00:43:59.580utilitarian feature on uh instagram but we but george's point right there was something that you
00:44:05.780and i talked about this morning as well in a different context that we don't need to get into
00:44:08.880but this idea that uh this idea that you will uh sacrifice your own mental health your own
00:44:17.720well-being to as to not uh upset or hurt someone i told you my friend there's a limit on it there's0.51
00:44:23.560a limit on it and you gotta know when to call it yeah i do it so i hyper empathetic you're a
00:44:29.380hyper empath yeah although it might not seem like it if he hurts someone's feelings it destroys him0.81
00:44:34.720it eats him alive like everyone has that thing that tears them fucking cell by cell apart and
00:44:42.500it's for him it's when he hurts someone's feelings i mean i sat with i we i know we said we would0.96
00:44:46.720touch on it one time never touch it again i sat with mac for a fucking hour after that whole thing0.85
00:44:51.560went down and i felt terrible about it even after having the conversation with him about0.99
00:44:55.680you know getting carried away or whatever i felt terrible like that kind of shit just fucking eats0.98
00:45:01.080me i'll sit in my room for the whole day people be like oh what's going on and i'm just like no0.99
00:45:05.120nothing i'm good but i told you to shut up do you remember this yeah the comments kept saying that0.63
00:45:09.680he was being mean to me and he texted me like eight times he talked about i'm like mike you0.82
00:45:13.240never did it shut up like stop i don't know what it is about why but you have to you you give you
00:45:21.380give a lot of your energy away which is awesome it's an awesome character trait except i'm telling
00:45:28.600you you have to know when to call it for your sake sometimes for the other person's sake sometimes
00:45:33.680for both it's uh it's a blessing and a curse it's one of those big time you got to know when to have
00:45:38.960balance with that for sure it's a great message i'm saying this is a great message for some people
00:45:43.740in the audience right now like there's someone in the a lot of people in the audience right now who
00:45:47.440are doing something in their lives sheerly because they don't want to upset someone else
00:45:53.560you know what i'm saying sheerly because they want to not upset someone not make someone sad
00:45:58.680not to not want to see someone cry and honestly it's it's just really tough because when you start
00:46:04.960to uh noticeably feel the effect that is that that is then having on you as a person and it's
00:46:13.180It really is. Energy is palpable. You start to feel a drain on your life force, you know, when you give that energy away to someone else to try to save them or cheer them up or not upset that person. And so to your point, I mean, at some point you just have to, uh, you have to take control and be selfish. Don't, don't be afraid. Don't be afraid to be selfish at times. Don't be afraid to do what is right for you because you cannot do what is right for others until you take care of yourself.
01:08:23.620so i just learned about so that's what i'm saying so is it for male or female or both both unisex
01:08:28.520a unisex cent okay so so so so okay it's hard what is the metric for success on this is it
01:08:38.760is it gross revenue do you think he made a million dollars selling perfume and is that a success
01:08:43.240female audience yeah i just don't i just think when you have a creator an amplifier a need step
01:08:52.100Jeff, please, when you have a creator, an amplifier, a needle mover like David, everything he touches should turn to gold 10 times over and back again.
01:09:02.980If pointed in the right direction, this kid could make waves beyond waves beyond waves on the biggest scale that any influencer has ever seen.
01:09:13.660But I'm sorry, a perfume line just doesn't do it for me.
01:13:02.380But I know, I don't know anything about what you just said about the pizza, but when you said pizza, and I imagined he's opening up a chain of like a pizza restaurant, or maybe like those frozen pizza things, I would go out and fucking taste his pizza.
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