JustPearlyThings - What Is A High Value Man？？？

00:00:00.000 how value men don't have to be polyamorous if you switch it around right exactly and say okay

00:00:07.580 the woman the woman is sleeping with so many different men she's a whore would that man 1.00

00:00:13.140 she's not high value she's a whore she's a slut why is it why is it called why is it called high 1.00

00:00:21.460 value if like if you're sleeping with loads of different women then your values aren't actually

00:00:27.160 high well in my book is that values it's valuable it's valuable yeah it's valuable it's not high

00:00:34.380 value it's valuable it's valuable but even you know like um high value men so it's like okay women

00:00:40.660 want to sleep with high value men and whatever whatever this high value in this society is i'll

00:00:46.180 give you i'll give you the definition really quick okay so and this is from kevin samuels this was his

00:00:52.420 definition so you know it's going to be different based on who you talk to i would say it's the

00:00:57.160 women or the men that women pick but 10k a month other men must accept you as high value you have

00:01:02.520 to have a network of high value men you have to be visibility linked and level and you have to be

00:01:06.380 useful to others in the group okay so that's that's what sorry go ahead finish okay cool so i'm not

00:01:12.660 gonna even say high value when i'm saying this but if you're a woman and you know that the man is sleeping

00:01:17.500 with um lots of women and he's got a lot of money more time that girl getting into that relationship 0.99

00:01:23.220 is not looking for relations she's look also looking for something out of it because if you

00:01:27.120 know the man's gonna be sleeping with multiple women and he's got money you'll be having sex with

00:01:31.320 him maybe for the money that's why when they get kids and they feel secure and it's like we've got a

00:01:36.420 family you're saying a lot of them feel lonely because they're not having sex with them anymore

00:01:40.000 because you're gonna stay and you're still gonna give me money you're still gonna bring your high value

00:01:44.000 you're gonna have sex with other women and i don't care because i don't actually love you 1.00

00:01:46.480 so that's why i feel these high value i'd like to make an argument the men that sleep with you are 1.00

00:01:52.940 not high value they're just rich well because a high value man can go out and get it his damn self

00:01:57.440 he gotta pay you well like if i'm being fair i pay my bills with their money like like a high value

00:02:03.860 man trips over women yeah they don't they don't have to do shit on the side so why does a high value 0.96

00:02:09.240 man need so many women because that's how men are they don't do it because it makes 1.00

00:02:13.920 them feel better see people get this fucked up they try to guilt men and say oh you're insecure 0.91

00:02:17.820 one second they say oh you're insecure you got to sleep with all these women to get validation

00:02:21.820 bullshit men like to fuck let's let's yeah we all know let's call spades yeah it's not like because 0.87

00:02:27.340 what women try to do is they try to guilt a man into acting a right way like oh i would this girl 1.00

00:02:31.360 it's not guilt a man i wouldn't pick a man that too and i completely understand that but but my argument

00:02:37.000 to that is if you were head over heels in love and you had genuine desire for that man as bad as it

00:02:41.380 might hurt you you would stay and so would everybody on that couch and that is true because

00:02:46.700 when you're actually in a situation because as much as you hate him for doing it you know deep down if

00:02:51.320 you were dating some slump he would do it if he could and women misinterpret the inability to get 0.94

00:02:57.300 a woman for loyalty and it's bullshit so let's call a spade a spade it's true yeah i don't i don't 0.90

00:03:02.820 think i would mistake the inability i think they know of course absolutely no it's a shit test they're 0.77

00:03:08.280 like oh a good man would do this and this and if the dude's a bitch enough to give into it then they 1.00

00:03:12.840 got him but the truth is right after that they get enough of him after a few years of marriage they

00:03:17.320 end up texting a high value man behind her back or his back or if they're south america they just

00:03:24.200 go to some like um my religion for example they do something called um sweetening of the person um

00:03:31.480 so i'm south american obviously i'm from venezuela and my religion is umbanda kimbanda yoruba which is

00:03:37.480 a uh phalange of the spiritualistic beliefs and stuff like that so like i am from the famous religion

00:03:45.560 of macumbas and i had and i had so many women coming to me because i read tarot cards i read tarots 0.98

00:03:53.640 and everything and um i've had oh yeah no my my husband is cheating on me i'm what i want to do

00:04:00.200 like uh that um spell of don't get hard anymore or i'm gonna do like the they put a spell on him

00:04:07.480 because he cheated yeah judge there's some women that they don't use judgment uh-huh because like 1.00

00:04:14.760 i am completely against it yeah but the crazy thing half of those women have open instagram accounts with 1.00

00:04:19.560 thought pictures on them the same women that complain about being cheated on get attention from 1.00

00:04:23.880 men all the time i know so it's like a lot of times like women will act like we're so much better

00:04:28.360 than men because you know they cheated maybe we didn't in a relationship but a lot of times we cheat

00:04:32.360 in a different way we cheat by getting attention from men but the get-out clause is always it was

00:04:36.360 it physical or not right the get-out clause is always well yeah but she didn't do anything 0.94

