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In this episode, we discuss dating in today's day and age, dating standards, dating requirements, dating preferences and what it means to be a good woman in the modern dating world. We also discuss dating as a woman and what dating requirements a woman should look for in a man and what a man needs to look like to date a woman.
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um so from personal experience i've been with my partner for like seven plus years so i haven't
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really dated multiple people okay um so i don't think i have a fair judgment on what it's like
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to date in this day and age um i don't know i can ask i can answer the question about what were my
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boxes yeah yeah what was your requirements your dating requirement um i don't think i had proper
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date requirements preferences yeah preferences when i was young and obviously i was very young
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when it started but now the things that are essential is kindness work ethic family morals
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and personality being equally yoked that is the reason why that god willing is my husband okay
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all right all right what do you think danielle um i think i don't think dating in today's day and age
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is hard but i think it's all about mindset i mean if you're dating to look for marriage if you're
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dating to look for a relationship or are you dating just to have fun i think really depends on like
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the kind of people you're going to attract if you're dating for marriage and then you're going on dates
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with people that just are dating for fun then obviously you're going to find it difficult to
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find a connection with someone in the same way because you guys haven't got the same the same
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vision in your head yeah but don't you think like regardless of which way the woman is going she
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will be able to find what she wants kind of easily don't you think again it's mindset i think it really
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depends on the person i don't have any issues dating i mean i'm not a really big avid dater myself
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i don't really go out much but um the dates that i have been on some of them in the past actually
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more recently in the past year or so i've actually been really good what's your like dating preferences
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would you say dating preferences what do you mean yeah like okay let's make it even more basic like
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physically what does a guy need to look like to date you honestly what do you look for honestly i don't
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really have like a type on paper i can put down so every guy's got a chance with you i'm not saying
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every guy but i'm definitely someone i've been listen i've spoken to people that i've know two people
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that i've ever spoken to have looked the same really so i genuinely go off if i vibe with you
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if you have a good personality if you're very intellectual it's a big thing for me then every
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guy's got a chance if you can hold an intellectual conversation if you can if you carry yourself well
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you know i feel like a lot of people lack substance nowadays and it's hard to have a conversation with
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with like the average the average like guy in this like this generation like i feel like when i when
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i've stepped out of people my age group and i've dated older men i've actually had a more positive
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experience because i can talk about something interesting i feel like when i've dated men my
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age they have nothing to talk about and you can learn from an older man as well like not i'm not
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saying like 50s 60s but like a few years older you can learn from them they can mentor you they can
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guide you they can push you to do better do you think like how old are you again i'm 22 so would
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you like advise most girls like in your age range to date older and stop messing around with boys that
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are no not necessarily because you can you can meet a 22 year old that carries himself like a man or a
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28 year old to a 30 year old that acts like a little boy so i think it it just really depends on
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how the person carries themselves i wouldn't say oh just specifically go and date an older man because
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i've dealt with an older man and honestly i literally felt like i had a child so and then
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i've spoken to people that have been the same age as me and i'm like wow that's really surprised me so
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okay all right do you think looks matter to an extent do you think do you think initially looks matter
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the most i don't think they matter the most they're definitely not on the top of my list
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okay not maybe not for you but like in general do you think in general yeah they i think they matter
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to an extent but i feel like a lot of women again you could be the most attractive man on the planet
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but if you're boring then it literally makes you a zero if you carry yourself badly then it makes
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you a zero do you think those guys still get box though they still get vagina yeah 100 i don't think
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men in general i feel like any man can go out and he can get pussy i don't think you think any man can
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do that yeah yeah 100 because that's yeah i do i think if he pays for it yeah i think i
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literally like of course yeah yeah what about if he doesn't want to pay for it what if he wants to
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just do it the normal way do you think you know any guy can get pussy i think any man is capable of
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getting pussy but getting the actual pussy that they want but above their standards then no no but
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don't you think yeah don't you think that majority of women don't do not find the majority of men
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attractive and don't you think that the average woman out there probably think she's better than
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the average man out there not necessarily and i don't think every i don't really i don't think
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every um like man out here is attracted to a lot of women but if we make a comparison of men and
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women but men will just sleep with anything yeah but exactly so don't you think yeah there's probably
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more desperate men roaming around than there are desperate women roaming around
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i don't know because there's a lot of desperate women in the world
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statistics statistics would disagree right what is it like what's the new stats that came out like i mean
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i mean maybe i would say about about one out of three men under 30 have not had sex in the last
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18 months and women only women only swipe right on dating apps five percent of the time when men
