JustPearlyThings - Breakups： What Modern Women Shouldn't Do (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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00:17:29.840 We do love drug dealers.

00:17:59.820 Last one.

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00:19:29.800 Or in the most.

00:19:59.780 Grant had to make sure.

00:20:29.780 What you'll get.

00:20:59.760 He was eliminated.

00:21:29.740 She's a six.

00:21:59.740 football and water.

00:22:29.720 Connection.

00:22:59.700 Her.

00:23:29.700 and have kids.

00:23:59.680 Your hair.

00:24:29.660 Okay.

00:24:59.640 I was born.

00:25:29.620 Okay, so we got a horse.

00:25:59.620 Today's the first day.

00:26:29.600 Because you played basketball.

00:26:59.580 You make each other.

00:27:29.560 He's in the first day.

00:27:59.540 When I saw him.

00:28:29.520 And this is all.

00:28:59.500 I want my kids.

00:29:29.480 And this is all.

00:29:59.460 And this is all.

00:30:29.440 And this is all.

00:30:59.420 And this is all.

00:31:29.400 You know, yeah.

00:31:59.380 And how hard.

00:32:29.380 And this is all.

00:32:59.360 And this is all.

00:33:29.340 And this is all.

00:33:59.320 And this is all.

00:34:29.300 And this is all.

00:34:59.280 And this is all.

00:35:29.260 And it made me want to make a home where our kids will always know that they're loved and cherished.

00:35:38.400 I could see you as my husband, and it just felt complete for me.

00:35:43.580 You see his face?

00:35:45.740 He's like, I don't want to do this.

00:35:49.560 I love you so much, and I feel so lucky to be loved by you.

00:35:56.060 You just have shown me how I want to be loved forever.

00:36:05.360 Oh, God.

00:36:07.660 Yeah, oh!

00:36:10.000 Oh, no!

00:36:12.480 Let's see ya.

00:36:14.620 Yeah, she knows now.

00:36:19.600 Uh-oh.

00:36:20.460 Uh-oh.

00:36:24.180 Yeah, this is it.

00:36:25.620 This is, you guys see this?

00:36:27.820 I've been looking for an emotional connection, and I feel like I have that with me.

00:36:33.160 I feel like you.

00:36:34.720 You do.

00:36:35.260 You have me.

00:36:35.940 Oh, no, see, this is the coping.

00:36:38.800 You are one of the most amazing and beautiful women that I've ever met, and you deserve love.

00:36:47.040 You deserve to be treated right.

00:36:48.300 You deserve to be treated here.

00:36:48.800 I'm so sorry.

00:36:49.680 Oh, no, see, this is all that I've ever met.

00:36:54.040 What makes you feel?

00:36:54.400 I love you very much.

00:36:58.740 I love you very much, and I want to give you everything that you deserve.

00:37:10.480 but i'm not your person

00:37:15.660 and here's the thing how a woman reacts in a breakup 0.98

00:37:25.140 shows her true character right

00:37:30.700 that okay

00:37:35.340 and i'm sorry to have gotten to this point

00:37:42.120 my emotional connection is stronger than someone else

00:37:48.720 when did it change there's her real voice isn't that crazy

00:37:57.900 it didn't change i i do love you and i don't want you to feel like i haven't been open i haven't been

00:38:06.740 honest because i have been and i'm truly sorry um and i hope you don't view me any differently

00:38:14.900 and i hope that i well i do for sure come on now what was that

00:38:22.820 see and they're like now it's like the hood is coming out and this is the thing this reaction

00:38:30.540 guys he is thinking in his head he is so happy that he picked the other woman when you crash out

00:38:37.460 he just what he's gonna do is he's gonna say thank you god your chance of ever getting back together

00:38:44.220 if you really loved him right because if you really loved him it's like you're gonna want to

00:38:48.700 get back with him but if you didn't actually love him which she didn't she just wanted something out

00:38:53.760 of him i mean so this is great for both of them but then you would want you would take him back do

