Alpha Female Wants An Alpha Male
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the differences between alpha females and alpha males, and why alpha females are more attractive than alpha males. We also discuss the difference between alpha males and alpha females, and what it means to be an alpha female.
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but then there's certain oh no let me not no go through go through no because i was gonna say
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you think you're saying that that the certain man at tesco you think there's not certain girls
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who would do anything to just to get that bit of attention i think if the guys are good looking
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maybe yeah but i don't think like women women find 80 of men is unattractive so not not okay
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not average looking like ugly wow think about it think about it you know what that is that is a
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good point because yeah like what i mean who out of the women actually i have a question i have a
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question out of the women out of the women who here would describe themselves as picky
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picky picky you're not picky that's why oh i'm not picky i like what i like yeah that's what i was
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gonna say are you okay are you particular no you don't know no no when you when you said no i like
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certain things but i wouldn't say like i have a very strict type on paper that if you don't meet
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this requirement i won't look at you yeah i don't i don't i don't i don't i don't really know what
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what to really say on that because well what what do you what do you look for in a guy like what are
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your what are your requirements pretty eyes no pretty eyes no honestly it's i don't how can i say
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it's got to be kind of like quite an alpha-y kind of male it's more it's not so much just the looks
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obviously not you can't be ugly because that's that's just that's just never gonna work really
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silly i've got to be attracted to you but you've got to be kind of an alpha really because i'm
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quite i'm quite an alpha female you're an alpha female yeah why because that's what i don't know
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that's what i've been told what do you believe what other people say about you then oh no but i'm
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just saying i'm just saying things that i've been told do you think do you think alpha men like
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want alpha females don't alpha men like want submissive females but then alpha females can be
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submissive to the right alpha male or to the right man yeah yeah but you don't think there's a line
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of men waiting to date or women waiting to date alpha men like why would they deal with an alpha
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female because like men don't want to men don't want to date themselves actually but no but then
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that's the difference between a male and a female because maybe then she'll submit because
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she's got she'll give him the same run for his money and keep his mind going
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instead of being yes boss but why would a guy go through that when he could just go to a girl
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that doesn't it's not like exactly why don't they cheat what i just like someone like that and so
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yeah some men like to be taken care of as well yep yeah i mean we could talk about exceptions it's not
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the rule no no but that's what i'm saying because an alpha female would still she could she could still
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provide it she could still she could still she could still hold it down so maybe she can hold it down
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for him instead of him always having guys don't care about your money not in general i didn't say
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money i didn't say money okay so what are you holding it down emotionally for a man because it's a lot
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for a man to especially an alpha man to offload his emotions onto somebody to show his vulnerability
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yeah i don't and i do believe that with an alpha female he will do that because he knows she can hold
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it down and she could take it on board and not use it against him that's what i just said that's what i
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believe i think i know what she means as well okay explain i feel like well in terms of alpha female
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tell me from wrong i feel like when you say alpha female you know there's someone out there
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how old are the guys you're talking about i'm i'll be honest with you i can only speak for the guys
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that around me yeah 25 to like 40 yeah in that age gap so in between the age 25 to 40
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most men yeah i like that i'm not saying they want that but there's a there's a percentage of
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them men that like the alpha female yeah they like a bit of fight back do you think it's the majority
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nah it's not it's a minority it's a minority but that minority i've just found like yeah but i found
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that's like more like men that are like more feminine
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i agree i feel like no i i disagree i think i've i've i haven't traveled to many places but what i can
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say is being in south africa being in florida and being in the uk there will always be that kind of
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man that wants that kind of woman and yes they want the submissive woman but it's like why do you
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have to be submissive in public when you are who you are you are who you are i am who i am what do
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you mean why do you have to be submissive in public can you explain that more it's like some guys are
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happier when their woman's just sitting next to them and just smiling and not talking to any men and
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not looking at any men's direction like not talking to females not talking because you're draw out
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you're gonna you know like so and do you think that's a problem i think when a when a high value
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man brings along a goal in public i think that this a particular woman that he brings with has to be
