JustPearlyThings - Boss Babe JUSTIFIES Being A 304

00:00:00.000 point i'm trying to make those are not stable individuals i live in new york everyone's crazy

00:00:04.900 there every single person is crazy there right so you would be surprised how many women i have 1.00

00:00:10.040 come across that have said this exact same thing like men if they're in it and it's feeling good

00:00:14.880 you know what you know what they want to tell you why they're all sleeping with the same guys

00:00:18.500 which goes back to my point the same kind of men the only guy in new york but this is what i mean

00:00:26.500 women select horribly but that's if you're if you're sleeping with the guy like what does that 1.00

00:00:31.220 say about your decision but you gotta think about it all the good guys are probably taken so there's

00:00:35.680 only the bozos like that that are left for us to pick from that's not true this whole like if you're 0.91

00:00:40.820 not getting good men it's something it says something about you you are what you attract 0.92

00:00:45.320 these these prison guys you're talking about but the men i like are gay what can i do all the pretty 0.99

00:00:50.540 men they are gay and they don't want me what can i do she said it gay is like five percent of the 0.92

00:00:57.400 population it's not that high what of men yeah but i like them yeah what about frogs though i heard 0.93

00:01:03.400 that going that way but you know what that also demographics i really think all that does depend

00:01:09.140 on where you live as well like if you live in a country somewhere it might be easier for you to find

00:01:13.880 a good man you know i'm saying because it's a country they preach families marriage kids all of that

00:01:19.100 if you live in a thriving overpopulated city you're worrying about how you're going to pay bills

00:01:24.540 so everybody's not inclined to really be on some okay let's get married let's have children

00:01:28.700 are you saying all the men in here are not good men because they live in a populated city i'm not

00:01:35.100 saying that they're not they're gorgeous we're gonna do after party but there are there are communities

00:01:40.220 within our overcrowded cities where most of us are a complete mess there are communities who do very well

00:01:46.960 have very stable families none of our messy issues yes but what i'm saying is that depending on where

00:01:53.540 you live will be the family values and morals that you go for somebody in south carolina right out of

00:02:00.500 high school is more likely to get married to maybe a high school sweetheart or something like that because 1.00

00:02:05.400 that is what's preached if you come to new york that's not preached it's a whole different it is

00:02:11.000 like listen if you meet a man he got a good job he could move on moving with you my brother lives in

00:02:18.340 new york he got married and had a kid like is he still married yes does he have a phone number oh no

00:02:24.280 he's still married but where where but where are you guys from where um i mean i'm from chicago

00:02:31.220 that's which is which is another city people move to new york so it's like but new york is not a place

00:02:38.040 known for people to just marry i'm telling you new york if you date a man for new york you are on a

00:02:44.900 10 year dating plan you will sit there and date a man for eight years then he will finally say let's

00:02:51.200 get married by the ninth year you're engaged 10 year you're married well if you get married everybody up

00:02:57.320 there is more common law marriages you can tell him but i've also heard that the women in new york 1.00

00:03:03.100 aren't marriageable i've heard they're very career driven i've heard they're very masculine

00:03:08.180 they're not very motherly and men will date a woman for 10 years that they don't see as wife material 0.52

00:03:14.760 break up with her and then marry the next chick well i wouldn't i wouldn't say i wouldn't say we're not

00:03:19.700 motherly i wouldn't say that i would say are we career driven yes but think about it there's so much

00:03:24.180 poverty in new york new york is an expensive city not everybody comes from a good background so you're

00:03:29.320 going to thrive to be more career driven because you have to make it and you hope along that way you

00:03:34.560 you find a man that'll want to make it with you but i i believe that women should go back to not 1.00

00:03:39.760 working i wish i could go back to not working but so why don't women reality but like if we're going to 1.00

00:03:44.580 go back to traditionalism right so like again because we have this like where women want a 1.00

00:03:50.680 traditional outcome but we don't want to be traditional women i have nothing i have nothing

00:03:54.740 against wanting to do like do your career and be modern but where i get confused is when traditional

00:04:00.740 women ask for modern for modern women ask for traditional outcomes so it's like okay if you 0.99

00:04:07.440 want to stay home and not work why aren't you a virgin on your wedding day that's traditional 0.98

00:04:11.200 why is he not a virgin no but that you know that's not you know that's not the same of course

00:04:16.560 if your mother teaches you that at a young age right right if you're good like when you go to a lot

00:04:22.620 of these spanish countries right you see 90 day fiance they always go to a spanish country uh you know

00:04:28.100 asian country and they get their little nice young wives because that's what's being taught to these 0.93

00:04:32.560 women how to be a wife so but over the age of 18 it's on your it's your job to learn so so right now

00:04:39.720 the average age of first marriage is 30 okay women are getting married at 30 so now you have 10 years 0.55

00:04:46.940 to figure it out you can surround yourself by wives right you can learn how to cook learn how to do 0.93

00:04:52.580 the traditional thing like there's no more excuses anymore especially with the internet you can learn

