JustPearlyThings - Caller Got Bamboozled with A Kid

00:00:00.000 okay go ahead

00:00:02.720 hello

00:00:10.120 didn't answer okay and the other thing is the church has a lot of single women in it 1.00

00:00:19.220 so it's like if churches in these pockets of society really and i don't know much about the

00:00:25.020 mormon church but i'm thinking like christian catholic oh there's a caller hello you're live

00:00:29.500 on the air hey how are you i got through thanks for taking my call yeah thanks for calling in

00:00:36.880 what is the solution to modern dating moving forward what's your opinion

00:00:41.580 um so my opinion is the traditionalism is kind of out the window um if if modern women want 1.00

00:00:52.640 traditional guys they're gonna have to take on traditional roles it's it comes down to that

00:00:58.180 if modern women want traditional guys they have to take on traditional roles do you see that happening 0.99

00:01:04.280 i don't not in this climate especially politically um yeah i think the political correctness has just

00:01:13.680 wreaked havoc on the nuclear family in general it's taking the balls away from every guy in his house 0.97

00:01:21.140 um for the most part um yeah it's just there's a lack of respect in the houses now

00:01:27.300 so with that being said what is the solution for men going forward do you think they should spin

00:01:33.860 plates for a lifetime do you think they should live together no legal marriage

00:01:37.960 so i i can't speak for everybody everybody's situation is different

00:01:43.460 um my situation is unique in its own um i'm with a woman who's got two kids prior to me

00:01:51.200 um i ended up having a kid with her as well but knowing that um she she's going through some things

00:02:00.540 you know as everybody does and yeah everybody's situation is different so you really can't just

00:02:07.040 make a blanket a blanket thing that's going to work for everybody did you get married or no

00:02:13.460 no and i refuse to she wants to um and we we butt heads because every time one of her friends gets

00:02:20.760 married off you know it turns into a big fight in my house so um but yeah i mean i've just put my foot

00:02:27.860 down when she got divorced the last time she was kicked out of her house um with the kids and i just

00:02:36.800 you know everybody has their past um but i don't see a need to make the kids suffer for that so

00:02:45.920 we i basically set it up to where she could she was able to purchase this house in her name with my 1.00

00:02:51.880 income um so she set up no matter what happens as far as me and her are concerned um yeah so that's

00:03:00.020 just where i'm at i'm not going to get married though i don't see any benefit in it and if i if i don't

00:03:05.220 have to stay illegally you know because marriage is just a contract if i don't have to stay legally

00:03:12.500 and i do shouldn't that mean more to somebody yeah oh that's interesting yeah probably she could

00:03:21.020 i think i think the way like women look at it is i don't know we're always going to want to get 0.99

00:03:29.120 married but like i also really see the men's point of view where it's like what incentive do you guys

00:03:33.880 have to do that nowadays right i mean she was married and i was married uh i was in the military

00:03:40.840 and anybody who's in the military knows getting married is common

00:03:44.060 so i mean it's just as far as i see it you know even in my family's history that my parents didn't

00:03:54.080 stay together um most of the most of the my cousins my aunts uncles they've all split up so

00:04:02.220 just from my experience what i've witnessed it's just there's no point to it do you think people

00:04:08.580 stay together longer if they don't get married just not date or anything just personal experience

00:04:13.680 i'm sorry i'm sorry do you think people um state that you know stay together longer if they're not

00:04:20.640 married um not data or anything just personal experience do the people that are just dating

00:04:25.220 seem happier than the married people that you know i'm just curious the comparison yeah i mean

00:04:31.340 that's a good question i don't think i've ever really thought of that um i would say there's not as much

00:04:39.640 stress on the guy's side if it's not continuously pushed on him like if a guy wants to get married

00:04:47.940 he's going to get married he's going to ask you um that's kind of the last bit of control we have in

00:04:54.380 this in the matter what do you we can't we can't tell them not to advocate like i had i've got a

00:05:01.360 two-year-old now and i wouldn't change it for anything because it changes your world but i didn't

00:05:06.240 want kids coming into this so it's like she took that option away from me and i'm not being spiteful

00:05:13.460 because this was my decision from the beginning whether i had a child with her or not i'm just

00:05:17.880 not getting married you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis

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JustPearlyThings - March 30, 2023

Caller Got Bamboozled with A Kid

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