Adam22's Wife Gets RAN THROUGH By Five Guys ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 58
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This week on Pearl Daily: Adam 22 calls me a misogynist, Adam 22's wife has a porno with 5 other men, and I talk about why you should just be in a relationship if you don't have kids.
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What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily where
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I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Before I start, don't forget to
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my daily videos. And guys, let's get this video to 2,000 likes. That's the most important metric
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that YouTube uses to push out these streams. So guys, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I forgot
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to tell you that I was gone the last two weeks. I went to Miami for some podcasts and Christine
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filled in for me like the helpful chick that she is. Thank you guys for your patience. I am back
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and I'm ready now. And guys, I think hell has frozen over while I've been gone. I have seen story after
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story after story just telling me we are in the end of times. All that stuff in the Bible, what they're
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talking about in Revelation, it's really going on. So I don't know when the asteroid's going to hit,
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but I am literally waiting every single day just praying to God, please, please, please do not let
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the asteroid hit today, please. Okay, so first of all, Adam 22. Adam calls me a misogynist. Do you guys
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remember this beef I had with Adam? Me and Adam were fine. I enjoyed going on his show. And then he this
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summer decides to call me a misogynist. Now I take this allegation very seriously. This is very serious
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stuff. And I don't take that lightly. He also continued to talk about how I fell off, I guess.
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I guess I'm just falling off. And really all of these guests come on his show to talk shit about me. So
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Adam, this is just me pointing out that the real misogyny is having your wife sleep with five men.
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Now, Adam 22 loaned his wife out to another man. So he had his wife of like three months do a porno
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with another man right after they got married. So Lena the plug slept with Jason Love and they did
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a porno together. And really, guys, I think this is an insult to the institution of marriage.
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I don't understand why people like this get married. Marriage is supposed to be a religious
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institution. I'm a Catholic. And in the Catholic Church, we believe it's till death do you part for
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richer, for poorer, for sickness and in health, till death do you part. And people like this make a
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mockery of the sacrament of marriage. Now, Adam 22 has really insulted me many times on the internet.
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And his most recent insult, you know, I half kiddingly asked if his wife wanted to box me,
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you know, because I went boxing in Miami. I was like, I did my first time and I just thought it was funny.
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And he says that he is going to box me because apparently I am trans. I didn't know my whole
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life. I didn't know I was trans. I didn't. I've never been told that I looked like a man before I
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came on the internet. But apparently I am just super manly and I am just a trans. Apparently, you know.
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So that's a bit rude. That's a bit rude. But, you know, whatever, whatever. So recently he decided
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to release a photo of his wife, Lena, with five men behind him. Let's pull it up.
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Oh my gosh. One guy wasn't enough. Now we're going to do not one, not two, not three, not four,
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but five men. I think this is very sad. I think it's very sad. I think it's sad because one day,
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again, Pearl cares about the kids here. If you guys wanted to just be in a relationship and do
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this craziness, that's fine. That's on you. But I think that children have rights. And I think it is
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your responsibility as a parent to not do things that would make it difficult for your kid to grow
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up. And I don't know why they keep engaging in behavior that one day their kid is going to have
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to grow up. And see, I think it's wrong. And I think it's selfish. So Twitter has had a lot to say
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about this. Now, Ryan says, bring the camera guy for your wife's five guy meal is insane. Yes, this is
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crazy. Why did you guys have to get married? Just be in a relationship and don't make the kids suffer.
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Yes, guys, that is making the kids suffer. So I tweeted, it is the end of times. Yes, yes,
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I do think this is the end of times. You know, and I will say Adam is a marketing genius. I am sure
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they are making a shit ton off of this. Now, but at what cost? Is this worth the price that you pay?
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I mean, your kid's mental health, oh, whatever. I guess, I guess they'll be fine. And you know what?
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We have had an entire generation of people that said their kids will be fine. My kid will be fine
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in a single mother home. My kid will be fine without their dad around. My kid will be fine with me
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working as a stripper. My kid will be fine with me working and not being at home. And
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the truth of the matter is these kids are not fine. We have more mental health issues in America
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than we have ever had in all of history. We have kids wake up and just decide to shoot up a school.
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And a lot of these issues are linked to a breakdown in the family unit with parents that really were
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just selfish, where they thought, oh, my money is more important. My feelings are more important.
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And my career is more important. And really, they're trading their kids' mental health for what?
