Born Again Virgin CRIES...she REGRETS her HO3 Phase!
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Summary
In this episode, the guys discuss what it means to date someone younger than you, why women are better when they are younger, and why you should date someone intelligent if you want to be in a healthy relationship.
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we're gonna look at tate's emergency meeting who here is familiar with tate andrew tate
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oh i'm familiar with everybody does anybody do you all right does anybody not like him anyone got a
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strong anti-tate i think of course it's you against the world today let's go maybe i'll be on your
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team oh please for once no basically like i have like a um in between views on him so sometimes i
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understand him like when he talks about you know dating in an old-fashioned way because i think
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that is something that we should be doing um but then when he says stuff like uh you know
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women are better when they are younger 18 19 go pursue them there was one i can't remember word
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for words he said he'd rather date a 19 year old than a 26 year old yeah and then he was basically
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devaluing the older women yeah so i was like no i don't like that because i falls under my category
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and that tricked me that that triggered a nerve okay but then other than that he's cool like
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it just depends do you think do you think that men or women are allowed to like men that are rich
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um a woman can like whoever she wants to like yeah but then why can't the men like whoever they want
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to like they can yeah you know i think everyone can have a preference and they can like whoever
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they want to like okay as long as you're not disrespecting other people in different categories
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okay i'm 26 you know oh i'm 26 too yeah but but it's like i think i understand where he's coming from
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even being 26 because it's like there's less experience like there's a guy want a girl with a ton of
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experience yeah but do you why would you want someone who's so naive because i remember when i was 18 19 i
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thought i knew so much but i didn't know nothing because when you're not naive it's like you're
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always arguing with him like oh i know what you're doing you know like yeah yeah yeah she's laughing
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right because it's like they don't want a girl that's like always like because of trauma from
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previous relationships always bringing up those problems yeah you know because like imagine like
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you know at 26 like i might if he had i'm trying to think of something i can't be positive i'm trying to
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think of something off but you could think of something maybe an ex did that was like sneaky yeah right
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right yeah yeah and if someone in the future does that same thing you might think like i don't know
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maybe bring a phone to the bathroom whatever it is the guys would rather just have a girl that's
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like oh why don't he's just bringing his phone or whatever whatever that's true but you know what
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yeah he should date someone who's intelligent at the same time because like for me it doesn't mean
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she's dumb i know but you got us in our bracket yeah if we like okay say now have a relationship
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tomorrow blah blah blah not that i can't get one i'm just picky by the way don't get twisted i'm not desperate
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you and every woman right every woman's picky yes exactly why does every girl say like i i could
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be having a boyfriend right now like what what because i can there's so many simps out there
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that would do anything yeah but the thing is but the thing is if you're single it means the men that
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you want don't want you it does it for everybody the same with the women if a guy's single it's the same
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thing the women that he wants doesn't want him i would say i don't know what you can debate that to some
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degree what um you know you know how you said um if a guy's single that it could be um because
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or he doesn't want a relationship yeah yeah yeah but yeah i do like for example the guy that i wanted
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to marry before um he met my standards i clearly met his we was talking about these things but however
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there were certain qualities that didn't like certain conversations that we had like for example
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he would ask me in the future if you have like 10 kids would you um we have 10 kids together we've
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been married for 10 years would you let me have a second wife in islamically that's obviously allowed
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um but some women are okay with it and some women are not so i told him i'm not gonna lie i'm not okay
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with that you're basically rinsing me out and then after that you're gonna go for someone younger and then
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i'm just the first wife whatever i'm not really with that um and then from there we kind of started
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getting put off by each other so then that that fizzled out so it had nothing to do with him wanting
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me or or him not wanting me well that he wasn't the guy you wanted because he wanted a different thing
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yeah but the point is like the guy that matched all those requirements like the guy the same guy
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that matches those requirements and wants monogamy like does either like he doesn't want you if you're
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not with him it would did you are you a muslim woman you're muslim yes but i'm not religious
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i'm still okay like religious but i am going to become religious one day so i do have carry some
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of those could it could it be that the high value could it be the kind of high value dude that you
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want to meet though he might require that you share him you know it could be that you meet another high
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value guy who meets or who ticks all your boxes and he's going to say something similar i always say
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that though but i always say that i think it's terrible advice that guys give other guys like
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forcing women to accept the fact that other women are going to be in the picture because
