00:07:20.820and you're like you know what baby that's all right
00:07:26.000yeah i i'm so happy to walk you down this aisle in the white dress in front of the whole crowd of
00:07:33.320people we know five guys she slept with is in the crowd yeah yeah that is it's different though because
00:07:40.900like thinking about it logically i'm thinking about it it will be like i would if i know the person like
00:07:50.440like deeply enough like that wouldn't care but initially going to find someone i would prefer
00:07:57.260someone that's like below like five or something you know what i mean thank you for being honest
00:08:03.700thank you for being honest but if i have to like she could get away with 20 if you had to if i but if you had two women exactly the same once 20 once five you're gonna yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah thank you for being honest i knew i would get it out of you
00:08:21.240i knew i would it's okay he's young he's young it's not as young though it's like
00:08:26.980you know there's less guys been there you know you feel somewhat more like yeah cool like
00:08:33.340wait it makes you feel more secure in yourself i wouldn't say secure it'd be like all right less guys
00:08:38.920as touch her you know i mean like she's like my
00:08:42.500she just said something really interesting and i think that's worth noting she said it makes you feel
00:08:47.340more secure about yourself and that's a gaslighting technique and if you want i can really
00:08:51.260dig into this one yeah go ahead because she's like because because she's saying like well
00:08:55.600if you've you know with a woman that had less partners it means that you know you're just insecure
00:08:59.920being with a woman with a very high body count right but that's actually shifting the blame and the
00:09:04.960accountability of your behavior on him it's not his behavior that caused that right now biologically
00:09:09.240men are predisposed to do what to reproduce and for that we need to have a paternity guarantee
00:09:13.900that's why that's why we want that's why virgins are very highly valued through history we want to
00:09:17.260guarantee of paternity we want to make sure the kids are our kids right and we know that after
00:09:21.260what the five partners pair bonding basically drops and that's a vasopressin chemical thing
00:09:25.120the biggest drop is from um like one to two yes it's like it's like 80 percent it depends on the
00:09:31.880then after five it starts to drop again yeah yeah yeah no five is like it's like no like gone you
00:09:37.200know gone forever but like one to two it goes from like 80 percent to like 40 percent yeah so it's like
00:09:43.120so it's like yeah you're insecure because you wouldn't take a chick with a high body count that just
00:09:46.620sounds like a chick with a high body count doesn't want to doesn't want to take accountability for
00:09:50.700her actions but as a man we know the pair bonding decreases with a woman that has a high body count
00:09:54.820we also know there's a significantly higher opportunity or actually a chance for her to
00:09:58.760cheat because when women cheat if you actually look at like at the data who they cheat with it's usually
00:10:02.140somebody they slept with in the past there's a she's an alpha widow she's got some of course yeah
00:10:06.180really that makes perfect yeah of course where did you find that i didn't never i've never
00:10:09.240yeah we can get into that i got some books you can read right because it's like a woman
00:10:12.260for her to start a new relationship with a man she's not doing it for the sex she's doing it to
00:10:16.420leave the relationship women cheat to leave relationships there's a lot of data to actually
00:10:19.500back it up right the data to back it up is very simple a woman's propensity to cheat drops significantly
00:10:24.420with the income of her partner the richer her husband the less a woman cheats and this has been
00:10:28.400proven over and over and over and over and over most of the cheating there's about 20 percent of
00:10:32.940women that are you know statistically trying to be cheating in their marriages overwhelmingly those are
00:10:37.980sway towards men that are earning below average incomes versus men with higher incomes tend to
00:10:42.600cheat more but their wives tend to cheat significantly less so why do women cheat acquisition of resources
00:10:47.920why do men cheat spread the seed paternity right because men have more opportunities of the higher
00:10:52.160income so it's like well you don't want a woman with low body counts because you're insecure in yourself
00:10:55.460no that you're insecure in yourself and you want to blame the man for it and that's just like a really
00:10:59.580toxic behavior and if you think when you want to buy a car or you want to buy clothes or anything you want it
00:11:05.080not used really yeah don't you i don't want nobody putting dicks in my car
00:11:10.060what do you do you still think body count doesn't matter or do you still same opinion same opinion
00:11:19.920always to i till the day i die don't know i'm just curious like new new information doesn't ever
00:11:26.200change you know what it's just i don't care i just don't care like it just doesn't because for a man
00:11:32.440a man can sleep with what a thousand people but that man's not home but a woman she's a home hey
00:11:38.800he's the homemaker he's okay he's a homemaker he's a homemaker but um i mean what's the phrase like a
00:11:44.560key that opens many locks is a good key but a lock that opens for everybody it's not a good lock
00:11:50.480yeah also you have to let the men actually in yeah do you know what i mean yeah it's quite actually a
00:11:55.980big deal no i guess so and you know what actually saying you're saying that i do understand because
00:12:01.340it's like a soul tire a little bit i feel like if you do sleep around you're kind of letting people
00:12:06.080into your that's that's your home you know your body is your home so i do understand that as well
00:12:10.720likely to pass on like std i do and you're more likely to pass like one in one in four women have
00:12:15.600an std actively oh god that's fine go get that check yeah one in three women have had an abortion
00:12:22.160too it's like actually crazy the numbers that is what's like guys like girls are experienced and it's
00:12:28.980like okay why are you going back to the okay you know what you guys do you're trying to not you
