JustPearlyThings - October 24, 2023


Candid DEBATE QUICKLY Turns Into An Argument


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

199.78107

Word count

1,825

Sentence count

167

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

15

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Hate speech

12

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Summary

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Would you let your son date a woman who has been selling her body online? would you allow your son to date a girl who has also been having sex online with other men? Would you be happy with that decision?

Transcript

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Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
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00:00:00.000 You see, this is the problem I have with women when they say this, because you're looking 1.00
00:00:03.820 at it from a woman's point of view, so you're looking at it from the point of view that
00:00:08.660 benefits women, but now if you want to look at it from a man's point of view, if you had
00:00:13.320 a son, would you want him to date a woman that has been putting her body online?
00:00:19.560 I would give again the same reason, because it depends.
00:00:26.160 I'm giving my response, and my response is that if that girl is doing it, said that
00:00:36.500 she is doing it, and personally, the way I see things is going with the type of content
00:00:43.360 she is putting out, I'm not comfortable with it, no.
00:00:46.340 But if she was doing it, and there was a lot of time that passed, or maybe she is into something
00:00:53.340 else, and I feel like...
00:00:54.340 But men are so short-tempered, they don't look at the details, they just look at the
00:00:57.680 obvious things.
00:00:58.680 They see that you're only fans, or you're not, you're the normal girl, or you're not, whatever
00:01:02.100 normal means.
00:01:03.100 No.
00:01:04.100 They're very simple men.
00:01:05.100 We're trying to get into it, I'm just saying, if you had a son, and you heard that he's 0.83
00:01:11.940 dating a girl who has been having sex online, selling her body online, and he comes home 0.73
00:01:17.100 and tells you, Mom, I want to marry this girl, would you let that, would you be happy with
00:01:21.520 that decision?
00:01:22.520 If I have a valuable reason, that is worth it?
00:01:25.440 No, I'm not, look, you're trying to make, it's a simple question, you don't have any other
00:01:29.100 information.
00:01:30.100 And I'm giving my response.
00:01:31.100 I'm adding more things to my...
00:01:32.100 I'm the one giving you the situation.
00:01:33.100 Would you let your son marry her sister? 0.98
00:01:34.100 That's my response.
00:01:35.100 I'm saying, if your son, you don't have any other information about the girl, you just
00:01:38.100 hear, this is a girl that has been selling her body online, she has had sex online, there 1.00
00:01:42.100 are videos of her online, having sex with other men. 1.00
00:01:44.100 She's a cornster. 1.00
00:01:45.100 And your son says he wants to marry her.
00:01:48.100 Would you be happy with that decision?
00:01:50.100 It is impossible to have your kids who are dating somebody and have no information at a certain
00:01:56.100 point, you will know who that person is.
00:01:57.100 I'm just giving you the information, I'm giving you this information.
00:01:59.100 It's not about who the person is.
00:02:01.100 I don't think anyone would like that to be honest.
00:02:02.100 So this is the thing, she's trying to justify her reason for almost agreeing with the idea.
00:02:12.100 The reality is...
00:02:13.100 I'm not agreeing with something, I'm giving my point of view, but you are not listening.
00:02:17.100 No, you are not listening.
00:02:18.100 She's secretly.
00:02:19.100 You are not listening to my daughter only.
00:02:20.100 She's secretly the only man's model, you know. 0.75
00:02:21.100 No, because the point is, the point I'm trying to make is, she's trying to say, oh,
00:02:24.100 if you had information on the person.
00:02:26.100 No, no, that's not what I said.
00:02:27.100 It doesn't matter what information...
00:02:28.100 If I have a valuable reason...
00:02:29.100 For what?
00:02:30.100 ...why my kids want to marry that person, because obviously, whoever the person is that
00:02:35.100 my kid wants to marry, I will ask, either if it's a cornster or not, I will always 1.00
00:02:40.100 ask, why that person?
