JustPearlyThings - A Bitter Pill to SWALLOW

00:00:00.000 so so so we bring less to the table than ever how many women have a cookbook 1.00

00:00:05.040 of just recipes that they made themselves how many women have that that you know 1.00

00:00:11.120 what's her name the french nigella lawson okay but you're thinking you're thinking your own

00:00:15.760 recipes that you've written in there that passed down wait what do you mean that cooking that's

00:00:20.800 exactly how many how many women have a cookbook how many women know how to do it how many women 1.00

00:00:25.680 are neat and organized domestic how many men can build stuff how many men um kind of fix up the

00:00:30.640 home but not all men can say that they do okay okay okay let's just do let's just do all right

00:00:39.120 do any do any of you have a cookbook of recipes you've written yourself auntie any of you i can i

00:00:43.920 can cook a lot i don't write it down i said do you do you have recipes that have been passed down

00:00:48.000 generation to generation i do name five um so we have a special fried rice that we cook we have fish

00:00:54.560 stew i'm african we have a cookbook we have recipes how many of you are virgins okay

00:01:04.960 i'm saying what this is what men care about like the ideal woman for most men is a virgin 20 22 year

00:01:10.560 old roughly men are most attracted to 22 year olds right right you know honestly there's some data

00:01:15.600 that says younger some some says 18 some says even younger so let's not go let's go with 22.

00:01:20.000 do you want me to say something right just to um

00:01:26.080 my man when i was growing up i was in a dance group with this girl

00:01:30.800 and this girl was the most sexiest hot girl and it always went on about her and i went out with i 0.51

00:01:37.760 met her over the couple of weekends ago and i said yeah i saw your girl he goes oh she looks so hot 0.99

00:01:42.160 you know what i mean and i showed him a picture of her not a video he said to me do you know what

00:01:49.440 right you've upset me all the next day he was talking about it i couldn't sleep all the next day

00:01:54.400 she went from like a sexy eight-year-old to like a size 20 whale and he couldn't believe that it's the

00:02:00.640 same person i said i look a lot better in your eyes now don't i but i never had no problem with him

00:02:04.560 looking at other women because i know that we're coming to our age that was your crush back then that's 0.99

00:02:09.200 why i was happy to show him that women let themselves go they've always got so much to

00:02:14.400 talk about the men but when they get to a certain age they let themselves go and they still expect to

00:02:18.160 get the same men yeah whereas nine times out of ten keep up they don't keep up the energy they don't

00:02:22.160 keep it up no no no that's why i fake it women women they defo peak earlier like put it this way 0.95

00:02:28.320 yeah when we was all in school there wasn't 18 19 20 year old women pulling up in cars to pick up 1.00

00:02:37.200 the year 11 or the year 10 there was 80 19 year old men pulling up in cars to pick up the hottest

00:02:45.040 year 10 year 11 girl that that so it just goes to show women 100 they peak earlier and then how many

00:02:52.720 times have you seen like for the men yeah like within your friendship groups and whatnot there was

00:02:58.080 that girl that for certain man wasn't attainable in school yeah she was like i said the 80 19 year 0.99

00:03:04.960 was picking up all the or the baddest you in school in the yellow but fast forward you meet you buck her

00:03:10.880 down the line like at 24 25 all of a sudden she's following you and she's she's showing interest

00:03:19.680 yeah and she might not be totally down because she's lost the things men value now because she's probably

00:03:25.040 older she's probably fatter and she's probably slept with more dudes 1.00

00:03:27.920 she's going over the pizza she's less valuable to men yeah and and you've caught up because you've

00:03:32.720 gained more value yeah and but that's we're so brainwashed that we literally think like women we 0.57

00:03:36.960 literally think we're the prize when we offer less than ever it's not those but what's the whole thing

00:03:41.120 with fatter like you've said fatter a few times because what men want men don't like fat women that's not 1.00

00:03:46.640 true then why does every rich man have a victorious secret model or someone that looks like one but they still

00:03:52.480 cheat but they still cheat and generally cheating but no guys guys cheating isn't winning the winning

00:03:59.120 is the girl that gets the ring and the girl that gets the deed it's not winning just because just

00:04:02.560 because you got a dude to sleep with you guys will sleep with a hole in the wall that's not that's not

00:04:06.880 a prize that's not good everybody keeps on going at the fact but i just think it's a lack of discipline

