Impaulsive with Logan Paul - February 08, 2019


THE GUYS WHO SAY “YES” TO EVERYTHING - IMPAULSIVE EP. 34

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1 hour and 41 minutes

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21,302

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00:01:03.420 The miles change how you move, but more importantly, they change how you show up for your life.
00:01:08.440 I'm Emily Abadi.
00:01:09.660 On the Hurdle with Emily Abadi podcast, I sit down with elite athletes, record holders, coaches, and everyday runners to unpack the mindset behind pushing through when things get tough.
00:01:19.280 because the discipline, grace, and grit you build out there on the pavement,
00:01:23.400 that's what helps you show up as your best self everywhere else.
00:01:26.920 I just love to say I never know who's watching.
00:01:28.940 So you want to make sure you you through and through
00:01:31.340 and you just stay true to who you are.
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00:01:39.800 On recent episodes of the Questlove show,
00:01:41.980 I chatted with JoJo about her music and WALO267 about his story
00:01:45.720 and everything in between.
00:01:47.220 Don't invite me to karaoke.
00:01:48.520 I'm going to make it weird 0.98
00:01:50.000 someone's going to try to sing
00:01:51.380 leave get out
00:01:51.920 or too little too late
00:01:52.700 or baby it's you
00:01:53.500 and I'm going to be like
00:01:55.300 okay cool
00:01:56.600 check out my conversation
00:01:58.000 with Jojo
00:01:58.640 WALO267
00:01:59.660 and more on the Questlove show
00:02:01.060 listen to the Questlove show
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00:02:08.080 peace
00:02:08.940 a friend of mine uses the analogy
00:02:11.060 of throwing your backpack
00:02:11.940 over the fence
00:02:12.680 it's like
00:02:13.120 if you know
00:02:14.220 if you know you want to go this way 0.78
00:02:15.320 and there's a big ass fence 0.90
00:02:16.220 that's in front of you 0.75
00:02:16.760 throw your backpack
00:02:17.460 because now your only option
00:02:18.480 to actually get on the other side.
00:02:20.320 I like that a lot.
00:02:21.480 I knew you'd like that, Logan. 0.99
00:02:22.340 Damn, I knew that. 0.99
00:02:30.660 Have you seen my hat anywhere? 1.00
00:02:32.240 You did.
00:02:32.720 You lost your hat.
00:02:33.520 I feel just...
00:02:35.520 Why are you tweaking about it?
00:02:36.500 Because I feel like something's missing.
00:02:37.860 And by the way, you know who made it?
00:02:39.920 Maverick.
00:02:40.700 By Logan Paul.
00:02:41.280 All our sponsors.
00:02:42.020 Oh my God.
00:02:42.860 Did you think to go in the merchandise store of the house?
00:02:46.140 It's like a limited hat.
00:02:47.980 i can't we don't have another one well you know what we do have more on logan paul.com
00:02:52.680 slash shot big shots by maverick by logan paul for sponsoring this episode and also welcome back
00:02:56.880 to impulsive the number one podcast in the world if you are not subscribed make sure to do so
00:03:02.780 hit that button join the impulsive family the squad the gang gang gang skirt thank you guys
00:03:09.540 for listening comment below what you think of the episodes like i said always and often we listen
00:03:14.400 and love by the way your feedback feeling good today second podcast of the day we're going to
00:03:20.120 a film festival and then celebrating celebrating evan's birthday in vegas later this week so we're
00:03:24.720 stacking them all up i have a pimple on my mouth though it hurts really are you zooming in i saw 0.90
00:03:30.040 you fucking twist your hand andre you're zooming in it's right here it's this one you're clearing 0.97
00:03:34.400 up though except i gotta say this is one of those bro that's the like that's the last stand well 1.00
00:03:38.960 it's gonna hit the mirror when i pop it you think you could pop a pimple with a pop zoom
00:03:42.660 from Andre's camera.
00:03:43.960 If you pop hard enough.
00:03:45.860 Yeah, you could.
00:03:46.520 Let's not do it.
00:03:47.580 Why don't you just stay wide?
00:03:49.140 Should we introduce the guys?
00:03:50.440 I would like to do nothing else.
00:03:51.960 All right, cool.
00:03:52.480 Hey, by the way, there's two of them today
00:03:53.520 that I'm about to bring on.
00:03:54.700 More than one.
00:03:55.280 They're an unlikely band of brothers
00:03:56.880 with over 3 million YouTube subscribers.
00:03:59.820 They've gone bungee jumping out of a helicopter
00:04:01.800 with Will Smith.
00:04:02.820 What?
00:04:03.240 Fooled the internet
00:04:04.260 with the fake Justin Bieber burrito prank.
00:04:06.960 And they say yes to everything.
00:04:10.520 Except drugs, I think.
00:04:11.760 ladies and gentlemen
00:04:13.160 it's yes theory
00:04:14.960 what's up boys
00:04:19.520 you guys
00:04:21.360 you guys don't say yes to drugs right
00:04:23.100 no
00:04:23.860 actually a lot of other things we don't say yes to
00:04:27.340 what else
00:04:28.760 anything that doesn't contribute
00:04:31.480 to like growth or doesn't have
00:04:33.180 a clear reason
00:04:35.580 and a why at the center of it
00:04:36.840 in and out cheeseburgers
00:04:37.960 maybe
00:04:40.240 Maybe, depending on the day.
00:04:41.800 You're not maybe theory.
00:04:43.320 Are you going to do the no headphones?
00:04:44.920 You don't have to.
00:04:45.520 I'm just saying that's bold.
00:04:47.320 Don't do it.
00:04:48.040 It's kind of a joke.
00:04:48.600 You don't have to.
00:04:49.280 You're the second guest to not wear headphones.
00:04:51.960 Steva was the first.
00:04:53.260 It's just too much.
00:04:54.640 I already hear your voices.
00:04:56.140 Too much in my ear.
00:04:56.880 Okay. 1.00
00:04:57.740 Fuck it. 1.00
00:04:58.520 How are you guys doing? 1.00
00:04:59.440 Thanks for coming to Encino.
00:05:01.200 Thanks for having us.
00:05:02.160 Of course.
00:05:02.720 Of course.
00:05:03.180 We're missing one.
00:05:04.820 Thomas.
00:05:05.540 Thomas.
00:05:05.700 Yes.
00:05:06.320 He's back home editing, working hard.
00:05:08.680 and uh what what happened the other day we're like you were supposed to come out for we had
00:05:13.520 our super bowl party right yeah what were you doing i was resting after like three days of going
00:05:18.420 non-stop uh turning our house into a hotel how'd that work one last actually the whole time we
00:05:26.340 were filming it it was like turning into a fire fest scenario seems a bit sketchy yeah but actually
00:05:32.180 we pulled it off and through collaboration and just like our close group of friends coming 0.74
00:05:36.660 together to help us out pull it off what if you came back and it was just a whorehouse 100 just 0.50
00:05:40.840 just prostitutes everywhere when did you ever think of that unintentionally your hotel house 0.90
00:05:47.760 turns into a whorehouse it happens to hotels all the time they gotta be real cautious with 0.98
00:05:52.140 no hotel yes that's not the kind of yes you get i didn't tell you why did you do that why did you
00:05:56.700 turn your house because this is actually our last week in that house we've been there ever since we
00:06:01.980 to venice about two and a half years ago and we have had our biggest moment of our lives most
00:06:08.140 transformation in that in that space is that the the apartment yeah no that's those that's the
00:06:12.680 big house with the backyard okay okay okay okay but um and we kind of we we've been abandoning
00:06:19.260 the inside of it for about a few months now since we moved out living and now we just work out of
00:06:24.640 there uh so the editing happens in the backyard so the inside was just a complete mess and for a
00:06:30.140 proper send-off and a goodbye for the house we wanted to clean the inside and actually make it
00:06:34.440 livable for more guests that are going to come and sleep the last how much money you make you
00:06:38.840 make you make you know so actually we the way we identified like the value of the room is we put a
00:06:43.300 bid out to the audience and and but the idea was to make someone think that that's what they're
00:06:47.980 going to pay but when they come we actually don't accept the payment because oh okay so someone the
00:06:52.020 offer was a thousand dollars someone wanted to pay a thousand dollars to come spend the night
00:06:55.580 there so that's we will you guys be there too when when they come say yeah yeah we already did
00:07:00.440 the episode and it was fun yeah it was great success fire so a great success very nice
00:07:05.440 next sunday on yes theory.com no you can plug i don't care they're gonna buy love and paul.com
00:07:10.840 um so so i i do want to address basically like who you guys are and what you do so yes theory
00:07:20.100 This is fucking awesome because, uh, subconsciously I've done this my whole life and you guys
00:07:27.480 like, uh, made it a brand and now it's seek discomfort is your slogan. 0.94
00:07:34.300 So yeah, do you want to give the, the, the spiel, which you've done a thousand times
00:07:38.360 about what yes theory is for sure?
00:07:40.720 Yeah.
00:07:40.880 So we, we believe that all the best things in life happen when you say yes.
00:07:45.160 And when you get out of your comfort zone, uh, we were all kind of in our own little
00:07:49.100 routines when we first met and we wanted to to find a way to just grow and push ourselves to the
00:07:55.040 limit and we figured that the best way to do that was just to seek discomfort in every way in every
00:07:59.620 facet of life for like from dating girls to uh meeting people that you really wanted to meet
00:08:05.900 and that you looked up to uh and just to yeah like to really really challenge yourself and even if
00:08:11.020 it's like a marathon or a 10k race like shit that just you would normally not do that you normally
00:08:16.220 say no to because that's the default to say no and i mean just like you said you've been doing 0.98
00:08:20.720 it for so long just like putting stuff out and like pushing yourself and like taking on stuff
00:08:25.480 that you don't think you'd be good at and uh and we made it kind of like our lifestyle our living
00:08:30.680 so just really really say yes fortunate that you found three of you that that believe in that you
00:08:36.680 believe in that logic how did you all meet we all met in montreal canada in the summer of 2015
00:08:42.200 very serendipitously the three of us were almost never supposed to meet but somehow
00:08:46.200 there we go yeah you're ready ready for this okay so uh i guess i'll start with where i was
00:08:53.240 at that point i was in montreal raising money for a tech startup that i had been working on
00:08:56.600 throughout college um realized that montreal wasn't the right place for me so wanted to
00:09:01.420 relocate to new york in my last week in montreal i was walking on the street just one night and i
00:09:07.360 heard uh just noise coming from a rooftop um it was the area where students that went to the
00:09:12.880 universities the big universities in montreal were living so i knew it was a student party
00:09:15.980 and i figured i might as well just pop in and like try and find a way to sneak in yeah 0.96
00:09:20.760 two girls walking down the street i was like hey there's a party going up there do you
00:09:24.660 want to check it out i i don't think they would let me go in my own but if you guys come that
00:09:29.700 will increase my chance smart that's a veteran that's a veteran nightclub all right it worked
00:09:34.300 veteran move it worked and then you know never saw them again after we after we we walked into
00:09:39.880 the to the to the rooftop start talking to people uh telling them about my story what I was up to
00:09:45.780 what I was trying to create and everybody was like oh you should meet Thomas you guys sound
00:09:49.060 very oh no way yeah you guys there's a lot of similarities here um about 20-25 minutes later
00:09:55.080 I end up meeting Thomas and there was an instant like just click in the way we bonded and the way
00:10:00.600 interacted and from there you know when you meet someone you're like ah this is there's something
00:10:06.240 interesting happening like you know you fall in love there's uh you fell in love with thomas yeah
00:10:11.680 big time big time just like i love my boys yeah exactly no problem hey didn't you didn't you just 0.64
00:10:17.220 huck a fucking marathon one day yeah as part of i love that he just left montreal and went straight 0.81
00:10:23.700 for the marathon welcome to impulsive that's literally why we named the show that we we both 0.99
00:10:29.060 have severe forms of adhd so i'm just i'm like remembering because we do have some history which
00:10:34.880 i'm sure we'll get into but i remember you telling me you're just like yeah i'm gonna run a marathon
00:10:37.780 i'm like i don't think you really just do that yeah but you oh you texted right you told him
00:10:42.680 yeah it was we had met right after the half marathon he was like wait you did the half
00:10:47.700 marathon you woke up and you're the half marathon i was like yeah and then later on in in march
00:10:52.020 we end up running end up running the la marathon and you just know training you just did a half
00:10:56.020 iron man i just did a half and this guy and i in what three months yeah pretty much three months
00:11:02.280 oh yeah he matt got me in to doing the santa rosa iron man y'all are doing it together
00:11:09.660 with aaron actually who is will smith's personal trainer who's really pushing us to the next level
00:11:15.920 yeah is eli doing that or is that no no just uh we're we've got a crew of three yeah okay so then
00:11:22.740 we're missing one still where's matt at this point it's you and thomas oh okay so i mean
00:11:28.720 wow this guy is crazy i'm like get get your head in the game bro i'm gonna keep on happening he's
00:11:36.500 an honest salesman life is a dry hand job man is that your tagline is uh yeah you just never 0.95
00:11:45.060 welcome back to impulsive where life is a dry hand job oh so where does matt come in um matt
