't look that bad on that side

00:11:11.360 no that's what i was gonna say um maybe your hair is just covering your whole face so no one can see

00:11:16.000 the organist yeah maybe we should release this like a little maybe i should get the footage

00:11:21.400 and let you put out a little two-second clip that could be cool actually if you want to think we 0.83

00:11:26.780 gotta do it you were about you said you're about to leak a clip you fuckhead why you do that i 0.58

00:11:32.240 wouldn't no but we also so beyond just doing a podcast like doing the internet thing yeah we 0.86

00:11:37.440 hung out at the olympics we did for like three or four days yeah we were going around who was it

00:11:41.860 mark was yep you were with mark yep i hit you up i was like i'm gonna be there watching handball

00:11:46.500 and uh man that was actually hilarious that's when you really went viral on facebook

00:11:51.560 and instagram you remember what video i remember the video with the globe first off before going

00:11:56.540 Olympics. But then the video that went viral at the Olympics

00:11:58.740 was the whole like

00:11:59.940 The double dab. The dab

00:12:02.740 video at the Olympics. You guys got some incredible

00:12:04.800 clips. I was just like watching. Did I tell you

00:12:06.780 what we were doing? You were there for

00:12:08.360 some of them. I was there for like half the events you were at.

00:12:10.700 And we were always trying to run around to find like

00:12:12.760 where's the cameras? Where's the camera? And I just kind of like

00:12:14.760 sat on the side. Ah yeah.

00:12:17.220 And I was maybe like

00:12:18.720 a half of my head in one of the clips.

00:12:20.500 I do remember that. But we were at gymnastics

00:12:22.860 you guys were doing it. We were at beach volleyball.

00:12:25.120 We were at basketball.

00:12:26.540 all that stuff and then you had to take it down like two weeks later or something uh yeah i got

00:12:30.800 it got like 60 70 million views huge and then here check it out i don't know this one might

00:12:34.780 get removed too but oh wow if y'all y'all may have seen this video me and my i was there with

00:12:39.680 you guys the hips yeah me and my roommate like right below you i'm like sitting underneath you

00:12:43.600 guys lewis was literally right here on all these events too uh just dabbing at all the olympic

00:12:48.960 events yeah you were you were definitely here for that one waving the flag yeah

00:12:53.580 that's me i made it in the clip so please nbc don't that was that was a fun experience because

00:13:00.960 that's when i actually not to toot your own horn but that's when i actually

00:13:04.000 saw the creative genius in you because we were walking down the street i don't know if you

00:13:08.180 remember this and i was like oh crap this is like a this is a thing where like the internet and

00:13:14.700 youtube is like a thing because every 12 year old was sprinting up to you and this is what two years

00:13:21.100 ago a little over two years in rio bro i didn't even know i had like no one could speak english

00:13:24.660 they were just like like selfie everywhere it was every three steps we're walking down um what was

00:13:30.460 that coba cabana or whatever it's called we couldn't have dinner anywhere you were just

00:13:34.620 swarmed and i was like and that was fascinating to me the second thing that was fascinating to me

00:13:38.900 was the way that your mind thought like your creative genius because you would see something

00:13:44.760 you would get your phone out and you'd be like mark do this this this this this and you do

00:13:48.860 something and you'd usually get it on the first take and then it just went viral you know whatever

00:13:53.440 you're doing i think it was a lot of snapchat at the time yeah yeah and i was just like wow just

00:13:57.200 the way you were i remember thinking about creating content i remember seeing you being so intrigued

00:14:03.720 and i was like it's just for me it's just it's just what i do like i don't even think about

00:14:08.740 but uh it's funny you say that man if y'all thought that was good just wait we got some

00:14:14.480 things cooking yeah 2019 is gonna be big hot what are you doing for the break by the way are you

00:14:21.020 taking a break do you do that no uh i'm gonna be here in la working and uh it's a big end of the

00:14:26.720 year for me and my business and brand it's just like going hard all the way in but i'm also going

00:14:30.860 to israel and germany in january with the usa national team so the olympics for those of you

00:14:35.740 don't know i'm not an olympic we haven't i'm an olympian that's what i said though it's all right

00:14:40.720 I'll take it.

00:14:41.200 We're speaking it into existence.

00:14:42.560 I'm just going to say.

00:14:43.160 Is that the goal?

00:14:43.740 What the qualifying for the Olympics is next year.

00:14:46.300 So you're on the national USA men's team.

00:14:48.660 Yes.

00:14:49.220 For handball.

00:14:49.740 I just played this last weekend in Puerto Rico.

00:14:51.560 Got it.

00:14:52.040 Against the Puerto Rican national team.

00:14:53.560 And we go to Germany and Israel to play with the USA team against the Israeli national team.

00:15:01.020 And then the Pan Am Games is in Peru, this in 2019.

00:15:05.220 So if we win the Pan Am Games, we go to the Olympics.

00:15:08.420 i remember you telling me about handball uh-huh what is handball uh look it up just search uh

00:15:17.800 handball highlights on youtube real quick and you'll see uh like how do you get into a real

00:15:22.120 deal more like this it's an olympic sport a lot of people think of handballs where you hit a ball

00:15:25.700 against the wall this is like water polo on a basketball court this is handball yeah it's very

00:15:31.240 physical very fast very athletic just a lot of yoke dude just throwing a ball with your hands

00:15:35.500 who can jump out of the gym who um are six six six eight strong physical specimens it's so fast

00:15:44.340 the sport you're sprinting up and down it's like basketball meets rugby meets lacrosse are you

00:15:50.680 what does the training look like for this it's intense man like like weight lifting or y'all

00:15:55.460 get on a lifting sprinting jump i mean it's a lot of court time because it's just like back and

00:16:00.180 forth it's fast and you have plays and stuff oh yeah yeah damn it's intense man it's huge in

00:16:06.260 europe pretty much unknown in the u.s no one knows about it here but everyone knows about it in europe

00:16:11.280 that's that's that's interesting i wonder why that is do any i don't know man it's kind of like

00:16:15.980 soccer it took a long time for soccer to get big here there's no there's there's no professional

00:16:19.920 league here that's why it's hard to get big there's a lot of pro teams and leagues in europe

00:16:24.660 but no pro league here it's all amateur so i i think i said you were an olympian because i thought

00:16:29.280 I remember you telling me

00:16:30.180 you almost made it

00:16:31.780 to the Olympics

00:16:32.120 and in my mind

00:16:33.200 you're just that great

00:16:34.120 that I just think

00:16:34.640 I'll take it

00:16:34.940 yeah I'll take it

00:16:35.500 it's all good

00:16:35.860 you speak things

00:16:37.100 into existence here

00:16:37.840 we try

00:16:38.620 you interviewed Jake

00:16:40.220 I did

00:16:40.960 my brother

00:16:41.420 that was interesting too

00:16:42.300 who's your favorite

00:16:43.340 Paul brother

00:16:43.900 man

00:16:46.140 I mean it's kind of

00:16:47.400 like your fight

00:16:48.000 it's a draw

00:16:48.580 ooh

00:16:49.580 you gotta win man

00:16:51.680 you just gotta win

00:16:52.820 it's a draw

00:16:53.100 I mean

00:16:53.440 what'd you think

00:16:53.940 of that fight dude

00:16:54.660 that was interesting 0.79

00:16:55.880 fuck 0.94

00:16:56.540 you should've won that

00:16:57.420 I don't know why

00:16:57.960 you didn't just

00:16:58.360 knock him out

00:16:59.060 should have you just gotta you can't let anything be a chance you know i know i know it was fun

00:17:04.400 because i came and watched you and uh jake train for a day yeah and i remember that and now you

00:17:09.420 guys were in the zone man we go back back i came to watch you guys train i got a photo i'll send

00:17:13.940 it to you if you want to put it up later whatever on here um and it was fun to watch you guys train

00:17:19.080 because i was like man if i was 24 i'd be doing this stuff too man i was like i'd be fighting

00:17:24.080 people and just like training for six months for something it is it would seem amazing because you

00:17:28.740 just in the zone all day all day one goal yeah for six months it's the only thing on your mind

00:17:35.280 it's the only thing that matters i will say this i have found myself being less and less motivated

00:17:43.220 to go to the gym and work out even though there's a rematch it we don't know anything about it we

00:17:50.320 don't know if the kid's gonna want to do it there's no date he hasn't confirmed he hasn't said

00:17:53.700 anything and um i'm really good at attacking one thing goal and you dude when you have a goal with

00:18:01.140 a date it is so much easier to train it's hard to just train for life yeah without having a goal

00:18:07.260 that's why for me it's one of the reasons i still play handball because it's like it gets me

00:18:10.820 motivated to train so much harder than just like okay i'm going to the gym to work out to stay fit

00:18:15.260 so if you if someone does not have that goal you got to find something is that is that it's having

00:18:21.260 a goal i mean once you create a goal it's so much easier well the studies have shown that when you

00:18:26.200 have a goal you're less likely to be depressed it helps with depression it helps with anxiety

00:18:31.640 all these different things just having a simple goal doesn't have to be like i'm gonna win the

