JustPearlyThings - Born Again Virgin CRIES...she REGRETS her HO3 Phase!

00:00:00.000 we're gonna look at tate's emergency meeting who here is familiar with tate andrew tate

00:00:05.280 oh i'm familiar with everybody does anybody do you all right does anybody not like him anyone got a

00:00:11.120 strong anti-tate i think of course it's you against the world today let's go maybe i'll be on your

00:00:22.240 team oh please for once no basically like i have like a um in between views on him so sometimes i

00:00:31.840 understand him like when he talks about you know dating in an old-fashioned way because i think

00:00:38.640 that is something that we should be doing um but then when he says stuff like uh you know

00:00:45.440 women are better when they are younger 18 19 go pursue them there was one i can't remember word 1.00

00:00:51.360 for words he said he'd rather date a 19 year old than a 26 year old yeah and then he was basically

00:00:56.160 devaluing the older women yeah so i was like no i don't like that because i falls under my category

00:01:00.880 and that tricked me that that triggered a nerve okay but then other than that he's cool like

00:01:07.360 it just depends do you think do you think that men or women are allowed to like men that are rich

00:01:12.400 um a woman can like whoever she wants to like yeah but then why can't the men like whoever they want

00:01:17.600 to like they can yeah you know i think everyone can have a preference and they can like whoever

00:01:22.400 they want to like okay as long as you're not disrespecting other people in different categories

00:01:27.760 okay i'm 26 you know oh i'm 26 too yeah but but it's like i think i understand where he's coming from

00:01:34.800 even being 26 because it's like there's less experience like there's a guy want a girl with a ton of

00:01:40.000 experience yeah but do you why would you want someone who's so naive because i remember when i was 18 19 i

00:01:45.840 thought i knew so much but i didn't know nothing because when you're not naive it's like you're

00:01:49.680 always arguing with him like oh i know what you're doing you know like yeah yeah yeah she's laughing

00:01:54.400 right because it's like they don't want a girl that's like always like because of trauma from 0.98

00:01:59.280 previous relationships always bringing up those problems yeah you know because like imagine like

00:02:04.560 you know at 26 like i might if he had i'm trying to think of something i can't be positive i'm trying to

00:02:11.200 think of something off but you could think of something maybe an ex did that was like sneaky yeah right

00:02:15.200 right yeah yeah and if someone in the future does that same thing you might think like i don't know

00:02:20.160 maybe bring a phone to the bathroom whatever it is the guys would rather just have a girl that's 1.00

00:02:24.320 like oh why don't he's just bringing his phone or whatever whatever that's true but you know what

00:02:29.440 yeah he should date someone who's intelligent at the same time because like for me it doesn't mean

00:02:33.440 she's dumb i know but you got us in our bracket yeah if we like okay say now have a relationship 1.00

00:02:39.760 tomorrow blah blah blah not that i can't get one i'm just picky by the way don't get twisted i'm not desperate 0.98

00:02:44.000 but sounds pretty desperate to me

00:02:49.280 you and every woman right every woman's picky yes exactly why does every girl say like i i could

00:02:55.760 be having a boyfriend right now like what what because i can there's so many simps out there

00:03:00.320 that would do anything yeah but the thing is but the thing is if you're single it means the men that

00:03:04.240 you want don't want you it does it for everybody the same with the women if a guy's single it's the same 0.94

00:03:10.720 thing the women that he wants doesn't want him i would say i don't know what you can debate that to some

00:03:17.040 degree what um you know you know how you said um if a guy's single that it could be um because

00:03:21.920 or he doesn't want a relationship yeah yeah yeah but yeah i do like for example the guy that i wanted

00:03:27.440 to marry before um he met my standards i clearly met his we was talking about these things but however

00:03:33.760 there were certain qualities that didn't like certain conversations that we had like for example

00:03:38.320 he would ask me in the future if you have like 10 kids would you um we have 10 kids together we've

00:03:43.600 been married for 10 years would you let me have a second wife in islamically that's obviously allowed 1.00

00:03:48.640 um but some women are okay with it and some women are not so i told him i'm not gonna lie i'm not okay

00:03:53.840 with that you're basically rinsing me out and then after that you're gonna go for someone younger and then

00:04:00.080 i'm just the first wife whatever i'm not really with that um and then from there we kind of started

00:04:06.720 getting put off by each other so then that that fizzled out so it had nothing to do with him wanting

00:04:11.440 me or or him not wanting me well that he wasn't the guy you wanted because he wanted a different thing

00:04:16.000 yeah but the point is like the guy that matched all those requirements like the guy the same guy

00:04:20.480 that matches those requirements and wants monogamy like does either like he doesn't want you if you're 0.91

00:04:25.360 not with him it would did you are you a muslim woman you're muslim yes but i'm not religious

00:04:31.120 i'm still okay like religious but i am going to become religious one day so i do have carry some

00:04:36.560 of those could it could it be that the high value could it be the kind of high value dude that you

00:04:40.240 want to meet though he might require that you share him you know it could be that you meet another high

00:04:45.680 value guy who meets or who ticks all your boxes and he's going to say something similar i always say

00:04:50.080 that though but i always say that i think it's terrible advice that guys give other guys like

00:04:54.400 forcing women to accept the fact that other women are going to be in the picture because 1.00

00:05:00.640 women with self-respect they're not going to accept that they're not going to be like yeah 1.00

00:05:04.960 just bring out some other woman into the picture like normal women are not going to tolerate i think 1.00

00:05:10.320 a lot of women will tolerate cheating cheating is one thing not another main thing if you can keep it 1.00

00:05:16.240 in the shadows cheating is god's work because i think so many women cheating is for women it's the 1.00

00:05:23.040 men do it for women okay but you know what's interesting women in a way except 1.00

00:05:27.840 women in a way except being side chicks all the time because because we start out in situationships 1.00

00:05:33.280 right right so that's so that like what is that don't you think it depends on the society

00:05:37.920 what do you mean like for example let's say when a westernized society or an eastern society

00:05:42.000 like don't you think that the way that someone would accept their side chick or not would vary