00:11:50.800 comes in i meet thomas we have we established that connection thomas offers me a place to stay
00:11:55.600 in his apartment before i moved to new york i i go to stay with thomas for that first night and i
00:12:00.240 meet matt at the door and it was also an instant like just laughs high spirits good times right
00:12:05.780 away and then the first night we spent together it was just it's like magic was happening you make
00:12:11.480 this sound super i fell in love and the first time we spent together to him it was magical to you
00:12:16.340 guys it's like another night it's like no problem no i'm more i feel like you're you're pretty in
00:12:21.320 touch with your emotions right yeah i love it it's the only way to do life right do remember do
00:12:25.960 remember so so um you guys came to my house this house and you shot a video living with logan paul
00:12:32.120 for 24 hours yes um and we like we didn't know much about each other and then you stuck around
00:12:37.680 and helped me shoot a couple days while brendan was was out and at dinner you were the only sober
00:12:43.420 one in that trip to andy's family's house and you were just on a roll bro and that's when i was like 0.96
00:12:49.580 damn this is like a magical fucking human being so um i'm glad you guys were able to connect uh 0.78
00:12:55.660 because of a a common belief and i don't think uh a lot of people realize the power of of positivity 0.99
00:13:03.560 and affirmation saying yes um is there a limit is it what like if something's involves like seek
00:13:11.720 discomfort if you're in physical discomfort is that a yes still like should i be seeking to tear 0.64
00:13:17.880 my acl like is there mike has been shitting blood at what point does he say i haven't been it was
00:13:23.700 kind of just like one thing that just popped up i've drawn a correlation between that and uh
00:13:27.800 heavy partying and so i'm starting to kind of tone it down a little bit but uh good yeah yeah where
00:13:34.060 do you draw the line like is it physical is it physical uh deformity or like being maimed by
00:13:38.660 your yeses like where is it uh where do we draw the line i think when the i think when it becomes
00:13:44.920 i mean just near death you know is when we're like okay we've i mean we've recently had an
00:13:51.120 experience where it was kind of that situation where we're like okay maybe we're pushing it a
00:13:55.720 little too far uh where we were in poland with wim hoff who's a big uh breathing coach you just
00:14:01.980 did this right we just did this yeah and he he taught us kind of taught us over four days and
00:14:07.300 he was this incredible guy and on the last day uh it was this big mission to go to the mountaintop
00:14:12.180 and it was negative 20 celsius and we were going to do it in shorts with snow up to pretty much
00:14:17.000 our kneecaps uh and we were all excited in the beginning like wim does this all the time so
00:14:21.480 we're comfortable doing it you know i don't think and it starts snowing and two hours of climbing
00:14:26.980 later and it's so cold like the the ski lifts to the top have been shut down there's no skiers like
00:14:34.900 it's too windy it's too cold and we're up there in negative 20 with just like trying to keep our
00:14:39.780 hands warm like this you know uh and even wim that was like we need to turn back and we're like
00:14:45.940 we're so far even wim hoff was cold we were like what this is not a good sign are you allowed to
00:14:54.100 say this i mean yeah well the episode is not no no no i mean it was really it was really uh intense
00:15:00.000 like abnormally cold that day but luckily we found a cabin uh that was just randomly there
00:15:05.500 and wim hof is the dude that like swims underneath ice banks and and chills in frozen bathtubs for
00:15:11.560 hours on it he's got pretty much every world record in regards to okay human endurance for
00:15:16.320 the cold so i feel like you're saying you lost phalanges of some sort you have all your fingers
00:15:20.320 it was close it was close yeah we're gonna call a veto on the rest of what happened for that
00:15:24.060 because it's not released he's saying too much and i'm like that's fine that's another thing
00:15:29.660 though where's the where's the balance like how to balance i'm from ohio you know it's a major
00:15:33.940 challenge sometimes talent great talent uh thomas like why did he get stuck with editing today how
00:15:40.180 do you guys uh figure out who's doing what uh we kind of have like uh we circulate so let's say
00:15:45.900 there is an episode that requires traveling we just see which two have the most energy to do that
00:15:50.980 and these two go do it and then one one of us subs one of the two that traveled ends up subbing
00:15:55.780 for the other for the following week this way none of us burn out and all of us can have time to
00:16:00.600 do other things that are not just filming videos and actually take care of ourselves which is
00:16:05.460 i mean that was our biggest realization of 2018 self-care and how it will be yeah so you guys
00:16:11.160 you guys actually do other stuff because we we're pretty much just working you guys actually do
00:16:17.620 other stuff yeah i mean you have like what's that question you have like you have like lives
00:16:21.780 outside of filming and podcasts yeah yeah yeah what's that what's that like what is it what is
00:16:26.980 that like man because having a life all we do is nothing all we do is podcast film vlog no we drink
00:16:33.020 sometimes whatever sometimes um you've been working me to the bone you still sober yeah that's good
00:16:39.780 what about you i drink very very little yeah how about you uh once a week nice sometimes twice
00:16:47.100 sometimes five times a week sometimes doing seven days a week well i drink all the time i remember
00:16:51.620 one of the first times we met we were on top of a hotel i don't know if you remember this i do
00:16:55.480 remember that i do remember that and we we went to go uh like take a shot just to celebrate you
00:17:00.980 know and i remember you're like nah i'm good yeah it depends it's uh it's depends what part of my
00:17:05.860 life i'm in yeah and uh we just did a whole month we did yeah we did a whole month of sober vegan
00:17:11.040 Wow
00:17:11.740 And then you
00:17:13.660 And then you
00:17:14.240 Broke your fast on
00:17:15.240 Oh my god
00:17:17.380 That looked just
00:17:18.120 You saw that
00:17:19.000 Are you vegan
00:17:19.980 No I'm not
00:17:20.940 Oh but it's still
00:17:21.760 But it's still like
00:17:22.600 Kind of
00:17:23.580 I love that these two guys
00:17:25.400 Are vegan
00:17:25.820 Oh they were happy
00:17:27.480 The filmers were vegan
00:17:28.500 Of that scene
00:17:29.760 Spencer or Andre
00:17:31.360 The morning of goes
00:17:32.400 I'm not gonna lie dude
00:17:33.320 I've been dreading
00:17:34.360 Filming this
00:17:35.000 I'm just like
00:17:35.920 I understand
00:17:36.560 It's kind of like gross
00:17:37.980 But
00:17:38.280 It was tough
00:17:39.480 I was like
00:17:40.000 When I saw it
00:17:40.460 I was like
00:17:41.040 Come on, Logan, take it easy.
00:17:43.460 Just in all honesty, I was like...
00:17:45.120 Well, that's why I ask where you draw the line
00:17:46.640 because my yes theory doesn't end.
00:17:48.360 Like literally, like you say
00:17:50.140 when it comes to near-death experiences.
00:17:52.240 That's like the extreme of that.
00:17:53.820 But I think where we draw the line
00:17:54.940 is when we feel that the discomfort that we're seeking
00:17:57.480 or like on the other side of that,
00:17:59.140 we won't necessarily come out with any perspective
00:18:02.840 or lesson learned that can impact the rest of our life.
00:18:05.260 What about the legacy?
00:18:07.120 The legacy of what?
00:18:08.060 Of having dance?
00:18:08.820 I mean, we'll leave that to other people, right?
00:18:10.480 like there's other people who are who just want to do these things all the crazy i mean
00:18:14.320 a lot of people draw inspiration from jackass for that kind of thing obviously you know a lot of
00:18:19.480 respect for jackass for having inspired so many people to pick up a camera but that's not necessarily
00:18:22.680 what we're going we're going for we go for we go for stuff that is that can actually have a 0.81
00:18:28.560 transformative element of the experiences that we go through and and by telling these stories on
00:18:34.000 camera we can allow people to have like to access those experiences just like they were there with
00:18:39.360 this it's awesome dude and in uh in my research for you guys i sort of reached the conclusion that
00:18:45.860 your approach to life is a lot more wholesome than mine i'm a bit aggressive like um in your
00:18:54.800 2018 year review video um when you were talking about how everyone told you like you can never do
00:19:00.760 like an ensemble youtube group and your your response to that was well why not try my response
00:19:06.780 is like fuck you watch me you know like i'm a little bit more like i don't know why i just feel 0.95
00:19:11.620 like i gotta go so much i mean you're both saying well you're both saying the same thing it's just 0.98
00:19:17.080 you're saying it in different ways you know i mean yeah yeah i agree so like okay alex honnold
00:19:22.980 the dude who uh free soloed al capitan yeah that's too far for y'all uh say you were really
00:19:29.980 good despite the physical i think uh as he said in the in the film free solo that's more of a
00:19:36.020 to be on that level to want to take on a challenge like that that's that's more of a spiritual
00:19:40.060 journey that you go through and that's and free solo as a concept for just across extreme sports
00:19:45.860 you don't really ask someone why they're doing it or because they get to the point where they just
00:19:50.600 realize that that's where they're going to get satisfaction so you you don't question and you
00:19:54.220 let them do their thing obviously free so we would never ever be in a situation where one mistake
00:19:59.080 will lead to death um we try and take you know safety precautions and the things we do except
00:20:05.140 for this last one thing we did.
00:20:07.620 You didn't wear gloves?
00:20:09.240 No.
00:20:09.680 No gloves.
00:20:10.260 No, okay.
00:20:10.960 He's not nothing.
00:20:11.800 I was in Speedos, actually.
00:20:13.100 But that's for the episode.
00:20:15.540 Which you can find on
00:20:16.660 youtube.com slash yesterday.
00:20:19.200 I saw one that I liked from you guys
00:20:21.900 where you tried to survive
00:20:23.520 on Tinder matches.
00:20:24.960 Yeah.
00:20:25.380 Of course he watched that, Michael.
00:20:26.400 It spoke to me.
00:20:27.100 Of course.
00:20:27.440 Oh, he loves to.
00:20:28.380 If anything on the channel,
00:20:30.580 we've had three years
00:20:31.440 of catalog of episodes.
00:20:32.380 No, but I've seen all.
00:20:33.600 I've seen a ton of other guys' stuff,
00:20:35.000 But that one, that one, uh, I watched recently and I found it particularly interesting.
00:20:38.680 How did you, uh, how'd you come up with the idea for that one?
00:20:41.580 Uh, we were in Europe at the time and we have, so the people always ask us how we come up
00:20:45.980 with ideas.
00:20:46.420 We have Monday brainstorms every Monday we sit together for about two hours and then
00:20:50.240 we have a prompt or not.
00:20:52.060 We just sit down and try and think of what is the funnest thing that we can do that still
00:20:57.440 can still bring value and something that we'd really enjoy doing.
00:21:00.500 Yeah.
00:21:01.200 And obviously when I say fun, it's fun within the context of seeking discomfort because
00:21:04.580 that's that has to be the most the consistent thing that people keep coming back to um so for
00:21:10.400 that one it was more of just having a spin on how do we how do we do a travel episode with an interest
00:21:15.860 with an interesting spin on it how do you really how do you really get to seek discomfort and the
00:21:20.360 idea was i personally had never had any success on tinder um what do you define as success on tinder
00:21:27.340 what does tinder success look like um to you like finding connection and stuff i mean no who finds
00:21:33.320 connection that's not tinder that might be that might be bumble dude my first my first i had two
00:21:38.460 girlfriends and i my first one we actually met on on tinder and it was it was my only for only
00:21:44.020 and first tinder match wow yeah so hey that's kind of only one this is where i draw the line
00:21:50.240 we're not talking about um but so yeah we were just finding it like trying to find an interesting
00:21:58.120 spin on travel something that would obviously resonate with a global audience where you know
00:22:02.940 i mean you know as youtube you try and think of the packaging of the concepts that you try and
00:22:07.080 put out and we knew that tinder can be a really good way to to bring in people who are curious
00:22:11.920 about it which end up being like it ended up being true people were so interested in that
00:22:15.860 concept because everybody was like oh look at these guys using a dating app to actually you
00:22:20.360 know travel around and get score things for free so i don't understand you'd match with someone
00:22:24.900 and then be like yo by the way can i sleep over and like meet your parents also we would it took
00:22:30.320 so many swipes
00:22:31.400 to even get one match.
00:22:33.040 It was bad.
00:22:33.620 Whose face did you use?
00:22:34.600 I was like,
00:22:34.920 that's when I stopped using.
00:22:36.020 Gotta use this guy.
00:22:36.980 We did use this guy
00:22:38.080 and I just took care
00:22:39.060 of captioning.
00:22:39.940 They don't know
00:22:40.320 he does the voiceover
00:22:41.060 for Yes Theory?
00:22:42.000 That's not me.
00:22:42.800 It's not even me. 1.00
00:22:43.320 Shut up. 1.00
00:22:44.260 Your voice is so soothing though. 0.99
00:22:45.400 Thank you, dude.
00:22:45.880 Thank you.
00:22:46.780 You know,
00:22:47.040 when you talk real close
00:22:47.900 to the mic.
00:22:48.580 Thank God I'm not wearing that.
