JustPearlyThings - May 08, 2023


Childish Woman Keeps Interrupting Pearl


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Length

10 minutes

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234.89073

Word count

2,569

Sentence count

229

Harmful content

Misogyny

36

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Hate speech

22

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the differences between men and women when it comes to other things, and why men are better at them than women are at other things. We also discuss why women are more likely to have children than men.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 It's because feminism made these women think that being a mother is a bad thing, 1.00
00:00:04.340 that they're oppressed, that they compared it to cows, to being bred.
00:00:08.160 They don't see any value in being a mother. 1.00
00:00:11.540 They compare themselves to men all the time.
00:00:13.480 They want to go fix cars like we do.
00:00:14.920 They want to go wrap like we do.
00:00:15.980 Why is it men don't fix cars only? 0.98
00:00:18.460 See?
00:00:18.860 And why is it men don't wrap only?
00:00:20.200 All right, because women aren't as good at it. 1.00
00:00:22.200 Well, if I get stuck in the middle of nowhere, I don't have my phone.
00:00:25.380 Good thing I can change my tire.
00:00:26.600 Wait, wait, wait.
00:00:27.300 Look at the top.
00:00:28.080 It's a survival skill.
00:00:28.940 Donelva, wait.
00:00:30.000 The top ten rappers of all time, are they men or women?
00:00:33.280 There's a woman in there. 1.00
00:00:34.380 There's a woman in there. 1.00
00:00:35.140 Are the majority?
00:00:36.000 Stop.
00:00:36.780 Come on.
00:00:37.580 Are the majority men or women?
00:00:40.180 Men.
00:00:40.560 Definitely men.
00:00:40.980 Okay, so women aren't as good at it. 1.00
00:00:43.040 Well, that doesn't mean that they're not as good at it.
00:00:45.300 That's exactly what they're saying.
00:00:46.140 No, that doesn't mean that.
00:00:48.540 That's exactly what they're saying.
00:00:49.740 It's not.
00:00:50.880 Do you know why?
00:00:51.820 Because that's the same thing as saying women have only just started going into science
00:00:55.620 because it's more encouraged, but because there's more men engineers,
00:00:58.980 they're all better than women. 1.00
00:01:00.320 No, women can't be good at it, but they're just still trying to go into things 1.00
00:01:03.380 because we are still catching up with something that's been there for men for a very long time.
00:01:07.540 No, because we're picking in, like, they're trying to push women into industries we're not naturally good at. 1.00
00:01:13.480 Listen, listen, rapping is like poetry.
00:01:15.100 You're basically saying we can't write poetry as good as a man.
00:01:17.580 Wait, Denalva, wait.
00:01:18.260 Jesus.
00:01:19.080 Wait, Denalva.
00:01:20.460 It's like we were trying to make women into men and we're not men. 0.59
00:01:24.660 No.
00:01:25.400 Rapping is not for men because rapping is art.
00:01:27.920 If women wanted to do it and were good at it, they would do it. 1.00
00:01:33.480 Men as rappers sell more because whatever it is that they're rapping about as well is more like it helps men feel empowered, feel this.
00:01:42.840 There's a certain advantage for men within that industry.
00:01:45.720 Can I ask you a question?
00:01:47.700 Why aren't men, like, top of the list when it comes to, like, the beauty influence?
00:01:54.260 They are, though.
00:01:55.560 No, they're not.
00:01:56.580 They are.
00:01:57.360 Because we're funny and mostly.
00:01:59.140 Modeling.
00:01:59.580 The modeling industry.
00:02:00.820 Exactly.
00:02:01.360 Why aren't men...
00:02:01.800 Who dominates the modeling industry in men or women? 0.99
00:02:04.100 Why does Giselle make more than Tom Brady? 1.00
00:02:06.560 Exactly.
00:02:07.260 Clearly because they're better at it.
00:02:08.860 Women are better at makeup. 1.00
00:02:10.260 Men are better at other things.
00:02:11.500 We need to stop acting like we can do the same things.
00:02:13.820 No, it's not.
00:02:14.560 Because women are visual. 1.00
00:02:16.020 Sometimes there's exceptions.
00:02:17.780 Sometimes there's exceptions.
00:02:18.900 I know there's a male YouTuber who can probably do more makeup than me.
00:02:21.860 But if we're talking on a general sense,
00:02:23.560 Because women are a snack. 1.00
00:02:24.920 Let's be realistic.
00:02:25.380 Because women please the visuals. 1.00
00:02:27.420 You just argued, aren't you?