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Now, the world is just going to hell. The world is just freezing over. Like, I really think this is
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the end of times. Because not only, not only is Adam 22 going mad, we have Jada Smith embarrassing
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Will Smith. Now, guys, a couple times of a crazy lady. One is Jada Pickett Smith not taking Will
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Smith's last name. A lot of feminists will do the two last name thing where it's like,
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why don't you want to belong to your husband? Why do you want to belong to yourself, Andrew? That
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doesn't really make sense to me. So, as you guys may or may not know, Jada has really embarrassed
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Will Smith. Will Smith and Jada Pickett Smith were like the couple of the century. Everybody loved them.
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They talked about how amazing they were, how awesome they were. And there were all these clips in the
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early 2000s of them really being put on a pedestal as a couple. Now, guys,
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I remember I had this conversation with my mother. Before any of the entanglement stuff came out,
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I said, there is something wrong in that family. And my mom, my mom said, no. She said, no,
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they're cute, whatever. I said, no, no, no. Something is off. Something is off. Because their
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kids are messed up. Because I saw a video of Willow Smith talking about how she was in an open
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relationship. And I remember she was like 18, 19 at the time. And I thought, where the hell did she get
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these ideas? There's no way in hell that I would have ever thought to be in an open relationship.
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I wouldn't even know what that was. And later, it comes out that Will and Jada were in an open
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relationship. Kind of makes sense. But anyways, I called this. I called this before anybody. Now,
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Jada is basically going on a tour for her new book. And on this tour, Jada reveals that Tupac proposed to
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her while he was in jail. Let's pull it up. A lot of people might not know, but he proposed to you
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while he was in jail. I talk about this in the book when I go to see him in Rikers. When I wrote
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about that in the book and when I had to talk about it, speak my words for the audible version of the
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book. That was probably one of the more painful parts, seeing him there, the condition that he was
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in and having to leave him there. And he was in bad shape. And so when he asked me to get married,
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he was at Rikers. And I knew at that time that A, he needed somebody to do time with him,
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which I was going to do anyway. He didn't have to marry me to do time with him. Right? I'm here.
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I see why we love you. And then to, like, he needed a Rikers. Can you imagine being married
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to a woman for 20 plus years and she's still talking about her high school boyfriend? Now,
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Jada alleges they never hooked up or anything, but even if it was just an emotional thing, like,
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Jada, it's been 20 plus years. It's been 20 plus years. And it's so bad to the point that
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her daughter is talking about how she misses Tupac. And even Will Smith admitted that at one point he
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was jealous of their relationship. Can you imagine? A man that's been gone for how long? And, you know,
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there's more to this interview. So I wanted to pull up another clip. He needed, because of our
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friendship and because of everything we had been through together, he just wanted to feel that
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solidified foundation, you know, because I promise you he would have married me and divorced me as
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soon as I was left out. He would have. I'll be real with it. Right. Because so many people in that
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position don't have support. Right. None at all. None. You know. And he got the best. Right. He was
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just like, look. And I just think it was the mind state that he was in. You know, he, he wrote me
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this long letter. And I think even before Pac went to jail, he was starting to trend. He was starting
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to shift in a certain manner. Good or bad? Good. Really good. So guys, again, this is why men pass
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up on women that have dated bad boys in the past, because a lot of times the men of the future cannot
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live up to the drama and excitement they got out of those toxic relationships. Now she claims they
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never hooked up. I doubt it. But let's, let's just assume she's telling the truth and they never hooked
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up. That means this is the type of guy that can put a woman in the friend zone. Yes, those guys do
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exist and they will put women in the friend zone. Now she's in the position where Will, the stand up
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family man, will never live up to the bad boy that she never got and she never could get. So if you
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guys don't remember, last year, Will Smith went viral for slapping Chris Rock at the Oscars.
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Chris Rock made a joke about Jada and, you know, Will just got super mad and then went up and slapped
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him for it. Oh, wow. Wow. Will Smith just smacked the shit out of me. So fast forward to 2023. Jada
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Pickett-Smith says she was surprised. Will referred to her as wife at the Oscars. We have been separated
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for six years. Let's pull it up. Now, first of all, I'm really shocked because mind you, I'm not there.
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We haven't called each other husband and wife in a long time. I'm like, what is going on right now?
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My wife's name. My wife's name out of your mouth, right? And I'm like, but now I'm really worried
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for Will because I don't know what's going on. Essentially, Will and Jada were going on all these
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talk shows talking about how happily married they were, giving this presentation to the world that
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they were happily married. And really, I would argue that this is fraud. How many people modeled
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their relationship after them, not knowing how crazy it really was? And it's funny because in the
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red pill, this has been known. They have known that Jada was nuts for years. They've predicted this.