00:04:13.600 that when you see somebody's overweight you gotta think to yourself what because everybody gets caught up

00:04:18.880 whenever you say whenever you mention the word fat and there's somebody fat around some most of the

00:04:23.680 time they always get offense to it but you can only say like you say if you're fat you're fat

00:04:27.920 but it's not about taking offense no no no no let me finish because the women always seem to think 1.00

00:04:32.880 like oh yeah they take lack of discipline that's what the men are seeing they're not seeing oh yeah

00:04:39.200 you got a bit of what they're thinking well i mean she can't control it because she control money 1.00

00:04:43.280 because she control herself because she control and that's what they're thinking about because

00:04:48.320 the biggest side i don't care whether people say oh they eat they're sick they're this they're that

00:04:52.160 they're whatever they're whatever they're whatever it's like a discipline pearl got fat i see pearl

00:04:57.760 going out there and doing the gym and you know having her talk today about more not more protein less 0.97

00:05:02.800 carbs and all that so as far as i'm concerned she's trying to do something about it even though she got

00:05:08.320 cut back on all them cupcakes but she's she's gonna he's gonna make her suffer for it he's gonna

00:05:12.560 i'm he's gonna make her suffer for it but me now i've got the same clothes as when my son was young

00:05:21.200 and what i find to realize now is that i tried on the dress the other day and it looked like it was

00:05:25.520 swallowing me i'm a size eight the dress is a size eight and what i realize now is that when i'm seeing

00:05:30.800 these fat people say oh yeah i'm a size 10 i figure you can't be a size 10 you know why because the people

00:05:35.840 that are making the clothes are making the size 10 bigger so me now i can go in certain places

00:05:41.520 and i have to buy a size four or size six i'm not a size four and a size six i'm a size eight to ten

00:05:46.480 i'm sorry auntie to say that's what you are now do you know what i mean but if that's the case then

00:05:50.800 you got the people there that normally 14 and 16 and they're saying they're size 12. but that's what

00:05:55.280 men women always say oh they're always saying that they're fat you know what because the men see it as a 1.00

00:05:58.880 lack of discipline the men see it as like you cannot be cooking good home cooked food and being that size

00:06:04.160 what do you not agree with i feel like it's a lot with what auntie's saying at all because i feel

00:06:11.520 like there are men out there that okay there are men out there that don't care about the size and

00:06:16.880 there are men out there that specifically go for bigger guys there are men out there that even are 0.51

00:06:20.960 feeders they purposely okay okay okay like fat women i get it obviously being fat is not in society 0.99

00:06:28.960 it's not being just being attractive but however i don't think it's fair to say what what percent of guys

00:06:34.400 i don't know statistics so no i'm saying like come on let's just be like let's just be real for a

00:06:39.040 second yeah i'm being like no let's be real what percent of guys is that common men to be feel like

00:06:43.440 this is what girls always do it's every time we make a point that's for the men and that makes sense 1.00

00:06:48.480 we have to bring up the exception if if that was the case then you would see the men with the most

00:06:54.160 options the most handsome men and the most rich men with fat chicks but they're not but it's because 0.50

00:06:59.440 they're the men no the men that that date fat the men that date fat chicks it's usually they don't 0.76

00:07:05.040 have as many options and some girls get away with it a little bit more because they're shaped better 1.00

00:07:09.600 they have a pretty face but by and large men just don't like fat girls would you go to the chicken 1.00

00:07:13.680 shop and buy a bone and a bit of chicken with no meat on it would you go to the chicken shop and 0.99

00:07:20.160 ask for a side breast with no meat just they might they might like ass and boobs but they don't want 1.00

00:07:25.600 a gut that's not asking for like chicken back yes i do but then you go i prefer chicken back to 0.99

00:07:31.200 chicken breast do you go to the chicken shop to buy chicken with no meat on it no you don't you want

00:07:35.040 some meat on your chicken okay okay okay let's let's talk to the men yeah that comparison makes

00:07:40.400 no sense let's talk today yeah i've heard like like from what i can hear and see yeah it's like

00:07:46.960 the common problem today is that the young women of this generation they think they know what men want

00:07:54.000 and they say it with such like such conviction but you just need to listen and ask a bit more because

00:08:00.960 there's men in the room there's men within your life like you you can't truly say you you know

