JustPearlyThings - All Women THINK This Of THEMSELVES

00:00:00.000 do you feel like your standards have gotten higher or lower the older you've gotten

00:00:05.620 or the same lower higher higher higher the same the same how have your standards gotten higher

00:00:15.140 for you two like what were your standards before and what are your standards now i don't know before

00:00:19.760 it was just i didn't really think too much into it i would kind of just talk to someone and then

00:00:25.480 accept them as who they are but now it's like i can't just accept them as who they are because

00:00:32.460 it's depending like they could have some sort of issues that i would not necessarily want to deal

00:00:38.580 with and just me growing myself i don't necessarily have time to deal with those things so now i'm just

00:00:44.280 like i have just a certain limit that i yeah my okay go ahead so mine's quite similar to hers it's

00:00:53.180 more standards in a sense of more patience and just having given time to get to know people and

00:00:59.240 also knowing that you know a lot of things are like the surface level um and that's what most

00:01:04.040 guys are searching for is is the body so just giving our time to get to know someone mentally

00:01:09.860 emotionally more so what'd you say about the body i'm saying that most guys are after you for sex

00:01:17.320 so it's about just knowing that and having that you know they're giving you the gift of the gap and

00:01:22.480 telling you what you want to hear just because they want to get your knickers and it's not because

00:01:25.560 they genuinely care about you or they actually really want to get to know you know you i think

00:01:28.760 that takes time okay do you think we should work to create a more sex positive culture

00:01:36.580 um not necessarily sex positive um i don't think it needs to be um advertised anymore necessarily

00:01:54.240 but for those who do it is what it is but i don't think it needs to be publicized any further

00:01:59.420 okay so i should stop tweeting that strippers are whores yes well no it's your opinion but i don't 1.00

00:02:07.280 feel like it needs to be i don't think it needs to be publicized any further i would argue that's fact

00:02:12.220 i i would argue that's fact in your opinion yeah well we could say opinion right but then then you look

00:02:20.480 up the definition of a whore right it says prostitution but you know which you could argue they're not 0.95

00:02:26.920 because they're technically not having sex or you could argue they are because they're taking off 0.92

00:02:32.300 their clothes for money but that's but it's not tomatoes tomat like to me a fact okay it's still

00:02:41.280 selling sex isn't it at the end of the day whether you're actually physically having sex or visually 0.99

00:02:48.220 having sex still selling sex so once you sell sex you're a prostitute 0.99

00:02:54.240 i'm just getting i'm just saying technically sex is sex what about you should we create a more sex 0.96

00:03:03.100 positive culture i feel like it's already out there enough i don't think it needs to be advertised

00:03:11.180 anymore okay like yeah no i think we definitely do need to create a more sex positive culture

00:03:18.120 because sex is natural that's how we're created it's it's something that we can't help but it's

00:03:23.100 how we you know cultivate that and get into that i.e not sleeping with loads of people that's to the

00:03:28.880 guys as well i've got young sons and i try to teach them to be celibate put your energy into your

00:03:33.960 sports and into your careers and hopefully when you elevate you can give yourself to a woman that you

00:03:38.700 know it's decent but also you've got all the stis and stds whatever they're called and the section

00:03:44.360 like the energy transfer and i think in that way we need to be more educated it's not about like oh

00:03:50.140 sex is bad sex is not bad we're not gonna stop and i think because we haven't really taken on face

00:03:55.640 value and be like okay sex is natural this is why we do have all the corn and you know the sa and 0.95

00:04:01.620 whatever because we're restricted and we feel dirty and it's not like it's natural just find one person

00:04:08.060 that you vibes with and you know build that relationship with them get to know each other

00:04:12.760 so how would how would we create a more sex positive culture i think by educating ourselves

00:04:18.280 a lot more about it like i think that we need to really get into this whole thing of energy it

00:04:22.400 matters you know every person how should we educate so if you're gonna are you gonna educate

00:04:27.200 kids are you gonna educate teenagers when do we start the education yeah i think we should start

00:04:31.560 education in schools because it's normal okay what age um i think when puberty starts so like 13 14