00:22:51.740 So yeah,
00:22:52.380 we end up,
00:22:53.240 again,
00:22:53.700 Tinder end up being
00:22:54.340 the concept
00:22:55.100 and we would match with,
00:22:56.820 I took Matt's profile
00:22:58.040 and I,
00:22:58.400 and i well amara is the better texter i'm not very good at texting so i would be the face of it
00:23:04.420 yeah he'd play the cute and then i would do the talking you sure this is illegal or legal guys
00:23:09.440 is this some sort of catfish no no no well we would explain like hey we are we're doing this
00:23:16.400 challenge where we try and survive three days across three european cities based on the kindness
00:23:20.980 and spontaneity of strangers and we're doing that through tinder we have guys and girls like in our
00:23:26.220 range like it's not just like we're not just going for girls actually the last person that
00:23:29.240 helped us in barcelona uh was a guy that we matched with in a tinder social when that's
00:23:35.560 when that was a thing to like make to be friends to be friends yeah um so yeah we were just like
00:23:40.660 fully optimizing uh tinder at that point to try and find people to host did they did they pay you
00:23:46.460 for the partnership it was all it was all it was all just because they're those guys are spending
00:23:49.840 big money i'm not an influencer right now that man both of them yeah well tinder we owe us money
00:23:55.720 we've talked about um quite a few times on the show about how there's a lot of negativity in
00:24:04.300 the world people focus on negativity yes and there's not that many deep stuff
00:24:07.800 there's not that many people that focus on positivity some people think and i've always
00:24:14.620 been against that i think there's so many people who love positive content positivity so how have
00:24:19.860 you guys capitalize off that? How have you found the, you know, the world of positivity to really
00:24:26.660 actually consume content? Well, I think it's just, it's, it comes more naturally. I think
00:24:32.020 when you meet people, especially when you travel, 99% of people are positive. 99% of people have
00:24:37.860 nice, like even when we were doing the Tinder thing, I mean, girls trusted us to crash at
00:24:42.420 their places. That's crazy to me, man. And, but also the way, not to, I'm going to bench
00:24:48.500 the way you said it Amar using the words kindness and spontaneity of strangers like you've scripted
00:24:54.600 out like what gets the best reaction I'm sure from strangers at this point yeah I mean at that
00:24:58.660 point where like there's so much trial and error and what we do and actually understanding what's
00:25:03.060 the best angle to have a to have an ask yeah especially a crazy one yeah like the ones we
00:25:07.880 are always asking people so in a way it was like every time we did an episode like this it was
00:25:12.960 training for the next one so that now i can go up to anyone and know exactly how to project my
00:25:18.880 energy in a way that that expresses my intention which is always positive and never to be malicious
00:25:24.340 towards anyone and and then actually hopefully get a positive response from them uh because of
00:25:30.160 the reception to my my energy when i ask them i always wonder how like my response would be like
00:25:36.620 if i didn't know you or anything about you like if he came up to you and was like yo um can i
00:25:43.180 spend a night at your house because i'm traveling across los angeles like what there i i feel like
00:25:48.780 i'd say yes they're always to me like there's just certain people that are just received better than
00:25:54.940 others like you like i met you tonight i went out to shake your hand it wasn't a handshake it was a
00:25:59.180 hug it turned right into a hug and it's like i think i i pride myself in being one of those
00:26:02.760 people too i enter every room with a smile and how are you how you doing today like hope your day
00:26:06.480 is going well and usually i'm making a joke and making people laugh or whatever and so um if he
00:26:11.160 you know if either of these two guys came up to me and said you know hey listen like uh i don't
00:26:15.520 have any money but i'd match with you on tinder that probably wouldn't happen but it could you
00:26:20.220 know whatever maybe on tinder social but uh yeah i think i would be like yo let's get lunch like 1.00
00:26:24.480 what's there if you did but no i'm saying you're a big bro like ohio kid like yeah but fuck you 0.99
00:26:29.980 all right i could no because i smile yes hey i think it comes with like an agenda oh damn that 0.99
00:26:35.740 smiles good it is good it comes with an agenda too you feel free to take it but it comes with 0.88
00:26:42.000 like if you come into something with like a freeloading agenda then you like people feel
00:26:46.440 that but if you're coming in and you're like genuine just a positive person you want to
00:26:50.460 experience good things in the world and like that's what i was thinking i think it's more 0.94
00:26:54.420 uh about the type of person that you're asking like bro you're you you're cool as fuck dude like
00:27:01.080 it wouldn't there's no ill will and not to be cynical but how often are you meeting people who
00:27:06.040 are just closed-minded to everything or in america probably than when you're abroad right um
00:27:12.220 it's funny i think at this point we know walking i feel in the past definitely but now walking on
00:27:19.640 the street we kind of know who our people are really yeah it's like it's a very instinctual
00:27:25.200 at least for me when i go up to ask people you can kind of always tell body language the way
00:27:29.840 you're carrying yourself your posture like there's all these different signs of your awareness as a
00:27:34.140 human and how you walk that then because because of also trial and error i have seen enough people
00:27:39.240 that i've said no and i've seen enough people that i've said yes to kind of establish a like
00:27:44.500 a baseline for where do i find success is the smile the biggest giveaway oh yeah it has to be
00:27:50.040 For sure.
00:27:51.560 My smile?
00:27:52.800 Any smile.
00:27:55.020 Any smile.
00:27:56.920 I mean, people, people, I would love to see people just spending more time smiling, dude.
00:28:01.500 It is like the ultimate icebreaker, warbreaker, like peacekeeper, like just walking into a room with that like grin on your face and just like a real happy, like positive attitude.
00:28:12.700 Like it just I've never I don't think there's anything else in the world that's as infectious as a good smile.
00:28:18.180 Absolutely.
00:28:18.460 You know, definitely.
00:28:19.140 Well, I think a lot of people are just walking around pretty lonely and pretty sad a lot of the time and don't feel necessarily like they're part of a community.
00:28:29.240 And any opportunity to have that kind of interaction, I think, will make people's days, you know.
00:28:35.120 And then we bring those people into our community and we have like an episode with them and we get to know them.
00:28:39.760 And a lot of them will say like, well, I mean, either start crying or just, you know, tell us like, I've never, this is like, this has made my year.
00:28:46.880 I've never experienced anything like this.
00:28:48.300 And the way they felt included and they felt like they belonged to something and they were just fully able to be present in an experience.
00:28:54.960 And I think just adding on what Matt is saying, I think so many things in life are now pushing us away from the true spirit of human connection and how we're supposed to interact with each other as a human race to actually be able to survive all the challenges that we're going to have.
00:29:09.460 and with yes theory we just really try to bring it back to that to the basics of how we connect
00:29:16.640 as humans and and and what's the what's the code for when you're out in public and you're
00:29:21.500 presenting yourself how do you ask people for things because i mean our whole message is just
00:29:26.560 ask if you want something just ask for it always say that to people and and oftentimes i so i say
00:29:32.220 that to people when they ask me so yo can you shout me out on instagram i always say no but at least
00:29:38.380 I'm saying that instead of, like, leading them on or something.
00:29:40.800 I'll be like, nah, man, it's kind of not my thing.
00:29:42.880 But always ask, by the way, because you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
00:29:47.040 Logan, can you shout it out on Instagram?
00:29:49.120 We're going to.
00:29:50.400 I mean, for you guys, obviously, I'll do it.
00:29:53.020 I'm just saying, you know, you get the random, like, bartender who's like,
00:29:56.660 yo, by the way, just throw me on that tag.
00:29:58.860 I'm like, I don't know you.
00:30:00.740 But always ask.
00:30:02.820 It's funnier when they tell them to follow them.
00:30:04.800 Like, can you follow me on Instagram?
00:30:06.340 He's like, I don't follow anybody on Instagram.
00:30:07.680 What message do you feel like you guys are trying to push now?
00:30:10.440 Like, what do you feel like your focus is?
00:30:12.100 It's always the same.
00:30:13.180 It's always the same, dude.
00:30:14.420 I am so, so passionate about doing your own thing, staying in your lane, being different
00:30:19.880 and not being afraid to do that.
00:30:22.300 And I always have been ever since I was young.
00:30:25.880 And especially now, dude, like I've been, I've been counted out.
00:30:31.540 I feel like right now, I feel like I'm an underdog right now.
00:30:34.420 and now's the time where it's like trust it trust the vision and as long as i keep believing in
00:30:40.520 myself what i'm what i know i'm good at or believe that i believe myself to be good at
00:30:46.640 um it's gonna be all right dude and i i think to that just make sure you've got the right people
00:30:52.280 around you because big facts people that are gonna make sure that your own judgment of all that is
00:30:57.380 yes correct and i think i mean and i texted you after you posted your own um your year in review
00:31:04.060 and i you know said good job on yeah what you did because i feel yeah definitely you are you
00:31:10.160 know your message is all about doing your own thing and and being different and i feel your
00:31:15.720 your tone of how you communicate that message has evolved a lot yeah for that like props to you
00:31:20.860 keep it going keep doing the positive thing thank you thank you stay away from big burgers and
00:31:25.220 wasting food i have a question it's a it's a it's a bit sensitive uh but i think we're here
00:31:36.780 i want to ask you guys this when you did the uh when you guys lived in my house
00:31:42.020 for 24 hours or whatever i was in like i was in like prime vlog mode yeah like daily vlog
00:31:49.120 um and it's hard for me to even look back and reminisce about what i was like
00:31:55.520 like i i watched the content i'm like you were crazy this kid i was crazy i was crazy i was
00:32:02.300 i was cringy is like not all the time but a lot of times i was just like and i i look at it i'm 0.82
00:32:07.460 like oh fuck like i now see what people are saying i see what i got let me let me draw the
00:32:12.580 picture here matt and i matt bc and i walk into logan's house this house and the first thing that 0.98
00:32:18.340 i see is logan in the kitchen just grabbing a plate and just throwing it across literally any
00:32:24.240 of the shadows could fly into someone's shin or damn i was like where the fuck did we just walk 0.89
00:32:29.520 into i was so overwhelmed but then it's funny because what matt and i were talking about this 0.96
00:32:34.080 in the car about like what that was like actually because that experience of being here at your
00:32:38.100 house where that day was very different from when we went to andy's house up in seattle and actually
00:32:42.720 got to see yeah side of logan that like i don't think the world has necessarily seen like yeah
00:32:48.600 very vulnerable like we had very real conversations about childhood and about upbringing and all that
00:32:53.960 so yeah so my question is um because yeah it's like it's so interesting like when a camera was
00:32:59.860 shoved in my face then i not shoved in my face i did it i guess by myself but self-shoved did you
00:33:06.200 guys see any red flags did anything click in your mind that said this operation could go off the
00:33:16.120 rails it's a spicy question like by filming with you no no no not for you i'm saying like when you
00:33:22.080 looked at my life because i look at some youtubers now and people i know in my life and i'm like
00:33:28.000 this is bound for failure unfortunately like i see the exact pattern mindset that i was in
00:33:36.000 and there is no solve besides shooting yourself in the foot um and i'm i don't know you guys are
00:33:42.700 smart guys and you obviously have a good read on people so i'm i'm just asking did you see anything
00:33:47.360 that uh alerted you about the way i was acting or anything or did you just think oh this guy's
00:33:54.340 crazy and there's no right answer uh my answer is yes yes yeah I need you to elaborate uh and why
00:34:02.720 did you tell me bro um because I didn't know like I think we we kind of went a little bit into it
00:34:09.740 when we were in Seattle and I mean again your life was so driven by what you have to do every day
00:34:15.840 that you don't there's no time in the setting of your mind where you can pay attention to all these
00:34:19.860 other things that you know if you didn't pay attention to yeah it would make you get to the
00:34:24.840 place that you end up getting to um i think the biggest red flag for me was 0.98
00:34:28.760 oh fuck this is i don't want to be you know having a dude bro say it like that's why i wanted no i 0.97
00:34:37.860 just thought that there is a lot of people around you that were around you just for the clout of 0.99
00:34:44.440 you know i'm around logan and he's he's the shit right now and he's the biggest and he has the 0.94
00:34:48.940 biggest highest numbers but as i looked at just like feeling the energy around and seeing the 0.95
00:34:55.000 people you're interacting with like are they necessarily caring about actually logan and
00:35:00.300 and what he's up to and where the path that he's on is leading him to i don't think so because
00:35:05.840 he's still doing that same thing every day and it's actually getting more intense yeah um
00:35:09.700 so like you know having having people around you that don't necessarily challenge your
00:35:14.300 opinions or the ideas that you're putting forward and just being yes men to you know your 0.62
00:35:18.820 oh yeah let's do it like fucking do it yeah logan let's go yeah like you definitely want people that 0.53
00:35:24.320 that be like dude are you sure you want to do that yeah yeah yeah what did you consider this 0.96
00:35:28.520 thing or that person that might be hurt by you saying that thing and then but again like you
00:35:33.640 know as i as we've gotten to know like spencer not too much mike we today was the first time
00:35:38.080 but like i can i can already see just better people being around you and this is not at all
00:35:44.200 about anyone specific i'm not like yeah trying to no i get i mean i mean bro look around the the
00:35:48.820 crew when you guys there's no there's no one here that's the same and again not to like point
00:35:52.900 fingers or anything but you're absolutely right and also i think it is on me too because i was in
00:35:58.760 such a tunnel and i urge you guys i mean you guys got great heads on your shoulders i don't think
00:36:03.880 you'll ever run into this but i was in a tunnel where i didn't really care i was like yeah
00:36:09.060 getting views i'm getting money i don't get like i know what i'm doing um no where did you see it
00:36:15.040 at the time where'd you see it going like from where you were to where you wanted to go there
00:36:18.960 was no end man like uh never thought about it never thought about it it was just can i go harder
00:36:25.240 and harder every day and um yeah i did and eventually led to just like a crazed mindset
00:36:31.260 that literally was just not thinking straight yeah i think for your vibe attracts your tribe
00:36:37.580 you made a lot of changes after january to attract yeah it started with you actually a much higher
00:36:43.440 level yeah yeah with with filming but i i the thing i noticed in you because i knew you pre-january
00:36:50.780 i've known you for a few years and i knew you after um the thing i've noticed for you that i
00:36:57.440 think you might have missed of like what made you great is your ability to break rules and obviously
00:37:04.340 you took that to some extremes. Like I'm not condoning everything, but your ability to go
00:37:09.420 against what society deems as like the standard is what makes you great. And that's what pisses
00:37:15.800 so many people off, you know, cause you're living this lifestyle that, you know, most people living
00:37:21.200 in the nine to five or like that typical, you know, grind and just doing things. They're not
00:37:27.120 used to it. They're not able to do that. And so I think that's what makes you great. And I think
00:37:31.240 You're now post-January figuring that out and you're saying, wait, wait, wait, okay, I'm great.
00:37:36.820 Now I just need to make sure I do it in a way that I can pass that on to other people, which is, I think that's a great process to be a part of.
00:37:44.920 And I do think the best way to do that is, I mean, through the people, when I first met Spencer, we met, what, like four months ago?
00:37:50.440 Yeah, about that.
00:37:51.740 At our, like an event we threw and you told me, you were like, yeah, I'm Logan Paul's cinematographer.
00:37:57.120 It's like, what?
00:37:58.380 Wait a second.
00:37:58.920 You just seem like the chillest dude on the planet.
