Dating Apps EXPOSED This About Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships and how to deal with it in the modern dating world. We also talk about whether or not women are side chicks and why they should be in a relationship with a man on the side.
Transcript
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I think, yeah, I hear what you guys are saying, but I believe that, I think it kind of just depends on how you discover that he's cheating.
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If you know that when he says he's going, I don't know, to Manchester or to Liverpool or something like that, then that's what he's doing.
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But you don't have like actual evidence. I don't feel like you would go looking for the evidence if he's got your whole situation set up.
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Now, if you get embarrassed and someone's coming up to you like, yo, then I feel like maybe it's a bit different.
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But I think a lot of women would play a blind eye to it as long as they don't feel publicly disrespected.
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I think the thing is, you know what? The thing is, women share men all the time.
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If you're dating someone casually, for example, or if you're in a situationship, you're usually sharing them and you kind of already know.
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I think it's just like what you said about it. I don't just want it rubbed in their faces.
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But you'd be surprised, really surprised on what some women will put up with if they're with someone they actually like.
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Do you think that sometimes they prefer if they do know the situation rather than if they do know you've got a main person on the side?
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Do you think they are more comfortable? I think women would be more comfortable with that because there's no suspicion involved.
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It's actually like that's what you're doing. It is what it is.
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He's cheating on you and he wants you to be faithful though. That's the thing. It's not like a free for all.
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It's just like, I'm doing my thing, but hey, you got a pattern as well.
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It depends at the stage as well in answer your question.
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So you can tell them from the get-go, this is the situation.
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And then they have the choice if they want to get on board.
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Or sometimes it doesn't come out until later and then they have to find out.
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And I've, I can't speak for anyone else, but I've had someone say to me, I don't care.
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I mean, I think in general, modern women like are side chicks for sure.
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I mean, if you look at dating app data, it's, you can't deny it.
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We swipe right 5% of the time on the same guys basically.
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And then on top of that, like what, what comes first typically, typically.
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And I know, I know there's exceptions, but sex or relationships.
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Do you think modern men are side men without realizing?
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They swipe right 45% of the time and it's higher on some guys.
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Like, honestly, like, I mean, you, you guys can correct me if I'm wrong.
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If you're hot enough, nice enough, young enough, they're, they're cool.
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I think it looks like it because the majority of women we see, I think the majority of women
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we see publicly on TV, on Instagram, these are the women, the beautiful women put themselves
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But the majority of women, when you're walking into Tesco are not stunners.
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You don't walk into Tesco and be like, oh my God, I can't believe how hot everyone is.
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It's usually, it's usually, it's usually, it's usually based on their own poor choices though.
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If even in the U S here, and everyone will call America fat, but I looked at the data here.
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It's not much better, but you're in the top 20% of women if you're in shape.
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But I do think it's not just women that go for high quality.
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The way men flock to beautiful women and high quality women is no different to how women
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If you take a girl who's not attractive and is not in shape, she doesn't have that same
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Like that's statistically, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
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An average chick has more options than, than a top man.
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If you look at dating, if you, an average girl, so average chick, it gets more matches
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You're measuring men and women on the same standard.
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So if you look at the investment an unattractive woman gets, like how many dates does she get
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Do they introduce her to her friends and family?
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But we just, but we just, but we just, but we just, but we, but what, what do we say relationships
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Because if that's what we're measuring, I'm fine.
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I just think it's delusional to think that like the top men have all the leverage.
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The top women do not have as much leverage as the top men.
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And if they do, and if they do, give it five years.
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Yeah, but I do think top women get the same reaction as top men and they have the same,
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A top value man will, most top value men that I know of have very silent Instagrams.
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You don't see them posting up and this, whereas beautiful women, they're in your face all day
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So on a day-to-day basis, without any effort, that woman can have five, six, seven men paying
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her, not just going on dates with her, cash up, this, that, and the other.
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I don't think a top value man has it as easy as a top value woman.
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Well, I just think, I think the difference is the top value man is satisfied.
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They say that eights, nines, and tens are for the streets forever.
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I've just heard this phrase in Red Pill because if a girl's an eight, she needs a nine or a
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He's okay with a six, but you'll cheat with a ten, eight, whatever.
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Most men, if given beautiful models every day, they're going to say yes one day.
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So an eight will be happy with a six, where the eight, that's a girl, needs a nine or a
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ten, so it's a smaller pool that she's going to be satisfied with.
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I think guys are just a bit more realistic, like long-term with like, they're just content
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Do you pursue a pretty girl the same way you'd pursue an average girl?
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Um, I probably, are we talking about I'm sexually attracted to both?
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The six, I don't really see me checking for the six, I'll be honest.
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But there's, I'll say this, yeah, because there's makeup.
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Because there's makeup, a lot of women can look like, I can think about three different
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At the end of the day, if we're talking about like, you know, in the morning, at her peak,
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Listen, I've seen, I've seen some serious transformations.
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So if at your best, you're six, then boy, it's mad.
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Yeah, because I feel like there's a lot of talk about high value men, but do you know
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what it's like with 18, 19 year old, like pretty girls getting thrown out in private
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And so look how men treat high value or beautiful women.
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And the same applies for high value men, but they drop every rule for a beautiful girl.
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So are you arguing that beautiful women have the same leverage that high value men have?
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I think that's, I think that's completely wrong.
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That's just, because what, because what percent of women are beautiful?
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Like, I'm saying, no, there's, there's a new girl turning 22 every day.
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High value men are rare and women, women, they age out at like 28.
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It was rare, but now we've got an Instagram, which means a rich guy in Nigeria can send
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We have polarized it so that high value men who aren't bait or aren't big on social media
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Whereas beautiful women are exposed to the world around them.
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So they might get sex from him, but she's not the main chick.
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But we established that you can be side chick even if you're average.
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But at least you're sharing with a billionaire.
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But that man still has the leverage because he gets to pick who gets commitment.
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Her leverage is in the fact that she doesn't want commitment from him.
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So her leverage is in the fact that I get lifestyle.
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I think we're talking about two different things.
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So I'm talking about women that want a ring and men, men and men that want sex.
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So if you're, okay, if we're measuring it by investment and sex, then.
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But how long, it's about, it's about the maintenance.
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If they get pregnant, they have these, they have these rules that they don't want to get cheated
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on and, you know, they want to be, they want to keep this up and,
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and there's no one else and they want that high value man.
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How long do you reckon, uh, women have that, that, um, leverage for?
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There's nothing else that's saying it's forever.
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I don't know about the faithful, no, no, no, no.
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But she gets that leverage because she gets that leverage.
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It's not that a case of that's a good life, but she gets that leverage for as long as
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I think that's what all people want in general.
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No, they want to work, but they want a man that can make a life that if she didn't work,
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Yeah, so if you tell them that I don't want you to work, you're, you're controlling them
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Or you're the patriarchy, but if you say, look, if you want to work, it's cool.