JustPearlyThings - Breaking down Modern Women's 9 Red Flags

00:00:00.000 modern women deserve to be courted so i'm going to be showing you guys a clip um from kevin samuels

00:00:09.120 rip and where he talks about red flags to look for in women so i am just going to get you guys

00:00:17.280 his reaction to it so here's some things that guys need to watch out for when they're dating

00:00:34.400 regardless of the size of your pocketbook or your dreams or aspirations and ignore these things at

00:00:40.400 your peril because just like all the great men of antiquity the bible and in the past a woman can 0.95

00:00:46.480 need to help but oftentimes the wrong woman can throw a man completely into chaos start off with 0.99

00:00:52.800 this one she wants to be courted yeah she wants to be courted now i know that some guys are probably

00:00:57.280 thinking hey kevin you kind of talk like a traditional man what's wrong with her wanting to be

00:01:01.680 courted nothing if she's truly a traditional woman but typically women want to be courted because they 1.00

00:01:07.280 want all the benefits of traditional femininity in gender roles but they ain't bringing none of that 1.00

00:01:12.320 stuff to the table this is just another way of asking you to simp very few westernized women 1.00

00:01:17.600 deserve to be courted i say it again very few westernized women deserve to be courted you guys 1.00

00:01:23.840 fought for equality you're my equal you wanted equal pay you wanted equal rights well you need to get

00:01:29.040 equal lefts you wanted to be courted that ain't gonna happen we are equals deal with it thank feminism 0.70

00:01:35.760 one-on-one your mamas and your grandmamas this is the world ladies if you're watching understand

00:01:40.960 this is what men are on the lookout for so if you asking some guy to court you what do you bringing

00:01:45.360 to the table other than sex and debt she's got a 90-day rule or any kind of rule like this in my 1.00

00:01:51.920 opinion the first time i hear a woman say she's got a 90-day rule i'm out the first time i hear a woman 0.99

00:01:57.200 talk about this rule or any other kind of rule like that i'm out just like the united states had a

00:02:01.760 policy we do not negotiate with terrorists women can be emotional terrorists i do not negotiate with them 1.00

00:02:08.320 because if you give a mouse or a glass of milk she has a 90-day rule that automatically implies to me 1.00

00:02:15.280 that she thinks her vagina is gold that it's something that that gum important that i have to 1.00

00:02:19.920 work strive and earn for i don't work that hard for anything that doesn't benefit me her vagina ain't 1.00

00:02:25.520 it because if you have these 90-day rules go out and blame all these steve harvey type guys who told 0.98

00:02:30.800 you guys this foolishness and that is man repellent rule on day one in the other 89 days it'll be you 0.65

00:02:37.760 playing with your cat by yourself next she's a single mother i'm not going to ban single mothers 0.97

00:02:42.080 or anything like that but bottom line there used to be a time when a woman had a baby out of wedlock 1.00

00:02:47.760 it was few and far between and there was some shame that went along with it enough to where they didn't

00:02:53.200 keep going out and doing it over and over again now it's a badge of honor you as a man are worth too

00:02:59.760 much and too valuable if you've got your head on straight you're out doing your thing working your

00:03:04.640 business taking care of your business you should not be forced to pick from a crop of women who 1.00

00:03:10.000 already had another man's children you should not have to go out here and fight the world build such 0.99

00:03:15.600 and so forth to come home to a woman that you will at best be the fourth or fifth most important thing 0.98

00:03:20.880 in her life you deserve better than that i am sorry ladies if you've had a child that is your 1.00

00:03:26.800 responsibility own it and as far as i'm concerned stay out of the dating scene until your kids are out 0.97

00:03:32.880 of the house you made the choice to have those children especially if you did it outside of

00:03:37.600 wedlock you made that choice then you make the choice to wear that scarlet letter it's not our

00:03:44.080 problem it's yours guys do not date single mothers do it at your peril next she's a strong independent

00:03:51.600 fill in the blank woman for me you have three times to say that i'm a strong independent blank woman i'm a

00:03:57.920 strong independent blank woman i'm a strong independent check please i'm gone anytime that

00:04:03.200 comes out of their mouth non-negotiable in the sense whether it's day one or day 300 because to me

00:04:10.400 that's an underlying issue that's waiting to burst through a person who has to say i'm a strong

00:04:16.720 independent anything is none of the things she says it's like if you find yourself having to come into

00:04:21.840 your house saying i'm the man of this house you gotta say you're the man of the house there's a problem