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women with self-respect they're not going to accept that they're not going to be like yeah
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just bring out some other woman into the picture like normal women are not going to tolerate i think
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a lot of women will tolerate cheating cheating is one thing not another main thing if you can keep it
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in the shadows cheating is god's work because i think so many women cheating is for women it's the
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men do it for women okay but you know what's interesting women in a way except
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women in a way except being side chicks all the time because because we start out in situationships
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right right so that's so that like what is that don't you think it depends on the society
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what do you mean like for example let's say when a westernized society or an eastern society
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like don't you think that the way that someone would accept their side chick or not would vary
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yeah it's going to depend where you're at i think like if you're more of a western thing i think yeah i think if you
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like look at somewhere like dubai or towards the eastern side of things like i think they'd look
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at things more from uh what's my future gonna look like financially how my family how's things
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gonna be set up but then if you come further to like the westernized size i think it's more emotion
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based and it's an attention that's actually very funny a lot of japanese wives like when they kind
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of like you know are kind of checked out they just want to be a mom like japanese wives are notoriously
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known for after they have children they basically stop having sex with a husband and some of them
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are just like just go get a girlfriend they're just like yeah because they just want to take
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care of the kids like when when a woman has children nothing is more important than her children that's
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true i also i also agree with you there but wouldn't you also um back to the possibility that it could be
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the way that they were also raised in their households so for example let's say that let's say
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that they're raising their households with the mindsets that yo you're going to have a husband one
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day so be like this be like that you like that and when you've got all those predetermined rules
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beforehand don't you think that kind of affects the romanticism of a relationship but it doesn't
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it depend on life stage as well because he's describing you know women who are a little bit
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older maybe and they've already been married they've had their kids so now their priorities
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so now their priorities have shifted a bit you know you know how you even said like oh could it also be
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a factor because of age and so on so forth like i do believe that some factors can combine with other
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factors yeah of course yeah yeah for sure but i think in the west you get that as well because
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you might get the young girl who's like happy to party and she's happy to you know be a side check
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and everything else but she's not necessarily going to be so comfortable to accept that when she
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you know when she gets married to a dude and and i'll say this the girls that i know who have
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agreed to be side checks like they're a little off like they're just like they they have like they have a
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dick stained pass they might be you know party people they might be addicted to drugs or casually
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smoke weed and think like you know they're just not they're not 100 there but my original statement
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is agreeing with the young lady over there i'm sorry honey honey honey honey yeah honey was i was
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agreeing with honey and i talked to and actually yesterday when i was doing the duo stream with pearl
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and i talked to pearl about the same thing i definitely agree i think it's i think it's
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terrible advice that these content creators are telling regular guys like get out there and force
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your girl to take to accept you and another woman because the average woman with like a fraction of
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self-respect is just not gonna be okay with that and if she is she's not gonna love you with the entirety
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of her being compared to if she she knows it it's just you two together i'm curious you don't have
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to answer this but i'm just curious it's not talking to me i'll answer anything the other like content
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creators in the space that push like non-monogamy is that what you found like when you've met their
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girlfriends like something has been no yeah this is not this is not uh it's just not a diss at any
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these guys or any of their women or any of the things all i'm saying is from my life experience
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and talking to other people who are really good at understanding female nature and are dating
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coaches and my experience as well because i did the whole thing i i i try to openly tell you know
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multiple women i was dating them at the same time and it was hell because they well okay it was it was
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hilarious because you know female pettiness knows no end uh there was like this there's like this medicine
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cabinet in my penthouse that i was living in tokyo right and one girl would put her stuff in there
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and another girl started snooping through it and there's two japanese girls and a chinese girl and
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they all started like this silent civil war of toothbrushes of toothbrushes and makeup in this
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little medicine cabinet and all it did despite me getting sex and servitude from all these women
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it stressed the out of me and i was just stressed out from their
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bullshit fighting at all times they never got in line and they all all three of them vented to me
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every time we got together on how much they hated the other girls and eventually i lost all three of
