JustPearlyThings - Dating Coach FAILS To Justify Women Having A High Body Count @LGFGFashionHouse

00:00:00.000 you can find a story and a group of people that can help you create that story around why you

00:00:05.180 should feel insecure about it that woman that says i'm still a virgin and i'm worried every

00:00:10.400 guy's gonna think i'm a freak based on your narrative she has the dream scenario she's

00:00:16.520 never slept with anyone no no no i wanna you know i wanna because i'm the one that pushes out this

00:00:22.260 narrative i want to correct i want to correct you matthew no the 35 year old virgin you know

00:00:28.100 and i i have a i had a video called your virginity doesn't count if and this was all the reasons why

00:00:34.060 your virginity is no longer valuable to men one of those reasons is if you're super fat you know what

00:00:40.760 i mean like if you're a big fatty it's just not the same like sorry you got it you got to get in the

00:00:45.720 door second if your face looks like it was like hit by you know it just really deformed it kind of it

00:00:52.040 kind of loses its value um and one of those is if you're super old because the men assume something

00:00:58.520 is wrong so the dream scenario is i don't know what 21 20 22 really under 25 roughly 25 and under

00:01:08.360 that that's the the highest sexual market value and a virgin what up guys welcome to the just

00:01:15.600 pearly things youtube channel and welcome to my reaction series today i have a special guest on the

00:01:21.160 channel welcome to the show dimitri hey guys what's up tell them a little bit about you made

00:01:26.680 me a suit yeah yeah yeah and it was awesome and i loved it because you know it has a sort of like a

00:01:31.200 1950s feel to it yeah it's so cute that's very on brand for you too yeah right like it's very

00:01:36.200 conservative like but uh but i'm dimitri took sure i'm the ceo of lgfg fashion house we're a global brand

00:01:42.300 in offices in 26 countries and four continents around the world uh we sell very high net worth people with

00:01:47.900 their best bespoke clothing uh publicly we're known as the brand that makes suits for alice cooper for

00:01:53.380 eddie hall for jordan peterson for tommy fury uh for many michael franzese and many others and really

00:01:59.940 what i do is i recruit young men i recruit young men and women into the field the career of sales

00:02:05.160 because we're a direct sales company and i teach young men and women how to make a million dollars a

00:02:09.000 year and what i really liked about having you on the show is you're very used to really two really good

00:02:14.940 things about you as a guest you're very open-minded where if you have new information

00:02:19.020 like i remember one of the first shows we had a disagreement about like the high value men

00:02:23.200 cheating right and i did the research and you were right yeah yeah i was shocked by that by the way

00:02:27.180 that you knew that stack was such a nuance and it took me a while to find it well yeah it's like

00:02:30.840 they have more of an option well fair it's like do men that can cheat cheat more than the men with no

00:02:36.660 jobs you know you know what it was for me it's like because because i work generally our clientele are

00:02:41.140 quite high net worth like we work with a lot of you know partners at law firms and people in private

00:02:45.280 equity and just people that sort of run society they're very high character people especially

00:02:48.540 around other men because what happens in businesses if i see you break an agreement um the market's

00:02:53.520 just going to spit you out like as a leader you can't break agreements because people don't trust

00:02:57.040 you and they won't follow you like we're all free agents we can do what we choose right yeah

00:02:59.820 and and so in the circles that i run i just i don't see and maybe the guys you know i've dealt with are

00:03:05.000 very very good at hiding it i don't know but i just i don't see any sort of cheating

00:03:08.780 relationships like i see men of very high value acting like judicious wise sagacious high value

00:03:14.940 men but the data suggests that yes men with more options tend to exercise those more yeah yeah and

00:03:20.680 so that's what i like about you because when i'm having a conversation i like to talk to people that

00:03:24.800 like genuinely want to find out what's true you know and sometimes you're going to be right

00:03:28.940 sometimes you're going to be wrong it is what it is the other thing i really like is you're very

00:03:32.980 honest and so it's so funny having you on the show is because there's very few men that are actually

00:03:38.560 honest to women like we have a media that lies to us corporations i'm gonna i'm gonna make i'm

00:03:44.120 gonna postulate something uh that i think you're gonna find really interesting so one of the reasons

00:03:48.580 men are not honest to women and women get continuously good feedback from men is because

00:03:52.300 those men are trying to get laid there's strong data on that it's called virtue signaling and actually

00:03:56.700 and women and men both virtue signal like for example one study that i said on the show before is

00:04:01.180 that when you have a fundraiser if you have attractive women in the room men submit more money to the

00:04:05.720 fundraiser because they want they want to show that they're more altruistic so we show higher

00:04:09.020 levels of altruism when we're trying to get laid this is why marriage is good the reason i can be

00:04:13.640 honest with these women is i have no skin in the game like i'm married i got four kids yeah i can

00:04:17.360 just sell them exactly what i think because i'm not trying to get laid right and so that's actually

00:04:21.780 one of the reasons marriage is good for society like when you connect those variables marriage leads

00:04:26.260 to more truth right that's not a bad thing yeah now i know you might say well you know the

