JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023


Dating Apps EXPOSED This About Modern Women


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

226.6122

Word Count

2,256

Sentence Count

198

Misogynist Sentences

38

Hate Speech Sentences

24


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I think, yeah, I hear what you guys are saying, but I believe that, I think it kind of just depends on how you discover that he's cheating.
00:00:11.320 If you know that when he says he's going, I don't know, to Manchester or to Liverpool or something like that, then that's what he's doing.
00:00:18.220 But you don't have like actual evidence. I don't feel like you would go looking for the evidence if he's got your whole situation set up.
00:00:24.640 Now, if you get embarrassed and someone's coming up to you like, yo, then I feel like maybe it's a bit different.
00:00:32.400 But I think a lot of women would play a blind eye to it as long as they don't feel publicly disrespected.
00:00:37.980 I think the thing is, you know what? The thing is, women share men all the time.
00:00:45.840 If you're dating someone casually, for example, or if you're in a situationship, you're usually sharing them and you kind of already know.
00:00:50.680 I think it's just like what you said about it. I don't just want it rubbed in their faces.
00:00:53.620 But you'd be surprised, really surprised on what some women will put up with if they're with someone they actually like.
00:01:00.840 Do you think that sometimes they prefer if they do know the situation rather than if they do know you've got a main person on the side?
00:01:07.340 It depends.
00:01:08.100 Do you think they are more comfortable? I think women would be more comfortable with that because there's no suspicion involved.
00:01:13.340 It's actually like that's what you're doing. It is what it is.
00:01:15.700 He's cheating on you and he wants you to be faithful though. That's the thing. It's not like a free for all.
00:01:19.960 It's just like, I'm doing my thing, but hey, you got a pattern as well.
00:01:24.380 It depends at the stage as well in answer your question.
00:01:26.700 So you can tell them from the get-go, this is the situation.
00:01:30.600 And then they have the choice if they want to get on board.
00:01:32.840 Or sometimes it doesn't come out until later and then they have to find out.
00:01:37.120 And I've, I can't speak for anyone else, but I've had someone say to me, I don't care.
00:01:41.420 I just don't want to see it.
00:01:42.700 I mean, I think in general, modern women like are side chicks for sure.
00:01:48.020 Yeah.
00:01:48.620 100%.
00:01:49.020 I mean, if you look at dating app data, it's, you can't deny it.
00:01:51.820 We swipe right 5% of the time on the same guys basically.
00:01:55.160 And then on top of that, like what, what comes first typically, typically.
00:01:58.560 And I know, I know there's exceptions, but sex or relationships.
00:02:02.000 So he's right.
00:02:03.220 You start off as a side chick.
00:02:04.300 Do you think modern men are side men without realizing?
00:02:06.500 Because men go for the top women as well.
00:02:09.180 I don't think.
00:02:10.140 No, no, no, no.
00:02:11.420 That's not statistically true.
00:02:12.700 They swipe right 45% of the time and it's higher on some guys.
00:02:15.400 Who do they like?
00:02:15.800 Who do they actually want to be with?
00:02:17.540 Men really aren't that picky to be fair.
00:02:19.680 Like, honestly, like, I mean, you, you guys can correct me if I'm wrong.
00:02:22.900 If you're hot enough, nice enough, young enough, they're, they're cool.
00:02:25.880 What if you're not hot?
00:02:27.340 If you're ugly?
00:02:28.080 They just want to take you out anyway.
00:02:29.060 I mean, let's just.
00:02:29.980 What if you're not hot?
00:02:30.900 The majority of women are not hot.
00:02:32.780 I know it looks like they are.
00:02:33.760 I disagree.
00:02:34.600 Majority women are hot.
00:02:35.680 No.
00:02:36.020 I think it looks like it because the majority of women we see, I think the majority of women
00:02:40.440 we see publicly on TV, on Instagram, these are the women, the beautiful women put themselves
00:02:44.760 out there.
00:02:45.340 But the majority of women, when you're walking into Tesco are not stunners.
00:02:48.820 You don't walk into Tesco and be like, oh my God, I can't believe how hot everyone is.
00:02:51.980 It's usually, it's usually, it's usually, it's usually based on their own poor choices though.
00:02:56.340 If even in the U S here, and everyone will call America fat, but I looked at the data here.
00:03:00.460 It's not much better, but you're in the top 20% of women if you're in shape.
00:03:05.000 So all you have to do is be in shape.
00:03:06.860 Most guys are fine.
00:03:08.080 But I do think it's not just women that go for high quality.
00:03:11.160 The way men flock to beautiful women and high quality women is no different to how women
00:03:15.460 flock to high quality men.
00:03:17.200 If you take a girl who's not attractive and is not in shape, she doesn't have that same
