JustPearlyThings - Aunty Jenny Destroys Feminism

00:00:00.000 should women fear men and the reason i picked this topic is because of something that happened

00:00:06.400 on the show we had last night um i try to build on conversation so

00:00:10.960 blessing will you show them the clip of the show last night

00:00:14.000 so i don't think it's as a woman i know full well uh it won't ingrained in me to hate men but as you

00:00:31.600 grow up and you see them act a certain way then you're going to have an opinion of them

00:00:35.360 i wouldn't go swimming i wouldn't go swimming in australia even if there was one shark attack i

00:00:39.840 wouldn't go near it because i know the consequences but yeah as women were expected to to still um 1.00

00:00:45.280 trust men that that hurt us what okay oh wow what do you mean what do you mean like what you said

00:00:52.880 what do you what do you see that men do that's so bad well first of all i said about the domestic

00:00:58.320 violence and then i think if you look at that women women do it too no no of course but men ain't dying 1.00

00:01:03.120 at the same rates so well then they can't who's to say what do you mean who's to say i think

00:01:08.960 everything that we see is this is what's given to us as facts we can't take that as gospel

00:01:13.840 do you know men have died from domestic violence male suicide male suicide is is one of the biggest

00:01:19.040 indicators of male suicide is relationship conflict yeah or or breakup so you know maybe it's not being

00:01:25.040 logged as domestic violence yeah but there is definitely abuse going the other way and and that's 1.00

00:01:29.600 a significant part and more women hit men one-sided than men hit women one-sided i i struggle i do

00:01:35.920 struggle with this like uh on this on the websites that i've seen that women are arrested more for 0.95

00:01:41.440 domestic violence than men even though they suffer more and on like when in 2000 in 2000 and in 2020

00:01:49.680 when 110 women died that year because of that the hands of male 50 of those deaths were overkill 0.74

00:01:55.360 which means they killed them they was there was like brutally killing them long before that long

00:02:00.560 after that 110 in london no in the uk that's really not a lot one every three days you don't

00:02:06.640 think that's 110 for the whole year so say from the whole year yeah from the whole year so from

00:02:11.280 then to now so say at the what percentage of deaths is that that's got to be less than one percent

00:02:16.640 do you honestly think that a woman dying every three to four days is not a lot i don't think it's

00:02:22.720 like um i don't think it's like a pressing like if it's not one of the number how do you not

00:02:27.520 because it's not one of the number one ways people are dying here so like like if if we're going to

00:02:32.400 talk about if that if that's the big issue like then we should maybe put obesity why is it always

00:02:39.280 fat people when that alcohol is a drug and it's so normal why is the default always fat why is the

00:02:46.320 default always fat like it could be alcoholism because because because that can because the stuff

00:02:51.920 that's self more people die what i think what pearl's trying to say is more people die each year from

00:02:56.480 self-inflicted things than something that's been inflicted on somebody else but that makes it

00:03:01.840 yeah that's that does make sense but it doesn't excuse it do you see what i mean so say so say when

00:03:06.960 i wouldn't excuse it i don't believe anyone should just put it into context yeah if you take if you

00:03:11.600 take a number like 110 out of a country with like 60 million people yeah and try and make the case

00:03:17.840 well because you're trying to generalize something about men but then so if you're gonna if you're gonna make

00:03:22.240 a generalization about men i want to see is this prevalent among men is this really common and when

00:03:27.200 you said 110 i'm like well okay the uk is very populated that doesn't sound like a lot of people

00:03:32.400 and when you put it into context but if you put into context i don't think it's okay i don't think

00:03:36.800 no i'm not saying you do but then if you put it into context the same amount of women have died this

00:03:41.040 year right so it's one in one every three to four days so say from 2020 2021 2022 if you multiply 110

00:03:49.760 that's 3 30 yeah that's close to a year so out of three years there was one year where a woman was 1.00

00:03:55.680 dying every day that's mad when you put it like that i don't i don't think it's okay but i just if

00:04:04.160 i had to guess if i had to guess i i would think that things like car crashes and obesity would

00:04:10.400 probably be higher but they're self-inflicted so that's on them i could walk down the street and be

00:04:15.680 murdered by a man and and what did i do to deserve that why does it have to be a man you could be

00:04:22.080 murdered but no but i was talking about that statistic when we're talking about domestic violence

00:04:26.080 it's it's men killing women but my point my point is why would i make a generalization about men when

00:04:31.200 it's not a huge percentage of people that are dying oh okay so at the hands of men like from domestic

00:04:36.560 violence i i i well i think that's probably just the difference in the opinion because i think one every

00:04:40.880 three to four days is what to a week i think i mean i mean you can you can manipulate statistics

00:04:46.080 to make them sound like it's a lot more prevalent than it is but but when you when you look at how

