JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023


Dating Coach BREAKS DOWN Why Men Exercise Options


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Length

12 minutes

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204.07654

Word count

2,453

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

48

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Hate speech

28

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In this episode, we discuss the modern dating market and how women are getting younger and younger by the day and how this is affecting the dating market. We also discuss the impact sex can have on a woman's dating life and how it can have a negative effect on her dating life.

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00:00:00.000 is broken i also think that when when women are having sex with a lot of men it almost gives the
00:00:09.440 woman like this i don't want to say power but i would say it sort of gives this woman like a boost 1.00
00:00:16.660 of confidence because now she can sort of go out there and get the guy because you've got to think
00:00:21.780 as women all we really need to do is dress good give the guy sex and that's it and then we can 1.00
00:00:27.560 get access to all these things right we can get that screen so as a so the woman's thinking when 0.91
00:00:32.820 she's had sex with all those parts she kind of has all that experience she can now go and find like 0.79
00:00:39.260 that high value man and like get him whipped you know what i mean that's how women think you know 1.00
00:00:45.000 because now she's got a lot of numbers and it's like she's been there she's got that experience
00:00:49.900 whereas a girl who maybe doesn't have any experience she will actually stick with that guy 0.94
00:00:55.220 and she will because yeah because he makes her feel safe and she's maybe a little bit scared to try
00:01:01.140 outside so are you saying that they want they think that men want a woman who does have a lot of
00:01:06.560 experience some specific type of men so it depends on the men that that type of woman is looking for
00:01:14.680 so we're going to talk about the high value men or these famous actors or celebrities we see in the
00:01:22.020 media all the time i don't think leonardo dicaprio is sitting with a virgin right now let's be real
00:01:27.120 right yeah but it's also about what they want them for no it's not necessarily long term yeah but we're
00:01:32.820 talking about you're also going to see a trend of men just not getting married yeah yeah and you're
00:01:36.940 going to see those top guys absolutely but what we're talking about is what that does to a woman
00:01:41.660 when she's had sex with loads of different guys it gives her this kind of like i've got experience
00:01:48.060 i can now go fly to miami and be without that guy who's telling me to come here or you know but
00:01:53.960 that's the worst possible belief system to hold because that's not going to yield the results you
00:01:57.560 truly want on a long-term basis i know but that is what women think because that's why they can now 1.00
00:02:03.200 just go get any guy they want that's not an accomplishment though the thing is that's a pretty way to put it
00:02:08.460 i would say yeah the more dicks a woman takes the more masculine she becomes wow of course i mean 1.00
00:02:15.420 but you guys think that but i'm telling you how the women think that's what it is so well that's what 0.99
00:02:20.260 it should be yeah well that's what it should be i've mapped out a very nice modern dating market here
00:02:25.220 so these are the this is the sex okay this is the sex happening so these are the hottest people
00:02:31.280 and these are the ugliest people okay so the problem we have is this guy 0.65
00:02:36.100 fucking all the way down here and then these women are like oh my god why do i always like 1.00
00:02:43.220 men that don't like me back well it's because you're shooting too high sweetheart
00:02:46.520 then we have the second we have the second guy right so then then it's like the women are like 1.00
00:02:55.080 oh my god i always just love the assholes no you just like the men that are out of your league 0.92
00:03:01.060 yeah so that's her right here she's saying i love assholes i love bad guys yeah they usually because
00:03:07.580 again what what incentive do these guys have to stop sleeping with everybody they're all there
00:03:13.020 none like i mean come on what about the girls that are like deemed to be in that caliber or like that
00:03:20.360 league of the high men oh okay so i'll tell you what happens they typically have the same results
00:03:26.400 because they're still going after the man horse they might they might get the commitment in the end
00:03:31.360 but i mean look at what happened to logan paul's girlfriend oh god what happened i mean she was a 0.95
00:03:36.640 top a top lady i mean when when the top women are around all these top men all the time that's tough 0.96
