JustPearlyThings - April 16, 2023


Debate on Number of Abuse Allegation


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00:00:00.000 The number of abuse allegations increased 200% when they implemented that law, I think it was 2013.
00:00:08.000 So, yeah.
00:00:08.720 It's like, you're getting hit, you're getting hit, you're getting hit.
00:00:11.000 I'm not saying that that doesn't happen, though.
00:00:12.900 I'm not being sensitive, but I'm just being real.
00:00:15.580 Do you guys think, okay, if the roles were reversed and we had those repercussions for being with men, would you change your behavior?
00:00:23.200 I wouldn't talk to anyone.
00:00:24.680 You wouldn't talk to anyone?
00:00:25.840 You know what's funny, I think?
00:00:27.360 I'm curious.
00:00:28.180 I haven't heard from you yet, so I want to hear.
00:00:30.160 Eggshells.
00:00:30.560 I would be walking on eggshells.
00:00:32.360 I would be so paranoid.
00:00:33.780 It would be paranoid to the point where it's like, it's not even a point in talking to anyone.
00:00:37.500 I would just do me, focus on me.
00:00:39.020 If someone comes my way, they come my way.
00:00:40.360 I wouldn't even go out looking for people because I would be so scared of what could come from it legally.
00:00:46.420 Some guys put a ring all over their apartment so they can't say that anything that was consensual wasn't consensual.
00:00:55.860 Yeah, but then wouldn't that be like they're recording it without your consent?
00:01:01.440 I have no idea if that's legal or not.
00:01:03.060 Yeah, that would be legal.
00:01:03.540 You can't record sex acts.
00:01:04.820 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:05.100 That's where they draw the line, right?
00:01:06.220 Yeah.
00:01:06.360 I advise clients to have at least a camera outside your house or in situations where it is legal so you can show.
00:01:13.200 I actually spoke to a lawyer about this because I've been sleeping with a lot of girls.
00:01:17.040 I said, how do I protect myself?
00:01:18.120 And he said, oh, just send a text.
00:01:19.260 Did you have a good time?
00:01:20.080 I said, that's not guaranteed they're going to respond even if they did, right?
00:01:23.260 So an objective empirical account that shows like this person's leaving on good terms and this and that.
00:01:28.380 I've never had any accusation, luckily, with all these girls, but I have plenty of clients that have.
00:01:33.480 And a lot of times, like I mentioned before, it's because the person cheated and then they just want to save the marriage.
00:01:38.720 And it's like, you know, there's no consequence for doing that really if the girl is lying, which is unfortunate.
00:01:44.100 But I think just proceed with caution is what I would say.
00:01:49.420 And, you know, just, yeah, just like, I don't know, like in some countries, it's a bit more strict.
00:01:55.900 I feel like even though the UK might say some of these things, I haven't actually heard them until today.
00:02:02.800 Can I just say something also?
00:02:04.740 So I think also in the West, and it's naturally right, a lot of men go after these type of women and they like them, it's attractive.
00:02:16.900 These type of women that will, how would I say the word?
00:02:21.560 Crazy.
00:02:22.380 No, no, no.
00:02:23.260 They will F them up.
00:02:25.180 Oh, okay, yeah.
00:02:25.840 Yeah, because they're attractive, they're sexy, they're whatever it is.
00:02:29.360 But you don't understand, you turned around, like you created that monster.
00:02:33.880 Women have to be looking that certain way, weight that certain way, blah, blah, blah.
00:02:37.660 She needs to da-da-da.
00:02:39.700 And then this woman become your worst enemy because this woman is a gold digger.
00:02:43.960 She has to keep maintaining her looks, her, you know, going out every night in these type of restaurants.
00:02:51.000 And she will use you and abuse you.
00:02:52.980 But we, men, most of the time are attracted to these type of women and they complain about what these women do for them.
00:02:59.120 But they don't honor a lot of nice girls that they don't look like 10 out of 10.
00:03:04.800 It's the same in reverse too, right?
00:03:05.860 Like women don't want a nice guy.
00:03:07.520 A hundred percent.
00:03:08.240 It's natural.
00:03:09.480 People are just attracted to drama.
00:03:10.280 For women and men, they're attracted.
00:03:11.260 Exactly.
00:03:12.060 It is attractive.
00:03:13.100 But I also think that men, you really don't know what someone's going to do when they're scorned, when they're pissed off.
00:03:20.800 But I think you can see a different side of people when there's a breakup.
00:03:24.920 But that's what I'm saying.
00:03:25.800 And that's the thing.
00:03:26.500 It's not that like women are worse than men or men are worse than women.
00:03:29.760 But it's that women are given the tools to destroy men if they so want to.
00:03:36.120 It would be so interesting to see what type of world we'd be living in when that's been reversed.
