Aunty Jenny Destroys Feminism
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In this episode, we discuss a topic that has been on the show last night, Should women fear men? We discuss the statistics on women dying from domestic violence, obesity and car crashes, and why we should all fear men.
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should women fear men and the reason i picked this topic is because of something that happened
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on the show we had last night um i try to build on conversation so
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blessing will you show them the clip of the show last night
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so i don't think it's as a woman i know full well uh it won't ingrained in me to hate men but as you
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grow up and you see them act a certain way then you're going to have an opinion of them
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i wouldn't go swimming i wouldn't go swimming in australia even if there was one shark attack i
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wouldn't go near it because i know the consequences but yeah as women were expected to to still um
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trust men that that hurt us what okay oh wow what do you mean what do you mean like what you said
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what do you what do you see that men do that's so bad well first of all i said about the domestic
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violence and then i think if you look at that women women do it too no no of course but men ain't dying
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at the same rates so well then they can't who's to say what do you mean who's to say i think
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everything that we see is this is what's given to us as facts we can't take that as gospel
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do you know men have died from domestic violence male suicide male suicide is is one of the biggest
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indicators of male suicide is relationship conflict yeah or or breakup so you know maybe it's not being
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logged as domestic violence yeah but there is definitely abuse going the other way and and that's
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a significant part and more women hit men one-sided than men hit women one-sided i i struggle i do
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struggle with this like uh on this on the websites that i've seen that women are arrested more for
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domestic violence than men even though they suffer more and on like when in 2000 in 2000 and in 2020
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when 110 women died that year because of that the hands of male 50 of those deaths were overkill
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which means they killed them they was there was like brutally killing them long before that long
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after that 110 in london no in the uk that's really not a lot one every three days you don't
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think that's 110 for the whole year so say from the whole year yeah from the whole year so from
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then to now so say at the what percentage of deaths is that that's got to be less than one percent
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do you honestly think that a woman dying every three to four days is not a lot i don't think it's
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like um i don't think it's like a pressing like if it's not one of the number how do you not
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because it's not one of the number one ways people are dying here so like like if if we're going to
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talk about if that if that's the big issue like then we should maybe put obesity why is it always
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fat people when that alcohol is a drug and it's so normal why is the default always fat why is the
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default always fat like it could be alcoholism because because because that can because the stuff
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that's self more people die what i think what pearl's trying to say is more people die each year from
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self-inflicted things than something that's been inflicted on somebody else but that makes it
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yeah that's that does make sense but it doesn't excuse it do you see what i mean so say so say when
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i wouldn't excuse it i don't believe anyone should just put it into context yeah if you take if you
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take a number like 110 out of a country with like 60 million people yeah and try and make the case
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well because you're trying to generalize something about men but then so if you're gonna if you're gonna make
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a generalization about men i want to see is this prevalent among men is this really common and when
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you said 110 i'm like well okay the uk is very populated that doesn't sound like a lot of people
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and when you put it into context but if you put into context i don't think it's okay i don't think
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no i'm not saying you do but then if you put it into context the same amount of women have died this
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year right so it's one in one every three to four days so say from 2020 2021 2022 if you multiply 110
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that's 3 30 yeah that's close to a year so out of three years there was one year where a woman was
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dying every day that's mad when you put it like that i don't i don't think it's okay but i just if
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i had to guess if i had to guess i i would think that things like car crashes and obesity would
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probably be higher but they're self-inflicted so that's on them i could walk down the street and be
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murdered by a man and and what did i do to deserve that why does it have to be a man you could be
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murdered but no but i was talking about that statistic when we're talking about domestic violence
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it's it's men killing women but my point my point is why would i make a generalization about men when
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it's not a huge percentage of people that are dying oh okay so at the hands of men like from domestic
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violence i i i well i think that's probably just the difference in the opinion because i think one every
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three to four days is what to a week i think i mean i mean you can you can manipulate statistics
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to make them sound like it's a lot more prevalent than it is but but when you when you look at how
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many people if i googled right now how many people are in the uk it's like 60 million yeah 60 million
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people in the uk but 110 that's not cool but then when you put it down to one to every three to four
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days that doesn't and like i said about one like a year and that would have been just women but this is
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what i'm saying get off this but this is what i'm saying this is why because there's a consequence
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for your action so as men if you're going to enable other men and and whatnot then it's a
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repercussion how do men enable other men we just saw in a clip where when people were attacked when
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he was attacking a woman in public people rushed to her defense how how was that enabling well the
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thing is i i understand that video the video is terrible but that's just one incident you could film
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that tomorrow and and there could be a different reaction because i personally have seen three
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incidences of domestic violence with a woman being attacked and i haven't seen any i was the one
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that went to see them it was me so i i know full well that that happened so i'm not shocked by that
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video at all because i don't know what people expect do you okay do you feel like it's equal like people
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protect the genders equally i i do i do see what the problem with men but um in terms of how they're
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treated in society but a lot of it i dare to say that the misandry is almost a bit of a pity party
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like if you ask someone who's 50 plus about this they ain't got a clue what you're talking about
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but they've for the last 50 years seen women go through this this and this and they're probably
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like well of course i want to go okay um do you guys hear a buzzing yeah there's a little buzzing
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in the headphones not in mind yeah i can hear slightly um but what did you guys think of that
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clip so i want to start with alex because you were there what were you thinking yesterday um
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i would say i was i was just thinking she's just very very miss uh misinformed very ignorant and you
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know she has this like um she's obviously been like highly influenced by extremist groups and so
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all her points were just kind of in that line of just like i experienced i know someone who
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experienced this therefore it's an issue of a society um i didn't like how she dismissed men's
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issues because i thought that was very kind of uh she kind of threw herself under the bus there where