00:05:45.840 yeah it's going to depend where you're at i think like if you're more of a western thing i think yeah i think if you

00:05:49.920 like look at somewhere like dubai or towards the eastern side of things like i think they'd look

00:05:54.240 at things more from uh what's my future gonna look like financially how my family how's things

00:05:59.120 gonna be set up but then if you come further to like the westernized size i think it's more emotion

00:06:03.120 based and it's an attention that's actually very funny a lot of japanese wives like when they kind 1.00

00:06:08.240 of like you know are kind of checked out they just want to be a mom like japanese wives are notoriously 1.00

00:06:13.360 known for after they have children they basically stop having sex with a husband and some of them

00:06:18.640 are just like just go get a girlfriend they're just like yeah because they just want to take

00:06:25.040 care of the kids like when when a woman has children nothing is more important than her children that's 1.00

00:06:32.080 true i also i also agree with you there but wouldn't you also um back to the possibility that it could be

00:06:38.960 the way that they were also raised in their households so for example let's say that let's say

00:06:43.040 that they're raising their households with the mindsets that yo you're going to have a husband one

00:06:47.440 day so be like this be like that you like that and when you've got all those predetermined rules

00:06:52.240 beforehand don't you think that kind of affects the romanticism of a relationship but it doesn't

00:06:56.640 it depend on life stage as well because he's describing you know women who are a little bit 1.00

00:07:00.880 older maybe and they've already been married they've had their kids so now their priorities

00:07:07.280 so now their priorities have shifted a bit you know you know how you even said like oh could it also be

00:07:12.240 a factor because of age and so on so forth like i do believe that some factors can combine with other

00:07:16.640 factors yeah of course yeah yeah for sure but i think in the west you get that as well because

00:07:20.160 you might get the young girl who's like happy to party and she's happy to you know be a side check

00:07:24.240 and everything else but she's not necessarily going to be so comfortable to accept that when she

00:07:28.160 you know when she gets married to a dude and and i'll say this the girls that i know who have 1.00

00:07:32.880 agreed to be side checks like they're a little off like they're just like they they have like they have a 0.93

00:07:39.440 dick stained pass they might be you know party people they might be addicted to drugs or casually

00:07:47.120 smoke weed and think like you know they're just not they're not 100 there but my original statement

00:07:52.400 is agreeing with the young lady over there i'm sorry honey honey honey honey yeah honey was i was

00:07:58.240 agreeing with honey and i talked to and actually yesterday when i was doing the duo stream with pearl

00:08:04.800 and i talked to pearl about the same thing i definitely agree i think it's i think it's

00:08:09.120 terrible advice that these content creators are telling regular guys like get out there and force

00:08:16.560 your girl to take to accept you and another woman because the average woman with like a fraction of 1.00

00:08:25.760 self-respect is just not gonna be okay with that and if she is she's not gonna love you with the entirety

00:08:33.600 of her being compared to if she she knows it it's just you two together i'm curious you don't have

00:08:40.080 to answer this but i'm just curious it's not talking to me i'll answer anything the other like content

00:08:45.440 creators in the space that push like non-monogamy is that what you found like when you've met their

00:08:49.920 girlfriends like something has been no yeah this is not this is not uh it's just not a diss at any

00:08:55.280 these guys or any of their women or any of the things all i'm saying is from my life experience

00:09:00.640 and talking to other people who are really good at understanding female nature and are dating

00:09:05.520 coaches and my experience as well because i did the whole thing i i i try to openly tell you know

00:09:11.680 multiple women i was dating them at the same time and it was hell because they well okay it was it was

00:09:18.400 hilarious because you know female pettiness knows no end uh there was like this there's like this medicine 1.00

00:09:24.400 cabinet in my penthouse that i was living in tokyo right and one girl would put her stuff in there 1.00

00:09:31.600 and another girl started snooping through it and there's two japanese girls and a chinese girl and

00:09:37.840 they all started like this silent civil war of toothbrushes of toothbrushes and makeup in this 0.79

00:09:45.280 little medicine cabinet and all it did despite me getting sex and servitude from all these women 1.00

00:09:51.600 it stressed the out of me and i was just stressed out from their 0.99

00:09:56.080 bullshit fighting at all times they never got in line and they all all three of them vented to me 0.95

00:10:03.120 every time we got together on how much they hated the other girls and eventually i lost all three of 0.91

00:10:10.960 them so may am i a low value beta male i don't know should i tell you what i think should i tell you

00:10:16.240 what i think the mistake in that is i think it's it sounded like they were all three of them had the

00:10:23.360 position of being your main woman uh no there was there was a there was a hierarchy there yeah but what

00:10:29.680 i mean is you were giving you were giving all three of them a level of emotional and time investment

00:10:35.280 right as opposed to having one main girl right and then she's like okay she understands that maybe

00:10:41.680 every now and again you may exercise a physical option but that woman isn't going to be leaving 1.00

00:10:47.360 her toothbrush around because that woman you're not really dating seriously do you understand what 0.99

00:10:50.800 i'm saying yeah i see what you're saying but it's i i just don't think it's gonna i don't think it

00:10:54.160 works i don't because women women are so competitive with each other yeah and they hate each other 1.00

00:11:02.000 and they are so petty one girl when she would wash clothes whatever and sometimes this other girl left

00:11:08.720 her bra or panties in my washing machine and she would just take it and throw it behind the washing 1.00

00:11:13.040 machine and then the other girl would always find her underwear she's like somebody's throwing my 1.00

00:11:17.280 underwear down there no it's my cleaning lady i'm so sorry she's from vietnam if you also if you also

00:11:25.040 look at how men and women also express themselves though i say men are a lot more close to the physical

00:11:29.600 side of things and women are a lot more close to the emotional emotional and verbalized side of things 1.00

00:11:35.040 i think he makes a good point i mean there's a couple of content creators that spring to mind who are

00:11:38.400 very very they really push this line i think it's um they really work out they really push this line

00:11:44.240 of like no you've got to be you've got to be up front you've got to be honest with her this is how 0.98