00:08:07.680 what a man wants because quite clearly in almost every time you've been wrong so no like no and we

00:08:15.200 only base that off of what men say because men are the ones online men are the ones online going i like

00:08:20.400 my girls do you would you do you think it's any validity that these are all random dudes that i

00:08:28.080 barely know barely know that random so this is at random so if they give you an answer and it's all

00:08:33.600 the same would you say that says something about men so i'm gonna ask them i don't know what they're

00:08:37.440 gonna say i don't know them i can't influence them i would say that a lot of men follow each other's

00:08:41.920 mentality like so they don't speak their own i don't think they speak their real food and and and

00:08:47.520 and i'm gonna follow up and say as well there's like men that that deep down they love big girls but

00:08:51.600 they're embarrassed to show it because their mandem their group don't like big girls so if they speak up and

00:08:57.360 say well i like it like you just said you like big girls that's real because most guys will follow

00:09:01.120 what each other man says and i feel like maybe maybe like i feel like early 2000s 100 being thick

00:09:07.680 being even my size like obviously i'm a bigger girl isn't it i don't think i'm fat other people might

00:09:12.160 think i'm fat but i know i'm i'm a big girl don't worry no no but i'm not saying it like that i'm just

00:09:17.600 saying i'm like you said be real so i know what people would think about me but i know i think about

00:09:21.440 myself but but now i'm talking now i'm back in the day yeah you're right being fat was a no-no but if we're

00:09:27.200 talking now it's like it's completely no girl making songs about no okay because girls want

00:09:32.560 girls want to be brain like this is the thing they brainwash us this is what they're doing they're 1.00

00:09:36.880 making you think that men like fat chicks i'm telling you i've talked to 100 hundreds of men 1.00

00:09:42.320 if they have a choice between a girl with a big ass big boobs and small waist or a girl with a gut 1.00

00:09:48.480 and both they're picking the girl that's why everyone's getting bbls yeah sorry one second anti yeah just 0.99

00:09:53.120 let me finish this but what i'm saying is men that means men are chatting because online

00:09:58.000 now all you see is i want to go with a fooper i want to go with with i want to i want to know okay

00:10:03.760 i'll tell you you got like who has who has more social media men or women social media is for women

00:10:10.160 it is for women they pander to us to get it is for absolutely for women women make 70 to 80 of

00:10:16.880 consumer buying decisions they're trying to sell you something that that's what they're doing do you know

00:10:21.920 something right people just need to come off people just need to come off social media

00:10:27.760 because you got real men here in the flesh telling you what they like and you're saying she said yeah

00:10:34.080 but online agreed yeah but she's saying but online they tell me you cannot see guys online guys online 0.95

00:10:40.960 like okay let's hear from the media lines do women do you guys like fat chicks if so how fat no i don't 1.00

00:10:48.880 no no it's not my it's not my preference okay but i've slept with one experience i have an experience but 0.92

00:10:56.000 no okay hey uh this is there's levels to it there's levels okay there's levels for me so

00:11:03.200 so this is bigger than you no no that's all this will be a big dog no no talk in the mic talk in

00:11:08.720 the mic do you would you date a girl bigger than you lisa i'm bigger than me yeah no because i'm going

00:11:14.480 down okay okay i was i was a very small guy i just got big but i'm going back down now okay okay so

00:11:20.880 all right a girl let's say let's say 200. what 200 500 200 too fat 1.00

00:11:28.800 for a wife for a girl you take it to a girl a girl you a girl you take out in public sleeping with 0.93

00:11:34.400 doesn't count you have to take her out in public no okay so like girlfriend yeah you can't my mother 1.00

00:11:40.880 would have a problem with that i'm never gonna lie still okay okay okay 170 and what's that in stone

00:11:47.040 what give me that this is

00:11:47.840 oh i don't know i don't know 12 13 stone 13 stone 13 stone all-star autology five foot i beg you guys

00:11:58.400 five five that's average five five that's very huge for no i can't do it i can't do it my mom won't

00:12:04.720 approve of it okay 150 i watch that in stones man do you know 150 sorry you need to turn my thing up

00:12:12.800 big dog okay but but in general no bigger than you smaller than you okay all right then let's do size

00:12:19.360 and close 14 16 18 20. oh mommy why man 12. you could have pressure you okay okay okay so you said