00:02:28.540 You just talk.
00:02:29.940 We're good at that.
00:02:30.580 It's true.
00:02:31.120 But we also need to...
00:02:33.180 I'm getting to ask why.
00:02:33.900 I said because.
00:02:34.800 I'm not arguing.
00:02:35.820 I'm agreeing.
00:02:36.580 Don't get it twisted.
00:02:38.120 But the same way we can admit women are better at this 1.00
00:02:40.400 and women are better at visuals. 1.00
00:02:41.640 And so why are we so afraid to admit that men are better than other things than we are?
00:02:45.560 Exactly.
00:02:46.300 For example, I would not want to have a man running a nursery school 1.00
00:02:50.600 because I wouldn't want to leave my small child with a man. 0.62
00:02:52.880 And I'd rather leave it that with a woman. 1.00
00:02:54.100 But then why do you argue so hard with a man?
00:02:56.500 I don't argue.
00:02:57.500 Wait.
00:02:58.120 Wait.
00:02:58.480 That men are better rappers than women because the results show it. 0.98
00:03:03.140 No.
00:03:03.560 Because there's more men rappers and they do better at it.
00:03:06.400 It's like I'm talking to a kid right now.
00:03:08.000 You're very childish.
00:03:09.360 I understand why you think she's good TV because you just talk.
00:03:12.940 You're just talking.
00:03:14.420 What are you talking about?
00:03:15.500 Okay.
00:03:15.820 I'll tell you why.
00:03:16.500 For example, rapping, what is rapping?
00:03:19.100 Rapping, you write lyrics.
00:03:21.080 It's poetry, essentially.
00:03:23.380 Right?
00:03:23.900 Okay.
00:03:24.420 The only difference between poetry and rapping is because when you rap, you flow on a beat.
00:03:28.680 Cool.
00:03:29.180 So that has nothing to do with you being a man or a woman.
00:03:31.380 Now, when it comes to taking care of children and babies, for example,
00:03:35.320 then there, I'm going to say, yeah, it is about being a man and a woman.
00:03:38.740 So there are certain things where the rule does not apply.
00:03:40.840 And there are certain things that the rule definitely applies.
00:03:42.580 So I am not stupid, sir.
00:03:44.500 I'm not calling you stupid, but just because you're speaking loud,
00:03:46.880 it doesn't mean that you're making a good point.
00:03:48.040 I can't hear myself too well, so obviously I have to project my voice.
00:03:50.440 Listen a little bit.
00:03:51.440 Because you're not making a good point just because you're speaking up.
00:03:53.660 Okay.
00:03:54.220 Why did I not make a good point?
00:03:55.560 You're not having any stance.
00:03:56.740 You say you're not a feminist, but you're saying that women should be scientists too. 0.57
00:04:00.420 We can rap the same, but also I'm not.
00:04:02.380 Because I'm not a feminist. 0.99
00:04:03.340 I just think people have skills.
00:04:04.400 You've been talking the most out of anyone on this panel, and you have no specific point of view.
00:04:08.620 So my point of view is simply to say that you guys just want to argue about black and white
00:04:14.000 when there's great points in the middle.
00:04:15.880 The same way that sometimes the rule applies where men are better at something than women,
00:04:19.900 and sometimes it doesn't.
00:04:20.780 But Danelva, Danelva, Danelva, you've been on too many shows to not know that we are talking about in general.
00:04:28.040 Like I've told you this so many times.
00:04:29.640 And I've been on too many shows to know that I sit here to tell my point so that I can then take the content
00:04:34.060 and put it on my page, the white way for my brand.
00:04:37.040 You can say your point, but that doesn't mean you're right.
00:04:41.880 No, but this looks better.
00:04:44.080 So there you go.
00:04:45.060 It's not about, for everybody watching, it's not about making a clear point.
00:04:48.340 It's just this is her time.
00:04:49.500 She's on camera.
00:04:50.500 You like talking.
00:04:51.320 It's about empowerment.
00:04:51.980 It's about calling bullshit on black and white.
00:04:53.860 You like hearing your own voice.
00:04:56.040 I love my voice, and I like looking at myself.
00:04:57.880 This is narcissism.
00:04:59.140 You have no point of view.
00:05:00.580 You're just here to talk.
00:05:01.520 I just agree with you because you're saying things as if I should be.
00:05:04.620 I'm going to, I want to hear from you because I don't think we have all show.
00:05:10.020 I'm just here getting heated a little bit.
00:05:12.260 I just feel like everything, so feminism, it's just women demonizing everything that women are good at. 1.00