00:38:01.240 That's why we need him, bro.
00:38:02.660 Spencer's been a great influence in my life.
00:38:05.040 And in my life, too.
00:38:06.480 Absolutely.
00:38:07.180 He's incredible.
00:38:07.580 The whole house, man.
00:38:08.560 He brought in Andre.
00:38:09.380 We love Andre.
00:38:10.620 Both of them.
00:38:11.800 The mindfulness committee.
00:38:13.200 I'm going to flip this right now because I don't want to make this about me.
00:38:16.740 I was just curious because, yeah, I do really value your guys' minds.
00:38:22.160 And that's why during a time when, as I said, I was about to touch his hand.
00:38:25.180 I was about to get a little.
00:38:28.040 Amar's got some good stuff, bro.
00:38:29.180 He's just love.
00:38:29.700 it's all love it's all love dude i respect it um no that's why like i thought and i was kind of 0.97
00:38:37.180 like pissed at the youtube community for it's like people just won't find someone to just shit
00:38:42.980 on because they have nothing necessarily better to do and obviously your name at the time was 0.78
00:38:46.840 getting views and you know anything that is being said about you and we talked about this for a bit
00:38:50.420 during yeah um but it's like well how is as as a community of creators and as someone who drives
00:38:57.140 who has so much influence that so many kids are listening to is our only response to someone 0.94
00:39:02.780 fucking up going to be for us to shit on them even more and make them feel terrible about 0.97
00:39:06.820 themselves that's why like i always try in in opportunities where you do something um where 0.99
00:39:12.080 you do something for you know that is positive or good like yeah to add that positive reinforcement
00:39:16.640 to your behavior because i felt that is according to us that yes theory like being a good friend is
00:39:22.980 the best most efficient way to change the world dude one of the one of the worst things that
00:39:27.740 happened with all that is a lot of those people that that brought hate and didn't bring any like
00:39:33.180 actionable intelligence like this is how you can do better like it was just blind hate were people 0.88
00:39:37.560 that fucking ate off his plate bro you know what i'm saying like a lot of those friends that 0.97
00:39:41.340 disappeared were people that are still eating to this day off a plate that he made for him you 0.99
00:39:45.420 know what i'm saying and so like it that was tough to watch i want horrible to watch i want to i want
00:39:50.440 to take this macro conversation because it's like big big thoughts and go and go a little more micro
00:39:55.280 and because like i do see a lot of myself in you guys and that's why i i love your stuff when you
00:40:00.700 made that justin bieber uh burrito prank like i texted you i go you guys won that's it how do you
00:40:07.200 stomach um approaching people and for those of you who do not know like these guys will go up
00:40:13.820 to strangers and ask them to go like skydiving uh you like list off the things you've done
00:40:19.060 with strangers skydiving to skinny dipping to going on a road trip on the spot to uh flying
00:40:24.880 across the world flying across the world this is crazy yeah it was like a wide range of are you
00:40:29.900 ever nervous or does it hurt you when they say no it doesn't hurt me it makes me happy that
00:40:37.040 that i that is that what we do has such a natural uh filtering system that whoever says no isn't
00:40:43.980 the right person for what we're asking anyways so it becomes more of like well cool you're not
00:40:48.500 you're not that you're not that person yet and then it it's it pushes you more to be like well
00:40:53.140 now i'm even more curious on seeing who's gonna say yes so in a way it's never a disappointment
00:40:59.280 i mean one year spend three weekends in a row trying to find a lyft driver or an uber driver 0.98
00:41:04.640 to say yes to going it was going skydiving whoa uh at some point you're like well fuck like all 0.97
00:41:11.100 these people are saying no do you ever start asking am i just not being a good salesman with 0.98
00:41:16.500 this sometimes i realize that the asks that we have are so crazy and so out of out of out of
00:41:22.900 the realm of like what someone can understand on the spot and and you know and in a moment of like
00:41:28.100 pitching to them what it is but those were those are usually the ones where we meet like our best
00:41:33.400 friends because it was crazy enough that they said yes to it and and then now we are just people who
00:41:39.420 are on the same frequency who won the same thing out of life that's why they said yes um and usually
00:41:45.240 Also, the pattern that we found is the people who need an explanation for what this is for, because the camera is on, because there's obviously a camera there, are not really the people that end up doing the things with us.
00:41:57.060 It's mostly the people that say yes and then figure it out later.
00:42:00.080 People, a friend of mine uses the analogy of throwing your backpack over the fence.
00:42:03.660 It's like, if you know you want to go this way and there's a big-ass fence that's in front of you, throw your backpack because now your only option is to actually get on the other side.
00:42:11.120 I like that a lot.
00:42:12.340 I knew you'd like that. 0.99
00:42:13.180 Damn, I do. 0.98
00:42:13.820 not really like is that a shirt uh have you made merch throw your backpack 0.97
00:42:18.640 something about um so so yeah it's like you know those people who just say yes and then figure out
00:42:27.260 even with will smith that's even from from aaron his story of being there and for the people that
00:42:32.560 were around him the instant he saw the challenge video he was like yes i'm doing i'm gonna do that
00:42:37.820 and then later on and then he started asking the questions how many times has this been done
00:42:42.200 is this even a possibility yeah has anyone died from this before like all these questions just
00:42:46.460 came after but then you decide something and then energy around around you just aligns to make that
00:42:51.760 thing happens and we are the biggest believers in that because we've seen it happen on a daily
00:42:57.440 basis and over the past three years of being together plus you guys have gone from being
00:43:02.480 like broke to having a channel of millions of followers and being able to even do these things
00:43:08.860 like clearly it works yep yeah i just saw that what what was the the money situation i saw a
00:43:16.020 video of you like yo we literally have no money in this three of us uh i mean when we first started
00:43:20.680 we you know thomas thomas and matt had just graduated university matt was like matt was
00:43:25.920 the rich one i was papa cash he was balling our sugar daddy let's go why'd you have money bro
00:43:31.160 uh savings yeah there you go save your money kids um matt was bartending and he had a clothing
00:43:38.740 he had a clothing company that he's been working on at the time thomas just graduated kind of the
00:43:44.140 expectation is that he goes on to work in tech because he was into that too um but it was all
00:43:49.660 fresh so he was just taking time to figure things out um and for me i was only living i i went to
00:43:56.280 university on a full scholarship uh sponsored by mastercard so they would give me a stipend
00:44:01.260 to spend from uh for every semester and i was just all i was doing is like spending the money
00:44:07.580 that i was supposed to spend the following semester and then i end up not going back to
00:44:11.480 school so i mean it all worked out at the end but uh for the money situation yeah that's i mean
00:44:16.460 there's not that much cash where we can just invest in all these experiences and do all these
00:44:21.320 things knowing that there's about 800 people watching i mean not even at that point towards
00:44:25.900 the end of project 30 which is how we kind of established this project which we never got to
00:44:30.220 in the montreal story because logan is too add but impulsive impulsive the number one podcast
00:44:37.180 on the world in the world keep saying that it's keep saying that it's gonna it's gonna happen
00:44:41.420 maybe wait what do you mean it's gonna happen it's true it already happened it's pretty factual
00:44:45.100 i mean i checked the top charts you guys no no you're looking at the wrong charts
00:44:50.060 that's fake news because i i heard him say that i was like is that true of course it's true okay
00:44:55.700 we said it you said it what motivation would i have to lie right true yeah what is no i mean
00:45:03.280 i mean what are you gonna say mike what is it yeah why would we lie all right back to our story
00:45:07.360 i got a question for you guys uh hold on hold on what is it he's in the midst i'm in the middle
00:45:12.820 is it about the number one podcast still no it's not it's not but we want to talk about
00:45:18.700 about montreal it is about montreal here we go but so we uh at that point we matt still working
00:45:26.180 as a bartender thomas found a job at a clothing store where he started giving people fashion
00:45:31.380 advice which was the most ironic thing at that point thomas had no interest in fashion um but
00:45:36.640 we just kept doing kept pushing and kept you know eating pasta and saving money and matt would pay
00:45:42.900 for rent every month until we just got to the point where it was no longer about the rent it
00:45:47.800 It was actually about my immigration status in Canada
00:45:49.960 because the only reason I could be,
00:45:51.400 I'm Egyptian born and raised
00:45:52.420 and the only way I could be in Canada
00:45:54.340 is by having a visa that allows me to study.
00:45:59.980 So what happens if I'm not studying anymore?
00:46:01.520 Then I can't be in Canada anymore.
00:46:03.440 And I only had one leeway for a semester
00:46:05.740 to do yes theory as a part of my studies
00:46:07.660 because I was studying cyber politics,
00:46:09.800 which was in the realm of what I was doing with yes theory.
00:46:12.980 And that was the month,
00:46:14.240 like during the month of November
00:46:15.640 is when we had to figure out
00:46:16.700 because after December,
00:46:17.800 I'll lose my status and I'll become illegal in Canada,
00:46:20.060 which was, I mean, what do we do after the whole thing ends?
00:46:23.060 Yeah.
00:46:23.380 You turn into 21 Savage.
00:46:24.820 Everybody else.
00:46:25.700 True that.
00:46:26.980 But then somehow we got this crazy email in November of 2015.
00:46:36.520 The email was the offer from a studio that was working with Snapchat
00:46:41.480 to actually move out to Venice, move us out here to LA from Canada,
00:46:46.680 help us with immigration wow help help us set up set up shop out here have a house car insurance
00:46:52.100 everything and give us budget to film anything we've we want to film because they were just
00:46:58.020 drawn so much to the concept and what we were trying to do with the content at that point we
00:47:01.760 had about 8 000 subscribers so nothing but the pattern and what we're realizing is that from
00:47:08.980 project 30 and one of the episodes was getting the mayor of montreal to to meet with us on a one day
00:47:14.300 notice to then being able to get uh and at that point we were getting like you know four five
00:47:19.740 hundred views a day but we're still able to convince the mayor of montreal and then and then
00:47:23.460 we and then we had this happen where we get that email and then just based on the community and
00:47:28.360 based on the content that we're making not necessarily numbers or views and then after
00:47:31.780 that we were able to also get the prime minister of canada to meet with us and do a bit for an
00:47:36.680 episode so the realization of the point is that it numbers don't really matter of how many views
00:47:42.100 or how many subscribers you're having.
00:47:43.700 But what really matters is people to see,
00:47:46.260 for people to see a very strong why
00:47:48.560 that defines what is it that you're doing
00:47:51.200 that then you can sell them on.
00:47:52.920 And then that became our hack
00:47:54.420 to having all these experiences
00:47:56.140 that we would just tell people
00:47:57.460 why we're doing what we do
00:47:58.540 and backed by a community that was so engaged,
00:48:01.040 no matter how big or small they were,
00:48:02.940 people were always just down to act
00:48:04.800 and down to help us out,
00:48:05.820 put out a call out to someone
00:48:07.300 or comment on someone's thing
00:48:08.680 so that we can get their attention.
00:48:10.180 And that's why, like, I think the core of what we do at Yes Theory is to build and sustain and grow that community even further.
00:48:19.600 So because we just see how much they've already done in the span of time that we, you know, spent engaging them through initiatives and through different things that we've done on the channel.
00:48:29.360 uh and we can only imagine like how much bigger that can be when one day we can with the community
00:48:35.660 can wake up and do a call out to do to to do a specific action that then becomes global news
00:48:41.120 one day that's that's how big we're we're seeing this go um that's cool as fuck dude i love that
00:48:46.680 and i think i can it can definitely get there yep um just sitting here listening to you guys talk
00:48:52.640 it's it's obvious that you're very driven um motivated and inspirational um and you made it
00:48:59.560 a point to say that's what you aim for in your content but i do have to ask when you come up
00:49:04.380 with a concept like for example the fake justin bieber burrito prank what is the transformative
00:49:11.420 nature of that video that that warrants you doing it that's a great question well i think
00:49:16.500 i think part of it too is we we've seen a lot of wholesome content both on youtube or everywhere
00:49:22.480 you look uh and it can come it can quickly become you know kind of like cliche and just outdated
00:49:28.080 yeah uh and we don't want to be those guys that are like the you know the goody goody the goody 0.99
00:49:32.600 i love that yeah fuck that dude yeah and we also want to have fun and we want to like fuck around 0.99
00:49:37.400 a little bit and our way of doing that is kind of pulling a joke on the people who pull the most 0.99
00:49:43.840 jokes which is the media you know who twist and lie and do all this kind of stuff so we wanted to
00:49:48.380 yeah sort of go after those guys did you see the the dude who did it after you guys with travis
00:49:53.980 scott that was horrible that that made me really sad actually when i saw that him not happy about
00:49:59.480 that referencing us as inspiration like that is not why we did it yeah and actually like adding
00:50:04.260 on to what matt was saying because i talked about this earlier on the podcast that i was on
00:50:07.700 i think that was actually one of one video that our knowledge and our understanding of how the
00:50:15.200 internet works over the past three years three and a half years of being on the internet allowed
00:50:18.920 us to to sum sum up all this knowledge and make our bet on the thing going viral because we kind
00:50:25.620 of knew at this point what people react to online what are the different elements that can that we
00:50:29.640 can put together that can make a huge and it wasn't it wasn't that hard it was so easy and i think what
00:50:35.000 we wanted to show people is that by being on the internet like we've seen way more than you guys
00:50:40.040 because we're kind of in the kitchen of the internet being content creators let us show you 0.99
00:50:44.340 how this shit actually works 0.99
00:50:45.520 because you should not believe 1.00
00:50:46.900 everything that you're seeing
00:50:47.800 or everything that you're hearing.
00:50:49.300 And I see this as,
00:50:51.560 I see it as the celebration
00:50:52.780 of like the knowledge
00:50:53.840 that we've accumulated
00:50:54.580 on the internet
00:50:55.660 coming to life in an episode
00:50:58.140 that kind of pulled a,
00:50:59.300 pulled a prank on the world.