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And there's telltale signs that you can really pick up in relationships to see who's leading it.
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And typically, if the woman's leading it, we just lead things to destruction. So one sign is that the
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wife doesn't take the husband's last name. Another sign is that they refer to it as a partnership.
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They didn't do it there, but that's a common one. Another one is who speaks first when the
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couple is asked a question? Who's generally the center of attention when they're talking to a
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couple? Does the woman feel like she needs to ask for permission from her husband to do things,
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go places, or make family decisions? And you'll see that Jada and Will over the years have displayed
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many, many of those warning signs. But you really wouldn't know unless you're in the red pill.
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So let's pull up this old clip of Jada. Pull it up.
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The only person that can give permission is myself.
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The only person who can give permission to fuck my pussy is me.
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She's your wife. You don't have any control over who fucks her.
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I'm the only one who tells with a nigga to fuck my pussy.
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Oh yeah, someone rallied your wife for four years. What's your issue? Your child issue.
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It all started with him just needing some help.
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You notice what she did there? She started the story and she's put herself in a position of moral high ground.
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Not I was looking for dick. We became friends. He needed help. So being the great, nice person,
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you can't get mad at her for helping him. That would be terrible.
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He needed some help. And I thought if I give him a blowjob, maybe.
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Do you know how many people I've helped without fucking? That's what my reply would be.
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Because I held the door open for the fucking cameraman. I didn't suck his dick.
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So we can help loads of people without fucking nobody.
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Ho, you know, I might have to end this taste speech. I don't know how much longer I can do this.
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See? Okay, one, I wanted to point out how Jada says she doesn't need permission.
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And while this situation was crazy, her sleeping with another dude,
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that mindset typically translates. I don't need permission from you to tell me what to wear.
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I don't need permission from you to tell me what to talk about or where to go.
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That mentality does not work in relationships. It does not.
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Happy wife, happy life leads to destruction. I mean, look at this craziness.
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And Andrew Tate is right. He is absolutely right.
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Will Smith is a successful, handsome, rich guy that is absolutely a beta.
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So people have asked me for the definition of a beta.
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While men submit to the authority of stronger men or to God,
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And unfortunately, even though Will Smith is extremely talented, he is beta.
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I mean, I don't know what is a more beta thing you can do than loan your wife out.
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I mean, that's, that's crazy. So the comment section weighed in.
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Will Smith once seemed like an example to follow.
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Another comment says, Will is the biggest simp in the world.
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Yash for Twizzle says, Jada is a walking bald L.
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Boker Prash, I thought Will Smith was a powerful person.
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But TC Libra, she's also the only one who decides who Fs Will's pussy too.
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Yeah. And, and, and this shows how women ruin empires.
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The wrong woman can absolutely not only destroy a guy's life, but destroy a guy's empire.
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And guys, it is better for men to be alone than to be with women like this.
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And I don't remember what verse, please Bible people help me because I don't, I don't remember.
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But there is, there is a verse in the Bible that talks about how a man is better to be alone
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And if this situation doesn't show that, I don't know what will.
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Will Smith would be better off alone than to be in this situation.
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So guys, I've been in England for about almost, I think two years now.
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And one thing I noticed when I came to England, so if you guys don't know, I was recruited from
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And when I first got here, one thing I noticed was how much more prevalent the word partner
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So I do, I used to do a show four days a week on relationships.
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And every show I would come out and we would talk about all this, all these different things
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And even married women would call their husbands partner.
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And Rolf Deegan on Twitter recently put out a study that said in the past decade, partner
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has overtaken the term boyfriend and girlfriend on Twitter for one significant other.
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So again, husband implies that you submit to their authority.
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And this shows just how deep feminist language is in our culture.
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Because language shapes behaviors and behaviors shape language.
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Does behavior shape language or does language shape behavior?
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And the fact that the culture is now referring to husband and wife as equal, the same, really
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implies that men don't have authority in their own household.
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So, some individuals have chosen to adopt the gender-neutral term partner to refer to their
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romantic counterpart in place of the gender terms boyfriend and girlfriend.
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In the past, partner was used by individuals within the LGBTQ plus community to describe
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However, here we explore this linguistic trend with data from millions of individuals' self-descriptions
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and U.S. Twitter users' profile bios from 2012 to 2023.
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We found increased use of partner coincident with decreased use of boyfriend and girlfriend.