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them so may am i a low value beta male i don't know should i tell you what i think should i tell you
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what i think the mistake in that is i think it's it sounded like they were all three of them had the
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position of being your main woman uh no there was there was a there was a hierarchy there yeah but what
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i mean is you were giving you were giving all three of them a level of emotional and time investment
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right as opposed to having one main girl right and then she's like okay she understands that maybe
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every now and again you may exercise a physical option but that woman isn't going to be leaving
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her toothbrush around because that woman you're not really dating seriously do you understand what
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i'm saying yeah i see what you're saying but it's i i just don't think it's gonna i don't think it
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works i don't because women women are so competitive with each other yeah and they hate each other
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and they are so petty one girl when she would wash clothes whatever and sometimes this other girl left
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her bra or panties in my washing machine and she would just take it and throw it behind the washing
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machine and then the other girl would always find her underwear she's like somebody's throwing my
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underwear down there no it's my cleaning lady i'm so sorry she's from vietnam if you also if you also
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look at how men and women also express themselves though i say men are a lot more close to the physical
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side of things and women are a lot more close to the emotional emotional and verbalized side of things
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i think he makes a good point i mean there's a couple of content creators that spring to mind who are
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very very they really push this line i think it's um they really work out they really push this line
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of like no you've got to be you've got to be up front you've got to be honest with her this is how
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the deal is going to be right you're you may be my main girl but i'm gonna i'm gonna have sex you know
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around i think it's it's extremely difficult to pull off i would say for the average guy there may be
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some guys who can pull it off and even then how what longevity that's gonna have yeah no is another
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thing and i'm a guy that's i'm a guy that's in you know in regards to success you know it was
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very evident that i'm successful you know putting it down in the bedroom i take care of everybody
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nobody pays for anything i'm not a sim i'm not paying bills for any of these hoes but like you
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know like when they're with me when i'm we're with me dinner's covered ubers are covered everything's
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sorted so i don't know am i such a beta male that they just don't submit to my alphaness
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no but i don't think that's the case i just i and then from the women i've talked to and i asked
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pearl yesterday and now um sorry honey honey honey again just reiterated the same fact that she did not
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want to be in a situation when a man was juggling multiple women however however however if i now push
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i'm 40 yeah yeah single god forbid yeah with no kids god forbid again then um my value has decreased
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massively so i'm also aware of that so then from yeah yeah to a degree so then what i would do is
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because i'm desperate at that point i would be a second wife but only islamically only because i
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feel like islamically it can work because there's structure so if he has two wives there's seven days
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in a week well calculate it two three me three her then that one odd day you only get like two
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no no no he has to be even or else he's gonna get he's gonna get us in so the way he works is this
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usually men that are more religious usually take that responsibility because it's a big responsibility
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he is responsible for me and her he has to treat us equally he can't buy one person a sweet and not buy
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the other one a sweet tomorrow and he has to split his days equally so that one off day in the week
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we are rotating this week so i want to add on to that so and now that in my opinion adds to my
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original statement because now this is no longer romantic love this is transactional you're like
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all right well here i'll suck your dick on this day and this day and it all sounds very sort of uh
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structured doesn't like overly i actually i actually think that most love likely is transactional
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love to an extent yeah yeah and i think it almost like should be in a way it should be yeah why do you
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think it should be because hear me out women find 80 of men is ugly yeah 80 of men ugly ugly ugly and
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yeah so i can agree with that walking around london well yeah you know so it's like women really only
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are going to have genuine desire for like 20 of men maybe 25. so so it's like what the other girls
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what do they got they gotta they either die alone or you know find some transactions who's got the
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stat about india though marriage is arranged marriages in india and how successful they are
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all of hindus all hinduism divorce rate one percent yeah yeah but you don't think that's more
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transactional when it's arranged it is no it is transaction or it's more like well listen marriage
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the reason why westerners suck at marriage namely women is because they are based they're basing the
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backbone of their relationships on feelings and feelings are a fleeting thing
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feelings do not stay it's changing and it's coming and going and if you're a person who lives your
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life based upon your feelings only you're going to have an awful life right your relationship's going
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to be awful marriage is not based upon feelings marriage is a logical commitment for between two
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people for better for worse for rich or for poor for sick or for health am i wrong here enjoy