00:18:36.660 world championship and something but just having a simple goal will help eliminate depression

00:18:42.020 anxiety stress mood swings and gives you something to focus on like you said you were probably more

00:18:47.580 focused in those six months than in a long time ever ever maybe when you were in high school

00:18:53.180 wrestling or playing football you were focused for that three-month season it's like we've got

00:18:56.680 a goal yeah but um that's the key i think a lot of a lot of young kids really don't know what they

00:19:01.460 want to do they don't have any goals and i think if you can start with three to six-month goals

00:19:06.460 and they can be simple but just something to start working towards is the key especially at the end

00:19:11.560 of the year right now thinking about next year get clear on two or three goals and just start

00:19:16.440 create a game plan for them yeah so so once you have the goals because i don't know if you remember

00:19:21.220 but i told you i'll i would write my goals down yeah and some of them the bigger one bigger ones

00:19:26.300 like i will be the biggest entertainer in the world you know i'll look in the mirror and i

00:19:29.260 repeat that to myself i remember you saying that 10 times in the morning 10 times at night some

00:19:33.220 law of attraction stuff right there absolutely well so you're talking about you know kids not

00:19:38.080 having goals and we have we spend so much time in school around our parents like what do you think

00:19:42.460 is the the disconnect there do you think our parents don't know how to help us set goals

00:19:46.460 our schools don't yeah i think unless you're in a sport or in like a musical thing like it's hard

00:19:52.200 to have you don't have a hobby you're just going to school to get good grades that's really the

00:19:57.140 only goals you can set it's like i want to get good grades but i think there's so much distraction

00:20:00.940 right now there's so many youtubers creating content that it's hard to stay focused you know

00:20:04.860 what i mean absolutely you know what you mean as as i'm not paying attention i'm like i'm teasing

00:20:09.720 I think, yeah, we're not taught how to set clear goals.

00:20:13.600 And as an athlete, Logan knows this, as an athlete,

00:20:15.760 like you walk into the locker room day one

00:20:18.020 and the coach sits you down with the team and says,

00:20:20.740 okay, team, what's our goal for this season?

00:20:22.620 What do we want to accomplish?

00:20:23.660 Do we want to win the state?

00:20:24.620 Do we want to go to the playoffs?

00:20:25.720 Do we want to win a certain amount of games?

00:20:27.720 Let's write it up.

00:20:28.320 This is what my coach would do.

00:20:29.680 Write it up on the chalkboard, whiteboard, whatever.

00:20:32.320 And we'd all agree, like, is this what we want to do?

00:20:34.900 Yes.

00:20:35.280 Okay, we have a common goal and a mission.

00:20:37.140 Now, as a position player, as a receiver,

00:20:39.000 You get with your wide receiver coach, and you figure out your personal goals

00:20:42.380 that's going to help us achieve this.

00:20:44.060 What's our weekly goals?

00:20:45.440 So for me, I just break everything down into simple daily steps

00:20:49.060 as opposed to being so overwhelmed by something that seems so far away.

00:20:53.960 So you say simple daily steps.

00:20:57.940 Yep.

00:20:58.380 How far-fetched should these goals be?

00:21:01.340 Because, like, yo, me, I'm a lofty fucking guy.

00:21:04.080 I said big-ass goal.

00:21:05.980 Which is good.

00:21:06.480 When I was 19, I'm like, I want to be the biggest entertainer in the world.

00:21:10.840 And I was like making Vine videos.

00:21:12.400 People were like, good luck, kid.

00:21:14.580 And now it's like, oh, this could happen.

00:21:17.460 Like, I'm 23.

00:21:18.400 I got a lot of time.

00:21:19.560 But I always have been a big believer in, and I love this saying, shoot for the moon.

00:21:26.020 And even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.

00:21:28.280 That's scientifically not true.

00:21:30.500 But, you know, it's set big goals.

00:21:33.220 Yeah. And I'm sure if you do your best to pursue them, great things will happen. Yeah. I think

00:21:38.860 it's like the Matthew McConaughey model where he's like, I'm always chasing myself like five

00:21:43.300 or 10 years out. You know, he's like, and I'm never going to get there. I'm never going to

00:21:47.860 make that happen, but I'll make something happen in the next few years. And then I got to go for

00:21:51.740 the next thing. And he's always chasing that thing further out. And I think to be the biggest

00:21:56.420 entertainer in the world in 2019 is probably a goal that is highly unlikely right highly unlikely

00:22:03.520 highly unlikely but to say that is my overall mission like so we want to have a goal that's

00:22:08.640 like this is my overall mission to be the biggest entertainer in the world now what most people

00:22:12.400 don't do is they don't have something underneath it a foundation that says why so if you just are

00:22:17.400 like i want to be a billionaire why if you're just chasing the mission with no substance underneath

00:22:24.460 no foundation, that's when you start doing things, saying yes to things or no to things

00:22:29.020 that are going to screw up your brand, screw up your life, make you feel stressed. Maybe you make

00:22:33.940 a decision that is a mistake that you look back on and say, I probably shouldn't have done that.

00:22:38.920 Or that was a hard lesson to learn that I didn't need to learn. So biggest entertainment in the

00:22:43.380 world, why? Why do you want that? Who do you want to serve? What's it going to do for you? How are

00:22:50.320 going to feel when you achieve that is it going to be enough are you going to need more what's you

00:22:55.600 know what's the downside to being the biggest entertainer in the world are you going to have

00:22:58.800 security 24 7 are people going to start coming after your family are you going to have all the

00:23:03.220 takers wanting something from me all the time so it's understanding the mission why and then asking

00:23:08.880 yourself like will that be enough for me and if not you got to ask deeper questions i love that

00:23:15.680 because I a lot of times subconsciously I I don't even think about why it just like makes sense to

00:23:22.200 me so it's good to when I when I was in my 20s and I see a lot of myself and and you I mean you're

00:23:28.440 much more talented in a lot of ways but I see I see where I was at in my 20s that all I wanted

00:23:34.200 to be was the greatest in the world that was my mission whatever I did I was like I need to be

00:23:40.260 the best I need to be the best in my sport then when I transitioned transitioned out it was like

00:23:45.140 I need to make the most money. I need to be the best. Everyone needs to know my name and my

00:23:49.480 industry. And I need to be number one. If I wasn't number one, I was the biggest jerk and loser in

00:23:56.340 the world. And here's the thing. It worked. It got me to being the best at what I was doing all the

00:24:02.200 time. But then I never felt good. I never felt fulfilled. And so I was like, okay, why am I

00:24:06.960 doing this? And when I hit about 30, I started to realize like, okay, I need a deeper foundation,

00:24:12.340 a why to chase some big dream that way it is more fulfilling when i achieve it and i'm not

00:24:18.180 angry and stressed and frustrated constantly on the journey what became your why as opposed to

00:24:25.980 needing i was constantly trying to prove people wrong you know i was bullied and picked on a lot

00:24:29.960 growing up and i was just like f these kids f the haters f the doubters like whoever didn't matter

00:24:37.740 i'm gonna prove the world wrong about me and i'm gonna make them all look silly and in doing so

00:24:44.300 i made myself look silly i achieved what i wanted i made tons of money you know new york time

00:24:49.900 bestseller you know top podcast uh all these things but it was like what's the you know i

00:24:55.860 didn't feel good and if you achieve your goal and feel like crap what's the point

00:24:59.820 no i'm just i'm just thinking because you blew his mind no i well i'm checking myself right now

00:25:08.940 it's healthy i'm really checking myself and if it's yeah so it's why if it's because i want to

00:25:14.140 prove all these kids wrong which which by the way my opinion can be a valid thing but like you said

00:25:21.180 it's when you get there and when you prove all the people wrong it's like now now now what do i love

00:25:26.940 what i just did for the past five years of my life uh anger being driven by anger or proving people

00:25:34.040 wrong is the second most powerful fuel in the world to achieve like i will sacrifice my body

00:25:42.280 my energy sleep whatever it is to prove people wrong yeah but that is not sustainable that'll

00:25:49.360 burn out eventually what is sustainable and it's the most powerful fuel is lifting others up is

00:25:55.420 proving people right, lifting them up and being of service to a greater cause.

00:25:59.900 So instead of me, and I'll use me as an example, because I feel very in this position right

00:26:04.160 now, instead of me looking at all the naysayers and the haters and the people who say that

00:26:09.800 I can't do X, Y, Z and letting them fuel me, take my audience, my fans, the people who

00:26:14.980 do appreciate and consume my content and go, yo, we're going to do this together, bring

00:26:19.240 them up with me.

00:26:20.080 I will not let you down again.

00:26:22.040 That's it.

00:26:22.660 Yeah.

00:26:22.820 Yeah.

00:26:23.000 But it's focusing on the 90% of people that are with you and that believe in you and that you want to serve at a higher purpose.

00:26:29.080 And when you focus on, you know what, there's going to be 10, 20, maybe for you, it's 50% of people hate you right now.

00:26:34.320 I don't know.

00:26:34.780 It's like, there's going to be a group of people that are against you.

00:26:38.160 But when you focus on how can I serve the people that are with me and try to get the people that are against me, maybe to just start saying, hey, I'm coming from a more positive place, which I've seen you do over the last six months, which has been great.