00:03:21.880 success online dating.
00:03:23.080 She doesn't have that same success with men.
00:03:24.560 And she doesn't have men in her DMs.
00:03:25.780 Yes, she does.
00:03:27.440 No, no, no, no, I'm telling you, you're wrong.
00:03:30.580 Like that's statistically, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:03:32.720 It's statistically wrong.
00:03:33.880 An average chick has more options than, than a top man.
00:03:37.020 If you look at dating, if you, an average girl, so average chick, it gets more matches
00:03:41.480 than the top men.
00:03:42.660 But matches is sex.
00:03:44.060 We're talking about investment.
00:03:45.120 Women don't care about sex.
00:03:46.540 You've got to remember that.
00:03:47.380 You're measuring men and women on the same standard.
00:03:49.340 Who gets to the same level of sex?
00:03:51.140 Yeah, okay, of course, sex, fine.
00:03:53.060 But women value investment.
00:03:54.640 Men value sex.
00:03:55.700 So if you look at the investment an unattractive woman gets, like how many dates does she get
00:03:59.740 taken on?
00:04:00.180 Does she get taken seriously?
00:04:01.340 Do they introduce her to her friends and family?
00:04:03.300 That is comparable to...
00:04:05.320 You know that's a form of investment, right?
00:04:07.200 You know that's investment, isn't it?
00:04:08.620 So guys actually look for that as investment.
00:04:09.920 But we just, but we just, but we just, but we just, but we, but what, what do we say relationships
00:04:13.520 start with in 2022?
00:04:15.080 Six.
00:04:15.440 Yeah.
00:04:15.620 So, so that, that's the precursor.
00:04:17.960 Measuring success in dating by sex.
00:04:21.440 Because if that's what we're measuring, I'm fine.
00:04:23.100 That's a different thing.
00:04:23.580 But I don't measure successful dating by sex.
00:04:25.040 I just think it's delusional to think that like the top men have all the leverage.
00:04:29.440 It's not comparable.
00:04:30.520 The top women do not have as much leverage as the top men.
00:04:32.960 I think.
00:04:33.420 And if they do, and if they do, give it five years.
00:04:36.320 I'm sorry, like you hit 30, it's not the same.
00:04:38.620 Yeah, but I do think top women get the same reaction as top men and they have the same,
00:04:43.960 and I think more because you know what it is?
00:04:46.140 A top value man will, most top value men that I know of have very silent Instagrams.
00:04:53.000 They are busy.
00:04:54.000 They are CEOs.
00:04:55.140 You don't see them posting up and this, whereas beautiful women, they're in your face all day
00:04:59.540 every day.
00:04:59.840 So their DMs are insane.
00:05:02.300 Insane.
00:05:02.780 So on a day-to-day basis, without any effort, that woman can have five, six, seven men paying
00:05:08.140 her, not just going on dates with her, cash up, this, that, and the other.
00:05:11.440 I don't think a top value man has it as easy as a top value woman.
00:05:15.020 And men flock to top value men.
00:05:16.500 Well, I just think, I think the difference is the top value man is satisfied.
00:05:19.780 They say that eights, nines, and tens are for the streets forever.
00:05:25.880 I've just heard this phrase in Red Pill because if a girl's an eight, she needs a nine or a
00:05:30.860 ten.
00:05:31.340 If a guy's an eight, he's okay with a six.
00:05:34.500 I know rich guys.
00:05:35.640 He's okay with a six, but you'll cheat with a ten, eight, whatever.
00:05:38.640 Most men will cheat.
00:05:41.100 Most men, if given beautiful models every day, they're going to say yes one day.
00:05:46.260 So an eight will be happy with a six, where the eight, that's a girl, needs a nine or a
00:05:50.440 ten, so it's a smaller pool that she's going to be satisfied with.
00:05:53.460 I think guys are just a bit more realistic, like long-term with like, they're just content
00:05:58.180 with how things are.
00:06:00.060 Do you pursue a pretty girl the same way you'd pursue an average girl?
00:06:03.060 Would you invest the same?
00:06:04.180 Do they get the same Nathaniel out of you?
00:06:06.740 A pretty girl and an average girl?
00:06:08.120 Yeah.
00:06:08.640 Um, I probably, are we talking about I'm sexually attracted to both?
00:06:14.060 No.
00:06:14.740 Your one is average.
00:06:15.800 You can take it early.
00:06:16.620 Okay, let's make one a six, one an eight.
00:06:18.980 One's a six.
00:06:19.900 You can't use seven, yeah?
00:06:22.740 All right.
00:06:23.640 One's a six, one's an eight.
00:06:24.800 The six, I don't really see me checking for the six, I'll be honest.
00:06:28.340 Thank you.
00:06:29.260 The eight.
00:06:30.080 But there's, I'll say this, yeah, because there's makeup.
00:06:32.840 Yeah, I feel like money is the man's makeup.
00:06:34.280 Because there's makeup, a lot of women can look like, I can think about three different
00:06:37.860 kind of women that all women can look like.
00:06:39.940 If they, if they had the right makeup.
00:06:41.240 Let's say at her peak, she's six.