00:04:30.600 incentives today is for guys to not get married and that's actually quite quite relevant and an

00:04:34.660 interesting topic for discussion yeah but the outcomes of successful family formation the

00:04:39.560 outcomes of marriage are very positive and so there's a influx of female dating coaches okay so

00:04:46.860 this female dating coach is named matthew hussey and i wanted to show you him because you're

00:04:51.940 you're an actual honest guy no skin in the game as you said and i really want to get your thoughts so

00:04:57.620 he blew up i remember him like five years ago just eight years ago he was like the number one dating coach

00:05:03.760 so big he actually dated camellia cabello if you know who that is no clue but can i ask you is he

00:05:08.300 married um he is engaged now okay so he's engaged um now let's i'm going to show you the video so

00:05:14.060 someone calls in and asks does your body count matter okay i imagine that george clooney didn't start

00:05:19.720 that relationship by saying how many men have you slept with

00:05:23.740 hi matthew i've been having anxiety for the last few years the trigger to this anxiety is the new

00:05:32.520 message that is constantly being shared and that message is that men find women who are not virgins

00:05:39.740 gross i cannot go a few days without it somehow popping up in my feed that men do not want to

00:05:47.580 commit to women with a high body count or any past sexual experience at all sometimes i do not i feel

00:05:55.060 like you've been spending too much time on reddit get off of reddit i do not have a high body count

00:06:00.820 but i still get triggered every time this pops up i now truly believe that this is very important to men

00:06:06.620 and that if they were to find out about a woman's sexual past they would now start to subconsciously

00:06:12.600 value her less and not see her for as a wife slash future mom of their babies and if they have the

00:06:18.900 option leave her uh can you please talk about this in detail um i got the gist so it goes on for a bit

00:06:27.020 longer but it's pretty much the same thing and by the way she says p.s i know that a popular comeback

00:06:31.660 is that men who care about this are insecure but i think it's deeper than that george clooney how old was

00:06:38.560 george clooney when he met his wife i don't know anything about this relationship by the way so don't

00:06:43.360 think this is going to turn into some sort of interesting commentary on a celebrity relationship

00:06:47.380 but i know he was an older man he was what if 50s his hair was silver 60s i don't know i don't even

00:06:53.980 know how old george clooney is i know he didn't i know he didn't meet her in his 30s or 20s and i

00:06:59.320 also know that she is not in her 20s right so i i imagine that george clooney didn't start that

00:07:06.760 relationship by saying how many men have you slept with because had he started the conversation that

00:07:12.700 way it would have been an obvious answer plenty i'm an adult woman who's been around for a while

00:07:18.300 i'm not someone you didn't meet a 21 year old or you didn't meet an 18 year old you met someone who's

00:07:24.680 actually been around for a minute and has had other relationships george at a certain point you i feel

00:07:30.540 like men have to give up there's a there's a time in their lives where men have to give up on that game

00:07:36.160 unless you want to date 21 year olds for the rest of your life at a certain point you have to say

00:07:41.160 the person well so there's like already a logical fallacy two logical fallacies here right the first

00:07:46.680 one it's like well i'm a grown woman so plenty i would ask what does plenty mean exactly because

00:07:51.200 that like what is plenty yeah is 50 plenty or is five plenty or something like what's plenty exactly

00:07:57.000 yeah and the second one is he correlates you know number of partners with age yes there's certainly

00:08:01.880 going to be a correlation with that but not everybody has the same values either does that

00:08:05.860 make sense no yeah and it's interesting i've heard so much about george clooney and the chick that he

00:08:13.080 because i think she was like 35 well let's let's first of all define i know a little bit about her

00:08:17.000 she's a human rights lawyer harvard edu i believe harvard educated human rights lawyer but nonetheless

00:08:21.120 an extremely prominent one um who is also resoundingly beautiful yeah and so so like this is a highly

00:08:27.240 like very highly intelligent like like obviously all by all objective like you know evidence very

00:08:33.140 highly intelligent extremely beautiful woman and i would you know posit that very highly intelligent

00:08:39.080 extremely beautiful women probably aren't sleeping around because the guys they would consider they

00:08:43.200 were they were you know they the guys they would have access to and the and the basically they would

00:08:48.560 just have their pick and they probably be very selective i just like i would just again like why if

00:08:54.100 you're very very intelligent this isn't like a very beautiful dumb chick it's a very intelligent

00:08:57.800 yeah and it's an exception but it doesn't make the rule yeah and so i'm like why is this guy bringing

00:09:03.300 up this exception when he knows how men think he's a man it's also george freaking clooney man yeah like

00:09:09.020 like they're like like what do you think it's like you know he's not going to ask that question okay of

00:09:13.340 course he's not going to directly ask that question he's more socially intelligent than that like you

00:09:16.960 know interactions in commerce trade and and love sort of happen on the subconscious level where we're

00:09:22.560 sort of trying to we're trying to infer information from from half truths anyway so we know that we

00:09:28.060 can't trust what you know men say at face value we can't trust what women say at face value it's just

00:09:32.320 like negotiations you're trying to infer from the flags let's say um but i'm sure george clooney is also

