JustPearlyThings - April 03, 2023


She Tried To DEFEND Sex Workers And THIS HAPPENED

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Sheldon Domino
The TRUTH About Modern Women She Tried To Corner Zuby with this Question

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Length

10 minutes

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211.04

Word count

2,292

Sentence count

220

Harmful content

Misogyny

21

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Toxicity

24

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the perils of only fans, stripping and sex work. We are joined by photographer and lingerie photographer, to talk about the dangers of sex work, the benefits of it, and how to deal with it.

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00:00:00.000 If we could, if we could, so like, so the thing is, is that, so the way that you talk, it's kind of like in this, this, this, my truth, you know, it just is what it is.
00:00:08.220 Everyone can make decisions.
00:00:09.460 But at the same time, as I hear it, it sounds like people can make decisions without repercussions or consequences.
00:00:15.400 And I think that's on a slippery slope because when we do that, it starts to get away from accountability.
00:00:20.300 And the thing is, is like when you look at generally what men typically want out of women, men typically do not want women that have been conquered sufficiently and especially have done it for money and especially have put their viscous innards up on the Internet. 0.75
00:00:38.100 But there's also a massive misconception that, like the gentleman said, there's a lot of women that only sleep with their boyfriends on there. 0.96
00:00:46.100 And also that there's a misconception that if you do only found your easy, whereas it's most of the time, it's actually very opposite to get in contact with this woman.
00:00:55.780 Normally, you have to pay up front.
00:00:57.480 Like you're not, she's not, she gets so many DMs a day. 0.97
00:01:00.900 She's not going to respond to you.
00:01:02.260 And it's immoral in the way of like money, money, money comes first.
00:01:06.080 But I'm saying there's a misconception that just because a girl does only fans that she's maybe easy or easy, easy access.
00:01:11.920 But that's not what I'm saying. 0.77
00:01:13.900 It's sex work.
00:01:16.020 Men of value.
00:01:17.000 If you can, if you want to, entertainment.
00:01:20.640 Besides, let's say like a Kanye West, what people in entertainment have women that have done only fans publicly? 0.99
00:01:30.400 There's a lot of people that do Playboy and like maybe not as graphic,
00:01:35.400 but there's still, there's still men that will.
00:01:37.360 Married women with children? 1.00
00:01:38.620 So you went, so you went, so you went, you went for a little supermodel. 0.99
00:01:41.940 My memory is terrible.
00:01:43.220 I'm just saying it should be easy if it happens a lot.
00:01:45.560 There's loads.
00:01:46.640 Five.
00:01:47.260 If you would have asked me to before, I could have probably researched it, but no, not off the top of my head, no.
00:01:51.220 Do you guys consider actresses?
00:01:52.140 But I'm saying if this was common, if this was common, like you should be able to, to name five or at least one, two, three off the top of your head.
00:01:59.460 I think far too often when we have these conversations, if women, if women's goal is to be with men, then you have to consider what men want.
00:02:06.700 And irrespective of the brand, if she had been involved with that, it's going to deselect a lot of women. 1.00
00:02:14.840 And here's the thing.
00:02:15.380 There's a lot of women that sit in situationships that think they're in good standing with the man, but the man just don't say ish. 0.57
00:02:20.400 But they continue in that situationship and just don't tell her the truth while it's still extracting, while still extracting their insides.