00:04:40.600 physically he did but i agree with you i just i don't think it matters no i don't think it matters

00:04:44.680 either but i'm just saying society that's that's their get-out clause you ever look at hayley 1.00

00:04:48.200 bieber's instagram account this is hayley bieber this woman bagged the guy that every girl wants 1.00

00:04:53.480 who like come on who had a crush on justin in their teenage jacket yeah that was not my time

00:04:58.440 if it wasn't you if it wasn't look it i'm tall so it wasn't me but i i knew half the girls did

00:05:03.400 she got him she got him and look at her instagram account it's literally ass picture 0.99

00:05:08.520 butt picture lingerie picture and this is the woman that got the man that everybody wants but hayley 1.00

00:05:13.960 bieber and justin's relation that was completely formulated like if you see the clips on youtube

00:05:19.160 and the crazy sightings that they were together they were never like five meters away from each

00:05:23.320 other for throughout the whole childhood but i think going back to this picture thing on instagram

00:05:28.840 if you're a genuinely pretty girl and you give off those nice vibes you are going to get those

00:05:34.200 attention from those males but it's your choice whether you feed it or not yeah true that's it that's

00:05:40.680 feeding it and then you're part of the problem because you fed it they shouldn't feel comfortable

00:05:45.720 enough to even do that with you yeah but isn't it feeding it to post those pictures and to have

00:05:52.040 an open instagram account where any man can message you agreed but you can go down the path of saying

00:05:57.960 i'm posting this to feel good to do good he's talking those girls to feel good i argue

00:06:02.280 you know i argue that that's justin's fault not her fault because if he had us framed correctly in

00:06:13.880 his house that would not happen what what she wouldn't disrespect him like that if he called 1.00

00:06:19.080 for more from her so it's justin beaver's fault not hers you think it's a disrespect damn right i think 0.71

00:06:24.280 it's disrespect i don't think he knows how to manage his girl you know and create leadership in the

00:06:29.000 household there's no way a man should allow that and if he does he just doesn't care about that

00:06:35.960 maybe he's secure enough no i think i think he's raised no i don't think it's a security thing i

00:06:40.280 think it's lack of consciousness i don't think he understands what's going on to be fair though i

00:06:43.800 agree with that i think i think men should provide and protect i'm gonna let what what did you want to

00:06:49.320 say um so you don't think there's like secure relationships posting them type of things talking to

00:06:53.960 your talking to your mic so you don't think there's like secure relationships posting them things and

00:06:57.960 feeling confident about each other it's not about security it's just about why would you let your

00:07:02.360 girl have a straight up marketing billboard of her ass on the internet what the fuck yeah it's 1.00

00:07:08.680 absolute and if he had the right frame with her and she was truly in love with him she would happy to

00:07:12.920 take that shit down that is true and most men don't see that me and pearl were talking earlier about a 0.70

00:07:18.360 relationship the guy said that everything was good for the first seven years and it's those little

00:07:22.920 things right there that that man didn't see because he's like oh well she slept with another 1.00

00:07:27.480 dude well there was also the girl's trip there was also the post on instagram there was also

00:07:32.200 the call from her high school boyfriend that she got in the middle of the night no bro she's been

00:07:37.000 telling you the whole time your frame's off then you got cheated on because she doesn't respect you 0.99

00:07:42.440 wait what do you mean girl's trip like she went on a girl's trip to vegas yeah that's not something

00:07:48.520 you'd allow no no if your girl's in love with you and truly in love with you she doesn't even want

00:07:52.840 to go on a girl's trip why okay so posting pictures as a woman online i can't do that but you can go and 1.00

00:08:00.120 sleep with multiple women because you're high value you don't have to stay i'll replace you you don't have 0.98

00:08:08.360 to call yourself high value man i i'm not this first of all i hate alpha beta high value all that

00:08:15.720 shit any man that's really about his business does not go by that and i i personally will never call 0.88

00:08:20.280 myself how about you i think it's cringy as what i will say is and i and i respect your opinion and

00:08:26.200 you're actually saying something that is good in this right moment because like at least you're not

00:08:32.120 defining yourself something you're not yeah no

00:08:35.000 well i wasn't expecting that all right so but but what i am saying is is regardless of how how you

00:08:44.920 place me in the world i would say this about myself or any other person that has a girl that he cares

00:08:50.040 about if her ass and titties are on the internet that is an active billboard of marketing to get 1.00

00:08:56.040 attention from other men and possibly through hypergamy transition away from you to someone else and if she 0.96

00:09:01.720 truly loves you she will take that down and when you think about it as well it's the first time

00:09:05.640 really in human history that this has happened on such a scale isn't it if you think about women

00:09:10.600 even a few well 20 15 20 years ago when was it there were no women who were who were putting 1.00

00:09:16.760 themselves publicly in that manner aside possibly from celebrities which is a slightly different case

00:09:22.200 but now everyone's got an instagram account it's really unprecedented as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023

What Is A High Value Man？？？

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