00:03:41.240 Yeah.
00:03:41.480 Well, I mean, you could go back a hundred years ago.
00:03:43.660 It wasn't the no fault divorce started in the 90s, 70s.
00:03:48.800 I don't remember, but a hundred years ago, it wasn't like that.
00:03:51.700 Or look at the East.
00:03:53.500 But see, that was one of the problems because when men did have that power, society saw some men as abusing it.
00:03:59.960 So, you know, there was a natural sense, you know, to kind of balance it.
00:04:04.420 But like I say, it's just the pendulum has gone too far.
00:04:06.500 And I think what's happened is people have just lost their balls.
00:04:08.880 People are not courageous enough to say enough.
00:04:11.820 You know, men and women come together and say it's enough.
00:04:14.000 It's gone too far.
00:04:15.200 Everybody is suffering.
00:04:16.700 How can we do it together?
00:04:17.400 And we've created this polarized world where everyone's on each other's back.
00:04:21.220 You know, men against women, black against white, rich against poor.
00:04:23.780 And no one's come together and say, what kind of society do we want to live in?
00:04:27.500 And how courageous do we need to be to create it?
00:04:30.140 It's not going to be perfect.
00:04:31.240 And there's always going to be losers.
00:04:32.320 But we need to create this because everyone's suffering.
00:04:34.480 But no one's doing that.
00:04:35.680 And it feels like society and the powers that be have created this.
00:04:38.820 Like what you just said, Pearl.
00:04:39.780 I mean, the fact that you've got Rumble on standby just shows.
00:04:42.180 I know you have a lot of your detractors and a lot of your hates.
00:04:45.780 I get it.
00:04:46.100 But there is something really important about what you're trying to say.
00:04:49.380 Same way Kevin Samuels, God rest his soul.
00:04:51.640 There's a lot of stuff that people are trying to say.
00:04:53.760 But the minute they say it, they're shut down.
00:04:55.760 But we need to hear these point of views.
00:04:57.580 How can we say it when there's so much things coming out?
00:05:00.680 Like now you have to think of it, well, not in my world.
00:05:04.900 But now it's not just male and female.
00:05:08.520 There's like all the in-between.
00:05:10.160 There's all of this intersectionality going on.
00:05:12.340 So how can we even say everybody stop and let's do it this way.
00:05:17.800 Or let's try to do it.
00:05:19.060 We can't because we've got to think of this one, this one, this one and this one.
00:05:22.660 Do you know what it is?
00:05:23.080 It's almost like the majority of people are sensible thinking.
00:05:25.480 But people are scared.
00:05:26.800 And I think we're letting the agenda be run by the fringes.
00:05:29.280 It's not a minority, we're talking about intersexual people.
00:05:32.640 What percent of people are even trans or heishi, whatever the hell it is.
00:05:38.340 It's like what, one, two percent of the population and we all have to cater to them?
00:05:42.160 For what?
00:05:42.860 Yeah, the kids in the schools.
00:05:44.640 That's how it's, well, not in the real world, but I feel like on social media, that's what they're catering to.
00:05:50.240 It's like in the schools, I'm scared to have my kids go to actual school.
00:05:56.960 I'll homeschool my kids if by the time I have children, there's certain, because I don't want them to think that's okay.
00:06:04.420 I don't want them to think, yeah, I don't want them to, like, for example, like Peppa Pig, right?
00:06:08.820 This one sounds so random.
00:06:09.920 But about two months ago, I saw on Peppa Pig, they changed it.
00:06:14.520 It was like same-sex sort of thing.
00:06:16.600 And I don't have a problem or whatever with same-sex or lesbian or whatever.
00:06:21.880 But my child seeing that and saying, like, a mummy and a mummy can't have a baby.
00:06:27.780 Like, that's the reality.
00:06:28.700 Well, it's like, why do they need to know?
00:06:30.300 Why do they need to know?
00:06:31.140 That they're so innocent.
00:06:33.040 Like, they're just, if they want to, it's exactly, like, now it's more like force, force.
00:06:38.180 Not saying that I'm against anything, no.
00:06:40.820 I'm just saying now it's more pressure.
00:06:43.300 And it's popular.
00:06:44.320 Yeah, it's a trend.
00:06:45.760 It's a trend to be bisexual.
00:06:47.400 There's so many girls I know, especially, like, our age group, like, 21, it's like, yeah, I'm bisexual.
00:06:53.160 Like, it's a trend, you know, so.
00:06:56.700 So, guys, what is more important to you when looking at a guy?
00:07:04.180 Money or looks?
00:07:07.100 I have a third one, I'm not going to lie.
00:07:08.960 Yeah, I've got a third one as well.
00:07:10.740 Yeah, same.
00:07:11.220 Pick one of the two looks.
