Average Woman Gets Put On The Spot
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with my best friend and co-host of the podcast to talk about what it means to be a modern woman and why it s so important to not only be a good mother, but a good wife. We talk about the importance of being a good daughter, wife and mother and how important it is to take care of your kids.
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That's all been done for a reason. Your kids are getting taken away from you from young for a reason.
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There's a reason why dishwashers and all of these things have been created.
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It's to split up the families so that they can take you on board and they can raise you to what they want you to be.
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Do you get what I'm saying? So now you're not with your husband and your children raising them how you want.
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They're going to take them from young. You don't get to be a traditional woman anymore.
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I think women choose not to be traditional women.
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I think women kind of use excuses for choices.
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I'll give you an example. One in three women have had an abortion.
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Do traditional women go abort their children?
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We constantly make choice after choice after choice that makes us less traditional.
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Even if you get out in the world at 18, there's nothing stopping you from learning how to cook, learning how to clean, studying what men want.
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There's a million self-improvement things for guys.
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There's a million dating courses for guys.
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All the women dating like self-help shit is literally just reaffirming women.
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Yeah, and society can lead you to be exactly what I just said.
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But then on the other hand, it's what you just said.
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You can either go down the easy path or the hard path.
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It's up to you and what you choose to do as a woman.
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Feminism has ruined a lot of like traditional women and as has ruined us as well.
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Now I'm working as a mum and you're working as a dad, sorry.
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Now someone else is going to program our children and not just that.
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That's why I think being like a housewife when you have kids is actually essential.
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Like I think that is so important to just be with your kids during those,
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at least during those first like very incremental years of their lives.
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I'm saying it because I actually want to look after my kids.
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A lot of times like women, like they think they're just going to do nothing as a housewife.
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You know what our grandmothers, great grandmothers had to, maybe great, great grandmothers, great, great.
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In this day and age, you have social media as well.
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So if you're sitting at home as a, as a, you know, stay at home mom, you can also have your own business.
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How do you, how do you cater to your man if you don't care what men want?
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If you think you're an average woman, why wouldn't you date an average man?
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The reason why is because I don't aspire to stay average.
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So if I just date an average man, more than likely we are going to stay on that level.
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You're just going to get less and less fertile the older you get.
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Like women, like if you look at women on dating apps, like half of your options are gone by
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Like half of the options you have at like 21 or 22.
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If you look at like men from the ages of 20 to 80, they ask them what age they find women
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And some say 18, some say lower than 18 is a little.
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But if you don't tell them the age, but like, actually, yeah, it's just going to get worse.
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Like you, you have the most value you're ever going to have about now.
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I mean, personally, I feel like I'm doing that work right now.
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It's not a thing where I'm just sitting on my bum, just doing nothing, not trying to manage
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And I'm hopeful of the fact that I will actually find someone because, yeah, that's
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what I definitely feel like I will find someone before that time.
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I'm not like a silly girl that just sits down and does nothing.
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I know the actionable steps that I need to take.
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I'm taking those steps and it's definitely working for me.
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So one thing I'm definitely trying to do is lose weight.
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Another thing I'm trying to do is I want to learn how to cook, especially traditional
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Another thing I'm trying to do is grow closer with God as well.
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I feel like, you know, when you're closer to God, that's when you actually reach your peak
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I cook once a week only because I work from, no.
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I just want to, my cooking skills are actually good.
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When would you like to have lost the weight by?
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But I just think a lot of times like, like women, we always think we're going to get better
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And when like, honestly, it's better to cash out when you're young.
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Do you mean like if you find somebody just hold on to them?
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Cause the other thing let's, let's show, can we bring up the same video, same video of
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Actually, first, first I want to say, what do you rank that girl one to ten?
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You can tell she's an older lady, but she's very attractive.
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I'm going to have all the girls rate her and then I'm going to have the guys rate her.
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Does anyone think she's lower than an eight?
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Well, obviously, basing it purely on just her face, right?
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Play it for a second just so they can see her face move.
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So out of the 50,000 plus comments posted on social, I only saw a handful that even
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considered the possibility of a bus owner being a more aspirational position and recognizing
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that I am actually speaking and going into the-
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okay oh here we go be able to can you guys see her now yeah i'd say seven okay i'd say like a
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solid seven there okay uh where what do you think i would say an eight eight okay what do you think
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seven okay no no no not guys yet you i said the seven seven i still can't see but i think she's
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really cute she's got a cute face cute nose yeah i'd say maybe eight yeah eight okay i'll say about
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eight yeah eight i think seven seven okay so that can i think there's more eights than this like 7.5
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is the average okay what do you what do you rate her this just appearance wise yeah yeah appearance
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like seven back in the day she probably was like a nine okay seven king what do you rate her
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come on six six okay what do you guys rate her six six okay so the guys say six they're mostly six
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six point two something what do you rate her well um
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so how old do you guys think she is she looks 40 40 i'm guessing yeah like 56 i think she's probably
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about 40 but she looks a bit younger yeah so she's 39 so because she's 39 i'd say she's like a five
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yeah smart oh really yeah yeah no i think looks based on her looks though not not her age but age
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plays a part yeah but age kind of plays a part do you think she's a five so what you really think
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she's a five when you look at her yeah yeah if she was 29 if she was 20 what would you rate her
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eight but she's not 20 she's 40. oh but that's not based on her looks and that's based on her age
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well but i think it's just purely based on her picture well i think she looks old what so you
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don't look a bit older the younger that you go the higher you'd rate her yeah so basically old
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people are not cutesy basically old people can't be beautiful i didn't say old people can't go above
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five no no no no no old women can't go above women are not as cute yeah old men men age like wine
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women age like this is like have you seen me along like but is this something we struggle with as
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women wait wait wait wait wait wait guys guys stop stop warning um so this is the thing women insert
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exception this one woman that looks good it's like come on but if most of the people in the room would
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rate her a seven into eight and it's only you that's rated her five doesn't that make her pretty hot
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most of the men rated her a six so mine's slightly lower than so like six that's above five so wouldn't
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she be above average or pretty since most of us if we're speaking on a general sense yeah i mean you
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could you could say six but like that's not that different than a five i just think when you're 40
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it's like minus a point i think there's like your looks and then you lose a point when you're old
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that's that's what i think is it something like like as as women like we're all pretty similar ages but
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is it something like as women like we're we're aware of feeling like less beautiful as we get
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older like yeah do you guys think you're getting prettier the older you get no
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and it's not just that by 39 you probably can't really have children like what can you really like
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provide as a woman if you can't make babies yeah but we're talking about looks though yeah but then
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looks brings an age so when you see but what if you're 20 and you look old
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because i've seen that a lot yeah or if you're 40 and you look yeah yeah
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because i've seen that just and i looked younger as i've got older actually i mean we can we could
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talk about exceptions or we could talk about the rule like most people look their age you know
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um but yeah so my question is what does a 39 year old single woman why does she feel comfortable
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shitting on a bus driver i think because she's oh sorry when the men say she's a six roughly
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and she the kids is out the window so i mean because like as a guy i'm assuming right and you
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guys can tell me if i'm wrong you're going to go down a point in terms of marketability to you because
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she can't have kids yeah yeah i had to um end the relationship because the person was a few years
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older than me and i knew that there was gonna be a future there by the time i was ready she
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wasn't gonna be ready yeah i mean so it's definitely a factor as many of you know i was just banned on
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