00:04:26.640 if you watch game of thrones when joffrey says i'm the king and tywin told him any any man who has

00:04:32.880 to say he's the king is not the king strong independent blank anything needs to be strong

00:04:38.720 independent and alone she believes that men and women we are not equal no male and female of any

00:04:45.520 species on the planet are equal we are different for a reason i am not going to negotiate your role and

00:04:52.640 my role if you come into this saying that we're equal we're automatically at loggerheads because

00:04:58.480 you're not a woman in my opinion you're a female i don't date females i date women just like the men 0.99

00:05:05.920 will hear what i'm saying the males will probably throw shade if you want a woman that you're equal 0.99

00:05:12.160 you're really giving your manhood up and i can't help you for the guys out there who are trying to hear me

00:05:17.280 equality is not what it's cracked up to be typically women want equality when it benefits them and they 1.00

00:05:24.320 want to be ladies when it suits them i don't have time for all the back and forth because i'm trying

00:05:29.040 to do what i'm doing i'm leading she's going to follow there can't be two captains pick your poison

00:05:34.720 if you pick equality you'll die a slow death she's a big time church girl i'm a christian i was born and

00:05:39.920 raised in the church i attend regularly but big time church girls tend to come with big time church 1.00

00:05:46.000 problems there's no more hypocrisy in dating than in the church because unless she's a big time 0.91

00:05:51.680 church girl and a virgin you're already going to have issues oftentimes big time church girls try to 1.00

00:05:58.640 use the bible as a weapon against the men that they date to hold you biblically accountable for 0.99

00:06:05.360 everything that says a man should be but yet not hold themselves biblically morally or ethically

00:06:10.960 accountable to anything that it says a woman should be they'll tend to take scriptures out of context

00:06:16.160 use biblical stories for their own selfish and manipulative ends and hit you in a place to

00:06:21.840 where you really can't defend your spirituality that is the height of manipulative deceptive bad

00:06:28.640 behavior i don't roll with big time church bible thumpers for these primary reasons if it doesn't 0.97

00:06:34.800 suit you move on but you know the kind of person i'm talking about she's got lots of single girl 1.00

00:06:39.920 blessing you can cut it now you ever see a pack of animals

00:06:50.800 all right blessing i still hear it a little bit

00:06:56.000 yeah i can still hear it i don't know why

00:06:59.520 did you pause it did you pause it blessing

00:07:09.680 it sounds like charlie brown i think you have to exit the tab on the screen blessing

00:07:24.960 do you guys have charlie brown out here in the uk who's that yeah you know charlie brown yeah we

00:07:34.240 have charlie brown you know charlie brown is that a hash brown yeah shut up man's got kfc on his mind 0.71

00:07:42.000 that's why he's talking about hash brown yeah you just gotta exit off the tab just pause it there you go

00:07:48.480 okay okay okay so um i wanted to get you guys's thoughts on that clip um agree or disagree the whole

00:07:57.120 thing so um i want to focus mostly on the beginning when he said the courting um i thought the church

00:08:02.080 girl was funny that was why i got to tell that i love jesus so true it's it's funny but it's true

00:08:10.880 so do you do you think he he was accurate or do you think it wasn't what he's just talking about

00:08:16.400 and talking to your mic um no i with the courting thing i definitely don't agree definitely i don't

00:08:27.840 understand how you're meant to get to know somebody if it's not through courting but i said before like

00:08:34.880 what exactly would one define courting as right so actually i forgot to say this but yeah so the

00:08:42.240 definition of courting courting is the time before a relationship starts when the couple gets to

00:08:47.120 know one another exchange gifts and generally keep a respectful distance with little to no intimacy

00:08:52.560 so the way i understood it is courting is like no sex yeah i definitely agree yeah i definitely think

00:08:59.360 that women like there has to be a period of courting i don't understand other people they might not they 0.98

00:09:06.000 might feel like oh they don't want to do courting or dating but that's fine go find the people that you

00:09:11.200 don't want to do it with me i can only be with somebody who is willing to take that time without

00:09:17.840 sex as well and get to know me on a me level and yes go out and spend money on me as well yes okay

00:09:26.240 what do you think i'll be honest like courting it doesn't have to be in my opinion like actually going

00:09:32.960 out going out for drinks taking me out buying me fancy stuff courting again i do agree that they're

00:09:38.000 showing a level of like women that should be courted that again deserve to be courted