00:39:00.380 you know what i mean like all these women saying i would never take him back they're so full of shit 1.00

00:39:04.980 they'll beg we'll beg none of us are about begging okay for the right guy um but like when you crash

00:39:14.240 out now he just knows you're too much of a flight risk

00:39:17.180 this is not about me it's all for you it's all about you

00:39:23.160 but this this moment it's not it's not i'm concerned about how you feel and no i think

00:39:30.300 i got my answers i'm disappointed

00:39:35.920 yeah you're different than i thought

00:39:42.000 is that like i don't know what what so now she's like insulting him right 1.00

00:39:48.820 you're a bad person because you didn't pick me and if she really loved him she would want him to

00:39:54.980 be happy but she just wanted something out of him that necessarily listen um yeah he's afraid of

00:40:03.260 her retribution yeah he's scared he's terrified

00:40:05.860 i know that you do me differently but i hope that you see

00:40:12.220 wouldn't you come on oh my god she's just crashing out i would yeah i would i'm just trying to figure

00:40:19.800 out what best suits me and that's that's where i'm at

00:40:24.220 juliana is a beautiful woman and she deserves love and i love her

00:40:33.920 and i would have a lot of questions if i were her

00:40:39.820 from the things that you've said to me and i think

00:40:44.000 oh come on who hasn't said things at some point that they didn't really mean

00:40:50.000 come on let you're telling me in your 31 years of life you've never

00:40:55.140 let a guy on ever

00:41:00.040 oh come on come on these things in terms of that's still for you guys to work out that's in my

00:41:08.380 business

00:41:08.660 um i i don't mean to end things like this but this is how he's been really respectful

00:41:21.220 feel and i have to be honest sure

00:41:25.860 the things that you've said to me all along the way

00:41:46.200 make this decision that you've made so much more devastating for me the switch up is crazy

00:41:56.340 i didn't switch up i have yeah she's the one switching up do you see us women 0.90

00:42:01.660 everything we call men we are so she just switched up like

00:42:07.120 i didn't hear that voice the whole season

00:42:11.360 okay you're right

00:42:14.660 you guys see men will just like they don't want to argue and they just say you're right

00:42:20.040 you win you're right how many of you have done that one in the chat

00:42:24.740 one in the chat if you're fighting with your ex-girlfriend your ex-wife

00:42:29.240 and you just say you're right you win you win you're right

00:42:34.340 right do you know how much you have to push a man to crash out because they just don't care

00:42:40.600 it takes so when i see a guy crash out like when i see i hate to say this but when i see those guys

00:42:47.080 like shoot their families right or like really crash out it's totally wrong they shouldn't do that

00:42:52.520 that's totally i'm sure there was a screw loose a little bit but like what did you do to make him

00:42:56.760 crash out so hard do you know what i mean like when they when they're like normal men and they

00:43:01.120 just like the gabby petito you know respectfully not all not all not all but and i don't know

00:43:07.880 that's not off of any evidence that's that's just my speculation that's speculation you just wonder

00:43:13.020 like what did you do like how what did you do to make him crash out because men

00:43:18.520 i mean they're just kind of indifferent they want to play their video games they want to go to work

00:43:23.720 they want to make money they're they don't want to fight you know i'll take responsibility for that

00:43:29.880 i'm disappointed

00:43:34.760 tia i still have love for you but it came down to the final day where i have to make a decision

00:43:44.160 and i think that this situation is very awkward and difficult and i'm not perfect um i try to do my best

00:43:57.360 and i'm truly sorry i believe that i just want to be so clear that i'm confused and i'm sad

00:44:08.080 i'm sorry that i made you feel like that and i mean that from the bottom of my heart i do love you

00:44:18.880 and i wish the best for you

00:44:20.480 thank you yeah so you know what's interesting this franchise is she gonna cry 0.63

00:44:32.640 how disappointing ever i don't even think she's really sad i think she's just mad she didn't get

