JustPearlyThings - May 10, 2023


Debate on How Many Body is TOO MUCH


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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a high value woman and why it's important to have a good man in your life. We also have a discussion on whether or not it's better to be in a relationship with someone of a higher value than someone of lower value.

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00:00:00.000 first that's the point would you if you had do you have kids yeah if you were going to give her 1.00
00:00:07.340 advice just generally because if you've got a son you tend to give your kids advice on how to grow
00:00:13.620 up and be a good man how if you were to advise your daughter your recommendation wouldn't probably be
00:00:20.500 to yeah just get as fat as you like because some man out there will love you you kind of you want 0.97
00:00:25.640 your child to kind of aim you know yeah do you know what i think of getting a good man i know my
00:00:32.580 viewpoints are very different to most people so like we could look at things holistically like of
00:00:38.560 course we can we could look at things holistically look at it and at the end of the day right and we
00:00:41.840 have to on a show yeah because like on a show it's not about individuals like we're talking about
00:00:46.400 society in general um what do you think high value woman uh definitely exist yeah and from like 1.00
00:00:52.260 listening to everybody i would like i i'd list uh looks body count probably important uh for me
00:00:58.360 intelligence definitely high up there uh loyalty is a big deal um and nurturing for sure if i would
00:01:07.320 list a few things um how how many bodies does a girl have to have for high value to go off the table 1.00
00:01:16.740 so she no longer it's yeah i know you said 20 it's got a generous man over here uh what do you think
00:01:26.880 um whatever the guy thinks like whatever i'm asking what you think
00:01:35.280 personally for me i feel like body count shouldn't matter but i feel like if there was a number
00:01:45.540 i don't want to say because like i have friends with higher body count you know i don't want to
00:01:52.120 like i mean high values it's supposed it's like it's like saying i'm not a millionaire not everyone
00:01:58.260 can be a millionaire not every girl can be high value it's not an insult if i if i say to you you're 1.00
00:02:03.620 not a millionaire are you insulted no so if i say you're not a high value woman it shouldn't be 0.99
00:02:09.120 insulting i honestly don't know like i feel like every man has their own like like he said 20 like
00:02:19.840 some guy some some guys don't care about body counts okay i know but i'm asking what you think
00:02:24.980 okay what about you had a brother yeah i have a brother okay so for his girlfriend what's the most
00:02:31.140 um i'm not sure but i'm thinking the same like 20 as well all right 20 okay what do you think
00:02:42.740 i don't think body count matters one bit because we're all born with you know private parts and stuff
00:02:51.620 and they're there to be used if you want to do that of 100 people a week do that it's there for
00:02:57.640 a reason it's there to be pleased on both ends and i just don't think we're in a generation now
00:03:04.480 where really body count like no are you nodding oh my god this is what i mean this is what i mean
00:03:12.620 it's different for everyone i'm gonna give you stats i'm just curious if it'll change your opinion
00:03:17.220 so so a girl if she's a virgin on her wedding night 80 chance of a happy marriage if she sleeps
00:03:22.000 with more than five people do you know what it drops down to very low 20 yeah so so knowing that
00:03:28.660 you don't think that it would be better for a guy to pick a girl that has an 80 chance of a happy 0.87
00:03:33.000 marriage and that would make her more valuable than a girl that's love with 100 100 people 1.00
00:03:37.280 that's like i don't even know 100 people just an example um i guess when you put it like that
00:03:45.460 you found 20 dudes you couldn't keep you couldn't keep one out of 20 but you know what though i do
00:03:50.340 know quite a lot of people where they they don't want anything serious and they like doing that and
00:03:55.520 they actually enjoy it and maybe it doesn't make them a higher value but if that's what someone enjoys
00:04:00.880 go do it oh yeah like so first of all notice that these girls are actually arguing against each other 1.00
00:04:06.240 where they don't realize it right because this young lady here she's like i don't want to say 0.99
00:04:10.200 a number because i have friends above that number are you insinuating that being above that number is
00:04:13.680 going to be somehow offensive to your friends like you're literally saying with saying that that oh
00:04:18.240 high number is bad my friends will feel bad about themselves and i'll make them look bad well if
00:04:21.980 numbers don't matter wouldn't they just not care just tell us what's that number tell us how many
00:04:26.340 how many bodies is too much so that your friends aren't going to get offended because your friend
00:04:31.600 here said that it doesn't matter does it no i i i i agree with her like i feel like body counts
00:04:36.840 shouldn't matter but i'm saying like and yet you won't tell us and yet you won't tell us what that
