JustPearlyThings - April 04, 2023


She Tried To Corner Zuby with this Question


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

193.79637

Word Count

2,168

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

8

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the controversial topic of homosexuality vs. gender dysphoria, and whether or not you should be allowed to like someone of the opposite sex if you have a sexual preference for someone of your opposite sex.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 just ask are you okay with homosexuals what does that mean what homosexuals oh i thought you said
00:00:07.800 something okay i thought i heard something different i was like is that a new term
00:00:11.420 are you okay with homosexuals what does that mean that's just what do you mean okay with it i know
00:00:19.600 what a homosexual is but what do you mean by okay with it okay so are they okay to decide that they
00:00:25.220 like someone of the opposite sex but they don't affect our lives of course they are it's a free
00:00:29.100 world oh okay so you can be gay but you can't change your gender when did i say that that's what
00:00:36.020 i'm trying to understand you cannot literally change your sex it's not possible just like i
00:00:41.480 just like you can't fly you you can't change your sex it's not possible okay so you define your gender
00:00:48.280 with the chromosome purely the chromosomes yeah it goes it goes beyond chromosomes we've said
00:00:54.180 you know there are there are chromosomes there's our reproductive our reproductive wiring there's
00:01:00.140 our hormonal profiles there's our physiques everything from our skeleton to our body mass
00:01:05.200 and so on there are many differences between males and females by the way not just in the human species
00:01:09.800 across the entire animal kingdom it's it's a it's a binary thing right every single person who exists
00:01:15.100 in this world was birthed by a woman with with no exceptions but that's the same conversation they had
00:01:20.300 with homosexuals because no let me let me finish i didn't say because the the recurring conversation
00:01:27.040 is because a man and a woman can reproduce so how can you like someone of the same sex because you
00:01:33.720 can't reproduce and that's the same conversation they had this was the um the defense that people
00:01:39.800 would always say to them no you're no it's like what's the major difference oh i can explain i can
00:01:44.240 explain easily your sexual preference i can explain this very easily it's not even a hard question
00:01:48.300 okay okay a homosexual is if a male who is attracted to males yeah it's a gay man right
00:01:55.680 a woman who is attracted to a female who's attracted other females is a lesbian woman
00:02:00.640 okay there's these are these are just objective okay if a female says that he if a female says that
00:02:07.980 she is a male or a male says that that he is a female that is you this is not objective reality
00:02:15.660 they're not even in the same sphere but that isn't objective just saying that you're attracted to
00:02:18.900 some some like your opposite sex that's not objective that's something that you actually have
00:02:23.280 to understand that person and i should be like no wait why is your sexual preference there are the
00:02:28.360 other look it's it's it's objective reality that there are men who are attracted to men
00:02:32.720 and there are women who are attracted to women because we're so forward thinking now
00:02:36.840 no no no no people didn't want to accept that but it's always whether or not they accepted it
00:02:41.660 it existed yeah but just like it always existed transgender always existed it's just now we're
00:02:47.240 having the conversation no no it didn't no it doesn't no the feeling that you feel like you
00:02:52.520 are gender dysphoria that's gender dysphoria you want to categorize that's what it's called
00:02:57.460 that's by definition this is what it's called transgenderism is gender dysphoria exists i've said
00:03:03.140 that there are males who feel like they identify more as the opposite sex there are females who feel
00:03:09.160 they identify no i agree with you because that exists there's people that actually trend um they
00:03:14.600 change into women and then five years down the line they're like actually it's the worst thing i've
00:03:19.620 ever done i want to be a man now there's a child there's a child that is dysphoria yeah it's a dysphoria
00:03:26.420 there are there are many there are people that that's how they feel and they continue in that life
00:03:33.140 and i've never uh you see you're you're the thing is you're arguing against points i'm not making
00:03:37.540 i've never at any point said that someone is not allowed to do that or someone is not allowed to
00:03:43.400 believe that or there are not people who genuinely feel that way yeah i am simply saying just because
00:03:48.280 you feel you are something does not make you that thing i can't just say just because you feel like
00:03:54.020 you're attracted to the opposite sex no it's because naturally no naturally you shouldn't be
00:04:00.100 attracted to the opposite sex no naturally even in the bible it talks about adam and eve even when
00:04:05.400 comes i think you mean should you should you should no yeah she means should oh okay yeah she
00:04:10.740 misspoke yeah she misspoke okay okay okay you need a man and a woman you said you shouldn't be
00:04:18.400 attracted to the opposite sex they were just correcting you but like the point the point you're
00:04:24.980 you're gonna make is is he's not even disagreeing with you he's saying there are people that feel
00:04:30.080 like they should be met like women that feel like they should be men and men that feel like they
00:04:33.520 should be women but throughout history they couldn't they weren't we didn't have trans there
00:04:37.740 weren't people doing the surgeries and stuff yeah so that's that's a new yeah or the hormones that's
00:04:42.220 a new thing so we should thank god that now we have the technology to do that should we
00:04:46.760 i mean either way can i ask you a question can i ask you one question if are you in a relationship
00:04:55.080 right now no okay place yourself in a relationship with a man man your dream man your dream man