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i've got a question i've got a question for that as well though the only reason why is because the
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only things i'm factoring here i'm also factoring the biological side of things as well yeah and
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it's like to some degree yeah it's very easy for like and this isn't in defense it's just like my
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opinion in it it's very easy for like awesome men yet to be like yo boom a female should be logical
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like say let's say i'm arguing with my girlfriend i could be i could be thinking yo she really should be
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thinking this but i really do also believe that on the flip side of things i don't understand that
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chemistry at all so it's like it's like it's that that that battle to find that balance of you should
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be logical here to some degree but you're also battling this like how do you do that because
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early earlier when you were making a point and you were saying that um that or was it you that
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making a point that oh some females you know they want a bit more attention and then you made a point
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earlier saying that oh as long as it's equal but did you see the energy she had when she said but if he
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misses that one day if he misses that one day that's a sin yeah so so already what and because
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i like to like listen to everyone to speak after like from analyzing that she proved a point she
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proved that to some degree her emotion will come into it yeah and if he does slip up from the
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statistical transactional side of things things can go left and then the issue is when things go left
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how will women react to it going left well they can go left definitely but i think what we we were
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saying about the the hindu statistic is that uh when it's structured and when it's based on something
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beyond just emotion when there's a bigger a wider structure to it then i mean it's it's more likely
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to last isn't it in that situation look what happens when women follow their feelings yeah we're
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freaking idiots like come on it's a total mess you know 90 100 years ago 95 of people were married
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when 95 of people were less exposed as well now correct what has that done so it's like if 95 of
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people are married now women have more power than ever to pick their partner we have dating apps we have
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instagram we have more freedom than we've ever had and less influence from our family because we're getting
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married at 31 20 so the more freedom that we have the more divorced our country is
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i get what i'm saying i think the difference is with marriage especially we're saying arranged marriage
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right it's about duty and i think about duty right even when you love someone there are going to be
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things in order for it to be successful there are going to be things that you are going to have to do
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that you don't want to do right yes all these guys are you know your content creators even pearl right
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there are plenty of things about being a content creator yeah we love creating the content yeah
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but there are plenty of things that you have to do that we if we could choose we wouldn't have to
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do we want to buy all the expensive we don't want to have to learn how to make thumbnails
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making thumbnails doing a funnel system yeah yeah we don't want to have to learn to do that
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right but we choose to do those things because it's about serving the bigger picture yeah so i think
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in marriage right when you only function from your feelings you only make decisions from your feelings
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it means there are going to be days where you should be choosing to do something because it's
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your duty to even when you don't want to but for the marriage yeah but that's the problem but but
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but probably societally societally the big problem now is of course there's not there's not really
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those constraints is there so yeah and that's the fundamental issue i was mentioned earlier ron
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someone i can't remember if it was one of you guys but someone mentioned how when in in the china
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was a chinese or japanese relationship yeah yeah when someone reached the age of 40 years old the woman was
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like go have sex with who you feel like now just go get a girlfriend go get a girlfriend now this is
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the thing though like i do believe that within a marriage and within a relationship there are some
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factors that i think should be maintained throughout from beginning it starts to when it ends and i do
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think attraction maybe not even sexual attraction but just attraction of your partner i think that's
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something that should be maintained throughout and it's like i think that if like what's the my
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question is for the balance the balance of logical things that need to be done and that fun
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romanticism that's still important i think there should be no balance there should be no balance
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not i think in an ideal world it's like yeah yeah okay i mean is that realistic in the west maybe if
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we banned women voting birth control and a lot of other stuff yeah that's a whole nother another topic
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but it's like we look at the outcomes there's no feelings involved 99 success rate women's feelings
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get involved yeah 50 success rate average age of marriage is eight years they have like 12 bodies
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90 of us are on birth control one out of three of us has an std one of three of us has an abortion
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and john zerk is john zerk is getting laid like a rock star i mean what's that all about yeah you know
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i think the issue today is that um everyone's feelings are being directed in a distracting manner
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and i think that's what the issue is it's not that people have i think it's women's feelings yeah women i
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say women's then because men don't even necessarily control that element of things but in regards to
