All Women THINK This Of THEMSELVES
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In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, we discuss our sexual standards and how they have changed over the years. We also talk about the importance of sex education and how we can all be sex positive in the modern culture.
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do you feel like your standards have gotten higher or lower the older you've gotten
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or the same lower higher higher higher the same the same how have your standards gotten higher
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for you two like what were your standards before and what are your standards now i don't know before
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it was just i didn't really think too much into it i would kind of just talk to someone and then
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accept them as who they are but now it's like i can't just accept them as who they are because
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it's depending like they could have some sort of issues that i would not necessarily want to deal
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with and just me growing myself i don't necessarily have time to deal with those things so now i'm just
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like i have just a certain limit that i yeah my okay go ahead so mine's quite similar to hers it's
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more standards in a sense of more patience and just having given time to get to know people and
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also knowing that you know a lot of things are like the surface level um and that's what most
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guys are searching for is is the body so just giving our time to get to know someone mentally
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emotionally more so what'd you say about the body i'm saying that most guys are after you for sex
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so it's about just knowing that and having that you know they're giving you the gift of the gap and
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telling you what you want to hear just because they want to get your knickers and it's not because
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they genuinely care about you or they actually really want to get to know you know you i think
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that takes time okay do you think we should work to create a more sex positive culture
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um not necessarily sex positive um i don't think it needs to be um advertised anymore necessarily
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but for those who do it is what it is but i don't think it needs to be publicized any further
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okay so i should stop tweeting that strippers are whores yes well no it's your opinion but i don't
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feel like it needs to be i don't think it needs to be publicized any further i would argue that's fact
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i i would argue that's fact in your opinion yeah well we could say opinion right but then then you look
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up the definition of a whore right it says prostitution but you know which you could argue they're not
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because they're technically not having sex or you could argue they are because they're taking off
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their clothes for money but that's but it's not tomatoes tomat like to me a fact okay it's still
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selling sex isn't it at the end of the day whether you're actually physically having sex or visually
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having sex still selling sex so once you sell sex you're a prostitute
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i'm just getting i'm just saying technically sex is sex what about you should we create a more sex
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positive culture i feel like it's already out there enough i don't think it needs to be advertised
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anymore okay like yeah no i think we definitely do need to create a more sex positive culture
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because sex is natural that's how we're created it's it's something that we can't help but it's
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how we you know cultivate that and get into that i.e not sleeping with loads of people that's to the
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guys as well i've got young sons and i try to teach them to be celibate put your energy into your
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sports and into your careers and hopefully when you elevate you can give yourself to a woman that you
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know it's decent but also you've got all the stis and stds whatever they're called and the section
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like the energy transfer and i think in that way we need to be more educated it's not about like oh
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sex is bad sex is not bad we're not gonna stop and i think because we haven't really taken on face
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value and be like okay sex is natural this is why we do have all the corn and you know the sa and
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whatever because we're restricted and we feel dirty and it's not like it's natural just find one person
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that you vibes with and you know build that relationship with them get to know each other
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so how would how would we create a more sex positive culture i think by educating ourselves
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a lot more about it like i think that we need to really get into this whole thing of energy it
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matters you know every person how should we educate so if you're gonna are you gonna educate
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kids are you gonna educate teenagers when do we start the education yeah i think we should start
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education in schools because it's normal okay what age um i think when puberty starts so like 13 14
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yeah yeah so at 14 years old how do you educate do you tell them how to have sex no i think you should
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tell them about the feeling like a guide yeah no i think we should tell them about the feelings that
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they're going to experience you know um and what they might want to do but i think we have to educate
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them on a moral value to be like look you might have these feelings and this energy but you have to kind
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of hold it within yourself until you find somebody that you really connect with and usually you don't
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find that until you can pay a bill until you can go and if you can't get a job and work you can't be
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having sex that's the way i say to my boys that if you can't take a girl on a date and treat her good
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you can't be having sex with her and do you think that's a conversation the school should be having
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or the parents both it's a joint thing it like they say what is it it takes the what is it a village
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to raise a child and that's what we need to do between all of ours okay and so you would tell them
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not to the message the education would be telling them don't have sex until you can have a job
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um what's sex positive what do you say sex positive should we create a more sex positive culture no
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sex negative yeah how would you do that auntie still don't have it didn't they have um in america
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somewhere where they have those um is it celibacy when they go around the schools and
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have friends and stuff that's what i grew up getting that's chastity yeah that's it chastity
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speakers that's what they should do and we had no everyone said okay i had a certain i'm not going
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to name names certain someone say oh the catholic schools were so bad look it i don't know what catholic
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schools y'all went to we had no teen pregnancies in my my high school and we did chat that's what they all
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would say oh if you don't have sex ed you guys are going to go crazy da da da da i'm like no we
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were much better than the public schools i mean there were a lot of catholic schools that i knew
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that nearby and the girls had plenty of sex didn't get pregnant because they use really good
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contraception but they're all slags yeah the catholic girls were the worst look at that wasn't my high
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school wasn't like that it wasn't as my mom said the undercover horse oh yeah i feel like in
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and honestly it was the public schools they were just wilding like we didn't even have parties or
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anything with us or if we did i wasn't invited maybe they had them and i just wasn't
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but don't you not find it in england that the catholic girls they're wild when they get loose
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i find it all girls schools yeah yeah which are normally yeah yeah england america two different
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things like girls are wild yeah i think in america like they've got like what they stand for they
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stand for they mean it we're here it's you can just kind of do what you want to do and there's
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no strength in any beliefs really we don't really have the strong religious belief where like in
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america like they had all those you know groups and it means something you stand by something it's
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your word it's your honor yeah somewhat with them data beta clubs in it exactly
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um i read super chats one more time do you think wait do you think that changed like that england
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used to be like have more of what you were just talking about like culture standards when do you
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think it switched um i think when the internet was um blew up and also i think when we just started
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integrating cultures um i think that's when it kind of just messed up a little bit because it
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was kind of all a lot we all lost our way basically i think got it got it um okay i'm gonna
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refresh this i don't think so i think it was when everybody started copying everybody like the internet
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opened it up so everybody started copying america and here and there and whatever but i just think that
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that it's just they got too many laws in england that protect the children that's what it is you
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can't do nothing with your children anymore to protect them and i think that's what it is i think
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the internet has got a lot and just like following other people just like thinking the grass is always
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green on the other side whatever if my mom always says that if america gets a cold we sneeze
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yeah and that's the way it's worked can i just as many of you know i was just
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