00:51:00.840 You guys trolled the world.
00:51:02.660 Whose idea was it 1.00
00:51:03.560 to turn the fucking burrito sideways? 0.99
00:51:05.460 It was, 0.99
00:51:06.220 it was one of actually
00:51:07.200 one of our friends.
00:51:08.000 We were just,
00:51:08.380 we just brought him over.
00:51:09.740 Hilarious.
00:51:10.240 You guys had like a flow chart, right?
00:51:12.680 You know that friend very well.
00:51:14.340 Taylor Offer from Feet Socks.
00:51:16.180 Oh, my God.
00:51:17.020 Oh, yeah, you did.
00:51:17.740 It was his idea?
00:51:19.980 Yeah, baby.
00:51:21.500 Shout-outs to Taylor.
00:51:22.700 I loved you guys.
00:51:23.580 It had, like, a circular diagram that had, like, all these wacky ideas.
00:51:28.920 That's how we brainstorm our ideas.
00:51:31.140 It's a mind map.
00:51:32.900 Courtesy of Thomas' mom teaching him how to mind map as a kid.
00:51:36.080 Wow.
00:51:36.300 Thank you, Helena.
00:51:37.000 That's amazing.
00:51:38.120 I kind of, like, chuckled when you said you guys have a Monday brainstorm
00:51:41.100 because, like, he tries to get me to brainstorm.
00:51:43.960 Yeah.
00:51:44.340 I think I'm a believer that like the majority of, uh, of important or like impactful ideas
00:51:49.920 in this world come out of aggressive brainstorming and collaboration with other smart and like,
00:51:54.760 like, like minded people.
00:51:55.840 I don't think that, I think that that's, that's the key to everything.
00:51:59.960 You know, I think it's sitting down, bouncing new ideas off other people's heads and, and,
00:52:03.400 and, and sometimes the, the, the idea that goes far, isn't born out of a, an inception
00:52:09.760 inside your brain.
00:52:10.760 it's born out of editing or improving the inception of someone else you know and so i push him and kind
00:52:16.220 of everybody here to let's sit down the four or five of us you know for an hour a day an hour a
00:52:20.780 week whatever we could find to bounce ideas off each other's heads because the like for example
00:52:26.100 the last doc we worked on uh the flat earth doc which is coming out you know shortly here it was
00:52:31.140 aggressive brainstorm like we sat for hours i think it's i mean that that required it i'm saying
00:52:36.440 for like overall conceptualization and and why again it's like i yes i hear you and you're
00:52:42.280 absolutely right um but i would say about 80 of my inspiration dude is like it comes from my home
00:52:49.500 planet somewhere out in the space like the fibers of my being are like this is a good idea bam um
00:52:56.760 but it could be improved is what i'm saying oh for sure just like these guys i'm sure they all
00:53:01.060 it all the concept itself always starts with one person for sure but then they toss it out and it
00:53:05.560 hits you and you say that's cool but oh by the way sorry to let you know like it's already been
00:53:09.620 done but guess how we can make it better boom boom boom and then all of a sudden you have this
00:53:13.040 beautiful thing that if you had two sets of hands on or one set of hands on it would have been like
00:53:17.680 a little mound of clay but now you've got this beautiful statue that you've built out of this
00:53:20.800 this this collab yeah even for the justin burrito it was that's exactly how it worked out like we
00:53:25.980 had one idea to make a fake viral video and then we had this guy brad souza who looks just like
00:53:31.580 just yeah yeah we're like and amara was the one that was like why don't we just put these two
00:53:34.480 together and what's interesting about the brainstorming thing is we did we didn't really
00:53:38.420 do the monday brainstormings for a long time but then we talked to mr beast oh yeah jimmy yeah uh
00:53:44.240 and he was like dude one to two hours a day i brainstormed like that's how you come up with
00:53:48.140 there he's he's like yeah we'll have a dictionary and we'll like randomly flip a page and pick a
00:53:52.800 word and be like brainstorm from that my um my my brother is with him now oh right now in north
00:53:59.400 carolina uh met him in person for the first time he says he's awesome before mr beast became like
00:54:06.580 mr beast i'm talking like four million five million before it really started blowing up
00:54:10.340 we would uh we twitter our tweet at each other and we dm dm each other and talk about like like
00:54:15.820 the youtube algorithm that is a smart mother yeah he's on top of it about about a year ago when i
00:54:23.980 was um vlogging and kind of understanding the space like you said we're sort of in the kitchen
00:54:30.520 of the internet right now um i theorized that the person who can crack the code of what i coined as
00:54:39.380 the jenga format of youtube videos will win hands down and take over jenga format being just like
00:54:48.560 the game of jenga the stakes increase over time right so you watch from start to finish because
00:54:56.300 it's getting more and more intense everything is getting uh the stakes essentially are rising
00:55:03.540 and mr beats does that in a lot of his content where it's like you know last one to leave the 0.98
00:55:08.000 circle wins and you want to win a hundred thousand dollars you stay in that fucking circle but then 0.58
00:55:13.080 again you're like losing your vital signs so um yeah he's really cracked the code shout out to 0.95
00:55:18.540 mr beast yeah still want you on the podcast yes did you did you guys meet him in person no just
00:55:24.320 on the phone do you have a like a youtube click like who do you hang out with if anyone uh i guess
00:55:29.140 we hang out with l l mills l mills on the podcast yeah that's sweetheart we were hanging out with
00:55:35.120 most recently we don't necessarily l is not like in la that much or at least we haven't been but
00:55:40.040 mainly uh our friends uh colin and samir got an amazing youtube channel definitely recommend
00:55:46.000 checking them out um andres hem the region brilliant filmmaker best like hollywood like
00:55:54.460 content on youtube uh who else i feel i'm we don't really hang out with too many they're gonna be mad
00:56:00.000 i forgot to you're such a nice guy bro you're so nice i i have a question about will smith yeah
00:56:06.480 how much time did you actually spend with him decent amount yeah at least yeah yeah you learn
00:56:12.140 anything important from him
00:56:13.300 that you would only learn
00:56:14.240 from Will Smith?
00:56:20.520 His circle,
00:56:21.560 I think it goes back
00:56:22.480 to the circle.
00:56:23.340 Like he's kept people
00:56:24.280 around him for minimum
00:56:25.520 20 years, you know? 1.00
00:56:26.880 Damn. 1.00
00:56:27.180 He's with the same 1.00
00:56:28.260 hairdresser,
00:56:29.200 the same makeup artist. 1.00
00:56:30.480 Damn. 1.00
00:56:30.880 Same wife, 1.00
00:56:31.780 same kid. 0.97
00:56:32.280 Same kid,
00:56:32.300 everything, dude.
00:56:34.060 And that's how you do it.
00:56:35.260 It's like people
00:56:35.960 that you can trust
00:56:36.680 and that aren't necessarily
00:56:38.820 as men.
00:56:39.440 And then he treats them
00:56:40.580 like family,
00:56:41.180 which is which like will does not treat his crew as oh he's just my makeup she's my makeup person
00:56:46.320 or she's my hair person it's like everybody is a family he invites them to the things that he
00:56:51.000 that he does it's just very communal it's the community that around will is so
00:56:56.660 inspirational and just made us realize how this is because this guy he's been famous since he was
00:57:02.480 in high school he's been famous he won a grammy for rapping being the first rapper to win a grammy
00:57:07.160 when he was yeah when he was in high school so he's been famous for too long he had a very
00:57:12.020 unconventional life that the only way he kept his sanity to be that to be 50 years old with a family
00:57:17.840 with you know a successful career and a successful family is he definitely figured something right
00:57:22.360 and we were very curious about what is that thing and i think it was very evident from just the life
00:57:27.260 like how he structured his life around him i have to commend his ability to recognize the value in
00:57:32.820 digital and fully fully commit fully sam especially like doing stuff with you guys i have a question
00:57:38.200 the the helicopter bungee jump that you did with him you mad that it got hella views on his channel
00:57:44.400 and didn't didn't yours get like way less yeah do you care uh it was your idea yeah
00:57:51.580 do i care no i i i thought i just would really put a lot of effort into that specific story and
00:58:00.360 we put it out very very fast it was like 36 hours after the jump we had like a full operation three
00:58:05.920 editors going at it uh td thomas and andreas were just like in flag staff in arizona after
00:58:11.820 for like staying up all night cutting down footage putting making the video and then
00:58:17.100 i think obviously because people had seen it in the news and heard about the moment of the jump
00:58:22.400 too much they became desensitized towards seeing another title or a thumbnail of will jumping out
00:58:28.220 of a helicopter because they just thought well i just watched him i don't think i'm gonna get
00:58:31.840 anything more than that moment but i think still like our core audience and the people that cared
00:58:36.680 still watching the ogs no bro oh yeah and and that story is one of the ones that i'm like just
00:58:41.420 proudest of the storytelling sure it was like laid out it was beautiful everything about it yeah
00:58:46.640 i feel like will will smith and like his content like you said he's picked up digital really well
00:58:53.780 you guys were kind of referencing earlier like you want to position yes theory as a part of
00:58:59.060 humanity's future and be able to communicate a message to humanity i see will smith and your
00:59:05.480 guys's content is very similar it's positive it's making it's bringing light to situations
00:59:10.300 you mentioned earlier where do you guys see the future of humanity the future of the world and
00:59:16.000 how your content is it always gonna be a shit storm like it is now is what we're saying are 0.83
00:59:20.400 you optimistic yeah we're optimistic because we're creating that world that we want to be
00:59:24.720 in and we're able to live in it with people who follow the same ideals whether that's in
00:59:29.120 like in around our physical spaces by the friends that we surround ourselves with or
00:59:32.880 the amazing community that was that was built and that's that's where we just know that like you
00:59:38.860 know eventually people are going to find funny enough like the discomfort that we're asking them
00:59:44.920 to seek is only going to bring them comfort in finding each other which was exactly what
00:59:50.360 happened between myself matt and thomas is that by finding each other and by being able to develop
00:59:55.340 this friendship the the comfort that we needed to face the world and to face all the challenges
00:59:59.540 that were coming because it wasn't just you know it wasn't sunshine and rainbow is that the term
01:00:03.540 sunshine and rainbows yeah is that okay yeah not from here just english sometimes but um you know
01:00:10.580 we went through a fuck ton of struggles and and challenges as we built this and moments where it
01:00:15.540 all seemed like it was coming to an end but by being with each other and supporting each other
01:00:19.420 that's all the comfort that we needed to actually keep going. And I think the community that we're
01:00:23.640 building right now can replicate that experience between instead of between three friends. It can
01:00:28.340 be just an infinite amount of combinations of friendships that are being built and people
01:00:33.040 meeting. And we see that through people's eagerness to meet each other just as much as they would be
01:00:38.800 eager if we were visiting a city to meet us. So most recently for the episode we put out last
01:00:43.440 Sunday, we had a challenge. We were making an art piece that was the concept was about connecting
01:00:48.280 circle it was going to be displayed in the metropolitan museum in tokyo and then we asked
01:00:52.480 our community to go out and make actual physical circles and send this footage of it because we're
01:00:57.120 going to take that that dvd that we're going to put all the footage on and make it put it in the
01:01:00.740 museum that's cool that's cool and then over over 3 000 people just on a whim yeah on a 24-hour
01:01:08.080 notice organized meetups just through instagram comments and people saying oh i'm in that city
01:01:12.200 let's meet and then we had like just an insane amount of footage being sent us of all these
01:01:17.160 people meeting for the first time connecting as a community and just realizing that like this is
01:01:22.000 what it's about yeah it's people people being able to to have that connection and as a as a
01:01:30.180 goal for them in life and to be able to establish uh to just have experiences that are i'm losing
01:01:38.640 track of my thought here i've been to one of your meetups and uh it was when you guys did the dance
01:01:44.340 party at the top of the mountain yeah and i if i would recommend anybody out there to go to these
01:01:49.340 meetups because it is true when you meet people and you're on that same that same frequency in
01:01:55.260 person yeah like that's what it's all about that's what i think there's so many of us really truly
01:02:00.320 down to our core want that we want to meet and connect and belong and just feel like we're a
01:02:04.580 beer well i think discomfort makes you vulnerable so the second you're vulnerable especially with a
01:02:08.960 group of people like people see the true side of you and they're allowed to be vulnerable too 0.99
01:02:12.740 you know and that's just the most beautiful experience because you're like fuck i'm so 0.90
01:02:16.860 embarrassed but so are you and you laugh about it you know and you connect on that level whereas a 0.94
01:02:21.720 lot of like the connection today is very superficial and it's small talk and like that's
01:02:25.900 just not our thing like just small talk in general like we just dive deep instantly we're like
01:02:30.700 what do you what's your biggest insecurity what is your biggest insecurity logan i think i asked
01:02:34.420 this in person before do you remember the answer um you actually told me that you're not you
01:02:39.480 weren't necessarily insecure about anything at that point in your life oh really yeah what's my
01:02:43.120 biggest insecurity uh i think now is to be honest and like you guys probably see it in in the content
01:02:51.180 is uh referring to the audience is i'm afraid to fuck up again dude i have lost i mean i have 0.98
01:02:58.220 there is no room for me to to fail anymore which sucks because yes i'm gonna grow but damn um 0.95
01:03:04.340 failure leads to the ultimate growth so you know watching what i say constantly not being afraid to 0.93
01:03:11.120 do certain things that i want to do or even like i sort of find myself stopping my thoughts 0.85
01:03:16.420 sometimes like how fucking dangerous is that because i think this cancer cancel culture that 0.99
01:03:22.180 has been bred um by the world it scares me so yeah i mean maybe i'm being like a fucking bitch 0.99
01:03:32.340 and maybe I just need 1.00
01:03:33.300 to sack up
01:03:33.800 and we talk about it all the time
01:03:34.500 maybe I just need to sack up
01:03:35.660 and like
01:03:36.160 that's the whole point
01:03:37.300 yeah but also
01:03:38.000 like at what point
01:03:38.900 do I just
01:03:39.440 own it
01:03:40.520 and
