JustPearlyThings - 304s STRUGGLE To Stomach This Fact

00:00:00.000 like millionaires they're not cheaters because they have this this this and that

00:00:03.980 like there is that and that like in life there is everything of everything like it's not like

00:00:10.360 oh because they're millionaires because they think logically or because they have a certain

00:00:14.600 lifestyle they don't do that because they are saints that's not like do you know what i mean

00:00:19.400 see it's it's interesting because i actually i sort of see both sides on this because like

00:00:23.780 where i grew up the cheating just wasn't really that big to be honest um where i grew up and i

00:00:28.760 grew up in a pretty like well-off community but at the same time the numbers don't support

00:00:33.580 you like at all um it's like the cheating rate is one and this is just self-admitted it's

00:00:37.720 one out of four um until you get over 250 000 then it ups to 50 and that's just self-admitted

00:00:42.760 so it's probably higher hmm yeah 100 sadly but you know people don't like giving their

00:00:48.600 their realities away but what but then it's like then you ask the question how reliable

00:00:54.220 as a self-report you know you know okay so go ahead go ahead can i just ask have we moved

00:01:00.040 on from that original question no i just want to bring it all the way back because i need

00:01:05.740 to give my perspective before we even move on like me as a man forget all of that and

00:01:13.040 i'm glad i'm glad what you said my brother go ahead you get me because i feel like every

00:01:17.460 time i get my point across people say i'm wrong but i feel like the past the past is very important

00:01:24.120 you know i'm trying to say some things build your character some things are part of you

00:01:30.740 yes and to be fair it does i'm sorry because if i don't want to do i'm sorry

00:01:37.940 no it's true you know what i'm trying to say what you've done you've done so now what i've

00:01:43.760 got to pick up baggage i've got to deal with luggage i'm sorry so yeah man for me i don't

00:01:51.340 judge anyone i've done a video myself as a man you love the hoes appreciate the hoes 1.00

00:01:58.040 nothing's wrong with them nothing's wrong with them but for me now marriage i'm sorry but listen

00:02:06.500 there are two types of hoes though so basically no no no no and i'm not being i'm not being 1.00

00:02:12.620 disrespectful there are some people who have been through traumas and sex is their is their

00:02:19.340 way of coping so that's how they become a hoes now if they're becoming a hoes from mental 1.00

00:02:23.740 traumas all right i would like to i'd like to just add one thing what i'm hearing what i'm hearing

00:02:28.040 here right here wait wait is an excuse thank you no no no no no no no no no no no no okay okay

00:02:38.040 who's who's ad-libbing who's ad-libbing there are some people that if you if you read documents 0.94

00:02:45.820 and all that they get raped and all that they get oh say grape say grape say grape 0.60

00:02:49.500 uh-huh they get graped and because i'm saying grape i'm forgetting but but remember they get

00:02:57.620 graped so then they kind of they feel depressed and they go through a lot of things and they don't

00:03:04.760 they don't they don't respect themselves and that's when that comes out when that comes

00:03:10.040 is this the exception or is it the rule no it's not it's not an exception now there's another type

00:03:14.360 of hole which they're they they know what they're doing they're sleeping around and they're happy just

00:03:19.480 to live that but here's but here's the problem with even the first how the world doesn't owe you

00:03:23.240 understanding yeah there's some people that go through that and don't make those choices

00:03:30.920 and so if you if you choose to make those choices like it's still the choice you made

00:03:35.000 and you can't whine about that but pearly do you know what that's what people underestimate but some

00:03:41.480 people we all we all have different hearts we all grow up differently we all go through different

00:03:46.520 experiences but it's not and we don't know no but but as as human beings as people we should be

00:03:53.320 understanding you can be understanding and treat them with respect and politely but that doesn't

00:04:01.560 mean that other men have to date you know but some people actually heal some people when they get love

00:04:06.600 and care you know i have to be honest i have to be honest wait before i started this show um i really

00:04:14.200 thought healing meant something else i really thought when women like healed they went to therapy 0.99

00:04:19.000 but i just found healing is like another word for just sleeping around and then they write in their

00:04:33.560 journals and they do some meditating guys guys guys stop stop interrupting me stop stop they do some

00:04:41.320 meditating and now they're healed no yes no i don't think healing works like that i think healing

00:04:47.960 works with actually self-reflecting challenging yourself and think okay how can i how can okay

00:04:54.600 i've done this this wasn't very nice and you self-reflect and you figure out how you're going to heal how

00:04:59.960 you're going to get through how you're going to treat a situation differently next time i do agree with

00:05:04.600 you there's there's learning from experience right um but it's like how many times you got to have the

00:05:09.880 same experience before you learn you know what i mean it's like not one two three 20 30 40.