00:07:12.780 Money.
00:07:13.600 Money?
00:07:14.440 Yeah.
00:07:15.340 No, but if I say money, it's going to sound like I'm a gold digger.
00:07:19.320 Don't worry about that.
00:07:20.060 No, don't.
00:07:20.720 Just be authentic.
00:07:21.860 You know what, yeah?
00:07:23.820 I'm going to be real.
00:07:24.740 Let me keep it real, baby.
00:07:26.620 Money.
00:07:27.360 Money.
00:07:28.320 Yeah.
00:07:28.680 Same.
00:07:29.220 Money?
00:07:29.600 Yeah.
00:07:30.860 Money.
00:07:31.740 Money.
00:07:32.060 Shoot.
00:07:32.600 Money.
00:07:33.060 Actually, I think I changed my mind, you know.
00:07:34.880 Wait.
00:07:35.620 No, but.
00:07:36.160 Looks ain't going to pay the bills, baby.
00:07:38.480 And they're not going to pay the bills.
00:07:39.800 That's it.
00:07:41.240 Yeah, you're so right.
00:07:42.100 After what I've been through, money.
00:07:43.980 Money.
00:07:44.280 Definitely.
00:07:44.980 So, if you were advising guys, would you tell them to get their money up first or their fitness,
00:07:49.720 if they only had time for one?
00:07:51.420 Fitness.
00:07:52.300 Oh, sorry.
00:07:53.520 No money.
00:07:54.420 Fitness.
00:07:54.700 I'm just curious if the results you guys have seen are the same.
00:07:58.240 What's interesting for me, I was bringing this up on the King Riches podcast yesterday,
00:08:01.820 is that I've had tons of broke clients that spent the last of their money on my training
00:08:06.240 and got rock star level results.
00:08:09.040 Like, just getting tons of girls living at home, like, doesn't matter.
00:08:12.740 Like, I've found that money is very, very, very, like, almost irrelevant.
00:08:16.500 Really?
00:08:16.820 As long as the guy's not living in poverty.
00:08:18.400 I know online, like, everyone thinks.
00:08:19.840 That's so true.
00:08:20.320 There's so many Red Pill creators that are, like, get the bag and all this stuff.
00:08:24.020 But in practice, that's total BS.
00:08:26.880 But don't you think money makes a guy more confident and more, like, he's worthy for...
00:08:32.660 I get the other side of the coin, though.
00:08:33.740 I get a lot of, like, millionaire clients.
00:08:35.180 I was telling you before the show, a billionaire client.
00:08:38.020 And they're just trying to lead with that.
00:08:40.100 So they're like, I'm just going to pick her up in the Ferrari.
00:08:42.300 I think show the house.
00:08:43.420 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:43.980 A guy being in touch with his masculinity is what makes him attractive.
00:08:47.240 And he doesn't need money for the reason.
00:08:48.360 I agree.
00:08:49.080 He doesn't need that option.
00:08:50.020 Yeah, he doesn't need money for it.
00:08:51.840 But the question was, money or looks?
00:08:54.020 Yeah.
00:08:54.320 When you go deeper into it.
00:08:56.220 Exactly.
00:08:56.700 But one thing also, when, first of all, money can just tell you more about his ambition.
00:09:03.040 That's what I was saying.
00:09:03.680 Yeah.
00:09:04.240 It's up to something.
00:09:05.780 Fitness is more important than money, for sure.
00:09:07.980 Because your body, your health will give you everything.
00:09:11.360 Mental health.
00:09:11.960 You can have your money today, you lose it tomorrow.
00:09:14.340 And you will be left alone with the girl that you picked.
00:09:17.420 And you'll be with the man that you picked.
00:09:19.540 And it's a duty to work a life together.
00:09:22.180 That's a commitment to a relationship.
00:09:23.560 Would you guys agree that if your guy was unemployed, he only has so much time before you would leave?
00:09:29.480 Yes or no?
00:09:30.220 No.
00:09:30.580 It depends on the context.
00:09:31.340 So, like, let's say five years, no job.
00:09:33.720 Oh, that's a bit crazy.
00:09:34.700 No.
00:09:34.980 Like, no job at all.
00:09:36.360 No.
00:09:37.340 I need, I believe that the man is the lead.
00:09:43.020 Like, he is the one that takes charge.
00:09:45.000 And if he doesn't hold that up, I just feel like,
00:09:49.360 I couldn't stay with someone that's just, there needs to be a drive.
00:09:52.040 When you're working, there's a drive.
00:09:53.520 There's a motivation.
00:09:54.620 Like, you're working.
00:09:55.560 I'm working.
00:09:56.260 Like, we're in this together.
00:09:57.940 Like, I couldn't be with a man that's just, that's no motivation.
00:10:00.700 For me, that's just being lazy.