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And until we start implementing policies and creating societal change that really implies
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that men are the head of the household and we should submit to men's authorities, I don't
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And it's really sad because I really think you're going to keep seeing the breakdown of
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And you're going to keep seeing that it's going to get harder and harder to get into relationships
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So, another trend we've talked about on the show, I mean, how many times, is that women
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And the problem we're going to have in 2023 is as the price of women gets higher and higher,
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you're going to see less men wanting to buy and sign up for marriage and relationships.
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Unfortunately, after a certain point, men are going to look and just say the juice is
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So, there is a woman that is going viral because she wanted 15,000 pounds for a holiday
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Even the holidays that he's mentioning is even still a problem.
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Because when I ask him for holidays, it's not like he even still wants to provide as
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Listen, this woman wants me to give her 15,000 pounds for her to go on a four-day trip to
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Again, I want to see if we should rate her 1 to 10.
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Okay, so we have a chick that's maybe slightly above average.
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I mean, who knows how under all that makeup we don't even know what she looks like.
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I mean, honestly, I would say that's like nine prices.
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When you have men spending a bunch of money on women, when you have—I honestly, I've
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thought about this, and I'm playing around with this idea, but you guys can tell me what
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If you look back, I want you guys to Google a day in the life of the Amish.
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These women get up at like 6 a.m. to milk the cows.
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Like, true femininity is not the soft life, wearing a pretty dress.
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I'm like, when men are spending all this money on women, really, they're serving the
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So I actually think—I'm going to get so much hate for this opinion—but I actually
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think it makes more sense for women to serve the men.
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If you guys didn't know this, chivalry is actually gynocentric.
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So again, I believe that gynocentrism is basically women good, men bad.
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And really, gynocentrism disrupts the natural order of the world.
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And I think the natural order is God, men, women, children.
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And chivalry started basically 1,000 years ago.
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So 1,000 years ago, proposals and just romantic love really started.
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And it used to be that men would submit to the authority of stronger men, and stronger
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And it used to be that men would bow down to the king, and they would kneel to the king.
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And a proposal actually switches it where the woman is in the place of the king.
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Chivalry is generally seen as a good thing by the right and the left.
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It's generally seen as what we are supposed to do, the good old days.
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And the reason being is because it disrupts the natural order of the world and puts the
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Why does the woman deserve the man's hard-earned money?
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Now, I also hear the argument that men are supposed to protect and provide, and that's
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I question this narrative because typically the protection and provisioning, historically,
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And the protection and provisioning was given in exchange for children.
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And actually, women in a lot of countries came with a dowry.
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I mean, it would come from their dads, but you guys see the idea.
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It was he's offering the protection and provisioning for a lifetime, and he was seen as the prize.
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He was seen as far more valuable than her, and he was given money to take care of her for a lifetime.
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So I haven't, I'm not definitive on this topic, okay?
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I could go both ways, but I'd love to hear you guys' argument in the comments section
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because I think there's a solid argument that could be made for women needing to spend money on men, okay?
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Why would you even entertain a woman like that, weak man?
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Amaris, this woman has standards and understands her worth.
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I, man, want to be a man until we ask for something.
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So there, I watched a documentary this morning, actually.
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I watched it on A Day in the Life of the Amish, and there's actually a community of the Amish that,
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it's literally like going back in time because they have no contact with the outside world.
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Like there's some Amish that kind of are like half in, half out.
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It was so interesting listening to the women because the women knew that their job was to serve the men,
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and you, you had none of this entitlement bullshit.
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Okay, so as you guys know, I've talked a lot about beautiful, majestic creatures on this channel.
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For those of you that know that, no, fat chicks.
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Now, fat chicks really get sensitive when we talk about their weight.
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And the truth is that men prefer thinner, healthy women.
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And typically what you see from bigger women is that they get mad and they just shit on me for this opinion.
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But recently, an overweight woman has come out to give her opinion on fat jokes.
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If you can't handle the fat jokes, lose the weight, okay?
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But seriously, guys, and I actually love this because it's so much better when you can just poke fun on yourself.
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You can't get that big and not be able to take a fat joke here or there.
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And we've sort of lost this ability in America.
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Like, I remember when I was a kid, early 2000s.
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I mean, it was more common to see racist, sexist, and homophobic jokes, let's just say.
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But as women have entered the media and the workforce, you really see that going away because, and it's interesting that this is a dude, like, actually that's saying that.
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Because men are better able to take being made fun of.
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And my plea to women is if you want to be in a man's world, if you want to be on the internet, if you want to be in the media, if you want to do all this stuff, then be in it.
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Don't cry and complain about being made fun of later when you ask to be in a guy's world that you didn't have to be in.
