JustPearlyThings - May 21, 2023


Average Woman Gets Put On The Spot


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

194.56488

Word Count

2,513

Sentence Count

209

Misogynist Sentences

35

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 That's all been done for a reason. Your kids are getting taken away from you from young for a reason.
00:00:07.000 There's a reason why dishwashers and all of these things have been created.
00:00:11.000 It's to split up the families so that they can take you on board and they can raise you to what they want you to be.
00:00:18.000 Do you get what I'm saying? So now you're not with your husband and your children raising them how you want.
00:00:23.000 They're going to take them from young. You don't get to be a traditional woman anymore.
00:00:28.000 I think women choose not to be traditional women.
00:00:31.000 That is true, but it's also a bit of both.
00:00:34.000 I think women kind of use excuses for choices.
00:00:38.000 I'll give you an example. One in three women have had an abortion.
00:00:41.000 Do traditional women go abort their children?
00:00:44.000 They wouldn't have done that.
00:00:46.000 We constantly make choice after choice after choice that makes us less traditional.
00:00:50.000 Even if you get out in the world at 18, there's nothing stopping you from learning how to cook, learning how to clean, studying what men want.
00:00:57.000 Men study what women want all the time.
00:00:59.000 There's a million self-improvement things for guys.
00:01:01.000 There's a million dating courses for guys.
00:01:04.000 All the women dating like self-help shit is literally just reaffirming women.
00:01:09.000 There's no actual actionable steps.
00:01:11.000 It's just like be confident.
00:01:12.000 Yeah, and society can lead you to be exactly what I just said.
00:01:15.000 But then on the other hand, it's what you just said.
00:01:17.000 It's for you to fight for what's right.
00:01:19.000 You can either go down the easy path or the hard path.
00:01:23.000 It's up to you and what you choose to do as a woman.
00:01:26.000 I think like feminist, what is it called?
00:01:29.000 Feminism.
00:01:30.000 Feminism has ruined a lot of like traditional women and as has ruined us as well.
00:01:35.000 I'll give an example, even like working.
00:01:37.000 I'll give an example, working.
00:01:39.000 Now I'm working as a mum and you're working as a dad, sorry.
00:01:44.000 Who's going to take care of the kids.
00:01:46.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:01:47.000 Now someone else is going to program our children and not just that.
00:01:49.000 I'm paying tax and he's paying tax.
00:01:52.000 We're trapped.
00:01:54.000 It's not supposed to.
00:01:56.000 That's why I think being like a housewife when you have kids is actually essential.
00:02:00.000 Like I think that is so important to just be with your kids during those,
00:02:03.000 at least during those first like very incremental years of their lives.
00:02:07.000 Like I'm not saying it just for show.
00:02:09.000 I'm saying it because I actually want to look after my kids.
00:02:11.000 The thing is women have always worked.
00:02:13.000 They just worked in the home.
00:02:15.000 True.
00:02:16.000 And the man pays for the home.
00:02:17.000 A lot of times like women, like they think they're just going to do nothing as a housewife.
00:02:20.000 It's so true.
00:02:22.000 You know what our grandmothers, great grandmothers had to, maybe great, great grandmothers, great, great.
00:02:27.000 Like they worked on the farm.
00:02:28.000 Yeah.
00:02:29.000 I want an allotment.
00:02:30.000 I want like all of this when I, at my house.
00:02:32.000 I'm not here.
00:02:33.000 You're going to be sitting.
00:02:34.000 Listen, I don't even do that now.
00:02:35.000 I don't sit on my ass.
00:02:36.000 That's the thing.
00:02:37.000 So I know what I bring to the table.
00:02:38.000 I cater to my man.
00:02:40.000 Literally.