00:02:41.100 But you won't like it when you find out that your son's cracking on with the point.
00:02:47.100 This is the difference.
00:02:48.100 This is another difference between men and women.
00:02:50.100 A woman would want to look for all the fairy tale, fairyland reasons why something can work. 1.00
00:02:57.100 As a man, I don't care what reason my son has.
00:03:01.100 I'm going to look at the possible detrimental effects that his decision will have on his future.
00:03:06.100 Well, yeah, the son carries the name as well.
00:03:08.100 Sorry, one second. 0.99
00:03:09.100 One, he's going to be marrying someone that has videos of her having sex online.
00:03:14.100 First of all, that is going to affect whatever future aspirations he has in terms of the
00:03:24.100 social world.
00:03:25.100 Because if he wants to go into politics, he wants to go into anything like that.
00:03:28.100 Anything that involves him being a leader, anything that involves him interacting with
00:03:33.100 other people, things like that will affect him.
00:03:36.100 Because his enemies will always bring up, oh, well, your wife has videos. 0.92
00:03:39.100 They will bring up videos like that.
00:03:40.100 These are things.
00:03:41.100 If he's going to have children, my grandkids, there's going to be videos of her mom having 1.00
00:03:47.100 sex online. 0.71
00:03:48.100 So there is no reason for me to think about, oh, but she might be a good person or there
00:03:53.100 might be a good reason why.
00:03:54.100 No. 0.99
00:03:55.100 Imagine having a grandmother who's got porn videos. 1.00
00:03:58.100 Imagine being like, yeah, my grandma's gone. 0.93
00:04:00.100 It's crazy.
00:04:01.100 If my grandmother was doing that, I'm not going to throw her away.
00:04:04.100 She's a gilf. 1.00
00:04:05.100 At the end of the day, she stay my grandma.
00:04:06.100 Yes.
00:04:07.100 Whether you have done it or not.
00:04:08.100 No, but that's the point.
00:04:09.100 Because you wouldn't have a choice at that point.
00:04:11.100 But what I'm telling you is, before that point, you are talking about, okay, after the
00:04:16.100 fact.
00:04:17.100 As a kid.
00:04:18.100 No, that's what I'm talking about.
00:04:19.100 You are misunderstanding me.
00:04:20.100 Because what you're saying that I'm saying, I'm not agreeing with it.
00:04:23.100 Meaning this, you are not saying what I'm saying.
00:04:25.100 You just said, you just said, if you had a grandma that was doing it, you won't throw
00:04:28.100 her away.
00:04:29.100 I'm telling you that is because you don't have any choice.
00:04:32.100 She's your grandma.
00:04:33.100 She came before you.
00:04:34.100 What I'm saying is, if you have a son that is not yet married, that is, you will be solving
00:04:42.100 a problem that hasn't yet happened.
00:04:44.100 But if you are talking about your grandma, that's something that's going to happen.
00:04:48.100 I don't see it in the same point.
00:04:49.100 Of course you don't, because you're a woman, I understand. 0.98
00:04:52.100 I still, I still have my, I'm still going to stay on my decision.
00:04:59.100 I think you guys are pretty much the same.
00:05:01.100 There are just very few differences.
00:05:03.100 Yeah.
00:05:04.100 I think that I'm going to stay on my decision because I'm not a person who proceeds like
00:05:09.100 that.
00:05:10.100 Do you know how many children have, well, recently studies have shown, well, there's
00:05:12.100 more kids basically committing suicide because they're getting bullied at school because
00:05:17.100 their moms.
00:05:18.100 Corn stars.
00:05:19.100 Don't worry.
00:05:20.100 They can cry in the back of a Bugatti.
00:05:22.100 No, but they're killing themselves, which is a whole other problem.
00:05:26.100 There's kids killing themselves because they're getting bullied at school.
00:05:29.100 Can you imagine how sad it is for that kid to live that life of going to school, having
00:05:34.100 their peers or whatever, know that they're, people are watching their mom.
00:05:38.100 Oh my God.
00:05:39.100 Like, wow.
00:05:40.100 That's crazy.
00:05:41.100 What is your name, please?
00:05:42.100 Donika.
00:05:43.100 Donika.
00:05:44.100 Can we not also talk about why it's happening?
00:05:47.100 If people react like this, like this sir right now, who completely attack the imagined
00:05:52.100 person that we're talking about.
00:05:53.100 It's both sides, yeah.
00:05:54.100 You know?
00:05:55.100 Yeah, absolutely.
00:05:56.100 Because I personally, like I'm saying, I will not take that situation like that and start
00:05:59.100 attacking people.
