JustPearlyThings - May 14, 2023


B1s3xu@l Man Reveals The Truth Behind Dating Men


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11 minutes

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184.55533

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2,080

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Transcript

00:00:00.000 hey I'm Wayne Elaine I'm 33 years old big up the 1990s and bisexual the best thing ever
00:00:08.380 my name is Daniel Frank everyone calls me Franklin I'm 26 years old my relationship
00:00:17.840 status I'm recently engaged actually so cool on that thank you very much fun fact about me
00:00:24.520 in the Philippines I'm a celebrity that's how it goes so I have a question you said you're bisexual
00:00:34.520 indeed all right can I ask you questions go for it um they always say that a guy can't be bisexual
00:00:40.480 that he's only gay have you heard that before never heard that and I'm guess and I tell you
00:00:46.340 this the women I've been with wouldn't say that either they wouldn't say does it like put off
00:00:50.580 girls at all yeah so men find it a turn-on women are like intrigued because they're like oh they
00:00:59.100 asked the question to me again they go are you sure you're bisexual I'm like I'm definitely sure
00:01:04.540 tell me about the differences between dating men and dating women men are liars and men will tell
00:01:09.500 you what they want to tell you to men are men will tell you what they want to tell you which most of
00:01:17.660 the time is just to to get into a situation whether it's bed or whether it's a date or whatever
00:01:24.160 do men have to lie to other men to get I feel like they do with a woman you know where you stand like
00:01:32.800 if you've done something wrong they let you know you they don't need to say anything their body
00:01:38.020 language or expression the way they carry themselves like you know you've messed up with a guy
00:01:42.920 like they'll try and like play it off so like for me um yeah I I'm still I'm still trying to like
00:01:53.640 figure the whole thing out I've been I mean like I know I was bi since I was eight and I've been like
00:01:58.560 dating guys or whatever the last four or five years but majority of my life has been with females so I
00:02:02.560 understand females to a t to a guy I'm just like sometimes I meet a guy and I'm just like huh I thought I
00:02:08.440 had it figured and I still don't have it figured oh who's more of a player men or women
00:02:13.340 men men now I'm at a stage where I'm like now I understand why women be out there like oh you guys
00:02:22.140 ain't players this and that because it's like it's it's a it's a crazy world are we gonna give you the
00:02:27.680 same advice that we give to all these women I wonder I wonder if men like if in in same-sex
00:02:34.660 relationships like because women we know are hypergamous I'm like I wonder is it the same like
00:02:39.560 is it the same like when it's same sex are you guys all sleeping with the same man or is it more
00:02:45.160 I'm I'm very particular okay so some guys
00:02:49.180 I've been told sometimes I'm not gay enough where I'm just a pacific person who like what I like
00:02:58.620 and I think it's come to a point where like I'm 33 years old I'm like confident who I am and
00:03:04.520 everyone knows and blah blah blah where I'm just like it's not just about how you look or whatever
00:03:08.900 it's actual the conversation the attraction the the the overall how you are as an individual like
00:03:15.660 I've been with people who I physically wouldn't have been attracted to but I've gotten to know them
00:03:21.380 and it's been like you've wowed my mind and that I find um sexy and I find it um yeah and
00:03:28.360 attractive is that the same for women both okay it's it's it's both because I don't hear guys say
00:03:35.200 that often where they can like they don't find a girl attractive and she can like talk her way
00:03:39.240 into being attractive but I hear I hear women say that about men that's why it's interesting
00:03:42.600 yeah it is I've I've I've fallen for a person a female who um I just used to hang out with and
00:03:50.460 I physically wouldn't have normally found her attractive but after going out with her on just
00:03:56.480 as a friendship thing I found myself not falling in love with her but falling for her and seeing
00:04:00.620 her in different light so you were basically the the gay best friend that they need to worry about
00:04:06.140 you know what's funny you know what's funny right one of my one of my girls that's no longer a friend
00:04:12.380 of mine because her boyfriend um sorry as uh I was I've been this guy where people where guys have
00:04:20.280 stopped their girls being friends with me yeah because they're like ah blah blah blah I'm like
00:04:25.780 but your man knows I'm gay just say I'm gay though and he's like no he knows you're bi so it's like
00:04:30.900 it could go both ways blood and I've been like just tell him I'm not bi anymore just say I've seen the
00:04:36.600 light and I've got all the way gay honestly and it don't work if I was a boyfriend on the situation I'm
00:04:41.580 on the same vibe basically as a bisexual I'm just a lover of all people so just allow me to hang out
00:04:49.580 with your girls would you guys let your girlfriend hang out with a guy that was bi now you know what
00:05:00.340 because he's you're able to kind of tap into that emotional side yeah on that side and then you're
00:05:07.580 able to do whatever lay whatever you need to lay in it so yeah I'm a good guy but you know you'll
00:05:15.900 be under the same category as just a male best friend yeah it's not it's not like sometimes a
00:05:19.880 gay best friend kind of gets a little blight yeah it's like he ain't interested in that's what makes
