Alpha Female Reluctantly Accepts This Fact
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why alpha females tend to be more logical than alpha males and why this is a good thing. We also discuss the perception of an alpha female vs a alpha male and why men don't want to deal with alpha females.
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let's go um yeah every time every time i cry about a business problem i call my dad and he
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that's what i mean like that's why men don't want to deal with alpha females though because like the
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men like that like i'm thinking of i'm thinking i'm thinking wait i'm thinking of my dad right and
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he he is so logical he is so logical that like and i and me when i when i have a business problem
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or whatever i get so stressed out sometimes i'll like cry like i'll just be like and i'll call him
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and he's so good at just like okay what is the problem like what is the problem this is like
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okay here's one solution here's two solution but like men like that they don't want to have a girl
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that's constantly arguing with them but alpha that's challenging that's what that might not
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be what you meant but typically that's what all alpha females all right you know what you know what
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i see what i see now i can see where you're coming from what is what is an alpha that's a leader
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yeah so so how how is in that situation i mean that's that's like family but in that situation
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leaders are not always pig-headed leaders you don't know me like it's my way or the highway
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uh yeah but at the end of the day like they want to know that you trust them to make a decision so
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they don't want they don't want to hear like why like one thing i didn't understand about men is
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like when you say why to them it's like annoying it is like they're like why are we doing this like
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they don't want to explain it it's like a child it's like with my kids you know when you do it's
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like why why because i said so yeah yeah not every two seconds why sometimes but sometimes i mean it's
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when they ask why sometimes it's oh because blah blah blah but when the why's keep coming and the
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why's keep coming it's because i said so in it yeah but that's the point so
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what is an alpha that's a leader so the leader is the one that that's saying this is where we
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should go this is the problem yeah and so when i when i speak to my dad like i have a really good
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relationship with him because i trust him yeah and because when he tells me to do something for
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the i mean sometimes sometimes i don't but for the most part like i listen right but there you go
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sometimes but then that's what i mean yeah but usually when i don't listen it doesn't work out
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and i'm like i should have listened to you dad but then yeah but we know that that happens but
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then it doesn't i think i think it's sometimes it's just a perception that's i think that's maybe
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another thing that's maybe another topic the perception of an alpha on an alpha and an alpha
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female and an alpha male yeah i think that might be i think there's different perceptions and
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there might be a whole definition but it's also but it's also it's age it's age like my dad my dad
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why was my dad now 50 but the question is why why do we have those perceptions like we can't if if
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the women that say i am an alpha female have a reputation of something like that's the alpha
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females fault like there's a reason they have that reputation why is it gonna be a fault to be in an
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alpha female i mean i just feel like everything in life is your own fault so if you're if if they
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make an assumption of because you're an alpha female why can't it be your own greatness instead of
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your own fault why does it have to be well in this in this terminology in this situation it's because
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men don't want it what men because my man's happy with it i mean i don't know your personal
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situation but typically the most successful men with the most options don't typically want alpha
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females because they've got the most options because who wants who wants who wants a woman who's just
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gonna but then sort of more time as well you gotta think the ones who the ones who don't want the
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alpha female they'll still go and cheat you know that's not true no that's not true that's that's like
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that's statistically untrue okay let me ask you guys a question do you believe that successful
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people tend to be more logical than unsuccessful people in general are they more logical or less
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logical they're more logical do you guys all believe that i would say so okay what does it
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mean to be logical define that um logical calculated actually actually thinking and processing it and
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thinking what's the best way to make a decision okay it's what makes sense i'll make i'll make it
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really simple being logical simply means that you value what you want most more than what you value
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what you want right now yeah okay what makes sense okay so you're saying like oh these guys all cheat
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i don't know what kind of dudes you know i didn't say whoa whoa whoa chill out i mean i didn't say oh
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and also i don't know what i just said but you just said you just said you said statistics but what
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what what what groups what what were involved in in doing the statistics
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what different parts of what different what what what what a successful man exactly
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okay okay so them statistics he's trying to answer okay well let's let's we're talking about
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successful men so the what do you guys what is the typical millionaire like that's an interesting