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women i feel like their feelings are being directed towards oh wait cardiby just got bought a birkin
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bag from offset i want my my feelings are telling me i now want that so now that's the definition of
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what love is to me i was i was listening i was listening to a song from the 90s and it was like a
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trisha yearwood song and in the song it talks about how the guy gave her his high school ring as a
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wedding ring until he could afford a real one what what percent of women would accept his high
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school ring as their wedding ring get married in a courthouse yeah and maybe do a wedding later
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that would be it's about it's about the wedding it's not about the marriage like we spend so much
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time thinking about what what is life gonna be like oh what what is this magical wedding day gonna
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be like but they've never thought what's it gonna be like my day-to-day as a wife you know did you see
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i had a girl come on the show where she was literally telling me how she was gonna have four
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kids and then meditate in the morning journal like that's how she's gonna start her day with four
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kids no no this is the delusion i'm like you're someone's gonna be screaming someone's gonna be
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crying someone's gonna be pulling you out of bed yeah but it's like we have all this thought about a
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wedding and never about being a wife yeah you know they did they did a study too that found out like
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the larger your wedding is the more likely you are to get a divorce right yeah everybody spoke
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because so many people here's the biggest problem with relationships is so many people worried about
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what other people think about your relationship yeah yes that's a big problem you know and this
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attention economy you know that everybody's like oh you know i i need to be this flex culture i need
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this i need that but if a girl is really down for you she needs like a couple people at the
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wedding her family you know mom dad and have a good time and at the end of the day if she really
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really really loves you she'll get married at the courthouse she'll sign paperwork because she's
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understanding the longevity of you two being together is more important than showing the world how awesome
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you are as a wife i can relate to this topic a lot because obviously i'm a female and i've kind of had to
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think about these things um basically like from my experience when i was younger like in my early 20s
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i'm in my mid-20s now obviously but um i always refused i had like proposals before and stuff like
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obviously us muslims we talk about marriage more quicker and all this stuff because it's like a lot of
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us are trying to do it yeah culture and then religious some are more religious than others so i was
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speaking to different guys about marriage yeah and um i was declining quite a few of them because
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i they didn't really want to have a big wedding some it wasn't because of the finances um some could
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have been even like the attention too much attention all these people for one night i'm spending all this
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money and they're going to share it out and then tomorrow everyone goes on the day but we're here
00:23:44.480
dealing with this so i do i always used to be like no go away go away because i want this big wedding
00:23:50.640
i only have one day to get married i need to see myself do this and also my sister had a big
00:23:55.680
wedding as well so i was like hold on i'm not gonna downgrade no way if she can do it i can do it too
00:24:03.120
and then now that i'm in my mid-20s i feel like i've matured a lot i'm like that's not even important
00:24:08.480
because what's important is me and him and getting god involved and committing those three things are
00:24:15.120
important you can always do a celebration later yeah can we blame men for not you know can we
00:24:20.800
blame men for not wanting to spend a ton of money on a wedding when the average marriage is like eight
00:24:25.520
years exactly do something crazy exactly but i was so oblivious to the situation i wasn't thinking from
00:24:31.280
their side alone because it's like we always talk about that in the media it's always talking about
00:24:35.200
the wedding but never being a wife like what what wives like and traditional wives are really pushed in
00:24:40.720
the media exactly i couldn't even think of one real homemaker traditional chick that i've seen
00:24:46.000
on tv that's like famous i can't think those lyrics that you're talking about though if that was a
00:24:50.960
real story now that would be a viral tick tock wouldn't it like oh my god look at this brokey he
00:24:54.880
tried to he tried to give me my high school ring lebron james's wife yeah yeah lebron james's wife and
00:25:01.680
now now name like real one now name like 10 mainstream hoes speaking of this topic do you guys believe
00:25:10.000
in evil eye what do you mean evil eye so people could do it i believe in it um they couldn't even in our
00:25:16.800
religion we believe in it basically you can do it intentionally or unintentionally for example like you
00:25:22.080
just see someone that looks great or they have this nice thing we we when we say that we say
00:25:26.960
mashallah so we don't jinx it accidentally not intentionally but it can accidentally be like wow
00:25:31.280
and then we can actually accidentally jinx that person so that's actually a thing so what happens
00:25:35.840
in these big weddings is you're getting all these people involved they're all seeing who you're marrying
00:25:40.880
what you are able to afford you are causing a lot of attention and it could be evil eye as well
00:25:46.400
intentionally or non-intentionally regardless yeah and then now you don't have all this burden people
00:25:50.960
people used to just go to the courthouse and it was fine but now and like the other thing is other
00:25:55.280
women ruin it because they're like oh well my man got me this my man got me that exactly a lot of the
00:26:00.880
times the girl's saying that it's because something's wrong but when you say as well that like you know
00:26:06.160
how you said that it's it's also about being a wife yeah like i'm looking at like my my generation as
00:26:11.200
well like i'm 23 in it and i'm and i like i have friends which are like much younger than me a lot of them
00:26:16.480
don't focus on the individualized person like a lot of them yeah they'll because let's say that
00:26:21.360
someone you can take someone that wants to be a perfect housewife and someone that wants to be
00:26:24.560
a perfect house husband put them together and it still probably won't work and i think the reason
00:26:28.320
why is because of the way they romanticize the idea they'll say okay cool i um i've been trained
00:26:34.240
by my mom to become a wife so i can be ready for a husband then she finds that that you've got a
00:26:39.040
