JustPearlyThings - April 05, 2023


The Modern Woman Got RED PILLED


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Length

15 minutes

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200.28137

Word count

3,037

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

34

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Hate speech

22

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Summary

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In this episode we discuss the role of men and women in our society and why they should or shouldn t pay for the things we want in a relationship. We also talk about whether or not women should or men should pay for sex.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 well because men provide protection that's why that's that's right protection provision and 1.00
00:00:05.760 profession but he also needs to maintain lots of things as well as a woman does when they get into 1.00
00:00:10.760 a relationship no women don't have to do nothing when they get in a relationship that's why you 1.00
00:00:14.100 get into relationships what do you actually have to physically do other than keep my needs satisfied
00:00:22.160 in a relationship let's cut away you what you're doing actually in your own life so let's draw two
00:00:27.320 circles and the two circles that interact that is where relationships supposed to live that's how 0.56
00:00:32.180 you last in one the other the outsides of the circle are supposed to be in your own lives
00:00:36.320 those little sections there what are you supposed to be what are you doing in my own circle no no
00:00:43.260 not in your own circle in the middle so in the circle that crosses with the person that you're
00:00:46.520 in with a relationship that's the small space well you'll be cooking him dinner um i don't know doing
00:00:52.100 his washing deciding dates and arranging things and i don't know and would you want to pay for
00:01:00.200 anything you're expecting that you don't pay for nothing no no the stuff that you pay for should
00:01:05.000 be be buying me gifts and buying the family gifts that's the stuff that you should be paying for right
00:01:09.080 that's what you'd want your money to be spent on i think that a man and woman can go equal as in 0.94
00:01:15.860 if we're going on a day or or we're going out to a restaurant for dinner it can be split in half
00:01:21.180 it can be i can put on a parachute i'm not expecting you to to pay therefore i think that i'm still doing
00:01:28.080 my stuff you can do your stuff it's just not about protection it's about lots of things yeah but
00:01:33.000 we're not saying what you can do i could put on a jump uh a parachute and jump off this this penthouse
00:01:39.060 right now i could do that but that wouldn't make any sense what would make sense is me getting an
00:01:43.100 elevator what makes sense is the man paying for it because you are in a relationship that's why
00:01:48.200 you're the first thing you said was cooking food your innate brain was to go straight to the kitchen
00:01:53.720 and if i was to say to you go straight to the kitchen you might kick me because you're a black 0.99
00:01:58.640 belt if i was to say it but your dna was like food provision home because that is that is the natural 0.80
00:02:07.600 order of things like it's what man and woman's supposed to do we protect it's like i said you don't
00:02:13.000 you don't see nobody fighting for women to go and fight in ukraine when they sent them all here 1.00
00:02:17.300 it's the men over there fighting where where's the people protesting for the women to stay in the 0.99
00:02:23.280 army and fight the russian men it's quiet women only want equality when it comes that they don't want 1.00
00:02:33.180 equality when it comes to relationships they want equality everybody else but in terms of relationships
00:02:36.960 we want to keep it additional so you have to kind of pick a side i still think that men and women both
00:02:43.120 have to maintain the relationship together a man still got to put in just as much as effort as a
00:02:50.420 woman i i agree i agree with that i think i i think i i think i said that earlier like a man has to
00:02:56.940 compete we we compete daily i think we day in day out we compete show me the number one of the number
00:03:02.660 one causes of divorce is financial women tend to leave um 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 percent 1.00
00:03:07.840 if she's college educated so men have to compete every day in the workforce to to keep us one of 1.00
00:03:12.640 the number one indicators that a man is going to get divorced is that his woman out earns him
00:03:16.820 so it's like if they don't make enough money we leave statistically they want on someone on their
00:03:22.700 level or above yeah so but anyways i have a i have an unpopular opinion and i've been thinking about
00:03:27.420 this i've been thinking about this for like four days now so it's a lot of fun yeah because this
00:03:32.960 girl came on my show on tuesday and she was talking about she was a side chick and everyone 0.99
00:03:38.300 in the comments and even sarah was saying oh she has low self-esteem and i was kind of thinking
00:03:42.780 i respect side chicks i really do i really i have a lot of respect for side and let me tell you why
00:03:50.380 okay one out of four marriages are sexless meaning that the man hasn't gotten sex i mean you could
00:03:57.220 argue the woman too but usually it's the woman withholding the sex um i think it's in three 1.00
00:04:02.100 months something like that and that's classified as sexless so if you're not sleeping with your
00:04:08.920 husband and a girl says i'm gonna she sees an opportunity she's like oh this guy could protect
00:04:15.380 provide um i i think he would be a good boyfriend or good husband can you really be mad if he gets a
00:04:21.580 side chick if if you're not sleeping with him anyway nope so anyways so you would say no you 0.81