00:44:40.920 what she wanted okay what's interesting is this franchise is known for failed relationships right

00:44:46.320 like they literally like they never stay together ever ever and i was curious because there was a

00:44:56.140 couple episodes i remembered there was one guy a couple seasons ago who got with like his seventh

00:45:02.320 choice right and i googled how many um of the men chose second like broke up with the first place girl

00:45:12.680 and then went back to the second place girl and there's three and you know it's crazy two out of

00:45:18.740 three they're still with her to this day after like a decade and they have kids with them

00:45:23.140 the like staying together rate of the bachelor is like one for 20 like none of them are still together

00:45:32.560 but the staying together rate of the men that picked their second choice in this franchise is two out

00:45:38.960 of three that's kind of crazy okay so this is the type of woman that handles a breakup badly and that 0.98

00:45:44.760 any man that saw this would avoid her like the plague um a whole different accent came out of this girl 0.85

00:45:51.140 when she got upset now let's contrast this with a rejection of another season of the bachelor um ari

00:45:58.160 um he rejects a woman and look at how much better she handles the rejection i'm just grace in class

00:46:07.040 and he ended up dumping his first pit getting back with her and they have kids today so this is him

00:46:16.900 dumping her okay i did fall in love with you i'm extremely confused i know i know and i knew you would be

00:46:28.580 okay well i wish you the best

00:46:39.000 do you see that reaction

00:46:52.020 that's it okay i wish you the best

00:46:56.740 now he he married that woman he has kids with her now okay

00:47:02.740 see he's regret he's like what did i do i'm so sorry now he's feeling bad

00:47:10.520 you see he said can i walk you out the other girl was like get off of me 1.00

00:47:20.640 this girl is like okay

00:47:23.760 the llamas are in the background

00:47:29.840 i will say over the years the women get uglier and uglier 1.00

00:47:40.100 like i would give her a seven eight i would give her actually an eight 1.00

00:47:43.420 she's pretty hot 1.00

00:47:45.420 why did she do that i didn't know i didn't know fully until this morning

00:48:13.180 i was in love with her i was in love with you and

00:48:18.140 i'm sorry to put you through this

00:48:27.740 see that would make you think about it too wouldn't it guys every time the his first choice starts acting up he's getting a flashback to this

00:48:41.740 see that would make you think about it too wouldn't it guys

00:48:47.740 every time the his first choice starts acting up he's getting a flashback to this

00:48:53.740 yeah who wants to see him tell his first choice for fun ari breaks up with becca 1.00

00:48:58.700 for fun ari breaks up with becca for fun i'm gonna show you this one

00:49:16.700 yeah look it's still not sure how to digest what morning it just might be i've decided to call off the engagement and break up with becca i feel terrible i never wanted to hurt becca

00:49:23.700 yeah

00:49:28.660 yeah

00:49:37.620 hold on hold on hold on hold on i want to get to it okay

00:50:04.100 oh my gosh

00:50:14.340 there it is

00:50:15.380 i know it's big

00:50:18.540 no i like it

00:50:19.860 you're making me really nervous right now

00:50:23.380 how do i start this conversation

00:50:36.180 you know that i've been struggling a little bit

00:50:41.540 and

00:50:43.220 i think over the last couple times we've been hanging out i've been really trying to sort my feelings out

00:50:53.460 trying to

00:50:57.460 trying to grasp this whole thing you know

00:51:01.540 and the reality of it is that

00:51:03.860 you know

00:51:07.060 you know being with you

00:51:10.180 although it's been everything that i wanted i still

00:51:14.980 think about her

00:51:17.620 and i think you sense that

00:51:19.220 yep cooked

00:51:24.260 what is she

00:51:26.820 and

00:51:27.540 i think

00:51:28.740 for me

00:51:30.340 the more

00:51:33.460 i don't know if you the more i felt like

00:51:35.860 i was

00:51:36.500 losing the possibility of maybe reconciling angel thorn

00:51:40.500 wow

00:51:41.460 oh my god

00:51:47.220 oh that's such an l

00:51:48.660 so what

00:51:51.700 i'm not an asshole

00:51:53.380 do you want to interact with her

00:51:57.940 i want to see if there's that possibility

00:52:04.180 yep and now he's about to realize yep made the right choice when i dumped her