00:03:42.380 that's tough i mean it's hard for them to not be whores you know i just wanted to say because you're 0.99
00:03:48.360 saying that women think that they should have experience but i don't know about what other the guys
00:03:52.520 think but i know that if i meet someone and the girl's doing bits to in my head i'm like yo you
00:03:57.380 slept with loads of people yeah i'm not really honored to so you're having the opposite effect
00:04:01.380 you think you need to do that we're thinking wow yeah yeah that's what girls are thinking they 1.00
00:04:05.860 actually think the guy might judge me or something like that there actually a lot of girls are really 0.98
00:04:10.300 uncomfortable to have that conversation with guys like but if you're not good i'm like wow that
00:04:14.500 means a lot of people that's a good thing exactly what if she has been with a lot of people
00:04:19.720 which is just no no that's true but obviously let's be honest if you've been with a lot of
00:04:23.660 men you probably know how to do some stuff i don't believe this because if women really were afraid of 0.94
00:04:31.080 like not having enough experience they wouldn't call women whores yeah yeah you know i mean like 0.99
00:04:35.860 we know that's a bad thing because that's the first thing we call each other yeah but women are also 1.00
00:04:40.260 afraid to be super open with their girlfriends oh what do you what does that have to do with
00:04:45.580 anything well like you said you know they why would they what did you say sorry
00:04:50.640 i swear it made sense in my mind we were you were saying that the women like they um 1.00
00:04:59.320 are like nervous because they don't have enough experience for the men and i'm saying if that
00:05:04.360 was true we wouldn't call each other whores yeah we know deep down that yeah men can men leave
00:05:10.120 women yeah others there are more experienced yes i'll explain this so so the women this is what 0.66
00:05:16.900 will happen okay so the the girls down here will say what this guy totally left me for a whore 1.00
00:05:23.420 and the truth of the matter is she was just hotter than you yeah hot chicks get to get away with stuff 1.00
00:05:29.940 that the mid chicks do not us women like okay men know that if a rich guy is being a dick he gets to
00:05:37.840 get away with it why do we think we're all created equal the hot chicks get to do more 1.00
00:05:42.880 i just think men and women but i think men and women both just give such mixed signals in my opinion
00:05:49.240 not men not men no no you do you do because you look you just said i'm saying you want that good girl
00:05:55.200 you just basically said what you said just now you the men actually are thinking no she's too
00:05:59.520 experienced blah blah but then you're saying he's gone off with the hot whore okay 0.60
00:06:03.200 that's not what i said i said sometimes the whores get away with it no but she said that's what we 1.00
00:06:14.960 hear all the no no no i say women will always think of the example of a whore that got away with it and 1.00
00:06:20.740 typically the reason they got away with it is because they're hotter sometimes they get away
00:06:25.440 with it but so in general a pure a pure hot chick over a whore hot chick the man's taking the pure 1.00
00:06:31.120 hot okay so then why are men complaining about purity and all this stuff the men are when they'll just
00:06:35.820 go with the whore no no they don't they don't like it though because we're not going to commit to 1.00
00:06:40.480 explain it to me because these men are actually marrying these women that they say they're not going
00:06:46.860 to say because they're probably like she's saying because they're very very good looking
00:06:50.020 so sometimes they want to flex they want to flex like on their one i have a hot chick on their 0.99
00:06:57.140 side so what so a female should stay a virgin do everything for a man for the man to go and cheat 1.00
00:07:02.360 everything to be successful so we both have our struggles so how are you pair bonding and how are
00:07:08.960 you going to pair bond properly of your wife and make sure that you're assessing to all her needs
00:07:12.540 and being there properly for as a man while you're shagging all these girls because we have a higher
00:07:15.840 threshold of pair bonding it doesn't matter it does matter that's why females walk yeah because 1.00
00:07:19.840 females walk away because they can feel that you think as a female you can't feel when your 1.00
00:07:23.280 man's been out sleeping with people because you can't yeah i guess when they've cheated before
00:07:27.760 they've ever cheated yeah female intuition women don't care women don't care it depends if 1.00
00:07:32.080 women if you want your man shugging everyone that's on you if women if women cared then they wouldn't 1.00