00:26:50.000 It's like, I'm focused.

00:26:51.320 I'm not even talking about the haters anymore.

00:26:52.600 I'm not even talking about proving people wrong.

00:26:54.340 I'm not even talking about any of that.

00:26:55.460 I'm focused on lifting people up.

00:26:58.240 You come from a place of service, of a place of we are creating media content, you know, entertainment and positive stuff.

00:27:06.280 We're coming from a place to serve people, to lift them up.

00:27:09.920 You will be the biggest entertainment in the world if you come from that place.

00:27:13.900 Look at the entertainers who became the biggest movie stars in the world who are coming from a more negative place or self-absorbed place.

00:27:20.660 they eventually hit the top and then they all crashed. They had alcohol, drugs, whatever it

00:27:26.360 may be. And it took them years to kind of rehab and get back. That's because their why was from

00:27:31.980 a place of proving people wrong, anger, trying to be right. And I think if you want to be the

00:27:39.440 biggest in the world, it's not about competing against other YouTubers or entertainers. It's

00:27:43.740 about collaboration and lifting everyone up. I was going to ask my next question is what about

00:27:49.160 competition? I used to be the most competitive person where I was like, I want to beat you. I'm

00:27:54.660 going to look, act nice in this and that, but in the back of my mind, I was like, F this person.

00:27:57.940 Like, how did they get that gig? How did they get this? I should have been number one. I should

00:28:01.460 have been this. And I played nice face to face, but in the background, I was like angry and fueled

00:28:07.820 by like needing to beat those two or three people ahead of me. Now I'm like, why am I competing

00:28:13.800 against these people? Why not just collaborate with them? It's so much easier to build together.

00:28:18.440 it's so much easier when you do it all on your own it's just so much more work as opposed to

00:28:23.520 saying let me get you know five ten other guys who are in the same type of space as me and let's do

00:28:29.040 stuff together and i'll help each other's missions you know collaborate come together as opposed to

00:28:34.320 compete i just feel like that's more sustainable and you're talking to the most competitive guy

00:28:38.920 as well who wants to win who comes from that space i yes i know i know you're competitive 0.54

00:28:43.780 fuck bro but i think the key word there is sustainable sustainable sustainability because 0.77

00:28:48.720 for me long term man seriously long term for me dude like i love competition i thrive off it i'm

00:28:54.800 in like i'm in that i'm in that mode where it's like yo you want to dominate i've said this for

00:28:59.420 for my og low gangsters i've said i will always run faster if there's someone running next to me

00:29:05.280 like will smith model it's like i'd rather die on the treadmill literally and let you win would

00:29:10.480 rather die i get the feeling man yeah i get that feeling but the sustainability but will smith is

00:29:16.320 great at collaboration true he's great at lifting others up he's promoting other people he's there's

00:29:21.400 a balance a balance my brother jake yeah since from when i was like 20 he was 18 and he saw me

00:29:29.660 with this uh and i coined this term proud of it bulldoze mentality i'm gonna dominate destroy

00:29:37.180 beat everyone in my path and what did he do he goes dog he put it on the background of his phone

00:29:42.100 he go what what was the saying he put on the background of his phone he goes if you're

00:29:46.540 thinking about others like that's not uh there's like some slogan he put that was basically like

00:29:53.100 yo don't worry about what everyone else is doing just focus on yourself and i remember like

00:29:57.480 sort of disdaining him and being like yo like sure but then you sort of get lost in your own

00:30:03.980 little world which may not be right either because going internal yeah for some people that might

00:30:10.800 work because he's still like sort of straight away from collaboration yeah um jake and i both

00:30:16.620 sort of do um so how do you this is collaboration you know you're gonna promote you you know it's

00:30:23.620 like um i'm not not like against this sort of collaborate i just maybe because this is sort of

00:30:32.200 a skewed medium format.

00:30:34.900 Yes.

00:30:35.240 Like we,

00:30:35.700 we have to have,

00:30:36.340 we have a guest on like the podcast,

00:30:38.020 but like vlogs specifically and like,

00:30:41.680 no music,

00:30:43.080 any like feature film type work that we're doing.

00:30:45.080 Like we just shot a documentary.

00:30:46.360 It's my opinion is,

00:30:48.920 and this is like cocky and I'll say it's cocky.

00:30:51.320 It's like,

00:30:51.680 I,

00:30:52.860 I don't believe other people in,

00:30:57.240 in my space are able to match the type of output that we are,

00:31:01.360 that we are creating your commitment your dedicate all that whatever it is like i just i've like

00:31:06.080 dude i'm the maverick that's i created a brand called maverick i want to create people who are

00:31:10.300 like yo i got this i'm independent i know i can do it i don't want to foster that belief thinking

00:31:15.740 you can only do it yourself you can't could you build this empire on your own absolutely

00:31:19.420 fucking not i cannot so i find other mavericks like-minded people people who think the same way 0.90

00:31:27.140 as i do like the man sitting to your right yeah like the man that was sitting to my left when we 0.70

00:31:31.600 first created this show rest in peace mike um so how do you steer back on path then if you

00:31:39.960 obviously you don't want to compete you want to collaborate i think what logan's getting at is

00:31:45.180 in that might not be competition as it is you're you're really valuing your inner circle yeah i

00:31:52.700 think it's smart i mean look at look at pitbull you know that guy built really built a brand

00:31:56.680 really fast by collaboration i look at jay balvin who i've had on the podcast as well it's like he's

00:32:00.700 partnering with people that are like-minded like him who are also superstars that they can do a

00:32:06.480 song together that they can both rise up together i i love see i i love that it's it's weird because

00:32:14.600 i do walk this line and even jake's like yo like maybe do more collabs um i think you're gonna say

00:32:20.000 this is someone i want to collab with who are the five people this year who are the other who are

00:32:24.120 the other mavericks in my space that i'm like yo i love these people who are the people that are

00:32:28.100 compliment me that aren't competitive with me but compliment maybe it's a female that's doing

00:32:32.780 something different than you but you're like wow that's we've got a similar audience but it's 1.00

00:32:36.540 different yeah and if i promoted her i would get her following and she'd do the same for me

00:32:40.720 so it's like finding the right partners it's not just like i'm collaborating with anyone who wants

00:32:44.680 to and anyone who's like me no it's like how can i really step up with the right people i had a deep

00:32:51.300 deep conversation with uh one of my best friends in the entire world the other day um granted it

00:33:01.220 was late at night and in between talking we were passing a bottle of whiskey back and forth yeah on

00:33:06.000 a balcony however for one of the first times in my life a friend of mine checked me he gave me

00:33:14.800 notes on my personality big notes on the way I'm living my life which not a lot of people do

00:33:22.380 and um why is that are people afraid to kind of like give you feedback I think I think yes

00:33:28.300 I think yes but also people often look at me and they're like oh no he's got it figured out

00:33:33.880 he's doing things right like clearly something's going right like but I'm not sure if I if it's

00:33:39.940 my place to give logan uh opinions that i think about him um i will say i invite anyone in my

00:33:47.720 circle and they all know this to be candid i think being candid is like after this podcast ends

00:33:52.000 spencer's gonna give me notes i may give him notes we give mike notes all the time um but

00:33:57.020 it's because it's it's the only way to improve and get better otherwise like no one's opening

00:34:01.280 their mouth feedback is key key but sometimes people may not feel like they can give you

00:34:05.000 feedback otherwise you might be your ego's hurt i'm not saying this happens but you might be like

00:34:09.220 okay i don't want to hang out with this person for a while so that never happens that's good

00:34:12.300 i i i love that's good feedback however 90 of the time i feel like the feedback is

00:34:21.920 on some grade a basic level like uh for example it's not good feedback the feedback my friend

00:34:29.780 gave me he goes uh he goes look um i feel like you don't value other people's opinions as much

00:34:40.580 as you should um that's powerful it is and so i checked myself i was like because you probably

00:34:46.240 feel like you always have the best idea and you're like everything not at all everything you do like

00:34:50.340 works and it's a hit almost right almost everything but not at all am i like though this is the best

00:34:57.940 idea it's interesting because i i kept myself open i checked myself i'm like yo is that is that

00:35:07.120 true i go i tell him i go thank you for that no i don't think that's true what else do you have to

00:35:14.000 like elaborate please and um it became clear to me that uh we haven't been as tight as i would

00:35:21.680 like to be he's doing he's doing things I'm doing things but it became clear to me like I think

00:35:27.660 because of this crazy journey I've been on this year and um the things that I I put on the internet

00:35:33.440 like my internet personality is not is not who I am in real life um it's a it's a it's a side of me

00:35:39.480 I have that sure like that high energy whatever but um what if what if feedback and I again I try

00:35:47.960 to stay open but what if the feedback is is outlandish you don't agree with it and and

00:35:53.540 the notes people like i'm a i'm a demand for feedback in my life i'm sure just like you get

00:35:59.640 thousands of comments of people that's giving you feedback in a sense they're giving you their

00:36:03.460 opinion i'm getting emails all the time from people who are saying things uh that are constructive

