JustPearlyThings - Alpha Female Reluctantly Accepts This Fact

00:00:00.000 let's go um yeah every time every time i cry about a business problem i call my dad and he

00:00:05.780 fixes it for me

00:00:06.700 that's what daddies do there for 0.98

00:00:22.060 that's what i mean like that's why men don't want to deal with alpha females though because like the

00:00:27.380 men like that like i'm thinking of i'm thinking i'm thinking wait i'm thinking of my dad right and

00:00:31.960 he he is so logical he is so logical that like and i and me when i when i have a business problem

00:00:38.360 or whatever i get so stressed out sometimes i'll like cry like i'll just be like and i'll call him

00:00:42.780 and he's so good at just like okay what is the problem like what is the problem this is like

00:00:48.480 okay here's one solution here's two solution but like men like that they don't want to have a girl

00:00:52.940 that's constantly arguing with them but alpha that's challenging that's what that might not

00:00:57.660 be what you meant but typically that's what all alpha females all right you know what you know what 1.00

00:01:01.180 i see what i see now i can see where you're coming from what is what is an alpha that's a leader

00:01:04.880 yeah so so how how is in that situation i mean that's that's like family but in that situation

00:01:11.300 leaders are not always pig-headed leaders you don't know me like it's my way or the highway

00:01:15.420 uh yeah but at the end of the day like they want to know that you trust them to make a decision so

00:01:19.860 they don't want they don't want to hear like why like one thing i didn't understand about men is

00:01:23.480 like when you say why to them it's like annoying it is like they're like why are we doing this like

00:01:27.640 they don't want to explain it it's like a child it's like with my kids you know when you do it's

00:01:33.100 like why why because i said so yeah yeah not every two seconds why sometimes but sometimes i mean it's

00:01:41.720 when they ask why sometimes it's oh because blah blah blah but when the why's keep coming and the

00:01:45.880 why's keep coming it's because i said so in it yeah but that's the point so

00:01:49.720 what is an alpha that's a leader so the leader is the one that that's saying this is where we

00:01:54.780 should go this is the problem yeah and so when i when i speak to my dad like i have a really good

00:01:59.800 relationship with him because i trust him yeah and because when he tells me to do something for

00:02:04.580 the i mean sometimes sometimes i don't but for the most part like i listen right but there you go

00:02:09.100 sometimes but then that's what i mean yeah but usually when i don't listen it doesn't work out

00:02:12.500 and i'm like i should have listened to you dad but then yeah but we know that that happens but

00:02:16.540 then it doesn't i think i think it's sometimes it's just a perception that's i think that's maybe

00:02:20.620 another thing that's maybe another topic the perception of an alpha on an alpha and an alpha

00:02:25.040 female and an alpha male yeah i think that might be i think there's different perceptions and

00:02:29.240 there might be a whole definition but it's also but it's also it's age it's age like my dad my dad

00:02:34.560 why was my dad now 50 but the question is why why do we have those perceptions like we can't if if

00:02:41.440 the women that say i am an alpha female have a reputation of something like that's the alpha 1.00

00:02:45.960 females fault like there's a reason they have that reputation why is it gonna be a fault to be in an 1.00

00:02:51.600 alpha female i mean i just feel like everything in life is your own fault so if you're if if they

00:02:55.800 make an assumption of because you're an alpha female why can't it be your own greatness instead of

00:02:59.260 your own fault why does it have to be well in this in this terminology in this situation it's because

00:03:04.000 men don't want it what men because my man's happy with it i mean i don't know your personal

00:03:08.800 situation but typically the most successful men with the most options don't typically want alpha

00:03:12.920 females because they've got the most options because who wants who wants who wants a woman who's just 1.00

00:03:16.820 gonna but then sort of more time as well you gotta think the ones who the ones who don't want the

00:03:20.960 alpha female they'll still go and cheat you know that's not true no that's not true that's that's like 0.99

00:03:27.140 that's statistically untrue okay let me ask you guys a question do you believe that successful

00:03:42.720 people tend to be more logical than unsuccessful people in general are they more logical or less

00:03:46.820 logical they're more logical do you guys all believe that i would say so okay what does it

00:03:51.180 mean to be logical define that um logical calculated actually actually thinking and processing it and

00:03:59.040 thinking what's the best way to make a decision okay it's what makes sense i'll make i'll make it

00:04:03.260 really simple being logical simply means that you value what you want most more than what you value

00:04:07.900 what you want right now yeah okay what makes sense okay so you're saying like oh these guys all cheat

00:04:13.240 i don't know what kind of dudes you know i didn't say whoa whoa whoa chill out i mean i didn't say oh

00:04:19.480 and also i don't know what i just said but you just said you just said you said statistics but what

00:04:25.880 what what what groups what what were involved in in doing the statistics

00:04:31.400 what different parts of what different what what what what a successful man exactly

00:04:38.440 okay okay so them statistics he's trying to answer okay well let's let's we're talking about

00:04:43.800 successful men so the what do you guys what is the typical millionaire like that's an interesting

00:04:47.800 what what's the typical i probably would say he waits for money five o'clock in the morning