habit that just puts her off and gives her the ick now she doesn't want the marriage anymore
00:26:42.320
but let's say that the moment the the romanticism came with her saying but i really like the way he
00:26:48.080
smiles i really like the way he is the really i really like the way he thinks like let's say that
00:26:52.320
she grew the idea of building towards marriage alongside with his personality involved as well
00:26:57.360
that's when i believe that she'd know what type of end product she's going to get with
00:27:00.960
is it to do with i think i think you look more at the families and their values more than
00:27:05.520
personality i think women get wooed by personality come on you know you know that guy that's a sweet talker
00:27:12.320
you know that guy that's a sweet talker and those girls those girls keep on getting finesse and finesse
00:27:18.640
look at her now in her head yeah look and i'm a guy that lives in tokyo talking about this and there's
00:27:22.560
a girl here in the uk agreeing with me but equally they get finesse again and again most don't mind
00:27:28.320
manipulators but equally no no no no she's not meeting manipulator after manipulator she's an idiot
00:27:35.440
but equally equally i think all these master manipulators are not out there equally i think
00:27:44.400
some women can can be i mean i dated a woman some years ago and she was in her later twenties english
00:27:50.160
girl right and i just felt like and she was really pushing things towards towards marriage you know she
00:27:55.040
really wanted marriage she really wanted commitment and quite quickly as well and i just felt right my
00:28:00.720
sense of it my spidey senses were tingling i felt that i was sort of irrelevant really it could have
00:28:06.320
been me but equally it could have been some other dude you know she really wanted that's that's the
00:28:10.560
point i was yeah yeah you're wanting to want you for you yeah and i'm sure she i should agree of course
00:28:15.520
she liked i'm sure she you know she liked me to some degree whatever but but equally it was sort of
00:28:20.560
like she wanted the instagram pictures she wanted the you know the idea of a boyfriend yeah exactly
00:28:26.160
she like that's the only element you see that's the only element i'm trying to avoid with yes the
00:28:32.000
ideology of your marriage fair play but i'd also want her to grow with me as a person whilst liking
00:28:37.680
what i can provide as a man because i'm not saying that oh you should just like me and that should
00:28:42.000
overcompensate with me being lazy i do think that all men should be working i do think that well if
00:28:48.400
in my opinion i think i think we sell guys a dream that guys girls like them for them
00:28:52.960
yeah but this is my balance though i'm saying that balance it i'm not saying now don't work
00:28:58.080
i'm saying be the best version of yourself so so forth but also make sure that the person you're
00:29:02.160
selecting also likes you can i ask you bro so wait what did you mean by that i just mean like i i think
00:29:07.600
we tell guys just be yourself and like women will come and i just think that that's not particularly
00:29:13.040
true so do you think it is really transactional you don't think like a girl look at a guy i think
00:29:16.880
nowadays it is i think it may be it used to be different you know we look more at families and values but
00:29:21.840
now it's like girls will just ask how much money you make a girl i mean what if someone's naturally
00:29:25.920
ambitious though like let's say that they've got an absolute desire to get back on their phone and
00:29:30.720
hustle because that's their routine before they even was in a relationship and let's say that's
00:29:33.920
part of my natural personality another girl could look at that and be like oh this guy never has time
00:29:38.320
for me yeah yeah yeah it's ironic though it's ironic because women want the the end fruits of the
00:29:44.400
success but actually they can sometimes i mean sometimes and i maybe you've had different experiences but
00:29:49.040
sometimes um they can also sort of impede you know if you're like right i want to spend 12 hours
00:29:53.840
hustling she's like no no i want to go to the store you know like every like yeah there's a difference
00:29:59.200
between like women who want a high value guy and women who know how to deal who will support a high
00:30:06.560
value yeah who know how to deal with the reality the day in day out of a high value guy like i was i was
00:30:11.680
dating a girl and one time she was like you know we need more quality time together i'm like what do you
00:30:15.840
mean you're over here all the time you know i was like you're like the fact that i even let you into
00:30:21.120
my life is is a quality in itself yeah but they want you to really give them an extreme amount of
00:30:29.200
attention but you know you have to convey to these women like look that's not how this is gonna work
00:30:35.520
you you you can go find another guy maybe he's good at guitar he can play you a song yeah but you guys
00:30:40.240
gonna fly economy but if you want a high value dude and you want a guy that is dedicated to
00:30:46.000
something bigger than the both of you put together you're gonna have to make some compromises yes but
00:30:50.960
you'll be compromising in business class so like you got to choose your you know choose your fortune
00:30:56.400
that you want to go for is the love and the romanticism and all this shit that is eventually
00:31:00.320
going to fade away or something that's going to last a little bit longer but i think right now
00:31:04.880
ultimately because in the western world right because i live in in asia and so in the western
00:31:10.000
world they're just constantly lying to women saying you can have it all yeah you can be a ceo
00:31:18.000
and a mother and have the perfect guy and never have relationship problems and you'll be debt free
00:31:23.280
and you're not going to be fat and everybody's going to love you and you're never going to stop
00:31:26.320
losing attention from men you're going to be beautiful into your 50s like jlo
00:31:30.320
and that's just not the reality that's actually partially what got me into this content was
00:31:34.400
because i would hear women talk about how they wanted to date a high value guy and i'm just like
00:31:39.040
thinking and i think of like my dad working growing up and i'm like you think you're gonna have date
00:31:42.480
nights every friday with a guy that's working yeah hours a week good luck like i hope i hope it works
00:31:49.360
out for you but it's just a realistic i have a question for you based on what you're saying earlier
00:31:53.520
i gotta take off do you um do you do you believe that you can learn to love someone
00:31:58.560
do you believe you can learn to love someone i think you grow on you i think you learn to love
00:32:03.280
every person you ever love because every person you love you never love because you know how you're
00:32:08.480
like you were saying about oh a girl kind of you know meets with a guy who could be a perfect husband
00:32:12.320
but then he does something that's her dick and she's like nah i'm out yeah yeah so in my in my
00:32:16.720
i would say to that i'd be like she is not wifey material oh yeah i'd say she's not the perfect wife
00:32:23.040
because if if something that he's doing that isn't a jeopardy to the relationship like he's
00:32:27.120
got a weird snore or something yeah yeah right and she's like i can see he's a great quality guy he's
00:32:31.440
committed and i could have a good future with him but because of this one thing i'm going to jeopardize
00:32:35.760
all of that i would say she's not serious about the marriage what i would say to that is that in
00:32:39.760
general yeah every relationship you get into you're going to find things that you love about your
00:32:43.760
partner and things that you dislike about your partner like very naturally in it and what i'd
00:32:47.920
also say to that is that like if if let's say that okay cool we can all in our own heads pick what we
00:32:54.880
deem as important and not important so the way she could deem you don't need to be on your instagram
00:32:59.520
dming people so much that you could be like no this is my bread and it's really about how you
00:33:04.240
like balance whilst growing with each other because i really think that a lot of these red flags