00:12:46.880don't want the you know the women you want to sleep with or whatever to let here hear you hear you saying
00:12:52.260that because you you're like no no no no come on but you know deep down you would never take them
00:12:57.300seriously so then you mislead us it's misleading to women because you tell women it doesn't matter
00:13:04.380and then the women say oh okay it doesn't matter they'll go do it but you know it matters so let's
00:13:11.120we're not liars on the podcast we're truth tellers it's confusing though it's like guys like i think guys
00:13:18.300will be more likely to keep a girl if they're like sexually satisfied with that woman you know and i think
00:13:24.240girls that's had like a lot of experience can provide that for guys but i don't know can you
00:13:30.520provide it for her is the question too can i provide it not not sarcastically by the way
00:13:34.680because you don't know the emotional the emotional engagement she had previously it's not even about
00:13:39.100the sex it's about the danger of the sex but how would you forbiddenness of it right how would you
00:13:43.900feel if you got like a woman with like a high body count well i can tell you exactly how i felt i was
00:13:48.460dating a girl in texas and i've said this on a podcast once before and she was like super hot
00:13:53.000and i was just like wow and i was younger at the time too so i was like i really valued that as like
00:13:56.600the number one thing and then and then you know a couple months in the relationship you had to have
00:14:00.780a conversation she was like hey i just need you to know like i didn't know this i was very naive
00:14:04.540she's like i'm i'm a stripper i actually had no idea i just remember thinking the whole time i was
00:14:08.900like this checks out a body should be a stripper right she was a stripper and then we went to a
00:14:12.720certain um we went to a sporting event and there were 10 athletes on the on playing and she had
00:14:19.500slept with eight of them and she told me that she's like i slept with this guy and this guy this is one
00:14:22.680of those girls that would hunt those kind of professional athletes right yeah and i was just
00:14:25.980like oh i think my dick just fell off because i was like i don't think i want to you know i don't
00:14:30.760think i want to i don't know if it's a competition thing but like eight what was her body count
00:14:35.440uh i don't know the exact number but when you're there's 10 guys on the court and she's
00:14:39.260and she's been with eight of them yeah of the 10 yeah well yeah she had to have been like if you
00:14:45.000found out about eight i'd be like 50 or something oh no it was way more than that i'm sure i'm sure
00:14:49.380it was because she actually kept the list of all the famous dudes she was with like don't get me
00:14:53.240wrong the sex the sex was just like mind-blowing fine but i'm thinking like there's no way i would
00:14:59.120have a daughter with this person there's like a 50 50 roughly chance that one of her is like on the
00:15:02.940whole way no way what's like imagine dating for like not even dating say you've known this girl
00:15:10.800for like six years you thought the world of her right and then all of a sudden like after like
00:15:17.220six or seven years you found out a body count would you look at that person differently or would
00:15:22.100you just be like yes are you just dating her for six years i say like you're married or anything
00:15:28.020like even i seen say even like she's your girlfriend right and you've known her for six years this is
00:15:35.060like has that happened to you no okay but six years it's very specific i think it's a long enough time
00:15:43.300to not go back and on a thursday she says yeah but it's like after so long would you look at that
00:15:49.600person differently knowing that oh body counts like 50 or so you know i'm not gonna lie you would
00:15:54.820there's no way in hell that you wouldn't like you would you may not say anything but in the back of
00:16:01.180your mind you're gonna be thinking oh my god she's slept with that many men and then you're now gonna
00:16:07.260start looking at her differently so what then tends to happen is that you might now she might say
00:16:11.560oh i'm going out with my friends so when she was doing it before you were fine but when she's now
00:16:16.600doing it and she's told you a number you're thinking oh it's where she wait where you go
00:16:21.800particularly like what are you gonna do yeah it's an ego thing and it is yeah i get you know
00:16:26.340how could you keep that a secret that's quite a secret to have i'm just thinking 50 men would you
00:16:33.100you can't could you go anywhere and not run it like this isn't like the law of something where
00:16:38.260you're like five connections away from everybody is that a thing yeah it is yeah so i'm like 50
00:16:44.860how did you guys run into like women like men she slept with well we would we would go to sporting
00:16:50.180events and see them playing sports so that was like kind of weird and you know it's always the
00:16:54.020same conversation it's like oh now that you know like you don't think it's highly of me cry cry cry
00:16:57.780i'm like no no no it's fine i don't care about your past of course i'm gonna say it because i want
00:17:01.260more mind-blowing sex but i'm not gonna put a ring on it because remember market value is not
00:17:05.200determined but how long did you date her for about six seven months okay and then you broke it off
00:17:09.300um she'd reappear occasionally in my life since then i mean up until i you know up until i got
00:17:14.820very serious with somebody right you know business is business you could have dated her for six years
00:17:22.160her thinking you're gonna marry her you knowing that you wouldn't i wasn't gonna do that no no but
00:17:26.100i'm just saying women don't realize that a man can date you for years and have absolutely no
00:17:32.060intention of marrying you he's just waiting until he finds that woman that he will marry
00:17:36.660and we don't really know that but that's true women women do the same they do nothing they're
00:17:41.780signs anyway i don't think i think that's that's weird you're describing hypergamy that's actually
00:17:46.620very female behavior women no no no i mean no i don't mean that no as many of you know i was just
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