Caller Got Bamboozled with A Kid
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about modern dating and modern marriage. What is modern dating? Should modern dating even be legal? What role does modern dating play in the nuclear family? Is modern dating a thing that should be legalized in the United States?
Transcript
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didn't answer okay and the other thing is the church has a lot of single women in it
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so it's like if churches in these pockets of society really and i don't know much about the
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mormon church but i'm thinking like christian catholic oh there's a caller hello you're live
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on the air hey how are you i got through thanks for taking my call yeah thanks for calling in
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what is the solution to modern dating moving forward what's your opinion
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um so my opinion is the traditionalism is kind of out the window um if if modern women want
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traditional guys they're gonna have to take on traditional roles it's it comes down to that
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if modern women want traditional guys they have to take on traditional roles do you see that happening
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i don't not in this climate especially politically um yeah i think the political correctness has just
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wreaked havoc on the nuclear family in general it's taking the balls away from every guy in his house
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um for the most part um yeah it's just there's a lack of respect in the houses now
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so with that being said what is the solution for men going forward do you think they should spin
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plates for a lifetime do you think they should live together no legal marriage
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so i i can't speak for everybody everybody's situation is different
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um my situation is unique in its own um i'm with a woman who's got two kids prior to me
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um i ended up having a kid with her as well but knowing that um she she's going through some things
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you know as everybody does and yeah everybody's situation is different so you really can't just
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make a blanket a blanket thing that's going to work for everybody did you get married or no
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no and i refuse to she wants to um and we we butt heads because every time one of her friends gets
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married off you know it turns into a big fight in my house so um but yeah i mean i've just put my foot
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down when she got divorced the last time she was kicked out of her house um with the kids and i just
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you know everybody has their past um but i don't see a need to make the kids suffer for that so
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we i basically set it up to where she could she was able to purchase this house in her name with my
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income um so she set up no matter what happens as far as me and her are concerned um yeah so that's
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just where i'm at i'm not going to get married though i don't see any benefit in it and if i if i don't
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have to stay illegally you know because marriage is just a contract if i don't have to stay legally
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and i do shouldn't that mean more to somebody yeah oh that's interesting yeah probably she could
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i think i think the way like women look at it is i don't know we're always going to want to get
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married but like i also really see the men's point of view where it's like what incentive do you guys
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have to do that nowadays right i mean she was married and i was married uh i was in the military
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and anybody who's in the military knows getting married is common
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so i mean it's just as far as i see it you know even in my family's history that my parents didn't
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stay together um most of the most of the my cousins my aunts uncles they've all split up so
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just from my experience what i've witnessed it's just there's no point to it do you think people
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stay together longer if they don't get married just not date or anything just personal experience
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i'm sorry i'm sorry do you think people um state that you know stay together longer if they're not
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married um not data or anything just personal experience do the people that are just dating
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seem happier than the married people that you know i'm just curious the comparison yeah i mean
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that's a good question i don't think i've ever really thought of that um i would say there's not as much
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stress on the guy's side if it's not continuously pushed on him like if a guy wants to get married
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he's going to get married he's going to ask you um that's kind of the last bit of control we have in
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this in the matter what do you we can't we can't tell them not to advocate like i had i've got a
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two-year-old now and i wouldn't change it for anything because it changes your world but i didn't
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want kids coming into this so it's like she took that option away from me and i'm not being spiteful
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because this was my decision from the beginning whether i had a child with her or not i'm just
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not getting married you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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