JustPearlyThings - Alpha Female Wants An Alpha Male

00:00:00.000 but then there's certain oh no let me not no go through go through no because i was gonna say

00:00:05.360 you think you're saying that that the certain man at tesco you think there's not certain girls

00:00:09.520 who would do anything to just to get that bit of attention i think if the guys are good looking

00:00:14.260 maybe yeah but i don't think like women women find 80 of men is unattractive so not not okay

00:00:20.580 not average looking like ugly wow think about it think about it you know what that is that is a

00:00:26.500 good point because yeah like what i mean who out of the women actually i have a question i have a 1.00

00:00:32.580 question out of the women out of the women who here would describe themselves as picky 0.99

00:00:35.900 picky picky you're not picky that's why oh i'm not picky i like what i like yeah that's what i was

00:00:43.320 gonna say are you okay are you particular no you don't know no no when you when you said no i like

00:00:48.760 certain things but i wouldn't say like i have a very strict type on paper that if you don't meet

00:00:53.260 this requirement i won't look at you yeah i don't i don't i don't i don't i don't really know what

00:00:59.180 what to really say on that because well what what do you what do you look for in a guy like what are

00:01:03.440 your what are your requirements pretty eyes no pretty eyes no honestly it's i don't how can i say

00:01:12.200 it's got to be kind of like quite an alpha-y kind of male it's more it's not so much just the looks

00:01:16.640 obviously not you can't be ugly because that's that's just that's just never gonna work really

00:01:20.780 silly i've got to be attracted to you but you've got to be kind of an alpha really because i'm 0.94

00:01:24.560 quite i'm quite an alpha female you're an alpha female yeah why because that's what i don't know 0.95

00:01:30.820 that's what i've been told what do you believe what other people say about you then oh no but i'm

00:01:38.240 just saying i'm just saying things that i've been told do you think do you think alpha men like

00:01:42.200 want alpha females don't alpha men like want submissive females but then alpha females can be 1.00

00:01:47.940 submissive to the right alpha male or to the right man yeah yeah but you don't think there's a line

00:01:53.500 of men waiting to date or women waiting to date alpha men like why would they deal with an alpha

00:01:57.380 female because like men don't want to men don't want to date themselves actually but no but then

00:02:01.860 that's the difference between a male and a female because maybe then she'll submit because 1.00

00:02:05.580 she's got she'll give him the same run for his money and keep his mind going 1.00

00:02:10.380 instead of being yes boss but why would a guy go through that when he could just go to a girl 0.99

00:02:15.100 that doesn't it's not like exactly why don't they cheat what i just like someone like that and so

00:02:21.320 yeah some men like to be taken care of as well yep yeah i mean we could talk about exceptions it's not

00:02:27.380 the rule no no but that's what i'm saying because an alpha female would still she could she could still 1.00

00:02:30.920 provide it she could still she could still she could still hold it down so maybe she can hold it down 0.77

00:02:35.160 for him instead of him always having guys don't care about your money not in general i didn't say

00:02:39.580 money i didn't say money okay so what are you holding it down emotionally for a man because it's a lot

00:02:43.980 for a man to especially an alpha man to offload his emotions onto somebody to show his vulnerability

00:02:50.460 yeah i don't and i do believe that with an alpha female he will do that because he knows she can hold

00:02:55.260 it down and she could take it on board and not use it against him that's what i just said that's what i

00:02:59.880 believe i think i know what she means as well okay explain i feel like well in terms of alpha female

00:03:04.900 tell me from wrong i feel like when you say alpha female you know there's someone out there

00:03:11.340 they like a girl that i'll give them a bit 0.98

00:03:13.060 how old are the guys you're talking about i'm i'll be honest with you i can only speak for the guys

00:03:24.740 that around me yeah 25 to like 40 yeah in that age gap so in between the age 25 to 40

00:03:33.120 most men yeah i like that i'm not saying they want that but there's a there's a percentage of

00:03:38.860 them men that like the alpha female yeah they like a bit of fight back do you think it's the majority

00:03:43.060 nah it's not it's a minority it's a minority but that minority i've just found like yeah but i found

00:03:49.500 that's like more like men that are like more feminine

00:03:52.700 i agree i feel like no i i disagree i think i've i've i haven't traveled to many places but what i can

00:04:10.780 say is being in south africa being in florida and being in the uk there will always be that kind of

00:04:19.100 man that wants that kind of woman and yes they want the submissive woman but it's like why do you 0.88

00:04:25.540 have to be submissive in public when you are who you are you are who you are i am who i am what do

00:04:31.280 you mean why do you have to be submissive in public can you explain that more it's like some guys are

00:04:35.440 happier when their woman's just sitting next to them and just smiling and not talking to any men and

00:04:41.220 not looking at any men's direction like not talking to females not talking because you're draw out 0.80

00:04:47.480 you're gonna you know like so and do you think that's a problem i think when a when a high value

00:04:52.760 man brings along a goal in public i think that this a particular woman that he brings with has to be 0.97

00:04:59.820 quite reserved sorry can i just say something in in terms of the minority so that's that's like your

00:05:06.500 that's is that's your definition of submissive just sitting there quietly and not saying a word

00:05:11.880 well no what i'm saying is i didn't mean like sitting quietly and not saying a word i just said

00:05:16.240 reserved but being seen and not heard yeah but in a way where i don't have to talk because my man's

