Debate on Number of Abuse Allegation
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about sexual assault in the dating world and how to deal with it. We also talk about the dangers of recording sex acts and how we can protect ourselves in the event of this happening in our own lives.
Transcript
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The number of abuse allegations increased 200% when they implemented that law, I think it was 2013.
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It's like, you're getting hit, you're getting hit, you're getting hit.
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I'm not saying that that doesn't happen, though.
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I'm not being sensitive, but I'm just being real.
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Do you guys think, okay, if the roles were reversed and we had those repercussions for being with men, would you change your behavior?
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I haven't heard from you yet, so I want to hear.
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It would be paranoid to the point where it's like, it's not even a point in talking to anyone.
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I wouldn't even go out looking for people because I would be so scared of what could come from it legally.
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Some guys put a ring all over their apartment so they can't say that anything that was consensual wasn't consensual.
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Yeah, but then wouldn't that be like they're recording it without your consent?
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I advise clients to have at least a camera outside your house or in situations where it is legal so you can show.
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I actually spoke to a lawyer about this because I've been sleeping with a lot of girls.
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I said, that's not guaranteed they're going to respond even if they did, right?
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So an objective empirical account that shows like this person's leaving on good terms and this and that.
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I've never had any accusation, luckily, with all these girls, but I have plenty of clients that have.
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And a lot of times, like I mentioned before, it's because the person cheated and then they just want to save the marriage.
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And it's like, you know, there's no consequence for doing that really if the girl is lying, which is unfortunate.
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But I think just proceed with caution is what I would say.
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And, you know, just, yeah, just like, I don't know, like in some countries, it's a bit more strict.
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I feel like even though the UK might say some of these things, I haven't actually heard them until today.
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So I think also in the West, and it's naturally right, a lot of men go after these type of women and they like them, it's attractive.
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These type of women that will, how would I say the word?
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Yeah, because they're attractive, they're sexy, they're whatever it is.
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But you don't understand, you turned around, like you created that monster.
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Women have to be looking that certain way, weight that certain way, blah, blah, blah.
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And then this woman become your worst enemy because this woman is a gold digger.
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She has to keep maintaining her looks, her, you know, going out every night in these type of restaurants.
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But we, men, most of the time are attracted to these type of women and they complain about what these women do for them.
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But they don't honor a lot of nice girls that they don't look like 10 out of 10.
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But I also think that men, you really don't know what someone's going to do when they're scorned, when they're pissed off.
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But I think you can see a different side of people when there's a breakup.
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It's not that like women are worse than men or men are worse than women.
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But it's that women are given the tools to destroy men if they so want to.
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It would be so interesting to see what type of world we'd be living in when that's been reversed.
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Well, I mean, you could go back a hundred years ago.
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It wasn't the no fault divorce started in the 90s, 70s.
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I don't remember, but a hundred years ago, it wasn't like that.
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But see, that was one of the problems because when men did have that power, society saw some men as abusing it.
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So, you know, there was a natural sense, you know, to kind of balance it.
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But like I say, it's just the pendulum has gone too far.
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And I think what's happened is people have just lost their balls.
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People are not courageous enough to say enough.
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You know, men and women come together and say it's enough.
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And we've created this polarized world where everyone's on each other's back.
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You know, men against women, black against white, rich against poor.
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And no one's come together and say, what kind of society do we want to live in?
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And how courageous do we need to be to create it?
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But we need to create this because everyone's suffering.
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And it feels like society and the powers that be have created this.
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I mean, the fact that you've got Rumble on standby just shows.
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I know you have a lot of your detractors and a lot of your hates.
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But there is something really important about what you're trying to say.
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There's a lot of stuff that people are trying to say.
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How can we say it when there's so much things coming out?
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Like now you have to think of it, well, not in my world.
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There's all of this intersectionality going on.
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So how can we even say everybody stop and let's do it this way.
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We can't because we've got to think of this one, this one, this one and this one.
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It's almost like the majority of people are sensible thinking.
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And I think we're letting the agenda be run by the fringes.
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It's not a minority, we're talking about intersexual people.
