JustPearlyThings - April 06, 2023


Bimbo Tries To Check Aunty Jenny

Topics
hypergamy materialism
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Arnie Eddie Pearl Drake
The Modern Woman Got RED PILLED This FEMININE Lady Said The Unbelievable..

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Length

10 minutes

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209.6

Word count

2,184

Sentence count

288

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Toxicity

18

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Hate speech

12

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the discuss the difference between being a 'traditional' woman and a 'modern' woman. Do you have to be married to be a traditional? Do you need to be in a relationship to be considered 'traditional'? Is sex outside of marriage a part of being a traditional woman?

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00:00:00.000 You trying to check me?
00:00:01.200 No, no, no, I'm just asking you now.
00:00:03.200 You trying to check me? 1.00
00:00:04.200 Don't fuck it on here though. 1.00
00:00:05.200 It's alright, I'm 54 years old. 1.00
00:00:06.800 No, no, no, I'm just saying.
00:00:07.800 You're trying to check me.
00:00:08.800 My son's 36, what else do you want to know?
00:00:10.200 No, I'm saying was this date before you met your this partner?
00:00:13.200 Yes.
00:00:14.200 Okay, so this was when you were dating.
00:00:16.200 And what have I said to you that it was a date when I had my partner?
00:00:19.200 I'm just asking.
00:00:20.200 Okay then.
00:00:21.200 No, I'm just asking.
00:00:22.200 Does it make a difference?
00:00:23.200 No, not at all.
00:00:24.200 It should though, shouldn't it?
00:00:25.200 Think about it.
00:00:26.200 It should.
00:00:27.200 It should.
00:00:28.200 No, I'm just asking. 0.99
00:00:29.200 No, but you're asking for a stupid reason because it should. 0.99
00:00:31.400 No, I'm asking because you said. 0.99
00:00:32.400 It doesn't make no difference.
00:00:33.400 No, because you said old people, because obviously I'm trying to say.
00:00:36.400 Because you said something about old people.
00:00:38.400 My son's 36, so I've got to say that, innit?
00:00:40.400 No, no, but I just thought that you went, like, obviously if you went in your even early
00:00:44.600 20s, you're not old.
00:00:45.600 Do you get what I mean?
00:00:46.600 It's only because you said, oh, as old people, you know, you didn't know what the back was. 0.73
00:00:50.200 So I thought it was 20s not old.
00:00:52.200 Do you get what I mean?
00:00:53.200 That's what I was asking you.
00:00:54.200 Yeah, like, no.
00:00:55.200 Would it make a difference?
00:00:56.200 You still not get what I'm saying.
00:00:58.200 It should make a difference.
00:00:59.200 It should make a difference.
00:01:00.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:01.200 While you're asking the question, basically.
00:01:02.200 The answer for you shouldn't be odd.
00:01:03.200 Do you just try to check my numbers?
00:01:04.200 Even wrong.
00:01:05.200 Like, as old people, something. 1.00
00:01:06.200 No, what I'm saying is that you're missing the point.
00:01:08.200 Because if I'm saying to you that I'm in a relationship and I've been on a date, you're
00:01:12.200 not interested in that.
00:01:13.200 No, because you're saying you're a traditional woman, so I know that's not the facts, right? 0.72
00:01:16.200 I'm going to be a traditional woman.
00:01:17.200 I'm not married. 0.83
00:01:18.200 I'm having sex regular.
00:01:19.200 How's that traditional? 0.93
00:01:20.200 I thought you were traditional.
00:01:21.200 Sorry?
00:01:22.200 No, I can't be.
00:01:23.200 No, no, no, no, no.
00:01:24.200 Okay, no, sorry.
00:01:25.200 Okay.
00:01:26.200 I would not say that.
00:01:27.200 I'd say that I'm old and I've got a bit of wisdom.
00:01:29.200 Would you say you're a traditional woman?
00:01:30.200 No, I'm not traditional.
00:01:31.200 I'm not married.
00:01:32.200 How can I be traditional?
00:01:33.200 I'm having sex outside of marriage. 0.81