00:02:30.320 So they're getting what they want and they already know there's going to be an expiration date at the end of it.
00:02:34.640 So the thing is, is what is your goal?
00:02:37.160 And how are you working towards your goal?
00:02:39.480 What are the actions that you're putting in the place?
00:02:41.660 And I think if we, if it's on a slippery slope where you're not understanding what men want, and if the result is a man, then you have to make some changes within the way that you move within that.
00:02:49.600 Well, I think it's obvious.
00:02:51.320 If Charlotte doing OnlyFans, she's not thinking about getting married.
00:02:55.800 That's the last thing on my mind.
00:02:57.120 Exactly.
00:02:57.820 That's not what she's trying to do.
00:02:59.580 Until time runs out.
00:03:01.280 The wall.
00:03:01.600 She has to, yeah.
00:03:02.780 And then she has to think about something.
00:03:04.920 Have you ever thought about it or considered it or done it OnlyFans or stripping?
00:03:10.140 No, because you just seem really like, it's like part of you, like you're in the circle.
00:03:13.900 You know, I have a lot of, I have a lot of close friends that do it and I can understand.
00:03:18.360 And even being a photographer that does lingerie and I, I promote body positivity.
00:03:23.800 So I post myself in lingerie on my, my content.
00:03:26.980 I'm plus size.
00:03:28.040 I try to like, do you know what I mean?
00:03:29.500 So it's not, it's not exactly that, but like it's kind of within a tiny bit of a window with it.
00:03:34.960 You go further.
00:03:36.620 Do you think you're going to start there now and you're going to get so body positivity, you're going to get so positive about your body.
00:03:42.260 You're going to think, you know what?
00:03:43.120 My friends are doing it.
00:03:44.440 I can go and be positive.
00:03:46.420 OnlyFans and get paid for it. 1.00
00:03:48.000 Like a Domino's effect.
00:03:48.960 If I did, I would understand the repercussions.
00:03:52.640 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:53.120 No, it just sounds like you're, you're already invested in that whole.
00:03:56.520 Yeah.
00:03:56.760 I just think, I don't know.
00:03:57.780 I just think some, like there's a bit of an unfair vision on it sometimes, but I understand why.
00:04:04.440 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:05.380 But it's like when you're arguing, it's kind of like, do I want a thief in my house?
00:04:08.980 No.
00:04:09.500 Right.
00:04:09.860 Yeah.
00:04:10.220 Does it matter if, you know, maybe, maybe that, maybe that thief stole $5 worth of stuff
00:04:15.300 and that thief stole 50, but they're still both thieves.
00:04:18.180 And that's what I'm saying with the guys, the way the guys think about promiscuity.
00:04:21.900 Okay.
00:04:22.100 Maybe, maybe the regular girl's worse. 1.00
00:04:24.020 That's not in sex work, but then guys don't want either.
00:04:26.840 Can I just say though, if you're speaking about regular girls that do it, they're not actually 0.62
00:04:30.440 putting it out there.
00:04:31.360 So you wouldn't know what they're doing anyway.
00:04:33.680 And also saying that girls that are in sex work might not do it as regular as a regular 1.00
00:04:38.300 girl, but maybe they haven't actually been given the opportunity if they're trying to
00:04:42.360 make money off it.
00:04:43.160 So who like sex workers, if you're saying that they do it less than a regular girl. 1.00
00:04:49.620 Oh, I don't say that.
00:04:51.300 To your point, you said like sometimes regular girls do it more than a sex worker, but maybe 1.00
00:04:56.160 the sex worker is not meeting anyone that's actually willing to pay.
00:04:58.900 So they haven't presented the opportunity.
00:05:01.220 If you move around out here, we know.
00:05:03.280 It goes from group chat to group chat.
00:05:04.720 Boys know boys.
00:05:06.040 Boys know that. 0.72