00:09:43.920 and again it just depends on how you want to get to know that person but do i think you need to not

00:09:48.160 have sexual intercourse yeah at first what do you think absolutely not what that doesn't make any sense

00:09:58.240 she can call me we're both equal why am i the one doing the courting like 0.93

00:10:02.480 i i will say yes when a woman takes me on a date then i'll be like yeah but until then you're on my 1.00

00:10:08.720 time so now okay i i agree with what kevin samuel says because nowadays what's courting you talk to 0.87

00:10:20.720 somebody for maybe one to two weeks and then you have sex with them or you meet them have sex with 0.80

00:10:24.640 them on the first day like what what is courting nowadays when it when does it go from courting to

00:10:30.320 talking to dating it's just like nowadays there's really no such thing as courting like traditional

00:10:36.720 courting yeah i think it's because the women now don't typically deserve it oh yeah because they're 1.00

00:10:41.600 not they're not the things that men value anymore i mean essentially yes if we're going off of the

00:10:47.680 things that men value in women it's like not saying that i mean yeah essentially if men if men want

00:10:57.680 this and it would be on the flip side if women wanted this and they're expecting a man to have 1.00

00:11:03.200 this they would court them but it's like men want this and it's like a lot of women aren't having or 1.00

00:11:09.520 don't have what men want and so like why would you if you're going to buy a car you want everything 0.84

00:11:15.600 you want it souped up everything everything like great in it you're not going to buy it if it's not

00:11:20.960 exactly what you want yeah okay what do you think kit um so we can we just establish you're saying

00:11:26.720 courting is the is the non-sexually intimate period before you start being you start having sex or just

00:11:34.000 into a relationship so he said courted like a traditional woman so like in the clip so what i was

00:11:40.560 thinking is the same way like they courted in the 1950s i mean i mean that's not happening now like

00:11:45.440 and so and so it says courting is the time before a relationship starts when the couple gets to know

00:11:50.320 one another exchange gifts and generally keep a respectful distance with little to no intimacy so

00:11:55.280 i'd say courting is definitely the case aside from that last part okay as in in terms of to zero

00:12:01.840 sexual intimacy before relationship because nowadays like and even girls as well nowadays people want 1.00

00:12:07.680 to have sex before they get into a relationship with someone so they know that they like it yeah so if

00:12:13.040 if courting is only all of that plus no sexual intimacy until the relationship i think that's

00:12:19.040 the difference between courting yeah then no that's not yeah yeah so courting is like without sex and

00:12:25.600 then dating is with sex no that's not i don't think that happens yeah so you don't you don't think

00:12:29.840 modern women deserve it what according for one uh i mean if if unless she's like unless she's the 1.00

00:12:39.680 modern woman the average just say it bro i know like no sex in this time nah it's not happening

00:12:51.840 okay go ahead well i'm okay courting a woman but she has to display traditional traits okay facts yeah like 0.99

00:12:59.200 so if she's a modern woman i'm gonna want to know just given the given the hookup culture state 1.00

00:13:04.880 of society that we're in i want to know her history i want to know her sexual history it might be too

00:13:10.480 much to ask off the bat but personally given this given the time we live in i want to know what her

00:13:15.200 sexual history is because if if i'm having to call her essentially no sex but the dating aspect

00:13:22.080 but i know that she's given it up to men in the past why the am i why why the am i spending my time

00:13:29.120 money energy on you if you've just handed it out to people in the past it's like a it's like a used

00:13:35.200 honda civic for bmw price exactly that exactly that yeah yeah so i'm not i'm not gonna put i'm not gonna

00:13:41.680 put work in and time and have patience that men in the past weren't required to just because she was

00:13:47.200 able to give it up in a certain state of emotion i'm not willing to do that so first things first

00:13:52.800 i don't really feel like traditional women sorry modern women deserve the traditional type of 0.82

00:13:57.600 courtship that they did back then but if you are deserving of it you better be feminine you better 1.00

00:14:02.960 be loyal you you better have all of these things in place because if like i said if i'm if i'm having

00:14:09.040 to treat you the way a traditional man would yet you're exhibiting nothing traditional as they did back

00:14:14.080 then and you have a sexual history i'm gone okay what do you think i'm just i just feel like it's

00:14:23.200 really not that deep okay do you know what i mean like no not that deep for you but someone's having

00:14:32.080 to take you out like deep for the guy i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily

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JustPearlyThings - March 14, 2023

Breaking down Modern Women's 9 Red Flags

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