00:09:37.760 experienced enough as a man that he's got a very good sense of inference he can really understand

00:09:42.600 what's happening right yeah no and let's just keep watching let's keep watching with has existed

00:09:49.180 for some time before they met me and unless they have been living under a rock and not wanting to

00:09:56.520 meet anyone not having any sexual experiences there's they're going to have had some sexual

00:10:02.720 experiences so and you know what's really interesting i want you to notice something you know it's funny

00:10:08.880 it was like she probably saw my videos because i was bringing i was the first one maybe not the first

00:10:14.640 but you know nothing's new under the sun but i had a big series where i talked about female virginity

00:10:20.240 right because i realized that really multiple sexual partners is like the link to all of the world's

00:10:26.760 problems female promiscuity and i thought i was like well you know there's always going to be another

00:10:31.960 round of 22 year olds if they knew if the the next generation of women knew that men would require

00:10:38.640 virginity for marriage or at least the men they want right if like i don't know top five percent of men

00:10:44.440 said we are only accepting virgins you don't think more women would do it so one of the things that

00:10:48.500 he said it was interesting is like he was reading this lady's letter whatever it was and she's like

00:10:52.700 i feel like men would react like deeper on a subconscious level to let's say a high body count right

00:10:58.040 and this is like a really interesting topic in society today so what is like the most fundamental

00:11:02.800 truth that that little boys and little girls learn when they're little boys and little girl

00:11:07.460 little girl little boys little girls the most fundamental truth we learn is that's a boy that's a girl

00:11:11.600 yeah that's the most fundamental truth right yeah and today as a society we're questioning well what

00:11:17.060 is a boy what what's a what what is a woman right and so we kind of lose sense of the fundamental truth

00:11:22.100 that we implicitly know is true that there are boys and there are girls and some people are born born

00:11:27.400 boys and some are born girls and and now we're questioning that as a society you following me and

00:11:32.880 so when you question the most fundamental truth you then question the other fundamental truths like well

00:11:37.760 i think that it may be that on a subconscious level my you know this this guy would not like

00:11:43.420 a very high body count like of course he wouldn't like it and on a subconscious level women know that

00:11:47.940 and here's how you know that women know that when women want to slander other women and they do

00:11:53.080 because women don't engage in fighting on a physical domain women engage in fighting on an emotional

00:11:58.200 domain reputational domain what do women say about other women when they want to lower their other

00:12:02.520 women's value do they say oh i bet she's so clean no she's a slut she's a whore and do you know why

00:12:08.120 women will devalue other women that way it's very simple it's competition yeah and well and also that

00:12:13.840 um men actually have nothing against loose women because men are generally after like you know selection

00:12:19.760 and reproduction whereas other women seeing other women lowering the entry barriers to the sexual

00:12:25.140 marketplace is a threat for those women because they're giving away the initial woman's value yeah

00:12:30.100 so of course obviously but he's saying it like well why would it well it's like of course it would

00:12:34.560 lower the value of course yeah why even why are we even questioning this yeah i know but this was

00:12:39.760 but it's problematic because this guy has millions of subscribers and i'm telling you he was one of the

00:12:45.400 leading co like he was so big back in the day like four or five years ago maybe not as big as kevin

00:12:52.200 samuels but not far from it in terms especially in terms of female audience but the thing is you can

00:12:58.600 amass such a big female audience spewing bullshit you can't really do that with men not as much

00:13:04.000 one thing that i think is pretty funny is i follow you a little bit on twitter and i think

00:13:07.520 you post some very funny things but one thing you notice i've noticed from from some of the

00:13:11.900 conversations is all the men and this is anecdotal but all the men who i have seen posit that their

00:13:17.320 partner's past is completely irrelevant have eventually been revealed with having very

00:13:22.440 promiscuous partners so wait say that one more time so all the men that say look you know your

00:13:26.140 partner's past shouldn't matter all those men eventually turn into some form of cuck like they

00:13:30.360 give out their wife or it turns out that their wife has had a wild history so it's almost it's

00:13:34.000 almost like they're just and this is of course very anecdotal from my observation but it's like

00:13:37.220 they're just justifying the fact that they're trying they're not arguing with the audience

00:13:40.660 they're arguing with themselves they're trying to convince themselves yeah well that happened the

00:13:44.540 other day because some guy was arguing with me about i think i was saying something about single

00:13:48.680 mothers and i always know there's always exceptions to every rule right there yes yes yes but it's like

00:13:54.480 the majority of single moms are not these innocent creatures that just found this guy that just high

00:14:00.440 and dry left them as soon as the kid came like that doesn't happen are there some sure but the

00:14:05.520 exception doesn't make the rule and statistically most will not remarry it's um dr david baker so he

00:14:12.440 wrote the history of sex he's like an expert um at researching some of this stuff i can't like so

00:14:17.940 give or take these numbers like five percent but it was roughly 15 of single moms remarry 22 get a guy

00:14:24.480 to live with them so that means the majority do not have a happy ending so sugarcoating that does

00:14:30.120 not help women because we don't know the consequence for the for our actions because we don't think

00:14:35.340 things through well it's that's deeper than we don't think things through i'm going to make a more

