JustPearlyThings - October 21, 2023


Crazy Fiancé Gets A Taste Of Her Own Medicine


Episode Stats


Length

4 minutes

Words per minute

204.12114

Word count

984

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

sentences flagged

Hate speech

2

sentences flagged


Summary

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In today's episode, we discuss a man who proposed to his ex-fiancee on the phone, a video of a man calling his friend to tell him that his ex is no longer his girlfriend, and the importance of surrounding yourself with good friends and family.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 pick number three on today's agenda we have a video of a man calling his friend to tell him
00:00:04.540 that his girl is no longer his girlfriend i actually haven't seen this clip so yeah let's
00:00:09.500 check it out tiffany's no longer my girlfriend thank god dude that woman was the craziest 1.00
00:00:17.800 person i've ever met oh hold up hold up hold up she's actually we're engaged now she's my fiance
00:00:22.700 it's uh she's no longer my girlfriend she's my fiance what the hell mike i am so sorry 0.84
00:00:28.180 i have seen that clip i actually have seen that clip before that is really awkward um
00:00:41.380 i don't even know what to say i think surely he should have spoke to the people around him before
00:00:48.380 making a life-changing decision like proposing to someone i think it's kind of worrying that
00:00:53.220 he's called his friend and his friend isn't already aware of the situation um and i think
00:00:59.340 if his friend was aware of the situation at least it seems like to me if this man had any sense
00:01:03.700 about him if he had his head screwed on properly he probably wouldn't be calling to say that she's
00:01:08.320 my fiance because he would have already had the conversation of yeah i'm thinking of getting
00:01:12.280 engaged to her and his friend would have communicated look i don't think she's good for you i think she's
00:01:16.640 headache yeah in which case if he was in a good mindset he would trust the people around him and
00:01:22.020 perhaps not have proposed i mean the fact she said she's the craziest girl he's ever met in his life
00:01:27.520 it kind of um makes you think why like what what's she done but it could be also a fake video
00:01:36.280 it could be it could be because i if if my friends had expressed that they feel that way about my partner
00:01:43.120 and then i went against their judgment and you know did something they told me not to
00:01:49.200 i probably wouldn't record myself with my partner next to me telling my friend that i know doesn't
00:01:54.860 approve of my partner yeah i think if it is real at least i mean it's the internet we can never really
00:02:00.340 know for sure these days yeah but if it is real i think unfortunately a lot of people especially in
00:02:06.180 our generation they don't speak to their friends and family and people around them who they should
00:02:10.240 trust about life decisions true they just kind of take things into their own hands i think we live in a
00:02:15.660 very individualistic culture at the moment i think everything has become very selfish and everyone
00:02:20.500 has this idea that they know best um you know we had that trend of calling older people boomers and
00:02:26.420 you know when when an older person said something it was okay boomer you know which is you know funny
00:02:31.380 we can all laugh about it this was during the time of vine i i happened to love vine and thought it was
00:02:35.540 hilarious but the point is is that actually you're never going to get anywhere in life unless you accept
00:02:40.320 and understand that there are always going to be people who have been around longer than you
00:02:44.080 so therefore they probably know something you don't and it's why it's really important who you
00:02:49.080 surround yourself with because it's better to have two people in your corner who you you trust their
00:02:55.160 opinion no matter what and you know that they've got their your best interests at heart and 20 people
00:03:00.520 around you who actually don't care about what you do with your life and i can guarantee you if he did tell
00:03:05.000 anyone that he was going to propose to this woman they were probably very bad friends because they
00:03:08.740 probably didn't give the right kind of advice and just said oh amazing i'm so happy for you you're
00:03:15.060 gonna get married you know a lot of people don't give their true feelings because again we live in a
00:03:21.300 very soft culture where people are offending people exactly one of the comments says she thought her
00:03:28.260 past was behind her yeah i mean we don't know the situation there makes you wonder is mike's friend
00:03:35.060 unsettling or is mike just hating i got to know something better call bro by the side putting
00:03:42.680 calls on loudspeaker is definitely not my thing anything could pop out true but also if you have
00:03:47.960 to live your life like that that just indicates to me you're surrounding yourself with the wrong people
00:03:51.620 you have to hide everything from everyone you know you know you probably you should probably take a
00:03:57.320 look at that yeah if i were him i wouldn't have done that like i said as me i wouldn't be afraid
00:04:02.200 to do that because i don't i know that i don't have anything to hide i know that you know people
00:04:06.680 i surround myself truly have my best interests at heart can't relate to him no can't relate but i
00:04:12.740 think unfortunately there's probably a lot of people who who can and and that's a real shame that
00:04:18.140 that's where we're at in our culture and something needs to change guys start surrounding yourself with
00:04:22.820 better people and speak to your friends and family about what they think about your partner
00:04:27.360 because yes they're going to be biased because they care about you you know a little bit of bias
00:04:31.780 is kind of good in that scenario because they're probably going to tell you the truth and if they're
00:04:35.780 all saying bad things well you should probably look at your circumstances and maybe make a change
00:04:40.580 or don't you have the freedom to live your life as you wish what do i know but i'm just i'm just
00:04:45.620 trying to help like a therapist
00:04:48.740 you