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What percent of people are even trans or heishi, whatever the hell it is.
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It's like what, one, two percent of the population and we all have to cater to them?
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That's how it's, well, not in the real world, but I feel like on social media, that's what they're catering to.
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It's like in the schools, I'm scared to have my kids go to actual school.
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I'll homeschool my kids if by the time I have children, there's certain, because I don't want them to think that's okay.
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I don't want them to think, yeah, I don't want them to, like, for example, like Peppa Pig, right?
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But about two months ago, I saw on Peppa Pig, they changed it.
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And I don't have a problem or whatever with same-sex or lesbian or whatever.
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But my child seeing that and saying, like, a mummy and a mummy can't have a baby.
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Like, they're just, if they want to, it's exactly, like, now it's more like force, force.
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There's so many girls I know, especially, like, our age group, like, 21, it's like, yeah, I'm bisexual.
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So, guys, what is more important to you when looking at a guy?
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No, but if I say money, it's going to sound like I'm a gold digger.
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So, if you were advising guys, would you tell them to get their money up first or their fitness,
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I'm just curious if the results you guys have seen are the same.
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What's interesting for me, I was bringing this up on the King Riches podcast yesterday,
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is that I've had tons of broke clients that spent the last of their money on my training
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Like, just getting tons of girls living at home, like, doesn't matter.
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Like, I've found that money is very, very, very, like, almost irrelevant.
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There's so many Red Pill creators that are, like, get the bag and all this stuff.
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But don't you think money makes a guy more confident and more, like, he's worthy for...
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I was telling you before the show, a billionaire client.
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So they're like, I'm just going to pick her up in the Ferrari.
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A guy being in touch with his masculinity is what makes him attractive.
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But one thing also, when, first of all, money can just tell you more about his ambition.
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Fitness is more important than money, for sure.
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Because your body, your health will give you everything.
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You can have your money today, you lose it tomorrow.
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And you will be left alone with the girl that you picked.
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Would you guys agree that if your guy was unemployed, he only has so much time before you would leave?
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And if he doesn't hold that up, I just feel like,
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I couldn't stay with someone that's just, there needs to be a drive.
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Like, I couldn't be with a man that's just, that's no motivation.
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I think it depends, you know, because it depends if he's willing to work, if he's motivated to work.
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Whereas if he's not motivated and he's fine, he's just chilling with no job, no money for five years, then it's a bit of a problem.
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But if he's motivated, he knows what he wants to do, he's just working towards his goals or he's willing to work towards his goals, then I feel like, that's okay.
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You don't know what he, he might want to be a doctor.
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Are you talking about, like, does a guy need to be rich versus, like, have just enough?
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My only point was, at some point, if he's not making enough money, we're going to leave.
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But I'm saying, like, if the guy has, like, his basic needs met.
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Like, I've found it doesn't really make much of a difference if he has, like, a ton of money.
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Is it different in the Eastern European countries versus the West?
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Like, in Ukraine and Poland, even in Brazil, like, people are making, like, $1,000 a month or less.
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So, like, you know, it's, like, $10,000 a year or less than $10,000 a year after taxes.
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So, I mean, you know, it goes back to those as basic needs met, right?
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If basic needs are met, I haven't found that it makes much of a difference.
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Because I've had so many rich clients that are all clueless.
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Like, they're all in their, like, millionaire circles and, like, hey, we thought this would get us the girls.
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And then I have clients that have hardly any money that just crush once they're doing things right.
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And the girl doesn't even know they don't have money.
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But, again, like, we're talking about, like, unemployed, like, completely broke for years versus at least having basic needs met.
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Like, a lot of guys, like, even if they're not doing super well.
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It's, like, 80% of people are living paycheck to paycheck in the U.S., I think, is something like that.
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So, it's, like, if they don't get paid one week, they can't pay the bills.
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So, all this, like, focus on, oh, you need to go make a lot of money.
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There's a lot of creators that say, like, forget dating.
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When they arrive at the money, if they ever do, most of them don't even get the money.
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But if they do, it's not like girls just start raining down in their lap.
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