JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2023


Blue haired feminist couldn’t stomach this Fact


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10 minutes

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Word count

2,086

Sentence count

184

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Misogyny

24

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Hate speech

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about the dangers of sex work and why men don t want to do it. We also talk about how to deal with the pressures of being a woman in the public eye and how to handle it.

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00:00:00.000 If I did, I would understand the repercussions.
00:00:03.580 Do you know what I mean?
00:00:04.060 No, because it just sounds like you're already invested in that whole...
00:00:07.460 Yeah, I just think, I don't know, I just think some, like,
00:00:10.720 there's a bit of an unfair vision on it sometimes,
00:00:13.680 but I understand why.
00:00:15.400 Do you know what I mean?
00:00:16.320 But it's like when you're arguing, it's kind of like,
00:00:17.960 do I want a thief in my house?
00:00:19.920 No, right?
00:00:20.760 Yeah.
00:00:21.060 Does it matter if, you know, maybe that thief stole $5 worth of stuff
00:00:26.240 and that thief stole $50, but they're still both thieves.
00:00:29.120 And that's what I'm saying with the guys,
00:00:30.720 the way the guys think about promiscuity.
00:00:32.880 Okay, maybe the regular girl's worse that's not in sex work, 1.00
00:00:36.060 but then guys don't want either.
00:00:37.880 Can I just say, though, if you're speaking about regular girls that do it, 0.65
00:00:40.900 they're not actually putting it out there,
00:00:42.400 so you wouldn't know what they're doing anyway.
00:00:45.100 And also saying that girls that are in sex work 1.00
00:00:47.840 might not do it as regular as a regular girl, 1.00
00:00:49.660 but maybe they haven't actually been given the opportunity
00:00:51.980 if they're trying to make money off it.
00:00:54.100 Who?
00:00:54.960 Like sex workers. 0.95
00:00:55.800 Because if you're saying that they do it less than a regular girl... 1.00
00:01:00.540 Oh, I don't say that.
00:01:02.740 To your point, you said, like,
00:01:04.400 sometimes regular girls do it more than a sex worker, 1.00
00:01:06.480 but maybe the sex worker's not meeting anyone
00:01:08.520 that's actually willing to pay.
00:01:10.020 So they haven't presented the opportunity.
00:01:12.060 If you move around out here, we know.
00:01:14.220 It goes from group chat to group chat.
00:01:15.620 Boys know boys.
00:01:16.980 Boys know that, like,
00:01:18.160 if you think that you're private
00:01:19.300 and you've had sex with, say, 20 boys 0.52
00:01:21.020 and they don't know each other,
00:01:22.700 they know.
00:01:23.660 Men know 100%.
00:01:25.560 We call that the whole facts.
00:01:27.180 We know it.
00:01:27.600 We know it.
00:01:28.480 They know it.
00:01:29.380 You feel me?
00:01:29.860 Even with, like...
00:01:31.040 All right, let's see me and you first start talking.
00:01:33.080 They just haven't been given the opportunity
00:01:34.420 to do that because they're wanting money from it.
00:01:37.260 So it's like,
00:01:37.900 if they got 20, like, guys a week saying,
00:01:40.780 I'll give you this,
00:01:41.400 would they do it and then be worse than a regular girl 1.00
00:01:43.460 because now they're actually getting paid for it?
00:01:45.120 Whereas a lot of guys will be...
00:01:46.360 As soon as they find out a girl wants money for it, 1.00
00:01:47.820 they're not going to do it
00:01:48.680 because why would I give you money
00:01:49.720 when I can get it for free?
00:01:50.600 And a lot of men argue, sorry,
00:01:52.100 that, oh, I wouldn't subscribe to an OnlyFans
00:01:54.360 because I have girls that send it to me for free. 1.00
00:01:56.440 So the actual nudes and the spreading 1.00
00:01:58.480 and all that stuff isn't the issue.
00:02:00.640 It is the money part.
00:02:02.680 Can I say that's kind of a lie?
00:02:03.600 Obviously, you still wouldn't maybe...
00:02:04.560 Because men are builders.
