JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023


Dating Coach BREAKS DOWN Why Men Exercise Options


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

204.07654

Word Count

2,453

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

48

Hate Speech Sentences

28


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 is broken i also think that when when women are having sex with a lot of men it almost gives the
00:00:09.440 woman like this i don't want to say power but i would say it sort of gives this woman like a boost
00:00:16.660 of confidence because now she can sort of go out there and get the guy because you've got to think
00:00:21.780 as women all we really need to do is dress good give the guy sex and that's it and then we can
00:00:27.560 get access to all these things right we can get that screen so as a so the woman's thinking when
00:00:32.820 she's had sex with all those parts she kind of has all that experience she can now go and find like
00:00:39.260 that high value man and like get him whipped you know what i mean that's how women think you know
00:00:45.000 because now she's got a lot of numbers and it's like she's been there she's got that experience
00:00:49.900 whereas a girl who maybe doesn't have any experience she will actually stick with that guy
00:00:55.220 and she will because yeah because he makes her feel safe and she's maybe a little bit scared to try
00:01:01.140 outside so are you saying that they want they think that men want a woman who does have a lot of
00:01:06.560 experience some specific type of men so it depends on the men that that type of woman is looking for
00:01:14.680 so we're going to talk about the high value men or these famous actors or celebrities we see in the
00:01:22.020 media all the time i don't think leonardo dicaprio is sitting with a virgin right now let's be real
00:01:27.120 right yeah but it's also about what they want them for no it's not necessarily long term yeah but we're
00:01:32.820 talking about you're also going to see a trend of men just not getting married yeah yeah and you're
00:01:36.940 going to see those top guys absolutely but what we're talking about is what that does to a woman
00:01:41.660 when she's had sex with loads of different guys it gives her this kind of like i've got experience
00:01:48.060 i can now go fly to miami and be without that guy who's telling me to come here or you know but
00:01:53.960 that's the worst possible belief system to hold because that's not going to yield the results you
00:01:57.560 truly want on a long-term basis i know but that is what women think because that's why they can now
00:02:03.200 just go get any guy they want that's not an accomplishment though the thing is that's a pretty way to put it
00:02:08.460 i would say yeah the more dicks a woman takes the more masculine she becomes wow of course i mean
00:02:15.420 but you guys think that but i'm telling you how the women think that's what it is so well that's what
00:02:20.260 it should be yeah well that's what it should be i've mapped out a very nice modern dating market here
00:02:25.220 so these are the this is the sex okay this is the sex happening so these are the hottest people
00:02:31.280 and these are the ugliest people okay so the problem we have is this guy
00:02:36.100 fucking all the way down here and then these women are like oh my god why do i always like
00:02:43.220 men that don't like me back well it's because you're shooting too high sweetheart
00:02:46.520 then we have the second we have the second guy right so then then it's like the women are like
00:02:55.080 oh my god i always just love the assholes no you just like the men that are out of your league
00:03:01.060 yeah so that's her right here she's saying i love assholes i love bad guys yeah they usually because
00:03:07.580 again what what incentive do these guys have to stop sleeping with everybody they're all there
00:03:13.020 none like i mean come on what about the girls that are like deemed to be in that caliber or like that
00:03:20.360 league of the high men oh okay so i'll tell you what happens they typically have the same results
00:03:26.400 because they're still going after the man horse they might they might get the commitment in the end
00:03:31.360 but i mean look at what happened to logan paul's girlfriend oh god what happened i mean she was a
00:03:36.640 top a top lady i mean when when the top women are around all these top men all the time that's tough
00:03:42.380 that's tough i mean it's hard for them to not be whores you know i just wanted to say because you're
00:03:48.360 saying that women think that they should have experience but i don't know about what other the guys
00:03:52.520 think but i know that if i meet someone and the girl's doing bits to in my head i'm like yo you
00:03:57.380 slept with loads of people yeah i'm not really honored to so you're having the opposite effect
00:04:01.380 you think you need to do that we're thinking wow yeah yeah that's what girls are thinking they
00:04:05.860 actually think the guy might judge me or something like that there actually a lot of girls are really
00:04:10.300 uncomfortable to have that conversation with guys like but if you're not good i'm like wow that
00:04:14.500 means a lot of people that's a good thing exactly what if she has been with a lot of people
00:04:19.720 which is just no no that's true but obviously let's be honest if you've been with a lot of
00:04:23.660 men you probably know how to do some stuff i don't believe this because if women really were afraid of
00:04:31.080 like not having enough experience they wouldn't call women whores yeah yeah you know i mean like
00:04:35.860 we know that's a bad thing because that's the first thing we call each other yeah but women are also
00:04:40.260 afraid to be super open with their girlfriends oh what do you what does that have to do with
00:04:45.580 anything well like you said you know they why would they what did you say sorry
00:04:50.640 i swear it made sense in my mind we were you were saying that the women like they um
00:04:59.320 are like nervous because they don't have enough experience for the men and i'm saying if that
00:05:04.360 was true we wouldn't call each other whores yeah we know deep down that yeah men can men leave
00:05:10.120 women yeah others there are more experienced yes i'll explain this so so the women this is what
00:05:16.900 will happen okay so the the girls down here will say what this guy totally left me for a whore
00:05:23.420 and the truth of the matter is she was just hotter than you yeah hot chicks get to get away with stuff
00:05:29.940 that the mid chicks do not us women like okay men know that if a rich guy is being a dick he gets to
00:05:37.840 get away with it why do we think we're all created equal the hot chicks get to do more
00:05:42.880 i just think men and women but i think men and women both just give such mixed signals in my opinion
00:05:49.240 not men not men no no you do you do because you look you just said i'm saying you want that good girl