00:05:06.960 Like if you think that you're private and you've had sex with say 20 boys and they don't
00:05:10.640 know each other, they know.
00:05:12.700 Men know 100%.
00:05:14.620 We call that the whole facts.
00:05:16.240 We know it.
00:05:16.660 We know it.
00:05:17.580 They know it.
00:05:18.460 You feel me?
00:05:18.920 Even it's like...
00:05:20.120 All right, let's say me and you first start talking.
00:05:22.140 They just haven't been given the opportunity to do that because they're wanting money from
00:05:25.960 it.
00:05:26.380 So it's like if they got 20 like guys a week saying, I'll give you this, would they do it
00:05:30.980 and then be worse than a regular girl because now they're actually getting paid for it. 0.92
00:05:34.180 Whereas a lot of guys will be, as soon as they find out a girl wants money for it, they're
00:05:37.040 not going to do it because why would I give you money when I can get it for free?
00:05:39.680 And a lot of men argue, sorry, that, oh, I wouldn't subscribe to an OnlyFans because
00:05:43.620 I have girls that send it to me for free. 1.00
00:05:45.500 So the actual nudes and the spreading and all that stuff isn't the issue.
00:05:49.700 It is the money part.
00:05:51.740 Can I say that's kind of a lie?
00:05:52.800 Why would it maybe, yeah, obviously you still maybe might not marry the woman that's doing 0.89
00:05:58.960 that.
00:05:59.600 Yeah, but guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys want you to send nudes to them and only them.
00:06:05.960 Yeah, not, even if he found out you sent nudes to three of his friends, you'd be out the
00:06:10.820 same way.
00:06:11.240 Immediately.
00:06:11.820 Yes, yes, yes.
00:06:12.320 Men are very personal.
00:06:13.120 It's like it's just for me.
00:06:14.480 It's just for them.
00:06:15.420 Let me tell y'all something.
00:06:17.140 I'm going to put y'all on some lingo where I'm at, Atlanta.
00:06:20.040 If we feel like a girl that's been around and we know she's been around, we say she's
00:06:26.620 burnt out.
00:06:27.740 You know what I'm saying?
00:06:28.640 Now, if you own OnlyFans or if you're not on OnlyFans, you can still be burnt out.
00:06:34.460 It's way we can tell.
00:06:35.700 We can tell about how you move.
00:06:38.480 You know what I'm saying?
00:06:39.320 So let's say me and you first start dealing with each other.
00:06:41.940 Well, I don't know you.
00:06:43.420 We just talking.
00:06:44.280 The vibe, cool, whatever.
00:06:46.720 I'm going to take you to the club.
00:06:48.000 Let's go to the club.
00:06:48.780 Let's go to the spot where everybody be at.
00:06:52.740 When we walk in this spot, I can tell about how you move around in this spot and what
00:06:57.900 men in here know you.
00:06:59.520 And I can look at how you acting and tell how you moving, whether you burnt out or not.
00:07:05.800 So it ain't got nothing to do with OnlyFans.
00:07:07.640 It ain't got nothing to do with none of that.
00:07:09.580 It's about how you really moving out here.
00:07:11.520 And men going to know.
00:07:13.040 We're going to know. 1.00
00:07:14.220 Like y'all not good enough to hide that shit. 1.00
00:07:15.920 I feel like a lot of girls that go to the club, they might not actually do it. 0.99
00:07:22.080 Whereas you will meet a lot of homebodies, for example, that they're always at home, but
00:07:26.160 a man's always with them.
00:07:27.740 And it don't have to be the same man.
00:07:29.100 It could just be a different man.
00:07:30.240 You wouldn't know because if someone feels shame about it or anything, they're not going
00:07:33.760 to tell you.
00:07:34.220 They'll just lie.
00:07:34.760 So you will never know really what goes on in someone's life unless you've got proof.
00:07:39.860 I always hear from guys that like women always tell on themselves that a girl can fool you, 1.00
00:07:43.960 but only for so long.
00:07:45.200 Do you guys think that's true?
00:07:46.340 Man, for sure.