00:11:48.160 the deal is going to be right you're you may be my main girl but i'm gonna i'm gonna have sex you know 0.99

00:11:53.600 around i think it's it's extremely difficult to pull off i would say for the average guy there may be

00:11:59.920 some guys who can pull it off and even then how what longevity that's gonna have yeah no is another

00:12:07.040 thing and i'm a guy that's i'm a guy that's in you know in regards to success you know it was

00:12:11.760 very evident that i'm successful you know putting it down in the bedroom i take care of everybody

00:12:17.280 nobody pays for anything i'm not a sim i'm not paying bills for any of these hoes but like you 1.00

00:12:21.760 know like when they're with me when i'm we're with me dinner's covered ubers are covered everything's

00:12:26.880 sorted so i don't know am i such a beta male that they just don't submit to my alphaness

00:12:33.040 no but i don't think that's the case i just i and then from the women i've talked to and i asked

00:12:38.240 pearl yesterday and now um sorry honey honey honey again just reiterated the same fact that she did not

00:12:45.600 want to be in a situation when a man was juggling multiple women however however however if i now push 0.51

00:12:53.760 i'm 40 yeah yeah single god forbid yeah with no kids god forbid again then um my value has decreased

00:13:02.400 massively so i'm also aware of that so then from yeah yeah to a degree so then what i would do is

00:13:08.160 because i'm desperate at that point i would be a second wife but only islamically only because i

00:13:14.640 feel like islamically it can work because there's structure so if he has two wives there's seven days

00:13:21.200 in a week well calculate it two three me three her then that one odd day you only get like two

00:13:30.800 no no no he has to be even or else he's gonna get he's gonna get us in so the way he works is this

00:13:38.080 usually men that are more religious usually take that responsibility because it's a big responsibility

00:13:43.200 he is responsible for me and her he has to treat us equally he can't buy one person a sweet and not buy

00:13:48.960 the other one a sweet tomorrow and he has to split his days equally so that one off day in the week

00:13:54.160 we are rotating this week so i want to add on to that so and now that in my opinion adds to my

00:14:01.760 original statement because now this is no longer romantic love this is transactional you're like 0.99

00:14:07.920 all right well here i'll suck your dick on this day and this day and it all sounds very sort of uh 0.99

00:14:13.360 structured doesn't like overly i actually i actually think that most love likely is transactional 0.99

00:14:20.400 love to an extent yeah yeah and i think it almost like should be in a way it should be yeah why do you

00:14:27.040 think it should be because hear me out women find 80 of men is ugly yeah 80 of men ugly ugly ugly and

00:14:34.400 yeah so i can agree with that walking around london well yeah you know so it's like women really only 1.00

00:14:45.520 are going to have genuine desire for like 20 of men maybe 25. so so it's like what the other girls

00:14:52.400 what do they got they gotta they either die alone or you know find some transactions who's got the

00:14:57.520 stat about india though marriage is arranged marriages in india and how successful they are

00:15:01.360 all of hindus all hinduism divorce rate one percent yeah yeah but you don't think that's more

00:15:10.160 transactional when it's arranged it is no it is transaction or it's more like well listen marriage 0.96

00:15:16.720 the reason why westerners suck at marriage namely women is because they are based they're basing the 1.00

00:15:24.880 backbone of their relationships on feelings and feelings are a fleeting thing 0.94

00:15:31.280 feelings do not stay it's changing and it's coming and going and if you're a person who lives your

00:15:38.320 life based upon your feelings only you're going to have an awful life right your relationship's going

00:15:43.440 to be awful marriage is not based upon feelings marriage is a logical commitment for between two

00:15:49.920 people for better for worse for rich or for poor for sick or for health am i wrong here enjoy

00:15:55.520 i've got a question i've got a question for that as well though the only reason why is because the

00:16:01.280 only things i'm factoring here i'm also factoring the biological side of things as well yeah and

00:16:06.880 it's like to some degree yeah it's very easy for like and this isn't in defense it's just like my

00:16:11.360 opinion in it it's very easy for like awesome men yet to be like yo boom a female should be logical 0.93

00:16:16.000 like say let's say i'm arguing with my girlfriend i could be i could be thinking yo she really should be

00:16:19.760 thinking this but i really do also believe that on the flip side of things i don't understand that

00:16:24.720 chemistry at all so it's like it's like it's that that that battle to find that balance of you should

00:16:31.200 be logical here to some degree but you're also battling this like how do you do that because

00:16:36.240 early earlier when you were making a point and you were saying that um that or was it you that

00:16:40.160 making a point that oh some females you know they want a bit more attention and then you made a point 0.95

00:16:44.640 earlier saying that oh as long as it's equal but did you see the energy she had when she said but if he

00:16:49.360 misses that one day if he misses that one day that's a sin yeah so so already what and because

00:16:58.720 i like to like listen to everyone to speak after like from analyzing that she proved a point she

00:17:03.920 proved that to some degree her emotion will come into it yeah and if he does slip up from the

00:17:08.240 statistical transactional side of things things can go left and then the issue is when things go left

00:17:13.840 how will women react to it going left well they can go left definitely but i think what we we were

00:17:18.320 saying about the the hindu statistic is that uh when it's structured and when it's based on something

00:17:24.000 beyond just emotion when there's a bigger a wider structure to it then i mean it's it's more likely

00:17:30.400 to last isn't it in that situation look what happens when women follow their feelings yeah we're 0.99

00:17:35.520 freaking idiots like come on it's a total mess you know 90 100 years ago 95 of people were married 0.99

00:17:43.760 when 95 of people were less exposed as well now correct what has that done so it's like if 95 of 1.00

00:17:49.680 people are married now women have more power than ever to pick their partner we have dating apps we have

00:17:55.760 instagram we have more freedom than we've ever had and less influence from our family because we're getting

00:18:01.360 married at 31 20 so the more freedom that we have the more divorced our country is

00:18:09.840 i get what i'm saying i think the difference is with marriage especially we're saying arranged marriage

00:18:13.840 right it's about duty and i think about duty right even when you love someone there are going to be