00:05:19.360 So being able to give birth, reproduction is beautiful.
00:05:25.040 It is a beautiful thing.
00:05:26.840 Why are we demonizing it?
00:05:28.240 Why are we relating ourselves to cows?
00:05:31.520 Yeah, I don't get that.
00:05:32.300 Who said that?
00:05:33.140 Who was it that said that?
00:05:34.160 A rapper, Red Hair.
00:05:35.020 It's that true, and I hate to bring religion into it, but as a Christian, I can only speak
00:05:38.660 on what I know.
00:05:39.240 In the Bible, the main focus for women is to reproduce. 0.98
00:05:43.060 So for you to try and make it seem like it's a bad thing is literally ludicrous to me.
00:05:47.220 We're on this planet to reproduce.
00:05:49.260 There's nothing else to it.
00:05:50.300 Forget society.
00:05:51.080 Forget everything else.
00:05:51.920 We are literally here to make children.
00:05:53.520 And this is why I said feminism is demonic. 1.00
00:05:56.500 It is demonic.
00:05:57.440 It is reproducing.
00:05:58.340 It is to reproduce.
00:05:58.940 I'm here for more than just to give birth to a child, actually.
00:06:03.340 I can be a mother, but I also am an educator.
00:06:05.880 I'm here to help other people.
00:06:06.640 But you're getting it the wrong way.
00:06:07.560 We're not saying that.
00:06:08.180 I'm not here to just give birth to a child.
00:06:10.020 No, that's what you're saying.
00:06:11.660 That is what you're saying.
00:06:12.320 No, I'm not saying that I'm here.
00:06:13.200 This is what you guys are saying.
00:06:14.780 Guys, one at a time.
00:06:17.200 One at a time.
00:06:17.700 I'm going to wait, wait.
00:06:18.740 Thank you.
00:06:19.180 I'm going to let you go.
00:06:20.080 Go ahead.
00:06:20.520 That's not what we're saying, because when she asked for a fun fact, I said first, my
00:06:23.400 career.
00:06:23.880 We're not here.
00:06:24.600 I'm not saying that I'm here to just become a mother, to just give kids.
00:06:27.860 But we are saying the main, he said the most important thing is motherhood.
00:06:31.100 And you guys are trying to take away from the fact of the matter.
00:06:33.240 The fact of the matter is that the most important thing for a woman is to be a mother.
00:06:36.800 You can want a career.
00:06:37.800 You can want to be rich.
00:06:38.540 Mental health, all of that, that's all nice and fun.
00:06:40.540 But the main factor of life is the most important thing is being a mother.
00:06:44.040 And you guys are just trying to argue with the sake of arguing, because what you guys
00:06:46.520 are saying, you're just both contradicting yourself and you're both bumping heads, which
00:06:49.220 makes zero sense whatsoever.
00:06:50.260 What is more meaningful ultimately in life terms?
00:06:52.380 Is it having a child?
00:06:53.440 Is it having a family?
00:06:54.220 Is it having those connections with other human beings?
00:06:56.760 You know, in this brief period of you've got this planet?
00:06:58.440 Or is it going to work in a cubicle for eight hours?
00:07:00.320 What's the most important thing for men, then, if women is giving birth voice for you guys?
00:07:04.700 Creation.
00:07:06.040 Okay.
00:07:06.740 That's a good one.
00:07:07.380 In every way.
00:07:08.000 I say creating everything, inventing, building, maintaining society, creating children, and
00:07:13.240 then protecting and providing for that family, including a very good mother and wife.
00:07:17.940 Do you feel like men have been doing a good job at that lately?
00:07:20.100 No, I don't.
00:07:20.740 But I also think that it's in a lot of ways, since the women control the sex and the men 1.00
00:07:24.820 control their relationships, the abundance of sex and the promiscuity and the agenda that 0.92
00:07:29.980 we're currently going through, I think it's making both sides very sad.
00:07:32.960 I say it doesn't have to be a gray area.
00:07:35.780 That's what you're saying to dismiss the argument.
00:07:37.700 The point is, like, men have a specific role and women have a specific role.
00:07:41.500 That's a black and white that I think we should agree on.
00:07:44.840 Definitely.
00:07:45.200 And we can also agree that men and women are equal, just in completely different roles.
00:07:49.260 100%.
00:07:50.040 I agree.
00:07:50.620 That's all.
00:07:51.440 The world doesn't go without mothers, particularly mothers. 1.00
00:07:54.620 They're going to be the foundational base of every human that comes into this world, not 1.00
00:07:58.780 just after the fact, but while she's holding the baby, how she treats her body while that 1.00