00:14:40.440 cerebral argument to that i i agree with you that the outcome is the same but i don't think the input

00:14:44.180 variables are i don't think things through i think there's a different input variable okay go ahead i

00:14:48.540 think it's uh the sexual revolution the brand again this might be you know pretty controversial but the

00:14:52.400 sexual revolution the birth control pill has conditioned women to have freedom without

00:14:56.000 consequence and the thing is men don't have freedom to begin with like men can't walk down the street

00:15:00.360 and say who wants to have sex with me and then all of a sudden women show up me me me me that's not

00:15:03.940 that's not an experience that's not that's not how guys right that's not how it goes yeah you can't

00:15:08.120 go to a club and just have women compete for you whereas you go to the club and then men will start

00:15:11.540 competing for the women right and so women have always had freedom but it has always come with

00:15:15.920 consequence so biologically biologically i don't know if our brains are wired for i mean i'm not saying

00:15:21.540 the birth control has a net negative but biologically clearly our brains are not wired for it so it's

00:15:26.400 not like you know women are like oh i'm just going to be evil it's i think it's just like your biology

00:15:30.760 and and you know 400 000 years of of evolution right has been saying to you like you want this but you

00:15:37.760 shouldn't take it because there's consequence and now you can just take it and so then all decisions

00:15:41.660 lose consequence right right um what was the name of tammy was it tammy tanny tanny you this the

00:15:49.040 insecurity you have about this comes from the complete other direction too there will be women

00:15:56.240 in the love life club who say to me that they are a virgin at 35 and they're terrified of what a guy

00:16:04.040 is going to think of them because they are a virgin whatever it is you can find and i've heard i've heard

00:16:10.560 actually i heard kevin samuel say this we're over like 25 being a roughly being a virgin is a red flag

00:16:18.080 and not for the reason like it's either she's asexual basically um she has crazy high standards

00:16:25.540 or um what was the third one she might have been abused yeah like he said usually like something's

00:16:32.360 off yeah that's why it's a red flag or she's so crazy no one will touch well it's like but it's but

00:16:37.880 it's also one of those things like if you're a man who is thinking long term like you're optimizing

00:16:41.480 for long term not only short term one reason that might also be a red flag that is a very very big

00:16:46.760 emotional burden for a guy to carry if he's a mature man like taking somebody's virginity does

00:16:51.380 does i mean you might do it cool but it's actually like an emotional burden that you carry with you

00:16:54.920 right and if somebody's at that age um and then you understand that the burden is at that level like

00:16:59.780 there probably is an optimal age where at some point they're the you know the returns the returns

00:17:04.300 the returns of scale are negative right yeah well i was just thinking 35 i'm like i i just think to a

00:17:10.820 guy because he's saying that girl like she has the problem she's afraid to tell any a guy that

00:17:15.360 she's a virgin at 35. my first question is is she fat too because sometimes it's like they're a virgin

00:17:21.440 but they're fat or like something's off like to be you know so is she lying yeah yeah i bet so how many

00:17:29.160 how many chicks have said they're virgins on the show that i actually believe because they'll be like

00:17:33.640 half naked and they'll be like i'm a virgin i'm like what born again yeah i know i know we had one

00:17:40.080 girl oh my gosh we had one girl it was so funny she was talking before the show um to my friend kit

00:17:45.140 and kit was on the show um and asking him about her dating problem with like it i guess she mentioned

00:17:51.140 she slept with a guy or whatever on the show and i wasn't there for this she said she was a virgin

00:17:56.220 and he like called her out for it on the show where'd she say he's like that's not what you said

00:18:01.300 she got mad i think she left or i don't remember it was so long ago i'd have to look so that's another

00:18:06.700 interesting thing so yeah i said like when women lower other women's value they make their past

00:18:11.000 sound dirtier how do women increase their own value like they make it sound clean yeah yeah so

00:18:15.660 we know implicitly this is true yeah you can find a story and a group of people that can help you

00:18:20.880 create that story around why you should feel insecure about it that woman that says i'm still a

00:18:27.120 virgin and i'm worried every guy's gonna think i'm a freak based on your narrative she has the dream

00:18:32.300 scenario she's never slept with anyone no no no i wanna you know i wanna because i'm the one that

00:18:39.060 pushes out this narrative i want to correct i want to correct you matthew no the 35 year old virgin

00:18:45.300 you know and i i have a i had a video called your virginity doesn't count if and this was all the

00:18:51.140 reasons why your virginity is no longer valuable to men one of those reasons is if you're super fat

00:18:57.880 you know what i mean like if you're a big fatty it's just not the same like sorry you got it you

00:19:02.860 got to get in the door second if your face looks like it was like hit by it you know it just really

00:19:07.980 deformed it kind of it kind of loses its value um and one of those is if you're super old because the

00:19:15.140 men assume something is wrong so the dream scenario is i don't know what 21 20 22 really under 25 roughly

00:19:25.080 25 and under that that's the the highest sexual market value and a virgin yeah so he's he's making

00:19:32.560 a straw man he's saying that here's the argument here's how i'm gonna break it if you're 35 is a dream

