JustPearlyThings - Ciara EXPOSED this fact about Modern Women

00:00:00.000 um so from personal experience i've been with my partner for like seven plus years so i haven't

00:00:05.740 really dated multiple people okay um so i don't think i have a fair judgment on what it's like

00:00:10.700 to date in this day and age um i don't know i can ask i can answer the question about what were my

00:00:17.340 boxes yeah yeah what was your requirements your dating requirement um i don't think i had proper

00:00:23.440 date requirements preferences yeah preferences when i was young and obviously i was very young

00:00:27.840 when it started but now the things that are essential is kindness work ethic family morals

00:00:41.660 and personality being equally yoked that is the reason why that god willing is my husband okay

00:00:51.580 all right all right what do you think danielle um i think i don't think dating in today's day and age

00:00:59.160 is hard but i think it's all about mindset i mean if you're dating to look for marriage if you're

00:01:05.140 dating to look for a relationship or are you dating just to have fun i think really depends on like

00:01:10.720 the kind of people you're going to attract if you're dating for marriage and then you're going on dates

00:01:15.340 with people that just are dating for fun then obviously you're going to find it difficult to

00:01:19.180 find a connection with someone in the same way because you guys haven't got the same the same

00:01:24.800 vision in your head yeah but don't you think like regardless of which way the woman is going she 1.00

00:01:30.740 will be able to find what she wants kind of easily don't you think again it's mindset i think it really

00:01:36.140 depends on the person i don't have any issues dating i mean i'm not a really big avid dater myself

00:01:41.020 i don't really go out much but um the dates that i have been on some of them in the past actually

00:01:46.520 more recently in the past year or so i've actually been really good what's your like dating preferences

00:01:51.920 would you say dating preferences what do you mean yeah like okay let's make it even more basic like

00:01:57.340 physically what does a guy need to look like to date you honestly what do you look for honestly i don't

00:02:02.440 really have like a type on paper i can put down so every guy's got a chance with you i'm not saying

00:02:08.240 every guy but i'm definitely someone i've been listen i've spoken to people that i've know two people

00:02:15.940 that i've ever spoken to have looked the same really so i genuinely go off if i vibe with you

00:02:21.960 if you have a good personality if you're very intellectual it's a big thing for me then every

00:02:26.500 guy's got a chance if you can hold an intellectual conversation if you can if you carry yourself well

00:02:31.860 you know i feel like a lot of people lack substance nowadays and it's hard to have a conversation with

00:02:37.460 with like the average the average like guy in this like this generation like i feel like when i when

00:02:46.060 i've stepped out of people my age group and i've dated older men i've actually had a more positive

00:02:50.400 experience because i can talk about something interesting i feel like when i've dated men my

00:02:55.920 age they have nothing to talk about and you can learn from an older man as well like not i'm not

00:03:01.320 saying like 50s 60s but like a few years older you can learn from them they can mentor you they can

00:03:06.660 guide you they can push you to do better do you think like how old are you again i'm 22 so would

00:03:11.100 you like advise most girls like in your age range to date older and stop messing around with boys that

00:03:16.800 are no not necessarily because you can you can meet a 22 year old that carries himself like a man or a

00:03:22.180 28 year old to a 30 year old that acts like a little boy so i think it it just really depends on

00:03:28.100 how the person carries themselves i wouldn't say oh just specifically go and date an older man because

00:03:32.660 i've dealt with an older man and honestly i literally felt like i had a child so and then

00:03:39.080 i've spoken to people that have been the same age as me and i'm like wow that's really surprised me so

00:03:42.900 okay all right do you think looks matter to an extent do you think do you think initially looks matter

00:03:50.880 the most i don't think they matter the most they're definitely not on the top of my list

00:03:55.240 okay not maybe not for you but like in general do you think in general yeah they i think they matter

00:04:00.320 to an extent but i feel like a lot of women again you could be the most attractive man on the planet

00:04:03.840 but if you're boring then it literally makes you a zero if you carry yourself badly then it makes 0.97

00:04:08.180 you a zero do you think those guys still get box though they still get vagina yeah 100 i don't think 1.00

00:04:14.280 men in general i feel like any man can go out and he can get pussy i don't think you think any man can 1.00

00:04:20.240 do that yeah yeah 100 because that's yeah i do i think if he pays for it yeah i think i 0.98

00:04:26.980 literally like of course yeah yeah what about if he doesn't want to pay for it what if he wants to 0.99

00:04:35.800 just do it the normal way do you think you know any guy can get pussy i think any man is capable of 1.00

00:04:43.620 getting pussy but getting the actual pussy that they want but above their standards then no no but 0.99

00:04:50.800 don't you think yeah don't you think that majority of women don't do not find the majority of men 1.00

00:04:57.880 attractive and don't you think that the average woman out there probably think she's better than 1.00

00:05:03.080 the average man out there not necessarily and i don't think every i don't really i don't think

00:05:10.660 every um like man out here is attracted to a lot of women but if we make a comparison of men and

00:05:17.900 women but men will just sleep with anything yeah but exactly so don't you think yeah there's probably 1.00

00:05:22.160 more desperate men roaming around than there are desperate women roaming around

00:05:26.100 i don't know because there's a lot of desperate women in the world 1.00

00:05:31.960 statistics statistics would disagree right what is it like what's the new stats that came out like i mean

00:05:39.080 i mean maybe i would say about about one out of three men under 30 have not had sex in the last

00:05:43.540 18 months and women only women only swipe right on dating apps five percent of the time when men 0.98

00:05:48.200 swipe right about 50 you know you know why by the way do you know why we have monogamy as like a sort