00:04:41.160 number is what's a high number no yeah you said well my friends are going to get offended because
00:04:45.220 they've had more bodies are you insinuating that more bodies is bad because that's what it sounds like
00:04:49.000 no really then tell us what's that number like i said like i don't think but like no because
00:04:55.820 she said if my brother was to marry someone like what what what his like body count would be with 0.97
00:05:02.820 that woman so i wouldn't know but i feel like body count shouldn't matter like like i said a guy cares
00:05:08.740 about a woman's past or how many um guys they slept with but did she not that i hear her wrong correct
00:05:15.320 me guys if i'm wrong did she not say five minutes ago she said that i don't want to say a number because
00:05:20.120 my friends might be offended because their numbers are higher does that insinuate that a higher number is bad
00:05:24.320 by her trying to protect her friends then yeah so she's arguing against herself now let me tell you
00:05:28.840 why these girls are saying if you guys understand why women say that body numbers don't matter but 0.99
00:05:32.780 they actually think they do women are insinuating that it's good to have an open sexual marketplace 0.99
00:05:36.880 because they know that high number of partners discounts and disvalues other women so they're 1.00
00:05:41.120 like you go girl you get that d you get whatever you want blah blah blah but in their head yeah because
00:05:45.260 if everyone was right if everyone was a virgin the girls that weren't it would like they would be way 1.00
00:05:49.780 less valuable yes so that's like that's why men should raise their standards it's the same it's
00:05:53.620 the same thing the women are like oh you go you're 300 pounds lizzo you're beautiful whoo it's like 0.99
00:05:57.600 they don't but the women themselves don't believe me i think men do this too i think men do this too
00:06:01.780 they don't want the market to change and they don't want to like discount they're just trying to get
00:06:05.100 laid no yeah they're trying to get laid so they're like yeah we don't care about the high body count 0.99
00:06:09.020 for the night right for the night but later they'll care they'll care no offense no it's not just you
00:06:17.360 it's a lot of guys no but like come on sir you gonna you want a girl that slept with with 20 dudes
00:06:24.600 really that's your mother of your kids you know that's your that's your wifey you know she slept with 1.00
00:06:31.620 tom dick harry jeremy tyrone alex ryan austin adam um
00:06:40.920 um dimitri um and she'll never forget it yeah yeah sorry i'm not even i couldn't even think of 20 names
00:06:51.460 like it's because you guys are making it like real real but it's like let's see before you would think of it
00:07:00.380 donovan eric
00:07:04.520 jeremy tyrone too
00:07:10.120 chad i'm almost you know
00:07:13.880 yeah yeah i see i can't even give some nerdy names philip philip
00:07:19.680 jeff
00:07:20.820 and you're like you know what baby that's all right
00:07:26.000 yeah i i'm so happy to walk you down this aisle in the white dress in front of the whole crowd of
00:07:33.320 people we know five guys she slept with is in the crowd yeah yeah that is it's different though because
00:07:40.900 like thinking about it logically i'm thinking about it it will be like i would if i know the person like
00:07:50.440 like deeply enough like that wouldn't care but initially going to find someone i would prefer
00:07:57.260 someone that's like below like five or something you know what i mean thank you for being honest
00:08:03.700 thank you for being honest but if i have to like she could get away with 20 if you had to if i but if you had two women exactly the same once 20 once five you're gonna yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah thank you for being honest i knew i would get it out of you 1.00
00:08:21.240 i knew i would it's okay he's young he's young it's not as young though it's like
00:08:26.980 you know there's less guys been there you know you feel somewhat more like yeah cool like
00:08:33.340 wait it makes you feel more secure in yourself i wouldn't say secure it'd be like all right less guys
00:08:38.920 as touch her you know i mean like she's like my
00:08:42.500 she just said something really interesting and i think that's worth noting she said it makes you feel
00:08:47.340 more secure about yourself and that's a gaslighting technique and if you want i can really
00:08:51.260 dig into this one yeah go ahead because she's like because because she's saying like well
00:08:55.600 if you've you know with a woman that had less partners it means that you know you're just insecure
00:08:59.920 being with a woman with a very high body count right but that's actually shifting the blame and the
00:09:04.960 accountability of your behavior on him it's not his behavior that caused that right now biologically
00:09:09.240 men are predisposed to do what to reproduce and for that we need to have a paternity guarantee 0.99
00:09:13.900 that's why that's why we want that's why virgins are very highly valued through history we want to 0.96
00:09:17.260 guarantee of paternity we want to make sure the kids are our kids right and we know that after 0.97
00:09:21.260 what the five partners pair bonding basically drops and that's a vasopressin chemical thing