00:07:36.560 keep sleeping with the top guys but all the data show because they don't want a relationship
00:07:40.400 either guys no girls that are hoes don't care about getting married by this top one percent 1.00
00:07:46.640 but that's why i bring back to the point that all women pretty much on the dating market are whores 0.99
00:07:51.280 because again according to the data if you've slept with three men so then men need to just stay away
00:07:57.360 from them and look for virgins yeah exactly thank you i actually agree with you i think men need to take
00:08:06.400 one route and just go down that route and stop like saying okay but actually why are you making
00:08:13.520 exceptions for the whole girl i say the man should treat the whores like whores and treat the virgins 1.00
00:08:22.400 the real virgins that want to wait till they're married will wait till they're married okay 1.00
00:08:27.360 so so men will accept it sometimes but it's the exception it's not the rule okay but that's why
00:08:43.120 girls are having confusion that's why but from a guy's point of view only four percent of women wait 1.00
00:08:50.240 until they're married that's why girls don't see who no no no who is he going to pick yeah he'll pick 0.98
00:08:56.320 the virgin and then sleep with a whole that's why you're starting to see the trend that's why you're
00:09:01.520 starting to see the trend of men not getting into long-term relationships with women women don't
00:09:06.640 want to be situations yeah i actually agree with you now but you know why you're missing it though is
00:09:11.840 that whore primarily no no no but you're missing that's what i was about to say 1.00
00:09:16.880 to be holy while you cheat but you lot control it no let me tell you why because if all you if all
00:09:23.040 if every single woman turned around and said look unless you put a ring on it i'm not having sex with 1.00
00:09:26.960 you we would adapt to them but you'd still sleep with no no we wouldn't because you can't you control it
00:09:31.360 no i'm saying i'm saying i have a solution for the next round of women obviously all of us are done 1.00
00:09:39.520 you know what i mean like yeah no i mean look around like the 20 the 20s the 20s this is for
00:09:47.680 the next gender half of us are predicted to be single childless like what what percent of the women
00:09:52.880 that come on the show are really going to get married probably most not but why this isn't wait
00:09:56.720 i mean this isn't this isn't me no guys this isn't me saying this this is the data this is
00:10:02.800 they're they're investing in things like cat food box wine because we're all just kind of done so i say
00:10:08.720 you know let's talk about the next generation of women because they're the only ones that can like fix 1.00
00:10:12.800 this thing so i say if the next generation of women said we're not going to shoot too high so we're 1.00
00:10:19.520 going to stop like obviously brad pitt doesn't want me i'm average okay when we stop looking and say let
00:10:26.320 me date all the athletes all the musicians all that stuff and just said look i'm gonna wait till
00:10:32.640 i'm married for my looks map so here here like you do the snapchat filter on yourself would you date
00:10:39.920 it if the answer is no you're shooting too high sweetie so yeah and i think that would solve a lot
00:10:46.960 the answer still is to wait for the ring because then that will automatically tell you what your level
00:10:51.440 is yes because if rapid doesn't propose to you then he's not your level but he can propose to
00:10:56.240 you and he's still going to sleep with the girls that don't want to be like that but you're missing 0.99
00:10:59.520 it if they don't sleep with anybody and say i'm not not every girl wants to be married every girl 1.00
00:11:04.320 says no i'm just saying no what i'm saying is that the men will adapt to the market if all the women
00:11:08.720 say no to sleep with you we had to put a ring on it that's why i can't men adapt now we don't need 0.98
00:11:12.800 to so hold on hold on hold on so basically what he's what he's trying to say right is that women set the 0.95
00:11:17.200 standard okay because as men we pursue you right and we care about sexual access right women set
00:11:22.160 the standard okay at the moment the standard it the standard isn't a ring it's not even commitment
00:11:27.760 okay and he's saying if every of the majority it doesn't have to be every woman right if the majority
00:11:32.720 of women had the standard of if you're going to be sexually intimate with me i need a level of 1.00
00:11:37.200 exclusivity and commitment men would adapt to the market this is men adapted to the market because sexual
00:11:42.320 access is so easy now this is why a guy can go i'm going to have my main chick here and i'm going to sleep with 1.00
00:11:47.200 all these girls because that's the market right now because we can do you see what i'm saying 1.00