JustPearlyThings - May 14, 2023


B1s3xu@l Man Reveals The Truth Behind Dating Men

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Franklin
Delusional Modern Women Millionaire Picked His Wife In The Most Unique Way

Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

184.56

Word count

2,080

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Harmful content

Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

4

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about bisexuality in the 21st century, dating in same-sex relationships, and what it means to be bisexual in the modern dating culture. We also talk about the difference between bisexuality and bisexuality, and why bisexuality is a turn-on for men and women.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 hey I'm Wayne Elaine I'm 33 years old big up the 1990s and bisexual the best thing ever
00:00:08.380 my name is Daniel Frank everyone calls me Franklin I'm 26 years old my relationship
00:00:17.840 status I'm recently engaged actually so cool on that thank you very much fun fact about me
00:00:24.520 in the Philippines I'm a celebrity that's how it goes so I have a question you said you're bisexual
00:00:34.520 indeed all right can I ask you questions go for it um they always say that a guy can't be bisexual
00:00:40.480 that he's only gay have you heard that before never heard that and I'm guess and I tell you
00:00:46.340 this the women I've been with wouldn't say that either they wouldn't say does it like put off
00:00:50.580 girls at all yeah so men find it a turn-on women are like intrigued because they're like oh they 0.98
00:00:59.100 asked the question to me again they go are you sure you're bisexual I'm like I'm definitely sure 0.89
00:01:04.540 tell me about the differences between dating men and dating women men are liars and men will tell 0.99
00:01:09.500 you what they want to tell you to men are men will tell you what they want to tell you which most of
00:01:17.660 the time is just to to get into a situation whether it's bed or whether it's a date or whatever
00:01:24.160 do men have to lie to other men to get I feel like they do with a woman you know where you stand like
00:01:32.800 if you've done something wrong they let you know you they don't need to say anything their body
00:01:38.020 language or expression the way they carry themselves like you know you've messed up with a guy
00:01:42.920 like they'll try and like play it off so like for me um yeah I I'm still I'm still trying to like
00:01:53.640 figure the whole thing out I've been I mean like I know I was bi since I was eight and I've been like
00:01:58.560 dating guys or whatever the last four or five years but majority of my life has been with females so I
00:02:02.560 understand females to a t to a guy I'm just like sometimes I meet a guy and I'm just like huh I thought I
00:02:08.440 had it figured and I still don't have it figured oh who's more of a player men or women
00:02:13.340 men men now I'm at a stage where I'm like now I understand why women be out there like oh you guys
00:02:22.140 ain't players this and that because it's like it's it's a it's a crazy world are we gonna give you the
00:02:27.680 same advice that we give to all these women I wonder I wonder if men like if in in same-sex
00:02:34.660 relationships like because women we know are hypergamous I'm like I wonder is it the same like
00:02:39.560 is it the same like when it's same sex are you guys all sleeping with the same man or is it more
00:02:45.160 I'm I'm very particular okay so some guys
00:02:49.180 I've been told sometimes I'm not gay enough where I'm just a pacific person who like what I like
00:02:58.620 and I think it's come to a point where like I'm 33 years old I'm like confident who I am and
00:03:04.520 everyone knows and blah blah blah where I'm just like it's not just about how you look or whatever
00:03:08.900 it's actual the conversation the attraction the the the overall how you are as an individual like
00:03:15.660 I've been with people who I physically wouldn't have been attracted to but I've gotten to know them
00:03:21.380 and it's been like you've wowed my mind and that I find um sexy and I find it um yeah and
00:03:28.360 attractive is that the same for women both okay it's it's it's both because I don't hear guys say
00:03:35.200 that often where they can like they don't find a girl attractive and she can like talk her way 1.00
00:03:39.240 into being attractive but I hear I hear women say that about men that's why it's interesting
00:03:42.600 yeah it is I've I've I've fallen for a person a female who um I just used to hang out with and
00:03:50.460 I physically wouldn't have normally found her attractive but after going out with her on just
00:03:56.480 as a friendship thing I found myself not falling in love with her but falling for her and seeing
00:04:00.620 her in different light so you were basically the the gay best friend that they need to worry about 0.98
00:04:06.140 you know what's funny you know what's funny right one of my one of my girls that's no longer a friend 0.94
00:04:12.380 of mine because her boyfriend um sorry as uh I was I've been this guy where people where guys have
00:04:20.280 stopped their girls being friends with me yeah because they're like ah blah blah blah I'm like
00:04:25.780 but your man knows I'm gay just say I'm gay though and he's like no he knows you're bi so it's like
00:04:30.900 it could go both ways blood and I've been like just tell him I'm not bi anymore just say I've seen the
00:04:36.600 light and I've got all the way gay honestly and it don't work if I was a boyfriend on the situation I'm
00:04:41.580 on the same vibe basically as a bisexual I'm just a lover of all people so just allow me to hang out
00:04:49.580 with your girls would you guys let your girlfriend hang out with a guy that was bi now you know what
00:05:00.340 because he's you're able to kind of tap into that emotional side yeah on that side and then you're
00:05:07.580 able to do whatever lay whatever you need to lay in it so yeah I'm a good guy but you know you'll