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And that's why you see this phenomenon when women enter a space like politics, media, and corporations.
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You see this phenomenon of people policing speech, human resources, lawsuits, et cetera.
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When at the end of the day, we cannot police speech.
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And again, I say, if you want to be in a man's world, be in it.
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Okay, so last but not least today, I want to talk about Bella Porch.
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This woman, so I remember early TikTok days when Bella blew up.
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So this woman had the most viral TikTok of all time.
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The most viewed video with over 50 million views.
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And it was so interesting to just see her face.
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Like, she found a way to make her face, like, move with the music.
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And recently, I saw a video of her on Call Her Daddy talking about how her career actually led her to divorce.
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I want to be, like, I want to be in the spotlight.
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And I don't think he ever wants to be part of that.
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Sometimes it just sucks because, you know, like, you want to do something for yourself and, like, a career.
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But then you love someone and they can't handle it.
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So it's just like you kind of just have to pick, right?
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And I wanted to point out something that she says during this video that you kind of just have to pick.
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She actually goes on to talk about how he was a really private person and her becoming a public figure really just damaged their relationship and they couldn't handle it.
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And, again, you'll see this tendency for women to, and I hear older women talk about this too, I just want to do something for myself.
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And it's funny because when men do selfless things, they're a lot less narcissistic with it and they don't look at it as a burden.
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Where when women tend to do things, like, for the family, they look at it as a detriment.
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They hold resentment to the people that hold back their decisions.
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Now, I will say this decision may work out for her.
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But there are thousands of women that watch these type of videos and think they will have the same outcome as a woman that is worth millions and millions of dollars.
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That is born one of the most, I would argue, top 20-ish percent of beauty.
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Most women will not have these outcomes for making selfish decisions.
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And typically, women in her shoes don't end up having good outcomes anyway.
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But I just, I want to give the devil's advocate here.
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And here, this woman says she's speaking for so many women here.
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She absolutely is speaking for many women because many, most women are selfish in 2023.
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Most women care more about themselves and their career than their family and children.
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And she admits it there that her career was more important and she was going to pick herself.
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And I don't, I don't really, I'm a little bit, I have a nuanced opinion on this stuff.
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If he really loves you, he'll support you no matter what.
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What if she's putting their relationship in a compromising position?
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And this is this feminist garbage that we've just been programmed, that's been shoved down
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our throat, that says we can do everything a man can do and still have it all.
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The truth of the matter is everything in life comes with choices and trade-offs.
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He can't just be proud of what she has accomplished right now.
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And you don't know the ins and outs of the story.
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Maybe she was going out and putting their relationship in compromising position.
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Maybe he's a private person and didn't sign up to be a part of that life.
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And the thing is, women will constantly lead other women down the path of destruction.
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So now, you know, the question becomes, is the grass greener on the other side?
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I never wish negativity on people, but I will say in most cases it's not.
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Bella Porch is talking about here splitting the bill on a recent date.
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It was weird because I, he likes me, but we split the bill.
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It's interesting because women want to be modern when it benefits them, but traditional when
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I'm sorry, but why is this girl worth millions and millions of dollars complaining about
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I mean, you know, you wanted to be modern, which is fine.
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No hate, but don't complain about the outcomes later.
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And these guys are probably thinking this girl's worth.
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I don't know what she's worth, but I would guess upwards of 10 million.
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Especially what they were paying for TikTok brand deals back in the day.
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I actually, I met a bunch of the top like TikTokers back then.
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I met the D'Amelios back in the day, which is like another top TikTok family.
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And it was just briefly, but it was so crazy to me to see these like 18 year old,
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kids, you know, driving sports cars, having private drivers, going out to these super
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You know, it's like they want to be, you can't have everything.
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You want to be modern, you know, take what comes with it.
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And I think that's actually the trend we're going to see in the West because you'll see
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It's actually super normal to split the bills there.
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Like it's like not, I've asked people over there and they say it's like very normal.
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I think that's a trend you're going to see here because again, you know, the price of
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women is going up and men are kind of getting sick and tired of paying for something they
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So user 85 says, you're not supposed to split the bill.
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And I used to, I used to actually have different views on this.
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Like I think, um, a couple of years ago, I used to say that like men should pay.
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And I, I, I, my issue with that logic is like, we can't have everything.
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We either want to be modern or we want to be traditional.
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And the question is if, you know, paying is a deal breaker for you or are you the traditional
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But to be fair, I think most guys, to be honest, pay anyway.
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Like there's just, you know, most guys don't really fight it like that.