00:05:22.300 doing all the talking but the problem is when you meet the phony ones who do too much talking and then

00:05:27.820 you just sit in there like i i think of submitting i think of submitting to authority like so so when you

00:05:33.860 have a job so when you have a job right you don't if you're if your boss says do this yeah they don't

00:05:38.660 you don't spend an hour arguing well why are we doing this like why do i have to do this like

00:05:43.240 no you just say okay and you do it yeah so that's what i think of when i think of submissive that's

00:05:47.300 what that's what i think that's what i think that's what i think for sure but then it can be also

00:05:52.220 like the way they say you can say it so do that so so when i think what i'm saying is i don't think

00:05:57.380 sorry i don't think that those men are like feminine they're not feminine you know what i mean

00:06:04.660 which ones the ones who choose the alpha alpha women yeah able to hold conversations when they're 1.00

00:06:10.840 not around babe i'm going to the toilet cool i'm gonna have conversations while you go to the right

00:06:15.820 but it's not about converse it's not about conversations it's about listening so i just

00:06:20.820 think those men they usually have hard jobs they work they work long hours and they don't typically

00:06:25.040 want a woman that's not going to listen and alpha i've just found that alpha women don't tend to 1.00

00:06:29.060 listen like it's my way or the highway i'm the alpha i'm the leader because what's an alpha that's a

00:06:33.400 leader a leader you can't have two leaders in a relationship why would a guy that's a leader

00:06:36.740 want another leader yeah you can do because because at the end of the day like someone has

00:06:42.540 to make a decision i don't think there's one destination though i think there's if you're

00:06:46.620 talking about being in a relationship and having family there's two destin there's a few destinations

00:06:52.320 that come together what what are the what when you say destinations what do you like as the woman

00:06:56.800 in the family like the mother she needs to take care of the children take care of the house 1.00

00:07:01.660 and lead them and lead when he's not around but when he's around there's that sense of okay i can

00:07:09.600 chill for a second yeah but not a lot of men can back that up i feel like i feel like there might be

00:07:16.820 some sort of like misconfusion everyone's missing each other's point for some sort of reason am i wrong

00:07:22.760 i'm right i'm right i'm wrong this is what i think and i'm just letting everyone know what i think this is what's going on

00:07:28.760 when you're saying different paths yeah there's one woman that's gonna listen sit back all right babes 0.99

00:07:35.880 even if she's got her opinion she's not gonna say it yep because she just wants to just make her man 1.00

00:07:40.880 happy and get on with it and have a happy marriage then you've got the other woman that can be a leader 1.00

00:07:47.060 just like her husband however they're both bosses and they come together as a team thank you

00:07:53.460 you know i'm trying to say i know many relationships like that but she's just understanding she's got her

00:07:59.360 point as well but they're gonna come together at the end and they're gonna meet at the final destination

00:08:04.360 you can submit when it's when it's needed does that make sense yes sometimes does that make sense

00:08:08.360 could you could you give me an example of that i think i know i know what you mean okay i can give

00:08:12.520 you an example then jay-z and beyonce beyonce she's a leader she's a boss she's an independent woman

00:08:20.360 the biggest capper of all time

00:08:23.360 how come you say that she's a capper

00:08:28.360 she's talking about she doesn't need a man when she you know you know it's music it's business 0.57

00:08:42.360 but that's what i'm saying she's she's busy brainwashing these people listening to them 1.00

00:08:48.360 that's why the woman is evolving into something 1.00

00:08:52.360 i'm not saying that i'm not arguing that point i'm not even arguing that point

00:08:56.360 wait wait wait wait so so i'm just saying

00:08:58.360 wait so when when her when she caught jay-z cheating 0.90

00:09:01.360 was she an alpha female or did she say you know what i didn't see anything

00:09:06.360 no wait she was an alpha because she was like do you know what bridgin i'll submit to that one actually 0.99

00:09:10.360 but like maybe that's what it may be

00:09:12.360 but as i said when i'm exposing him

00:09:13.360 what you were saying sorry as i said as i made my point some women are understanding 1.00

00:09:18.360 remember what we spoke about the other day pearly some men if you're in the entertainment business

00:09:23.360 you know the guy's gonna cheat she's understanding 1.00

00:09:27.360 am i gonna throw away this legacy i'm gonna throw away this business

00:09:30.360 or should i just get up with it and throw it along

00:09:33.360 you know what i'm trying to say i'm not saying that she's not a leader and a boss

00:09:36.360 but i'm saying there's some women that can be a leader and a boss 1.00

00:09:39.360 and be understanding don't mean that they're not submissive

00:09:42.360 yeah but she did cap the whole situation on lemonade 1.00

00:09:46.360 like i believe when beyonce came out with that lemonade album yeah

00:09:50.360 i believe everybody said no to their boyfriend and they ran away from her boyfriend

00:09:54.360 and then she was like i'm pregnant with twins

00:09:56.360 i was like oh how you gonna bring out the lemonade and then you're pregnant 0.97

00:10:00.360 no no no no no you just made me break up with my mando

00:10:04.360 no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no

00:10:06.360 oh my god

00:10:08.360 no no no no that's right

00:10:21.360 yeah

00:10:22.360 no no no no no no i'm sorry

00:10:24.360 yeah

00:10:26.360 yeah

00:10:26.920 yeah

00:10:28.360 no no no

JustPearlyThings - June 10, 2023

Alpha Female Wants An Alpha Male

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