00:02:41.000 In this day and age, you have social media as well.
00:02:43.000 So if you're sitting at home as a, as a, you know, stay at home mom, you can also have your own business.
00:02:48.000 True.
00:02:49.000 There's so many things that you can do.
00:02:51.000 How do you, how do you cater to your man if you don't care what men want?
00:02:55.000 Because I don't care what other men want.
00:02:57.000 I care what he wants.
00:02:58.000 Yeah, but most men are the same.
00:03:00.000 Well, he's not.
00:03:01.000 I have a question for you.
00:03:03.000 If you think you're an average woman, why wouldn't you date an average man?
00:03:07.000 Like a bus driver.
00:03:08.000 That's an average man.
00:03:09.000 The reason why is because I don't aspire to stay average.
00:03:13.000 That's why.
00:03:14.000 That's why I am.
00:03:15.000 I want to become an above average person.
00:03:17.000 So if I just date an average man, more than likely we are going to stay on that level.
00:03:21.000 Yeah.
00:03:22.000 But how old are you?
00:03:23.000 You said you're 23?
00:03:24.000 23.
00:03:25.000 Yeah.
00:03:26.000 No.
00:03:27.000 You're not going to get better.
00:03:28.000 Do you think so?
00:03:29.000 No.
00:03:30.000 I mean, women, fertility.
00:03:31.000 You're just going to get less and less fertile the older you get.
00:03:34.000 Yeah, sure.
00:03:35.000 Like women, like if you look at women on dating apps, like half of your options are gone by
00:03:39.000 30.
00:03:40.000 Like half of the options you have at like 21 or 22.
00:03:42.000 If you look at like men from the ages of 20 to 80, they ask them what age they find women
00:03:46.000 the most attractive.
00:03:47.000 It's like 22, 23.
00:03:49.000 And some say 18, some say lower than 18 is a little.
00:03:52.000 But if you don't tell them the age, but like, actually, yeah, it's just going to get worse.
00:03:57.000 Like you, you have the most value you're ever going to have about now.
00:04:00.000 Really?
00:04:01.000 Yeah.
00:04:02.000 I mean, personally, I feel like I'm doing that work right now.
00:04:03.000 It's not a thing where I'm just sitting on my bum, just doing nothing, not trying to manage
00:04:07.000 myself.
00:04:08.000 I'm definitely doing the work now.
00:04:09.000 And I'm hopeful of the fact that I will actually find someone because, yeah, that's
00:04:14.000 what I definitely feel like I will find someone before that time.
00:04:16.000 I'm not like a silly girl that just sits down and does nothing.
00:04:19.000 I'm realistic.
00:04:20.000 I know the actionable steps that I need to take.
00:04:22.000 I'm taking those steps and it's definitely working for me.
00:04:25.000 And I'm curious, what steps are you taking?
00:04:28.000 So one thing I'm definitely trying to do is lose weight.
00:04:30.000 I definitely want to get in shape.
00:04:31.000 Another thing I'm trying to do is I want to learn how to cook, especially traditional
00:04:35.000 food.
00:04:36.000 Another thing I'm trying to do is grow closer with God as well.
00:04:39.000 I feel like, you know, when you're closer to God, that's when you actually reach your peak
00:04:43.000 of femininity.
00:04:44.000 How much weight do you want to lose?
00:04:47.000 I'm a size 12 right now.
00:04:48.000 I want to be a size 10.
00:04:49.000 Size 10?
00:04:50.000 Yeah.
00:04:51.000 Okay.
00:04:52.000 And like how much do you cook in a week?
00:04:53.000 How much do I cook?
00:04:54.000 I cook once a week only because I work from, no.
00:04:57.000 Yeah.
00:04:58.000 I cook once a week.
00:04:59.000 Yeah.
00:05:00.000 It's not like my cooking skills are bad.
00:05:01.000 I just want to, my cooking skills are actually good.
00:05:03.000 When would you like to have lost the weight by?
00:05:05.000 I want to lose it by the end of this year.
00:05:08.000 Okay.
00:05:09.000 You can come back end of this year.
00:05:10.000 Yeah.
00:05:11.000 I'll be skinny sized then.
00:05:12.000 Come back.
