JustPearlyThings - October 21, 2023


Bella Poarch WHINING About Choosing Career Over Marriage

Topics
splitting the bill
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Bella Porch Juna Pellips Nika
Women Are Manipulative And Spiteful This Unhinged Single Mother Gets Kicked Out For Saying This Trash

Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

176.55

Word count

1,275

Sentence count

113

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

sentences flagged

Toxicity

6

sentences flagged

Hate speech

8

sentences flagged


Summary

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Bella Porch is a TikTok star with over 50 million views on TikTok, but what does this mean for her relationship with her husband? Is he a narcissist? Or is he a loving and caring human being?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Last but not least today, I want to talk about Bella Porch.
00:00:02.920 So Bella Porch is a viral TikTok star.
00:00:07.240 This woman, so I remember early TikTok days when Bella blew up. 0.99
00:00:10.620 So this woman had the most viral TikTok of all time, the most viewed video with over 0.61
00:00:16.560 50 million views.
00:00:18.280 And it was so interesting to just see her face, like she found a way to make her face
00:00:22.100 like move with the muse, it was kind of cool.
00:00:23.860 And recently I saw a video of her on Call Her Daddy talking about how her career actually
00:00:30.680 led her to divorce.
00:00:31.840 Let's pull it up.
00:00:33.540 I want to be an artist.
00:00:35.760 I want to sing.
00:00:37.020 I want to be like, I want to be in the spotlight.
00:00:40.200 Like I want to perform.
00:00:41.740 And I don't think he ever wants to be part of that.
00:00:45.320 Sometimes it just, it just sucks because, you know, like you want to do something for yourself
00:00:51.240 and like a career.
00:00:53.580 But then you love someone and they can't handle it.
00:00:57.060 So it's just like, you kind of just have to pick, right?
00:00:59.420 So words are important.
00:01:00.920 And I wanted to point out something that she says during this video that you kind of just
00:01:05.080 have to pick.
00:01:06.000 And, you know, she goes on, I watched this whole interview.
00:01:08.240 She actually goes on to talk about how he was a really private person and her becoming
00:01:13.440 a public figure really just damaged their relationship and they couldn't handle it.
00:01:18.000 And again, you'll see this tendency for women to, and I hear older women talk about this 0.99
00:01:23.420 too.
00:01:23.840 I just want to do something for myself.
00:01:26.660 And it's funny because when men do selfless things, they're a lot less narcissistic with
00:01:33.440 it and they don't look at it as a burden.
00:01:35.760 They look at it as a duty.
00:01:36.960 Where when women tend to do things like for the family, they look at it as a detriment. 1.00
00:01:43.260 They hold resentment to the people that hold back their decision.
00:01:47.460 Now, I will say this decision may work out for her.
00:01:50.700 She may end up getting remarried. 1.00
00:01:52.700 She may be able to have it all.
00:01:54.300 But there are thousands of women that watch these type of videos and think they will have 1.00
00:01:59.700 the same outcome as a woman that is worth millions and millions of dollars. 1.00
00:02:05.680 That is born one of the most, I would argue, top 20-ish percent of beauty.
00:02:10.920 Most women will not have these outcomes for making selfish decisions. 1.00
00:02:16.360 And typically women in her shoes don't end up having good outcomes anyway. 1.00
00:02:21.440 But I just, I want to give the devil's advocate here.
00:02:23.720 And here, this woman says she's speaking for so many women here.
00:02:27.200 She is.
00:02:28.500 And that's the sad part.
00:02:29.740 She absolutely is speaking for many women because many, most women are selfish in 2023. 1.00
00:02:38.020 Most women care more about themselves and their career than their family and children. 1.00
00:02:45.760 And she admits it there that her career was more important and she was going to pick herself.
00:02:51.680 And I don't, I don't really, I'm a little bit, I have a nuanced opinion on this stuff.
00:02:57.200 Do what you're going to do.
00:02:58.440 At least she didn't have children, okay?
00:03:00.280 But don't complain later.
00:03:01.960 Don't whine and cry about the outcomes later.
00:03:06.140 You're a man.
00:03:06.620 If he really loves you, he'll support you no matter what.
00:03:09.800 Oh, really?
00:03:10.640 What if she wants to do sex work? 1.00