00:05:15.900 be under the same category as just a male best friend yeah it's not it's not like sometimes a
00:05:19.880 gay best friend kind of gets a little blight yeah it's like he ain't interested in that's what makes 0.88
00:05:23.740 you scary because you've got all the attributes of the gay best friend but at the same time on some 1.00
00:05:29.240 days you're not that gay best friend you know what I mean okay so today's topic is talking about 0.88
00:05:37.580 social media and how it pertains to relationships so I want to hear from the women on a given day
00:05:44.400 how many messages do you receive from men interested in you I think it depends I think if I put stories
00:05:53.740 up then I'll have more interaction but yeah I think it just depends really okay that's an answer
00:05:59.080 sorry and when I put stories up yeah I'll get a couple fair few messages to be fair okay so how
00:06:05.300 many a day like maybe like three four five okay so five a day so um okay so go ahead I think for me
00:06:14.780 um I don't post every day and any sort of like love or attention that I receive from dudes
00:06:20.940 is from guys I already know or have already like had an encounter with like met before
00:06:25.940 so I don't really get strangers like hey like what's up like I don't really get that often but
00:06:32.460 people that I know will will show me love okay so how many messages do you get a day from men
00:06:38.680 like a zero okay so you get no messages from guys interested in you do you have a public instagram
00:06:44.420 yes yes but I don't post often and when I do it's the people that already know me I rarely get
00:06:52.120 and if I do is from like an uncle that's like 25 years older than me that I'm going to ignore
00:06:57.020 it's like once in a blue moon okay so uh what about you I don't really see them come up as much
00:07:05.680 because they go into message requests but say on average between maybe one two one to two hey guys
00:07:12.460 how many how many messages do you get a day you know what it's about when you post if I post
00:07:19.580 because I'm a personal trainer so if I post like a um update from like my gym progress then I'll get
00:07:26.480 a flurry of people I might get like 20 to 25 but on a normal day not like so if you post if you post
00:07:35.220 you get oh and if you don't post if I don't post yeah if you're beating the women yeah 1.00
00:07:42.340 yeah I don't know so so you get more dms than the girls I guess so well you know what would you 0.98
00:07:47.540 say is the quality of the girls that dm you um like out of every 10 what percent are you would 1.00
00:07:53.080 actually yeah maybe like 10 percent okay it's not 10 percent yeah I mean if I post it if I was
00:07:58.660 supposed to trap it maybe be that 40 percent okay just on average sometimes you know I might I might
00:08:04.720 get some wings in there but nah nah but yeah usually just yeah about 10 percent I'll see okay
00:08:11.500 yeah because the gays love a personal trainer man um so my account is no longer public I've made it
00:08:20.740 private and the reason why is because my situation women are lovely because women would just like 1.00
00:08:26.340 and then be like oh I love like how positive you are and blah blah blah on social media guys are
00:08:32.600 very different there's not I don't think I think there's a shortage of like masculine mandem as they
00:08:39.200 call it guys so I made my account private because guys have kept dm'ing me through like and then
00:08:50.720 so like let's say for example the black gay community in London is not that big including like mixed race
00:08:57.260 guys so kind of everyone's following everyone so some people will see so some people will see that
00:09:03.740 I'm following them or blah blah blah and then my biography says like open-minded blah blah blah
00:09:09.020 so I don't even say I'm bisexual so they'll slide in my dms um and then one thing is with guys is
00:09:15.620 guys okay perfect example I met a guy we were vibing blah blah blah weren't really too sure if I liked him
00:09:22.480 or whatever and he was like look I wouldn't mind if you had an affair with a woman because she can 1.00
00:09:27.200 give you something that I can't give you but if it was with another man he would find it offensive
00:09:32.200 so how many messages do you get a day I can't say in a day I could say I could get like two three a week
00:09:38.920 two three a week yeah okay what about you uh I don't get no message I don't get no message that's
00:09:46.700 half to do with the fact that I don't really I don't use social media even when but at the same time
00:09:51.680 back when I was single I still didn't really get messages like that it was you having to fish
00:09:57.300 rather than the fish coming to you type of situation not to say that women are fish 1.00
00:10:01.760 cancelled yeah taken off the platform but it's like yeah it's like you have to go there rather than
00:10:11.920 them come here which is very different to a lot of the other situations I've heard from like other
00:10:17.900 guys and other girls as well girls to guys ratio is very different because a lot of girls I've seen
00:10:22.860 get a lot more messages than a lot of guys I've seen however the guys that do get messages get a lot
00:10:28.480 and a lot of them so you have that like one friend that one male friend who's a 10 out of 10
00:10:34.980 who we get 10 times more messages than any girl however like a bell curve situation there are more
00:10:41.420 girls getting more messages than guys right but from what I've seen the hottest guys wolves because
00:10:48.540 it goes to hyper how pergamos so they want to go for them but the best of best so if you if you've got
00:10:52.780 that one guy who's a 10 he's going to get more messages than any girl in any room in anywhere
00:10:57.580 because every girl wants him as many of you know I was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized 0.99
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