01:03:41.100 trust myself
01:03:43.520 and go for it
01:03:44.620 like I'm gonna piss people off
01:03:45.940 man
01:03:46.200 I'm gonna
01:03:46.900 people can be mad at me
01:03:48.680 it does not have to be
01:03:49.700 that you trust yourself
01:03:51.640 you've got
01:03:52.140 you've got a unit
01:03:53.620 around you
01:03:54.160 that you've built
01:03:55.800 in a way
01:03:56.180 that makes sure
01:03:56.940 that there's accountability
01:03:57.920 over you
01:03:58.580 and people around you
01:03:59.540 that if you say something
01:04:00.300 a little off in a podcast
01:04:01.280 they can be like
01:04:01.960 okay like mark this we're gonna cut it out of the edit because maybe it's not maybe it's not a great
01:04:06.980 idea to say yeah okay so like the going gay comment for example which by the way do I even
01:04:11.160 need to clarify that you can't just go gay like I'll just say all right I made my apologies and
01:04:14.800 everything um I don't have um any I don't have a gay person on my team so it like yes I have a
01:04:22.620 review team it flew over their heads like um so sure it's ignorance on my part but I it's maybe 0.99
01:04:29.620 ignorance on the people around at what point am i walking on eggshells where it's like some stupid 0.95
01:04:36.340 comment like that that i made blew up in the media and in my turn um to address it what the 1.00
01:04:44.360 video got like 400 000 views they don't give a shit they just want to they just want to roast 1.00
01:04:47.900 you and toast you and then you know call you an asshole and move on with their day they don't care 1.00
01:04:51.740 about your apology even though they demand one they don't give a shit about it um they don't 0.99
01:04:56.200 care how you tend to make amends with what they perceive as ill will you know so i'm just yeah 0.95
01:05:02.380 my insecurity is uh i'm afraid of fucking up which sucks but that's amazing and i think you 0.92
01:05:08.660 should say that as often as you can almost because that makes you so fucking human you know people 0.98
01:05:13.220 are afraid to fuck up all the time we're afraid to do it too you know we're afraid that if like 0.99
01:05:17.060 a clip of us you know just goofing around leaks and we've said something really stupid like what 0.98
01:05:23.320 you know what was that and then it just spreads we're like that's not who i am yeah but i'm human
01:05:27.860 and i mess up and i'm afraid to do it and dude yeah you're a human being yeah i guess so what
01:05:34.040 about you mike what's your what's your biggest insecurity i want to know this i didn't know
01:05:37.660 we were going here let's go uh my biggest insecurity is not moving fast enough to make
01:05:46.620 an impact with a story that i've held on to for a long time that i haven't told
01:05:50.880 that uh uh that i'm working to pull together now so i'm making amends for it but uh a story that
01:05:57.960 deals with a lot of suffering and and has become kind of the leading cause of death in this country
01:06:02.560 and a lot of a lot of people are suffering with every day and uh a story that i started telling
01:06:06.960 recently that i'm moving now to produce into an entire but i have a book that's in in final edits
01:06:13.180 now and so uh making sure it scares me to think that i i could have helped people faster or more
01:06:20.080 in a more impactful way than i did with a story that is as visceral and and and moving as mine
01:06:27.400 is you know and so uh uh that scares me that's you were you were just scared to put it out for
01:06:32.620 so long for a long time yeah i mean i worked a lot in the corporate world i mean like you know
01:06:36.920 like i i think i worked with you guys on the on love sex stuff at one point oh yeah stuff um and
01:06:42.400 so yeah it's just been uh it's just been kind of finding the right time and so now it's uh kind of
01:06:47.240 the time to step up oh yeah yeah dude i'm so for the book yeah it's gonna be good what's your
01:06:52.800 spencer i want to know because i don't know if i know i can relate to mike i think mine is um i've
01:07:00.780 been working on a documentary about education for five years wow and um like my insecurity is
01:07:07.880 how is that going to be received by people you know like how am i even gonna do it and just
01:07:14.520 like recently i've actually started to really put a lot of energy backing behind it but
01:07:19.000 you know i guess the insecurity is like just believing in myself that this film can really
01:07:25.320 actually impact the educational system and i'm addressing that that's why i resonate with you
01:07:30.780 mike because you're you know every time you move towards putting something like that out
01:07:36.760 you know more about yourself and it actually starts to happen yeah so yeah yeah i mean i took
01:07:42.900 like little uh it's funny because you know you guys talk about seeking discomfort and kind of
01:07:47.680 the first thing that I did that pushed me towards knowing I needed to do this was start talking
01:07:52.400 about it like you just said like start talking about it with yourself with other people and I
01:07:56.320 made a short video on on YouTube and I don't make videos on YouTube and it got like I don't know
01:08:00.340 400,000 views on it and people and people started reaching out to me like uh I've struggled with
01:08:05.160 addiction I've struggled with anxiety I've struggled with a traumatic past and like hearing
01:08:09.460 you talk about it like they don't even want a response from me they just want to hear me talk
01:08:13.180 about it hearing me talk about it gives them hope that they could aspire or it's okay to aspire to
01:08:20.520 be so much bigger than they are right now you know and to do so much better and so uh yeah it frees
01:08:26.640 people that's the craziest thing i remember when i was 19 i had i was like smoking a ton of weed
01:08:31.800 you know in college yeah and i gradually like bit by bit my anxiety just like overtook my life and
01:08:39.380 And I had this insane panic attack and my brain just completely twisted.
01:08:44.160 And I was like this whole different person.
01:08:46.000 I couldn't look in like people in the eyes, you know, I was just so socially anxious.
01:08:50.400 I couldn't go out.
01:08:51.280 I like locked myself in my room and I would go on YouTube and I would look up.
01:08:56.200 I had this like acute form of anxiety.
01:08:58.040 It's called depersonalization.
01:08:59.520 And I would go on YouTube and I would look up depersonalization disorder.
01:09:05.660 disorder and there would be people with videos of like 5 000 views and it'd go on for like 20
01:09:11.100 minutes and i'd watch the whole thing and it was dudes my age who were like yeah i smoked a joint
01:09:14.960 and i haven't been the same since and dude it like completely saved me because i thought i was 0.71
01:09:19.600 going insane and then some of people got out of it and i was like damn you can get out of that 0.79
01:09:24.120 that's incredible like through exercise meditation you know getting your shit together you can get 0.95
01:09:28.200 out of it have you have you put it away like do you feel anxiety no i mean i i don't have that
01:09:32.620 disorder as much, but the anxiety is still for sure there. It's something I just deal with every
01:09:36.940 day. And I heard actually you guys were talking about it yesterday on the podcast with Elle.
01:09:40.140 Yeah, it's been a big topic for me because it's a contributor. I think mental health and
01:09:45.560 substance abuse are completely aligned topics right now. And it actually brings me to another
01:09:51.060 topic I wanted to ask you guys about quickly. What do you say to people who think that you guys
01:09:58.720 have this imagination of this utopian, you know, universe where everyone gets along and talks to
01:10:05.080 each other. And it's, and they, and they say, I can't say yes to things because I have to go to
01:10:10.860 my job to feed my kids, or I can't say yes to things because I have to find my next bag of
01:10:15.220 heroin. You know what I'm saying? And those people are everywhere. They're everywhere. And so like,
01:10:19.200 what do you say to these people that are struggling so much right now in their life?
01:10:23.540 Just, they don't even, some people that don't even want to get out of bed because of their
01:10:26.180 depression anxiety like what do you say to them to like it's not like hey do you want to come fly
01:10:32.040 around the world with me like what is it what's your message to those people that can't say yes
01:10:35.780 right now i think it's all to do 100 days but kind of what's behind that mentality yeah um
01:10:41.840 i think people fall prey to wanting to to make the drastic big decisions or thinking that oh
01:10:49.140 they need to say yes right now to something that will end up you know turning a switch in their
01:10:53.740 life would just go around and people don't realize that it's the it's the practice of
01:10:57.920 that you develop by saying yes to small little things every day so you're you know you're just
01:11:04.100 really concerned about i don't know feeding your family or doing or doing whatever it is that you
01:11:09.180 have to do there is still ways that you can i mean that that sounds pretty uncomfortable as a as a
01:11:14.620 setting to be in where you have to you know struggle to struggle for your family but i think
01:11:19.780 there's a it's all about a choice of how you respond to your to your environment and whether
01:11:26.640 you're active seeking discomfort is going to be to talk to a stranger in the grocery line or
01:11:30.620 at the bus stop because you just never know where that conversation will lead you here's the thing
01:11:35.680 like and i heard this i heard this once from jason silva i'm sure you you know who jason silva is um
01:11:41.340 and and he said uh juxtaposition is the perfect framework for serendipity to happen so whenever
01:11:48.920 you're exposed to very very unfamiliar environments places that you're almost not supposed to be in
01:11:54.820 conversations that you're not supposed to have this is when serendipity can occur serendipity
01:12:00.780 for those of you who don't know the meaning of the word it's it's the really pleasant occurrence
01:12:05.520 of of something something that is so unexpected but still so pleasant in nature so i would call
01:12:10.820 meeting matt and thomas very serendipitous event and that serendipity happened happened because i
01:12:16.900 I decided to go check out a party that I didn't belong to
01:12:21.740 or wasn't supposed to be there for.
01:12:23.360 So always, as you are dealing with whatever it is you're dealing with in life,
01:12:27.680 just always ask yourself,
01:12:28.640 how am I exposing myself to a different perspective
01:12:31.420 than what I'm living right now?
01:12:32.740 So if you're living with addiction,
01:12:34.760 is there a path where I can expose myself to living without it?
01:12:38.760 Or if I'm constantly thinking that I'm struggling and I have to make money
01:12:42.360 and my life is just revolving around my job,
01:12:44.840 Is there something? Is there a passion? Is there anything small that you can say yes to on a daily basis that will eventually strengthen that muscle? So I've always struggled with procrastination and just focusing on also extreme ADHD case as a kid, wanted doctors wanted to fucking stuff me with meds, but never kind of never got to the point where I actually liked them.
01:13:08.520 so i never never took them um and one of the one of the things that i struggle with with most after
01:13:14.460 particular events that happened over the last year is i fell back into depression which is
01:13:18.100 something i've struggled with before and it's really it's really interesting for to see people's
01:13:22.660 reaction who who i don't have a personal connection with when they hear that i'm i'm dealing with
01:13:27.540 depression because they're like dude you're living the dream life you're you get to wake up with your
01:13:31.500 best friend every day and do all this crazy shit how frustrating is that yeah because it doesn't
01:13:37.000 Yeah, it has nothing to do with it. 0.85
01:13:38.600 But moving on, like, and this is something that Matt had a huge just impact on me with,
01:13:44.800 which is understanding the value of movement and physical exercise.
01:13:48.520 And for him dealing with anxiety every day and seeing how he deals with it and seeing how proactive he is
01:13:55.200 as he takes the steps that would prevent that, it motivated me to also want to, okay, well, you know what?
01:14:01.700 I'm sick of waking up and having these mornings where I don't really want to do anything or don't want to get out of bed.
01:14:06.340 so i decided that i i i will make the commitment to sweat every day for 100 days straight um
01:14:13.480 day 98 now day 98 oh damn oh wow are you gonna do uh are you gonna do a recap on it uh so i i
01:14:20.780 didn't do it for a video and i was very i was very careful with i think maybe i'll do a recap
01:14:25.000 for like this was not content for you this was yeah this was actually like i because i i realized
01:14:30.940 that if it becomes content then i might kind of corrupt the actual intention and the reason
01:14:35.840 of why i wanted to do this i mean we've used content to be able to push ourselves to do the
01:14:41.080 marathon the half iron man it's a great way to you can use to actually push yourself further
01:14:45.340 but for this one specific i knew i was gonna i was about to do something that really scared the
01:14:49.280 shit out of me consistency and routine yeah so why does that scare you i don't know it's it's it's a
01:14:55.120 till this day i don't understand what is it about routine that really really scares me really and 0.55
01:14:59.520 and they say that it is the core like way to cope and beat anxiety like with any any mental
01:15:07.700 that's the first time actually i heard that when you said the wild and it's kevin hines
01:15:11.120 talks about you know why you know why why i don't know why it is maybe maybe you've conceptualized
01:15:16.900 this but i think because routine is indicative of a form of comfortability and your entire
01:15:26.760 message and being is the exact opposite of that. Well, it takes all unpredictability out of the
01:15:33.040 situation. But I feel, I feel some, I mean, there is, yeah, I think there's a bad type of routine
01:15:37.720 and there's the good one. The good routines are the ones that you intentionally put, plug into
01:15:41.820 your morning, you know, to actually create an environment where you can go about your day. So
01:15:45.600 whether that, you know, I started writing a gratitude list every morning, five things I'm
01:15:49.920 thinking for just right, right. When I wake up, grab my phone, write it, shouldn't be on my phone,
01:15:53.260 But I do that for now because I am I'm I'm trying to start a habit.
01:15:57.400 And I think something that really helped me cope with the challenge of 100 days sweat is realizing that I cannot improve a habit that I still have not created, which is always what people it's been my mistake the whole life.
01:16:09.680 It's like, I want to go work out three times a week and just have the most badass workout.
01:16:14.540 But like, I don't even move or do anything that is in the vein of like, you know, sweating or getting exercise in that all of a sudden I would start, you know, lifting.
01:16:23.800 And at least for my brain, that's not how it works.
01:16:25.500 For some people, it's easy to make the decision and commit.
01:16:27.880 For mine, it was so hard because I would just always find a reason not to do it.