00:36:09.440 or not constructive a lot of it i used to take uh very personally the feedback i used to be like

00:36:15.080 you don't know me. You don't get what I'm doing. Now I look at it. Anytime I get a critical

00:36:20.080 feedback, I just say, okay, there is something I did here with this interview or the book or

00:36:24.640 whatever I did that did not resonate with this person. Doesn't mean it didn't resonate with 99%

00:36:29.360 of people. Just this person, maybe they were off today. Maybe something hurt them or frustrated

00:36:34.580 them. So I take it with a grain of salt. And I also think of, okay, how can I connect with that

00:36:38.720 person better? What can I do? Is there any truth to this feedback? Some things I listen to and I

00:36:43.780 apply and other things just like no i don't it doesn't land on me it doesn't work for me so i'll

00:36:48.800 keep doing what i'm doing that's where i ended up landing yeah i keep my mind open yeah i really

00:36:53.500 really listen whether it's the thousands of comments whatever it is i go i i i measure it

00:36:59.480 and i am able to learn adapt and grow based on whether or not i think that is true yeah that's

00:37:04.060 honestly part of the reason i've been able to build and adapt throughout the years because like

00:37:08.620 i'm i'm not just i'm always right no please check me that's good i'm doing something wrong point me

00:37:14.740 in the right direction and if i think your comment or feedback is incorrect like i'm gonna keep doing

00:37:20.000 my thing for a little bit based on results that's how you should look at feedback is what is what

00:37:24.740 i'm doing working is it helping me achieve what i want if not then i need feedback like tell me

00:37:30.100 how can i improve to get the result i want to get the goal to make the impact yeah how do you

00:37:34.840 maintain that balance of that ideal self and true self you talk about this all the time so

00:37:39.340 you're mentioning you want to you have these two different entities real life logan internet logan

00:37:44.880 how do you make sure that's healthy well i'm never trying to like act you know i guess you're adding

00:37:51.540 like a person persona uh sometimes i mean i've done less and less of that especially on this

00:37:57.300 podcast part of the reason i love it so much because i don't have to like be this high energy

00:38:01.180 Yeah, like I'll just be me for an hour.

00:38:03.400 Yeah, I think it's something that he talked about.

00:38:05.640 I don't know if you still do this where you look in the mirror every day

00:38:07.420 and say these things, but I think I'm constantly looking at,

00:38:11.120 when I do meditation or any type of visualization practices,

00:38:15.300 I look at, not in the mirror, but I imagine if myself was right in front of me,

00:38:20.620 like the greatest version of me, where everything is optimized.

00:38:23.520 Like I'm perfect health, perfect minds, like everything is optimized.

00:38:27.780 And I look at myself and I'm like, man, I'm so far away from that person

00:38:30.940 I want to be who's right in front of me. And I think, what are the things I need to do today

00:38:34.760 to just get a little bit closer to that person? Because that is the truest ideal version of

00:38:39.640 myself. The one with like the best thoughts, the best actions, the best intentions. And I just

00:38:45.380 think about that as often as possible when I get off. I'm like, what would the greatest version of

00:38:50.360 me look like, be like, feel like, act like. And I just focus on trying to be better. I'm never

00:38:56.460 going to reach that, but I just try to focus on being better every day. Do you think the more

00:39:00.520 distant we are from that, that perfect self? Do you think that's where we experience the anxiety

00:39:06.700 and the depression? Absolutely. Absolutely. The farther away we get from like our truest self,

00:39:10.760 ultimately you want to like, here am I, here's my best self. I want to like merge the two

00:39:15.280 and just become one with my greatest self. Eventually it may never happen, but the closer

00:39:20.020 I get to it, the more full I am, the more love I have, the less stress I have, the less anxiety,

00:39:25.840 the farther we get away from that, the more we focus on negative things, on beating and dominating

00:39:30.460 people as opposed to serving people on alcohol and drugs all day long, as opposed to having a

00:39:36.060 clear mind on, you know, being nasty towards other people, as opposed to being kind, like

00:39:41.080 the farther away we get, the more distraction, the more stress, anxiety, the more drugs we're

00:39:47.180 going to need to take to feel better. And we're going to always be asking, why am I here? What's

00:39:51.500 the purpose? Why am I here? Right. And when we start asking, why am I here constantly? What's

00:39:56.920 the purpose of my life that becomes destructive so well there's a lot of people who struggle to

00:40:02.220 to ask that question and feel comfortable with that uncomfortability it's not not knowing what

00:40:11.680 you want with your life especially if like you're a teenager most of your audience is like teenagers

00:40:14.680 young 20s right yeah I mean most I didn't ask those things I was like where's the next girl

00:40:19.320 I can like hook up with you know it's like you're thinking about yeah same here other stuff you're

00:40:23.240 thinking about like and um that's the challenge i think it's hard to find a mission and a purpose

00:40:30.160 when you're 12 it's hard to find like goals other than like i just don't want to be grounded i want

00:40:35.880 to be able to go out with my friends and like go to school so i think you've got to find some

00:40:40.220 activities that inspire you whether that's music or dance or vlogging whatever it may be you got

00:40:46.140 to find something that inspires you and just throw yourself into it and start creating goals around

00:40:50.480 it um i was curious not to go off track here i was curious because i wanted to ask you this when

00:40:54.700 you're talking about the things you've been through this year have you shared yet on this

00:40:59.440 podcast or on your blog the three biggest lessons you learned from this year shared one and it wasn't

00:41:05.320 actually on this podcast it was so we had access hollywood on yesterday yeah and uh in their piece

00:41:11.620 scott evans the correspondent asked me what what my biggest lesson he asked me what my single

00:41:16.600 biggest top three lessons from 2018 that that you felt um you learned the most by something you did

00:41:24.840 something you didn't do or something you watched someone else do this is getting juicy

00:41:30.680 on impulsive it's a great question um what's the what's the one you shared the one is slow down

00:41:39.240 it is the first thing that comes to my mind and i can not point to that as the reason for what

00:41:46.720 happened the singular reason for what happened but that is a that is huge slow down what happens

00:41:52.460 when you continue to speed up too much every day you get lost year you get lost mentally and then

00:41:58.760 what happens you make mistakes you make mistakes you screw yourself over you hurt other people

00:42:03.660 it it horrible and it's and it's again my 2018 year in review video is is coming out soon and

00:42:11.480 this is gonna all be highlighted in it but when you're moving at a pace that fast um creating a

00:42:18.820 daily vlog every single day for 460 days and not even not even just like a hey guys so today i'm

00:42:25.620 gonna go to the hospital and visit my grandma it's like a produced it's a produced like 0.58

00:42:29.280 Yo what the fuck is popping

00:42:31.160 Today we're lighting my brother on fire

00:42:33.160 Like

00:42:33.620 You guys are trying to make a viral video

00:42:37.020 Every day

00:42:38.160 Well my theory was

00:42:39.600 I'm gonna again bulldoze mentality

00:42:43.280 I'm gonna hop into the vlog space

00:42:45.160 I see Roman Atwood, Fousey Tube

00:42:47.060 Casey Neistat doing these vlogs

00:42:49.280 I'm gonna inject

00:42:50.700 So much energy, hype, adrenaline

00:42:53.620 And fun into these vlogs

00:42:54.860 People are gonna fucking love them

00:42:56.820 You hear the intensity I'm talking

00:42:58.260 this was inside my brain

00:42:59.720 that was daily 0.92

00:43:00.840 make another fucking vlog

00:43:03.000 I'm like that guy from Big Mouth

00:43:06.160 the hormone monster 0.99

00:43:07.640 whip your dick out and fuck the vlog life 0.99

00:43:10.300 that was my mentality bro 0.99

00:43:14.080 okay so slow down because when you're going

00:43:16.200 so fast all the time without taking

00:43:18.000 moments breaks 0.62

00:43:19.480 you're gonna mess up you're gonna hurt yourself 0.86

00:43:22.100 you're gonna hurt other people

00:43:23.060 so lesson number one slow down

00:43:25.140 and I would like to add that I see you slowing down

00:43:28.180 but also living with urgency and more intention that is a great way to put it because slow down

00:43:33.880 that is a great way to put it focused urgency don't slow down everything like let's get stuff

00:43:40.060 done facts but be intentional about it intentional smart calculated emily may take some time like

00:43:46.180 10 20 minutes a day to just like lay in the backyard with my dog or like get some sun or just

00:43:50.140 chill with my boys yeah that's what the access hollywood scott uh was trying to say to logan is

00:43:55.920 his advice was you should take two years off and obviously that's not the way to do it like

00:44:01.980 people might want to see two weeks people might want to see that but we've taken a completely

00:44:07.800 different approach this year sustainable long-term marathon approach as opposed to i'm sprinting the

00:44:14.220 40-yard dash every single moment of my life like you're running marathons and ultra marathons so

00:44:20.820 you can be the greatest entertainer in the world but you're gonna have to be intentional and live

00:44:25.300 with urgency i love that word intentional i love it so that's lesson number one what would be

00:44:29.260 lesson number two the biggest lesson of the year lesson number two listen listen in how in what