00:52:07.780 her

00:52:08.740 she was so nice

00:52:16.020 i

00:52:16.340 yeah i know i made that commitment to you and i know that

00:52:20.420 this is like this is obviously a shock for you

00:52:23.380 yep and now now he's now he's more sure right

00:52:28.900 we just did the side by side of the breakups right

00:52:31.700 so girl one was like i love you

00:52:34.340 i still love you

00:52:35.380 okay and she is like are you fucking kidding me 0.97

00:52:41.620 now there's even more clarity in his decision

00:52:45.220 and i know that

00:52:48.580 it's you always said you know guard your heart figure out where your heart is and i know that the

00:52:53.380 last week's been really tough for you and i have to follow my heart

00:52:57.380 she's probably never been dumped in her life and now she's getting dumped on tv 0.97

00:53:08.180 um

00:53:09.140 what was this when you had your conversation with her

00:53:15.380 and what

00:53:18.580 when i spoke to her i just realized that there was all that feeling there so

00:53:22.900 i know

00:53:27.860 i know it here's the thing

00:53:31.620 okay so whatever she's gonna go crash out so now ari let's see who gets back 1.00

00:53:38.020 lauren let's see them get back together for fun

00:53:40.900 all right well

00:53:47.140 come up here

00:53:47.780 that was back

00:53:52.980 i'm gonna pass out

00:53:55.780 i've made some bad decisions but the best decision was running back to you

00:53:59.540 i can't imagine a life without you you have shown me a love that is patient a lot of that is kind

00:54:08.100 and i truly believe you are my soul mate

00:54:11.620 i'm ready to face

00:54:13.780 this life with you

00:54:16.180 and all that comes with it the good and the bad

00:54:18.580 the bad

00:54:19.780 i love you so much

00:54:22.260 and i want to do this in front of everyone because i want to show you that i should have done this a long time ago

00:54:28.260 so

00:54:34.660 lauren

00:54:36.100 elizabeth burnham

00:54:37.540 will you marry me

00:54:39.620 definitely

00:54:41.300 yeah okay so you guys get the idea i'm sorry i'm torturing you with reality tv today but

00:54:47.300 i think there's some interesting lessons here so now i want to show you guys another one

00:54:52.100 of a woman who did a very good breakup now to be fair she did not

00:54:59.460 get back with the guy but do you know what's crazy she got back with a different ex and she's 0.99

00:55:05.620 married now this woman so she realized in the car that the other contestant he had said i love you

00:55:14.100 too so she realized oh he didn't say that to me she knew going in now she could have crashed out

00:55:20.900 hi

00:55:21.300 you look beautiful you look very handsome thank you daisy

00:55:36.020 from the beginning of all this i had fears of if i was going to create a real connection

00:55:41.380 connection and to know that you were my first connection to know how much we built during that

00:55:48.500 time to have the last night that we did which i truthfully thought was the best night we had yet

00:55:55.140 where i knew that where i knew that you understood me my fears my insecurities but just got me

00:56:02.500 to my core showed me how strong the connection really was

00:56:10.020 so joey it's crazy to think how far we've come from the beginning me getting out with my christmas tree

00:56:18.340 and how we just progressed um to telling each other we were falling in love with each other

00:56:26.020 and i know that you came in my life for a reason because you've shown me so much about

00:56:33.780 a different part of me that lights up and how special it is to show that light and you showed me

00:56:39.860 how important it is to know my worth falling in love with you has been so fun and i do love you um

00:56:56.020 but the thing is

00:56:57.140 you're not going to choose me she says you're not going to choose me right

00:57:18.980 in the last couple of days i realized that you know you're not quite personal

