A Bitter Pill to SWALLOW
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the fact that women peak earlier than men and why this is a problem. We also discuss why men cheat so much and why women cheat so little. We discuss the difference between fat women and fat men and how to deal with it.
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so so so we bring less to the table than ever how many women have a cookbook
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of just recipes that they made themselves how many women have that that you know
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what's her name the french nigella lawson okay but you're thinking you're thinking your own
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recipes that you've written in there that passed down wait what do you mean that cooking that's
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exactly how many how many women have a cookbook how many women know how to do it how many women
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are neat and organized domestic how many men can build stuff how many men um kind of fix up the
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home but not all men can say that they do okay okay okay let's just do let's just do all right
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do any do any of you have a cookbook of recipes you've written yourself auntie any of you i can i
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can cook a lot i don't write it down i said do you do you have recipes that have been passed down
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generation to generation i do name five um so we have a special fried rice that we cook we have fish
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stew i'm african we have a cookbook we have recipes how many of you are virgins okay
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i'm saying what this is what men care about like the ideal woman for most men is a virgin 20 22 year
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old roughly men are most attracted to 22 year olds right right you know honestly there's some data
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that says younger some some says 18 some says even younger so let's not go let's go with 22.
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do you want me to say something right just to um
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my man when i was growing up i was in a dance group with this girl
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and this girl was the most sexiest hot girl and it always went on about her and i went out with i
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met her over the couple of weekends ago and i said yeah i saw your girl he goes oh she looks so hot
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you know what i mean and i showed him a picture of her not a video he said to me do you know what
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right you've upset me all the next day he was talking about it i couldn't sleep all the next day
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she went from like a sexy eight-year-old to like a size 20 whale and he couldn't believe that it's the
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same person i said i look a lot better in your eyes now don't i but i never had no problem with him
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looking at other women because i know that we're coming to our age that was your crush back then that's
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why i was happy to show him that women let themselves go they've always got so much to
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talk about the men but when they get to a certain age they let themselves go and they still expect to
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get the same men yeah whereas nine times out of ten keep up they don't keep up the energy they don't
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keep it up no no no that's why i fake it women women they defo peak earlier like put it this way
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yeah when we was all in school there wasn't 18 19 20 year old women pulling up in cars to pick up
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the year 11 or the year 10 there was 80 19 year old men pulling up in cars to pick up the hottest
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year 10 year 11 girl that that so it just goes to show women 100 they peak earlier and then how many
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times have you seen like for the men yeah like within your friendship groups and whatnot there was
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that girl that for certain man wasn't attainable in school yeah she was like i said the 80 19 year
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was picking up all the or the baddest you in school in the yellow but fast forward you meet you buck her
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down the line like at 24 25 all of a sudden she's following you and she's she's showing interest
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yeah and she might not be totally down because she's lost the things men value now because she's probably
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older she's probably fatter and she's probably slept with more dudes
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she's going over the pizza she's less valuable to men yeah and and you've caught up because you've
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gained more value yeah and but that's we're so brainwashed that we literally think like women we
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literally think we're the prize when we offer less than ever it's not those but what's the whole thing
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with fatter like you've said fatter a few times because what men want men don't like fat women that's not
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true then why does every rich man have a victorious secret model or someone that looks like one but they still
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cheat but they still cheat and generally cheating but no guys guys cheating isn't winning the winning
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is the girl that gets the ring and the girl that gets the deed it's not winning just because just
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because you got a dude to sleep with you guys will sleep with a hole in the wall that's not that's not
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a prize that's not good everybody keeps on going at the fact but i just think it's a lack of discipline
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that when you see somebody's overweight you gotta think to yourself what because everybody gets caught up
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whenever you say whenever you mention the word fat and there's somebody fat around some most of the
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time they always get offense to it but you can only say like you say if you're fat you're fat
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but it's not about taking offense no no no no let me finish because the women always seem to think
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like oh yeah they take lack of discipline that's what the men are seeing they're not seeing oh yeah
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you got a bit of what they're thinking well i mean she can't control it because she control money
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because she control herself because she control and that's what they're thinking about because
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the biggest side i don't care whether people say oh they eat they're sick they're this they're that
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they're whatever they're whatever they're whatever it's like a discipline pearl got fat i see pearl
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going out there and doing the gym and you know having her talk today about more not more protein less
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carbs and all that so as far as i'm concerned she's trying to do something about it even though she got
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cut back on all them cupcakes but she's she's gonna he's gonna make her suffer for it he's gonna
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i'm he's gonna make her suffer for it but me now i've got the same clothes as when my son was young
