JustPearlyThings - July 26, 2023


Alpha Male BREAKS Character On The Show


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

179.38066

Word Count

1,900

Sentence Count

3

Misogynist Sentences

11

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

In this episode, we discuss cheating, sex, consent, and sex education. We also discuss the topic of sex and consent and how men and women should be taught to be consenting partners in sexual matters.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 okay i cannot say days because maybe you you don't want to give her give her like a week
00:00:05.760 it's not about time it's about like a few attempts let's say because maybe i don't want either but
00:00:12.320 let's say i won't like and there is no like something like women issue and she does say
00:00:17.760 no one no twice the third time i'm gonna say listen what's going on and then then it's
00:00:22.960 done maybe it's gonna be the first day who knows if not now i'm gonna leave you
00:00:26.800 um what do you think about men cheating if their wife doesn't sleep with them is that
00:00:32.880 the woman's fault or the man's fault that's interesting question you know um it's common
00:00:42.000 i think it's both it's equal no it's not now we got to pick a fault okay
00:00:50.720 if if a man cheats right yeah and then because the woman wouldn't sleep with them
00:00:54.960 i think it's woman's fault but i don't strongly agree on that
00:01:01.760 okay what do you think um whose fault is it if the man cheats because the woman won't sleep with
00:01:07.680 him but the woman's fault it's the woman's fault and you said a week till she's a bad wife yeah
00:01:14.000 see this is why this is no okay this is why the men want to stay they're like whatever i want to i
00:01:18.640 want to say what do you make it gets different yeah it's different now have you wait out no i
00:01:24.480 haven't okay i haven't that's okay yeah i just feel like um when it gets to marriage and you're
00:01:32.880 together forever because you're gonna be forever you just need to please each other with whatever
00:01:38.720 the other person asks and that's why again i'm going back that's why from the beginning you should
00:01:44.000 say okay i don't like this you don't like this are you willing to do this are you not willing and
00:01:50.080 it's just like it's just simple conversation for me okay what about you same i keep going back to
00:01:55.840 like what's the reason why talk like i think like it's very now it's very much like oh is there a good
00:02:01.440 reason to not sleep with your husband no there could be you don't know what is what well what if
00:02:08.960 what would be a good reason if you would have a kid and it would be absolutely hurting you something
00:02:12.880 went down there and it's been absolutely painful outside of a medical issue so okay take the
00:02:16.960 medical issue out of out of out of it what would be a good reason to not sleep with your husband
00:02:22.160 i don't know i've never been in that situation so so why why why does your automatic gut reaction
00:02:28.560 to say like but but there could be reasons if you've never had any reasons but i'm saying if you
00:02:32.720 personally have never had a reason like why is your gut reaction to go there must be a reason because
00:02:37.760 why wouldn't you want to have sex like why would you want to sleep with your partner do you think
00:02:42.880 women can be controlling yeah absolutely okay okay do you think do you think women use sex to control
00:02:49.040 men they can do so you know that happens right so but it's just interesting because you've never had
00:02:54.560 a reason to not have sex yet but you know that women can control men through sex but your gut reaction
00:03:00.880 is still to protect the woman that's maybe because i can force women to have sex as well right huh men
00:03:07.520 can force women to have sex as well like we agreed that men are stronger right not so but it's not
00:03:12.160 intelligent then to make this other question you know if you're not considering the other things as
00:03:16.720 well and i think last but i thought i know we're talking about what happens if a man forces a woman to
00:03:22.560 have sex then it's right you will go so right what will happen to him he's gonna he's gonna go to court right
00:03:28.160 okay so he'll likely go to yes do you think the justice system favors men or women in this case
00:03:34.800 a man is forcing a woman physically of course do you think do you think the justice system okay okay
00:03:42.000 so it favors women are you so so so my my question is she he cannot just have sex with her because the
00:03:50.480 court will prosecute him right if it's physically forced correct correct right so so he can't just force
00:03:56.960 sex no even physically okay physically correct even if they're married a lot of physical even if
00:04:04.160 they're married he can do you sign the paper you're mine i'm yours i can do whatever excuse me you are
00:04:12.720 wrong if you if you say someone like that's wrong doesn't matter if you are married or not yeah i don't
00:04:20.320 know i i grew up i don't know no no it used to be thought of that way it's like lifetime consent
00:04:27.280 but now the feminists kind of get in there um i don't know if this like but similar things to this
00:04:34.000 happened to my mother my mom and dad they're married 34 years and they're still together just because my
00:04:39.600 mom sit down and just okay you're my husband anyway so okay why do you so i've been curious yeah why if