00:57:27.140 and i know that you know about me

00:57:34.980 and as much as that hurts um

00:57:42.980 i know you said you want the best for me so i'm gonna do what's the best for me

00:57:49.860 and i'm gonna go so this was very classy right she says

00:57:53.700 i know you're not gonna pick me um so i'm gonna do what's best for me and i'm gonna go

00:58:00.660 you can't fault that do you know what i mean you can't

00:58:03.300 i i knew i knew when i saw her get rejected i was like she's gonna be married within like two years 0.90

00:58:10.820 and i just googled her i guess her i guess she's taking smells and dating because her college 1.00

00:58:15.540 boyfriend dumped her too but i guess maybe he saw her on tv and was like damn i liked daisy and now 1.00

00:58:22.980 they just are getting married yeah i mean so you know sometimes guys i've seen this where they'll go

00:58:30.260 through their 20s right and these are like the better looking guys and then they get to their early

00:58:37.380 30s or maybe mid 30s when they want to settle down and sometimes they pick the best woman from their 0.97

00:58:44.020 past so they pick like i know another woman this happened to she got she got divorced right and 0.68

00:58:51.940 long story short her high school boyfriend reached out to her and she like got back with him because

00:58:58.100 she was such a good woman but he wanted to go slay some hoes right he wanted to go out and so 1.00

00:59:06.180 sometimes that happens i wouldn't bet on it ladies and he's most likely not gonna come back

00:59:11.220 but if he does that's it

00:59:14.260 so then they walk each other back you i mean i'm torturing you guys a little bit with this episode

00:59:31.620 today but i don't care i made this show i'm doing it okay so there's a couple lessons um we can learn

00:59:40.100 from this and before i get into that i want to i want to read any comments

00:59:51.300 hold on actually i'm gonna do this first i'm gonna tell you the lessons

00:59:54.100 so number one as a woman you're probably not going to get your ex back it's probably not going to happen 0.92

00:59:59.460 but if he does come back it's really highly dependent on how you act during the breakup crash out

01:00:06.580 it's gonna be tougher um he he might come back but it's only because he has no other choice yeah

01:00:14.180 that's it but if you really crash out you're never he was women do code switch like crazy latia 1.00

01:00:19.860 literally had two different voices and we didn't know um three and the world will reward women like 1.00

01:00:26.260 latia for bad behavior um she's probably gonna get to be the bachelorette or uh have other brand 1.00

01:00:32.420 opportunities because she crashed out on a man on live tv unfortunately the world does reward you

01:00:38.020 for that and for latia tried to make her timeline his problem so you have two choices as a woman 1.00

01:00:44.500 you can decide what you want more the kids or the man um i'm not saying you can't get both you can but

01:00:50.740 only if you're young when you're crunching the time you really got to pick it's get on his timeline

01:00:55.860 or find a guy that is ready or wants to get on yours because of desperation number three that the 0.81

01:01:03.460 only time a guy is going to change when he wants children is because he has no other choice 0.78

01:01:08.420 um so we're gonna do a zoom link quick um and guys i need you guys to get to the point it's going

01:01:15.620 to be four minutes or less we started late today so i do i do want to get some sleep you know so

01:01:23.060 um but i do want to know what is the worst way a girl handed a breakup or rejection and are there 0.99

01:01:31.060 any exes that you would get back with or um that you yeah that you would get back with so if either

01:01:38.660 of those questions apply do you call in tell me the story i'm gonna pay attention to the chat and also

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01:03:31.380 members only content for you okay so if latia doug mpa says if latia is mormon why isn't she married

01:03:39.540 already what does she be doing up to this point getting her back blown out thank you doug mpa

01:03:45.460 um let's see he also says i'd smash though i mean yeah um let's see the let me see let me see if

01:03:53.860 there's any other pearl reed i don't see any other pearl reed from the chat on the website

01:04:00.100 so um doug mpa why don't you give your thoughts first and then we'll move on to the call call line

