Boss Babe JUSTIFIES Being A 304
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
217.14145
Summary
In this episode, we talk about why women choose the wrong men and why we should go back to not working in order to find a good man. We also talk about what it means to be a modern woman and why modern women are not stable individuals.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
point i'm trying to make those are not stable individuals i live in new york everyone's crazy
00:00:04.900
there every single person is crazy there right so you would be surprised how many women i have
00:00:10.040
come across that have said this exact same thing like men if they're in it and it's feeling good
00:00:14.880
you know what you know what they want to tell you why they're all sleeping with the same guys
00:00:18.500
which goes back to my point the same kind of men the only guy in new york but this is what i mean
00:00:26.500
women select horribly but that's if you're if you're sleeping with the guy like what does that
00:00:31.220
say about your decision but you gotta think about it all the good guys are probably taken so there's
00:00:35.680
only the bozos like that that are left for us to pick from that's not true this whole like if you're
00:00:40.820
not getting good men it's something it says something about you you are what you attract
00:00:45.320
these these prison guys you're talking about but the men i like are gay what can i do all the pretty
00:00:50.540
men they are gay and they don't want me what can i do she said it gay is like five percent of the
00:00:57.400
population it's not that high what of men yeah but i like them yeah what about frogs though i heard
00:01:03.400
that going that way but you know what that also demographics i really think all that does depend
00:01:09.140
on where you live as well like if you live in a country somewhere it might be easier for you to find
00:01:13.880
a good man you know i'm saying because it's a country they preach families marriage kids all of that
00:01:19.100
if you live in a thriving overpopulated city you're worrying about how you're going to pay bills
00:01:24.540
so everybody's not inclined to really be on some okay let's get married let's have children
00:01:28.700
are you saying all the men in here are not good men because they live in a populated city i'm not
00:01:35.100
saying that they're not they're gorgeous we're gonna do after party but there are there are communities
00:01:40.220
within our overcrowded cities where most of us are a complete mess there are communities who do very well
00:01:46.960
have very stable families none of our messy issues yes but what i'm saying is that depending on where
00:01:53.540
you live will be the family values and morals that you go for somebody in south carolina right out of
00:02:00.500
high school is more likely to get married to maybe a high school sweetheart or something like that because
00:02:05.400
that is what's preached if you come to new york that's not preached it's a whole different it is
00:02:11.000
like listen if you meet a man he got a good job he could move on moving with you my brother lives in
00:02:18.340
new york he got married and had a kid like is he still married yes does he have a phone number oh no
00:02:24.280
he's still married but where where but where are you guys from where um i mean i'm from chicago
00:02:31.220
that's which is which is another city people move to new york so it's like but new york is not a place
00:02:38.040
known for people to just marry i'm telling you new york if you date a man for new york you are on a
00:02:44.900
10 year dating plan you will sit there and date a man for eight years then he will finally say let's
00:02:51.200
get married by the ninth year you're engaged 10 year you're married well if you get married everybody up
00:02:57.320
there is more common law marriages you can tell him but i've also heard that the women in new york
00:03:03.100
aren't marriageable i've heard they're very career driven i've heard they're very masculine
00:03:08.180
they're not very motherly and men will date a woman for 10 years that they don't see as wife material
00:03:14.760
break up with her and then marry the next chick well i wouldn't i wouldn't say i wouldn't say we're not
00:03:19.700
motherly i wouldn't say that i would say are we career driven yes but think about it there's so much
00:03:24.180
poverty in new york new york is an expensive city not everybody comes from a good background so you're
00:03:29.320
going to thrive to be more career driven because you have to make it and you hope along that way you
00:03:34.560
you find a man that'll want to make it with you but i i believe that women should go back to not
00:03:39.760
working i wish i could go back to not working but so why don't women reality but like if we're going to
00:03:44.580
go back to traditionalism right so like again because we have this like where women want a
00:03:50.680
traditional outcome but we don't want to be traditional women i have nothing i have nothing
00:03:54.740
against wanting to do like do your career and be modern but where i get confused is when traditional
00:04:00.740
women ask for modern for modern women ask for traditional outcomes so it's like okay if you
00:04:07.440
want to stay home and not work why aren't you a virgin on your wedding day that's traditional
00:04:11.200
why is he not a virgin no but that you know that's not you know that's not the same of course
00:04:16.560
if your mother teaches you that at a young age right right if you're good like when you go to a lot
00:04:22.620
of these spanish countries right you see 90 day fiance they always go to a spanish country uh you know
00:04:28.100
asian country and they get their little nice young wives because that's what's being taught to these
00:04:32.560
women how to be a wife so but over the age of 18 it's on your it's your job to learn so so right now
00:04:39.720
the average age of first marriage is 30 okay women are getting married at 30 so now you have 10 years