00:18:19.040 things in order for it to be successful there are going to be things that you are going to have to do

00:18:23.200 that you don't want to do right yes all these guys are you know your content creators even pearl right

00:18:28.720 there are plenty of things about being a content creator yeah we love creating the content yeah

00:18:33.600 but there are plenty of things that you have to do that we if we could choose we wouldn't have to

00:18:37.040 do we want to buy all the expensive we don't want to have to learn how to make thumbnails

00:18:40.960 making thumbnails doing a funnel system yeah yeah we don't want to have to learn to do that

00:18:45.520 right but we choose to do those things because it's about serving the bigger picture yeah so i think

00:18:49.680 in marriage right when you only function from your feelings you only make decisions from your feelings

00:18:55.520 it means there are going to be days where you should be choosing to do something because it's

00:18:58.960 your duty to even when you don't want to but for the marriage yeah but that's the problem but but

00:19:03.360 but probably societally societally the big problem now is of course there's not there's not really

00:19:07.120 those constraints is there so yeah and that's the fundamental issue i was mentioned earlier ron

00:19:12.080 someone i can't remember if it was one of you guys but someone mentioned how when in in the china

00:19:16.560 was a chinese or japanese relationship yeah yeah when someone reached the age of 40 years old the woman was 1.00

00:19:21.280 like go have sex with who you feel like now just go get a girlfriend go get a girlfriend now this is 0.91

00:19:26.240 the thing though like i do believe that within a marriage and within a relationship there are some 0.95

00:19:30.480 factors that i think should be maintained throughout from beginning it starts to when it ends and i do

00:19:35.120 think attraction maybe not even sexual attraction but just attraction of your partner i think that's

00:19:39.840 something that should be maintained throughout and it's like i think that if like what's the my

00:19:44.080 question is for the balance the balance of logical things that need to be done and that fun

00:19:49.040 romanticism that's still important i think there should be no balance there should be no balance

00:19:53.520 not i think in an ideal world it's like yeah yeah okay i mean is that realistic in the west maybe if

00:20:00.640 we banned women voting birth control and a lot of other stuff yeah that's a whole nother another topic

00:20:07.600 but it's like we look at the outcomes there's no feelings involved 99 success rate women's feelings 0.95

00:20:14.160 get involved yeah 50 success rate average age of marriage is eight years they have like 12 bodies

00:20:21.040 90 of us are on birth control one out of three of us has an std one of three of us has an abortion

00:20:26.880 and john zerk is john zerk is getting laid like a rock star i mean what's that all about yeah you know

00:20:33.600 i think the issue today is that um everyone's feelings are being directed in a distracting manner

00:20:39.120 and i think that's what the issue is it's not that people have i think it's women's feelings yeah women i 1.00

00:20:43.360 say women's then because men don't even necessarily control that element of things but in regards to 1.00

00:20:47.520 women i feel like their feelings are being directed towards oh wait cardiby just got bought a birkin

00:20:53.360 bag from offset i want my my feelings are telling me i now want that so now that's the definition of

00:20:58.160 what love is to me i was i was listening i was listening to a song from the 90s and it was like a

00:21:04.080 trisha yearwood song and in the song it talks about how the guy gave her his high school ring as a

00:21:10.160 wedding ring until he could afford a real one what what percent of women would accept his high

00:21:15.920 school ring as their wedding ring get married in a courthouse yeah and maybe do a wedding later

00:21:22.240 that would be it's about it's about the wedding it's not about the marriage like we spend so much

00:21:27.200 time thinking about what what is life gonna be like oh what what is this magical wedding day gonna

00:21:32.960 be like but they've never thought what's it gonna be like my day-to-day as a wife you know did you see

00:21:37.680 i had a girl come on the show where she was literally telling me how she was gonna have four 1.00

00:21:42.720 kids and then meditate in the morning journal like that's how she's gonna start her day with four 0.86

00:21:48.320 kids no no this is the delusion i'm like you're someone's gonna be screaming someone's gonna be

00:21:53.040 crying someone's gonna be pulling you out of bed yeah but it's like we have all this thought about a

00:21:57.440 wedding and never about being a wife yeah you know they did they did a study too that found out like

00:22:04.080 the larger your wedding is the more likely you are to get a divorce right yeah everybody spoke

00:22:12.720 because so many people here's the biggest problem with relationships is so many people worried about

00:22:18.800 what other people think about your relationship yeah yes that's a big problem you know and this

00:22:24.480 attention economy you know that everybody's like oh you know i i need to be this flex culture i need

00:22:29.040 this i need that but if a girl is really down for you she needs like a couple people at the 1.00

00:22:33.760 wedding her family you know mom dad and have a good time and at the end of the day if she really

00:22:39.920 really really loves you she'll get married at the courthouse she'll sign paperwork because she's 1.00

00:22:44.080 understanding the longevity of you two being together is more important than showing the world how awesome

00:22:51.360 you are as a wife i can relate to this topic a lot because obviously i'm a female and i've kind of had to

00:22:57.600 think about these things um basically like from my experience when i was younger like in my early 20s

00:23:03.920 i'm in my mid-20s now obviously but um i always refused i had like proposals before and stuff like

00:23:10.400 obviously us muslims we talk about marriage more quicker and all this stuff because it's like a lot of

00:23:16.240 us are trying to do it yeah culture and then religious some are more religious than others so i was

00:23:20.720 speaking to different guys about marriage yeah and um i was declining quite a few of them because

00:23:27.200 i they didn't really want to have a big wedding some it wasn't because of the finances um some could

00:23:34.320 have been even like the attention too much attention all these people for one night i'm spending all this

00:23:39.920 money and they're going to share it out and then tomorrow everyone goes on the day but we're here

00:23:44.480 dealing with this so i do i always used to be like no go away go away because i want this big wedding

00:23:50.640 i only have one day to get married i need to see myself do this and also my sister had a big 1.00

00:23:55.680 wedding as well so i was like hold on i'm not gonna downgrade no way if she can do it i can do it too

00:24:03.120 and then now that i'm in my mid-20s i feel like i've matured a lot i'm like that's not even important