00:05:23.740 you scary because you've got all the attributes of the gay best friend but at the same time on some
00:05:29.240 days you're not that gay best friend you know what I mean okay so today's topic is talking about
00:05:37.580 social media and how it pertains to relationships so I want to hear from the women on a given day
00:05:44.400 how many messages do you receive from men interested in you I think it depends I think if I put stories
00:05:53.740 up then I'll have more interaction but yeah I think it just depends really okay that's an answer
00:05:59.080 sorry and when I put stories up yeah I'll get a couple fair few messages to be fair okay so how
00:06:05.300 many a day like maybe like three four five okay so five a day so um okay so go ahead I think for me
00:06:14.780 um I don't post every day and any sort of like love or attention that I receive from dudes
00:06:20.940 is from guys I already know or have already like had an encounter with like met before
00:06:25.940 so I don't really get strangers like hey like what's up like I don't really get that often but
00:06:32.460 people that I know will will show me love okay so how many messages do you get a day from men
00:06:38.680 like a zero okay so you get no messages from guys interested in you do you have a public instagram
00:06:44.420 yes yes but I don't post often and when I do it's the people that already know me I rarely get
00:06:52.120 and if I do is from like an uncle that's like 25 years older than me that I'm going to ignore
00:06:57.020 it's like once in a blue moon okay so uh what about you I don't really see them come up as much
00:07:05.680 because they go into message requests but say on average between maybe one two one to two hey guys
00:07:12.460 how many how many messages do you get a day you know what it's about when you post if I post
00:07:19.580 because I'm a personal trainer so if I post like a um update from like my gym progress then I'll get
00:07:26.480 a flurry of people I might get like 20 to 25 but on a normal day not like so if you post if you post
00:07:35.220 you get oh and if you don't post if I don't post yeah if you're beating the women yeah
00:07:42.340 yeah I don't know so so you get more dms than the girls I guess so well you know what would you
00:07:47.540 say is the quality of the girls that dm you um like out of every 10 what percent are you would
00:07:53.080 actually yeah maybe like 10 percent okay it's not 10 percent yeah I mean if I post it if I was
00:07:58.660 supposed to trap it maybe be that 40 percent okay just on average sometimes you know I might I might
00:08:04.720 get some wings in there but nah nah but yeah usually just yeah about 10 percent I'll see okay
00:08:11.500 yeah because the gays love a personal trainer man um so my account is no longer public I've made it
00:08:20.740 private and the reason why is because my situation women are lovely because women would just like
00:08:26.340 and then be like oh I love like how positive you are and blah blah blah on social media guys are
00:08:32.600 very different there's not I don't think I think there's a shortage of like masculine mandem as they
00:08:39.200 call it guys so I made my account private because guys have kept dm'ing me through like and then
00:08:50.720 so like let's say for example the black gay community in London is not that big including like mixed race
00:08:57.260 guys so kind of everyone's following everyone so some people will see so some people will see that
00:09:03.740 I'm following them or blah blah blah and then my biography says like open-minded blah blah blah
00:09:09.020 so I don't even say I'm bisexual so they'll slide in my dms um and then one thing is with guys is
00:09:15.620 guys okay perfect example I met a guy we were vibing blah blah blah weren't really too sure if I liked him
00:09:22.480 or whatever and he was like look I wouldn't mind if you had an affair with a woman because she can
00:09:27.200 give you something that I can't give you but if it was with another man he would find it offensive
00:09:32.200 so how many messages do you get a day I can't say in a day I could say I could get like two three a week
00:09:38.920 two three a week yeah okay what about you uh I don't get no message I don't get no message that's
00:09:46.700 half to do with the fact that I don't really I don't use social media even when but at the same time
00:09:51.680 back when I was single I still didn't really get messages like that it was you having to fish
00:09:57.300 rather than the fish coming to you type of situation not to say that women are fish
00:10:01.760 cancelled yeah taken off the platform but it's like yeah it's like you have to go there rather than
00:10:11.920 them come here which is very different to a lot of the other situations I've heard from like other
00:10:17.900 guys and other girls as well girls to guys ratio is very different because a lot of girls I've seen
00:10:22.860 get a lot more messages than a lot of guys I've seen however the guys that do get messages get a lot
00:10:28.480 and a lot of them so you have that like one friend that one male friend who's a 10 out of 10
00:10:34.980 who we get 10 times more messages than any girl however like a bell curve situation there are more
00:10:41.420 girls getting more messages than guys right but from what I've seen the hottest guys wolves because
00:10:48.540 it goes to hyper how pergamos so they want to go for them but the best of best so if you if you've got
00:10:52.780 that one guy who's a 10 he's going to get more messages than any girl in any room in anywhere
00:10:57.580 because every girl wants him as many of you know I was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized
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