00:44:36.900 way listen to the people around you listen to what they're saying listen to your audience

00:44:42.420 listen to your friends listen to your family you're not right about everything old logan

00:44:47.360 how old are you now 23 23 i i was i i was told by two of my closest friends in the entire world

00:44:58.380 in the month of december 2017 they said yo i do not like how you're acting right now you are being

00:45:09.640 irrational both of them said this at separate times wow they said the same thing one of them

00:45:15.660 said you are going to take a hit you are going to take it i don't know what it is i can't tell what

00:45:21.720 it is but you are going to take the biggest hit of your life and it's going to take a long time

00:45:26.400 to come back i go dog someone actually said that to you yes wow i go yo i am the biggest vlogger

00:45:34.780 in the world right now untouchable i'm untouchable like what is gonna go wrong that could make that

00:45:40.840 happen i have a great team around me i have great friends everything's perfect he goes dude i don't

00:45:46.100 know i don't know what it is but i've been there because he had he goes i've been where you are

00:45:50.160 i don't know if it's going to be a monetary thing i don't know if it's going to be like a audience

00:45:54.260 thing yes he goes but i know it's gonna and i was like sure whatever dude like um was told that

00:46:00.560 again by someone else i love three days before this wasn't like a combined intervention this

00:46:07.140 was like both of them had the same idea wow she goes you are gonna shoot yourself in the foot

00:46:12.340 you are i like i've never seen this version of you and again i was like nah and then even in

00:46:20.540 the videos leading up to the thing in japan it's very clear something's gonna happen something

00:46:27.320 is not going right wow um so listen listen okay very like just listen and be open to feedback

00:46:36.500 yeah yeah which i thought i was and like to a degree i was it just it just hard and again i

00:46:42.160 said this on access hollywood i urge creators friends family um to really check yourself

00:46:48.360 and make sure you're listening to the people around like really hear them out and consider

00:46:52.660 them even if sometimes you don't think they're right upon first hearing what they have to say

00:46:56.120 so we had uh slow down we had listen what would be the third one biggest lesson that you think

00:47:04.720 will transform not only your business, your brand, your empire, but also your life in

00:47:11.040 2019 and beyond?

00:47:13.120 I think empathy.

00:47:14.860 I think, I think being aware of people beyond just yourself.

00:47:21.280 Were you only thinking about yourself 24 seven?

00:47:23.640 Not only granted.

00:47:25.680 I was still like nice.

00:47:26.580 Like I did.

00:47:28.160 I mean, I hate like here's things I did for other people.

00:47:32.220 like i sure i did things for other people but that that was capped there was a point where i was

00:47:38.240 again i really was like yo i'm the maverick i'm gonna do this myself i got this i can do it and

00:47:44.900 to a degree i was right but being so out of touch and ignorant to the social climate um

00:47:53.760 screwed me over i i didn't feel for other people i didn't even think about how they would react to

00:48:03.640 the thing i posted i i knew it would cause like waves but i i don't know nothing there was nothing

00:48:09.740 going on up there it was just machine process of shoot edit post that's it dominate dominate

00:48:17.180 that's it and so the empathy is something and this is this is the biggest lesson i think

00:48:23.860 they're all they're all huge but it's the one that to this day i'm still working on i i'm really

00:48:31.840 trying to be empathetic towards people how they feel listen hear them out see if i can help them

00:48:38.040 understand where they came from what their upbringing was and how they were raised in their

00:48:42.400 life and i think as a creator that really really helps the type of of content and the flavor of

00:48:50.580 the content that i'm putting out because it's not just it it comes with a a relatability

00:48:56.560 that that people see like i'm a kid from ohio bro i'm from ohio and i became this vlog boy

00:49:04.440 internet kid who was only like when i was making videos that and and and producing content every

00:49:10.380 single day i didn't i didn't see what was happening i saw money cars big house friends

00:49:13.920 family girls like i was blinded by this thing and that's why i say like fellow creators it's

00:49:20.120 it becomes so toxic please please check yourself um before before you make your next move and if

00:49:26.840 you think you're in good standing ask your friends people around you your team go for it keep doing

00:49:31.040 your thing but empathy and thinking about the the consequences of your actions

00:49:38.060 i love that those are good insights and good awareness now i'm curious how long you've been

00:49:43.560 how long have you known logan spencer i've known logan for about three years three years and in

00:49:47.960 the last year uh what would you say has been his greatest strides that he's made are any of those

00:49:53.880 things those three things that he's made strides in yeah and what has been his biggest um the thing

00:49:59.380 that you're most impressed with that he's actually done in the last year i would definitely say he's

00:50:03.780 made serious steps in all three of those things yeah he's not just just talking about it um

00:50:08.780 you're with him every day yeah you live here you're yeah so i i came in um after january to

00:50:15.140 help him with documentary um new vlog content so coming in and working with logan it was like

00:50:23.040 you know a lot of me learning how to get out of his way as well and let him learn because like

00:50:28.460 part of me i wanted to come in and like share a lot of what i've learned and what my mentors have

00:50:33.520 taught me but i realized like yo i gotta take a step back let him still fail let him make those

00:50:38.900 mistakes but not judge and not not leave when he makes that mistake that i see like i told you so

00:50:44.920 right i don't like that because if when people say i told you so for me it makes me feel like

00:50:50.220 shit so the biggest thing that i've noticed from logan is is uh that teamwork like that really

00:50:57.380 looking around and making sure his people are are all right caring about his people and he's

00:51:04.400 probably noticed it but that's attracted like a such a high level of people quality people

00:51:10.000 quality well they all well we all we all care about each other we all really like each other

00:51:14.660 that's good so it's like um it's it fosters a really healthy environment where we can have

00:51:20.100 open conversations and be nice and and uh even though we work together there's a there's a

00:51:25.160 friendship yeah of course you know what do you think is the the the biggest challenge that he's

00:51:29.420 gonna have to overcome still to get him to like the whole nother level that he wants to be at

00:51:33.680 i know you know the answer and answer there's because there's many there's one or two things

00:51:39.840 what's the thing what comes to mind who's very i can already tell he's got a great perspective

00:51:44.420 oh yeah he sees everything everything he's aware of what's going on he doesn't have to speak at

00:51:49.140 all he just knows what's happening that's what i feel at least it might not be the answer you

00:51:53.240 expect. But what I see is with your brand Maverick, it's doing something different is being someone

00:52:00.060 who goes a different path. And what you what I see as the challenge is what do you see as as a

00:52:06.440 Maverick in the world that we live in today? Is it something that is your identity? Or is it the

00:52:11.440 world's identity? Because I think if you want this brand to be a billion dollar, multi billion dollar

00:52:16.560 brand, look at what the world needs. Look at what kind of Maverick the world needs, not what you

00:52:22.920 want to be but what the world needs what does the world need in your mind with with logan

00:52:27.320 everything you're explaining empathy compassion love sustainability like all these things that

00:52:32.880 when we grow up yeah community all these things that when we grow up we think oh that's not what

00:52:36.940 a man does you know that's not that's not cool but i think we live in this world where all those

00:52:42.800 things because so few of people actually do it it's cool and it's so different so interesting

00:52:48.940 so maybe are you saying flesh out the message a little bit because i love that note and by the

00:52:53.700 way that is like my version of a maverick is much different than sally who goes to school in iowa

00:53:01.440 like it i i'm when i say when i and when i refer to be a maverick i'm telling you like yo if you're

00:53:09.560 at school and you find yourself doodling in class and you're like wow these these are really good

00:53:14.500 Go be a cartoon animator if you want to

00:53:16.840 If you're always drawing cool

00:53:18.460 And other people are making fun of you

00:53:20.980 Because you're like the weird kid chasing dragons

00:53:22.460 Go write a movie

00:53:23.720 Go write a sci-fi script

00:53:25.260 I love weirdness

00:53:27.760 I love the people who feel isolated

00:53:29.860 Because when I was in school

00:53:31.240 And I was making dumbass YouTube videos

00:53:33.720 No one was like

00:53:35.320 Those are really funny

00:53:36.660 What are you doing?

00:53:39.540 You want to be a YouTuber?

00:53:40.140 I guess I don't know

00:53:41.740 I'm just having fun

00:53:42.840 weird so what i'm hearing you say is is continue to reinvent the word and the message for what's

00:53:49.800 needed in the world yeah not what you want or wanted is like be the best dominate be the

00:53:55.480 because you're different but like continue to evolve with what the world needs with the tagline

00:54:01.020 and the overall message is what i'm hearing you say yeah i think when we see the problems that

00:54:05.380 we're facing you know we have to look at us first and say how can i change who i am because nothing

00:54:14.420 outside of me i can actually change until i first change myself so i think that's the process we're

00:54:19.140 all going through but i'd see that's the process that you're going through in particular logan that

00:54:23.900 i think going into 2019 as long as you stay on that path and you don't forget about the path

00:54:31.040 that you were on and you keep shedding those layers,

00:54:33.860 great things are going to happen.

00:54:36.520 What's the one skill that he could master?

00:54:39.360 Maybe it's an internal skill.

