JustPearlyThings - March 31, 2023


Advice Women NEED To HEAR


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

199.1594

Word count

1,848

Sentence count

101

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Hate speech

16

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In this episode, the ladies discuss the role of a single mother in raising their children and how important it is for a woman to pass down the culture to her children. They also discuss the importance of a father figure in the home to guide and teach the children.

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00:00:00.000 Wouldn't you guys agree that women pass on the culture in a family? 0.98
00:00:04.380 Yes.
00:00:05.340 It depends on the race women, Po. 1.00
00:00:09.580 What?
00:00:09.940 Yeah, but should they?
00:00:10.860 I would say men build societies.
00:00:13.240 Women pass on the culture typically. 1.00
00:00:15.040 Yes, they do.
00:00:16.280 And so by that logic, if the culture's bad, whose fault is it?
00:00:20.740 The women. 0.81
00:00:21.580 And who's breaking up homes? 0.79
00:00:23.080 You said a whole word right there, Maggie.
00:00:25.060 And if we're growing up in a family that doesn't, in a society that doesn't value family, whose fault is it?
00:00:32.000 No, I think that's women. 1.00
00:00:32.860 I agree.
00:00:33.540 They're breaking up the homes.
00:00:34.360 We actually done something on that.
00:00:35.620 And I actually said, if the woman's not right, because she's the first teacher of children, right?
00:00:41.080 So if the woman's not right, the society's not going to be right. 1.00
00:00:43.900 Because if you're the first teacher of the children, as women, you spend most of the time with the children. 1.00
00:00:48.580 So if you are the one that is constantly and consistently around the children, then the child's not going to be right.
00:00:54.520 And the child's are the ones that go out into society and do that.
00:00:58.360 I think I actually heard you say it, Pearl, before.
00:01:00.600 That's the thing.
00:01:01.100 In single mother homes, that's when kids do bad. 1.00
00:01:04.400 You always need a father figure in the home to be able to coach and teach the child how to be disciplined and accountable in life.
00:01:12.460 There are some, though, in single mothers, we have these outliers like LeBron James, single mother, you know, family.
00:01:19.620 And even his wife, Savannah James, I'm sorry, I brought her up.
00:01:22.500 If you saw her, a picture of Sierra, and you put a picture of Savannah James at the Oscars, Savannah James, every woman across the board, like people are talking about, that's my wedding dress.
00:01:33.420 Like she's inspired me.
00:01:34.580 She is gold.
00:01:36.260 She is it.
00:01:37.120 She was a single mother very young.
00:01:39.000 She was raised by a single mother, LeBron James.
00:01:41.500 So even if you were raised a single mother, poverty, all your circumstances, look at people who made different choices.
00:01:48.600 If they made other choices, you have no excuse.
00:01:51.720 If somebody else came out of your situation, and let's be honest right now, ladies and gentlemen, everything we're talking about right now is very lightweight and weak.
00:01:59.940 If we look at history and what people have gone through in real struggle and what we call, you know, hardship and it's not my choice.
00:02:09.000 Look, I mean, you look at the society as a whole throughout, you know, all of Europe, Africa and everywhere.
00:02:15.100 We are living in a time of absolute privilege.
00:02:19.420 And so when we, when we, and the accountability that they had to take, it is just, even this conversation is, is, is spoiled and it is, is privileged and it is very, we don't know hard work.
00:02:31.680 We don't know what it's like to really struggle.
00:02:33.940 So we can even have the luxury of having these conversations like this.
00:02:38.340 And, and, and, and it's, it's, it was life and death for a woman to lose her virginity to the streets. 0.65
00:02:44.740 Okay.
00:02:45.160 It was life and death.
00:02:46.260 It means you would be a destitute.
00:02:47.740 You were actually sent to the brothels. 0.90
00:02:49.260 If you aged out, you know, because you did not marry at a certain age, you were sent to work in the, in the brothel house.
00:02:56.980 And that's long changed.
00:02:58.120 Right.
00:02:58.380 And so now it's only fans.
00:03:00.120 And so, and, and, and, and Instagram.
00:03:02.300 So what we're saying is even these conversations, we really, as a society now don't know accountability and I mean, if we really want to go there, but overall I would say absolutely the onus is on the women to pass down the culture, teach the young women.
00:03:18.200 Our young women are out of pocket struggling because the older women are for the streets. 1.00
00:03:23.220 Many of them, you have women who are in their forties still being IG models, getting bussed down and flew out, flew, flewed out is what they call it.
00:03:32.300 And just doing the most and looking like strippers, what we call even cute outfits today, sexy.
00:03:38.880 This is what, you know, I don't know, I don't want to say the word, but like women of, uh, uh, ladies of the night would wear in old times and there's no accountability.
00:03:48.380 You're 45 years old, man.
00:03:50.300 And you're dressing like your daughter doing TikTok and trying to show how thick you are because you want that same 30 year old man because there's your daughter can get, you can get the same man.
00:04:00.640 He'll be in, let's say he's 33, you're 40, your daughter's 20, he's 30.
00:04:05.800 You're trying to get that man because you're so lost and so consumed into yourself.
00:04:11.040 You have nothing to teach, but old box.
00:04:13.600 But I think that's the reason why men are supposed to be the ones leading society. 0.96
00:04:17.380 Exactly.
00:04:17.920 Right?
