JustPearlyThings - April 14, 2023


Debate on How Women Make Poor Choices


Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

184.68585

Word count

2,379

Sentence count

3

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

sentences flagged

Hate speech

10

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss why women are leaving men and why they choose to leave them. We discuss the reasons why women leave men and how they do it. We also discuss the impact of social media and social media on the dating scene.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 no i agree you've got a point i agree i i think like um women definitely do make poor choices in 1.00
00:00:06.080 men but um the quality of men have kind of gone down i don't think the quality of men has gone
00:00:12.880 i really think it's the women but i i think so in in just regards to like you said the father
00:00:18.880 wasn't there this wasn't there but i think sometimes people have to take accountability
00:00:23.280 like you said i totally agree about taking poor choices but once something has happened
00:00:28.080 to part of being a man is finding solutions you understand and rectifying certain things so you
00:00:34.080 see like like if you have a child or something and it might not have been the ideal situation
00:00:38.400 but it's now your responsibility to you know to be a good father to your children do you understand
00:00:43.920 what i mean yeah so therefore they're not going to grow up with as much daddy issues not just
00:00:48.080 leave them well i i think that's the women's fault though like yeah because they picked him like why 0.98
00:00:54.000 why are you sleeping with him like why are you letting him like why aren't you on birth control 1.00
00:00:58.000 we have 41 forms of birth control pick one and like why are you why are you letting a bad guy that
00:01:02.800 would be a bad dad get you pregnant like that's stupid like what you can't change men and like as 0.94
00:01:08.880 women i think innately we know who's gonna stick around we know who isn't so why why would you pick 0.95
00:01:13.760 him and really and truly it's a small percentage of guys that are out here making baby making machines
00:01:19.200 bruv it's a small percentage bro it's the guys like the guys that aesthetically look like derrick
00:01:24.880 jackson bruv do you get what i'm saying like the guy the the the five foot five guy is not the one
00:01:30.160 that's causing all the problems out here it's not bro it's a six foot three six foot five four
00:01:35.520 like charming guy do you get what i'm saying that is causing a problem so really and truly
00:01:40.960 bro it comes down to girls because initially it's the woman who chooses do you get what i'm saying
00:01:47.200 and the women typically leave too like like because the the narrative is that like men are
00:01:51.360 the ones leaving and we can't trust men because they might leave but women leave more than men do 0.99
00:01:55.440 i was going to say as well like i mean i think because you work in divorce court or divorce yeah
00:02:01.440 yeah so a major major reason why i see that women are you know men have pretty much stayed the same
00:02:09.040 in terms of very not simple in derogative way but they very basic stuff you know not have high standards
00:02:16.160 of what a woman should bring but um women have gone to universities got degrees and you know all 1.00
00:02:23.440 that stuff in in recent years so that has been a major factor in them thinking oh you know what i
00:02:30.160 could do better and that's where hypergamy comes in women have never had the skills like to this level 1.00
00:02:36.800 ever before and um where men have kind of stayed the same you know they're the they're the breadwinners
00:02:41.840 but now when the woman can out earn him naturally she'll be like oh i could do better than him like 0.99
00:02:46.880 what can he offer me and that's really unfair because is that his worth like just what he can
00:02:51.920 offer financially if the children are eating the children are fed and like bathed closed so when
00:02:57.680 she gets too comfortable with you know what then she starts thinking well i could just if i can out
00:03:02.320 earn him like what do i need him for um whether that's good or bad is something else but then she
00:03:09.680 she has that mentality because yeah i think that's the main reason why women you can see the change 1.00
00:03:16.000 that women have made men have stayed the same you got you got chicks that are doing only fans yeah 0.70
00:03:22.160 selling their body online making a lot of money because of simps again and then obviously even they
00:03:28.480 will have higher expectations because they're oh i'm making 10 racks a month so uh you know i need
00:03:33.680 to be with a guy that makes x amount bro like it just kind of messes up the whole game now i have
00:03:40.000 like women are looking down on nine to five yeah i'm just like what can't win i've done so many reaction
00:03:47.920 videos to women saying ah nah if a guy does 95 he they would rather they'd actually rather date a criminal
00:03:54.800 a scammer yes then date a guy that does nine to five because oh if i just want to go to italy
00:04:00.880 at the drop of a hat he can't do that he has to ask his boss and yeah i need a guy that's an
00:04:05.360 entrepreneur or a scammer bro this is unrealistic i've seen too many videos like that yeah in the uk
00:04:13.200 and the usa this is normal stuff do you think guys like derek jackson know what they're doing
00:04:18.080 absolutely yeah yeah absolutely their target their derek jackson is hitting a target audience and the
00:04:25.680 majority of them are black women and he knows that if i can get them i have them hooked and it's sad to 1.00
00:04:33.360 say but they're going to keep going because i'm not sure if the stat is correct but i think that the
00:04:42.960 highest like unmarried demographic is um one of the highest i'll just say one of the highest is black 1.00
00:04:50.480 woman and he knows that if i what he's saying is it feeding into everything that is them essentially
00:05:02.240 and it's it's hard to say because i am a black woman and i i remember when i first saw
00:05:10.320 him and i was like oh yeah like what he's saying is true like that makes perfect sense and then i
00:05:16.960 really started listening to him and i was and then all that stuff happened like i said earlier and i was
00:05:20.640 like wait let me actually listen and i had friends who we would talk about things that he said and sit
00:05:27.040 down and be like oh did you see his video today and just discuss it and it's very it's very disheartening
00:05:35.680 when people hear something but don't actually like listen and like think about it but they just take it
00:05:41.440 and they run with it well and i think a lot of stuff like simpy guys kind of say it sounds nice and