00:02:05.520 Yeah, but obviously,
00:02:06.260 you still maybe might not marry the woman
00:02:09.280 that's doing that.
00:02:10.520 Yeah, but...
00:02:11.240 Men don't want what we're supposed to do. 0.99
00:02:13.320 Guys want you to send nudes to them 0.95
00:02:15.660 and only them.
00:02:16.900 Yeah, even if he found out you sent nudes
00:02:19.920 to three of his friends,
00:02:21.000 you'd be out the same way.
00:02:22.180 Immediately.
00:02:22.760 Yes, yes, yes.
00:02:23.260 Men are very personal.
00:02:24.260 It's just for me.
00:02:25.420 It's just for them.
00:02:26.360 Let me tell y'all something.
00:02:28.060 I'm going to put y'all on some lingo
00:02:29.000 where I'm at, Atlanta.
00:02:33.180 If we feel like a girl that's been around 1.00
00:02:35.340 and we know she's been around,
00:02:37.060 we say she burnt out.
00:02:38.680 You know what I'm saying?
00:02:39.580 Now, if you own OnlyFans
00:02:40.900 or if you're not on OnlyFans,
00:02:42.760 you can still be burnt out.
00:02:44.260 It's a way we can tell.
00:02:46.660 We can tell about how you move.
00:02:49.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:02:50.240 So let's say me and you first start
00:02:51.660 dealing with each other.
00:02:52.880 Well, I don't know you.
00:02:54.340 We just talking.
00:02:55.200 The vibe, cool, whatever.
00:02:57.760 I'm going to take you to the club.
00:02:58.940 Let's go to the club.
00:03:00.260 Let's go to the spot where everybody be at.
00:03:03.880 When we walk in this spot,
00:03:05.120 I can tell about how you move around in this spot
00:03:07.600 and what men here know you
00:03:09.920 and I can look at how you acting
00:03:12.620 and tell how you moving,
00:03:15.220 whether you burnt out or not.
00:03:16.740 So it ain't got nothing to do with OnlyFans.
00:03:18.600 It ain't got nothing to do with none of that.
00:03:20.520 It's about how you really moving out here
00:03:22.080 and men going to know.
00:03:23.960 We're going to know.
00:03:25.200 Y'all are not good enough to hide that shit.
00:03:27.540 I feel like a lot of girls that go to the club,
00:03:30.560 they might not actually do it,
00:03:33.020 whereas you will meet a lot of home bodies,
00:03:35.040 for example, that they're always at home,
00:03:37.020 but a man's always with them.
00:03:38.640 And it don't have to be the same man.
00:03:40.060 It could just be a different man.
00:03:41.200 You wouldn't know
00:03:41.800 because if someone feels shame about it or anything,
00:03:44.400 they're not going to tell you.
00:03:45.160 They'll just lie.
00:03:46.140 So you will never know really
00:03:47.860 what goes on in someone's life
00:03:49.180 unless you've got proof.
00:03:50.620 I always hear from guys
00:03:51.880 that women always tell on themselves 1.00
00:03:53.540 that a girl can fool you, 0.97
00:03:54.860 but only for so long.
00:03:56.140 Do you guys think that's true?
00:03:57.280 Yeah, for sure.
00:03:58.620 You're going to know.
00:04:00.520 Maybe not at first.
00:04:01.920 I feel like it's maybe not at first,
00:04:03.820 but if you do enough,
00:04:04.820 someone's going to talk.
00:04:06.300 And so you might see
00:04:07.340 the quiet girl at the party or whatever,
00:04:09.340 but then you get to know her a little better.
00:04:11.540 You see who's around her
00:04:12.400 and someone's, you know.
00:04:14.180 Bro, a city that you're living in,
00:04:17.280 now if you're going to a fresh city
00:04:18.780 and don't nobody know you around there,
00:04:21.400 then you got a fresh start.
00:04:24.360 But if all of us grew up in London,
00:04:26.620 we went to high school in London,
00:04:28.100 we played football in London,
00:04:29.560 we graduated from London,
00:04:32.140 we went to different colleges around here.
00:04:35.680 When I get to bringing you around,
00:04:37.980 yeah, somebody going to,
00:04:39.380 that's my old words, man.
00:04:41.380 You know what I'm saying?
00:04:42.140 Oh, you fucking with Shawty.
00:04:43.600 Man, Shawty hard, man.
00:04:44.840 Shawty throat baby, for real. 0.95
00:04:46.980 They're going to let me know what's going on.
00:04:48.980 That's just how that go.
00:04:50.720 Do you guys think it's hypocritical