01:04:06.100 thanks for calling in as usual it's a pleasure so so a couple of thoughts i put it in the chat on both

01:04:12.900 but this this is what women watch instead of the wnba this is why the wnba never take off because they 0.99

01:04:22.100 watch garbage like the bachelor yeah i'm telling you it's kind of good all right guys pro so she

01:04:30.100 she was gonna do this show today and i was like no way yeah and she did yeah i did i meant it okay

01:04:37.220 but there's i thought it was so interesting that two out of three of the men that picked their second

01:04:42.980 choice were still with them do you know how low the success rate is of the bachelor i couldn't believe

01:04:47.780 those numbers now now i think we talked about offline but tell them your your theory about um

01:04:57.620 um a woman being second place and still you said that they have to be humble yeah so the reason i

01:05:05.540 thought that this worked right the reason i think the second place women seem to work out so they all 1.00

01:05:13.460 got dumped on national tv do you know how embarrassing that is as a woman like to get like they got dumped 1.00

01:05:20.660 to the extreme because they were promised marriage so they got all the clout of getting proposed to

01:05:25.940 right they got all the attention they got all the they got to be like a famous couple that's like

01:05:31.300 women's dream and so they got that high and then it got taken away right so that's like giving a girl 1.00

01:05:37.940 candy and then saying never mind right and so if the woman what now let's say the the guy um ari when he 0.87

01:05:48.660 got back with that woman what would have given her the most clout is if she said no i deserve somebody

01:05:54.580 that picks me first and she could go be a victim of poly right she could do like that whole charade 1.00

01:06:00.580 but if the women are willing to say do you know what i understand that that was a difficult situation

01:06:07.860 and i want to be with you they care about him more than the clout and they also have the fear of

01:06:13.780 like i think that the best girlfriends are girlfriends you've dumped like at least once

01:06:18.340 because they know they know you'll do it right so what you're talking about is the difference

01:06:25.940 between you can have the short-term gratification of pleasing the sisterhood and shutting the

01:06:31.860 high-value man down that came back to you or you can look at the long-term strategy

01:06:36.900 yeah i'm saying yeah and so the a lot of these women they don't realize when they 1.00

01:06:41.540 they do something like that for the sisterhood you only have about i'd say a little more than 15

01:06:48.420 minutes of fame maybe about 25 to 30 minutes of fame and then the sisterhood's moved on to something

01:06:54.260 else and you're stuck being single with your cats yeah and the so the women that pick the men even after 1.00

01:07:00.660 that one they know they can get dumped so they have to be on their best behavior um two they they have to

01:07:09.140 kill their ego because a lot of women are going to make fun of them and say that like you shouldn't 1.00

01:07:14.340 be with him um yeah so that's my theory yeah yeah i'd agree they like him more than the clout which is a

01:07:23.140 lot for women we love clout we love it so to like a man more than the clout it's like she must really love

01:07:30.260 him yeah so why don't we go first to um do you know who's first doug mpa uh

01:07:39.220 the producer has to let people into the show because i don't see anybody oh you can't okay

01:07:43.860 so we'll do um dustin first maybe

01:07:50.820 and so the two questions we're allowing people to answer um and you can answer dustin when you come on

01:07:57.620 just tell me which one of these is relevant if they both are you're welcome to tell two stories but

01:08:02.260 the questions are are there any exes that you would get back with because of how they handled

01:08:07.300 the breakup or what was the worst way a girl handed handled a breakup or rejection 0.99

01:08:15.620 yeah so there there was uh just gonna say like it's fucking awesome i really got turned on to you 0.71

01:08:21.460 when um you beat when you debated that daily wire guy you made me save some money on that subscription

01:08:27.220 but um anyway uh there was a i dated this super beautiful woman when i was younger and she was 0.99

01:08:38.980 like everything that a guy that's 27 could ask for like she didn't care that i messed around with other

01:08:46.420 chicks he just said don't embarrass me and one time i embarrassed her and she was like don't

