JustPearlyThings - August 21, 2023


19 Year Old Confesses To Having 4 Sugar Daddies

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In this episode, we have a special guest on the show, Lily, who is a 19 year old sugar daddy (sugar daddy) who has been with us for the past 3 months and has saved enough money to buy a house and a car. We talk about what it's like to be a sugar daddy, how much money she gets paid per month and why she doesn't want to get married.

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00:00:00.000 okay do you want to be married what me yeah uh yeah okay what age how old are you you're
00:00:06.400 i'm 19. oh you're only 19. shocking isn't it wait and you said you're on you're on sugar daddy sites
00:00:12.560 or something is that what you said yeah now i'm just curious how many sugar daddies do you have
00:00:17.920 is it one or is it like multiple uh probably about three or four consistent monthly allowances and
00:00:23.440 do you do you have to like do sex stuff with all of them or how does it work it's an option
00:00:29.120 yeah it's an option yeah they don't all like want me to have sex well they probably do want 0.98
00:00:33.440 me to have sex with them but i don't all have sex with them so okay how many do you sleep with at a 0.97
00:00:37.520 time oh she just says she doesn't do it no she said she doesn't have to but cool she does i don't 0.99
00:00:44.720 unless they're lang which i do like old men with gray hair to be fair or arabs i find arab sexy as 0.84
00:00:50.560 well no i'm just i'm just kind of curious how it works so how much do they send you a month
00:00:55.600 well i've only been doing it for two three months but i mean i've only got what's two
00:01:03.600 consistent two more potentials but over 15k did you see that do buy potty so you get but i don't
00:01:12.080 do you have like a line of like something you won't do do you buy potty i don't do that
00:01:17.360 what is what is like a line for you three is there anything you wouldn't ship for money
00:01:26.720 you won't ship for money i asked her actually because basically we were having this conversation
00:01:30.960 i got offered like a lot of money to sleep with a guy and i said no lily said she would do it but 1.00
00:01:37.120 like i wouldn't do that personally because like i i don't i feel like i would feel really horrible
00:01:42.080 after and like i feel like it would have a lot like a really big effect on my mental health
00:01:45.920 and like i don't really sleep with guys anyway so i wouldn't really sleep with a guy for money because
00:01:50.320 like i don't know like i feel like to have sex with someone you've got to kind of like have like a
00:01:55.120 connection with them and i just feel like sleeping with someone that you don't have a connection with
00:02:00.080 in a random person like i just think it's a bit weird um okay so you won't do sex for money no i
00:02:06.560 don't do it i don't really like the thing is that i have a limit like i don't do everything um but like
00:02:13.920 um yeah some obviously some girls can like do it but i just wouldn't do it okay um and for you the
00:02:21.760 if the price is high enough you'll oh yeah i'll get shot on if it was like oh i would probably get
00:02:26.880 my cash shot on yeah for like so you know i wouldn't do the thing yeah see she she would 1.00
00:02:31.920 rather have a coffee she's a prude see i don't get that like i want to know like would you rather 1.00
00:02:38.880 have someone shot on your chest i think loads of men would do that for 50k plus i don't disagree 0.96
00:02:43.520 with you um okay weird people okay so you want to do the sugaring thing for how long 0.87
00:02:48.240 long and long enough till i've saved to buy assets i guess maybe okay so how much do you want to
00:02:55.600 save 100 200k okay and are you on on track are you saving most of it yeah yeah okay i've been
00:03:04.880 doing it for like three months so what 200k that's like two i can't do math like three years
00:03:09.920 maybe two three years anyone do math that's women in the room um okay and then what do you when do 1.00
00:03:20.320 you want to be married um before i'm 25. okay so i already know she's gonna marry a rich man six years 0.99
00:03:28.640 doesn't matter how much she makes she's gonna marry an old gray yeah i'm serious what made you go down 0.96
00:03:35.680 the only fans route why didn't you or sorry sugar it's all the same to me the the sex the sex work 0.99
00:03:41.040 route instead of you know sex worker i mean what else it's all sex work isn't it it's all sex work
00:03:47.120 um personally i don't think personally i actually don't think there's a difference between only
00:03:50.080 fans and prostitution i'm not saying i'm prostitutes or not but um i think it's the same thing because
00:03:54.720 tech i think most girls are doing fans don't just do it because of the money i think most of them do 1.00
00:03:59.200 it because they do like attention as well male attention i don't think there's anything wrong with that
00:04:02.720 but i do think most only fans girls don't do it just for the money i think that's ridiculous look 1.00
00:04:06.480 at anna paul for example anna paul could be making millions from tick tock but she chooses 0.99
00:04:10.880 to any fans because they like the attention as well and um but personally i think women that do the 1.00
00:04:16.560 sugar daddy stuff they literally just do it for the money um i don't really care about the attention
00:04:20.960 from old men i don't i i disagree because i think like um prostitution is very different to only
00:04:26.640 fans like i think having like causes the same destruction in society though the same the same bad
00:04:32.080 effects of society it causes the same thing men to cheat on their wives and pay for sex pay for 1.00
00:04:36.400 wanking you can't cheat on your wife by only fans you can't no you can't well so you think subscribing
00:04:41.360 to a guy only fans isn't cheating is it you would it be okay with your husband no i'm not saying it 0.99
00:04:44.720 would be okay but it's technically not cheating cheating is putting a dick in i think that i think 0.87
00:04:47.760 it's the same thing it's still it's still it's still unloyal i think okay actually i'm curious because
00:04:52.720 this is going to be a question if i found out i was dating someone and he was spending like
00:05:01.360 let's say a good chunk of change on an only fans check like two i think i'd rather have him
00:05:07.280 i would rather have a girl in real life at least he can get girls yeah i think i would i think like
00:05:13.520 finding out if he's kind of embarrassing i mean if it was like five bucks a month okay but i'm like if