00:09:25.120 the biggest drop is from um like one to two yes it's like it's like 80 percent it depends on the
00:09:31.880 then after five it starts to drop again yeah yeah yeah no five is like it's like no like gone you
00:09:37.200 know gone forever but like one to two it goes from like 80 percent to like 40 percent yeah so it's like
00:09:43.120 so it's like yeah you're insecure because you wouldn't take a chick with a high body count that just
00:09:46.620 sounds like a chick with a high body count doesn't want to doesn't want to take accountability for 1.00
00:09:50.700 her actions but as a man we know the pair bonding decreases with a woman that has a high body count 1.00
00:09:54.820 we also know there's a significantly higher opportunity or actually a chance for her to 0.99
00:09:58.760 cheat because when women cheat if you actually look at like at the data who they cheat with it's usually 1.00
00:10:02.140 somebody they slept with in the past there's a she's an alpha widow she's got some of course yeah 1.00
00:10:06.180 really that makes perfect yeah of course where did you find that i didn't never i've never
00:10:09.240 yeah we can get into that i got some books you can read right because it's like a woman 1.00
00:10:12.260 for her to start a new relationship with a man she's not doing it for the sex she's doing it to 1.00
00:10:16.420 leave the relationship women cheat to leave relationships there's a lot of data to actually 0.97
00:10:19.500 back it up right the data to back it up is very simple a woman's propensity to cheat drops significantly 1.00
00:10:24.420 with the income of her partner the richer her husband the less a woman cheats and this has been
00:10:28.400 proven over and over and over and over and over most of the cheating there's about 20 percent of
00:10:32.940 women that are you know statistically trying to be cheating in their marriages overwhelmingly those are 1.00
00:10:37.980 sway towards men that are earning below average incomes versus men with higher incomes tend to
00:10:42.600 cheat more but their wives tend to cheat significantly less so why do women cheat acquisition of resources 1.00
00:10:47.920 why do men cheat spread the seed paternity right because men have more opportunities of the higher
00:10:52.160 income so it's like well you don't want a woman with low body counts because you're insecure in yourself 0.93
00:10:55.460 no that you're insecure in yourself and you want to blame the man for it and that's just like a really
00:10:59.580 toxic behavior and if you think when you want to buy a car or you want to buy clothes or anything you want it
00:11:05.080 not used really yeah don't you i don't want nobody putting dicks in my car 0.91
00:11:10.060 what do you do you still think body count doesn't matter or do you still same opinion same opinion
00:11:19.920 always to i till the day i die don't know i'm just curious like new new information doesn't ever
00:11:26.200 change you know what it's just i don't care i just don't care like it just doesn't because for a man
00:11:32.440 a man can sleep with what a thousand people but that man's not home but a woman she's a home hey 1.00
00:11:38.800 he's the homemaker he's okay he's a homemaker he's a homemaker but um i mean what's the phrase like a
00:11:44.560 key that opens many locks is a good key but a lock that opens for everybody it's not a good lock
00:11:50.480 yeah also you have to let the men actually in yeah do you know what i mean yeah it's quite actually a
00:11:55.980 big deal no i guess so and you know what actually saying you're saying that i do understand because
00:12:01.340 it's like a soul tire a little bit i feel like if you do sleep around you're kind of letting people
00:12:06.080 into your that's that's your home you know your body is your home so i do understand that as well
00:12:10.720 likely to pass on like std i do and you're more likely to pass like one in one in four women have 0.98
00:12:15.600 an std actively oh god that's fine go get that check yeah one in three women have had an abortion 1.00
00:12:22.160 too it's like actually crazy the numbers that is what's like guys like girls are experienced and it's
00:12:28.980 like okay why are you going back to the okay you know what you guys do you're trying to not you
00:12:46.880 don't want the you know the women you want to sleep with or whatever to let here hear you hear you saying 0.99
00:12:52.260 that because you you're like no no no no come on but you know deep down you would never take them
00:12:57.300 seriously so then you mislead us it's misleading to women because you tell women it doesn't matter
00:13:04.380 and then the women say oh okay it doesn't matter they'll go do it but you know it matters so let's
00:13:11.120 we're not liars on the podcast we're truth tellers it's confusing though it's like guys like i think guys
00:13:18.300 will be more likely to keep a girl if they're like sexually satisfied with that woman you know and i think
00:13:24.240 girls that's had like a lot of experience can provide that for guys but i don't know can you
00:13:30.520 provide it for her is the question too can i provide it not not sarcastically by the way
00:13:34.680 because you don't know the emotional the emotional engagement she had previously it's not even about
00:13:39.100 the sex it's about the danger of the sex but how would you forbiddenness of it right how would you