00:54:41.320 Maybe it's an acting skill, a musical skill,

00:54:44.460 or, you know, empathy skill or whatever it is.

00:54:47.440 What's the one skill that he mastered

00:54:49.280 will elevate everything else?

00:54:51.400 Mindfulness.

00:54:52.760 Fuck, he's been telling me this.

00:54:54.840 So you just mean meditation

00:54:56.040 or just taking time to relax and breathe?

00:54:58.920 Yeah.

00:54:59.240 Stepping away

00:55:01.100 Meditation

00:55:01.980 I know

00:55:02.960 I haven't been

00:55:04.500 In your backyard

00:55:04.960 But I've seen videos

00:55:05.800 You've got a very

00:55:06.320 Tranquil backyard

00:55:07.240 I know

00:55:07.840 Because I love the energy

00:55:09.280 I just am not

00:55:10.240 Fostering it to us

00:55:11.480 And bro

00:55:12.060 He tells me everything

00:55:13.480 So

00:55:13.820 How could you support

00:55:15.580 Not only Logan

00:55:16.380 But the team

00:55:17.180 In creating a mindful practice

00:55:19.180 Within the Maverick brand

00:55:20.500 He's doing it

00:55:21.220 10 minutes every morning

00:55:22.580 He's doing it

00:55:23.220 Everyone's got

00:55:24.060 You're like leading the meditation

00:55:25.540 You're putting on

00:55:26.720 He's done that

00:55:27.700 We just like

00:55:28.440 You got to do it daily.

00:55:29.640 Yeah, I know.

00:55:30.120 You got to show up every day and say, guys, this is like a non-negotiable.

00:55:33.940 You got to be out here like three days a week at least.

00:55:36.260 I think that's a big thing for me too because this has been a lot about Logan,

00:55:39.900 but for me, my perspective towards him, but the thing he's helped me out the most,

00:55:44.700 maybe he doesn't see that, is my confidence.

00:55:47.020 Because internally, I've had all these things.

00:55:49.020 I've had mentors.

00:55:49.740 I've been around older people a lot over the last few years,

00:55:52.700 which has given me a lot of different perspectives,

00:55:55.760 but he's given me that confidence in myself.

00:55:58.440 you got this go do it come on bro it is so evident by the way and uh end of the year note to friend

00:56:05.140 i'm very proud of you oh wow uh you i mean you you were glowing when you came into the house at the 0.57

00:56:11.180 beginning of the year but uh man you are a fucking dope human like i love this kid yeah um guys like

00:56:17.840 him around you yeah no seriously and we we were doing the uh leaded meditations at the beginning

00:56:22.640 of the year and they're kind of like fell off and faded and it's the end of the year and my mind is

00:56:27.100 elsewhere i'm kind of like drinking a lot and having fun and partying but wait we're doing

00:56:33.100 sober vegan january that's good based on spencer and andre behind this camera great um yeah so

00:56:39.560 january i think minutes a day you know my intention going into this we're having the whole house go

00:56:44.120 sober and vegan for for 30 dude imagine for a second what you could build and create clear

00:56:51.380 underminded the whole time great sleep positive intention you will be even more explosive in your

00:56:58.500 business and brand jeff is like you will be here's the thing i mean you already got it with the

00:57:02.980 fitness stuff you're already training like machine imagine if you got the sleep and the no booze and 0.94

00:57:08.360 then you know the not bad food whatever for a while and we're consistent you would be a fucking 0.74

00:57:12.560 machine oh yeah oh yeah it's gonna be great you were there too with it while training yeah for 0.84

00:57:17.600 thing like beast mode that's why you need that like big goal and a foundation why to like

00:57:22.960 keep you focused on it otherwise you'll just be like well what's the point of this i'm trying to

00:57:26.940 get him to sign up for an iron man with me you should man do you mean that lewis you should do

00:57:33.080 it why do you say that well here's the thing i don't know about iron man is kind of long yeah 0.85

00:57:36.980 it is kind of fucking long man it's it's 120 mile bike a two two mile swim and a fucking marathon 0.92

00:57:42.500 once you start with a half marathon there we go a 12 miler and say we're gonna do the half 0.94

00:57:47.480 marathon and start with that like you know why because i've never been wanting to just dip my

00:57:51.280 toe in the water it's true i jump into that shit so hey can i get a voiceover role please can i go 0.51

00:57:57.820 back out for voiceover i want to jump in nick kroll watch out can we get nick kroll on nick 0.65

00:58:05.460 kroll i love you someone someone clipped this and tag him on instagram come on i'm an impossible

00:58:09.260 that's why i want him to do the iron man though that's why that's why we're going to do a

00:58:12.580 meditative estate because you have to go yeah well you were explaining earlier about marathons

00:58:17.060 and how life's a marathon it is the amount of learning that takes place oh my gosh i just did

00:58:21.420 this uh 33 hour mountain climb 33 hours i saw that 22 time or no not 20 it was uh 22 miles

00:58:29.220 up a mountain 33 hours straight we took about a three and a half hour sleep uh you go a mile and

00:58:36.720 a half straight up take a gondola down and you just do it on repeat 17 times up 22 miles and

00:58:43.260 a 33 hour endurance experience for me my first endurance event beyond a 5k why you do that

00:58:48.900 because i realized that like every year i need a challenge for myself physically i need to do

00:58:54.200 something that challenges me otherwise i'll get complacent and i learned so much in the mind

00:58:58.480 while doing this 33 my first off my body was a wreck for about a month but it was uh it was i was

00:59:04.920 more proud of myself on the last climb finishing than anything else i've ever done because it was

00:59:11.740 so daunting of a task and i had to focus on one step at a time which is so hard for me because i

00:59:18.600 just want to be done let's get this thing done let's finish you gotta go one step at a time 33

00:59:22.680 hours it was not fun it really is it really is great doing that that one large physical thing

00:59:30.620 like this fight this year it's great was great for me it just taught me so much about myself

00:59:35.740 and how much I actually did like the regiment of training.

00:59:38.540 My one concern with the Ironman is

00:59:42.980 the amount of training that it takes

00:59:46.440 to be able to successfully do an Ironman.

00:59:49.280 If I did it, which I think I'm going to,

00:59:54.520 just because I cannot die on this planet

00:59:57.720 without having done an Ironman.

00:59:59.100 If I did it, I would attempt to put it like a month after my fight.

01:00:04.340 so I'm training for the fight

01:00:05.980 and I'm already going to be

01:00:06.700 in crazy ass shape

01:00:07.560 and then I'll have a month

01:00:08.520 to kind of like spin that

01:00:09.700 into Ironman training

01:00:11.280 not so much focused on boxing

01:00:12.620 but it's just a lot

01:00:14.220 start with the marathon

01:00:14.960 how long did it take you

01:00:15.840 to finish yours

01:00:16.280 what was it 12

01:00:16.860 yeah 12 and a half

01:00:18.320 12 hours

01:00:19.020 that's a lot

01:00:20.300 screw that

01:00:21.680 I just don't know

01:00:22.540 about all that

01:00:23.200 is there a guest

01:00:24.440 you've had on

01:00:25.100 that at the end

01:00:26.740 you are just like

01:00:27.560 blown away

01:00:29.460 blown away

01:00:29.780 a lot of my guests

01:00:31.100 I had this guy

01:00:33.580 recently had dr joe dispenza on you probably know about him right yeah yeah he was mind-blowing and

01:00:38.940 that just that episode blew up he just talks a lot about mindset and stuff and our body and mind

01:00:42.740 connection um you had kobe on bro kobe on was actually probably the most mind-blowing because

01:00:48.860 i had no clue what to expect have you met kobe before uh no but he shows me a lot of kobe's

01:00:54.140 practices dude i uh i mean here's the thing kobe is a talk about a freak in a good way this guy is

01:01:01.200 i got a you know and colin shout out to colin for setting up the interview is that how you got it

01:01:07.380 yeah colin set it up why where's kobe at we're working on it we're working on it we'll get there

01:01:14.700 it was amazing because i get there i don't know it's 6 30 a.m in the morning at his office in the

01:01:20.620 oc um to go set up with the cameras and everything and there's only there's one person that lets us

01:01:27.280 in the office there's no one else there we're walking around trying to find a good place to

01:01:31.960 set up he's never really done like a live video interview at his office so i find the set it's

01:01:35.640 live uh i mean like recorded recorded video yeah and um we go in there and all of a sudden i like

01:01:42.020 walk past this big glass like office that's dark and in the back of the office i walked past it i

01:01:48.440 didn't see anything but on the way back i noticed kobe sitting in the back lights off just like

01:01:54.160 looking up no screens on just like i don't know what he was doing but he was just like visualizing

01:01:59.440 about what life uh what he's going to create in the world he was just sitting there like dreaming

01:02:04.440 is what it looked like and i asked the the office manager i was like is he in here pretty early

01:02:10.380 every day she's like yeah he gets here he's the first one here 6 a.m every day before anyone else

01:02:14.940 and he gets up at 4 a.m to work out with his daughter this is after 20 years of playing in

01:02:20.260 the NBA winning championships being one of the best of all time after he's retired and he was the

01:02:27.080 nicest most kindest person that I've had on one of the nicest like I was expecting I wasn't sure

01:02:33.380 if it was going to be weird or what he was so kind so giving of his time and his answers he was

01:02:39.320 talking about love he was talking about his vision he was talking about a lot of stuff that he never

01:02:44.340 talked about and it was really cool he was really nice to me and I really appreciate it but his his

01:02:49.060 still he's run a marathon he had a 20-year career one thing and now he's like i want to be the

01:02:54.580 greatest storyteller in the world because that's what's going to change the world he goes being

01:02:59.140 the best storyteller and making stories that's his whole mission in life because that's what

01:03:05.780 transforms people's lives when they hear and see stories so what does that mean making movies

01:03:10.340 making cartoons okay podcasts series you know yes all these things so being a storyteller filmmaker

01:03:16.660 TV shows, all that stuff.