00:08:02.620 baby's there, the words that are coming out of her mouth and that baby can hear you while
00:08:06.180 she's in there.
00:08:07.080 Everything about that situation and the atmosphere that the mother creates is going
00:08:10.740 to have a lot to do with the mental health of that child, boy or girl.
00:08:13.820 It's the most important job in the world.
00:08:15.900 And then at some point, when it's a little boy, I am very big on handing that little boy
00:08:19.800 off to the father.
00:08:21.340 And the father gets to take care of that family.
00:08:24.040 He gets to be a man.
00:08:25.400 He gets to be the hero for that situation.
00:08:27.080 That's what's broken about everything we're talking about.
00:08:30.080 You know, in those situations, may I ask?
00:08:32.280 So obviously that's really important, but how do we then, just to make it a little bit
00:08:37.100 more rounded and a bit more like wholesome, what advice do you give to the women in terms 1.00
00:08:41.660 of what do they have to build for themselves to prepare for a potential eventuality or the
00:08:46.920 occurrence of your husband passing away early?
00:08:49.660 Maybe you've got two kids for him.
00:08:51.160 One is three.
00:08:51.640 One is one.
00:08:52.440 What do you tell a woman that has just completely given herself to being a housewife and doesn't 1.00
00:08:56.580 actually have skills or the abilities or knowledge to strive in the world because she just wanted
00:09:02.440 to be a housewife? 1.00
00:09:03.300 And then what happens to her?
00:09:05.320 I mean, so there's a bunch of technical ways like life insurance, but there's also the man
00:09:09.980 you pick.
00:09:11.040 You know, women, a lot of their success in life is picking the right horse, hate to say. 1.00
00:09:15.380 You better pick a good one.
00:09:16.960 You know?
00:09:17.180 Yeah, but people get shot sometimes if they get run over.
00:09:19.400 People get shot.
00:09:20.000 I doubt that I'm going to get shot in life.
00:09:21.200 I'm not going to be in that situation.
00:09:22.460 No, I'm just saying in general.
00:09:23.360 I'm just saying in general, pick a man that's not going to get fucking shot.
00:09:25.420 You understand what I'm saying?
00:09:26.920 Like, it's not about him going off the war.
00:09:28.340 He shouldn't have been in the damn neighborhood.
00:09:29.520 Okay.
00:09:29.860 Right?
00:09:30.020 He shouldn't have been doing the shit he was doing.
00:09:31.220 He shouldn't have been fucking with the people he's fucking with.
00:09:32.540 So a woman, one of the most important things she can do in her life is pick the right partner. 0.92
00:09:36.260 Of course.
00:09:36.780 You know, you have to choose.
00:09:38.100 Yeah, and look, and you have a lot of risk in that, especially nowadays, because you get
00:09:41.880 to that 1% man, you pick him, and now you're dealing with promiscuity and all those other
00:09:45.900 things, right?
00:09:46.540 And that's a whole different subject.
00:09:47.840 But what I'm saying is, is if a woman can find a man that is strong and she can look up
00:09:51.940 to and she can trust and there's a real relationship there, she has no problem getting inside
00:09:55.580 of her frame and then inside of his frame.
00:09:57.480 And then all of a sudden, there's not a thought about, you know, whether or not, you know,
00:10:01.100 there's femininity, um, feminism in the house. 1.00
00:10:04.020 It's more like, I trust this man fully and guess what makes him motivated more than anything
00:10:08.660 in the world to take care of them is that trust that she puts in him because he takes
00:10:12.720 it seriously and he becomes a hero in life and he wants nothing more than to create a
00:10:16.580 life for that woman and those kids that would have been one 10th of what it had been if 0.68
00:10:20.920 he would not have come into that life.
00:10:22.180 And that's what motivates men.
00:10:23.800 It truly, truly is.
00:10:24.980 And if you have a good woman that can accept that and accept you being the leader, you will
00:10:29.240 kill for her.
00:10:29.800 Yeah.
00:10:30.300 And so that woman will have nothing to worry about because he'll do his duty as a man
00:10:33.420 and a real man would take care of his family, protect, provide, and a woman that supports
00:10:37.900 him is nothing.
00:10:38.860 I promise you they're happiest women in the world.
00:10:40.380 Many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
00:10:46.900 platform.
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