00:19:36.680 scenario but he's doing it wrong mathematically wrong and this is like so objective right he's

00:19:40.840 saying there's a line where the more you are virgin the more your value grows and then he's

00:19:44.860 destroying that argument but it's wrong it's more like a standard distribution curve where there's a

00:19:48.460 like you said there's a range yeah yeah like and i think i said this in the video i'm like a guy

00:19:53.740 will take the really men hate fat chicks they really do they're repulsed like do you think fat

00:20:00.000 chicks like themselves oh no look i'm not saying that i'm not saying that to be like oh blah blah

00:20:04.960 body show all the bullshit words people assigned to it but like poor men also hate being poor

00:20:09.540 yeah yeah because they know because they know they have less options right yeah um and and it's just it

00:20:15.280 is what it is yeah water is wet the sky is blue men prefer debt-free virgins yeah most desirable

00:20:23.280 person in the game right now because she hasn't done that and maybe if she's uh hanging around

00:20:29.440 25 year old strange like a simple this is just the height argument it's like well i wouldn't date a

00:20:35.580 girl who put you know is a little person a three foot nine it's like oh so the best outcome is a

00:20:40.320 seven foot eight chick it's like no there's a range right there's a range yeah yeah would you okay

00:20:47.260 would you date a girl that's six five oh that's i'm six four by the way just for for like yeah so

00:20:52.560 i'm already like kind of on the taller end of things um my wife is five ten okay so she's on the taller

00:20:58.120 end of things um that's such a hard answer you know you know like i'm not against it because like

00:21:02.480 in a sense i would be like well who would that girl even date if if if a six four guy the girl i'm

00:21:07.740 thinking of because i played volleyball for a girl that was six five she married a guy that was

00:21:11.780 six ten oh well but congratulations yeah she went to a big college congratulations yeah yeah she wasn't

00:21:16.700 that good at volleyball um because she's kind of awkward yeah she goes to a big school because

00:21:21.140 they'll give you scholarship anyway if you're tall enough as a chick because some of them end up being

00:21:25.180 less awkward and get good later so it's kind of like you know she did it but they took her at i think

00:21:30.920 it was wichita and yeah she just found a guy on the basketball team and got married well their kids

00:21:35.720 are going to be gigantic yeah i think she's pregnant now actually starting a new race yeah

00:21:40.500 but that's always the question i ask guys like how tall is too tall you know there's there's like

00:21:46.600 there's two answers to that right like and i've had this conversation with guys sort of behind closed

00:21:50.220 doors in a sense too it's like getting a tall chick is also like for a lot of men a sort of a sexual

00:21:54.880 conquest right because you are you are getting a woman who's like well i don't know there's a sexual

00:21:59.420 conquest aspect to it but that's not the question that you asked the question you asked was what you

00:22:03.980 know i i i and i give a cop-out answer i've always given this answer it's a cop-out answer and i'll

00:22:09.220 give it again like if a woman is taller than me she's already freakishly tall yeah because like i'm

00:22:14.840 pretty tall so it's like why would you know it's kind of i don't know and plus how many women in my

00:22:19.520 life have i met like that yeah maybe one yeah no i was just curious because she was stunningly

00:22:24.620 beautiful but she was yeah i know that would compensate yeah yeah she always had a boyfriend

00:22:29.540 like always like um i don't know i don't know she would like just find the most giant when she

00:22:35.560 date a guy that's five seven doubt it no no no warped people on reddit she is gonna have a market

00:22:42.440 there because they're gonna be like oh she's so attractive she's never been with anyone the world

00:22:47.840 isn't one dating market this is the thing we have to get outside of out of our heads the world isn't

00:22:52.660 one dating market it is thousands of niche boutique trading areas between people who value different

00:23:02.020 things imagine the great was the no so okay so that's both right but it's misleading yeah that's

00:23:07.840 like saying you know we can't we can't know where electrons will go in a double blind experiment well

00:23:13.300 we know statistically where most of them will go yeah it's like it's like he's saying don't apply

00:23:18.420 don't apply group statistics on an individual which is right but that shouldn't mean

00:23:22.620 that you shouldn't optimize to be as attractive as you can to as many people as possible in order

00:23:26.660 to increase your odds of success period right you know it's like yeah i'm gonna have a thousand

00:23:31.020 partners as a woman and just hope to get a man that's really into a woman with a high body count

00:23:35.040 like yeah that guy exists somewhere yeah but your odds of meeting them are significantly lower than

00:23:39.980 meeting a guy that just prefers a traditional woman yeah have you seen do you follow neon at all

00:23:44.980 i don't know what that is okay there's um a young streamer who's dating a chick with an only fans

00:23:49.420 okay and it's shows me like the next okay i know we say influencers are in a different world and they

00:23:56.360 totally are but they do represent something because people can relate to it and i think you're gonna see

00:24:02.300 a lot of men it's gonna be a lot more normal to date women with only fans because this is a rich this

00:24:07.940 is a very rich like a night 20 year old guy now obviously he'll get more mature wise as he gets

00:24:15.240 older people make mistakes when they're young but my question not question i guess commentary is