00:01:35.200 How can I be traditional?
00:01:36.200 Okay, because when you were saying...
00:01:37.200 Because traditional means that you have sex in a marriage and that you're married.
00:01:42.200 That's traditional.
00:01:43.200 So don't get confused.
00:01:44.200 You can behave traditional.
00:01:46.200 I might behave traditional, but I'm not traditional.
00:01:49.200 Sorry, my apologies.
00:01:50.200 And I'm not a hypocrite either.
00:01:51.200 No, my apologies.
00:01:52.200 Only because obviously when you were saying being a traditional woman is better, whatever,
00:01:55.200 I thought you were...
00:01:56.200 No, no, no.
00:01:57.200 I was asking you because when you said about the modern and the traditional.
00:01:59.200 Okay, no, no.
00:02:00.200 Sorry, my apologies.
00:02:01.200 Because you stand a dance of being traditional because you're married.
00:02:03.200 But as far as I'm concerned, when you're not married, when you get divorced and you move on,
00:02:07.200 you're not traditional no more.
00:02:09.200 That's the difference between you and me.
00:02:11.200 You've got a chance to be traditional because you've got a ring.
00:02:14.200 If you get divorced now, in my view, you're not traditional anymore because you're divorced.
00:02:18.200 So between you and me, I would say traditional values doesn't make you traditional.
00:02:23.200 Can you be traditional again even after a divorce?
00:02:26.200 If you get married again, will you then be a traditional woman?
00:02:28.200 No, traditional is you're a virgin and then you get married.
00:02:31.200 That's traditional.
00:02:32.200 If you didn't do that, you're not traditional.
00:02:34.200 I'm not traditional.
00:02:35.200 I have traditional values as in I prefer like old school.
00:02:39.200 I don't like all the dating apps and stuff like that.
00:02:41.200 I personally don't do them.
00:02:43.200 But I wouldn't be able to say I am traditional because I've had sex out of wedlock.
00:02:47.200 I've had kids out of wedlock.
00:02:48.200 You know, I'm not with the dad.
00:02:51.200 I have a very modern life, but I just deep down it's when it comes to love and stuff like
00:02:57.200 that and values.
00:02:58.200 It's, you know, what our parents grew up with.
00:03:00.200 You've got a traditional foundation.
00:03:02.200 You know, back in the 1900s, whatever.
00:03:06.200 Like 1940s, 1950s, back in them days. 0.63
00:03:10.200 Before social media.
00:03:12.200 So I have a question for the panel, for the ladies actually. 1.00
00:03:19.200 If a guy had everything you wanted, could you look past him stepping out from time to time?
00:03:25.200 Not, not another wife, not another like main chick. 0.60
00:03:28.200 Just like hoes here and there. 1.00
00:03:30.200 No.
00:03:31.200 No.
00:03:32.200 I don't know.
00:03:34.200 I don't know.
00:03:35.200 That should be such an easy yes.
00:03:37.200 I don't know.
00:03:38.200 You need to weigh up what options you would have because yeah, he might be cheating every
00:03:44.200 now and then.
00:03:45.200 Of course you don't want that.
00:03:46.200 You want him to be with you, but you have everything you want.
00:03:49.200 But also getting everything you want should you then sacrifice happiness that is cheating
00:03:54.200 on you.
00:03:55.200 You know, wouldn't you rather be with someone that isn't cheating on you and maybe gives you
00:03:59.200 some things you want and then you work for the other things you want yourself.
00:04:04.200 See, I would rather have my partner have a full partner than have women. 1.00
00:04:09.200 He's just the question.
00:04:10.200 Yeah.
00:04:11.200 No, I wouldn't.
00:04:12.200 You wouldn't do that.
00:04:13.200 I wouldn't respect that.
00:04:14.200 No.
00:04:15.200 Okay.
00:04:16.200 What about you two? 0.84
00:04:17.200 I think, I do not like seeing in this day and age, I feel like the realest no bullshit
00:04:25.200 thing is whether a man has money, whether he has a Porsche, whether he has whatever,
00:04:29.200 he's going to cheat.
