JustPearlyThings - Average Woman Don't Want Average Men

00:00:00.000 for you regarding that naturally but earlier with what i was saying if you're not showing certain

00:00:04.640 things to him he's going to see that all right cool he's not really my kind i'll sit back i'm

00:00:10.160 there but i'll sit back a little bit but if he sees you're making effort like like even cooking

00:00:14.560 cooking is if you want to get through to a man's heart it's through his belly simple as that you

00:00:18.880 get what i'm saying yeah and i also i fell into the boss babe culture for a long time when i was

00:00:23.440 obese and i and then i started losing weight but i was still in the boss babe culture i was like oh

00:00:27.200 i don't need a man like i'm fine and it was when i had the the daddy issues when i wasn't i didn't

00:00:31.360 have a good relationship with my father and it wasn't until i healed my relationship with my

00:00:34.720 father that i was like oh okay i actually you know it's really important that i i don't have to work

00:00:40.240 like a man i was so stressed i was so anxious all the time and then i just let it go it's like i

00:00:45.120 don't need to do that my future husband will provide for me my future husband will do these and i'll fall

00:00:48.960 into my feminine roles i will cook i will clean i will take care of the kids i'll take care of the 1.00

00:00:52.640 house like that and i'll i'll garden what did you do did you quit your job no i just

00:00:57.120 okay i was just curious well i guess i did a total miracle i just i flipped two houses last

00:01:01.520 year and i was like i don't want to do this anymore so i just decided to stop doing it that's cold oh

00:01:06.000 wow it was a miracle though really yeah because no because i was the boss right i had to be ever

00:01:11.520 the provider i had to be everything and you didn't have that example i think that's another part of

00:01:15.360 where all the good women have gone inside of this independence inside of this confusion it's 1.00

00:01:20.000 fatherless families and like pearl was saying earlier if you don't have the example how are you

00:01:24.400 supposed to know and you haven't had the example penelope so it's a miracle purely purely yeah

00:01:29.680 no it is and it was it was like growing up with you as my mom like you played both roles the dad and

00:01:33.520 the mom and so that was very interesting because i grew up thinking oh i i don't need men like men

00:01:38.080 are terrible and i even thought my dad's father was terrible but now he's like my best friend i know i

00:01:42.400 think where the good women are going is they think that it's a bad thing to be feminine i think that the 1.00

00:01:47.440 mindset of women today feel like and now if you're feminine and traditional online people are like 1.00

00:01:53.200 you're you know you're not a feminist you hate women you are terrible you are a disgraced society 0.99

00:01:57.920 you should go die and it's like wait wait what like women are the most beautiful things on planet 1.00

00:02:02.080 they create human beings men cannot create human beings so why are women putting women down well i 1.00

00:02:07.120 think it's probably because women want women to fail and see them i think i think it's because we're

00:02:12.160 not supposed to be competing with our moms generation because the thing is like if you have

00:02:17.120 a 45 year old and you have like a 25 year old girl it's like you a lot of times the guys you might

00:02:22.640 want are the same age because women like 45 tend to want guys like it's like five to seven years younger

00:02:28.640 where women um 25 want guys five to seven years older this crossover and i think bitter older women 1.00

00:02:34.320 that don't want you to win will tell you the wrong information and and it's because like if they're if

00:02:40.480 they're being a hoe right like what's the worst feeling when you take a test and you fail what's 1.00

00:02:44.880 the worst feeling when everyone else succeeded yeah right but if you turn around and they say i

00:02:49.920 failed too it's like you feel a little bit better so it's like these women want other people to be 0.99

00:02:54.480 miserable in their negative decisions and you know what of people because of it because of succeeding in

00:02:59.920 in my relationship and having a healthy relationship with my father yeah people dislike me because of that

00:03:03.920 and it's like why do you hate me for having a healthy relationship with my family am i am i so would you

00:03:08.960 would you say and especially i'm like they don't want you to win no they want you to fail they want 0.95

00:03:13.600 you to be divorced miserable sad fat on your phone on tiktok dying i mean so would you say yeah that

00:03:19.920 this is like technically just a woman's problem then because it's women that it's not technically 1.00

00:03:24.480 men that put down women you know it's women that put down women the women trying to be men hurt 0.92

00:03:28.720 are hurting the the feminine not not the feminine the beta men right they're that that's hurting beta

00:03:33.920 men that's why we have beta men it's because of the masculine well i think it becomes a problem

00:03:38.400 because you have 80 of women screwing 20 of men so then women don't respect the average guy i did 1.00

00:03:44.000 a show the other day and like most women said they wouldn't date a bus driver but they're above a bus 1.00

00:03:48.880 driver average chicks and it's why you have average chicks saying they're at the level of a celebrity 1.00

00:03:53.760 no offense but like it's like you have average chicks thinking they're they're so great when it's 1.00

00:03:58.400 like literally you are average you're average looking even average mindset most people are average

00:04:03.200 and men will accept this but women won't it's like an insult for us to be normal so then you you

00:04:08.720 won't see normal women dating normal men but do you feel like that that is because social media has a

00:04:13.600 lot to play for it they feel like there's a lot more i think it's social i think it's social media and

00:04:17.680 dating apps they feel like they've got more accessibility to higher people i mean they do like

00:04:23.920 because the issue nowadays because this is what made me think about this i'm like how would you find a

00:04:28.240 good woman and i was thinking about this and i made a chart and i had like the body count of a

00:04:32.720 woman on one hand and i had the looks of a woman on a one hand and so i was like a woman that's eight

00:04:38.880 to ten with a high or a low body count good luck keeping her do you know what the list is going to 0.96