00:05:49.120 it works well in theory like raise your standards but it only works well like if you have anything to
00:05:55.760 offer a guy and most modern women don't like how many modern women have cookbooks how many modern 1.00
00:06:01.280 women are virgins beans on toast which is like it doesn't mean you're a bad person or anything but 1.00
00:06:13.280 it's just like um you know it's like you're you're asking for bmw prices when you're used honda civic
00:06:20.160 how many buyers you're gonna get and if you do get a buyer you know damn well you scam the man
00:06:26.320 and all these girls and and and then them them particular girls you're talking about if you ask
00:06:30.160 them would you rate yourself out of 10 i'm a 10. like 12 actually don't forget it it's mad i break
00:06:37.520 the scale that's what they say would you bring or the worst one you ask them what do you bring to the
00:06:42.720 table i am the table like just delusion wait wait that would be really funny if that what's his name
00:06:48.160 derek if he rated people like his fans oh that would be good that would be really good and he's
00:06:54.720 gonna say yeah yeah you guys are tense yeah yeah yeah he has to literally say everyone's a 10. you
00:07:00.160 literally have to i oh my god i would kill to get that man on a show uh i probably not after this
00:07:08.800 no i think it'd be funny like i don't know i feel like you can make some funny content
00:07:12.960 no it'd be good though interesting good still i would ask him i'd be like why are you simping
00:07:18.480 like what are you doing here all right bruh oh i don't think he'd come on i don't know i just have
00:07:23.040 a feeling the heat will be too much um do the next clip blessing
00:07:42.960 is there anyone you can think of who's a bigger simp than derek jackson
00:07:51.520 this next person or the one we're about to watch later oh you think he's bigger no i don't i don't
00:07:58.000 think he is i don't know i mean there's more simps out there trust me once you see it you cannot see
00:08:07.440 it i'm about to ruin so many dating guys you losing and that applies here secondly i get it it's like
00:08:24.320 well she's taking everything i invested into him no she ain't she about to take everything he was using 1.00
00:08:29.520 to stress you out while blaming it on you she just don't know it yet and it seems like he's able to
00:08:34.960 give her you know all of these different fruits of of your labor you know all of this good treatment 0.78
00:08:39.600 this money whatever he was only able to do that because he was giving you the rest of him he was
00:08:44.480 giving her the best while giving you the rest now that she's in your spot he about to give her the rest
00:08:49.760 he's about to give her all of that depression he was projecting onto you because he don't need no
00:08:54.720 therapist that's what she about to get that's all she's taking from you she's taking his criticism
00:08:59.200 whenever his money get low she's about to take on all that neglect those excuses how little that he 0.92
00:09:05.360 was willing to help you around the house and but whenever he took out the trash once a week he wanted
00:09:09.280 to be treated like a cane that's what she about to get she again she just don't know it yet everything 1.00
00:09:14.240 that he was blaming on you she about to realize you were not the problem and on top of that she's no
00:09:19.920 longer the new toy and he still needs that spot field now that she's taking on yours he still needs that 0.99
00:09:25.360 spot field because we're not talking about a guy that made his mistakes he did his wrong but you
00:09:29.840 know he wants to make it right he's repentant no we're talking about a guy that stepped out moved out
00:09:35.520 and he don't see nothing wrong with it man what that girl took from you was a blessing to you
00:09:41.360 you need to be thanking her and somebody need to be praying for her because she next
00:09:45.280 i have a feeling that he is he talking to anybody is this like from like a show or anything i don't
00:09:58.720 know michael you gotta i don't know what he's saying i don't know he always i have a feeling that he's
00:10:04.080 like sitting in his room acting like he's talking to somebody but he's not talking to anyone but it's
00:10:08.720 not the corner of the room yeah is it again i was like is this you are you just exposing yourself
00:10:15.680 by saying all this stuff it i want to know what what people he knows because i've it's just like
00:10:25.040 mind-blowing at the stuff he's saying because it doesn't it doesn't seem realistic the things that
00:10:30.960 he's saying i'm like do people that you know really act like this and they're really doing these things
00:10:37.760 or are you or was this just your story and you're just portraying as it's somebody that you know
00:10:44.160 imagine being his wife like hearing him talk 0.83
00:10:48.240 it just sounds like you don't help her on the house that was you you took the trash out once and
00:10:53.920 you wanted to be treated like a king the rest of you you was streaming depression on me it was you
00:11:01.280 hey by his own logic his wife should have left him by his own logic she did yeah but i mean in
00:11:07.600 definitely yeah by his logic divorced like so he's just saying anything again you know do as i say
00:11:14.320 not as i do he's just he's just chatting crap i think he's just playing he just knows what sells
00:11:20.000 he knows he can just drum up the audience he can get his subscribers it's very come on it's really
00:11:24.320 shallow he's doing what he's preaching himself so and he says a lot in in the video it's not it's not
00:11:30.640 really a quick video he's saying a lot of things so all it is is women feel good women feel good
00:11:36.480 it's not your fault it's the man's fault yeah bro like it's a trick has he ever done a video like
00:11:42.160 opposite where he's like trying to balance out you know the field and i don't know even out
00:11:46.720 you think so all the i've seen is simp simp i have not seen it's really like offensive to men like
00:11:57.120 even the therapy and all that stuff like that's a sensitive topic that's why no one don't like him
00:12:01.520 yeah you never hear those guys say yes derek come on his wife's in the background probably saying i
00:12:08.240 told you to get therapy you narcissist that's funny yo she should come out with her own channel 1.00
00:12:14.880 wife derrick jackson's wife tells all yeah she could just give dating advice and not say his name
00:12:23.200 how to spot a narcissist yeah come on i knew somebody that went through this aka me
00:12:30.160 if you're ever in this situation i mean he made money off of her
00:12:34.320 that's true as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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