00:33:08.320
people are like they can't see red flags they're like like they'll see all these
00:33:13.680
men will admit there's red flags women are the ones they're like oh he changed as soon as we started
00:33:18.320
dating yeah when it's like okay but but the question you have to ask is did your parents like him
00:33:26.400
you know what you said earlier on um about women rushing to get married because they like the idea of
00:33:31.840
marriage and wedding but they're not thinking the actual concept of becoming a wife yeah the
00:33:36.240
responsibilities of it i've actually have i've actually had a friend that literally got married
00:33:41.920
because of the idea of marriage and kids quickly and then within being a wife process the man was like
00:33:48.560
asking her to cook every night because she's at home taking care of the baby he's working so of course
00:33:53.680
she should be like at least patterning the house cooking and cleaning she didn't want to do it
00:33:56.800
she didn't want to do it she didn't want to do it he was like what he went to his mom's house
00:34:00.800
complained and his mom's food came back and she's on the phone to me saying oh he's expecting dinner
00:34:06.480
tonight and i'm telling her girl i'm not married and i'm single even i know that you have to be in
00:34:11.280
that kitchen well i'm just thinking like doesn't doesn't she have to eat so she used to cook for
00:34:15.680
herself anyway yeah like just make a little extra you know what she said she said i'd rather eat
00:34:22.480
something quick or maybe a takeaway like i can't be assed and i told her like i'm not gonna lie this
00:34:27.280
is your responsibility your man is completely right in this if you don't if you want if you care for
00:34:32.480
your marriage and you want to stay married you better be in that kitchen and make sure that food
00:34:36.400
is ready before eight o'clock it's a it shows a modern mindset because she cares about what she wants
00:34:40.720
not what's best for the family it's not good for a family to have these quick meals like it's good for the
00:34:44.880
family to have just sit down sit down yeah but that's the thing that lowers like depression
00:34:49.600
anxiety feelings of worthlessness that don't let it's a gigantic important thing for a family to
00:34:56.000
sit down and have regular meals i was just happy that she called me to ask me i said you called the
00:35:00.880
right person go in that kitchen uh we were gonna start the video though um so guys we're gonna watch
00:35:07.760
i know we got a little off topic but okay so andrew tate's okay everyone else andrew tate fans yes
00:35:13.200
he's not a fan you're kind of what 50 50 no i probably say i'm i'm on board 75 um i completely
00:35:21.440
agree with responsibility but i think some things he says is is about preference that i would be like
00:35:26.560
uh that's maybe not my preference in how i would operate in that way but i think fundamentally yeah i
00:35:31.520
do agree with what he says okay all right let's pull pull the footage pull the footage king
00:35:37.280
uh what do you i wonder what he's going to talk about because he's this is huge i think he has 385
00:35:46.480
000 live viewers right now right now that's freaking crazy you know and this is his first emergency
00:35:53.200
meeting since being incarcerated in the romanian uh prisons and then being on house arrest as well
00:35:59.120
what a contrast between the two i know that's a nice true suit there tristan has
00:36:15.360
do you allow the cigar smoking in the just pearly things
00:36:18.240
i said i would never give up on the people i said i would never give up on our fans i said i
00:36:33.280
will not just take my hundreds of millions of dollars and run to the hills i said i would never
00:36:37.520
quit but you never actually answered the question you're rich you're strong you've got a family you've
00:36:43.280
got me you could disappear from this we could delete all of our internet profiles tomorrow we
00:36:48.000
could vanish from the internet and we would live amazing lives incomparable to most lives many men
00:36:54.480
would ever live so i guess the question that everyone's looking for an answer to
00:36:59.360
is what are you going to do i know the answer you can endure you know what makes me sad
00:37:07.040
if i thought crying was constructive i would cry but it's not who i am
00:37:10.720
i don't think it's constructive i don't think it's the correct thing to do but i'm not sad for myself
00:37:14.560
i'm prepared to suffer i've built a life in which i must suffer but i am sad for the people around me
00:37:18.800
and i'm because i know this matrix attack has just begun and i'm sad because i know they're going to
00:37:23.680
try and push this to the end they're going to genuinely try and put us in jail for no reason
00:37:27.120
i'm sad that other countries out there which i love which i grew up in which i'm patriotic to which
00:37:30.800
i have the passport to are out to get me and hurt me for no reason other than the fact i'm trying to do good
00:37:34.880
i'm sad for the people around me who i love who rely on me not just on me for money but also for my
00:37:39.280
presence as a whole i'm sad they want to take me away from my children i'm sad they want to leave
00:37:43.520
me to rot in a hole for what what for and i'm sad that they want to turn me into a coward and i
00:37:49.200
either have to go and live and sit in my room with all my money and try and distract myself with
00:37:54.880
hedonism and a bunch of women or go coward or i have to sit and be a sad hero and there's no in
00:38:01.360
between that about that's what really upsets me that i'm left with those two choices i'm either a
00:38:04.960
a hero who must suffer endlessly this is just the beginning none of this is going away you think
00:38:10.320
this is going away this is the beginning of all of it it's never going to end they're going to
00:38:14.240
continue to attack me for the end of time no matter what they're going to keep doing it to me and i'm
00:38:18.960
sad that my children are going to wake up every day wondering if dad's in jail for no reason or if dad's
00:38:23.440
been assassinated yet you think they're going to allow me to continue to spread good when they're truly
00:38:27.600
evil in their hearts i'll put a bullet in my head i'm sad knowing that i could have the best life on
00:38:31.680
earth and the only thing i have to do is be a coward to live it but i don't want to wake up
00:38:35.520
every day looking over my shoulder worried about being killed well the alternative to it is to wake
00:38:46.400
okay wait hold on it's pretty pretty intense it's intense you jumped in it as well i don't know
00:38:52.160
yeah i think it it's glitching but anyways the rumble servers might not be able to handle that
00:38:56.640
because there's so many people watching right now yeah well we can we can go to the live but what'd you
00:39:01.040
guys i was going to pause it in a second anyway i i think i don't think he has to well that he has
00:39:06.320
doesn't have to worry i think the anyone who's watched him especially interviews you talk about
00:39:11.440
the matrix and the people in power that at b right the last thing they want to do the last thing they
00:39:16.720
want to do is make him a martyr because if anything happened to andrew tate oh the streets if anything
00:39:24.880
happened right that is going to elevate the movement globally because it will literally
00:39:30.880
confirm everything he has ever said about this whole matrix thing so i don't think
00:39:36.560
is he going to suffer and sense them coming for him of course they're going to try and continue to
00:39:40.720
but i think in terms of his life and stuff i don't that would be the worst case for the enemy if you
00:39:45.520
know so i'm gonna i'm gonna give you the optimism perspective of things right so i i i think that
00:39:50.880
they're just so desperate right now because i honestly i i just think donald trump is a couple steps
00:39:57.280
ahead of andrew tate right because i mean i mean they're actually man well tate is has done prison
00:40:04.400
time but they haven't hit him with a crime yet but they're trying the same shit that they're doing to
00:40:08.000
trump right now which is completely unjust because if you look at people like dick cheney and look at
00:40:15.440