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and what i find to realize now is that i tried on the dress the other day and it looked like it was
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swallowing me i'm a size eight the dress is a size eight and what i realize now is that when i'm seeing
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these fat people say oh yeah i'm a size 10 i figure you can't be a size 10 you know why because the people
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that are making the clothes are making the size 10 bigger so me now i can go in certain places
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and i have to buy a size four or size six i'm not a size four and a size six i'm a size eight to ten
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i'm sorry auntie to say that's what you are now do you know what i mean but if that's the case then
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you got the people there that normally 14 and 16 and they're saying they're size 12. but that's what
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men women always say oh they're always saying that they're fat you know what because the men see it as a
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lack of discipline the men see it as like you cannot be cooking good home cooked food and being that size
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what do you not agree with i feel like it's a lot with what auntie's saying at all because i feel
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like there are men out there that okay there are men out there that don't care about the size and
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there are men out there that specifically go for bigger guys there are men out there that even are
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feeders they purposely okay okay okay like fat women i get it obviously being fat is not in society
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it's not being just being attractive but however i don't think it's fair to say what what percent of guys
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i don't know statistics so no i'm saying like come on let's just be like let's just be real for a
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second yeah i'm being like no let's be real what percent of guys is that common men to be feel like
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this is what girls always do it's every time we make a point that's for the men and that makes sense
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we have to bring up the exception if if that was the case then you would see the men with the most
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options the most handsome men and the most rich men with fat chicks but they're not but it's because
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they're the men no the men that that date fat the men that date fat chicks it's usually they don't
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have as many options and some girls get away with it a little bit more because they're shaped better
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they have a pretty face but by and large men just don't like fat girls would you go to the chicken
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shop and buy a bone and a bit of chicken with no meat on it would you go to the chicken shop and
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ask for a side breast with no meat just they might they might like ass and boobs but they don't want
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a gut that's not asking for like chicken back yes i do but then you go i prefer chicken back to
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chicken breast do you go to the chicken shop to buy chicken with no meat on it no you don't you want
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some meat on your chicken okay okay okay let's let's talk to the men yeah that comparison makes
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no sense let's talk today yeah i've heard like like from what i can hear and see yeah it's like
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the common problem today is that the young women of this generation they think they know what men want
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and they say it with such like such conviction but you just need to listen and ask a bit more because
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there's men in the room there's men within your life like you you can't truly say you you know
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what a man wants because quite clearly in almost every time you've been wrong so no like no and we
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only base that off of what men say because men are the ones online men are the ones online going i like
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my girls do you would you do you think it's any validity that these are all random dudes that i
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barely know barely know that random so this is at random so if they give you an answer and it's all
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the same would you say that says something about men so i'm gonna ask them i don't know what they're
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gonna say i don't know them i can't influence them i would say that a lot of men follow each other's
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mentality like so they don't speak their own i don't think they speak their real food and and and
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and i'm gonna follow up and say as well there's like men that that deep down they love big girls but
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they're embarrassed to show it because their mandem their group don't like big girls so if they speak up and
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say well i like it like you just said you like big girls that's real because most guys will follow
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what each other man says and i feel like maybe maybe like i feel like early 2000s 100 being thick
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being even my size like obviously i'm a bigger girl isn't it i don't think i'm fat other people might
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think i'm fat but i know i'm i'm a big girl don't worry no no but i'm not saying it like that i'm just
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saying i'm like you said be real so i know what people would think about me but i know i think about
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myself but but now i'm talking now i'm back in the day yeah you're right being fat was a no-no but if we're
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talking now it's like it's completely no girl making songs about no okay because girls want
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girls want to be brain like this is the thing they brainwash us this is what they're doing they're
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making you think that men like fat chicks i'm telling you i've talked to 100 hundreds of men
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if they have a choice between a girl with a big ass big boobs and small waist or a girl with a gut
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and both they're picking the girl that's why everyone's getting bbls yeah sorry one second anti yeah just
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let me finish this but what i'm saying is men that means men are chatting because online
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now all you see is i want to go with a fooper i want to go with with i want to i want to know okay
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i'll tell you you got like who has who has more social media men or women social media is for women
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it is for women they pander to us to get it is for absolutely for women women make 70 to 80 of
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consumer buying decisions they're trying to sell you something that that's what they're doing do you know
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something right people just need to come off people just need to come off social media
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because you got real men here in the flesh telling you what they like and you're saying she said yeah