00:04:51.360 many people if i googled right now how many people are in the uk it's like 60 million yeah 60 million

00:04:56.400 people in the uk but 110 that's not cool but then when you put it down to one to every three to four

00:05:03.680 days that doesn't and like i said about one like a year and that would have been just women but this is 0.80

00:05:08.960 what i'm saying get off this but this is what i'm saying this is why because there's a consequence

00:05:13.280 for your action so as men if you're going to enable other men and and whatnot then it's a

00:05:19.040 repercussion how do men enable other men we just saw in a clip where when people were attacked when

00:05:24.800 he was attacking a woman in public people rushed to her defense how how was that enabling well the

00:05:29.280 thing is i i understand that video the video is terrible but that's just one incident you could film

00:05:34.080 that tomorrow and and there could be a different reaction because i personally have seen three

00:05:38.560 incidences of domestic violence with a woman being attacked and i haven't seen any i was the one

00:05:43.200 that went to see them it was me so i i know full well that that happened so i'm not shocked by that

00:05:50.160 video at all because i don't know what people expect do you okay do you feel like it's equal like people

00:05:55.040 protect the genders equally i i do i do see what the problem with men but um in terms of how they're

00:06:02.720 treated in society but a lot of it i dare to say that the misandry is almost a bit of a pity party

00:06:10.000 like if you ask someone who's 50 plus about this they ain't got a clue what you're talking about

00:06:15.840 but they've for the last 50 years seen women go through this this and this and they're probably

00:06:20.400 like well of course i want to go okay um do you guys hear a buzzing yeah there's a little buzzing

00:06:28.480 in the headphones not in mind yeah i can hear slightly um but what did you guys think of that

00:06:34.400 clip so i want to start with alex because you were there what were you thinking yesterday um 0.97

00:06:41.760 i would say i was i was just thinking she's just very very miss uh misinformed very ignorant and you 0.99

00:06:49.040 know she has this like um she's obviously been like highly influenced by extremist groups and so

00:06:54.240 all her points were just kind of in that line of just like i experienced i know someone who

00:06:59.120 experienced this therefore it's an issue of a society um i didn't like how she dismissed men's

00:07:04.880 issues because i thought that was very kind of uh she kind of threw herself under the bus there where 1.00

00:07:10.080 if you claim you care about equality and women's rights and then say men's rights misandry is a pity 0.91

00:07:15.040 party is kind of like extremely extremely ignorant so yeah

00:07:23.280 what did you think the clip in my opinion um i feel like she's been for a lot of things 0.91

00:07:29.040 because for her to talk like that she has experienced a lot of things when it comes to men

00:07:32.880 so that's why i can't judge what she's saying and i'm saying because i i from my experience i've

00:07:38.240 been around a lot of people when they tell me their stories about could be about a guy or female but

00:07:43.680 the way to go into it i deeply listen to it so hard and i can just tell like they've been going

00:07:48.480 through a lot so for for her to talk like that i can't judge because she's she's hurting and i can

00:07:53.040 just hear in her voice she's hurting that means that's why i'm judging that she looked like she

00:07:56.960 wanted to cry 100 i mean i'm sure she was pretty hurt like you can actually tell that she's gone through

00:08:06.640 some sort of rough experience however i maybe like alex think that she's those kind of people that

00:08:14.240 would manipulate the information for you to take the message the way she wants you to have it does

00:08:19.920 that make sense and that is where you lose that you know understanding because the statistics went from

00:08:27.760 every other day for every three days and then one year and then three years you know it's like

00:08:32.880 taking the same issue and then molding it to favor your point of view so that is not fair because it

00:08:38.880 has to be objective like i don't know that's how i feel about it but it's clearly that she's gone

00:08:43.840 through some rough experiences can i say something i think obviously she just represents some of the

00:08:50.880 biggest problems that we have nowadays it's just where people are talking without having the capacity to

00:08:55.920 be talking on the topics they're talking about that's why she misused statistics that's why she missed she 1.00

00:09:01.120 didn't quite make a coherent argument however the sentiment and the words that she's trying to say i

00:09:07.120 fully sympathize and i actually kind of agree with what she's saying yes there's domestic violence

00:09:12.320 towards men yes yes yes yes but traditionally culturally socially politically economically

00:09:19.120 everything lee women tend to kind of be the ones on the losing side and i say that not just from my 0.91

00:09:25.360 own experience i say that from my own research into this i say that from my own like life experiences

00:09:30.960 and the losing side how yeah and the losing side of the topics that she's talking about of course

00:09:35.600 think about it even in in latin america for example in africa in asia there's a lot of women that die in 1.00

00:09:41.440 the hands of men and that even though that's outside of europe and the world that we live in that's just

00:09:46.080 another example of how actually the world is somewhat like can we stick to the west even in the west