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what what's the typical i probably would say he waits for money five o'clock in the morning
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or what'd you say what's he normally like that's his lifestyle you probably know the answer to this
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it depends like the ones i know are small business they're all they're all suit are they fun or
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boring uh they're like fun like usually outdoorsy i mean the ones i know but are they like rappers and
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ballers or are they literally like accountants and it professionals politics they're invited to
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politics they're structured they're pretty simple they avoid tabloids do they have a routine in
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their life like a very strong yes routine yeah they're very disciplined they're very disciplined
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they're really disciplined so it's like again and that filters across the whole of their life it's
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not just in one specific area they they're logical they make decisions that are good for the future
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versus now that's correct does that make sense so it's like so it's like there's a significant
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amount of risk mitigation it's like i understand what's happening yeah there's some slime balls of
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course but for the successful guys that are the typical like logical calculating dependable are they
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dependable yeah the successful people have a lot of people depend on them yeah if they mean what they
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say well if you're a small business owner you've got to be damn dependable like people you know because
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that's your that's your livelihood so you're dealing with a group that's dependable logical strategic
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risk mitigating and it's like and and by the way they get divorced way less like millionaires you
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remember 90 percent yeah okay okay but a lot of millionaires though they have a double life as
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well okay um out of how many millionaires do you guys know a couple okay so how how up to you
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how many that's what i was just saying i said i don't know any okay okay okay okay oh no i do guys
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i do know i actually do know two how close are you with them one close-ish one close-ish okay what does
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he do uh uh she she yeah okay so no no male millionaires yeah the other one okay what does
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he do um he is in distribution okay predominantly in property property development how many millionaires
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on my on my two hands i could count okay how many oh yeah property may i could see that yeah yeah yeah
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yeah um um i used to date a multi-millionaire what happened what happened yeah what happened
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why don't you she the hell's under that one no no definitely yeah but at the same time like they
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say they live a double life yeah of course i've seen it with my eyes he was obviously he wasn't from
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here you don't find much millionaires in the uk and even if you do they're always like they're from
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another country and they've come here and they're traveling and they're this and that and you know
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it was dating for a long time okay so you don't know any you know some you know some you you know
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millionaires yes or no a few one hand you do uh it's not that i uh know them but i met like five six of
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them yeah i did and i've seen with my eyes they're double lives i've seen yeah i've seen double lives
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they do after party for two three days i've seen a lot so i've seen it with my eyes wait so what type
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of industries are they in uh lawyer like big lawyers the one they're like you know they're next to the
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judge and hey can you put your mic down please yeah yeah um uh some producers of films so you go to these
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after parties and you see them cheating there sinu yeah okay so what do you say to that well i i my
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company now has over 15 000 clients over 95 of them i'm sure i'm millionaires or above so 15 000 is a
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pretty good data set my question to you guys would be offensive question coming up why are these duplicitous
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slimy characters picking you and for what or why are they picking the people in the crowds you're hanging
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out with like what kind of crowds are these like i'm not well well well i'm talking to
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the entertainment industry i didn't say i met all of them in after parties i met them in a
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specific uh occasion that made me think about them i know i know because of people and i've seen them
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you're changing what you said you didn't say she didn't say a couple i've seen a couple but
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the rest that i haven't seen it i know because of my friends are friends of so you know like i
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know how did but then why are your friends involved with them because there are uh how can i say events
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in london there are so many things going on in london and people know people that's how you mean i've
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seen too much and my heart broke honestly i've seen so many people where i've seen them like with
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their partners all happy and there's me making conversations speaking with the wife talking about
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kids and babies and all that and then you see them with another when i see the person one or the
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other cheating secretly just breaks my heart but then again sometimes people's hoism is normal as well
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where they have open relationships so you also don't know but i've yeah but being working in the
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media industry for 10 years plus i've seen a lot and i've crossed past many millionaires but millionaires
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there's two obviously i'm coming from the entertainment industry aspect what i've seen
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but by what um what's your name sorry again dimitri yeah what dimitri was saying yes there's also
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there's also a group of of men that i know that are very loyal because they need to protect their wife
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is like their asset they need to protect them and make sure they kind of make it