00:05:55.200 you just basically said what you said just now you the men actually are thinking no she's too
00:05:59.520 experienced blah blah but then you're saying he's gone off with the hot whore okay
00:06:03.200 that's not what i said i said sometimes the whores get away with it no but she said that's what we
00:06:14.960 hear all the no no no i say women will always think of the example of a whore that got away with it and
00:06:20.740 typically the reason they got away with it is because they're hotter sometimes they get away
00:06:25.440 with it but so in general a pure a pure hot chick over a whore hot chick the man's taking the pure
00:06:31.120 hot okay so then why are men complaining about purity and all this stuff the men are when they'll just
00:06:35.820 go with the whore no no they don't they don't like it though because we're not going to commit to
00:06:40.480 explain it to me because these men are actually marrying these women that they say they're not going
00:06:46.860 to say because they're probably like she's saying because they're very very good looking
00:06:50.020 so sometimes they want to flex they want to flex like on their one i have a hot chick on their
00:06:57.140 side so what so a female should stay a virgin do everything for a man for the man to go and cheat
00:07:02.360 everything to be successful so we both have our struggles so how are you pair bonding and how are
00:07:08.960 you going to pair bond properly of your wife and make sure that you're assessing to all her needs
00:07:12.540 and being there properly for as a man while you're shagging all these girls because we have a higher
00:07:15.840 threshold of pair bonding it doesn't matter it does matter that's why females walk yeah because
00:07:19.840 females walk away because they can feel that you think as a female you can't feel when your
00:07:23.280 man's been out sleeping with people because you can't yeah i guess when they've cheated before
00:07:27.760 they've ever cheated yeah female intuition women don't care women don't care it depends if
00:07:32.080 women if you want your man shugging everyone that's on you if women if women cared then they wouldn't
00:07:36.560 keep sleeping with the top guys but all the data show because they don't want a relationship
00:07:40.400 either guys no girls that are hoes don't care about getting married by this top one percent
00:07:46.640 but that's why i bring back to the point that all women pretty much on the dating market are whores
00:07:51.280 because again according to the data if you've slept with three men so then men need to just stay away
00:07:57.360 from them and look for virgins yeah exactly thank you i actually agree with you i think men need to take
00:08:06.400 one route and just go down that route and stop like saying okay but actually why are you making
00:08:13.520 exceptions for the whole girl i say the man should treat the whores like whores and treat the virgins
00:08:22.400 the real virgins that want to wait till they're married will wait till they're married okay
00:08:27.360 so so men will accept it sometimes but it's the exception it's not the rule okay but that's why
00:08:43.120 girls are having confusion that's why but from a guy's point of view only four percent of women wait
00:08:50.240 until they're married that's why girls don't see who no no no who is he going to pick yeah he'll pick
00:08:56.320 the virgin and then sleep with a whole that's why you're starting to see the trend that's why you're
00:09:01.520 starting to see the trend of men not getting into long-term relationships with women women don't
00:09:06.640 want to be situations yeah i actually agree with you now but you know why you're missing it though is
00:09:11.840 that whore primarily no no no but you're missing that's what i was about to say
00:09:16.880 to be holy while you cheat but you lot control it no let me tell you why because if all you if all
00:09:23.040 if every single woman turned around and said look unless you put a ring on it i'm not having sex with
00:09:26.960 you we would adapt to them but you'd still sleep with no no we wouldn't because you can't you control it
00:09:31.360 no i'm saying i'm saying i have a solution for the next round of women obviously all of us are done
00:09:39.520 you know what i mean like yeah no i mean look around like the 20 the 20s the 20s this is for
00:09:47.680 the next gender half of us are predicted to be single childless like what what percent of the women
00:09:52.880 that come on the show are really going to get married probably most not but why this isn't wait
00:09:56.720 i mean this isn't this isn't me no guys this isn't me saying this this is the data this is
00:10:02.800 they're they're investing in things like cat food box wine because we're all just kind of done so i say
00:10:08.720 you know let's talk about the next generation of women because they're the only ones that can like fix
00:10:12.800 this thing so i say if the next generation of women said we're not going to shoot too high so we're
00:10:19.520 going to stop like obviously brad pitt doesn't want me i'm average okay when we stop looking and say let
00:10:26.320 me date all the athletes all the musicians all that stuff and just said look i'm gonna wait till
00:10:32.640 i'm married for my looks map so here here like you do the snapchat filter on yourself would you date
00:10:39.920 it if the answer is no you're shooting too high sweetie so yeah and i think that would solve a lot
00:10:46.960 the answer still is to wait for the ring because then that will automatically tell you what your level
00:10:51.440 is yes because if rapid doesn't propose to you then he's not your level but he can propose to
00:10:56.240 you and he's still going to sleep with the girls that don't want to be like that but you're missing
00:10:59.520 it if they don't sleep with anybody and say i'm not not every girl wants to be married every girl
00:11:04.320 says no i'm just saying no what i'm saying is that the men will adapt to the market if all the women
00:11:08.720 say no to sleep with you we had to put a ring on it that's why i can't men adapt now we don't need
00:11:12.800 to so hold on hold on hold on so basically what he's what he's trying to say right is that women set the
00:11:17.200 standard okay because as men we pursue you right and we care about sexual access right women set
00:11:22.160 the standard okay at the moment the standard it the standard isn't a ring it's not even commitment
00:11:27.760 okay and he's saying if every of the majority it doesn't have to be every woman right if the majority
00:11:32.720 of women had the standard of if you're going to be sexually intimate with me i need a level of
00:11:37.200 exclusivity and commitment men would adapt to the market this is men adapted to the market because sexual
00:11:42.320 access is so easy now this is why a guy can go i'm going to have my main chick here and i'm going to sleep with
00:11:47.200 all these girls because that's the market right now because we can do you see what i'm saying