01:16:31.340 but by by saying that i'm going to do it for 100 days setting the the the you know the condition
01:16:38.200 that allows me to check it every day to be super low so i would do on some days my workouts would
01:16:43.780 be just 10 minutes because all what i'm doing i'm doing push-ups and setups and crunches or whatever
01:16:47.700 it is until i drop a sweat and that was it and those are days where before there is no way anyone
01:16:53.760 would get me out of bed or i would leave and want to do anything but on days now i just i i know that
01:16:59.940 at some point it just becomes i know i feel so much shittier if i don't stand up and do 10 minutes
01:17:05.280 of yeah of whatever it is that i'm doing to sweat then not do it at all out of all the out of all
01:17:10.420 the things that i've done in my life to correct bad habits or to um or to improve myself group
01:17:17.380 counseling talking to people working at careers trying different things photography all everything
01:17:22.140 i probably owe the majority of my success to cardiovascular exercise it is that and by the way
01:17:29.300 all he does is the elliptical i do all kinds but listen i also he that's what he has here that's
01:17:34.640 what he's here i've only seen him about it but i but i when i uh when i got clean and when i
01:17:40.880 started getting my life together i weighed 300 pounds at one point and so yeah i was about 100
01:17:45.580 pounds more that way now wow and i bought a a secondhand bike it was like 50 bucks dude and
01:17:50.840 i started riding it every day 20 miles 30 miles 20 miles 30 miles 20 miles every day i would ride 0.94
01:17:55.560 that fucking bike dude and sweat and sweat and i found that when i was on that bike all the thoughts 0.98
01:18:00.020 stopped all the urges stopped everything stopped couldn't be on your phone couldn't be on my phone 1.00
01:18:04.660 it took the phone out of the equation completely so that was in my bag behind me and i would ride
01:18:09.160 to this beach every day and i would set my bike up and i would look out over the beach what was
01:18:12.660 the trigger for you what got you out a number of things like there the big inception point for like
01:18:18.880 getting my life together was both my mom and the legal so there was a bunch of different things but
01:18:23.340 what made it happen was was also a number of things but cardio was a major part of it wow a
01:18:28.180 major part of hell yeah yeah and i preach exercise to everybody like if you're sitting around out
01:18:33.260 there feeling depressed feeling anxious go for a run pick up some weights get on a bike anything
01:18:38.540 anything i think sometimes i couldn't agree more but i think sometimes the idea of anything can
01:18:44.440 overwhelm someone from taking an action because they don't know exactly what is it what what is
01:18:48.580 it that they do that's why and and again as someone who you know i'm obviously surrounded
01:18:52.700 by great people very positive environment opportunities to work out here every day with
01:18:57.440 all these people around me but i still wouldn't do it um because again i was trying to like
01:19:02.300 improve on a habit that i didn't necessarily have but it's only up until it became like an
01:19:06.460 automatic thing in my mind where i wake up and i know that some sort of some form of exercise is
01:19:10.660 going to be a part of that is when i actually started you know perceiving myself better i
01:19:16.440 always had this very negative narrative around myself and the way i would speak to myself
01:19:20.380 and you know lack of self-love and not taking very good care of myself and what i eat but as
01:19:25.940 you kind of establish they call them keystone habits just like our habits that can affect
01:19:30.980 other aspects of your life and exercise one of the biggest keystone habit habits that you can
01:19:35.700 you can form and again i didn't do it for i didn't do it for any physical transformation my body
01:19:40.040 doesn't necessarily look that much different now because again i was in it to just get my mind to
01:19:44.920 accept the idea that no matter what every day i'm going to show up for myself i'm going to do
01:19:48.960 something active i have an idea go for it i think it's gonna be good for your mentality
01:19:52.300 your physicality and most importantly your sexuality
01:19:55.780 your youtube channel should be sick uh why don't you do a yes theory on taking up boxing and being 0.98
01:20:05.380 on the undercard of my rematch versus ksi that's you know what that's matt matt is the fight i am
01:20:10.800 not a fighter at all really would you would you ever think about that that'd be sick i'll think
01:20:15.760 about it i'll talk to the something about that something doesn't fit in a yes theory about just 0.99
01:20:21.000 going and beating the shit no it's not about that for me it is i'm gonna kick ksi's ass yes but for 0.96
01:20:26.620 you theory for you guys it i think it'd be more about the journey of becoming a boxer bro that 0.99
01:20:33.300 shit is hard i have to say i've always wanted to be in a cage fight as a thing i'm doing it i'm 0.72
01:20:39.340 speaking to him i'm doing it bro before i die i need depending on how the iron man absolutely 0.99
01:20:43.920 gonna be in a cage fight all right maybe i'll do it maybe i'll do it but i think in return if i did
01:20:49.520 do it you'd have to do i guess both of you would have to do nired man with spencer just checked
01:20:54.880 out he said have an elliptical michael be there he wants to do it and and and to be fair he's not
01:21:00.460 saying it but i have 25 screws in my right ankle i know that that was and so i and so i have a
01:21:05.460 degenerative arthritis in my right ankle okay that's a result okay you're making me feel bad
01:21:09.040 shit that i don't know no i was gonna mention the bad ankle i just want him to understand why i'm 0.67
01:21:14.160 not running maritons if you want to do 180 mile cycle i could do with you right now yeah he'll 0.98
01:21:19.240 probably he'll probably win dude mike's a beast on the bike yeah yeah like a beast one thing that
01:21:24.060 stuck out one one of my last notes in your story like your journey and your progression to get to
01:21:30.660 this point where you're able to even do 100 days of sweat you're able to stick to this you're able
01:21:34.860 to get out of these mental both of you all of you um you started with just one decision there was
01:21:40.700 one thing to get out of your comfort zone so i think that's a message that i pull from you guys
01:21:45.760 that's so such a healthy reminder is we we tend to make it so complex we're like oh my life is
01:21:52.540 where it's at how do i get out of this blah blah and you start going down this path but
01:21:55.760 really in all reality it's one thing and how i relate to that which i don't think i've ever told
01:22:00.880 you you guys um back in january when i saw logan's tweet i i was concerned for him i was like
01:22:08.940 you know which one the first one yeah when you were yeah when you the first saw what you saw in
01:22:14.180 january in japan talking about the first like apology no no no no tweet no when you saw you
01:22:19.960 you said what you saw in the okay okay and i i was like genuinely concerned i was like i hope he's
01:22:25.740 okay. And so I thought about texting him just to like send some support. And I asked one of my
01:22:31.160 friends, I was like, should I do it? Um, cause I didn't want to like, you know, I didn't want to
01:22:36.900 have it come off wrong. And they said, do what you feel is right. So I had this decision and I
01:22:42.760 put my phone down. I was like, nah, I'm not going to text him. And then five minutes later, I was
01:22:47.240 like, you know what? I'll just text him, send him some love, send him some support. I sent you that
01:22:51.760 text i don't know if you remember that just checking in see if you're all right but if i
01:22:55.800 would have never sent that text i wouldn't be sitting here you wouldn't have you know you and
01:22:59.160 i wouldn't have met you and i wouldn't have made that documentary like that was i was that close
01:23:02.560 to not texting you oh when was the last time you guys had talked what's that when was the last time
01:23:07.020 you guys had talked probably like months yeah six six months or so so i think even just like
01:23:13.280 reaching out to someone seeing if they're okay checking in with someone like reaching out for
01:23:18.340 help like it never was uh i didn't go into it with any intention for sure and it's like you
01:23:23.840 never know what the world can open up it's crazy what are you okay can do you know right as a
01:23:29.140 question big truth how much all right i challenge people watching right now to not necessarily say
01:23:34.520 are you okay but just text someone that you've never they know you've never text someone that
01:23:38.640 you haven't talked to in a very long time someone that you've never texted that you haven't met
01:23:42.500 yeah text someone that you haven't talked in a very long time and just check in and see how
01:23:46.860 that you're doing yeah thanks for being a part of your life i like that yo on that note i want to go
01:23:51.860 to the audio version only it's just a short little q a so you got to go to itunes or spotify but if 0.75
01:23:56.620 you're here on youtube just do me a favor hit that fucking subscribe button yes theory thank 0.80
01:24:02.660 you for joining us on this episode yeah yeah you guys are great uh thomas we miss you man 0.96
01:24:07.640 maybe we'll come through maybe we'll see you soon we'll send thomas on his own
01:24:11.180 thank you guys again for listening to this episode of impulsive mike does more than the
01:24:18.140 elliptical that was a joke you just got so serious after i said it i didn't know you were
01:24:24.740 gonna drop a bomb no well i just was being honest about things is that you reaching out to mike make
01:24:30.220 sure he's okay are you okay my ankle actually hurts you guys should like people should see
01:24:34.760 you doing it you should do it right now logan specifically you just like pull out your phone
01:24:38.180 Text someone you haven't talked about.
01:24:39.440 I can do that right now.
01:24:40.960 I'm going to do that as we go to the audio version only.
01:24:44.000 Hey, thinking about you very.
01:24:46.620 Is this going to get me late or is this like good intentions?
01:24:49.120 This person just texted me all these times, right?
01:24:53.040 And is an old friend from Connecticut.
01:24:54.660 And his last text is too cool for me now.
01:24:57.080 Oh.
01:24:57.720 I'm going to text him back right now.
01:24:59.000 Do a voice.
01:25:00.000 I have more personality.
01:25:01.360 It's like, hey, dude.
01:25:01.840 Hey, Paul, what's up, man?
01:25:02.840 Been really busy.
01:25:03.880 Just grinding out here with LP.
01:25:05.360 But I just want to check in with you and say, I miss you, man.
01:25:08.060 and I'm going to text you again
01:25:10.180 after I send this voicemail right now.
01:25:13.020 I sent mine to my brother.
01:25:18.260 I feel like I worded it wrong
01:25:19.280 because it just said,
01:25:20.060 you feeling okay, bro?
01:25:22.500 He's like, wait, what's going on?
01:25:24.680 I'm like, did you see something online?
01:25:26.820 We're going to the audio version only.
01:25:28.320 Like and subscribe.
01:25:29.100 Peace.
01:25:30.520 That is hilarious.
01:25:31.480 All right, here we are.
01:25:32.960 I feel this.
01:25:33.960 I really did.
01:25:34.760 Look, it's incredible.
01:25:35.660 You feeling okay, bro?
01:25:36.420 You feeling okay, bro?
01:25:38.060 He's going to be like, am I?
01:25:39.180 I don't know.
01:25:39.780 Am I?
01:25:40.160 What's going on in my life?
01:25:41.240 That's hilarious.
01:25:41.940 Yo, I have a question.
01:25:42.640 How do you guys feel about authority?
01:25:44.620 Ooh, good question for this guy.
01:25:46.340 Oh.
01:25:46.860 I despise authority, dude.
01:25:49.140 Despise?
01:25:49.900 Despise.
01:25:51.380 Like, never was able to deal with it.
01:25:53.320 Never.
01:25:53.800 Anytime I feel like anyone projecting that energy on me,
01:25:58.360 I just kind of like, oh, I've become like a wildcat.
01:26:01.540 Just lash out.
01:26:02.220 Same with him.
01:26:04.260 So in my older age now, because you guys might not know this,
01:26:07.780 i'm 34 so i've got old fast or something i don't know man just skip years dude yeah uh uh i i used
01:26:15.540 to be bad like i would get pulled over and i'll be and like i would be like bad like i would try 0.97
01:26:20.860 to start shit like you you gotta like what's the fucking problem like i'm like i was that's who i 0.98
01:26:25.260 was and now what it is is everything stays bottled up until it's not bottled up anymore and so like 1.00
01:26:31.980 he'll see me like be good be good be good be good and then he i was at dinner the other night with
01:26:36.120 um and he goes uh it's not even just authority but it's like when i'm challenged a certain way
01:26:40.840 he goes he says to like the person who's sitting next to him he's like i've seen this face on him
01:26:45.720 before mike was about to say mean things to the people at the table because they were pissing him
01:26:49.760 off and i just know when he's he's crossing that line where like he will say something that will
01:26:54.140 ruin the relationship that people were at dinner with will get up and leave and i and i was like
01:26:57.760 one out of every 44 000 interactions like it's so rare but when it happens and so like he and so
01:27:07.100 he sends it and he he goes uh mike's going to a place that you're not gonna like right now and so
01:27:11.360 when he said he said it jokingly i got up went to the bathroom splash water in my face 50 deep
01:27:16.060 breaths came back good handled good friend handled yeah so what if what if your your your content or
01:27:22.840 something that you're trying to say yes on or about is halted by authority how do you deal with
01:27:31.380 that explain that okay so um for example whenever i am say i'm doing a video in a mall and you know
01:27:38.480 the security comes up to me i'm always like i i'm very respectful always in a way i'm always like
01:27:44.680 we are so sorry like it won't happen again granted then i'll do it again immediately after
01:27:48.540 like how do you handle it uh no so the authority that i'm talking about i think our experience of
01:27:53.980 authority is probably that's what i'm saying yeah same but different i'm yeah i'm from egypt where
01:27:59.200 yeah a cop can literally like if at night you're walking home a cop can come up to you and search
01:28:05.240 you and if they don't like you or like your attitude they will put a piece of hash in your
01:28:09.080 pocket and you will go to prison for a long time because that's how it works so every you know my
01:28:14.300 relationship with authority in that way has been very much affected by my upbringing back in egypt
01:28:20.820 that's why i i don't necessarily lash out a security guard or someone coming to shut me down
01:28:26.500 i never lash out yeah but and that's not the type of authority that pisses me off it's whenever i
01:28:30.980 see it happens to me a little bit at airports just like someone really trying to use their tsa
01:28:38.080 their place of power not to actually i experienced it because of your countries ethnicity no i mean
01:28:43.320 i i would assume so but you remember when we were in in uh coming back from italy that guy that
01:28:51.400 wanted to that took the from yeah and like we yeah when we were coming back from rome and this
01:28:57.140 guy wanted we were with uh with one of our one of our girlfriends and she he took it like an
01:29:03.500 alcohol bottle from her and matt was walking in with the same one but just because she was like
01:29:07.680 you know a pretty yeah pretty girl he wanted to kind of like make a move and that really 0.99
01:29:13.800 fucking pissed me off just when i saw that happen and he throws her alcohol that she was really like 0.94
01:29:18.460 looking forward to bringing back to her friends and just like takes it throws in the trash and 0.98
01:29:21.920 matt just walks out with with his it was duty-free alcohol so i oh dude and then i i end up going
01:29:29.540 telling them that i'm gonna go go to the bathroom and just because i hated that situation so much
01:29:33.260 i devised this whole plan that the second he turns around i'm gonna put stick my hand into
01:29:37.000 the trash bin that he threw the alcohol bottle in
01:29:39.080 and I'm going to take it back. No way.