00:07:47.680 You're going to know.
00:07:49.280 Like maybe not at first.
00:07:51.000 Like I feel like it's like maybe not at first, but if you do enough, someone's going to talk.
00:07:55.340 And so you might see the quiet girl at the party or whatever, but then you get to know
00:07:59.760 her a little better.
00:08:00.600 You see who's around her and someone's, you know.
00:08:03.240 Bro, a city that you living in, now if you're going to a fresh city and don't nobody know
00:08:08.960 you around there, then you got a fresh start.
00:08:13.420 But if all of us grew up in London, we went to high school in London, we played football
00:08:17.980 in London, we graduated from London, we went to different colleges around here.
00:08:24.700 When I get to bringing you around, yeah, somebody going to edit my old words.
00:08:29.760 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:08:31.220 Oh, you fucking with Sheldon? 1.00
00:08:32.660 Man, Sheldon hard, man. 1.00
00:08:33.900 Sheldon throat baby for real.
00:08:36.080 They're going to let me know what's going on.
00:08:38.040 It's just how they go. 0.72
00:08:39.820 Do you guys think it's hypocritical for men to consume corn while shaming sex workers? 0.92
00:08:48.060 Yes. 0.94
00:08:48.740 Yes.
00:08:49.020 Yes.
00:08:49.800 Yes.
00:08:50.380 Big yes.
00:08:51.020 Yes.
00:08:51.600 Yes. 0.99
00:08:52.380 Because all men watch porn. 1.00
00:08:55.000 So it ain't... 0.98
00:08:55.620 Corn.
00:08:55.800 Corn.
00:08:56.540 All men watch corn because the amount of men, 0.99
00:08:59.760 that can get sex compared to women. 1.00
00:09:02.020 That's why men watch corn. 1.00
00:09:03.220 It's the fantasy of, oh, I wish I could have this or I feel like I want to have this,
00:09:07.140 but they can't get it compared to women. 1.00
00:09:09.020 No.
00:09:09.280 No, that's not why.
00:09:09.820 Would you not think so?
00:09:10.280 Would you not think...
00:09:10.780 No, that's not why.
00:09:11.380 That's why I think men... 0.93
00:09:13.220 Sometimes we don't feel like doing all it required to go have sex with y'all. 0.90
00:09:18.680 So instead of going calling y'all, dealing with y'all, picking y'all up, spending money, 0.90
00:09:24.240 finding somewhere to take y'all, doing this, that, and the third, and still might not get
00:09:28.060 no cushion.
00:09:29.140 I'll just do it and be done with it.
00:09:32.100 Now my mind, clear, I can go back and do what I'm doing.
00:09:34.360 I just think men are horny. 0.96
00:09:35.900 We be horny. 0.53
00:09:36.660 Yeah.
00:09:37.120 It just is an easy, accessible thing to get nowadays.
00:09:40.580 You feel me?
00:09:41.040 So you're going to use it.
00:09:41.860 But you got some girls who be like, man, I need that. 0.64
00:09:44.780 I got that.
00:09:45.620 So I'm going to go through that.
00:09:46.660 I saw you shaking your head.
00:09:48.040 I saw you thinking.
00:09:48.900 Yeah. 0.85
00:09:49.140 Is it hypocritical or no?
00:09:51.620 Yeah. 0.76
00:09:52.280 No, it definitely is.
00:09:53.420 But I think a lot of dudes are making a rational decision because to get ready for a date,
00:09:59.680 there's a lot of things that you got to be able to do.
00:10:02.300 So whether or not you're busy on a Friday night, you might just do that real quick, get
00:10:07.940 it out the way.
00:10:08.540 You could get back to your utility, working on your purpose if you got a lot of work to
00:10:13.140 do. 0.92
00:10:13.300 So yeah, it could be hypocritical.
00:10:15.520 But I know you said 100% of dudes wash corn.
00:10:18.660 I don't.
00:10:19.340 You know, I make my own.
00:10:21.120 Watch myself.
00:10:22.800 Okay.
00:10:23.300 I like that.
00:10:24.280 I like that.
00:10:24.620 Howl to the people, man.
00:10:27.600 It's a cheat code.
00:10:28.600 It's a cheat code.
00:10:30.480 You make what you like.
00:10:32.540 Okay.
00:10:33.400 Okay.
00:10:33.760 All right.
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