00:05:18.320 he spent good money i think i would pick all right so who you're out i'm just i want to raise
00:05:23.680 of hands i'm just curious he cheats would you rather rather than cheating okay can you wait for
00:05:29.760 me to do the hands can you thank you all right so option one is he slept he spent you found out he
00:05:38.000 spent two grand on an only fans check option two is he slept with another chick one time when he was
00:05:44.400 drunk who picks option one who picks option two wow telling can you ask the question would you 1.00
00:05:54.320 rather your daughter do only fans or would you rather your daughter be a prostitute 1.00
00:05:59.200 there is a difference because it's physical right yeah one is like one's better for the guy and one's 0.97
00:06:03.520 better for the girl so it's kind of like you're the guy the girl can still be hoeing around doing 0.93
00:06:07.760 physical stuff yeah but i think i think the point it's all the same category to regular people it's
00:06:12.000 sex work yeah like i disagree strongly it's i mean you can disagree but i'm telling you how the world
00:06:18.000 doesn't only fans i agree again it's borderline isn't it yeah i mean it's it's slightly better but
00:06:23.680 it's like all the same to me the difference is you get money off it whereas the people in porn
00:06:27.920 don't get the money it's the directors the producers who get that money so again you're the
00:06:31.200 smarter ones out of that kind of scenario yeah because i mean i i don't porn porn stars don't actually make
00:06:36.800 that much money now they used to but they don't not like fans yeah because of early fans so readily
00:06:42.480 available everywhere yeah okay i'm curious when do you want to get married i'm not even sure if we
00:06:48.080 want to get married okay i don't like the language of marriage uh so um what would your ideal situation
00:06:53.760 be hang out a lot of chicks okay single and just running through checks yeah when i'm when i've had
00:07:02.640 enough do you is it just like what about a kid you want one or nah yeah i mean no not really no okay
00:07:10.560 i'm not even sure like no no i think a lot of guys feel this way to be honest yeah to look after a kid
00:07:15.920 that's just like such a how old are you 41. really you've aged really well yeah wow thanks my love i don't 0.99
00:07:22.320 i don't even think botox my dad's age like that if i want to fuck you now 1.00
00:07:30.720 all right um all right what about you um your age and when you want to get married i'm 32 i wanted 0.99
00:07:36.320 to get married when i was like 25. okay and what do you what do you felt like stopped you from getting
00:07:40.640 married um just circumstantial just you've got to be with someone who's compatible who share the same
00:07:46.400 values and morals basically and if you're not with that person you're not going to make that commitment
00:07:51.920 so why weren't you with that person i was oh i was and i wasn't at the same time again we just
00:07:56.880 decided we're very different people okay who decided that him are you okay so you decided you
00:08:02.320 were different what was too different um i just decided that i was a different person i wanted different
00:08:09.280 things i suppose okay so like he wanted to get married and you didn't no he proposed i just decided
00:08:14.800 not to get married to that particular person was it just i'm just curious like what it was about him
00:08:18.880 was it like a feeling or uh gut feeling just circumstantial like we worked in a very similar
00:08:23.600 place he put himself in a situation where i wouldn't put myself nor expect my fiance or future husband
00:08:27.600 to put themselves what kind of situation going on nights up in the rounds around girls buying them
00:08:31.360 drinks that's not my man if my man is with me my man is with me okay i'm like a man i don't do you
00:08:36.080 do you think so i'm i'm just just curious if you ended up not getting married would you regret that
00:08:41.520 decision okay so i'd rather live my life my life happily than with a man unhappily and settling for
00:08:46.880 less because again regardless if you're a man or woman you deserve a certain you know certain i don't
00:08:51.520 i think you kind of get what you deserve yeah yeah i don't yeah i agree i don't think there's like you
00:08:56.320 deserve anything yeah you get what you do yeah you're with so you're 32 um and you want to be married
00:09:01.680 as soon as possible do you want kids i want yes okay how many kids do you want depends whatever will come
00:09:08.800 my way okay do you feel like pressure being 32 and not married um no again i i feel the same amount
00:09:16.640 of pressure my parents i did when i was 22. i think my parents come from a generation where they think
00:09:20.560 that you should be 16 married with the kids and move on okay whereas again it's a generational thing
00:09:25.360 and how would you feel if you never got married i'm okay with it okay you're you're fine what's your
00:09:30.000 what's your plan for the second half of your life i can wing it
00:09:33.280 swing it like take every day that comes because not every day is guaranteed right but it you still
00:09:40.720 you need 2.5 million to retire are you on track for that no no absolutely not most most people in this
00:09:46.960 generation are okay with i know i know but so my question is more like what happens because like
00:09:53.200 let's say someday the government might stop giving people free money at some point i've never lived off
00:09:58.880 benefits i'm not i'm not saying you did but i'm saying a lot of women are on track too because 1.00
00:10:04.800 we're not making enough and we're not going to be able to work like we used to work so like you're
00:10:10.720 going to be like because a lot of us make money off of beauty and we don't realize that so it's like
00:10:15.360 you're going to be 65 it's a walmart greeter oh you can work in a call center it doesn't matter if
00:10:20.160 you're ugly or not you can work in a call center it makes no difference we know you can work at a call
00:10:25.200 center my point is that these aren't typically desirable high-income jobs but you don't have to 0.69
00:10:30.320 have that you don't not every person spies to have 10 million pound in the bank some people
00:10:35.280 my point is i think you underestimate how difficult it's going to be to work full-time at an old age
00:10:41.600 what if you get cancer what if you're sick you know especially like with the choices um and the food
00:10:48.160 and the water like a lot of us are going to have health issues right so you know what happens if the
00:10:54.240 government doesn't bail us out