Bella Poarch WHINING About Choosing Career Over Marriage
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Summary
Bella Porch is a TikTok star with over 50 million views on TikTok, but what does this mean for her relationship with her husband? Is he a narcissist? Or is he a loving and caring human being?
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Last but not least today, I want to talk about Bella Porch.
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This woman, so I remember early TikTok days when Bella blew up.
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So this woman had the most viral TikTok of all time, the most viewed video with over
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And it was so interesting to just see her face, like she found a way to make her face
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And recently I saw a video of her on Call Her Daddy talking about how her career actually
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I want to be like, I want to be in the spotlight.
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And I don't think he ever wants to be part of that.
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Sometimes it just, it just sucks because, you know, like you want to do something for yourself
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But then you love someone and they can't handle it.
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So it's just like, you kind of just have to pick, right?
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And I wanted to point out something that she says during this video that you kind of just
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And, you know, she goes on, I watched this whole interview.
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She actually goes on to talk about how he was a really private person and her becoming
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a public figure really just damaged their relationship and they couldn't handle it.
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And again, you'll see this tendency for women to, and I hear older women talk about this
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And it's funny because when men do selfless things, they're a lot less narcissistic with
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Where when women tend to do things like for the family, they look at it as a detriment.
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They hold resentment to the people that hold back their decision.
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Now, I will say this decision may work out for her.
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But there are thousands of women that watch these type of videos and think they will have
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the same outcome as a woman that is worth millions and millions of dollars.
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That is born one of the most, I would argue, top 20-ish percent of beauty.
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Most women will not have these outcomes for making selfish decisions.
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And typically women in her shoes don't end up having good outcomes anyway.
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But I just, I want to give the devil's advocate here.
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And here, this woman says she's speaking for so many women here.
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She absolutely is speaking for many women because many, most women are selfish in 2023.
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Most women care more about themselves and their career than their family and children.
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And she admits it there that her career was more important and she was going to pick herself.
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And I don't, I don't really, I'm a little bit, I have a nuanced opinion on this stuff.
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If he really loves you, he'll support you no matter what.
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What if she's putting their relationship in a compromising position?
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And this is this feminist garbage that we've just been programmed, that's been shoved down
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our throat, that says we can do everything a man can do and still have it all.
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The truth of the matter is everything in life comes with choices and trade-offs.
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He can't just be proud of what she has accomplished right now.
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And you don't know the ins and outs of the story.
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Maybe she was going out and putting their relationship in compromising position.
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Maybe he's a private person and didn't sign up to be a part of that life.
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And the thing is, women will constantly lead other women down the path of destruction.
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So now, you know, the question becomes, is the grass greener on the other side?
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I never wish negativity on people, but I will say in most cases it's not.
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Bella Porch is talking about here splitting the bill on a recent date.
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It was weird because I, he likes me, but we split the bill.
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It's interesting because women want to be modern when it benefits them, but traditional
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I'm sorry, but why is this girl worth millions and millions of dollars complaining about splitting
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I mean, you know, you wanted to be modern, which is fine.
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And these guys are probably thinking this girl's worth, I don't know what she's worth,
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but I would guess upwards of 10 million, especially what they're paying for TikTok brand deals.
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I actually, I met a bunch of the top like TikTokers back then.
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I met the D'Amelios back in the day, which is like another top TikTok family.
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And it was, it was just briefly, but it was so crazy to me to see these like 18 year
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old kids, you know, driving sports cars, having private drivers, going out to these super
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Actually, you know, it's like they want to be, you can't have everything.
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You want to be modern, you know, take what comes with it.
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And I think that's actually the trend we're going to see in the West because you'll see
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It's actually super normal to split the bills there.
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Like it's like not, I've asked people over there and they say it's like very normal.
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I think that's a trend you're going to see here because again, you know, the price of
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women is going up and men are kind of getting sick and tired of paying for something.
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So user 85 says, you're not supposed to split the bill.
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And I used to, I used to actually have different views on this.
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Like I think a couple of years ago, I used to say that like men should pay.
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And I, I, my issue with that logic is like, we can't have everything.
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We either want to be modern or we want to be traditional.
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And the question is if, you know, paying is a deal breaker for you or are you the traditional
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But to be fair, I think most guys, to be honest, pay anyway.
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Like there's just, you know, most guys don't really fight it like that.