00:24:08.480 because what's important is me and him and getting god involved and committing those three things are

00:24:15.120 important you can always do a celebration later yeah can we blame men for not you know can we

00:24:20.800 blame men for not wanting to spend a ton of money on a wedding when the average marriage is like eight

00:24:25.520 years exactly do something crazy exactly but i was so oblivious to the situation i wasn't thinking from

00:24:31.280 their side alone because it's like we always talk about that in the media it's always talking about

00:24:35.200 the wedding but never being a wife like what what wives like and traditional wives are really pushed in

00:24:40.720 the media exactly i couldn't even think of one real homemaker traditional chick that i've seen 1.00

00:24:46.000 on tv that's like famous i can't think those lyrics that you're talking about though if that was a

00:24:50.960 real story now that would be a viral tick tock wouldn't it like oh my god look at this brokey he

00:24:54.880 tried to he tried to give me my high school ring lebron james's wife yeah yeah lebron james's wife and

00:25:01.680 now now name like real one now name like 10 mainstream hoes speaking of this topic do you guys believe 0.94

00:25:10.000 in evil eye what do you mean evil eye so people could do it i believe in it um they couldn't even in our

00:25:16.800 religion we believe in it basically you can do it intentionally or unintentionally for example like you

00:25:22.080 just see someone that looks great or they have this nice thing we we when we say that we say

00:25:26.960 mashallah so we don't jinx it accidentally not intentionally but it can accidentally be like wow

00:25:31.280 and then we can actually accidentally jinx that person so that's actually a thing so what happens

00:25:35.840 in these big weddings is you're getting all these people involved they're all seeing who you're marrying

00:25:40.880 what you are able to afford you are causing a lot of attention and it could be evil eye as well

00:25:46.400 intentionally or non-intentionally regardless yeah and then now you don't have all this burden people

00:25:50.960 people used to just go to the courthouse and it was fine but now and like the other thing is other

00:25:55.280 women ruin it because they're like oh well my man got me this my man got me that exactly a lot of the 1.00

00:26:00.880 times the girl's saying that it's because something's wrong but when you say as well that like you know

00:26:06.160 how you said that it's it's also about being a wife yeah like i'm looking at like my my generation as

00:26:11.200 well like i'm 23 in it and i'm and i like i have friends which are like much younger than me a lot of them

00:26:16.480 don't focus on the individualized person like a lot of them yeah they'll because let's say that

00:26:21.360 someone you can take someone that wants to be a perfect housewife and someone that wants to be 1.00

00:26:24.560 a perfect house husband put them together and it still probably won't work and i think the reason

00:26:28.320 why is because of the way they romanticize the idea they'll say okay cool i um i've been trained

00:26:34.240 by my mom to become a wife so i can be ready for a husband then she finds that that you've got a 1.00

00:26:39.040 habit that just puts her off and gives her the ick now she doesn't want the marriage anymore 0.99

00:26:42.320 but let's say that the moment the the romanticism came with her saying but i really like the way he

00:26:48.080 smiles i really like the way he is the really i really like the way he thinks like let's say that

00:26:52.320 she grew the idea of building towards marriage alongside with his personality involved as well

00:26:57.360 that's when i believe that she'd know what type of end product she's going to get with 0.96

00:27:00.960 is it to do with i think i think you look more at the families and their values more than

00:27:05.520 personality i think women get wooed by personality come on you know you know that guy that's a sweet talker 1.00

00:27:12.320 you know that guy that's a sweet talker and those girls those girls keep on getting finesse and finesse 1.00

00:27:18.640 look at her now in her head yeah look and i'm a guy that lives in tokyo talking about this and there's

00:27:22.560 a girl here in the uk agreeing with me but equally they get finesse again and again most don't mind 1.00

00:27:28.320 manipulators but equally no no no no she's not meeting manipulator after manipulator she's an idiot 0.89

00:27:35.440 but equally equally i think all these master manipulators are not out there equally i think 0.98

00:27:44.400 some women can can be i mean i dated a woman some years ago and she was in her later twenties english 1.00

00:27:50.160 girl right and i just felt like and she was really pushing things towards towards marriage you know she 0.94

00:27:55.040 really wanted marriage she really wanted commitment and quite quickly as well and i just felt right my

00:28:00.720 sense of it my spidey senses were tingling i felt that i was sort of irrelevant really it could have

00:28:06.320 been me but equally it could have been some other dude you know she really wanted that's that's the

00:28:10.560 point i was yeah yeah you're wanting to want you for you yeah and i'm sure she i should agree of course

00:28:15.520 she liked i'm sure she you know she liked me to some degree whatever but but equally it was sort of

00:28:20.560 like she wanted the instagram pictures she wanted the you know the idea of a boyfriend yeah exactly 1.00

00:28:26.160 she like that's the only element you see that's the only element i'm trying to avoid with yes the

00:28:32.000 ideology of your marriage fair play but i'd also want her to grow with me as a person whilst liking

00:28:37.680 what i can provide as a man because i'm not saying that oh you should just like me and that should

00:28:42.000 overcompensate with me being lazy i do think that all men should be working i do think that well if

00:28:48.400 in my opinion i think i think we sell guys a dream that guys girls like them for them

00:28:52.960 yeah but this is my balance though i'm saying that balance it i'm not saying now don't work

00:28:58.080 i'm saying be the best version of yourself so so forth but also make sure that the person you're

00:29:02.160 selecting also likes you can i ask you bro so wait what did you mean by that i just mean like i i think

00:29:07.600 we tell guys just be yourself and like women will come and i just think that that's not particularly

00:29:13.040 true so do you think it is really transactional you don't think like a girl look at a guy i think 0.92

00:29:16.880 nowadays it is i think it may be it used to be different you know we look more at families and values but

00:29:21.840 now it's like girls will just ask how much money you make a girl i mean what if someone's naturally 1.00

00:29:25.920 ambitious though like let's say that they've got an absolute desire to get back on their phone and

00:29:30.720 hustle because that's their routine before they even was in a relationship and let's say that's