00:10:02.000 If I'm being honest.
00:10:03.200 I think it depends, you know, because it depends if he's willing to work, if he's motivated to work.
00:10:07.980 Whereas if he's not motivated and he's fine, he's just chilling with no job, no money for five years, then it's a bit of a problem.
00:10:13.140 But if he's motivated, he knows what he wants to do, he's just working towards his goals or he's willing to work towards his goals, then I feel like, that's okay.
00:10:20.760 Like, we've all taken time out for ourselves.
00:10:22.680 Five years.
00:10:23.960 You don't know what he, he might want to be a doctor.
00:10:25.840 You don't know what he wants to do, baby.
00:10:27.520 You don't know what he wants to do.
00:10:28.600 Three months.
00:10:29.140 But like, obviously, everyone's different.
00:10:30.660 And we're all quite young as well.
00:10:32.220 Like, no.
00:10:32.880 No, five years is a stretch.
00:10:33.980 I don't believe that.
00:10:34.520 Everyone has their own opinion.
00:10:35.740 Like, a side hustle.
00:10:37.680 A hard time job.
00:10:38.940 No job.
00:10:39.720 Would you say a side hustle, Pearl, is a job?
00:10:43.660 Would you class it as the same thing?
00:10:45.200 A side hustle and a job?
00:10:45.980 So, for example, like, OnlyFans.
00:10:51.340 I mean, it's a job.
00:10:52.820 It's still a job.
00:10:54.580 For a man.
00:10:55.540 For a guy.
00:10:58.040 I think it's a job.
00:10:59.220 It's not a career.
00:11:00.200 Okay, yeah, yeah.
00:11:00.920 It depends on the side hustle.
00:11:02.400 Yeah, yeah.
00:11:03.000 It's a broad, you know.
00:11:04.320 Yeah, it's a very broad.
00:11:05.140 Yeah.
00:11:05.900 This is an extreme example, too, right?
00:11:07.500 Like, there's, like, gradients.
00:11:08.620 Are you talking about, like, does a guy need to be rich versus, like, have just enough?
00:11:13.320 You're talking about, like, unemployed, right?
00:11:14.800 My only point was, at some point, if he's not making enough money, we're going to leave.
00:11:19.240 Yeah.
00:11:19.380 That's at some point, right?
00:11:20.800 Yeah.
00:11:21.080 No, I would agree with that.
00:11:21.860 But I'm saying, like, if the guy has, like, his basic needs met.
00:11:24.900 Yeah.
00:11:25.140 Like, I've found it doesn't really make much of a difference if he has, like, a ton of money.
00:11:28.660 Except for certain girls.
00:11:29.920 Not in the real world.
00:11:30.600 I thought he meant, like, jobless.
00:11:32.060 What's the difference?
00:11:33.160 Okay.
00:11:33.460 Is it different in the Eastern European countries versus the West?
00:11:37.200 Yes.
00:11:37.680 I mean, in terms of with money.
00:11:39.420 Yeah.
00:11:39.780 Yeah, because most people are poor, right?
00:11:41.180 Like, in Ukraine and Poland, even in Brazil, like, people are making, like, $1,000 a month or less.
00:11:47.660 So, like, you know, it's, like, $10,000 a year or less than $10,000 a year after taxes.
00:11:52.080 So, I mean, you know, it goes back to those as basic needs met, right?
00:11:57.540 If basic needs are met, I haven't found that it makes much of a difference.
00:12:00.120 Because I've had so many rich clients that are all clueless.
00:12:02.400 Like, they're all in their, like, millionaire circles and, like, hey, we thought this would get us the girls.
00:12:06.620 And we got all the money and there's no girls.
00:12:08.500 And then I have clients that have hardly any money that just crush once they're doing things right.
00:12:13.340 And the girl doesn't even know they don't have money.
00:12:15.380 But, again, like, we're talking about, like, unemployed, like, completely broke for years versus at least having basic needs met.
00:12:21.920 Like, a lot of guys, like, even if they're not doing super well.
00:12:24.540 Like, what's the statistic?
00:12:25.260 It's, like, 80% of people are living paycheck to paycheck in the U.S., I think, is something like that.
00:12:30.300 That high? Wow.
00:12:31.160 I'm pretty sure, yeah.
00:12:32.080 So, it's, like, if they don't get paid one week, they can't pay the bills.
00:12:35.040 That's, like, almost all guys, right?
00:12:37.320 So, all this, like, focus on, oh, you need to go make a lot of money.
00:12:41.120 There's a lot of creators that say, like, forget dating.
00:12:43.340 Just go focus on making money.
00:12:45.720 When they arrive at the money, if they ever do, most of them don't even get the money.
00:12:49.080 But if they do, it's not like girls just start raining down in their lap.
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