00:06:00.100 Because at the end of the day, it's a person.
00:06:02.100 The majority of people don't think like that, unfortunately.
00:06:04.100 If you have people attacking people, demonizing people and going around.
00:06:09.100 But this is the society we live in, unfortunately.
00:06:11.100 I have a question.
00:06:13.100 If we live in a society where we can't discern who is good and bad, where does that leave
00:06:19.100 us?
00:06:20.100 Because if we can no longer decide who is a murderer, who is a grapist, what? 0.99
00:06:24.100 We're just going to let these people walk around freely.
00:06:27.100 Well, we live in that today, unfortunately.
00:06:28.100 There is a limit between deciding what is good or bad and bullying people, actually.
00:06:34.100 Because obviously, we have to decide what is good and bad.
00:06:37.100 It has been like this since the beginning of the time.
00:06:39.100 So OnlyFans, is it good or bad?
00:06:42.100 I mean, other people do content that is not sexual, so...
00:06:48.100 So, OnlyFans, is it good or bad?
00:06:51.100 I would say it depends on how you see it.
00:06:54.100 Because I know people do content that are not sexual, so...
00:06:56.100 Okay, so a murderer, is that good or bad?
00:06:58.100 Or is it depends on how you see it?
00:06:59.100 A what?
00:07:00.100 A murderer. 0.96
00:07:01.100 A criminal. 0.71
00:07:02.100 Obviously, it's not good.
00:07:04.100 Right, so how come you can decide what's good or bad for a murderer, but you can't decide
00:07:09.100 on something like OnlyFans?
00:07:10.100 Because OnlyFans is not a platform that is designed to sell what we're all talking about
00:07:17.100 now. 0.94
00:07:18.100 It's not making the money from vaginas and tapes. 1.00
00:07:21.100 No, she's stuck on the word. 0.81
00:07:24.100 Okay, let's not say OnlyFans.
00:07:25.100 Let's say selling your body online.
00:07:28.100 Because you're trying to dodge the question by saying, well, some people don't do...
00:07:33.100 I'm not dodging something.
00:07:34.100 There's a difference between us talking about OnlyFans and sexual content.
00:07:37.100 No.
00:07:38.100 And I'm talking about OnlyFans himself is not a bad platform.
00:07:42.100 That difference...
00:07:43.100 It is a platform that is most likely exclusive where a lot of people sell different type of
00:07:48.100 exclusive content.
00:07:49.100 But if you're talking about something else, that's something different.
00:07:52.100 One second.
00:07:53.100 The difference is only in your head.
00:07:55.100 Because the reality is we all know what we're speaking about.
00:07:57.100 We're speaking about people that sell their body online.
00:07:58.100 She used the word OnlyFans because that's the term that's used generally to describe it.
00:08:03.100 But we all know we're talking about women that sell their body online. 1.00
00:08:06.100 So that's what she's saying.
00:08:07.100 Is selling your body online good or bad?
00:08:10.100 It's not...
00:08:11.100 You're getting stuck on the word OnlyFans.
00:08:12.100 That's not what we're talking about.
00:08:13.100 Yeah.
00:08:14.100 Not the corporation.
00:08:15.100 The people who participate in selling their body sexually explicitly online.
00:08:20.100 Is that good or bad?
00:08:22.100 I personally, I do not agree with the market.
00:08:25.100 But like said, OnlyFans himself is another thing.
00:08:29.100 She's the OnlyFans manager. 0.92
00:08:31.100 Hold on.
00:08:32.100 She must have an affiliate.
00:08:34.100 She must have an affiliate.
00:08:35.100 She's part of the PR team.
00:08:37.100 Quick question.
00:08:38.100 You see how you keep avoiding the question.
00:08:41.100 Yeah.
00:08:42.100 I'm not avoiding.
00:08:43.100 I give the answer.
00:08:44.100 You just don't want to listen.
00:08:45.100 There's a difference between me avoiding a question and you not wanting to listen.
00:08:48.100 You just want to be too dramatic.
00:08:49.100 So you just have to say, I don't listen.
00:08:51.100 That's the purpose.
00:08:52.100 That's the facts.
00:08:53.100 One second.
00:08:54.100 You're too much in the middle.
00:08:55.100 I'm not understanding.
00:08:56.100 You're too much in the middle.
00:08:57.100 Or you are not listening.
00:08:58.100 Because what you're attempting to do...
00:08:59.100 And the question, the response is you are not listening.
00:09:02.100 Please, this is not your show.
00:09:03.100 You need to relax, man.
00:09:04.100 I'm relaxed.
00:09:05.100 I'm just talking.
00:09:06.100 I'm just...
00:09:07.100 I'm just talking.