00:09:51.040 even in the west is the same thing they're like if i'm gonna i'm not gonna lie i bet you that if i

00:09:55.520 walk even let's say just london if i walk around london and i ask a few girls like has a man ever

00:10:01.440 slapped you a lot of them will say yes how do you know that because how do you know they didn't deserve

00:10:06.880 to be slapped though but that's not even and that's again the deserving of uh to slap somewhere

00:10:14.560 somebody deserves to be slapped that's subjective again most abuse is is mutual meaning both parties are

00:10:20.240 hitting each other so a lot of girls will hit guys often first and then claim and cry abuse when 1.00

00:10:26.080 he hits back but you hit him first yeah okay and and most so um they looked at abuse abusive situations

00:10:33.360 and the ones that are one-sided which means one party's hitting the other and the other is not returning

00:10:37.920 women are more likely to do that than men okay i understand that completely i've been in that situation

00:10:44.320 before of course i hit back because i'm not here to take slaps for no reason right but it still remains

00:10:49.600 like the fact that even for and this goes to your question should women fear men right a man is way

00:10:56.240 stronger than a woman do you get so why are you even hitting in the first place you shouldn't and yet 0.89

00:11:01.200 they do are more race than women do and some yes cry victim and some of them can cause a situation but 1.00

00:11:06.320 let's not run away from the fact that there's a lot of women that are actually victims to the toxic 0.99

00:11:10.480 masculinity there's out there toxic masculine go ahead auntie bullshit word that's what i can say 1.00

00:11:18.480 as somebody that's been in an abusive relationship bullshit what she's saying 1.00

00:11:23.200 bullshit as far as i'm concerned she's going from one side she's going from one side she's going she's 1.00

00:11:30.160 if you go onto the internet and you look for women who have been abused you're going to get one set of 0.99

00:11:36.320 figures what about the men that have been abused there's men out there that have been abused that

00:11:41.440 are being abused there was a um i think there was a program i think i mentioned it one of sarah's shows

00:11:45.760 there was a guy and he almost lost his life through being with his partner how many of these how many men

00:11:54.320 suffer in silence a woman will go out there and she will slap a man right and if the man goes and calls 0.99

00:12:00.560 the police is the police going to come and arrest him and take him is that going down as a statistic

00:12:04.800 and i'm not even defending the man because as far as i'm concerned no one deserves to get hit but

00:12:08.400 you've got to be fair about it a woman will turn around slap a man and i'm talking like i've seen 0.97

00:12:13.520 it happen i know if it happened a woman will turn around slap a man call the police if the man slaps 1.00

00:12:19.280 her back and they will take the man how many men out there are getting slapped by women and that will 1.00

00:12:23.840 call the police and say this woman slapped me how many men are going out women are too so quick to easy 1.00

00:12:29.040 and turn around and say oh i've been abused how is it for a man if i'm if women if that society would

00:12:36.000 accept that men get abused they will speak up more and then you'll see the statistics change so as far

00:12:40.880 as i'm concerned all that talk about we should fear men and whatever i've been battered by a man i do not

00:12:46.080 fear men because that is a rare occasion that is a rare occasion that is rare i'm not going to go

00:12:52.960 around and say oh because i got abused all women out there are getting abused because i know that 0.93

00:12:58.000 men get abused out there and it's not publicized and if there were statistics for men and i'm not

00:13:03.040 defending anybody getting abused but you've got to be fair about it and as far as i'm concerned she

00:13:08.160 don't even look like she's suffered she looked like she's been around people they're fed of this

00:13:12.800 go on the internet sometimes you need to turn off the internet and use your brain and all she's doing

00:13:18.080 is getting her information from the internet and from she looks traumatized go and get counseling

00:13:23.280 girl or something like that she reminds me and just going by the way she looks i don't care where 0.96

00:13:27.440 people hate me she looks like a plain bitter feminist lesbian nothing about her says nothing about her 1.00

00:13:35.040 says i'm sorry i'm gonna say nothing about her says feminine nothing about her says oh this is what's 0.96

00:13:40.960 going on she just looks like she's on one agenda and that's the way she was going so i'm getting tired of

00:13:46.400 hearing that oh this is what happens to women i want to hear what happens to the men because the

00:13:50.720 men out there are suffering in silence and it's because of society that men do not speak up yeah

00:13:56.000 men do not speak up because they're so busy feeling fearful that they're going to get called a beta oh

00:14:03.200 how can you let that woman slap you or how can you let that woman stab you up there's man they're 1.00

00:14:07.600 suffering but because of society they're not saying nothing so if they're going to turn around and say 1.00

00:14:11.760 oh what she's saying is right always your fair man bullshit 100 you know i was just banned on tiktok

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JustPearlyThings - March 31, 2023

Aunty Jenny Destroys Feminism

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