00:29:33.920 part of my natural personality another girl could look at that and be like oh this guy never has time

00:29:38.320 for me yeah yeah yeah it's ironic though it's ironic because women want the the end fruits of the 1.00

00:29:44.400 success but actually they can sometimes i mean sometimes and i maybe you've had different experiences but

00:29:49.040 sometimes um they can also sort of impede you know if you're like right i want to spend 12 hours

00:29:53.840 hustling she's like no no i want to go to the store you know like every like yeah there's a difference

00:29:59.200 between like women who want a high value guy and women who know how to deal who will support a high 0.89

00:30:06.560 value yeah who know how to deal with the reality the day in day out of a high value guy like i was i was

00:30:11.680 dating a girl and one time she was like you know we need more quality time together i'm like what do you

00:30:15.840 mean you're over here all the time you know i was like you're like the fact that i even let you into

00:30:21.120 my life is is a quality in itself yeah but they want you to really give them an extreme amount of

00:30:29.200 attention but you know you have to convey to these women like look that's not how this is gonna work 1.00

00:30:35.520 you you you can go find another guy maybe he's good at guitar he can play you a song yeah but you guys

00:30:40.240 gonna fly economy but if you want a high value dude and you want a guy that is dedicated to

00:30:46.000 something bigger than the both of you put together you're gonna have to make some compromises yes but

00:30:50.960 you'll be compromising in business class so like you got to choose your you know choose your fortune 0.64

00:30:56.400 that you want to go for is the love and the romanticism and all this shit that is eventually 0.93

00:31:00.320 going to fade away or something that's going to last a little bit longer but i think right now 0.73

00:31:04.880 ultimately because in the western world right because i live in in asia and so in the western

00:31:10.000 world they're just constantly lying to women saying you can have it all yeah you can be a ceo 0.90

00:31:18.000 and a mother and have the perfect guy and never have relationship problems and you'll be debt free

00:31:23.280 and you're not going to be fat and everybody's going to love you and you're never going to stop

00:31:26.320 losing attention from men you're going to be beautiful into your 50s like jlo

00:31:30.320 and that's just not the reality that's actually partially what got me into this content was

00:31:34.400 because i would hear women talk about how they wanted to date a high value guy and i'm just like

00:31:39.040 thinking and i think of like my dad working growing up and i'm like you think you're gonna have date

00:31:42.480 nights every friday with a guy that's working yeah hours a week good luck like i hope i hope it works

00:31:49.360 out for you but it's just a realistic i have a question for you based on what you're saying earlier

00:31:53.520 i gotta take off do you um do you do you believe that you can learn to love someone

00:31:58.560 do you believe you can learn to love someone i think you grow on you i think you learn to love

00:32:03.280 every person you ever love because every person you love you never love because you know how you're

00:32:08.480 like you were saying about oh a girl kind of you know meets with a guy who could be a perfect husband 0.99

00:32:12.320 but then he does something that's her dick and she's like nah i'm out yeah yeah so in my in my 0.99

00:32:16.720 i would say to that i'd be like she is not wifey material oh yeah i'd say she's not the perfect wife 1.00

00:32:23.040 because if if something that he's doing that isn't a jeopardy to the relationship like he's

00:32:27.120 got a weird snore or something yeah yeah right and she's like i can see he's a great quality guy he's

00:32:31.440 committed and i could have a good future with him but because of this one thing i'm going to jeopardize

00:32:35.760 all of that i would say she's not serious about the marriage what i would say to that is that in

00:32:39.760 general yeah every relationship you get into you're going to find things that you love about your

00:32:43.760 partner and things that you dislike about your partner like very naturally in it and what i'd

00:32:47.920 also say to that is that like if if let's say that okay cool we can all in our own heads pick what we

00:32:54.880 deem as important and not important so the way she could deem you don't need to be on your instagram

00:32:59.520 dming people so much that you could be like no this is my bread and it's really about how you

00:33:04.240 like balance whilst growing with each other because i really think that a lot of these red flags

00:33:08.320 people are like they can't see red flags they're like like they'll see all these

00:33:13.680 men will admit there's red flags women are the ones they're like oh he changed as soon as we started 1.00

00:33:18.320 dating yeah when it's like okay but but the question you have to ask is did your parents like him

00:33:26.400 you know what you said earlier on um about women rushing to get married because they like the idea of

00:33:31.840 marriage and wedding but they're not thinking the actual concept of becoming a wife yeah the

00:33:36.240 responsibilities of it i've actually have i've actually had a friend that literally got married

00:33:41.920 because of the idea of marriage and kids quickly and then within being a wife process the man was like

00:33:48.560 asking her to cook every night because she's at home taking care of the baby he's working so of course

00:33:53.680 she should be like at least patterning the house cooking and cleaning she didn't want to do it 1.00

00:33:56.800 she didn't want to do it she didn't want to do it he was like what he went to his mom's house

00:34:00.800 complained and his mom's food came back and she's on the phone to me saying oh he's expecting dinner

00:34:06.480 tonight and i'm telling her girl i'm not married and i'm single even i know that you have to be in

00:34:11.280 that kitchen well i'm just thinking like doesn't doesn't she have to eat so she used to cook for 1.00

00:34:15.680 herself anyway yeah like just make a little extra you know what she said she said i'd rather eat

00:34:22.480 something quick or maybe a takeaway like i can't be assed and i told her like i'm not gonna lie this

00:34:27.280 is your responsibility your man is completely right in this if you don't if you want if you care for

00:34:32.480 your marriage and you want to stay married you better be in that kitchen and make sure that food 1.00

00:34:36.400 is ready before eight o'clock it's a it shows a modern mindset because she cares about what she wants 1.00

00:34:40.720 not what's best for the family it's not good for a family to have these quick meals like it's good for the

00:34:44.880 family to have just sit down sit down yeah but that's the thing that lowers like depression

00:34:49.600 anxiety feelings of worthlessness that don't let it's a gigantic important thing for a family to

00:34:56.000 sit down and have regular meals i was just happy that she called me to ask me i said you called the