00:03:12.280 What if she's putting their relationship in a compromising position?
00:03:16.640 No matter what?
00:03:17.580 Really?
00:03:18.460 Really? 1.00
00:03:19.020 And this is this feminist garbage that we've just been programmed, that's been shoved down 1.00
00:03:24.180 our throat, that says we can do everything a man can do and still have it all. 0.99
00:03:28.160 The truth of the matter is everything in life comes with choices and trade-offs.
00:03:31.920 You cannot have everything.
00:03:32.980 Juna Pellips says, she chose her dreams.
00:03:36.340 He can't just be proud of what she has accomplished right now.
00:03:39.800 Well, at what cost is the question?
00:03:42.240 And you don't know the ins and outs of the story.
00:03:44.200 You don't know his side of things.
00:03:45.580 Maybe she was going out and putting their relationship in compromising position. 0.97
00:03:50.440 Maybe he's a private person and didn't sign up to be a part of that life.
00:03:53.860 And the thing is, women will constantly lead other women down the path of destruction. 1.00
00:03:59.480 So now, you know, the question becomes, is the grass greener on the other side?
00:04:02.880 For Bella, I really, I hope it is.
00:04:04.660 I never wish negativity on people, but I will say in most cases it's not.
00:04:09.840 Bella Porch is talking about here splitting the bill on a recent date. 1.00
00:04:13.340 Let's pull it up.
00:04:13.880 Have you gone on any dates?
00:04:17.500 Like, what's the vibe?
00:04:18.860 Yeah.
00:04:19.580 Okay.
00:04:20.480 I actually went on a date a few days ago.
00:04:22.620 How'd it go?
00:04:24.140 It was weird because I, he likes me, but we split the bill.
00:04:29.500 Hmm.
00:04:30.720 What?
00:04:31.200 It's interesting because women want to be modern when it benefits them, but traditional 1.00
00:04:38.040 when it doesn't.
00:04:39.060 I'm sorry, but why is this girl worth millions and millions of dollars complaining about splitting 1.00
00:04:43.580 the bill?
00:04:44.140 I mean, you know, you wanted to be modern, which is fine.
00:04:47.620 No hate.
00:04:48.360 But don't complain about the outcomes later.
00:04:51.940 And these guys are probably thinking this girl's worth, I don't know what she's worth,
00:04:55.160 but I would guess upwards of 10 million, especially what they're paying for TikTok brand deals. 1.00
00:05:01.260 Back in the day, guys, who was stupid. 1.00
00:05:02.980 It was crazy. 1.00
00:05:03.880 These, these people were making so much money.
00:05:06.100 I actually, I met a bunch of the top like TikTokers back then. 0.99
00:05:10.480 Oh my God.
00:05:11.160 It was so crazy.
00:05:12.200 I met the D'Amelios back in the day, which is like another top TikTok family.
00:05:16.720 And it was, it was just briefly, but it was so crazy to me to see these like 18 year
00:05:21.160 old kids, you know, driving sports cars, having private drivers, going out to these super
00:05:26.120 expensive, very interesting, very cool.
00:05:28.300 Actually, you know, it's like they want to be, you can't have everything.
00:05:31.200 You want to be modern, you know, take what comes with it.
00:05:34.220 And I think that's actually the trend we're going to see in the West because you'll see
00:05:38.200 it in Japan.
00:05:38.720 It's actually super normal to split the bills there.
00:05:41.420 Like it's like not, I've asked people over there and they say it's like very normal.
00:05:47.320 The women don't even think much of it. 1.00
00:05:48.840 I think that's a trend you're going to see here because again, you know, the price of
00:05:52.300 women is going up and men are kind of getting sick and tired of paying for something.
00:05:56.720 They don't really get any value out of.
00:05:58.500 So user 85 says, you're not supposed to split the bill.
00:06:03.740 Hey, Nika, don't date him again. 0.99
00:06:05.760 LOL, red flag.
00:06:07.560 Should boy, this is the etiquette.
00:06:09.680 Listen up.
00:06:10.180 Whoever asked for the date should pay.
00:06:13.040 And I used to, I used to actually have different views on this.
00:06:16.620 Like I think a couple of years ago, I used to say that like men should pay.
00:06:20.620 And I, I, my issue with that logic is like, we can't have everything.
00:06:25.960 We either want to be modern or we want to be traditional.
00:06:28.800 And the question is if, you know, paying is a deal breaker for you or are you the traditional
00:06:34.240 chick that deserves to be paid for? 1.00
00:06:37.340 But to be fair, I think most guys, to be honest, pay anyway.
00:06:40.740 Like there's just, you know, most guys don't really fight it like that.
00:06:43.320 Thank you.