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but online agreed yeah but she's saying but online they tell me you cannot see guys online guys online
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like okay let's hear from the media lines do women do you guys like fat chicks if so how fat no i don't
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no no it's not my it's not my preference okay but i've slept with one experience i have an experience but
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no okay hey uh this is there's levels to it there's levels okay there's levels for me so
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so this is bigger than you no no that's all this will be a big dog no no talk in the mic talk in
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the mic do you would you date a girl bigger than you lisa i'm bigger than me yeah no because i'm going
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down okay okay i was i was a very small guy i just got big but i'm going back down now okay okay so
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all right a girl let's say let's say 200. what 200 500 200 too fat
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for a wife for a girl you take it to a girl a girl you a girl you take out in public sleeping with
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doesn't count you have to take her out in public no okay so like girlfriend yeah you can't my mother
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would have a problem with that i'm never gonna lie still okay okay okay 170 and what's that in stone
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oh i don't know i don't know 12 13 stone 13 stone 13 stone all-star autology five foot i beg you guys
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five five that's average five five that's very huge for no i can't do it i can't do it my mom won't
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approve of it okay 150 i watch that in stones man do you know 150 sorry you need to turn my thing up
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big dog okay but but in general no bigger than you smaller than you okay all right then let's do size
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and close 14 16 18 20. oh mommy why man 12. you could have pressure you okay okay okay so you said
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no fat girls you said maybe chunky 12 okay and no no no let's add blessing yes or no blessing
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we're gonna just one more guy i'm lying okay i actually wanted to add more i wanted to go on
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go ahead go ahead adding on to what auntie said it's sorry it's not even just about like look it's
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about the health thing you know especially if you want to be with a long term you've got to think
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diabetes you've got to think like the heart rate you've got to think even just basic stuff like
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her being able to see her toes like well because if you're a fat you're going to have health problems
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someone's got to take care of this is what i'm saying and he's being nice it boils down to lifestyle
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though isn't it like like me i'm an active guy go to the gym so for me i need my girl to be going to
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the gym yes i said discipline he's being nice yeah she's as a man yeah it's like see the health
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stuff yeah cool that's yeah you maybe you don't want her to drop dead but another i tell you a
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big thing what man think about you is you're meeting a woman that's like borderline fat you
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even breed her yeah yeah yeah even breed her when the baby and hear what i'm saying the
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comfortability of of making her your woman there's a certain comfortability where inevitably
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she's gonna gain a couple because now there's it you're off the market so this is why women say
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they don't do nothing but typically when you're off the market you're getting a couple when you're
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on the market but in general but in general so guys think about that so if you're already borderline
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man think oh hold on yeah because the average with every kid it's like 30 pounds on average which
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is it which it shouldn't be but that's that's what it is in the west okay can i can i just drop some
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game for the girls can i just drop yeah i lost two stone after the birth that's two stone listen
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yeah that's straight wow we even look at women we look at moms and say yeah i reckon she might
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they always say that if you want to see what your future will be like look at the woman's
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i'm gonna drop some game for you girls yeah look women control sex men control marriage in it so
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at the end of the day you can sleep with as many guys as you want but the guys that you want you need
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to conform to what they actually want so you have to listen to what men actually want do you know
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i mean like i've my girl managed to get me locked down because i met her she was submissive she cooked
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clean anything i needed she did it she finished cooking he takes the plate away and i don't have
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to do anything i go to her i go to her flat i just sit there and i don't have to do anything she just
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she just wants to serve me look after me do everything she goes to the gym keeps herself looking fit
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she listens to me if we go out for dinner or something and i don't like what she's wearing
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she comes out and i give her i don't even say anything if i if i if i if i'm not looking at
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her going raw i love that she's like i'm gonna go change like because she's just she wants my
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approval do you know i mean so so so that is what men want really because me i don't need to look
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elsewhere no more you know what i mean so that is what men want and and women are so hard-headed that
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they don't want to listen to that because they want to just believe they want to believe they
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want to wear what they want to wear it's not a weakness it's a strength it's a massive you're
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doing too much no it's a strength because i know what they're going to say why can't you cook for
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yourself why does the woman have to cook for you why does it women can't cook but they don't think
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that men can cook for themselves and the woman is choosing to cook for you she's choosing why are you
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telling her she makes all these choices you're insecure because from the time a man's telling
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the woman that she needs to lose weight or she's too fat you're insecure once she's doing as you'll
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say it's not her being submissive you're treating her like a slave it's a choice and she and my girl
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makes these choices because she knows it's going to make me happy and her priority is just to make
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me happy because making me happy it's going to make her happy because the happier i am the better
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i'm going to treat her and they're better exactly so it like it just makes sense you know