00:04:46.940
to figure it out you can surround yourself by wives right you can learn how to cook learn how to do
00:04:52.580
the traditional thing like there's no more excuses anymore especially with the internet you can learn
00:04:58.040
what you want to learn you're in the real world by then by 18 you're in the real world by then right
00:05:02.760
so if you really think about it the average woman might lose her virginity at 16 right so the average
00:05:08.540
woman let's say loses her virginity at 16 right and your mother didn't tell you the values of
00:05:13.200
no sex before marriage or whatever like that you're already tainted by 18 okay okay so fine we take the
00:05:18.800
purity out of it but there's still other things you can do to be a traditional woman it's not all
00:05:22.980
about purity i just use that as an example right that's just one tenant of it right like you can get
00:05:28.540
a job working with children right that would prepare you to be a mother right you could you could which
00:05:34.760
is a no paying job you could you could but right but but traditional women it's not about money it's
00:05:40.540
about family right you could you could surround yourself by wives he was talking about femininity coaches
00:05:46.360
like there's ways that women can improve we just choose not to but if we're busy so what you said
00:05:51.420
earlier right let me tell you what you said earlier you said more women have their own apartments and
00:05:55.520
these men are able to come over and this and that more women no no no no their parents home earlier
00:06:01.060
right it no well well then it is then in history yeah yeah so women move out of their parents home
00:06:06.420
earlier than a man where a man will stay home longer right we no no i didn't say that i said before
00:06:11.740
women would go from the the parents house to the husbands yeah no but what i'm trying to say is that
00:06:17.940
in this day and age more women are getting like their own apartments earlier well if that's true
00:06:23.140
women can't afford it so women have way more debt than men but that's the thing about it right if women
00:06:27.780
are venturing out early of course they're going to want to make more money they're going to want to
00:06:31.580
have better jobs but them trying to work and support themselves how are they going to be able to sit
00:06:37.880
there and be like okay let me take first of all there's not a lot of classes that are available
00:06:41.600
to show women how to sit there femininity classes but how many oldest raised and female coaches like
00:06:48.540
there's there's there's so many classes it's booming right now but now it is because now women are
00:06:54.480
starting to be like hey maybe we don't like there's churches equality movement but churches you can like
00:07:00.200
find wives like there's always people you can surround yourself with that's now that they're doing that
00:07:05.200
10 years ago this is not what they were teaching us 10 years ago 10 years they're pushing women to
00:07:09.820
work in this field work in that field do this do that so right now maybe this newer generation coming
00:07:16.140
up the women have a better chance of learning how to go back to traditional ways and being wives again
00:07:21.020
but we went through a whole era where women you better get up and work because there were a lot of
00:07:25.420
men that weren't working so women better get up and work and help the household men still out earn women
00:07:30.440
but then again we go back to the childhood all right and what parents taught us so if my mom
00:07:37.140
taught me how to cook and how to clean and to look after the house and to paint the walls so this kind
00:07:41.480
of prepares me for the wifiness of the situation right so again it's not just schools it's not
00:07:46.860
universities it's not like education system that is fully responsible for being as good wives or good
00:07:53.300
husbands is our upbringing and where we come from and the more we're not getting it at home the more
00:07:58.340
we're crappier at it right correct and that's why it's so important for families to stay together
00:08:03.380
that's why women should not have sold out the men to the government because now the next generation of
00:08:09.800
women has all these problems where we don't know how to be wives and even above all this stuff like
00:08:14.940
what percent of women will obey their husband because if you want if you want to be in a traditional
00:08:19.840
marriage no it doesn't it's not if he leads right that's not biblical it's not it's not submit when
00:08:26.040
i feel like it it's submit all the time and support him even when he makes the wrong decisions
00:08:30.300
the titanic goes down with the shit the captain you go down no no but the bible does say that the
00:08:38.100
wife should submit to her husband but it also says that this husband should be able to lead should be
00:08:42.780
able to actually take care of his family so if you can't take care of your family and i have to now go
00:08:47.760
out and work issue you're going into is now it's oh he's leading like when i decide he's leaving now
00:08:53.040
it's based on your feelings that's the problem like that's why men get frustrated when they go
00:08:57.560
to church because they go to church and women there's not even like women that will actually
00:09:01.460
submit to their husbands and so i'll submit when i feel like he's leading but but you're only going
00:09:05.720
to do that when you're comfortable with him think about it so you think any man like let's say if i
00:09:09.800
start dating um john right if i start dating john tomorrow i i should just already be like go ahead
00:09:14.700
and lead me lead the way everything you do i'm going to trust in you yes yes what if he has a whole
00:09:19.220
secret life as a heroin addict but this is but this is you can't get anything good going into
00:09:23.640
like you can't you can't go into things in bad faith