01:08:53.140 like if you do it just don't let me hear about it like i don't want to i can hear about it from you

01:08:59.380 but not anyone else and um i broke up with her just because she she drank too much and you know when

01:09:08.740 women are on antidepressants that is a huge red flag man if you see a pill bottle on the night then you 1.00

01:09:13.860 gotta bounce and um so i would i would take her back and when she kind of got correct i really wanted to

01:09:22.340 go back to her but um she got like you know she got knocked up by some other guy so maybe it was

01:09:29.540 maybe i dodged a bullet there and uh in regards to a breakup um man no one no one really says these

01:09:38.660 things but i had a girl create five different phone numbers because she really wanted to get back to me 1.00

01:09:46.180 she said she loved me and all that but i think it was just like infatuation type thing um it

01:09:53.380 wasn't a real life i had a i had a lot of money from a car accident that i got into when i was younger

01:09:59.380 and four people died i was the only one that lived and they didn't think i would make it so i got a lot

01:10:03.540 of money out of settlement so my whole relationship with this woman was fake like she was way out of my league 1.00

01:10:09.300 and everything but uh when i broke up with her there was no one to take her on nice dates anymore 0.99

01:10:15.220 and she just went really psycho what did you do to quote unquote embarrass her

01:10:23.140 you don't have to get into too big a detail but yeah i just i had just slept i had just slept with

01:10:29.460 like a couple other women that were in our circle 0.99

01:10:31.940 oh so someone she knew yeah so it was it was uh like she was actually my boss and um

01:10:44.260 so it kind of got a little like you shouldn't you know wait wait wait wait wait wait wait hold on

01:10:51.300 you you cheated what you the girl you were doing wasn't your boss but you cheated on the girl with your boss

01:11:00.180 no i was dating my boss we were both at the same employment level when we first started working

01:11:06.180 together i was bartending at a casino and then she got promoted to my manager and then like

01:11:13.140 but i just kept shagging all the other servers because you know it's like

01:11:17.620 it's restaurants bro i understand

01:11:20.980 i waited tables for eight and a half years bro i know all about it

01:11:24.660 yeah dude it's every valentine's day you hear one of the girls because they go it's single awareness 0.87

01:11:29.140 day and once i hear that i know who i'm sleeping with it's true it's true guys he's getting facts

01:11:36.180 he is 100 facts and don't become a bartender servers get it but when you become a a bartender man it's

01:11:44.500 over oh it's because like people just think you know everything and it's like it's just people respect

01:11:53.620 you when you can make a good drink uh i don't know it's not even that hard

01:11:58.340 hmm yeah okay well thank you for for calling in we're going to move on to the next call yeah thanks

01:12:05.220 calling yeah thanks keep up the good work yeah bye bye guys i just want to tell the chat that was

01:12:12.740 perfect you see he got right to the story he got right to the point he gave him back to back

01:12:17.700 didn't drone on that was great you be like dustin okay and i don't mean this to be rude it's just

01:12:24.100 i need to tell you guys how we're going to try to do the show um yeah so it's not to be rude but

01:12:31.060 that like we need people to call in and we love the stories but we want to get multiple to make it a

01:12:37.620 better show um we got c hello um so the two questions we are asking people and you can respond

01:12:47.380 to either one that applies um are there any exes you would get back with because of how they handled

01:12:53.940 the breakup or what was the worst way a girl handled a breakup or a rejection yeah sure what's up pearl um

01:13:02.100 i would probably go with the first question and my answer to that would be yes there is a uh a

01:13:09.060 certain uh certain girlfriend actually a few years ago so we broke up probably like five or six years

01:13:14.420 ago but i remember um about three or maybe two or three years ago uh i wanted to actually get back

01:13:22.100 with her and a big reason for that was um well she took the breakup how understanding she was

01:13:27.620 um and it kind of it gave me a feeling i hadn't felt before with previous exes because it's always

01:13:34.420 been one of those big crash outs um but anyways yeah so about two years ago um you know i was i don't