00:12:29.040 no fat girls you said maybe chunky 12 okay and no no no let's add blessing yes or no blessing

00:12:40.480 we're gonna just one more guy i'm lying okay i actually wanted to add more i wanted to go on

00:12:45.200 go ahead go ahead adding on to what auntie said it's sorry it's not even just about like look it's

00:12:50.560 about the health thing you know especially if you want to be with a long term you've got to think

00:12:54.080 diabetes you've got to think like the heart rate you've got to think even just basic stuff like

00:13:00.240 her being able to see her toes like well because if you're a fat you're going to have health problems 1.00

00:13:03.920 someone's got to take care of this is what i'm saying and he's being nice it boils down to lifestyle

00:13:08.160 though isn't it like like me i'm an active guy go to the gym so for me i need my girl to be going to

00:13:12.720 the gym yes i said discipline he's being nice yeah she's as a man yeah it's like see the health

00:13:18.320 stuff yeah cool that's yeah you maybe you don't want her to drop dead but another i tell you a 0.98

00:13:23.440 big thing what man think about you is you're meeting a woman that's like borderline fat you 1.00

00:13:29.600 even breed her yeah yeah yeah even breed her when the baby and hear what i'm saying the

00:13:34.960 comfortability of of making her your woman there's a certain comfortability where inevitably 0.95

00:13:39.600 she's gonna gain a couple because now there's it you're off the market so this is why women say 1.00

00:13:44.400 they don't do nothing but typically when you're off the market you're getting a couple when you're

00:13:49.040 on the market but in general but in general so guys think about that so if you're already borderline

00:13:56.080 man think oh hold on yeah because the average with every kid it's like 30 pounds on average which

00:14:00.480 is it which it shouldn't be but that's that's what it is in the west okay can i can i just drop some

00:14:04.320 game for the girls can i just drop yeah i lost two stone after the birth that's two stone listen

00:14:09.280 yeah that's straight wow we even look at women we look at moms and say yeah i reckon she might

00:14:14.560 they always say that if you want to see what your future will be like look at the woman's 1.00

00:14:22.560 i'm gonna drop some game for you girls yeah look women control sex men control marriage in it so 1.00

00:14:27.360 at the end of the day you can sleep with as many guys as you want but the guys that you want you need

00:14:32.720 to conform to what they actually want so you have to listen to what men actually want do you know

00:14:36.880 i mean like i've my girl managed to get me locked down because i met her she was submissive she cooked 1.00

00:14:44.320 clean anything i needed she did it she finished cooking he takes the plate away and i don't have

00:14:51.440 to do anything i go to her i go to her flat i just sit there and i don't have to do anything she just

00:14:56.240 she just wants to serve me look after me do everything she goes to the gym keeps herself looking fit 1.00

00:15:01.920 she listens to me if we go out for dinner or something and i don't like what she's wearing

00:15:06.560 she comes out and i give her i don't even say anything if i if i if i if i'm not looking at

00:15:10.240 her going raw i love that she's like i'm gonna go change like because she's just she wants my

00:15:16.880 approval do you know i mean so so so that is what men want really because me i don't need to look

00:15:22.240 elsewhere no more you know what i mean so that is what men want and and women are so hard-headed that 0.72

00:15:27.600 they don't want to listen to that because they want to just believe they want to believe they

00:15:31.120 want to wear what they want to wear it's not a weakness it's a strength it's a massive you're

00:15:35.840 doing too much no it's a strength because i know what they're going to say why can't you cook for

00:15:40.880 yourself why does the woman have to cook for you why does it women can't cook but they don't think 1.00

00:15:45.760 that men can cook for themselves and the woman is choosing to cook for you she's choosing why are you 1.00

00:15:51.520 telling her she makes all these choices you're insecure because from the time a man's telling

00:15:55.600 the woman that she needs to lose weight or she's too fat you're insecure once she's doing as you'll 1.00

00:16:00.800 say it's not her being submissive you're treating her like a slave it's a choice and she and my girl 0.70

00:16:05.760 makes these choices because she knows it's going to make me happy and her priority is just to make

00:16:10.320 me happy because making me happy it's going to make her happy because the happier i am the better

00:16:15.040 i'm going to treat her and they're better exactly so it like it just makes sense you know

JustPearlyThings - May 21, 2023

A Bitter Pill to SWALLOW

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