01:03:17.760 He's a legend.

01:03:18.920 Even after all these years, he still wants to be the best.

01:03:22.260 At 4 a.m., he's committed.

01:03:24.500 And again, he's got this big goal, but he's got this foundation of why.

01:03:30.620 And I think that's what allows him to reinvent himself.

01:03:33.320 Can he tell you what that was?

01:03:35.040 You've got to listen to the episode.

01:03:36.340 I like that.

01:03:37.680 I like that.

01:03:38.400 Where can they listen to your podcast?

01:03:40.120 School of Greatness.

01:03:41.340 The School of Greatness on iTunes, Spotify, Pandora,

01:03:44.980 All the places podcasts are at School of Greatness.

01:03:47.560 And you got a documentary coming out?

01:03:49.960 Can you talk about that?

01:03:50.440 Yeah, I got a documentary.

01:03:50.880 I just filmed my first documentary.

01:03:52.660 It's called Chasing Greatness.

01:03:54.560 I just pitched it to Netflix, so I'm looking to-

01:03:56.700 Did you catch it?

01:03:58.720 You don't have to watch it.

01:03:59.500 I think you did.

01:04:00.560 I think you caught it.

01:04:01.220 I think he got it.

01:04:01.920 He's a pretty fucking dope guy.

01:04:03.040 I think you rassled it down.

01:04:04.100 I appreciate it, man.

01:04:04.340 Pretty nice guy.

01:04:05.440 Well, I think, you know, I don't want to spoil the whole documentary.

01:04:08.720 I was telling Spence about it's kind of like a remake of The Secret.

01:04:13.280 It's kind of like a newer version of like what the secret was 15, 20 years ago.

01:04:17.400 Real quick, for those who haven't watched The Secret or know about that,

01:04:21.900 like could you explain from your perspective the law of attraction,

01:04:25.760 how you stumbled upon it, what it is to you?

01:04:28.200 I mean, I think the secret and the law of attraction in general

01:04:33.320 is like what you think you'll create.

01:04:35.680 You know, if you're thinking like I want to be the best entertainer in the world,

01:04:40.140 then you'll start to manifest that in the simplest terms.

01:04:43.280 I think where some people miss out on the secret and the law of attraction is they just say,

01:04:47.980 I'm imagining checks coming to my mailbox because I want to make more money,

01:04:52.960 but they don't couple it with action and a game plan.

01:04:55.900 So I look at it like, yes, let's attract what we want through our thoughts

01:04:59.120 and start putting an intention out there and being very intentional about our actions to manifest it.

01:05:04.200 So putting in the work.

01:05:05.240 So I kind of did like a remake version of The Secret with like,

01:05:10.340 where The Secret had a lot of spiritual thought leaders.

01:05:12.340 This is a lot more like mainstream, kind of credible leaders in business and sports.

01:05:17.740 And we'll see.

01:05:18.740 But I think, you know, chasing greatness, I think a lot of us are chasing something.

01:05:23.460 You know, we're chasing to be the best, or we have been.

01:05:26.260 We're chasing to be the biggest vlogger in the world, the biggest entertainer in the world, to make the most money, to build the biggest business.

01:05:31.780 And I think when you learn the secret, you stop chasing greatness, and greatness starts chasing you.

01:05:38.700 And that's the key is how do we become the version of ourself where everything starts chasing us as opposed to us chasing it.

01:05:46.640 I like that.

01:05:47.940 I like that a lot.

01:05:49.440 And that's why I think you have an opportunity as a marathoner and an Iron Manor of life to set a clear intention of what you're going to build and manifest and let it start coming to you easier.

01:06:01.340 Yeah.

01:06:01.560 and by by slowing down by being you know doing the stuff that spence is talking about and uh

01:06:06.680 and manifesting and attracting it as opposed to i gotta grab it i gotta get it i gotta put it out

01:06:11.060 there you know just like you're gonna create what you need to you're gonna have the action plan and

01:06:14.300 it's gonna happen what do you what do you think a goal obviously it comes from logan but what do

01:06:20.200 you think a cool goal would be for the entire team for this year something that um something i think

01:06:26.320 is you know because i watch your stuff every now and then i you know obviously don't watch everything

01:06:31.000 but I see what you're doing. I follow you guys. And I think what is missing, if you're just asking

01:06:38.280 my opinion, I'm just one man, is a greater purpose to serve. You did a little bit after

01:06:44.560 the whole incident, you like created, I think, like a short film or some interview series about

01:06:49.600 stuff. But I think this 2019, you should say we have a business maverick goal to impact this many

01:06:57.760 lives, to donate this much to this, to, you know, create a collective movement that is not about

01:07:04.600 making money, about making an impact. And I don't know what that would look like, if it's donation

01:07:09.160 based, if it's service based of you guys using your time, your resources, but something to give

01:07:15.180 back to the world in a bigger way than just how can we make more money and build our empire?

01:07:20.880 How can we serve as well? And I think when you find that you serve more, you're going to make

01:07:26.660 more so that's my one person no i like it i love it it's on the agenda that's how much i love it

01:07:31.520 it's happening yeah yeah uh because yeah it's like what's the movement we're creating to give

01:07:35.000 back it is the one thing we are clearly missing in this operation and you'll feel so much more

01:07:39.880 fulfilled the team will rally behind this mission yeah and like you'll all make more money and be 0.52

01:07:45.240 bigger i don't even like and i mean this i don't really give a fuck about money dude it just i have

01:07:51.180 been fortunate enough to make a lot of money

01:07:53.120 because I do what I love

01:07:54.380 like if I

01:07:56.840 lost all my money at the end of the day 0.92

01:07:58.860 stripped me down I'm a fucking

01:08:00.940 kid who came from a tree in Ohio 0.97

01:08:02.500 like I don't need it like great

01:08:04.900 I'll pick up another camera and start making videos that's what makes me

01:08:07.020 happy that sounds

01:08:08.980 like a dope documentary bro

01:08:10.220 before we sign off speaking of

01:08:12.840 documentaries chasing greatness I want

01:08:14.960 to ask you just one question so we made a doc as well

01:08:17.060 what's it about

01:08:18.640 it's coming out soon it's about

01:08:19.760 this is like

01:08:21.760 the shape of the earth which is what

01:08:23.720 by the way

01:08:24.480 round round yeah interesting

01:08:27.640 circle flat I don't know

01:08:29.460 interesting what did you say about the

01:08:31.520 flat F word right there

01:08:33.820 something to consider

01:08:35.880 thank you guys for

01:08:37.720 watching the impulsive podcast this is fun man

01:08:39.680 Lewis Howes ladies and gentlemen thank you

01:08:41.780 bro it's a blast of course of course

01:08:43.540 subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts

01:08:45.360 iTunes Spotify YouTube we're doing

01:08:47.700 an audio only Q&A with Lewis

01:08:49.360 which is audio only

01:08:51.920 after the visual ends

01:08:53.260 so yeah guys

01:08:54.120 have an amazing holiday

01:08:54.960 we have Farrah Abraham

01:08:55.980 coming on Friday

01:08:57.020 so you do not want

01:08:58.160 to miss that one

01:08:58.980 with that said

01:09:00.320 I will see you next time

01:09:01.440 take it easy fam

01:09:02.200 peace 0.98

01:09:02.860 Luis don't fucking move

01:09:05.040 I'm here

01:09:05.680 stay but don't move

01:09:07.120 whatever you do

01:09:07.940 my laptop died

01:09:09.220 so I don't

01:09:10.660 I can't

01:09:11.620 but I guess I could ask you

01:09:13.120 some questions

01:09:13.640 that I'm actually curious about

01:09:14.700 are you dating

01:09:15.500 are you in a relationship

01:09:16.820 dating

01:09:17.660 or relationship

01:09:18.480 I got a girlfriend 0.96

01:09:19.100 yeah she how long you been with that girl four and a half years almost now yeah she lives with

01:09:24.520 me we're yeah oh it's a thing where do you live by the way west hollywood yeah okay west hollywood

01:09:29.580 so logan's are you doing anyone huh so he's he's got an interesting opportunity that he tweeted

01:09:37.940 about oh an opportunity to well he's looking for some love oh i think yeah and now he's considering