00:05:15.960 what about by what i've seen i'm i don't know why but always stranger girls come and talk to me

00:05:21.400 and they tell me their whole lives and and what i find sad is and that's why i say like it's so

00:05:27.880 important for us as humans to be understanding because some people mentally they're not built like

00:05:34.120 that so i i think that we should be less understanding yes no i think i think i think okay i think it's good

00:05:40.360 no no i think it's good to be understanding when it comes to mental health but if it's too much no i

00:05:45.640 feel like i think that okay nowadays everybody's got a mental health everybody everyone's got anxiety

00:05:53.800 everyone's got yeah i remember i remember when oh you know what my least favorite word is now trauma

00:05:59.960 trauma trauma trauma used to be about war not your ex-boyfriend cheating on you three times that's not

00:06:05.400 trauma that's you but that's yeah that's what i said too but now now this is my trauma i've gone

00:06:10.680 through trauma because my ex-boyfriend like no it's supposed to be war because you took me back three

00:06:14.520 times so you're the kids yeah but i don't think i don't think i mean go ahead go ahead are you saying

00:06:20.280 in most cases when people talk about relationship trauma they're only talking specifically about the

00:06:25.880 cheating no they're just hopefully not the money yeah it's it's it's always talking about the

00:06:29.880 experience the heartbreak giving no because you know what oh this is giving every giving no pause

00:06:38.440 no pause giving giving not giving opportunities giving but this is this is not for them to man up

00:06:44.360 when you say when you say when you say when you say giving when you say giving okay one man up what

00:06:49.080 about woman up okay it's like yeah it's always the man needs to be better it's like it's like okay

00:06:57.320 when you have trauma and it's not even from relationships who's more who's who's more traditional

00:07:03.800 men make more than women at large for a lifetime men make more than women women way more than men

00:07:09.560 and they have higher body counts than men so so who needs to man up or women in general have higher 1.00

00:07:15.240 body counts than men yes sorry sorry guys guys guys one person at a time here there's a lot over

00:07:32.360 talking support because at the end of the day so one person at a time let the moderator pick the

00:07:36.680 person who's talking thank you one out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the

00:07:40.680 past year have one out of three women are they virgins or haven't had sex in the past year 0.78

00:07:45.800 i couldn't it's a bit both i think the world is going um transsexual i need to just say this like

00:07:56.520 you've heard stories where men have gloated about oh absolutely 250 women you would never hear a

00:08:03.000 woman say that unless she's from only fans you know i'm sorry i've just never experienced that

00:08:10.760 conversation yeah because women are going to brag about that stuff and one percent but it goes back 1.00

00:08:16.440 to a small percentage of men are having a lot of sex that's what he was saying earlier so a small 1.00

00:08:21.560 percentage of men they're the biggest whore or you know they're man whores right and so you're right 1.00

00:08:26.680 there are a small percentage of men that are having more sex than women but by and large women are having 1.00

00:08:31.320 more sex than men i don't know that's scary i'm scared i'm telling you it's all them it's all them 0.72

00:08:41.160 products i don't be i agree with her you know why because what she's saying i think is that the

00:08:45.880 chances of a woman to get more men and hiding it is measured than a man getting a woman and you know

00:08:51.880 can i say something please go on sorry sorry carry on i'll say after i'll say after no because

00:08:57.800 think about every woman here yeah yeah think about think about your dms yeah think about now think

00:09:03.160 about your dms yeah yeah now think about if you really wanted to you could have at least well good

00:09:09.480 looking women anyway not saying no do you know what i mean you could you can have at least actually i'd 1.00

00:09:13.800 like to kind of correct just one thing one thing i'm gonna correct then you can finish um an average

00:09:17.960 woman gets more matches on our dating apps than a top one person guy this is what i was just about

00:09:22.760 to say if you look at your dms you know for a fact if you rang if you just rang someone or just said

00:09:27.960 yeah come true how many geezers could you have as many as you wanted exactly that's what i'm saying so 0.98

00:09:34.600 realistically women probably do have the more sex we could do if we wanted to yeah but you don't know 1.00

00:09:40.440 yeah but what she's trying to say is that you don't actually know how many women they say it out loud 1.00

00:09:45.960 how many men no that's what i'm saying but no i'm just i'm just agreeing with what she said because

00:09:49.480 it's the truth because realistically it's done it's the women it is it's literally when you think

00:09:55.240 about your dms because this is this crazy place it's a crazy place no one looks at the dms but it's

00:10:02.520 also if you if you if you if you walked into a bar and you just you stood in the bar and you said

00:10:06.920 i will every geezer here imagine how many would do imagine how many how many members they've done that

00:10:13.400 on youtube before so yeah so they have like a girl go up to guys and a guy go up to girls and it's

00:10:19.640 like over half the guys are like okay like because she was a cute girl and they had a hot guy go up to 0.75

00:10:24.520 girls and it was like 99 of them said 0.71

JustPearlyThings - June 10, 2023

304s STRUGGLE To Stomach This Fact

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