00:24:21.980 i think that's gonna be more normal unfortunately in the next like 20 years i hope not you know one of

00:24:28.100 the things we talked off camera just briefly before this it's like as because you're an influencer

00:24:31.700 and like to a certain degree people will replicate the standards that you set for them because you are

00:24:36.880 popular yeah and i don't know how much you spend time thinking about it maybe for you it's about

00:24:40.960 really just maximizing your exposure and just bring up you know intriguing and provocative questions

00:24:45.880 that do need i am a free speech absolutist so i do want those questions asked but in a way the standard

00:24:51.280 that you hold yourself to and what you do will be reflected in society because you do have i don't

00:24:55.740 know 50 million views a month or more yeah something like that yeah so so you know you see these guys

00:25:00.920 that that promote lower standards for men and it's like that's actually that's bad because because men

00:25:05.720 already we already hold ourselves to too low a standard which is a problem yeah well that's why

00:25:10.040 i think that men should require virgins or at least the top men i'm like okay you're telling me

00:25:14.860 if leonardo dicaprio came out and said look it i have been dating all of these chicks forever

00:25:20.660 the only woman that is going to get me is a virgin women love to do what's trendy what's cool like

00:25:27.420 but right now we have women that are like nikki minaj well we have we have a secondary societal

00:25:33.520 problem here right the reason that women of that let's say were virgins were were maximizing their

00:25:39.640 market potential is because the way that men women were being taught in our culture was that

00:25:44.300 the what was the ideal in the culture is to get married have a family that was the judeo-christian

00:25:48.760 approach to culture right yeah and today women are being told that the ideal woman is a high-powered

00:25:53.160 female executive a bad boss bitch right fine but the problem is when you tell them that that's the

00:25:58.020 north star to aim towards all their behavior becomes aligned with that so they take on more

00:26:02.400 masculine traits so the question i would ask is are we raising our girls to think that way and we're

00:26:06.480 not no because because the alt because the the thing that we aim for the highest purpose we serve

00:26:11.520 is no longer the family yeah yeah i actually too is so interesting um the women voting thing i looked

00:26:18.020 at more anti-suffragetes writing they equated women voting to communism that is actually true yes

00:26:23.940 yeah i never thought about it like that wow i was like that is 100 because it's individual which

00:26:30.320 i guess i kind of did because i knew the reason why but i never thought about communism because i

00:26:35.360 i don't know i just didn't think about it but because they were saying like communism is more

00:26:39.600 individualistic where um what they were pushing for at the time was more family policies

00:26:45.280 it was actually even deeper than that if you want to get into some real political science theory

00:26:49.520 here but the most the most leftist of the left is actually anarchism people think that anarchism is

00:26:54.960 on the far right it's not anarchism is on the far left okay and it's very easy to define if you guys want to

00:26:59.440 learn this kind of stuff you know whatever um conservatives are called conservatives because

00:27:03.280 their job is to conserve specifically to conserve the institutions that we serve right so conserve the

00:27:08.320 patriarchy as some might call it you know but it's not but whatever the the meritocracy is really more

00:27:13.120 of a better way to look at it conserve the churches conserve the you know judeo-christian institutions

00:27:18.320 all this kind of stuff it's all about conservation so the opposite of conservation is destroying the

00:27:22.400 institutions and nothing destroys more than anarchism right so the leftist of the left is actually

00:27:27.840 complete and utter free anarchism and so the reason it was a communistic argument is because women

00:27:33.440 voting would destroy the existing institutions so the argument is like was it specifically because

00:27:38.480 they wanted communism or they just were acting out of vindictiveness right and and we do see some

00:27:43.120 vindictiveness happening don't we yeah yeah well yeah yeah i'm sorry audience i know this is what you're

00:27:48.880 used to or expecting no no it's interesting i actually i love it when i can learn more of the thought

00:27:55.600 processes behind it's really interesting to me when i can learn the reasons why people were fighting for

00:28:01.040 and against certain things in different time periods because a lot of times they don't tell you the

00:28:05.280 context today or we lie about the context we say we retroactively look at these things and say oh the

00:28:11.360 reason we did it is because we want to encourage equality it was never about equality no never and you

00:28:15.920 see and by the witchcraft too yeah huge huge yeah yeah and it was um and even when i they even knew that all

00:28:23.760 the women that wanted to vote they were all spinsters that was like on all the posters back then

00:28:29.040 well i will say this and we had this conversation so people tell me dimitri how can you you know go

00:28:33.200 on pearl's show and make it you know and resolve yourself with the fact that pearl says women

00:28:36.480 shouldn't vote and i actually and we talked about this very amicably like and very logically like

00:28:40.640 i don't agree that women shouldn't vote but i do think that you bring up a really interesting and a

00:28:46.240 very important conversation and that there is actually a problem and the problem is that women have

00:28:51.280 let's say higher trait neuroticism which means that they're much easier to scare about the future

00:28:55.520 which means that women will be much easier to influence by to vote to the left and so we see

00:29:01.200 some very goofy political outcomes because politicians pander for votes and they say things that they know