00:04:39.480 yeah yeah so at 14 years old how do you educate do you tell them how to have sex no i think you should

00:04:44.800 tell them about the feeling like a guide yeah no i think we should tell them about the feelings that

00:04:48.620 they're going to experience you know um and what they might want to do but i think we have to educate

00:04:53.940 them on a moral value to be like look you might have these feelings and this energy but you have to kind

00:04:58.360 of hold it within yourself until you find somebody that you really connect with and usually you don't

00:05:02.740 find that until you can pay a bill until you can go and if you can't get a job and work you can't be

00:05:07.320 having sex that's the way i say to my boys that if you can't take a girl on a date and treat her good

00:05:12.160 you can't be having sex with her and do you think that's a conversation the school should be having 0.96

00:05:15.960 or the parents both it's a joint thing it like they say what is it it takes the what is it a village

00:05:21.040 to raise a child and that's what we need to do between all of ours okay and so you would tell them

00:05:27.640 not to the message the education would be telling them don't have sex until you can have a job 0.51

00:05:33.560 basically yeah okay okay

00:05:41.160 um what's sex positive what do you say sex positive should we create a more sex positive culture no

00:05:48.680 sex negative yeah how would you do that auntie still don't have it didn't they have um in america 1.00

00:05:54.840 somewhere where they have those um is it celibacy when they go around the schools and

00:06:00.920 have friends and stuff that's what i grew up getting that's chastity yeah that's it chastity

00:06:05.560 speakers that's what they should do and we had no everyone said okay i had a certain i'm not going

00:06:11.720 to name names certain someone say oh the catholic schools were so bad look it i don't know what catholic

00:06:17.320 schools y'all went to we had no teen pregnancies in my my high school and we did chat that's what they all

00:06:23.080 would say oh if you don't have sex ed you guys are going to go crazy da da da da i'm like no we 0.68

00:06:27.880 were much better than the public schools i mean there were a lot of catholic schools that i knew 0.95

00:06:31.400 that nearby and the girls had plenty of sex didn't get pregnant because they use really good 0.98

00:06:35.720 contraception but they're all slags yeah the catholic girls were the worst look at that wasn't my high 1.00

00:06:42.920 school wasn't like that it wasn't as my mom said the undercover horse oh yeah i feel like in 0.95

00:06:49.560 and honestly it was the public schools they were just wilding like we didn't even have parties or

00:06:55.640 anything with us or if we did i wasn't invited maybe they had them and i just wasn't

00:07:01.000 but don't you not find it in england that the catholic girls they're wild when they get loose 1.00

00:07:05.000 i find it all girls schools yeah yeah which are normally yeah yeah england america two different

00:07:11.080 things like girls are wild yeah i think in america like they've got like what they stand for they 1.00

00:07:15.640 stand for they mean it we're here it's you can just kind of do what you want to do and there's

00:07:20.920 no strength in any beliefs really we don't really have the strong religious belief where like in

00:07:25.960 america like they had all those you know groups and it means something you stand by something it's

00:07:30.840 your word it's your honor yeah somewhat with them data beta clubs in it exactly

00:07:37.000 um i read super chats one more time do you think wait do you think that changed like that england

00:07:47.240 used to be like have more of what you were just talking about like culture standards when do you

00:07:53.480 think it switched um i think when the internet was um blew up and also i think when we just started

00:08:01.800 integrating cultures um i think that's when it kind of just messed up a little bit because it

00:08:07.880 was kind of all a lot we all lost our way basically i think got it got it um okay i'm gonna

00:08:15.320 refresh this i don't think so i think it was when everybody started copying everybody like the internet

00:08:22.680 opened it up so everybody started copying america and here and there and whatever but i just think that

00:08:28.520 that it's just they got too many laws in england that protect the children that's what it is you

00:08:34.040 can't do nothing with your children anymore to protect them and i think that's what it is i think

00:08:39.960 the internet has got a lot and just like following other people just like thinking the grass is always

00:08:46.120 green on the other side whatever if my mom always says that if america gets a cold we sneeze

00:08:53.560 yeah and that's the way it's worked can i just as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - June 04, 2023

All Women THINK This Of THEMSELVES

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