00:04:29.140 agree with me okay yeah i wouldn't be mad because i'm like go for it honey yeah like if she saw an
00:04:34.160 opportunity i'm like god what do you think uh i don't know about that i think that he should be
00:04:40.620 loyal because they're made to what it's it's not all about it's not all about that is it it's it's
00:04:48.040 about lots of other things that if if a woman's not sleeping with you there's obviously a reason 1.00
00:04:52.800 for it so you've got to get to that reason before getting someone out what if it's a stupid reason 0.50
00:04:58.760 what's the stupid reason like i'm insecure with my body uh 0.71
00:05:02.940 i don't feel like it i don't um i don't know i think that is a stupid reason and and to not sleep
00:05:17.480 with someone because of that is is mad but i don't think that it's okay for a man to go and get a side
00:05:24.220 chick just because of that where's the loyalty at like when we get in a relationship i'm getting
00:05:29.600 in a relationship with you thinking that you're gonna respect me be loyal yeah but he went in the
00:05:35.160 relationship thinking he was gonna get sex yeah would you buy a car without an engine no so like
00:05:43.460 what if you what if you bought a car and then boom three months in the engines
00:05:47.000 and he's like he's like he's like shit i gotta get to work why am i car moving i've got a steering 0.89
00:05:55.320 wheel gears rear view mirror door boot i've got all everything why am i car moving because women 1.00
00:06:01.600 seem to forget that the engine in the relationship is that coochie that's what we go to work for 0.88
00:06:05.900 that's what we do 20 hours 40 hours 60 hours for so we can come home hear nothing and be blessed
00:06:11.260 with god's greatest creation i get that i just still don't think it's all right for a man to
00:06:17.540 just go elsewhere i used to i used to kind of think like that then i changed my mind yeah that's four
00:06:23.800 days four days it's not a long time you think about it because honestly i wasn't even mad that
00:06:32.620 she was a side chick i was like you're just being lazy with it like i swear to god like if you're gonna 0.71
00:06:36.840 be a side chick compete you're already in that role compete try to win no but some side 1.00
00:06:42.000 i watched that episode her issue was that she said she wouldn't trust him because then she thinks
00:06:48.520 that he would then just well i'm just saying she was already in love like she's basically in love
00:06:51.920 with him so i'm like you're already in that situation but side chicks like being side chicks
00:06:56.720 though because there's benefits to being a side chick so pearl are you saying that a side chick 0.88
00:07:00.860 should be content with being the side chick that whoever you're speaking about you're saying
00:07:05.040 she should just be content no i said she should compete she should try to win right i'm not saying
00:07:10.000 it's good odds i'm not even saying i'd recommend it i'm just saying like i i can't fault someone if
00:07:15.300 you're if you're and i'm not saying i don't know the his girlfriend's situation whatever but it's like
00:07:21.120 i know the numbers behind it and i know there's a lot of men in marriages that they can't get out
00:07:24.620 because she can leave and take half your shit and she so and she can take your kids with you and then 1.00
00:07:30.380 on top of that like he's basically chained in because one out of four marriages are sexless so she
00:07:34.420 cannot sleep with him and then he doesn't want to get a divorce because she's going to take half 1.00
00:07:38.360 the shit so it's like if he's there's a lot of men that are in those situations and it's and it's 0.69
00:07:43.280 like if one out of four men are in those situations and another girl comes in and sees this like i just
00:07:49.900 i gotta respect the game that's all i say game i'm saying i gotta respect like it's the game you
00:07:55.280 shouldn't have neglected your like because girls will always talk about you know he cheated he cheated
00:08:00.780 and like go on social media and cry about it but we never talk about why did he cheat what were you
00:08:04.640 not doing that he cheated and the thing is women do this all the time since i can probably remember 1.00
00:08:11.680 because we know it's it's a sacrifice as men we know if we want to have a great career we've got
00:08:16.940 to sacrifice relationships and family if we don't want to be rich and famous then we'll have a great
00:08:21.440 family and we'll have you know we'll have great relationships so we've all heard the story of the
00:08:27.600 husband who works too much the husband who's always on a business trip yeah we what's wife doing
00:08:33.840 with her pt with her personal trainer with jose that does yoga what's going on tom brady and giselle
00:08:42.420 come on this is and this is and women have been doing this for time they make movies about it's 1.00
00:08:47.120 called sex in the city yeah it's a blockbuster who was buying those tickets he was going to watch that
00:08:55.400 and entertain that us lot did you go to the cinema to watch sex in the city no did you no but have you 0.54
00:09:01.360 watched it though no you sure promise all right so you agree though and you don't you you think he
00:09:12.660 should be loyal even if she's not sleeping with him yeah if if they're ready for a divorce and and
00:09:18.380 you know that's where the relationship's going or whatever and he's already falling in love with
00:09:24.540 someone else fine but he shouldn't just go and get a side chick because she's not sleeping with him 1.00
00:09:30.380 i just feel like what what happened to loyalty for for how long do you think so um as in how long could
00:09:38.000 she not sleep with him before he goes elsewhere if a man doesn't want to lose his assets because 1.00