00:04:30.200 That's the, like, if I'd be lying to myself, if I said to this question that I was going
00:04:36.200 to say, you know, oh no, I'd rather have a man that doesn't cheat because if I go to
00:04:40.200 the man that I think doesn't cheat, he's going to cheat as well.
00:04:43.200 So they all cheat.
00:04:44.200 That's the realest. 1.00
00:04:45.200 Like that's all this fairytale bullshit. 0.99
00:04:47.200 It's not real. 1.00
00:04:48.200 It's not real.
00:04:49.200 It's not.
00:04:50.200 It's very rare.
00:04:51.200 It's very rare.
00:04:52.200 It's like 0.0111%.
00:04:53.200 Arnie has that 0.0111%.
00:04:54.200 Yeah.
00:04:55.200 But like, Arnie's generation, she's that bit older where it makes that difference.
00:05:03.200 Do you get it?
00:05:04.200 In our generation, I'm 23.
00:05:05.200 I was born in 1999.
00:05:07.200 It's very, very, very rare that I'm going to find a man that's not going to cheat.
00:05:12.200 It's not.
00:05:13.200 It's not.
00:05:14.200 It is.
00:05:15.200 It's not.
00:05:16.200 It's not.
00:05:17.200 It's not.
00:05:18.200 It's not.
00:05:19.200 It's not.
00:05:20.200 Wait.
00:05:21.200 It's not.
00:05:22.200 It's not rare.
00:05:23.200 One out of three men are virgins or haven't had sex in the past year, but it's just the
00:05:25.200 men of.
00:05:26.200 No, it's.
00:05:27.200 It's.
00:05:28.200 Yeah.
00:05:29.200 Like what place is the study from?
00:05:30.200 As in the one in three guys?
00:05:32.200 Like, is it just in England or is it the whole?
00:05:34.200 I think the BBC did that study, you know?
00:05:36.200 Yeah.
00:05:37.200 I don't remember off the top of my head.
00:05:39.200 But London is a very different place.
00:05:41.200 Yeah.
00:05:42.200 Don't get me wrong.
00:05:43.200 It doesn't get better outside of London.
00:05:44.200 I would argue that in London, it's the same.
00:05:47.200 You're in a big city.
00:05:48.200 Hypergamy is a thing. 1.00
00:05:49.200 Like, I think when people have more options, like women sleep with a smaller and smaller percentage 1.00
00:05:54.200 of guys when they have more access.
00:05:56.200 Yeah.
00:05:57.200 But like, like in the countryside, the men are a lot more traditional.
00:06:00.200 Women are a lot more like it's. 1.00
00:06:02.200 I've come from Lincolnshire and I can promise you now is 10 times worse.
00:06:07.200 Yeah.
00:06:08.200 It's not even city center.
00:06:09.200 Like we're out by the seaside or you can be out in the sticks, like middle of nowhere.
00:06:14.200 It is so bad over there.
00:06:15.200 Yeah.
00:06:16.200 I don't, I don't necessarily like think all men, like my dad's like top 1% earner.
00:06:20.200 He never cheated on my mom.
00:06:21.200 It's there.
00:06:22.200 But like, I, I just think it's, it's rare.
00:06:25.200 And so like, you kind of have to be realistic with what your like values are.
00:06:29.200 And especially if you want a guy that's like really good looking and gets girls.
00:06:32.200 Like.
00:06:33.200 Can I just say this?
00:06:34.200 Can I just say this?
00:06:35.200 I just want to say this one thing.
00:06:36.200 No one here, other than auntie, maybe Eddie, just about myself, just about, has the life experience to say that all men cheat.
00:06:47.200 Because you're 23.
00:06:49.200 When you're 23, you've, you've hardly lived an adult life.
00:06:52.200 I think that.
00:06:53.200 But I'm saying for my generation, I'm not, do you get it?
00:06:57.200 Yeah, I do get it.
00:06:58.200 But you're 23.
00:06:59.200 That's the thing.
00:07:00.200 So to say that all men cheat at 23, it's like you're setting yourself up.
00:07:04.200 So what?
00:07:05.200 I'm just not selling myself a dream.
00:07:07.200 And can I just say that when Po asked that question, she said if a man had everything that you want.
00:07:15.200 Yeah.
00:07:16.200 Straight away people think about money.
00:07:17.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:07:18.200 None of that thought about, you know, I'm thinking, can he fix the sink?
00:07:21.200 You know what I mean?
00:07:22.200 Can he, can he wear a plug?
00:07:23.200 Can he fix my car?