00:29:06.800 will destroy society yes so so we actually iterate ourselves like it's just game theory we iterate

00:29:12.400 ourselves into voting for politicians that want to destroy the family because they're appealing to a

00:29:17.760 to a neurotic audience for votes right so there is a problem yeah there is a problem but i'll say

00:29:23.840 this i think the solution has to be education based and i'll tell you why i think it has to be

00:29:28.240 education based again i'm boring your your audience goodbye views right that's okay um there's a there's

00:29:33.600 a pretext that women should be sexually pure and i agree with that pretext and and if you push that

00:29:38.720 to its logical conclusion what you get is a culture where women have to wear burqas so therefore they can't

00:29:43.280 advertise or market themselves to men and men have less of an incentive to solicit themselves to

00:29:47.440 women and so what you get is a society where women wear burqas it is a solution to to um reeling

00:29:54.320 in the sexual desires and to live in a more let's say you know in a more holy way but it's a cowardly

00:30:00.720 solution and the reason it's a cowardly solution is because it's just the ultimate solution that just

00:30:06.080 reduces us to not have to actually grow as people and so i agree with your with what you postulate and

00:30:11.360 saying like hey there's a problem here i think the solution has to be educating not just not just women

00:30:16.320 but also educating men but we don't do that well i actually think that most men should have vote

00:30:21.040 either well i understand you're not fighting for or i think your net tax contributor is that your

00:30:26.560 argument or well i had a couple things i wanted um you have to be a net taxpayer you can't be on any

00:30:32.320 benefits you can't be living off of the government because it's not fair that the people living off of

00:30:36.640 the government have more of a say than the people paying into well by the way nobody lives off the

00:30:41.520 government where's the money come from from other people yeah exactly they're literally just they're just

00:30:45.040 they're just uh parasites exactly yeah so if you're in a bunch of debt no if um uh military i would

00:30:51.760 even i would i toy with the idea of maybe just military members because you're voting for the

00:30:56.800 commander-in-chief i've thought about that i'm not completely i recently heard an argument that only

00:31:01.440 landowners should vote yeah i i i'm not sure the best way to do it i'm open to suggestions but i know

00:31:07.520 that all of these suggestions would limit a lot of women voting more so than men yeah that's that's my

00:31:12.960 argument what is it in turkey the grand bazaar imagine the grand bazaar and just everywhere

00:31:19.040 there's there's a labyrinth of different areas trading different things based on what people want

00:31:25.920 what you put a premium on is different from what this person over here puts a premium on and vice

00:31:31.120 versa which means that different people are valuable to different people there is no one dating market

00:31:37.120 you're treating it like there's one dating market because yeah that's just wrong that's just that's

00:31:42.320 just wrong and that's he's been doing this for 10 years that's why he has to know that he's lying

00:31:48.560 like you cannot not know this as a guy you hear the way men talk behind the scenes the same way i hear

00:31:54.800 women say ruthless things behind the scenes women have locker room talk men have locker room talk there's

00:32:01.200 no way that he doesn't know there we have data from tinder we know there's one dating market yeah

00:32:06.000 like we know that women consistently choose the same guys and guys consistently choose the same

00:32:09.600 women yeah you spent too much time on the internet in one particular area of the algorithm and now the

00:32:15.520 algorithm is serving you every title it can find on why women become unattractive the moment they've

00:32:21.520 slept with more than one person and that's coloring your narrative all right matthew no there's no one well

00:32:28.720 i guess i guess i do say i do say virgins are ideal but most men you know i hear i've heard you know

00:32:35.680 men on the show will say under five is is is good you know i don't actually think virgins are ideal i

00:32:41.120 think virgins are idealistic like it might just not be reasonable anymore to have that expectation but

00:32:46.080 but nonetheless well my whole point is no guy's gonna say one one guy and you're done it's when you've

00:32:52.240 slept with 57 and you're wondering why you can't get a high value guy anymore so the first thing you can do

00:32:57.920 by the way is start re start stop stop searching for those things and start searching for positive

00:33:04.240 material so that the algorithm online starts feeding you positive material or do it do search in an

00:33:09.920 incognito window so that the algorithm is no longer serving you up the stuff that is your biggest fear

00:33:15.760 which it will gladly oblige in doing for as long as you let it um stop spending time around people who

00:33:21.280 feed that narrative or men who feed that narrative and in case you feel i am copying out on your

00:33:27.280 question that you know you want me to avoid saying that men who care about this are insecure

00:33:32.640 there are obviously going to be some men who care about that they're not men that i hang around

00:33:37.680 none of the men that i hang around get into a relationship and start by saying how many people

00:33:42.480 you know my first question are you marrying a whore matthew is that what you're doing yes no what's

00:33:48.080 wrong with yes if it doesn't matter he's making the argument like nobody starts by asking the questions

00:33:52.240 obviously but that's not the point you at some point are going to infer signs and those signs are

00:33:56.880 going to tell you subconsciously and hopefully consciously what is the likelihood of the

00:34:01.040 relationship with this woman that is going to work out been within the past i have questions

00:34:05.840 it's like why have standards at all like i don't hang out it's like well you know it's like i prefer