00:35:00.880 right person go in that kitchen uh we were gonna start the video though um so guys we're gonna watch

00:35:07.760 i know we got a little off topic but okay so andrew tate's okay everyone else andrew tate fans yes

00:35:13.200 he's not a fan you're kind of what 50 50 no i probably say i'm i'm on board 75 um i completely

00:35:21.440 agree with responsibility but i think some things he says is is about preference that i would be like

00:35:26.560 uh that's maybe not my preference in how i would operate in that way but i think fundamentally yeah i

00:35:31.520 do agree with what he says okay all right let's pull pull the footage pull the footage king

00:35:37.280 uh what do you i wonder what he's going to talk about because he's this is huge i think he has 385

00:35:46.480 000 live viewers right now right now that's freaking crazy you know and this is his first emergency

00:35:53.200 meeting since being incarcerated in the romanian uh prisons and then being on house arrest as well

00:35:59.120 what a contrast between the two i know that's a nice true suit there tristan has

00:36:11.520 i can't hear

00:36:15.360 do you allow the cigar smoking in the just pearly things

00:36:18.240 i said i would never give up on the people i said i would never give up on our fans i said i

00:36:33.280 will not just take my hundreds of millions of dollars and run to the hills i said i would never

00:36:37.520 quit but you never actually answered the question you're rich you're strong you've got a family you've

00:36:43.280 got me you could disappear from this we could delete all of our internet profiles tomorrow we

00:36:48.000 could vanish from the internet and we would live amazing lives incomparable to most lives many men

00:36:54.480 would ever live so i guess the question that everyone's looking for an answer to

00:36:59.360 is what are you going to do i know the answer you can endure you know what makes me sad

00:37:07.040 if i thought crying was constructive i would cry but it's not who i am

00:37:10.720 i don't think it's constructive i don't think it's the correct thing to do but i'm not sad for myself

00:37:14.560 i'm prepared to suffer i've built a life in which i must suffer but i am sad for the people around me

00:37:18.800 and i'm because i know this matrix attack has just begun and i'm sad because i know they're going to

00:37:23.680 try and push this to the end they're going to genuinely try and put us in jail for no reason

00:37:27.120 i'm sad that other countries out there which i love which i grew up in which i'm patriotic to which

00:37:30.800 i have the passport to are out to get me and hurt me for no reason other than the fact i'm trying to do good

00:37:34.880 i'm sad for the people around me who i love who rely on me not just on me for money but also for my

00:37:39.280 presence as a whole i'm sad they want to take me away from my children i'm sad they want to leave

00:37:43.520 me to rot in a hole for what what for and i'm sad that they want to turn me into a coward and i

00:37:49.200 either have to go and live and sit in my room with all my money and try and distract myself with 0.96

00:37:54.880 hedonism and a bunch of women or go coward or i have to sit and be a sad hero and there's no in

00:38:01.360 between that about that's what really upsets me that i'm left with those two choices i'm either a 0.88

00:38:04.960 a hero who must suffer endlessly this is just the beginning none of this is going away you think

00:38:10.320 this is going away this is the beginning of all of it it's never going to end they're going to

00:38:14.240 continue to attack me for the end of time no matter what they're going to keep doing it to me and i'm

00:38:18.960 sad that my children are going to wake up every day wondering if dad's in jail for no reason or if dad's

00:38:23.440 been assassinated yet you think they're going to allow me to continue to spread good when they're truly 0.92

00:38:27.600 evil in their hearts i'll put a bullet in my head i'm sad knowing that i could have the best life on 0.98

00:38:31.680 earth and the only thing i have to do is be a coward to live it but i don't want to wake up 1.00

00:38:35.520 every day looking over my shoulder worried about being killed well the alternative to it is to wake 1.00

00:38:40.080 up every day and feel like a fucking pussy 1.00

00:38:46.400 okay wait hold on it's pretty pretty intense it's intense you jumped in it as well i don't know 1.00

00:38:52.160 yeah i think it it's glitching but anyways the rumble servers might not be able to handle that

00:38:56.640 because there's so many people watching right now yeah well we can we can go to the live but what'd you

00:39:01.040 guys i was going to pause it in a second anyway i i think i don't think he has to well that he has

00:39:06.320 doesn't have to worry i think the anyone who's watched him especially interviews you talk about

00:39:11.440 the matrix and the people in power that at b right the last thing they want to do the last thing they

00:39:16.720 want to do is make him a martyr because if anything happened to andrew tate oh the streets if anything

00:39:24.880 happened right that is going to elevate the movement globally because it will literally

00:39:30.880 confirm everything he has ever said about this whole matrix thing so i don't think

00:39:36.560 is he going to suffer and sense them coming for him of course they're going to try and continue to

00:39:40.720 but i think in terms of his life and stuff i don't that would be the worst case for the enemy if you

00:39:45.520 know so i'm gonna i'm gonna give you the optimism perspective of things right so i i i think that

00:39:50.880 they're just so desperate right now because i honestly i i just think donald trump is a couple steps

00:39:57.280 ahead of andrew tate right because i mean i mean they're actually man well tate is has done prison 0.96

00:40:04.400 time but they haven't hit him with a crime yet but they're trying the same shit that they're doing to 0.95

00:40:08.000 trump right now which is completely unjust because if you look at people like dick cheney and look at 0.87

00:40:15.440 people like biden where they have found a bunch of classified documents in his house already and if you

00:40:21.440 if you've seen anything that hunter biden has done on that laptop i mean the fact that these people

00:40:28.560 were roaming free but then trump came into office and you know his biggest sin was he didn't start a

00:40:36.000 new war he was the first president who did not start a new war in american history going back to

00:40:43.760 i don't even know when i think i literally think every president after eisenhower because there was

00:40:51.440 korean war after that and then there was vietnam and then you had you know operation iraqi freedom and

00:40:57.200 then enduring freedom all the stuff in the middle east and trump on 2016 or i think it was i think it

00:41:04.240 was like 2016 yeah he was uh at one of the debates and he said that like the whole reason that we were in