00:07:24.200 That's what I was thinking about.
00:07:25.200 That's what I was thinking about.
00:07:26.200 I can do that myself.
00:07:27.200 That's the realest.
00:07:28.200 No, no, no.
00:07:29.200 I can fix the sink, bro.
00:07:31.200 There's YouTube videos.
00:07:32.200 You know what?
00:07:33.200 I can do it, but I won't.
00:07:34.200 There's plumbers.
00:07:35.200 No, but the first thing I actually thought was, is that everything I want?
00:07:39.200 You see the cheating part, is that something I want?
00:07:42.200 No, it's not.
00:07:43.200 Is that something you should give up your happiness for?
00:07:44.200 That's what I said.
00:07:45.200 The cheating part, is that something I want?
00:07:47.200 The answer is no.
00:07:48.200 No.
00:07:49.200 Okay.
00:07:50.200 What are the things that I want in a man?
00:07:51.200 These attributes that I like in a man.
00:07:53.200 Direction.
00:07:54.200 The way of thinking.
00:07:55.200 The way of leading.
00:07:56.200 These things are rare in men anyway.
00:07:58.200 So I know in myself, if I find a man like that and he cheats, I'm not going to be feeling
00:08:04.200 it, but who knows?
00:08:05.200 I might just, you know, I might just turn around just because, but I will say this, when
00:08:13.200 like what auntie said, when Pearl asked that question, a lot of people think of materialistic
00:08:18.200 things.
00:08:19.200 And that's the point, isn't it?
00:08:21.200 What can he buy me?
00:08:22.200 Is he giving me a nice house?
00:08:24.200 Is he giving me the ability to spend money?
00:08:27.200 Is he giving me financial freedom without me working for it?
00:08:31.200 Is he fulfilling my entitlements?
00:08:33.200 I understand.
00:08:34.200 That's how obviously it's come across.
00:08:35.200 I've said Porsche this, that.
00:08:36.200 No, no, not you.
00:08:37.200 Not you.
00:08:38.200 No, just in general.
00:08:39.200 The generation in general, it was always straight away money.
00:08:42.200 But like, see, see me as personally, I make my own money.
00:08:46.200 I've got my own car.
00:08:47.200 Do you get all these things that a man I'm asking for, I've got myself.
00:08:51.200 Yeah.
00:08:52.200 It's not like I'm a broke girl.
00:08:53.200 I sit at home and I'm bummy. 0.99
00:08:54.200 I claim universal credit and I'm asking for a man with a fucking Ferrari. 1.00
00:08:58.200 Yeah. 0.99
00:08:59.200 Not at all. 0.99
00:09:00.200 I've got all this shit myself. 0.99
00:09:01.200 So why is it that, you know, I can't ask for a man with the same level as me, as well 0.99
00:09:06.200 as I feel like it goes without saying.
00:09:08.200 Why do I have to say I want love from a man in a relationship?
00:09:11.200 I feel like it should go without saying all these attributes, like loyalty, all of that.
00:09:16.200 But that is a relationship, isn't it?
00:09:18.200 Trust, loyalty.
00:09:19.200 But it's like the bare minimum.
00:09:21.200 Yeah.
00:09:22.200 Why should I have to ask for that?
00:09:23.200 Because you don't.
00:09:24.200 The standard has been changed.
00:09:27.200 Society has made you think that you have to.
00:09:29.200 The standard has been changed and outlined by a younger generation of women that the standard 0.99
00:09:34.200 the standard is you have to have materialistic things.
00:09:38.200 And this is what happens.
00:09:39.200 Men adjust themselves to accommodate the women in society because their biological response is to breed. 1.00
00:09:47.200 Women get BBLs and surgery for men to look at them, but they'll say it's for them. 1.00
00:09:52.200 No, because they play.
00:09:53.200 No, you did it because you want a guy to tell you.
00:09:55.200 Of course, of course.
00:09:56.200 You're playing into a man's biology, but then you're angry when a man talks to you that you don't like.
00:10:00.200 Right.
00:10:01.200 So if it was Drake or whoever, you'd be happy.
00:10:03.200 But if it's the average guy down the road driving a, I don't know what, or riding a bike, it's not for you.
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