00:04:46.960 your parents were together 34 years why why are you so anti-relationship it seems like i've been
00:04:53.120 yeah i've been to like quite many relationships and i just feel like um it comes to how deep
00:05:02.960 is the people that i'm because i believe i'm very like giving person okay and i just been given to
00:05:10.720 giving too much and not really appreciated and then they didn't and then they didn't do anything
00:05:16.720 in return not really nothing and i also i also been in an abusive relationship so they didn't ever
00:05:23.040 took you on dates they never um maybe one time okay so you went on maybe one time relationship yes
00:05:30.560 and one holidays out of ten with his friends what uh in one holidays out of ten with his friends so he
00:05:38.640 went ten ten times with his friends and one with me okay so how long were you with him uh one and a
00:05:43.360 half year one and a half years so why why did you stay so long if he wasn't treating you well because
00:05:49.680 i tried and i tried and i tried i said okay cool maybe it's fine maybe how old were you just two years
00:05:56.480 ago was he rich i'm 28. okay so it was when you were 26 before that did you want to get married
00:06:02.320 i never wanted to get married so i'm asking like why is that if you had it seems like you would
00:06:08.080 because i just i just i just don't feel nowadays people like they're together for the right reason
00:06:14.320 like especially here i'm not from here were your parents together for the right reason you think
00:06:18.960 i think so yeah okay so when did you start feeling like that um basically when i came here okay so when
00:06:26.320 you came i just feel how old were you uh 21. okay so when you were 21 your view changed on relationships
00:06:32.960 no i came here and i came in this country right okay right and i just like um so that here things
00:06:42.800 are different it's not it's not like okay we like each other we love each other we already like to do
00:06:47.600 compromise and all of that stuff here is completely different here is like what you bring to the table
00:06:52.320 where are you from again greece okay so you're from greece so relationships were more simple there
00:06:56.560 more simple and more like we like each other we love each other i'm greek too
00:07:03.840 it's not simple at all i don't know this is how i this is how i felt there when here is like how many
00:07:09.920 years ago yeah a lot yeah when i when i was there are you from greece yes okay so what has it changed
00:07:20.080 absolutely like what was dating like i don't know was it more traditional 10 years ago yeah speak
00:07:28.720 about when we were dead not now because i haven't been there so yeah 10 years ago i i was seeing it
00:07:34.880 different than how it is right now i think social media like played a big role on that because they
00:07:40.640 somehow diluted the quality of relationships and all the reasons why women do stuff and men
00:07:49.840 tested the loyalty and respect that we have for each other and for the people that is around us
00:07:56.640 sorry i think it's the social media tested our loyalty and respect that we have for the people around
00:08:03.200 us and for ourselves as a person i don't think it sorry i don't think and i don't think it's an
00:08:08.320 important country because it changed it to the world it changed it globally not in greece not in england
00:08:14.160 it's obviously yeah do you think social media changed men or women more all both of women
00:08:23.920 remember we gotta pick one there's no we gotta pick one for the generalization i'd say women let's say
00:08:29.440 women women yeah the key word was more come on i know you can pick one men all right all right she
00:08:37.520 said women women men women women women women i don't know because i don't deal with social media
00:08:46.240 there is no way you don't know i don't know i'm not i'm not looking into all of this stuff i don't know
00:08:52.960 what do you think what do you feel what do you see
00:08:59.840 i really don't know i i feel like i'm out of all of these instagram live all of these people that
00:09:06.480 we follow i i just feel i'm out i just me but what i know and my opinion i'm curious is a girl posting
00:09:14.560 a selfie while in a relationship cheating if you think yes raise your hand
00:09:20.160 posting a selfie yeah selfie in a relationship cheating no not physical but yeah the attention she
00:09:27.120 will get and the reply she will give yeah i think yeah okay yes anyone else say yes okay is a guy
00:09:34.080 dming another girl cheating raise your hand yes i mean that's in a relationship yes if the girl does
00:09:40.960 the same exactly what is he what is he what is he what is he saying to her well what is she posting the
00:09:46.000 selfie for attention she wants it no no not the same no not the same no who who's more likely
00:09:59.680 who's more likely um to get attention attention the guy dming a girl or the girl
00:10:08.480 the selfie the selfie 100 so why is one so much worse than the other because i think that when
00:10:15.840 you're dming you're taking the direct action to do that aren't you taking a direct action to like
00:10:21.040 get attention from everyone yeah from everyone he's just dming one girl and you're just exposing
00:10:28.160 yourself for everyone i'm thinking about like my mind is a mother that yeah you know we have
00:10:32.880 sometimes you post but even me i don't post