01:29:40.940 And I did it. You did?
01:29:42.340 That girl was just like...
01:29:46.960 I was with the girl 0.99
01:29:49.180 and so Amar comes back with the 0.99
01:29:51.000 bottle and I'm like... Aw, damn! 1.00
01:29:53.720 I look like a bitch. 1.00
01:29:55.260 That's funny as hell, dude. 1.00
01:29:57.320 Damn, you're a hero. 0.99
01:29:59.900 Are you guys all 1.00
01:30:00.960 wingmen for each other?
01:30:02.340 Yeah, big time. How is that?
01:30:04.000 Any wingmen tips? Wingmen tips.
01:30:07.000 Amar is an amazing way, man.
01:30:09.600 Amar is like, yeah, he's done.
01:30:11.960 I think the best thing that he does is he genuinely believes in the good of us, you know, and he expresses it so well to the girl.
01:30:20.140 You know, he's like, this is the best man that you'll ever meet.
01:30:22.560 I swear to God.
01:30:23.880 And she's like, no, it's definitely true.
01:30:26.500 I've been a lot of dudes out here.
01:30:28.100 Like you could, you could date my daughter. 1.00
01:30:29.840 Oh, damn, dude. 1.00
01:30:31.000 Even in 20 years from now, please date my daughter. 1.00
01:30:34.720 He's going to be calling you up.
01:30:35.940 Yeah.
01:30:36.620 Yo, yo, I got that daughter.
01:30:37.960 I referenced my impulsive 25 years ago.
01:30:40.400 Or call them for their kids.
01:30:42.280 I mean, that's probably going to work too.
01:30:44.600 Oh, you're going to be a kid.
01:30:46.020 Just to be a little more realistic.
01:30:47.400 No, no, no.
01:30:47.900 Like your kids date my kids.
01:30:49.540 Oh, I see.
01:30:50.060 Kind of like the old school way.
01:30:51.240 Yeah. 0.76
01:30:52.020 It's arranged marriage. 1.00
01:30:53.940 Old school way. 0.96
01:30:56.360 How would you describe a good way?
01:30:58.160 Are you guys wingmen for each other?
01:30:59.600 Mike is the best wingman in the history of mankind.
01:31:03.040 I can't tell any of his words.
01:31:04.880 I can only let him say what he wants to say
01:31:08.100 He's just
01:31:09.280 He's the best dude
01:31:10.380 I try to be for you
01:31:13.220 You don't really need me though
01:31:14.480 We don't really need each other
01:31:15.460 It just helps
01:31:16.460 Are they bragging about it?
01:31:20.420 You might have uncovered an interesting
01:31:22.820 Interesting
01:31:24.140 I don't even know
01:31:25.360 We'll cut the cameras
01:31:29.400 Here's what I'll say
01:31:32.400 I'm kind of lazy
01:31:34.160 i don't want to always put effort into uh talking to girls it's just how i am or talking to people 0.90
01:31:42.640 in general like i just don't really give a fuck sometimes sometimes sometimes otherwise like i'll
01:31:48.960 dive into great conversation especially if a girl can hold a great conversation 0.94
01:31:52.280 rats a rap but like most of the time i'm just lazy i'm like yo mike can you just like tell
01:31:56.440 that girl i think she's cute and like see what happens or if it's like or if it's like an already
01:32:00.880 established thing that we're like all friends i'm like hey like i know lp like really wants to see 0.94
01:32:05.560 you tonight yeah and then and i want to tell the fucking boulders they're the denver story 0.80
01:32:10.420 the denver wait uh just give me say one word at a time the way like just flat earth hotel 0.95
01:32:17.700 oh no no no that's why i said we're gonna turn off the cameras and we're gonna know that story
01:32:26.540 We've done a whole new thing here.
01:32:27.740 That was responsible.
01:32:28.920 That was responsible.
01:32:29.720 I commend what you did.
01:32:31.880 I like how you said flat earth hotel.
01:32:33.460 Flat earth hotel.
01:32:34.380 It's a new hotel.
01:32:36.360 Well, what's funny, actually, just going quickly back to Amar,
01:32:39.400 is this girl that we were with in Rome is a girl that he had found on Tinder.
01:32:45.700 And she's super beautiful.
01:32:47.380 And he was like, this girl would be perfect for Matt.
01:32:49.680 Rather than being like, this girl is super cute and great for me,
01:32:52.480 she'd be like, this girl is Matt.
01:32:53.560 Why?
01:32:55.200 He just knows? 0.99
01:32:56.060 i just knew like it was instantly like oh man yeah i'm selfish as fuck i take mice girls all 0.98
01:33:01.780 the time well we've been dealing with a little bit of that lately and what it is is it's like 0.99
01:33:06.160 what it is is like and it's it'll be like fuck i get caught up here now hold on a second it'll be 0.66
01:33:13.820 like it'll be like a group of us right like i won't even say names i'll say it's a group of us 0.96
01:33:17.120 and there's and there's we are with beautiful girls all the time every day in mass amounts 0.63
01:33:22.780 sorry but sometimes that's how fucking dope we are not even like that but i mean we're at 0.95
01:33:27.140 we are so fucking cool i will finish this fucking story but but you know we'll be at we're in clubs 0.96
01:33:35.000 and we're at events and shit like that there's always beautiful girls around la or miami or 0.99
01:33:38.120 whatever and so a lot of times there's one or two of them though that kind of take the cake 0.92
01:33:42.780 you know what i'm saying and so it turns into like a little bit of a rat race you know what
01:33:48.700 i'm saying and uh and like fishing michael michael invite a girl over and like i'll be like i'll be
01:33:53.960 like oh she's she's pretty cute i'll just see what i'll talk to her first and i get i get mad
01:33:59.160 and i'm like bro normally i don't normally i'm just because normally we'll have like a couple
01:34:02.740 of two or three girls over and everyone should all hang out but like sometimes i'll have a girl
01:34:06.020 over that i'm like this is already in the bag bro and and like he'll come up and be like so
01:34:09.780 i'll be like yo where are you from where are you from and as soon as he says where are you from i
01:34:14.660 go can i talk to you for a second or i don't even say that i just go yo do me a favor get 0.98
01:34:18.620 the fuck out of here because he does all the time he's like a peregrine falcon he just moves in at 0.94
01:34:23.120 200 miles an hour my first question after where you're from is like i'm like it was by the way 0.99
01:34:28.360 like what are you doing later and they're here with mike they're hanging out with mike my favorite
01:34:32.760 my and that's and by the way i don't mind i don't mind no no we always laugh about it i don't mind
01:34:38.140 it for the main reason because it's the easiest way for me to spot a like a cloud chaser because 0.87
01:34:43.680 the the girls that i want to fuck with are like i don't know me and mike are going to watch a movie 0.99
01:34:47.520 But occasionally, we've had it happen in the past. 1.00
01:34:50.260 Occasionally, where the girl's like, I don't know, what the fuck are you doing? 0.99
01:34:52.320 I'm just like, yo, go, go, take it, bro. 0.99
01:34:55.440 Again, the filter.
01:34:56.460 It's a great filter, you know what I'm saying?
01:34:58.140 But, yeah, now I'm wifed up, so.
01:34:59.960 Are you?
01:35:00.340 No, he's not.
01:35:03.060 Spencer, Spencer, I know that.
01:35:05.480 Andre.
01:35:06.740 Yeah?
01:35:07.160 Wingman of the year.
01:35:08.020 Oh, I was like, where's he going with this?
01:35:09.060 Really?
01:35:09.580 Is that how you met?
01:35:10.260 I was like, he's my wife, right?
01:35:11.540 I'm wifed up.
01:35:12.340 Andre.
01:35:12.960 He just goes, Andre.
01:35:14.280 It's him.
01:35:15.640 It's him.
01:35:16.060 He's the one.
01:35:16.660 i have a tendency of doing that i like lead things on oblivious dude you're like me
01:35:22.180 wait how did you and your girlfriend meet through andre uh at a group dinner and like it was like a
01:35:29.420 table of like 20 people and there was literally just two seats in the middle of the table that
01:35:34.040 were just open and like we both sat next to each other it was super weird she told me she did not
01:35:38.080 want to talk to you she didn't really why not uh i think she just like she stopped dating like four
01:35:45.800 months ago and she just wasn't in the dating mindset interesting but i didn't come into the
01:35:51.000 conversation trying to like i would i didn't have an agenda so and she appreciated that she's like
01:35:57.460 oh this is a guy that's not trying to get with me and i got with it and honestly you know i have
01:36:04.040 it's funny you say that but i hate this yeah it's funny it's funny you say that because i
01:36:09.080 i have to touch on this because i get a lot just because of like mostly because of my content not
01:36:14.420 because it's like necessarily true or whatever but i get so many dms they're like yo you're always
01:36:19.100 with bad chicks like you got to give me advice you got to give me advice you got to give me advice
01:36:22.220 spencer just gave you the best advice you'll ever get in your entire life no agenda the less you try 0.66
01:36:29.400 the more you get when it comes to girls like like sometimes like if you want like if you want like
01:36:34.260 a relationship sometimes you have to chase put in work that kind of stuff but if you're just
01:36:37.220 looking to like hang out with hot girls and like do that kind of stuff i even talk to their best
01:36:41.680 friend I even think in a relationship
01:36:43.220 you know what I'm saying yeah I think what's that
01:36:45.260 Spencer is talking more in context of relationship
01:36:46.880 I still think that relationship with friend for
01:36:49.300 same way yeah I think so
01:36:51.660 are you guys all like
01:36:53.180 are you in a relationship knowing this
01:36:55.280 you guys are all free birds no yeah 1.00
01:36:57.120 damn oh damn y'all are flocking together 1.00
01:36:59.380 what are you flying V formation 1.00
01:37:01.200 Thomas might
01:37:01.800 Thomas is on the edge
01:37:03.960 oh no
01:37:05.080 Thomas come back
01:37:07.780 Thomas is going to be captured
01:37:09.700 I kind of want to party
01:37:11.100 with these guys
01:37:11.740 no but do we party
01:37:12.540 we love party
01:37:13.760 we love party
01:37:14.460 you just don't just like
01:37:15.220 yeah we let loose
01:37:16.260 so what happens if
01:37:17.140 you're around some 0.56
01:37:17.960 degenerates such as ourselves
01:37:19.600 we do not hang out with 0.88
01:37:20.860 no I'm saying like
01:37:22.840 oh oh
01:37:23.400 I mean you're kind of
01:37:24.180 oh right now 1.00
01:37:24.860 you're like degenerate girls 1.00
01:37:26.020 no no us 1.00
01:37:26.920 oh you
01:37:27.540 oh we
01:37:28.380 I think we would
01:37:29.020 break a dance floor somewhere
01:37:30.180 like I think that would be
01:37:31.560 you're probably
01:37:32.380 you're probably
01:37:33.640 in the VIP section
01:37:34.700 but we're always
01:37:35.560 just down and dirty
01:37:36.380 in the dance floor
01:37:36.980 oh no I love dancing
01:37:38.260 yeah
01:37:38.660 you can do dirty stuff
01:37:39.520 I love dancing. 0.92
01:37:40.900 I'm moving, bro.
01:37:41.520 It's all about being with the people, man.
01:37:43.440 Right in the middle there. 1.00
01:37:44.740 I fuck with that. 1.00
01:37:45.600 Yeah, let's do it. 1.00
01:37:47.640 It would be fun.
01:37:49.060 Go somewhere and just like have a...
01:37:52.020 Have a what?
01:37:53.960 Oh, you know what?
01:37:54.480 We should do it.
01:37:54.960 We should do it after the Ironman with everybody.
01:37:57.180 Down.
01:37:57.760 Yeah, that would be a great celebratory.
01:37:59.980 And then after that KSI fight that you're going to do.
01:38:02.340 That you said here in Boston that you were going to do.
01:38:04.460 I don't know.
01:38:05.120 I don't know.
01:38:05.400 Yeah, I have no idea.
01:38:06.200 We're working on it. 0.99
01:38:07.060 Damn. 0.99
01:38:08.020 Are you in trainings? 1.00
01:38:09.200 are you training
01:38:10.280 yeah maybe
01:38:11.140 yeah maybe
01:38:12.620 don't let the competition know
01:38:13.860 yeah
01:38:14.160 that's what I'm saying
01:38:14.620 I don't know maybe
01:38:15.160 maybe I forgot how to box
01:38:16.200 yeah
01:38:17.020 maybe I'm knocking 0.99
01:38:18.320 motherfucking out 0.98
01:38:19.260 no I did 0.98
01:38:20.340 I looked at Andre
01:38:20.940 because I like looking
01:38:21.700 I'm a good looking boy
01:38:22.780 true
01:38:23.200 Spencer's
01:38:23.760 Spencer's wife
01:38:24.520 yeah
01:38:25.100 Spencer's wife
01:38:26.220 yeah
01:38:26.480 alright listen
01:38:27.560 lots of fun today
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