00:09:43.280 especially in the uk i've heard divorce laws are really bad here where like a guy can lose up to 70
00:09:47.840 of his assets in a divorce and if he says you know what i want to keep my stuff and she's not having
00:09:53.980 sex with him how long should he deal with that until he cheats or should he just be in that forever
00:09:58.820 i don't think he should be in that forever obviously that's not fair at all but
00:10:05.000 that if if she's not sleeping with him because they aren't actually or or they're heading for a
00:10:12.000 divorce anyway that i think that's that's different he shouldn't just go out and find it because
00:10:15.940 she's not slept with him for a couple months i don't think that's all right no way so don't you
00:10:21.180 think that a man's gonna think right if my woman is not sleeping with me who is she sleeping with 1.00
00:10:26.120 because i mean if you if you flipped it and i wasn't sleeping with you for three months 0.83
00:10:35.740 that's what i would be thinking i'd be thinking i'd be thinking what i haven't stuck it on you for
00:10:40.540 free i walk past you in the kitchen and smack your ass nothing for three months you're gonna be in my 1.00
00:10:45.840 you're gonna be in my phone you're gonna be in my phone yeah that's true you're gonna be in my phone
00:10:49.560 figuring out who's riding it because it ain't it ain't been me
00:10:53.360 no i think she's like fair point
00:10:59.760 i agree i think that i would think you know if if i if he didn't sleep with me or whatever i'd be
00:11:11.120 thinking who is he sleeping with but i don't think that that makes it all right it's still not all
00:11:16.580 right how how does that make it okay i'm not i'm not even saying it's okay i just respect it
00:11:21.320 i heard a story blessing can i tell the zimbabwe story you told me yeah blessing was telling me the
00:11:27.720 other day that what happens is so i don't know if you guys a lot of men are leaving um the west to go
00:11:34.280 find wives so they're going to like places where women are a little bit more traditional in the east 0.98
00:11:38.620 and and um blessing told me because he's from zimbabwe that um bam like um the zimbabwe men here
00:11:45.720 will be dating a girl um or married to a girl and then basically they'll go do business in zimbabwe
00:11:51.760 for two months and those girls there are traditional and they want they look at that man like that is
00:11:57.520 their meal ticket so they treat him like an absolute king and just make like worship the ground he walks
00:12:02.480 on and like they ruin like families and well i don't recommend that it's like if if she's doing
00:12:09.080 something you're not i just respect the game it's game that's right yeah like modern women have lost the 1.00
00:12:16.300 game yeah they don't have no more game just sit there look pretty think if i put a bbl on i'll get
00:12:21.840 my life changed no you're nothing like great grandma you're nothing like grandma that was cooking pot
00:12:26.520 pies making meals for the boys getting the dominoes ready like playing the music there's so much
00:12:32.060 little things that modern women have losing out on with an experience by just feeling entitled for
00:12:38.340 some reason yeah well and it's just like because just common like a lot of guys will say like one
00:12:44.180 in four marriages are sexless on top of that like girls gain a bunch of weight after they get married 1.00
00:12:48.180 and then you know they stop sleeping them with them after they have the kids they don't cook they
00:12:52.840 don't clean they don't do the things that like men want and so it's like if a girl comes in if you're 1.00
00:12:58.100 not doing your job as a wife like how can you then leave the girl don't don't have a side chick 1.00
00:13:04.800 i i would agree with you i know what you're saying if the government didn't trap them i would agree with
00:13:10.840 you if they weren't i mean imagine working for 20 years and she could take 70 percent of that 1.00
00:13:17.020 and you know and the kids i think what it is a lot of the time when when um when it is like a sexless
00:13:25.360 marriage situation yeah a lot of the time that is kind of done on purpose because i think a lot of
00:13:31.560 um i think a lot of women know that that is leverage so they're not necessarily some sometimes it is done 1.00
00:13:38.020 on purpose i'm not going to do this okay because you're not doing this so i know that this is something
00:13:44.020 that i i know you want i'm not going to give it to you but when it's done with that kind of mindset
00:13:49.100 it's not worth it it's not it's definitely not worth it on for for the for the woman because it's 0.99
00:13:54.340 gonna again it's gonna make it's not gonna make that guy do anything go or it shouldn't really
00:13:59.520 because again that guy shouldn't be it should be sort of bending over for for for the punan
00:14:04.580 sounds like hell i feel sorry for them guys to be honest yeah
00:14:07.460 working paying the bills and not getting nothing at home dry sahara desert blue balls peak
00:14:15.080 it's peak it's pretty sad when you think about it though they must feel like trapped
00:14:19.960 yeah it's like it's like it's like it's not a really good advert for marriage is it to be honest
00:14:25.680 it's it's like you you would feel like you've been tricked because the beginning of the relationship
00:14:30.840 you were like humping like rabbits yeah and then halfway through uh you know suddenly
00:14:37.920 where's this person gone do you know what i mean that was that was jumping on me all them years ago
00:14:42.660 like why are you going for it yeah do you know what it is here women have like they're like innate 1.00
00:14:47.140 players so it's like once they've completed their mission of i've got your time and attention
00:14:52.400 they go dead as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily
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