people like biden where they have found a bunch of classified documents in his house already and if you
00:40:21.440
if you've seen anything that hunter biden has done on that laptop i mean the fact that these people
00:40:28.560
were roaming free but then trump came into office and you know his biggest sin was he didn't start a
00:40:36.000
new war he was the first president who did not start a new war in american history going back to
00:40:43.760
i don't even know when i think i literally think every president after eisenhower because there was
00:40:51.440
korean war after that and then there was vietnam and then you had you know operation iraqi freedom and
00:40:57.200
then enduring freedom all the stuff in the middle east and trump on 2016 or i think it was i think it
00:41:04.240
was like 2016 yeah he was uh at one of the debates and he said that like the whole reason that we were in
00:41:11.440
the middle east was total there were no weapons of mass destruction so he went against the matrix and
00:41:18.480
now andrew was smart enough to know that there are literally hundreds of millions of disenfranchised
00:41:26.880
young men who were tired of being shit on by mainstream media news government video games social
00:41:36.000
media everywhere you turn they're shitting on these young men telling them you're a bad person
00:41:42.080
you're a grapist you're a misogynist you're this you know you're part of the patriarchy and all these
00:41:47.920
guys are just like young impressionable young men who are just sitting at home and like what did i do
00:41:54.240
like a lot of these young guys and this is an america-centric thing but a lot of young white guys
00:41:59.040
are feeling bad for being white they're just like yeah you're bad because you're white like dude
00:42:03.280
my name is spencer and i'm like 17 and i like call of duty and and it's like all of the like the
00:42:09.280
matrix and the matrix in the media what are they pushing and that's the crazy thing like i just got
00:42:14.400
off a stream where they were literally pushing that women should sleep around as opposed to being virgins
00:42:19.040
yeah like they it's like what what are you pushing you're pushing for promiscuity which isn't good for
00:42:23.680
women yeah but that's and it's not and it's not good sorry i had gone i was just gonna say the guy running
00:42:29.040
that stream is a fat loser who's getting divorced by his wife what what context does that guy really
00:42:33.440
have well i mean i'm not even i don't even care about that i'm just saying it's like what what
00:42:38.000
values what mission do these people push and it's like when somebody genuinely has a good message like
00:42:42.960
tate they will do everything in their power to destroy him yep everything the thing would take the
00:42:48.640
the genius of of tate though the genius of andrew tate though and tristan said recently that andrew
00:42:55.040
tate has altered forever the the term influencer the meaning of the term influencer because andrew
00:43:02.320
tate is somebody who genuinely influences the youth you know genuinely influences young men and
00:43:09.440
indeed some women in a way that nobody has ever done before i mean this isn't just about doing pranks
00:43:15.280
on youtube videos or making stupid tiktoks or something this is somebody who has who has genuine
00:43:21.920
actual influence and when you look at something like the bit that we just saw which was very
00:43:26.160
intense like like john was saying um nobody has managed to articulate what he's what he's getting
00:43:35.360
across in the way that he has all right and and the genius of him himself as a marketer but also as
00:43:41.520
somebody who is is highlighting exactly what john's talking about you know that schism between uh what the
00:43:48.960
the perceived elites want versus what's what people on the ground want nobody else other than him has
00:43:54.480
managed to articulate that in such a powerful and such a colorful and such a a resonant way and i think
00:44:01.200
that that that it's just a master class in being a rhetorician right it's just a master class in
00:44:06.480
communication and the ability to influence a mass audience at scale so it's really quite incredible
00:44:12.800
what we're seeing yeah but i feel like in terms of um getting rid of him or doing anything to harm him
00:44:19.120
i feel like they would love to but they won't do it right now but potentially when this dies down
00:44:25.360
they might come back to bite him i don't know the only way this would die down is if he was let go
00:44:31.120
let's start like because if he goes to jail there's going to be more or everything like it's going
00:44:35.600
to be consistent is it is is going to be consistent um i meant as in like they would they would maybe
00:44:42.800
let time go by and then strike again so then it looks like it's not them and they make it look
00:44:47.360
like a suicide or something no but he said live on stream um uh on pbd's podcast he was like i'm saying
00:44:53.280
this for the record right now i would never ever commit suicide especially being a muslim now as well
00:44:58.880
he was like so if anything ever comes up that if i'm detained and something happened just know
00:45:04.320
that is what it is like it wasn't me yeah he was like on uh pbd's stream though wasn't he that um
00:45:10.160
even if he gets exonerated in in in terms of this specific trial yeah he's always going to be looking
00:45:15.680
over his shoulder that threat is always going to be there yeah are you kidding me yeah someone in the
00:45:20.640
chat says he does have influence my little brother has seen his shorts of him working out my brother
00:45:25.040
was inspired to get into fitness and he's 11. so do people actually think he's got like a negative
00:45:29.440
effect on the world yeah yeah a lot of people do when i did i did um interviews at carnival like
00:45:35.760
last year and i just would ask girls like oh what do you think of tate and i was like oh what do you
00:45:40.320
what do you think of angie i hate that guy but even that in itself though don't you believe that that's
00:45:44.560
just a programming to some degree because i also think hate's closer to love i think you can flip
00:45:49.040
it a lot quicker yeah they're fine lines you sound like patrice o'neil yeah really i don't know
00:45:54.480
i think that i don't know okay well i think i actually saw one of those with them one of the
00:45:58.000
videos that you've done in public where you were going around asking people what do you think of
00:46:00.880
angie tate yeah because those were going around in general when it was like he was like blowing up in
00:46:04.560
it yeah and what i was finding that like the most common thing you say to them is why do you hate him
00:46:09.360
those are the same girls that can't name three countries on fresh and fit but that's what i'm
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saying i think it's just a program i think that in general let's say that and you take is in the
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face of it and just let's say that we've got something else called i don't know let's say an
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avocado if the government if like the system pushes it in front of people's faces to tell you
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you need to hate this you need to hate this you need to hate this this discussion is no longer
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necessarily about and you take necessarily then it's about how they can control who you hate
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and i think that's a bigger issue than hating and you date because the fact that is let's say that
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you've done that podcast now you're not stream and all the females said i don't like him because he
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said this specific sentence to me and it made me feel like this and it reminded me of this trauma
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thing that happened to me in the past let's say that those were their responses i'd be like you know
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what i like him you don't like him that's fair in it but their responses were i don't know is that not scary