01:09:45.780 hosting a bachelor

01:09:47.980 like our own

01:09:49.800 your own version of bachelor

01:09:50.940 what do you think of that

01:09:52.220 oh my gosh

01:09:52.740 I think it's pretty funny

01:09:54.300 this is Jeff

01:09:54.920 that you brought it up

01:09:56.020 have you talked to your brother

01:09:58.060 yeah Jake said he's

01:09:59.040 Jake goes

01:09:59.800 I'm in the middle of producing

01:10:01.320 the same exact thing

01:10:02.780 really

01:10:03.120 and like the one thing I can think is like

01:10:05.140 there's levels to this shit

01:10:07.520 like you're genuinely looking for love

01:10:10.760 that's cute

01:10:11.400 you're genuinely looking for love

01:10:12.460 no I'm not

01:10:13.400 Spencer stop saying that

01:10:14.600 you are

01:10:15.180 see he's defending he's defending i'm not i don't i'm not looking for love i can't be in love right

01:10:20.860 now i fell in love you said this before you you your last girlfriend right and then you're like

01:10:25.640 i can't stop it no bro i for me if i'm gonna be in love it's not because i'm looking it's like

01:10:32.920 dude i i love love but also i hate love i hate being in love i have things to do i can't be

01:10:38.240 i can't be in love it's so distracting but sometimes you just get swept off your feet

01:10:43.580 it did help me it was so necessary why did it end i thought you guys were like putting it out

01:10:49.020 there in the world of how much you loved each other and walking around with pigs and um

01:10:52.860 what happened i can't have you even talked about this openly i don't even know somewhat i also

01:10:57.960 can't really say i've uh on your end what what happened it's just not uh you know like like

01:11:04.280 well i well i'm being when did it end i'm being weird because literally today i got reprimanded

01:11:10.780 By her talking about our relationship.

01:11:12.860 And look at me doing it again.

01:11:14.600 You haven't said anything.

01:11:15.740 When did it end?

01:11:17.280 Two, three months ago.

01:11:19.200 But you guys were like, I thought you were like fully in love.

01:11:21.860 Fully.

01:11:22.600 Yeah.

01:11:23.460 What happened?

01:11:24.100 I mean, in your opinion with what you're allowed to say, what went wrong on your end?

01:11:29.600 In the most.

01:11:30.680 Don't talk about her.

01:11:31.540 What went wrong on your end?

01:11:32.400 In the most basic way possible, I am not emotionally available enough and cannot provide her with

01:11:39.360 the things she needs in a relationship not talking about like i'm talking about like i i am a very

01:11:46.220 busy focused determined young man little time who at 23 years old like yes being in love and having

01:11:52.700 a girlfriend is great it's not my focus i i you're building a brand exactly a mission i'm on i'm on

01:11:58.960 operation takeover right now and and uh being in love was great it happened swept me off my feet

01:12:04.880 and by the way was so necessary and crucial for my growth this year probably the most important

01:12:12.580 human being in my life this year did it help you a lot overcome those challenges

01:12:16.520 it helped me a lot is an understatement really it is like i said literally the most important

01:12:23.360 human being of my life this year wow um you still miss her of course yeah but would you want to still

01:12:31.140 be with her if you could if if i was capable of being in a relationship sure yeah yeah i'm just

01:12:36.000 not i just gotcha so if you're if you're unable to be in a relationship and you're folk you want

01:12:41.560 to focus on business if you're gonna create a bachelor show you can be in a relationship while

01:12:46.000 focusing on business how great is that yeah but what would your but then the girl at the end

01:12:51.220 is going to be with you and be like uh you're not available not available like i got i got

01:12:55.380 yeah it's yeah yeah that's the disclaimer hold on a second you've got to be like i really want 0.75

01:12:59.940 a fine girl calm down why do i need to be the bachelor you could produce it and have someone

01:13:05.660 else be the bachelor it's like spencer why can't i do that i'm already dating though because people 0.54

01:13:10.220 want to watch you spencer found love man he sucks because people want to they want to watch you 0.56

01:13:15.060 yes fuck they want to watch you yeah this is uh internal this is a struggle i also think like 0.84

01:13:23.260 man i'm a weird date like because well because i'm weird like not i don't people like weird i 0.53

01:13:30.880 can't really talk to girls my age there's one i found recently who's like who i actually can

01:13:35.480 like connect with the only girl by the way under the age of 25 26 that i like can vibe with i just

01:13:41.980 i don't operate i'm on a level that most girls do because i'm weird as fuck and i'm like driven

01:13:48.800 i'm that guy but also i'm driven and like intellectual and just this weird balance of 0.71

01:13:52.840 like blah blah blah so lewis where do you think you should like you've been dating for over four

01:13:57.760 years so in your 20s where should you be looking to find that or to create that my 20s i was just

01:14:03.520 looking to have fun yeah i think it happens but i was you know but i was a guy who was uh from the

01:14:09.500 midwest where everyone was looking to be in a relationship in their mid-20s right in ohio

01:14:13.120 it's like if you're not married by 27 you're weird yep yep and i just had a different mission

01:14:18.100 you know i went off to play pro football for a while and then when i was 24 25 i was sleeping

01:14:22.580 on my sister's couch because i was broke and got injured and um and then i was just like i need to

01:14:27.920 make something for myself before getting in a relationship maybe i could have done both and i

01:14:32.380 dated girls a little bit but i felt like i always outgrew them quickly like it was great for seven

01:14:37.180 months then i was like i'm bored are you like that with a lot of relationships in your life and don't

01:14:41.380 lie yeah i mean if the relationships not not no i'm not talking about just girls do you outgrow

01:14:47.200 the people around you quickly all the time and it's i hate saying that but i also want to grow

01:14:53.220 with people yeah now i have relationships and friends from the past that i still hang out with

01:14:57.320 but who maybe aren't like growing as fast or whatever or working on growth but they're just

01:15:02.400 good people and i like them in my life but there are so many relationships where i've just

01:15:06.120 we just kind of lose touch because they're doing different things and i'm building my thing so i

01:15:11.460 think take this with a grain of salt i think the next girl that i get in a relationship with is

01:15:18.800 gonna be my wife really yeah i like i that's that's how serious i take that like like a

01:15:26.540 relationship like you are my girlfriend i don't quite honestly and this could get like backlash

01:15:31.100 i don't really understand the point of relationships if you don't think you're gonna marry that person

01:15:35.840 why am i devoting all my time to you and telling you i love you and i think about you every second

01:15:40.780 of every day if i don't think you are the one and i'm sure there's answers to that question one of

01:15:45.460 which is i'm gonna i'm gonna say right now i found this out this year is uh it's good for you it's

01:15:50.100 good for your experience as a human being uh to learn to love and to be loved it's great for you

01:15:55.500 i just i don't know i'm fairly confident do you think you'll um be able to achieve the goal of

01:16:04.160 being the biggest entertainer in the world uh single or do you think you'll have to be married

01:16:10.020 in order for that to happen i think i could do it single but i think the girl who i end up being

01:16:17.040 with um will also be a powerhouse of a female who in her own regard not even entertainment 0.99

01:16:27.860 necessarily could be a girl dominating the philanthropy industry will will complete me 0.98

01:16:33.880 she will complete me it'll be a full 360 degree circle of fucking awesomeness yeah so i think i

01:16:39.300 I saw something Will Smith was talking about on the Red Table Talk show that he did that he was like, I knew that if I was just dating a bunch of girls, I would never be as big as if I had like one focus.

01:16:52.680 So he was fueled almost by the allure of being in a relationship that could make him.

01:16:58.640 He knew that like if he was not in a committed like long term marriage with the right person, not just like picking anyone, but it had to be the right person.

01:17:06.300 Like he would then just be chasing and it would distract him from his mission of being like the biggest star and being the best, you know, creator that he could be.

01:17:14.880 So there's something there.

01:17:15.840 I think it's like.

01:17:16.940 I had a revelation the other day.

01:17:19.520 came up with three things

01:17:21.840 that my future wife 0.99

01:17:23.340 is about. Ooh, what is that?

01:17:25.380 Let's hear them. One.

01:17:28.220 My future wife

01:17:29.220 I'll probably say this again. My future wife

01:17:31.420 is currently in a 0.93

01:17:33.640 relationship.

01:17:34.440 I can just feel it. I know it.

01:17:38.240 My future wife 0.80

01:17:39.100 will hate me 0.90

01:17:41.060 at first. She will

01:17:43.460 despise Logan Paul.

01:17:46.160 Then when I get to know her 0.69

01:17:47.620 number three she will not let me smash within the first month oh and that's gonna make you

01:17:56.040 wonder even more oh that's every relationship i've been in that's been the case they make me

01:18:01.620 wait and and then this is important because then you realize you're like look at your hands like

01:18:07.480 wow i'm hanging out with this person because i really like them not not because of the sex

01:18:11.740 this oh no oh no what's happening i'm so no and then if the sex is good

01:18:16.640 picture wrap wrap it up wrap it up and picture wrap yeah those are my three rules that's cool

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Impaulsive with Logan Paul - December 20, 2018

ACHIEVING CONFIDENCE, GOALS & SUCCESS WITH LEWIS HOWES - IMPAULSIVE EP. 16

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