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quite reserved sorry can i just say something in in terms of the minority so that's that's like your
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that's is that's your definition of submissive just sitting there quietly and not saying a word
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well no what i'm saying is i didn't mean like sitting quietly and not saying a word i just said
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reserved but being seen and not heard yeah but in a way where i don't have to talk because my man's
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doing all the talking but the problem is when you meet the phony ones who do too much talking and then
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you just sit in there like i i think of submitting i think of submitting to authority like so so when you
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have a job so when you have a job right you don't if you're if your boss says do this yeah they don't
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you don't spend an hour arguing well why are we doing this like why do i have to do this like
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no you just say okay and you do it yeah so that's what i think of when i think of submissive that's
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what that's what i think that's what i think that's what i think for sure but then it can be also
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like the way they say you can say it so do that so so when i think what i'm saying is i don't think
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sorry i don't think that those men are like feminine they're not feminine you know what i mean
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which ones the ones who choose the alpha alpha women yeah able to hold conversations when they're
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not around babe i'm going to the toilet cool i'm gonna have conversations while you go to the right
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but it's not about converse it's not about conversations it's about listening so i just
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think those men they usually have hard jobs they work they work long hours and they don't typically
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want a woman that's not going to listen and alpha i've just found that alpha women don't tend to
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listen like it's my way or the highway i'm the alpha i'm the leader because what's an alpha that's a
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leader a leader you can't have two leaders in a relationship why would a guy that's a leader
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want another leader yeah you can do because because at the end of the day like someone has
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to make a decision i don't think there's one destination though i think there's if you're
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talking about being in a relationship and having family there's two destin there's a few destinations
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that come together what what are the what when you say destinations what do you like as the woman
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in the family like the mother she needs to take care of the children take care of the house
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and lead them and lead when he's not around but when he's around there's that sense of okay i can
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chill for a second yeah but not a lot of men can back that up i feel like i feel like there might be
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some sort of like misconfusion everyone's missing each other's point for some sort of reason am i wrong
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i'm right i'm right i'm wrong this is what i think and i'm just letting everyone know what i think this is what's going on
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when you're saying different paths yeah there's one woman that's gonna listen sit back all right babes
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even if she's got her opinion she's not gonna say it yep because she just wants to just make her man
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happy and get on with it and have a happy marriage then you've got the other woman that can be a leader
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just like her husband however they're both bosses and they come together as a team thank you
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you know i'm trying to say i know many relationships like that but she's just understanding she's got her
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point as well but they're gonna come together at the end and they're gonna meet at the final destination
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you can submit when it's when it's needed does that make sense yes sometimes does that make sense
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could you could you give me an example of that i think i know i know what you mean okay i can give
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you an example then jay-z and beyonce beyonce she's a leader she's a boss she's an independent woman
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she's talking about she doesn't need a man when she you know you know it's music it's business
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but that's what i'm saying she's she's busy brainwashing these people listening to them
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that's why the woman is evolving into something
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i'm not saying that i'm not arguing that point i'm not even arguing that point
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wait so when when her when she caught jay-z cheating
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was she an alpha female or did she say you know what i didn't see anything
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no wait she was an alpha because she was like do you know what bridgin i'll submit to that one actually
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what you were saying sorry as i said as i made my point some women are understanding
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remember what we spoke about the other day pearly some men if you're in the entertainment business
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you know the guy's gonna cheat she's understanding
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am i gonna throw away this legacy i'm gonna throw away this business
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or should i just get up with it and throw it along
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you know what i'm trying to say i'm not saying that she's not a leader and a boss
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but i'm saying there's some women that can be a leader and a boss
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and be understanding don't mean that they're not submissive
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yeah but she did cap the whole situation on lemonade
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like i believe when beyonce came out with that lemonade album yeah
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i believe everybody said no to their boyfriend and they ran away from her boyfriend
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i was like oh how you gonna bring out the lemonade and then you're pregnant
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no no no no no you just made me break up with my mando
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no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no