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swipe right about 50 you know you know why by the way do you know why we have monogamy as like a sort
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of accepted standard in like judeo-christian cultures right because you guys understand it's to prevent
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war because what happens is when you go to like cultures where you have like uh polygamy and you have a man
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with six seven wives one man literally dominates the market he takes all and the women are happy
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because they'd rather just be all with that one guy and this is like so prevalent in history that
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like religions have converged on the same thing over and over which is like we need to stop because
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what do men that don't have access to women first of all they don't have access to resources that's
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why they don't have access to women what do they tend to do they go to war and then they and then
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they pillage and grape yep that's and so we literally built society around soldiers weren't
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allowed in the roman empire they were not allowed to be married right and so men the leaders the the
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the the the generals the leaders the men who had the resources they were taking all the women
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they actually could take a woman yes a wife from another man if he had more resources so it was
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creating a lot of animosity and war jordan peterson talks about this a lot if any of you guys have ever
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listened to his caveat i'm miss taylor that's one of the reasons i'm here hi jordan
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okay we're wearing the ties to represent oh okay come on this park i know i will i will uh i will
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introduce him to pearl i think a lot of people don't know history they don't know the purpose of
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marriage and what it was and what relationships you know today i i think we're so asked backwards
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and and how we operate especially as women i think men are traditional even even the the worst man in
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the street right now he's still at his core is very traditional and i do think even women are very
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traditional at their core what do they say they want a man who take care of them they want provision
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and protection they want all these things but then they act like horse and and if you look at
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historically we dress like prostitutes if you go back even to when i was younger what women wear today
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out here on the street and on advertise online like my father would have snatched me by my like
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like i would be backhanded down like it would not even be an option and you even have wives doing
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it like look at sierra and look at savannah james that's in comparison i always bring that up yeah
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and she looked she looked beautiful she looked like a bride again she looked like a bride again but
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and she was a woman who had children as a teenager with lebron james but that's the thing about it look at
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what she's transformed into and the wife that she's been it doesn't mean because you've made mistakes
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younger that you can't transform but she's stuck with one man regardless of her situation and she's
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transformed and she's not advertising like i don't know what russell wilson is doing right now it's
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i'm confused but and i think and i think that's what he's doing and i think sierra is actually a good
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example of why men can't date women with a past i mean she was all in the church when she date when
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she dated him they never had sex before yeah that's what that's what that's what she was selling so he
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thought he got a good girl that changed and then she does a switch up at what 35
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after she gets the kids like why is like he's now she's now she's look at i'm not saying he's right
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but i'm i'm saying if i was him i'd feel bamboozled i think maybe he likes it like i feel like it's not
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my business but i i but like if you look at the comparison just in our community the black community
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we knew more examples like savannah james than we do what sierra i just think it's i think that a lot
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of men feel trapped where they don't want to break up their home but they have this girl that's wild
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he has no prenup and no options you don't think he has options no he has options but he has no prenup
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in his head and he lives in california his actually their home stays california so after 10 years
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like she will take all the money but i mean look at will smith i mean a lot of guys i don't even think
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it's about the money like they'll take their l and move on it's about they don't want their kids
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growing up without a dad but then why is will smith in his position right now because his kids are grown
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i either she has i think she has dirt on him like i think there's things that can ruin him
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in every possible way can i have one little thing this is like i had a conversation with a buddy of
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mine he's 40 and he's divorced and uh his ex like is not like letting him see his kid too much
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it's like six it's a really sad situation right it's rough and uh and i asked him i said you know
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like what's the driving factor behind her doing that and he goes well she's a narcissist
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and i go okay okay okay that's i mean that's you're not a psychologist how can you make that
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assessment he's like i realized already you know long before we divorced that i was married to a
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narcissist yeah i was like can i see a picture of your ex he's like and gorgeous like she's actually
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a celebrity like celebrity she's an actual celebrity like in the music business gorgeous right
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i kind of realized like it was an interesting epiphany i think we talked about earlier today was like
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wow like you know you have like this this push in society right now women that are maybe like very
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very very left-leaning and they're just destroying men you know men are garbage men are trash blah blah
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blah blah blah and then you have women that'll latch onto a man and just like destroy his life
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it was interesting epiphany like a very beautiful female narcissist does have the ability to manipulate
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to destroy one man but one who is a lower value female she'll go out and try to destroy all men
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she'll just start men are garbage and trash that's just an ugly
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