00:13:43.900 feel if you got like a woman with like a high body count well i can tell you exactly how i felt i was
00:13:48.460 dating a girl in texas and i've said this on a podcast once before and she was like super hot
00:13:53.000 and i was just like wow and i was younger at the time too so i was like i really valued that as like
00:13:56.600 the number one thing and then and then you know a couple months in the relationship you had to have
00:14:00.780 a conversation she was like hey i just need you to know like i didn't know this i was very naive
00:14:04.540 she's like i'm i'm a stripper i actually had no idea i just remember thinking the whole time i was
00:14:08.900 like this checks out a body should be a stripper right she was a stripper and then we went to a 1.00
00:14:12.720 certain um we went to a sporting event and there were 10 athletes on the on playing and she had
00:14:19.500 slept with eight of them and she told me that she's like i slept with this guy and this guy this is one
00:14:22.680 of those girls that would hunt those kind of professional athletes right yeah and i was just 0.99
00:14:25.980 like oh i think my dick just fell off because i was like i don't think i want to you know i don't 0.86
00:14:30.760 think i want to i don't know if it's a competition thing but like eight what was her body count 1.00
00:14:35.440 uh i don't know the exact number but when you're there's 10 guys on the court and she's 1.00
00:14:39.260 and she's been with eight of them yeah of the 10 yeah well yeah she had to have been like if you
00:14:45.000 found out about eight i'd be like 50 or something oh no it was way more than that i'm sure i'm sure
00:14:49.380 it was because she actually kept the list of all the famous dudes she was with like don't get me
00:14:53.240 wrong the sex the sex was just like mind-blowing fine but i'm thinking like there's no way i would
00:14:59.120 have a daughter with this person there's like a 50 50 roughly chance that one of her is like on the
00:15:02.940 whole way no way what's like imagine dating for like not even dating say you've known this girl
00:15:10.800 for like six years you thought the world of her right and then all of a sudden like after like
00:15:17.220 six or seven years you found out a body count would you look at that person differently or would
00:15:22.100 you just be like yes are you just dating her for six years i say like you're married or anything
00:15:28.020 like even i seen say even like she's your girlfriend right and you've known her for six years this is
00:15:35.060 like has that happened to you no okay but six years it's very specific i think it's a long enough time
00:15:43.300 to not go back and on a thursday she says yeah but it's like after so long would you look at that
00:15:49.600 person differently knowing that oh body counts like 50 or so you know i'm not gonna lie you would
00:15:54.820 there's no way in hell that you wouldn't like you would you may not say anything but in the back of 0.71
00:16:01.180 your mind you're gonna be thinking oh my god she's slept with that many men and then you're now gonna
00:16:07.260 start looking at her differently so what then tends to happen is that you might now she might say
00:16:11.560 oh i'm going out with my friends so when she was doing it before you were fine but when she's now
00:16:16.600 doing it and she's told you a number you're thinking oh it's where she wait where you go
00:16:21.800 particularly like what are you gonna do yeah it's an ego thing and it is yeah i get you know
00:16:26.340 how could you keep that a secret that's quite a secret to have i'm just thinking 50 men would you
00:16:33.100 you can't could you go anywhere and not run it like this isn't like the law of something where
00:16:38.260 you're like five connections away from everybody is that a thing yeah it is yeah so i'm like 50
00:16:44.860 how did you guys run into like women like men she slept with well we would we would go to sporting 0.99
00:16:50.180 events and see them playing sports so that was like kind of weird and you know it's always the
00:16:54.020 same conversation it's like oh now that you know like you don't think it's highly of me cry cry cry
00:16:57.780 i'm like no no no it's fine i don't care about your past of course i'm gonna say it because i want
00:17:01.260 more mind-blowing sex but i'm not gonna put a ring on it because remember market value is not
00:17:05.200 determined but how long did you date her for about six seven months okay and then you broke it off
00:17:09.300 um she'd reappear occasionally in my life since then i mean up until i you know up until i got
00:17:14.820 very serious with somebody right you know business is business you could have dated her for six years
00:17:22.160 her thinking you're gonna marry her you knowing that you wouldn't i wasn't gonna do that no no but
00:17:26.100 i'm just saying women don't realize that a man can date you for years and have absolutely no
00:17:32.060 intention of marrying you he's just waiting until he finds that woman that he will marry
00:17:36.660 and we don't really know that but that's true women women do the same they do nothing they're 1.00
00:17:41.780 signs anyway i don't think i think that's that's weird you're describing hypergamy that's actually
00:17:46.620 very female behavior women no no no i mean no i don't mean that no as many of you know i was just
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