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if you claim you care about equality and women's rights and then say men's rights misandry is a pity
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party is kind of like extremely extremely ignorant so yeah
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what did you think the clip in my opinion um i feel like she's been for a lot of things
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because for her to talk like that she has experienced a lot of things when it comes to men
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so that's why i can't judge what she's saying and i'm saying because i i from my experience i've
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been around a lot of people when they tell me their stories about could be about a guy or female but
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the way to go into it i deeply listen to it so hard and i can just tell like they've been going
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through a lot so for for her to talk like that i can't judge because she's she's hurting and i can
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just hear in her voice she's hurting that means that's why i'm judging that she looked like she
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wanted to cry 100 i mean i'm sure she was pretty hurt like you can actually tell that she's gone through
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some sort of rough experience however i maybe like alex think that she's those kind of people that
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would manipulate the information for you to take the message the way she wants you to have it does
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that make sense and that is where you lose that you know understanding because the statistics went from
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every other day for every three days and then one year and then three years you know it's like
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taking the same issue and then molding it to favor your point of view so that is not fair because it
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has to be objective like i don't know that's how i feel about it but it's clearly that she's gone
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through some rough experiences can i say something i think obviously she just represents some of the
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biggest problems that we have nowadays it's just where people are talking without having the capacity to
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be talking on the topics they're talking about that's why she misused statistics that's why she missed she
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didn't quite make a coherent argument however the sentiment and the words that she's trying to say i
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fully sympathize and i actually kind of agree with what she's saying yes there's domestic violence
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towards men yes yes yes yes but traditionally culturally socially politically economically
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everything lee women tend to kind of be the ones on the losing side and i say that not just from my
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own experience i say that from my own research into this i say that from my own like life experiences
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and the losing side how yeah and the losing side of the topics that she's talking about of course
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think about it even in in latin america for example in africa in asia there's a lot of women that die in
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the hands of men and that even though that's outside of europe and the world that we live in that's just
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another example of how actually the world is somewhat like can we stick to the west even in the west
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even in the west is the same thing they're like if i'm gonna i'm not gonna lie i bet you that if i
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walk even let's say just london if i walk around london and i ask a few girls like has a man ever
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slapped you a lot of them will say yes how do you know that because how do you know they didn't deserve
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to be slapped though but that's not even and that's again the deserving of uh to slap somewhere
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somebody deserves to be slapped that's subjective again most abuse is is mutual meaning both parties are
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hitting each other so a lot of girls will hit guys often first and then claim and cry abuse when
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he hits back but you hit him first yeah okay and and most so um they looked at abuse abusive situations
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and the ones that are one-sided which means one party's hitting the other and the other is not returning
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women are more likely to do that than men okay i understand that completely i've been in that situation
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before of course i hit back because i'm not here to take slaps for no reason right but it still remains
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like the fact that even for and this goes to your question should women fear men right a man is way
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stronger than a woman do you get so why are you even hitting in the first place you shouldn't and yet
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they do are more race than women do and some yes cry victim and some of them can cause a situation but
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let's not run away from the fact that there's a lot of women that are actually victims to the toxic
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masculinity there's out there toxic masculine go ahead auntie bullshit word that's what i can say
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as somebody that's been in an abusive relationship bullshit what she's saying
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bullshit as far as i'm concerned she's going from one side she's going from one side she's going she's
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if you go onto the internet and you look for women who have been abused you're going to get one set of
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figures what about the men that have been abused there's men out there that have been abused that
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are being abused there was a um i think there was a program i think i mentioned it one of sarah's shows
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there was a guy and he almost lost his life through being with his partner how many of these how many men
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suffer in silence a woman will go out there and she will slap a man right and if the man goes and calls
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the police is the police going to come and arrest him and take him is that going down as a statistic
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and i'm not even defending the man because as far as i'm concerned no one deserves to get hit but
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you've got to be fair about it a woman will turn around slap a man and i'm talking like i've seen
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it happen i know if it happened a woman will turn around slap a man call the police if the man slaps
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her back and they will take the man how many men out there are getting slapped by women and that will
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call the police and say this woman slapped me how many men are going out women are too so quick to easy
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and turn around and say oh i've been abused how is it for a man if i'm if women if that society would
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accept that men get abused they will speak up more and then you'll see the statistics change so as far
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as i'm concerned all that talk about we should fear men and whatever i've been battered by a man i do not
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fear men because that is a rare occasion that is a rare occasion that is rare i'm not going to go
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around and say oh because i got abused all women out there are getting abused because i know that
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men get abused out there and it's not publicized and if there were statistics for men and i'm not
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defending anybody getting abused but you've got to be fair about it and as far as i'm concerned she
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don't even look like she's suffered she looked like she's been around people they're fed of this
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go on the internet sometimes you need to turn off the internet and use your brain and all she's doing
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is getting her information from the internet and from she looks traumatized go and get counseling
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girl or something like that she reminds me and just going by the way she looks i don't care where
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people hate me she looks like a plain bitter feminist lesbian nothing about her says nothing about her
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says i'm sorry i'm gonna say nothing about her says feminine nothing about her says oh this is what's
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going on she just looks like she's on one agenda and that's the way she was going so i'm getting tired of
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hearing that oh this is what happens to women i want to hear what happens to the men because the
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men out there are suffering in silence and it's because of society that men do not speak up yeah
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men do not speak up because they're so busy feeling fearful that they're going to get called a beta oh
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how can you let that woman slap you or how can you let that woman stab you up there's man they're
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suffering but because of society they're not saying nothing so if they're going to turn around and say
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oh what she's saying is right always your fair man bullshit 100 you know i was just banned on tiktok
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