00:41:11.440 the middle east was total there were no weapons of mass destruction so he went against the matrix and

00:41:18.480 now andrew was smart enough to know that there are literally hundreds of millions of disenfranchised 0.95

00:41:26.880 young men who were tired of being shit on by mainstream media news government video games social 0.99

00:41:36.000 media everywhere you turn they're shitting on these young men telling them you're a bad person 1.00

00:41:42.080 you're a grapist you're a misogynist you're this you know you're part of the patriarchy and all these 0.99

00:41:47.920 guys are just like young impressionable young men who are just sitting at home and like what did i do

00:41:54.240 like a lot of these young guys and this is an america-centric thing but a lot of young white guys

00:41:59.040 are feeling bad for being white they're just like yeah you're bad because you're white like dude 0.71

00:42:03.280 my name is spencer and i'm like 17 and i like call of duty and and it's like all of the like the 0.74

00:42:09.280 matrix and the matrix in the media what are they pushing and that's the crazy thing like i just got

00:42:14.400 off a stream where they were literally pushing that women should sleep around as opposed to being virgins 0.54

00:42:19.040 yeah like they it's like what what are you pushing you're pushing for promiscuity which isn't good for

00:42:23.680 women yeah but that's and it's not and it's not good sorry i had gone i was just gonna say the guy running 0.96

00:42:29.040 that stream is a fat loser who's getting divorced by his wife what what context does that guy really 0.61

00:42:33.440 have well i mean i'm not even i don't even care about that i'm just saying it's like what what 0.95

00:42:38.000 values what mission do these people push and it's like when somebody genuinely has a good message like

00:42:42.960 tate they will do everything in their power to destroy him yep everything the thing would take the

00:42:48.640 the genius of of tate though the genius of andrew tate though and tristan said recently that andrew

00:42:55.040 tate has altered forever the the term influencer the meaning of the term influencer because andrew

00:43:02.320 tate is somebody who genuinely influences the youth you know genuinely influences young men and

00:43:09.440 indeed some women in a way that nobody has ever done before i mean this isn't just about doing pranks 1.00

00:43:15.280 on youtube videos or making stupid tiktoks or something this is somebody who has who has genuine 0.75

00:43:21.920 actual influence and when you look at something like the bit that we just saw which was very

00:43:26.160 intense like like john was saying um nobody has managed to articulate what he's what he's getting

00:43:35.360 across in the way that he has all right and and the genius of him himself as a marketer but also as

00:43:41.520 somebody who is is highlighting exactly what john's talking about you know that schism between uh what the

00:43:48.960 the perceived elites want versus what's what people on the ground want nobody else other than him has

00:43:54.480 managed to articulate that in such a powerful and such a colorful and such a a resonant way and i think

00:44:01.200 that that that it's just a master class in being a rhetorician right it's just a master class in

00:44:06.480 communication and the ability to influence a mass audience at scale so it's really quite incredible

00:44:12.800 what we're seeing yeah but i feel like in terms of um getting rid of him or doing anything to harm him

00:44:19.120 i feel like they would love to but they won't do it right now but potentially when this dies down

00:44:25.360 they might come back to bite him i don't know the only way this would die down is if he was let go

00:44:31.120 let's start like because if he goes to jail there's going to be more or everything like it's going

00:44:35.600 to be consistent is it is is going to be consistent um i meant as in like they would they would maybe

00:44:42.800 let time go by and then strike again so then it looks like it's not them and they make it look

00:44:47.360 like a suicide or something no but he said live on stream um uh on pbd's podcast he was like i'm saying

00:44:53.280 this for the record right now i would never ever commit suicide especially being a muslim now as well

00:44:58.880 he was like so if anything ever comes up that if i'm detained and something happened just know

00:45:04.320 that is what it is like it wasn't me yeah he was like on uh pbd's stream though wasn't he that um

00:45:10.160 even if he gets exonerated in in in terms of this specific trial yeah he's always going to be looking

00:45:15.680 over his shoulder that threat is always going to be there yeah are you kidding me yeah someone in the

00:45:20.640 chat says he does have influence my little brother has seen his shorts of him working out my brother

00:45:25.040 was inspired to get into fitness and he's 11. so do people actually think he's got like a negative

00:45:29.440 effect on the world yeah yeah a lot of people do when i did i did um interviews at carnival like

00:45:35.760 last year and i just would ask girls like oh what do you think of tate and i was like oh what do you

00:45:40.320 what do you think of angie i hate that guy but even that in itself though don't you believe that that's

00:45:44.560 just a programming to some degree because i also think hate's closer to love i think you can flip

00:45:49.040 it a lot quicker yeah they're fine lines you sound like patrice o'neil yeah really i don't know

00:45:54.480 i think that i don't know okay well i think i actually saw one of those with them one of the

00:45:58.000 videos that you've done in public where you were going around asking people what do you think of

00:46:00.880 angie tate yeah because those were going around in general when it was like he was like blowing up in

00:46:04.560 it yeah and what i was finding that like the most common thing you say to them is why do you hate him

00:46:09.360 those are the same girls that can't name three countries on fresh and fit but that's what i'm

00:46:17.600 saying i think it's just a program i think that in general let's say that and you take is in the

00:46:21.040 face of it and just let's say that we've got something else called i don't know let's say an

00:46:26.320 avocado if the government if like the system pushes it in front of people's faces to tell you

00:46:31.600 you need to hate this you need to hate this you need to hate this this discussion is no longer

00:46:35.840 necessarily about and you take necessarily then it's about how they can control who you hate

00:46:40.560 and i think that's a bigger issue than hating and you date because the fact that is let's say that

00:46:45.760 you've done that podcast now you're not stream and all the females said i don't like him because he 0.98

00:46:49.920 said this specific sentence to me and it made me feel like this and it reminded me of this trauma

00:46:53.040 thing that happened to me in the past let's say that those were their responses i'd be like you know

00:46:56.400 what i like him you don't like him that's fair in it but their responses were i don't know is that not scary

JustPearlyThings - August 23, 2023

Born Again Virgin CRIES...she REGRETS her HO3 Phase!

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