00:04:52.680 for men to consume corn 0.95
00:04:55.280 while shaming sex workers? 1.00
00:04:59.040 Yes.
00:04:59.680 Yes, yes, yes.
00:05:01.320 Big yes.
00:05:01.980 Yes.
00:05:02.560 Yes.
00:05:03.300 Because all men watch porn. 1.00
00:05:05.920 So it ain't...
00:05:06.480 Corn.
00:05:06.840 Corn.
00:05:07.480 All men watch corn 1.00
00:05:09.180 because the amount of men
00:05:10.940 that can get sex compared to women. 1.00
00:05:12.940 That's why men watch corn. 1.00
00:05:14.160 It's the fantasy of,
00:05:15.460 oh, I wish I could have this
00:05:16.680 or I feel like I want to have this,
00:05:18.080 but they can't get it compared to the amount of women. 1.00
00:05:20.020 No, that's not why.
00:05:20.440 Would you not think so?
00:05:21.220 Would you not think...
00:05:21.720 No, that's not why.
00:05:22.320 That's why I think men...
00:05:24.160 Sometimes we don't feel like doing
00:05:26.120 all it required to go have sex with y'all. 0.94
00:05:29.680 So instead of going and calling y'all,
00:05:31.820 dealing with y'all,
00:05:33.100 picking y'all up,
00:05:33.980 spending money,
00:05:35.180 finding somewhere to take y'all,
00:05:36.460 doing this, that and the third,
00:05:37.820 and still might not get no coochie,
00:05:40.060 I'll just do this
00:05:41.800 and be done with it.
00:05:43.060 Now my mind is clear.
00:05:44.000 I can go back and do what I'm doing.
00:05:45.300 I just think men are horny. 0.96
00:05:46.900 We be horny.
00:05:47.620 Yeah, it just is an easy,
00:05:49.900 accessible thing to get nowadays.
00:05:51.520 You feel me?
00:05:51.920 But you got some girls 1.00
00:05:54.140 who you're like,
00:05:54.540 man, I need that.
00:05:55.720 I got to have it.
00:05:56.600 So I'm going to go through that.
00:05:57.600 I saw you shaking your head.
00:05:58.980 I saw you thinking.
00:05:59.860 Yeah.
00:06:00.080 Is it hypocritical or no?
00:06:02.480 Yeah.
00:06:03.220 No, it definitely is.
00:06:04.340 But I think a lot of dudes
00:06:05.200 are making a rational decision
00:06:07.260 because to get ready for a date,
00:06:10.600 there's a lot of things
00:06:11.240 that you got to be able to do.
00:06:12.360 So whether or not you're busy
00:06:16.640 on a Friday night,
00:06:17.540 you might just do that real quick,
00:06:18.780 get it out of the way,
00:06:19.460 you can get back to your utility
00:06:20.680 or working on your purpose
00:06:22.440 if you got a lot of work to do.
00:06:24.700 So yeah, it could be hypocritical,
00:06:26.320 but I know you said 100% of dudes
00:06:28.280 watch corn.
00:06:29.580 I don't.
00:06:30.260 I make my own.
00:06:32.060 Watch myself.
00:06:33.740 Okay.
00:06:34.300 I like that.
00:06:35.480 Power to the people, man.
00:06:38.540 It's a cheat code.
00:06:39.540 It's a cheat code.
00:06:41.200 You make what you like.
00:06:42.640 You know what I mean?
00:06:43.480 Okay.
00:06:44.340 Okay.
00:06:45.060 All right.
00:06:46.760 I'm in for that.
00:06:47.860 Make your own porn.
00:06:48.700 I'm in for that.
00:06:50.460 Corn, corn, corn.
00:06:51.480 Please don't, guys, guys.
00:06:52.520 Corn, corn, corn.
00:06:53.600 I need us to really focus on this word
00:06:55.720 so the stream doesn't get taken down.
00:06:57.500 Corn, yes.
00:06:58.240 Corn, okay.
00:06:58.840 Corn on the cob.
00:06:59.340 Yes, corn.
00:07:00.260 Auntie, Auntie, is it hypocritical,
00:07:02.580 yes or no?
00:07:04.360 Hypocritical for what?
00:07:05.240 For men to watch corn
00:07:06.660 but shame sex workers. 1.00
00:07:10.720 It's hypocritical,
00:07:11.700 but it's understandable
00:07:12.440 because if I had the woman 0.71
00:07:14.960 that was giving it to them,
00:07:15.780 they wouldn't have to watch it.
00:07:17.340 So they need to add it somewhere.
00:07:18.860 Otherwise, that's where
00:07:19.620 you start talking about,
00:07:21.120 was it incels?
00:07:21.820 I found out the other day,
00:07:22.820 that word.
00:07:23.940 So corn prevents incels.
00:07:28.740 At least they're getting some.
00:07:30.260 So that's how you need
00:07:32.580 to get that off of your body.
00:07:34.660 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:35.800 You just need to get it off of you
00:07:37.040 so you can think right.