00:06:42.760 At the end of the day, if we're talking about like, you know, in the morning, at her peak,
00:06:46.000 she's six.
00:06:46.860 That's, ah, boy.
00:06:48.200 Yeah.
00:06:48.440 Listen, I've seen, I've seen some serious transformations.
00:06:53.340 So if at your best, you're six, then boy, it's mad.
00:06:57.560 Yeah, because I feel like there's a lot of talk about high value men, but do you know
00:07:00.700 what it's like with 18, 19 year old, like pretty girls getting thrown out in private
00:07:05.000 jets?
00:07:05.600 And so look how men treat high value or beautiful women.
00:07:09.220 They drop all the rules for beautiful women.
00:07:11.800 And the same applies for high value men, but they drop every rule for a beautiful girl.
00:07:15.920 So are you arguing that beautiful women have the same leverage that high value men have?
00:07:20.660 Is that, is that, is that what you're arguing?
00:07:21.720 If not more.
00:07:23.140 No, no, no.
00:07:24.060 I think that's, I think that's completely wrong.
00:07:26.480 That's just, because what, because what percent of women are beautiful?
00:07:31.060 Like, I'm saying, no, there's, there's a new girl turning 22 every day.
00:07:35.600 High value men are rare and women, women, they age out at like 28.
00:07:39.540 It was rare, but now we've got an Instagram, which means a rich guy in Nigeria can send
00:07:45.500 you millions.
00:07:46.100 A rich guy in Qatar can send you millions.
00:07:48.160 We have polarized it so that high value men who aren't bait or aren't big on social media
00:07:53.860 are limited to the women around them.
00:07:56.480 Whereas beautiful women are exposed to the world around them.
00:08:00.140 Right, right.
00:08:00.400 So they might get sex from him, but she's not the main chick.
00:08:03.400 Yeah.
00:08:03.620 But she's not, she's not the main.
00:08:04.960 But we established that you can be side chick even if you're average.
00:08:08.320 You can be a side chick with sharing.
00:08:10.100 You're right.
00:08:10.400 You're right.
00:08:10.960 You're sharing even if you're a nobody.
00:08:12.980 But that's what I'm saying.
00:08:13.900 But at least you're sharing with a billionaire.
00:08:14.680 But that man still has the leverage because he gets to pick who gets commitment.
00:08:18.860 That's why he has the leverage.
00:08:19.900 Her leverage is in the fact that she doesn't want commitment from him.
00:08:22.540 She wants lifestyle from you right now.
00:08:24.420 So her leverage is in the fact that I get lifestyle.
00:08:26.300 I think we're talking about two different things.
00:08:28.520 So I'm talking about women that want a ring and men, men and men that want sex.
00:08:35.500 Okay.
00:08:36.120 Okay.
00:08:36.540 So if you're, okay, if we're measuring it by investment and sex, then.
00:08:40.720 But can pretty girls get money?
00:08:42.640 Yeah.
00:08:43.180 Yeah.
00:08:43.660 Can they get lifestyle?
00:08:45.000 Yeah.
00:08:45.380 But how long, it's about, it's about the maintenance.
00:08:47.760 How long can, how long can they keep that up?
00:08:49.540 If they get pregnant, they have these, they have these rules that they don't want to get cheated
00:08:52.700 on and, you know, they want to be, they want to keep this up and,
00:08:56.140 and there's no one else and they want that high value man.
00:08:58.920 How long do you reckon, uh, women have that, that, um, leverage for?
00:09:03.140 If she's pregnant forever.
00:09:04.360 If she's not pregnant forever.
00:09:06.060 Not forever.
00:09:06.600 There's nothing else that's saying it's forever.
00:09:07.980 For as long as the baby's alive.
00:09:09.400 Baby, yeah.
00:09:09.800 For as long as the baby's alive.
00:09:11.420 For as long as the baby's alive.
00:09:12.420 No, what?
00:09:12.780 Wait, a faithful, a faithful, high value man.
00:09:15.200 No, no, no.
00:09:15.460 I don't know about the faithful, no, no, no, no.
00:09:16.780 You're saying, you're saying a baby mama?
00:09:18.320 No.
00:09:19.900 Stop it.
00:09:21.320 Stop it.
00:09:21.900 But she gets that leverage because she gets that leverage.
00:09:24.260 It's not that a case of that's a good life, but she gets that leverage for as long as
00:09:27.940 she has that child.
00:09:28.940 Is that all women want, just not to work?
00:09:30.900 I think so.
00:09:31.840 I think that's what all people want in general.
00:09:33.780 Okay, you want to work?
00:09:34.780 No, they want to work, but they want a man that can make a life that if she didn't work,
00:09:38.420 it'd be all right.
00:09:39.280 Yeah, basically.
00:09:40.060 I think that's a good way to describe it.
00:09:41.480 They want the best of everything.
00:09:44.020 Yeah, so if you tell them that I don't want you to work, you're, you're controlling them
00:09:48.260 or you're oppressing them.
00:09:49.140 We want to work.
00:09:49.560 Or you're the patriarchy, but if you say, look, if you want to work, it's cool.
00:09:53.980 If you want to work, that's cool as well.
00:09:55.180 We're good for money.
00:09:56.120 Then it's a different conversation.
00:09:57.140 Yeah.