01:13:42.420 know why but i just had thought of her again and i wanted to reach back out um saw her on facebook

01:13:48.180 and it turns out that she was engaged so i wasn't too surprised to see that but yeah but yeah it's kind

01:13:55.060 of crazy how it works yeah um how did she handle the breakup that was better than other women like 1.00

01:14:02.020 was there something that she said to you that stuck out or what was it in particular yeah i mean

01:14:10.420 i i think yeah it was more just she definitely said all the right things um for one i mean like

01:14:16.180 she said like i deserve to be happy um and something else that actually threw me off um

01:14:23.300 i i don't know why but when she initially reacted and even after i broke up with her didn't it never 0.63

01:14:28.260 really sat well with me it was just a situation where i didn't want to be committed to one person

01:14:32.980 um i was still young and i wanted to sleep around that's just the reality of it um but she even one 1.00

01:14:39.860 thing that did stand out was she did take the initiative to apologize um for some of her shortcomings

01:14:46.100 i guess during the relationship uh which like really again it just threw me for a loop because

01:14:52.900 i'm more i'm just so used to uh you know the biggest crash outs or what feel like the biggest

01:14:57.700 crash out so i think when she almost like i wouldn't say she was calm because she was crying um but it was

01:15:04.980 more like sorrow and no anger um i just think that that was a big thing and then as i got older um and as

01:15:11.940 the years progressed and after dealing with more crazy women um i think it made it really easy for 1.00

01:15:17.060 that girl to come back in my mind were there any women like what was the worst crash out you had 1.00

01:15:24.340 uh nothing too crazy uh or too extreme i would say just like the usual like like i've had a i've had a

01:15:31.300 girl um you know like basically like break one of my belongings like i had a monitor broken

01:15:37.620 um which was kind of extreme at the time um she had tried to actually break my playstation as well 1.00

01:15:45.780 but thankfully i was able to revive it but the ps4 ps5 what are we talking about here

01:15:52.900 it was a ps5 actually oh man oh yeah so she uh she ripped my uh ps5 which was attached to my monitor 1.00

01:16:00.900 off my desk um and then thankfully she stormed out because obviously like if she had not left after 1.00

01:16:08.500 that i would have obviously had to call the cops um but that was basically the extent of what she did 0.99

01:16:13.860 it was basically more of a physical crash out than anything they always go for the pc or the gaming

01:16:20.180 console always yeah yeah i wasn't surprised i was trying to protect it but

01:16:26.340 well thank you very much for calling it appreciate it have a good one you too

01:16:36.820 those were perfect callers you guys did great um you have any final thoughts i think that's all the

01:16:42.900 calls we have um yeah guys i always say

01:16:48.020 uh life is life is never going to be fair for men so modern feminism is women fighting for life to be 1.00

01:16:58.340 as unfair for them as it is for men so you're going to see women trying to go out here 0.94

01:17:06.260 go after men that are out of their league and take else women are having to face rejection in mass for

01:17:12.900 the first time in history yeah i mean men have gone for women out of their league and taken else

01:17:18.100 forever you know what i mean but they eat them right they don't crash out they just

01:17:23.540 well occasionally but i would say overall men just take the l and they move on

01:17:28.580 yeah we're gonna have to do a show on on women getting rejected uh and crashing out because they

01:17:34.180 that's another thing unfortunately that women put all over social media 1.00

01:17:37.700 just them crashing out and getting rejected yeah we should do them a how to take an owl lesson

01:17:45.780 okay thanks so much for calling in doug mpa um as always talk to you later talk to you later all

01:17:51.940 right guys thanks so much for watching tonight i really appreciate all of you go to the audacity

01:17:57.620 network.com if you can and um let me know in the comments what's the worst crash out you've ever

01:18:02.820 had a woman have over a breakup like the video i'm gonna check the i don't see anything else that

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JustPearlyThings - March 27, 2025

Breakups： What Modern Women Shouldn't Do (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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