00:07:38.980 I'm up for making your own.
00:07:40.720 I'm up for making your own.
00:07:42.040 I really,
00:07:42.720 is there like any studies
00:07:43.860 that go over
00:07:44.500 like the rate,
00:07:45.380 the rate of R
00:07:47.720 decreasing as hub
00:07:50.380 has increased?
00:07:50.980 I don't know.
00:07:52.200 That would be so interesting.
00:07:53.760 Yeah.
00:07:54.900 That would be,
00:07:55.540 I'll look it up.
00:07:56.580 Do you want to tell me your opinion?
00:07:59.860 What was the question again?
00:08:01.300 Do you think it's hypocritical
00:08:02.480 for men to shame sex workers
00:08:04.020 but watch corn?
00:08:04.840 I think that
00:08:06.120 a lot of men
00:08:08.140 pretend respect women. 0.96
00:08:11.120 So just as women,
00:08:12.420 not all,
00:08:13.340 not all,
00:08:13.900 but I'm saying
00:08:14.360 in the sex industry
00:08:16.740 especially,
00:08:17.900 a man might pretend
00:08:19.640 to respect what you do.
00:08:20.960 I've had it before
00:08:21.820 in the sense of like
00:08:23.760 a man will be like, 0.95
00:08:24.600 I respect what you do.
00:08:25.740 I like,
00:08:26.220 big up you.
00:08:26.940 You're amazing.
00:08:27.980 We're lying.
00:08:28.860 Because they want pussy. 1.00
00:08:29.440 And then as soon as they know
00:08:31.060 that sex is not on the table,
00:08:33.460 it's like,
00:08:33.920 you're a ho. 1.00
00:08:34.880 Like,
00:08:35.140 how do you expect anyone
00:08:35.920 to respect you?
00:08:36.620 Because you're not his woman. 0.99
00:08:37.040 Yeah,
00:08:37.380 exactly that.
00:08:38.980 Modern women today,
00:08:39.880 Can I respect you
00:08:40.700 and you be old
00:08:41.280 at the same time?
00:08:42.600 But it depends
00:08:43.160 what you're talking about.
00:08:43.880 Like I said,
00:08:44.700 on my,
00:08:45.280 in what I've just said,
00:08:47.040 me,
00:08:47.460 it's just me posting myself
00:08:48.660 in lingerie.
00:08:49.420 So if you,
00:08:49.900 if you say that's me
00:08:51.140 being a ho, 1.00
00:08:51.580 then that's your opinion.
00:08:53.580 Can I,
00:08:54.280 can I respect you
00:08:55.520 and you still be a ho 1.00
00:08:56.480 at the same time?
00:08:57.700 Can two things be true?
00:08:58.920 Yes.
00:08:59.600 I think it's down
00:09:00.540 to what,
00:09:01.260 what you respect.
00:09:03.360 I think it's,
00:09:03.660 Can I respect you
00:09:04.680 and you be a ho 1.00
00:09:05.960 at the same time?
00:09:06.720 You gotta answer that
00:09:07.360 for yourself.
00:09:07.940 I mean,
00:09:08.180 yeah,
00:09:08.440 you can't.
00:09:09.560 The two aren't correlating.
00:09:11.040 This is how we started off,
00:09:12.160 right?
00:09:12.340 The podcast.
00:09:12.980 What is respect?
00:09:13.880 And it's like,
00:09:14.460 all people at a basic level
00:09:15.620 deserve respect,
00:09:16.400 right?
00:09:16.940 So what level are you
00:09:18.020 trying to respect this ho, 1.00
00:09:19.360 right?
00:09:19.640 Like,
00:09:19.900 take it there.
00:09:20.400 Are you trying to respect her
00:09:21.220 as a wife?
00:09:21.880 Then no.
00:09:22.500 Are you respecting her
00:09:23.260 because you met her
00:09:23.700 on the street
00:09:24.120 and we're having a conversation?
00:09:25.480 Yes,
00:09:25.840 I can respect you.
00:09:26.680 I can respect the bum. 1.00
00:09:27.600 It's not based off of that.
00:09:28.880 Respect isn't,
00:09:29.660 basic respect isn't
00:09:30.620 given off of that,
00:09:31.300 right?
00:09:31.820 So to your basic question
00:09:33.520 in general context,
00:09:35.160 can I respect the ho? 1.00
00:09:36.460 Yes.
00:09:36.700 Y'all gotta start acting
00:09:39.040 like two things
00:09:39.700 can't be true.
00:09:40.680 I think that respect
00:09:41.480 is earned.
00:09:42.560 I think there's a basic level
00:09:43.700 of kindness
00:09:44.380 that you should treat people with,
00:09:46.460 but I feel like respect
00:09:47.940 is earned
00:09:48.400 at the end of the day.
00:09:49.220 As many of you know,
00:09:50.080 I was just banned
00:09:51.240 on TikTok
00:09:52.120 and we are demonetized
00:09:53.860 on a daily basis
00:09:55.120 on this platform.
00:09:57.000 If you want to help,
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