00:05:13.000 We do.
00:05:14.000 We're pro self-improvement here.
00:05:15.000 So no, I think that's great.
00:05:16.000 But I just think a lot of times like, like women, we always think we're going to get better
00:05:21.000 tomorrow.
00:05:22.000 And when like, honestly, it's better to cash out when you're young.
00:05:25.000 I think that's what I'm doing.
00:05:26.000 Yeah.
00:05:27.000 I think that's what I'm doing.
00:05:28.000 Do you mean like if you find somebody just hold on to them?
00:05:31.000 Yeah.
00:05:32.000 Yeah.
00:05:33.000 Cause the other thing let's, let's show, can we bring up the same video, same video of
00:05:37.000 the girl?
00:05:38.000 I just want to point something out.
00:05:40.000 Um, yeah, I just want to show them.
00:05:43.000 Like, I just want her picture.
00:05:44.000 That's all I want on the screen.
00:05:45.000 Like, I'm not going to play it.
00:05:46.000 The one we were watching before.
00:05:49.000 Um, it can be the second one too, if you want.
00:05:52.000 I just want her picture of the girl.
00:05:58.000 Okay.
00:05:59.000 You see, how old do you guys think she is?
00:06:02.000 I can't see you.
00:06:03.000 I can't see you.
00:06:04.000 I'm blind to shit.
00:06:05.000 That's me getting old.
00:06:06.000 Actually, first, first I want to say, what do you rank that girl one to ten?
00:06:09.000 I think she can't see you.
00:06:10.000 I think she's really pretty.
00:06:12.000 Okay.
00:06:13.000 I think she's gorgeous.
00:06:14.000 I think she'll be like an eight.
00:06:15.000 Yeah.
00:06:16.000 Her age is what's hindering her.
00:06:17.000 Yeah.
00:06:18.000 You can tell she's an older lady, but she's very attractive.
00:06:20.000 I want to, I want to hear from the guy.
00:06:22.000 What do you rate her one to ten?
00:06:24.000 Actually, I want to hear from you.
00:06:25.000 Can every guy in here?
00:06:26.000 Can you zoom in?
00:06:27.000 Okay.
00:06:28.000 Wait, wait.
00:06:29.000 Actually, wait, wait.
00:06:30.000 I'm going to have all the girls rate her and then I'm going to have the guys rate her.
00:06:32.000 So you said eight.
00:06:33.000 Does anyone think she's lower than an eight?
00:06:35.000 I still can't see her face.
00:06:36.000 Can you zoom in?
00:06:37.000 Well, obviously, basing it purely on just her face, right?
00:06:39.000 That's right.
00:06:40.000 Yeah.
00:06:41.000 You guys saw her earlier, right?
00:06:42.000 In the other video.
00:06:44.000 Play it for a second just so they can see her face move.
00:06:46.000 So out of the 50,000 plus comments posted on social, I only saw a handful that even
00:06:51.000 considered the possibility of a bus owner being a more aspirational position and recognizing
00:06:58.000 that I am actually speaking and going into the-
00:07:00.000 Okay, you can pause it.
00:07:01.000 Okay.
00:07:02.000 So one to ten.
00:07:03.000 No, I'm going to say seven.
00:07:04.000 Seven?
00:07:05.000 I'm going to say seven.
00:07:06.000 Okay.
00:07:07.000 I'm so sorry.
00:07:08.000 Can you zoom in?
00:07:09.000 Can you Google her?
00:07:10.000 Maybe?
00:07:11.000 What's her name?
00:07:12.000 Let's see.
00:07:13.000 I think it's in the title.
00:07:15.000 Okay.
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00:07:55.000 okay oh here we go be able to can you guys see her now yeah i'd say seven okay i'd say like a
00:08:08.140 solid seven there okay uh where what do you think i would say an eight eight okay what do you think
00:08:13.400 seven okay no no no not guys yet you i said the seven seven i still can't see but i think she's
00:08:21.600 really cute she's got a cute face cute nose yeah i'd say maybe eight yeah eight okay i'll say about
00:08:27.040 eight yeah eight i think seven seven okay so that can i think there's more eights than this like 7.5
00:08:33.780 is the average okay what do you what do you rate her this just appearance wise yeah yeah appearance
00:08:38.960 like seven back in the day she probably was like a nine okay seven king what do you rate her