00:04:58.040 what you want to learn you're in the real world by then by 18 you're in the real world by then right

00:05:02.760 so if you really think about it the average woman might lose her virginity at 16 right so the average

00:05:08.540 woman let's say loses her virginity at 16 right and your mother didn't tell you the values of 0.96

00:05:13.200 no sex before marriage or whatever like that you're already tainted by 18 okay okay so fine we take the

00:05:18.800 purity out of it but there's still other things you can do to be a traditional woman it's not all

00:05:22.980 about purity i just use that as an example right that's just one tenant of it right like you can get

00:05:28.540 a job working with children right that would prepare you to be a mother right you could you could which 1.00

00:05:34.760 is a no paying job you could you could but right but but traditional women it's not about money it's 1.00

00:05:40.540 about family right you could you could surround yourself by wives he was talking about femininity coaches 0.93

00:05:46.360 like there's ways that women can improve we just choose not to but if we're busy so what you said

00:05:51.420 earlier right let me tell you what you said earlier you said more women have their own apartments and 1.00

00:05:55.520 these men are able to come over and this and that more women no no no no their parents home earlier

00:06:01.060 right it no well well then it is then in history yeah yeah so women move out of their parents home 1.00

00:06:06.420 earlier than a man where a man will stay home longer right we no no i didn't say that i said before

00:06:11.740 women would go from the the parents house to the husbands yeah no but what i'm trying to say is that 0.97

00:06:17.940 in this day and age more women are getting like their own apartments earlier well if that's true 1.00

00:06:23.140 women can't afford it so women have way more debt than men but that's the thing about it right if women 1.00

00:06:27.780 are venturing out early of course they're going to want to make more money they're going to want to

00:06:31.580 have better jobs but them trying to work and support themselves how are they going to be able to sit

00:06:37.880 there and be like okay let me take first of all there's not a lot of classes that are available

00:06:41.600 to show women how to sit there femininity classes but how many oldest raised and female coaches like 1.00

00:06:48.540 there's there's there's so many classes it's booming right now but now it is because now women are 1.00

00:06:54.480 starting to be like hey maybe we don't like there's churches equality movement but churches you can like

00:07:00.200 find wives like there's always people you can surround yourself with that's now that they're doing that 0.83

00:07:05.200 10 years ago this is not what they were teaching us 10 years ago 10 years they're pushing women to 0.97

00:07:09.820 work in this field work in that field do this do that so right now maybe this newer generation coming

00:07:16.140 up the women have a better chance of learning how to go back to traditional ways and being wives again 0.95

00:07:21.020 but we went through a whole era where women you better get up and work because there were a lot of 1.00

00:07:25.420 men that weren't working so women better get up and work and help the household men still out earn women 1.00

00:07:30.440 but then again we go back to the childhood all right and what parents taught us so if my mom

00:07:37.140 taught me how to cook and how to clean and to look after the house and to paint the walls so this kind

00:07:41.480 of prepares me for the wifiness of the situation right so again it's not just schools it's not

00:07:46.860 universities it's not like education system that is fully responsible for being as good wives or good 1.00

00:07:53.300 husbands is our upbringing and where we come from and the more we're not getting it at home the more

00:07:58.340 we're crappier at it right correct and that's why it's so important for families to stay together

00:08:03.380 that's why women should not have sold out the men to the government because now the next generation of 1.00

00:08:09.800 women has all these problems where we don't know how to be wives and even above all this stuff like 1.00

00:08:14.940 what percent of women will obey their husband because if you want if you want to be in a traditional 1.00

00:08:19.840 marriage no it doesn't it's not if he leads right that's not biblical it's not it's not submit when

00:08:26.040 i feel like it it's submit all the time and support him even when he makes the wrong decisions 0.98

00:08:30.300 the titanic goes down with the shit the captain you go down no no but the bible does say that the 0.99

00:08:38.100 wife should submit to her husband but it also says that this husband should be able to lead should be 1.00

00:08:42.780 able to actually take care of his family so if you can't take care of your family and i have to now go

00:08:47.760 out and work issue you're going into is now it's oh he's leading like when i decide he's leaving now

00:08:53.040 it's based on your feelings that's the problem like that's why men get frustrated when they go

00:08:57.560 to church because they go to church and women there's not even like women that will actually 0.99

00:09:01.460 submit to their husbands and so i'll submit when i feel like he's leading but but you're only going 0.89

00:09:05.720 to do that when you're comfortable with him think about it so you think any man like let's say if i

00:09:09.800 start dating um john right if i start dating john tomorrow i i should just already be like go ahead

00:09:14.700 and lead me lead the way everything you do i'm going to trust in you yes yes what if he has a whole

00:09:19.220 secret life as a heroin addict but this is but this is you can't get anything good going into

00:09:23.640 like you can't you can't go into things in bad faith

JustPearlyThings - July 07, 2023

Boss Babe JUSTIFIES Being A 304

Episode Stats

Summary

Transcript