00:04:44.000 be for a girl that that's like that hot with like like the competition is crazy and so it's like you could

00:04:49.680 be dating a woman and if there's high competition for her drake could slide in your girls dms or maybe it's

00:04:56.400 not drake it's the town whoever right and then i was thinking about it and i was like unless a guy

00:05:01.520 sleeps with a lot of women how is he going to know the difference between a woman that's been 0.97

00:05:05.360 out with everybody and a girl that does it has it they never do they can't they can't no they can't 0.99

00:05:10.080 know unless they've been with a lot of girls and i'm like it's kind of unfortunate because it's like

00:05:14.800 the only solution for the men seems to be to sleep around which i don't think is you know great for

00:05:20.880 society but it's like it's women's fault because we're the ones doing the sleeping do you think that men

00:05:25.360 should have more than one woman um i i think that it's silly to date certain men and expect monogamy

00:05:35.040 so i think it's silly to date say jason derulo chris brad these are extreme examples but there's

00:05:40.000 certain men that it's very silly to expect it because he's never been monogamous and they never

00:05:45.520 will be i think monogamy in general is better for a society forget this the higher i'm even talking on

00:05:51.440 average men normal men on a day today because obviously you said earlier on that there's more

00:05:55.920 women on the earth well than men yeah so on average how we are naturally do you think that

00:06:02.720 the average man should have one woman um i think that it's better for society if monogamy is better 0.98

00:06:09.840 because you get like a growing um having a lot of sex sexless men like usually causes

00:06:15.520 a slight society to collapse um so i think monogamy is better by and large but i think that a certain

00:06:20.960 percentage of men are always going to be non-monogamous um and that's kind of the way it's been the last

00:06:25.920 like two million years because 85 it's like the last i don't want to say the how long it's been like

00:06:31.120 this because i don't remember off the top of my head but i know like historically they always it seems

00:06:35.760 like all of society has been non-monogamous because 17 uh men um reproduced for every uh one 17 women

00:06:43.680 reproduced for every one man like 8 000 years ago and on top of that there's like two women have

00:06:48.240 always reproduced for every one man but it's actually um or 40 percent of men have never reproduced

00:06:53.920 40 of men i'm sorry i'm butchering this but but the 85 percent of um like 85 of society has generally

00:07:01.280 been monogamous where the top 15 percent of men have just been like slaying is it yeah well okay

00:07:07.440 you do a lot of stats yeah yeah i know a lot of average men out here that's probably not on these

00:07:11.920 stats doing the same thing and when i say a lot i'm talking if you're just talking average men in

00:07:16.880 london obviously london i don't know about america and that average in what in sleeping with a lot of

00:07:22.240 women no like average looks average money would you average looks average average job um i can even give 1.00

00:07:29.760 you examples of a few average men that are big in weight and just got normal jobs that aren't

00:07:35.920 dealing with a lot of women across the board um well there's a couple things so i mean typically 0.99

00:07:41.440 again like there's been studies on dating apps and in in person where women find 80 of men is ugly

00:07:48.000 not okay not average they think ugly he is unattractive ugly would you say the top percentage

00:07:54.080 of men are on these dating apps um yeah yeah maybe yeah i don't know i don't i don't believe so

00:08:05.120 i think that i think that if you look at the numbers social media is the number one way people

00:08:10.480 way people are meeting 100 so social media and dating apps and like when you look at so then the

00:08:15.920 question is if that's where people are meeting what are the numbers look like in the dating apps well

00:08:20.240 women only swipe right five percent of the time so that means on the number one way people are 1.00

00:08:25.280 meeting we're sharing men 100 because it's always going to be free men because we're the hunters so

00:08:29.920 we always say say that again it's always going to be men because we're the hunters we're always going

00:08:35.760 we're going to be the higher anyway do you get what i'm saying yeah but when you're saying the average

00:08:39.200 men that get women they probably get women over the age of 30 because women tend to go for looks 1.00

00:08:44.560 and so in their 20s i fully agree yeah you know why i agree with that because i feel like in the

00:08:48.960 single mothers you're 100 right but between 20 and 30 women are very selective in what they do and 1.00

00:08:54.080 then when they get to the 30 you start weeding off a lot of stats about pregnancy geriatric yeah

00:08:59.600 when they start realizing that and they go for the average they feel like they can come back to the

00:09:03.920 average or even go back to man that they was that was trying to get them when they were 18 19 and feel

00:09:08.480 like they can go back to them but obviously with men it's a bit different because men yeah at 30 we start

00:09:14.400 peaking we get correct yeah so we start it's changed there's a change you get what i'm saying

00:09:19.200 yeah yeah and so that's why i say women pick non-monogamy in their 20s when they have the most 1.00

00:09:23.920 leverage yeah and they they pick the 20 percent of men then in their 30s they we tend to pick um like 0.90

00:09:30.160 the the rest basically and so the issue is like when when when women cheat who do they typically cheat 1.00

00:09:35.520 with you guys know anyone their exes correct correct so the issue that a lot of these guys are getting

00:09:42.960 into and this is why guys don't like typically like a lot of guys will say i don't date women 0.66

00:09:46.560 over 30 and it's not a looks thing it's that if she's 30 like how many relationships has she had

00:09:52.320 is one of those guys better than me and does she want to be with him and the odds are he probably

00:09:57.040 is because in her 20s she had more leverage than her 30s so what are the odds in her 30s she can get 1.00

00:10:00.800 a better guy than in her 20s likely right and he was probably top 20 as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - May 18, 2023

Average Woman Don't Want Average Men

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