00:04:18.220 And I think that's the reason why, um, because we, like I said, discussed earlier on, women are not going to give younger women the keys to the game. 1.00
00:04:24.580 They're just not going to do it.
00:04:25.780 It's competition.
00:04:26.500 They're not going to do it.
00:04:27.140 Sitting around asking and expecting them to do it, you'll be waiting a long time for them to do that.
00:04:31.960 Right?
00:04:32.160 So it's for men to lead society. 0.95
00:04:33.600 So when you talk about society, but society has been fragmented and it's been broken.
00:04:37.340 So now men can be women and women can be men and the whole thing's topsy-turvy and upside down. 0.72
00:04:41.580 And so the reason for society being this way is because men aren't allowed to lead. 0.59
00:04:45.740 Men like TMR, men like myself, we get called misogynistic.
00:04:49.940 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:50.380 When we try to lead, we get called all types of, oh, if you're broke, then say so.
00:04:53.640 If you're dusty, then say so.
00:04:55.400 If you're gay, then say so. 1.00
00:04:56.820 We get shamed for trying to be leaders.
00:04:59.980 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:05:00.780 So the society, going back to who leads society, I would say there's a part of, like I said, those 1% of men, whoever they are, those 1%, the same people that put Andrew Tate in jail,
00:05:13.140 those men are the ones that are trying to cultivate society and show people that if you step out of line, like at Andrew Tate, then they'll try and put you back in check.
00:05:23.160 Modern women hate accountability so much that they cheered when Kevin Samuel passed away. 1.00
00:05:29.020 That's how much that they hate accountability, by and large.
00:05:31.520 But here's the thing is that because they are the product of the society they are raised in, and a lot of them are just hive minds, then I can't really be mad at them at the end of the day.
00:05:41.860 Because if you've been lied to consistently throughout your life or fed the propaganda that sells a product to you, and you believe that because it benefits you, they cannot really be mad at you that you fed into the propaganda.
00:05:55.780 There's examples all throughout history where propaganda has led to some of the most major calamities throughout our history and our civilization because people just believed in something unwittingly and unknowingly without questioning it.
00:06:10.800 Do you guys think that the phrase is, actually go ahead and go ahead.
00:06:15.020 Oh no, I was just going to say, and to your point, MTR, I think what Kevin Samuels did was hold up a mirror, and we had a decision to make, yes, we had been lied to, yes, some of us had those modern tendencies, but it was basically a line in the sand, and then you can say, okay, am I going to stick my head back in the sand, la la la, and say, I don't want to hear that anymore, and you should go away, bad man.
00:06:36.000 Or am I going to say, you know what, am I really fit, feminine, and friendly?
00:06:39.840 Right, and those same women who cheered his death, you still lonely, you still need to buy a dog and die alone, and you still aren't succeeding, but you've listened, Kevin was a personal friend of mine, he was a personal friend of him, of MTR here, and like we knew he loved, he was trying to help, he was the stern father you never had.
00:07:01.820 See, I had a father, my father sounds like Kevin, to this day, and holds me accountable, but see, if you've never had somebody tell you the truth, like, ma'am, what, like, your mindset, your attitude, what you're, the way you're moving, like, like, I'm sorry, like, and actually, there's so much pride and ego in women today, because we've been pandered to and told everybody's a queen, everybody's a princess.
00:07:25.280 You know, everybody is, you know, just because you're born with female anatomy, then that means that you should be treated a certain way, but every day we see in the news, there are women who are not fit to even walk the earth, what they've done to their children, what they've done to other people. 1.00
00:07:40.760 There's just a scandal that came out, I won't say the word, but this woman falsely accused several young men of doing something to her.
00:07:49.100 These young men tried to delete themselves, because it was absolutely a lie.
00:07:53.460 Now, evidence came out recently, where she went to the store, bought a hammer, beat herself.
00:07:59.160 Oh my goodness.
00:08:00.120 Oh my God.
00:08:00.800 These young men, if it wasn't for other men coming around and supporting these young men, and they were, these older men were canceled.
00:08:10.760 Because they were trying to support men who did a SA, and just because she was a woman, she was believed, and I'm not saying that doesn't happen, it happened to my mother.
00:08:21.020 That's how I have an older, my oldest sister came from that when she was 14. 0.99
00:08:24.720 So, I actually come from a family that's happened, but I still know several stories of women who have falsely accused, ruined these young men's lives.
00:08:34.220 And guess what?
00:08:35.040 You know what society says after that?
00:08:37.360 That young woman, she, this is one woman who was finally held accountable because of her lies and destroying their life. 0.53
00:08:42.920 But do you know what happened?
00:08:43.880 Those young men, most of them who have been falsely accused, they lose their scholarship, they use their jobs, they lose everything.
00:08:50.080 And then there's nothing that's said.
00:08:51.700 If it goes away and it wasn't true, you never hear accountability.
00:08:54.760 You never hear any woman go to jail for falsely accused of those men.
00:08:58.580 There needs to be a law for it.
00:08:59.720 Who do you think put it?
00:09:00.580 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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