00:05:02.980 dream house dream whole thing right and you're planning a wedding kids you're like i've got my
00:05:11.740 dream life and he turned around to you at dinner one night and said i feel that i i'm getting feelings
00:05:20.360 that i identify more as a woman and i am going to pursue looking at um you know speaking i don't know
00:05:30.840 speaking to a therapist and potentially getting surgery um will you support me and stay with me
00:05:37.320 and can we still have a family what would you do well i wouldn't stay with him because i'm not
00:05:43.600 attracted i i like straight heterosexual men i mean okay yeah but you just said you just said hang on
00:05:50.920 hang on you just said you just said that we have to be more accepting you know we have to understand
00:05:57.520 so this is your this is your boyfriend i'm not saying you're saying you don't have to understand
00:06:03.160 him but you have to understand everyone else i'm not be sexually attracted to him i can say you know
00:06:09.100 what i'm gonna be i'm gonna help you be a part of this process you wouldn't help him sexually i don't
00:06:14.100 want to even help him okay what if what if i have a question i have a question i have a question what
00:06:18.260 what if are we gonna ask the same question i feel like we think so you said you're attracted to
00:06:26.020 straight men what if this man that's transitioning to a woman still likes women he's still considered
00:06:33.380 a straight man so would you stay but i like a man that looks like a woman is not going to look like
00:06:40.220 a woman because to me you want a man that looks like a man you mean what if he has like short hair
00:06:44.840 just like a bob doesn't wear makeup natural look still looks like a man but it's like i identify
00:06:48.940 as a woman so what's making you a woman if you're not trying to look like a woman feeling you told me
00:06:54.880 it feels it just feels that way well you told me it's not about looks you told us it's not about
00:06:59.540 looks to look like a woman if he's saying you know what i'm i still look like a man and i feel like a
00:07:06.420 woman i guess because i see you as a man i can't really i guess the sexual attraction is still there
00:07:13.420 so what if okay i have a question so what if you're dating a guy okay you're super happy same
00:07:20.160 situation right and instead of him transitioning he tells you i used to be a girl oh that was
00:07:27.140 do you care you probably would have noticed but yeah yeah guys you get the best surgery just because
00:07:35.560 i want to understand them does not mean i'm attracted to it it doesn't mean sexually i want
00:07:40.780 to be with someone like that it just means i'm okay with you experimenting understanding
00:07:46.160 but that's the same thing zoopy was saying he's saying i don't care what you do you can do the
00:07:51.340 hell ever you want but that doesn't make what you're doing real but say so so and i think and i think on
00:07:57.420 some and i think on some level you know this and this is and like i just i don't know if you like to
00:08:02.820 argue or what because because you know deep down that bruce like bruce jenner caitlin whatever it
00:08:09.860 is didn't deserve that award like there's something in you that knows this but but it's like you're
00:08:15.040 you just like to argue i don't know what it is she does to me it just seems like it seems like either
00:08:20.360 you know some trans people and you're worried about affecting maybe you've got some friends that
00:08:25.140 are trans or you know trans people and that you're frightened um do you know what it is i feel like
00:08:30.360 because we're in a podcast already and we've kind of touched on this subject and we got a lot of
00:08:36.100 backlash for it because i was more outspoken about it but esther was more like sitting on the fence
00:08:42.420 about it you know like oh no no so i feel like she's trying to protect people's feelings that's
00:08:48.660 what i feel like you're not actually speaking your truth yeah do you know what okay i'll be honest
00:08:53.040 this is probably and i'm gonna be completely honest i grew up in a very christian traditional home
00:08:59.040 i remember when i was deeply into god i used to tell homosexuals that basically they're going to
00:09:06.120 hell and honestly back then i believed that that was the truth you are going to hell because you are
00:09:13.960 basically attracted to someone of the same sex and i remember someone i was in school with
00:09:18.980 i i used to upset him a lot and i didn't realize how upset he was because of the words that i say to him
00:09:27.100 but i couldn't help it because i'd go to church my pastor would start preaching about homosexuals and
00:09:32.020 how i have a question when did your mind um because zuby kind of asked this earlier but when did your mind
00:09:37.180 change on this stuff i would say maybe when i became a lot less religious and i started to think about
00:09:43.820 is it in university possibly um no i actually went i went to china actually i remember going to china and
00:09:51.760 in china the major thing that they have is they renounce all religion so they don't um they're
00:09:57.660 basically against christians muslim and all that and i think i liked the way that everyone was so
00:10:02.880 yeah i don't care and i think that because i was with a lot of like christians muslim and they were
00:10:08.120 all like yeah christian is the it's the right way and they were like no it's allah and i really thought
00:10:12.640 that was quite ignorant to not listen to people and think your way is the right way and i think it
00:10:17.980 made me start to really take things back to and i thought about that guy that i really upset
00:10:22.720 because that was generally my truth but then now i look back at here i'm like how the hell but you're
00:10:29.180 saying that you upset that guy how about them upsetting us women but he's not done anything to
00:10:34.580 upset us real women they're not upsetting us though i think i mean i think i think that i think the leah
00:10:40.680 thomas the girl that got second girl no leah thomas when she won the when he he won the woman's like
00:10:48.440 swimming title whoever the hell was in second place i'm sure she was upset but that's what happens when
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