00:08:45.280 come on six six okay what do you guys rate her six six okay so the guys say six they're mostly six
00:08:57.340 six point two something what do you rate her well um
00:09:02.800 so how old do you guys think she is she looks 40 40 i'm guessing yeah like 56 i think she's probably
00:09:15.360 about 40 but she looks a bit younger yeah so she's 39 so because she's 39 i'd say she's like a five
00:09:23.600 yeah smart oh really yeah yeah no i think looks based on her looks though not not her age but age
00:09:30.560 plays a part yeah but age kind of plays a part do you think she's a five so what you really think
00:09:35.680 she's a five when you look at her yeah yeah if she was 29 if she was 20 what would you rate her
00:09:43.840 eight but she's not 20 she's 40. oh but that's not based on her looks and that's based on her age
00:09:48.720 well but i think it's just purely based on her picture well i think she looks old what so you
00:09:53.040 don't look a bit older the younger that you go the higher you'd rate her yeah so basically old
00:10:01.280 people are not cutesy basically old people can't be beautiful i didn't say old people can't go above
00:10:08.880 five no no no no no old women can't go above women are not as cute yeah old men men age like wine
00:10:16.720 women age like this is like have you seen me along like but is this something we struggle with as
00:10:22.960 women wait wait wait wait wait wait guys guys stop stop warning um so this is the thing women insert
00:10:32.160 exception this one woman that looks good it's like come on but if most of the people in the room would
00:10:39.440 rate her a seven into eight and it's only you that's rated her five doesn't that make her pretty hot
00:10:44.320 most of the men rated her a six so mine's slightly lower than so like six that's above five so wouldn't
00:10:49.920 she be above average or pretty since most of us if we're speaking on a general sense yeah i mean you
00:10:54.960 could you could say six but like that's not that different than a five i just think when you're 40
00:10:59.680 it's like minus a point i think there's like your looks and then you lose a point when you're old
00:11:03.520 that's that's what i think is it something like like as as women like we're all pretty similar ages but
00:11:08.480 is it something like as women like we're we're aware of feeling like less beautiful as we get
00:11:13.200 older like yeah do you guys think you're getting prettier the older you get no
00:11:21.040 and it's not just that by 39 you probably can't really have children like what can you really like
00:11:25.520 provide as a woman if you can't make babies yeah but we're talking about looks though yeah but then
00:11:31.360 looks brings an age so when you see but what if you're 20 and you look old
00:11:35.680 because i've seen that a lot yeah or if you're 40 and you look yeah yeah
00:11:40.240 because i've seen that just and i looked younger as i've got older actually i mean we can we could
00:11:44.400 talk about exceptions or we could talk about the rule like most people look their age you know
00:11:50.880 um but yeah so my question is what does a 39 year old single woman why does she feel comfortable
00:11:58.720 shitting on a bus driver i think because she's oh sorry when the men say she's a six roughly
00:12:06.240 and she the kids is out the window so i mean because like as a guy i'm assuming right and you
00:12:12.560 guys can tell me if i'm wrong you're going to go down a point in terms of marketability to you because
00:12:16.560 she can't have kids yeah yeah i had to um end the relationship because the person was a few years
00:12:21.920 older than me and i knew that there was gonna be a future there by the time i was ready she
00:12:25.840 wasn't gonna be ready yeah i mean so it's definitely a factor as many of you know i was just banned on
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