00:34:09.760 a woman that weighs this much why have standards at all stop hanging out with men that care about

00:34:13.440 that stuff remove all standards marry a chair i like your analogy asking because what they're

00:34:19.360 trying to find is someone who's the kind of person they want to be in a relationship with and by the

00:34:24.240 way a lot of guys are smart enough not to even ask the question because they don't want to know the

00:34:28.320 answer if it makes them feel weird because they don't want to talk about okay so he just admitted

00:34:32.800 they care it's all yeah correct he just admitted 100 yeah pandering this is how to pander 101 if you

00:34:39.440 guys ever question there's some guys online or like you know question you know pearl doesn't know this

00:34:43.040 pearl doesn't know that pearl you're very emotionally intelligent because that is exactly what he just

00:34:47.440 said is they're admitting they care because they're not confronting their fear because it's like well

00:34:52.240 i just don't want to know why wouldn't you want to know yeah because you're afraid afraid of what

00:34:56.080 afraid of afraid of your woman losing face in front of you well if you're afraid of it that means you

00:35:01.200 care exactly yeah street and by the way that's probably in a lot of cases better that we don't spend

00:35:08.640 time doing this excavation on each other's sexual past what's the purpose of it if that's your thing

00:35:14.880 or you particularly don't mind then you can do that but for everyone else there's no need to do that

00:35:20.880 because it's just not relevant to where you're going everyone has a past everyone he said it's not

00:35:27.120 relevant to where you're going i have a question where you're going no but really like what's the

00:35:31.200 purpose of the relationship ideally what is the purpose of the relationship well marriage and kids

00:35:35.600 ah so the purpose of cohabitation and marriage is in order to reproduce and have kids so let's say

00:35:41.120 that is the reason he's getting married because i don't think he's getting married he's like you know

00:35:44.720 what i'm just tired of having different women in my life i just want to do the same woman forever

00:35:48.320 that's like not why guys get married like it like the the aim has to be higher than that or at least

00:35:54.800 not as weird as that the aim has to be well we're gonna have a family so how does it not matter to

00:35:58.320 where you're going in fact there's been studies now that have very considered we've known this for like

00:36:02.320 30 years by the way that you can predict the propensity for one's socio-sexual behavior

00:36:07.120 meaning how slutty they are in layman's terms you can predict that just through a set of ribosomes

00:36:10.880 in your dna and we can actually genetically trace that wow right that's really cool yeah and so and

00:36:15.600 with like a really high predictive coefficient so it's like yeah it matters because let me ask like

00:36:20.240 a question i would ask is like as a father do you want an extremely sexually promiscuous daughter

00:36:25.680 and that would go against some of our instincts right so one of the reasons we're actually

00:36:28.880 filtering it might be on a genetic level is we're filtering out women who would give us

00:36:32.800 an ideal offspring and if we're and if marriage and kids are the ideal then isn't the ideal to

00:36:37.120 raise a good generation of offspring yeah yeah well and men can't help it like even the men that try to

00:36:43.920 turn it off or they date these super slutty slutty women like you can tell it bothers them even adam 22

00:36:50.480 before you know you know what happened with him unfortunately yeah okay but if you look at his old

00:36:55.840 interviews he was saying how he didn't want to do stuff with his wife and another guy because he

00:37:01.200 would just feel weird about that and then over time you you see him change his mind but you can't get

00:37:07.360 rid of that gut reaction i don't believe it well and some people on the left would say that you know

00:37:12.480 it's if we evolve when we get rid of our reactions no those reactions are meant to preserve society and

00:37:17.920 and preserve families in order to preserve society and those people on the left also believe that human

00:37:23.520 beings are polluting the planet well i posit something for you our audience here today is

00:37:27.920 this people aren't the problem people are the point right but yeah i just i couldn't once i got red

00:37:33.920 pilled i was like i could not believe how many pandering coaches there are i almost think i was

00:37:39.600 trying to decide what's worse a simp or a whore and i almost think simps like they just enable bad behavior

00:37:46.480 and they lie to women and they profit off of it well that's it's something as a mating strategy

00:37:51.200 yeah i know it's just not it's just not the optimal one yeah yeah like it's it's a way it's

00:37:55.760 like you know what simping is simping is a way to get a seat at the table but you're the kiddie table

00:38:00.960 like you're getting invited to dinner but you sit at the kids like it's probably better than just being

00:38:05.360 a pure incel all the time right but you're sitting at the kids table um tell them where they can find

00:38:11.600 you uh lgfg it's like look good feel good lgfg.com that's our company again i'm dimitri ceo of lgfg the

00:38:17.440 custom suit company that makes suits for a lot of celebrities you're going to see us online

00:38:20.480 everywhere uh my role in society because you know if i were to say what is my mission statement is

00:38:25.440 to teach young men and women how to make a million dollars a year why would you want to make a million

00:38:29.200 dollars a year what kind of purpose is that very simple uh you have more freedom to choose you have

00:38:34.320 more freedom to to uh not be controlled by your government not be controlled by nefarious agents

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Dating Coach FAILS To Justify Women Having A High Body Count @LGFGFashionHouse_Official

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