00:04:52.680 or what'd you say what's he normally like that's his lifestyle you probably know the answer to this

00:04:57.240 it depends like the ones i know are small business they're all they're all suit are they fun or

00:05:01.240 boring uh they're like fun like usually outdoorsy i mean the ones i know but are they like rappers and

00:05:07.560 ballers or are they literally like accountants and it professionals politics they're invited to

00:05:11.160 politics they're structured they're pretty simple they avoid tabloids do they have a routine in

00:05:18.120 their life like a very strong yes routine yeah they're very disciplined they're very disciplined

00:05:22.520 they're really disciplined so it's like again and that filters across the whole of their life it's

00:05:26.440 not just in one specific area they they're logical they make decisions that are good for the future

00:05:30.760 versus now that's correct does that make sense so it's like so it's like there's a significant

00:05:34.920 amount of risk mitigation it's like i understand what's happening yeah there's some slime balls of

00:05:39.400 course but for the successful guys that are the typical like logical calculating dependable are they

00:05:45.720 dependable yeah the successful people have a lot of people depend on them yeah if they mean what they

00:05:50.600 say well if you're a small business owner you've got to be damn dependable like people you know because

00:05:55.560 that's your that's your livelihood so you're dealing with a group that's dependable logical strategic

00:06:00.440 risk mitigating and it's like and and by the way they get divorced way less like millionaires you

00:06:06.840 remember 90 percent yeah okay okay but a lot of millionaires though they have a double life as

00:06:11.960 well okay um out of how many millionaires do you guys know a couple okay so how how up to you

00:06:30.920 how many that's what i was just saying i said i don't know any okay okay okay okay oh no i do guys

00:06:34.760 i do know i actually do know two how close are you with them one close-ish one close-ish okay what does

00:06:41.240 he do uh uh she she yeah okay so no no male millionaires yeah the other one okay what does

00:06:47.320 he do um he is in distribution okay predominantly in property property development how many millionaires

00:07:00.120 on my on my two hands i could count okay how many oh yeah property may i could see that yeah yeah yeah

00:07:06.040 yeah um um i used to date a multi-millionaire what happened what happened yeah what happened

00:07:12.280 why don't you she the hell's under that one no no definitely yeah but at the same time like they 0.98

00:07:18.360 say they live a double life yeah of course i've seen it with my eyes he was obviously he wasn't from

00:07:24.280 here you don't find much millionaires in the uk and even if you do they're always like they're from

00:07:30.680 another country and they've come here and they're traveling and they're this and that and you know

00:07:35.320 it was dating for a long time okay so you don't know any you know some you know some you you know

00:07:39.880 millionaires yes or no a few one hand you do uh it's not that i uh know them but i met like five six of

00:07:48.120 them yeah i did and i've seen with my eyes they're double lives i've seen yeah i've seen double lives

00:07:53.320 they do after party for two three days i've seen a lot so i've seen it with my eyes wait so what type

00:08:00.360 of industries are they in uh lawyer like big lawyers the one they're like you know they're next to the

00:08:06.120 judge and hey can you put your mic down please yeah yeah um uh some producers of films so you go to these

00:08:14.280 after parties and you see them cheating there sinu yeah okay so what do you say to that well i i my

00:08:21.160 company now has over 15 000 clients over 95 of them i'm sure i'm millionaires or above so 15 000 is a

00:08:28.120 pretty good data set my question to you guys would be offensive question coming up why are these duplicitous

00:08:34.760 slimy characters picking you and for what or why are they picking the people in the crowds you're hanging

00:08:39.480 out with like what kind of crowds are these like i'm not well well well i'm talking to

00:08:44.120 the entertainment industry i didn't say i met all of them in after parties i met them in a

00:08:58.360 specific uh occasion that made me think about them i know i know because of people and i've seen them

00:09:04.840 you're changing what you said you didn't say she didn't say a couple i've seen a couple but

00:09:10.680 the rest that i haven't seen it i know because of my friends are friends of so you know like i

00:09:15.320 know how did but then why are your friends involved with them because there are uh how can i say events

00:09:22.040 in london there are so many things going on in london and people know people that's how you mean i've

00:09:26.920 seen too much and my heart broke honestly i've seen so many people where i've seen them like with

00:09:32.360 their partners all happy and there's me making conversations speaking with the wife talking about

00:09:37.000 kids and babies and all that and then you see them with another when i see the person one or the

00:09:43.160 other cheating secretly just breaks my heart but then again sometimes people's hoism is normal as well

00:09:50.440 where they have open relationships so you also don't know but i've yeah but being working in the

00:09:56.760 media industry for 10 years plus i've seen a lot and i've crossed past many millionaires but millionaires

00:10:02.360 there's two obviously i'm coming from the entertainment industry aspect what i've seen

00:10:07.320 but by what um what's your name sorry again dimitri yeah what dimitri was saying yes there's also

00:10:14.840 there's also a group of of men that i know that are very loyal because they need to protect their wife

00:10:21.960 is like their asset they need to protect them and make sure they kind of make it

JustPearlyThings - June 10, 2023

Alpha Female Reluctantly Accepts This Fact

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