00:05:52.900 of accepted standard in like judeo-christian cultures right because you guys understand it's to prevent 0.62

00:05:57.220 war because what happens is when you go to like cultures where you have like uh polygamy and you have a man

00:06:01.620 with six seven wives one man literally dominates the market he takes all and the women are happy 1.00

00:06:07.780 because they'd rather just be all with that one guy and this is like so prevalent in history that

00:06:11.700 like religions have converged on the same thing over and over which is like we need to stop because

00:06:16.820 what do men that don't have access to women first of all they don't have access to resources that's 0.94

00:06:20.640 why they don't have access to women what do they tend to do they go to war and then they and then

00:06:24.240 they pillage and grape yep that's and so we literally built society around soldiers weren't

00:06:29.580 allowed in the roman empire they were not allowed to be married right and so men the leaders the the 0.99

00:06:35.620 the the the generals the leaders the men who had the resources they were taking all the women 0.98

00:06:40.420 they actually could take a woman yes a wife from another man if he had more resources so it was

00:06:45.940 creating a lot of animosity and war jordan peterson talks about this a lot if any of you guys have ever

00:06:50.280 listened to his caveat i'm miss taylor that's one of the reasons i'm here hi jordan

00:06:54.180 okay we're wearing the ties to represent oh okay come on this park i know i will i will uh i will

00:07:01.320 introduce him to pearl i think a lot of people don't know history they don't know the purpose of

00:07:06.160 marriage and what it was and what relationships you know today i i think we're so asked backwards

00:07:11.460 and and how we operate especially as women i think men are traditional even even the the worst man in

00:07:17.320 the street right now he's still at his core is very traditional and i do think even women are very 0.99

00:07:22.260 traditional at their core what do they say they want a man who take care of them they want provision

00:07:26.140 and protection they want all these things but then they act like horse and and if you look at

00:07:31.260 historically we dress like prostitutes if you go back even to when i was younger what women wear today 0.99

00:07:36.700 out here on the street and on advertise online like my father would have snatched me by my like

00:07:45.020 like i would be backhanded down like it would not even be an option and you even have wives doing 1.00

00:07:51.980 it like look at sierra and look at savannah james that's in comparison i always bring that up yeah

00:07:57.860 and she looked she looked beautiful she looked like a bride again she looked like a bride again but

00:08:02.100 and she was a woman who had children as a teenager with lebron james but that's the thing about it look at

00:08:08.520 what she's transformed into and the wife that she's been it doesn't mean because you've made mistakes

00:08:12.820 younger that you can't transform but she's stuck with one man regardless of her situation and she's

00:08:17.420 transformed and she's not advertising like i don't know what russell wilson is doing right now it's

00:08:23.700 i'm confused but and i think and i think that's what he's doing and i think sierra is actually a good

00:08:29.980 example of why men can't date women with a past i mean she was all in the church when she date when 0.99

00:08:35.700 she dated him they never had sex before yeah that's what that's what that's what she was selling so he

00:08:41.300 thought he got a good girl that changed and then she does a switch up at what 35 0.80

00:08:44.620 after she gets the kids like why is like he's now she's now she's look at i'm not saying he's right

00:08:50.360 but i'm i'm saying if i was him i'd feel bamboozled i think maybe he likes it like i feel like it's not

00:08:57.380 my business but i i but like if you look at the comparison just in our community the black community

00:09:02.920 we knew more examples like savannah james than we do what sierra i just think it's i think that a lot

00:09:07.840 of men feel trapped where they don't want to break up their home but they have this girl that's wild

00:09:11.980 he has no prenup and no options you don't think he has options no he has options but he has no prenup

00:09:18.120 in his head and he lives in california his actually their home stays california so after 10 years

00:09:22.540 like she will take all the money but i mean look at will smith i mean a lot of guys i don't even think

00:09:28.040 it's about the money like they'll take their l and move on it's about they don't want their kids

00:09:31.520 growing up without a dad but then why is will smith in his position right now because his kids are grown

00:09:36.560 i either she has i think she has dirt on him like i think there's things that can ruin him

00:09:41.740 in every possible way can i have one little thing this is like i had a conversation with a buddy of

00:09:46.480 mine he's 40 and he's divorced and uh his ex like is not like letting him see his kid too much

00:09:52.540 it's like six it's a really sad situation right it's rough and uh and i asked him i said you know

00:09:59.000 like what's the driving factor behind her doing that and he goes well she's a narcissist 1.00

00:10:02.360 and i go okay okay okay that's i mean that's you're not a psychologist how can you make that

00:10:07.160 assessment he's like i realized already you know long before we divorced that i was married to a

00:10:13.240 narcissist yeah i was like can i see a picture of your ex he's like and gorgeous like she's actually

00:10:18.740 a celebrity like celebrity she's an actual celebrity like in the music business gorgeous right

00:10:23.880 i kind of realized like it was an interesting epiphany i think we talked about earlier today was like

00:10:29.100 wow like you know you have like this this push in society right now women that are maybe like very 1.00

00:10:35.820 very very left-leaning and they're just destroying men you know men are garbage men are trash blah blah 0.99

00:10:40.100 blah blah blah and then you have women that'll latch onto a man and just like destroy his life 1.00

00:10:44.040 it was interesting epiphany like a very beautiful female narcissist does have the ability to manipulate 1.00

00:10:49.260 to destroy one man but one who is a lower value female she'll go out and try to destroy all men 1.00

00:10:54.920 she'll just start men are garbage and trash that's just an ugly 1.00

00:10:58.020 as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this 0.99

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JustPearlyThings - March 19, 2023

Ciara EXPOSED this fact about Modern Women

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