Deluded Modern Gets Caught Lying
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating, social media, and the opposite sex in general. Is it cheating to post a selfie while in a relationship cheating? Should women post selfies to get attention from other men or is it cheating when they post them for attention from men?
Transcript
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it's obviously yeah do you think social media changed men or women more
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all of both of women no both of us remember we gotta pick one there's no
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we gotta pick one the generalization i'd say women i'd say women women yeah
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the key word was more come on i know you can pick one
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men all right she said women women men women women
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women i really don't know because i don't deal with social media
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there is no way you don't know i don't know i'm not i'm not looking into all of this stuff i don't know
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what do you think what do you feel what do you see
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i really don't know i i feel like i'm out of all of these instagram live all of these people that
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we follow i i just feel i'm out i just me but what i know and my opinion i'm curious is a girl
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posting a selfie while in a relationship cheating if you think yes raise your hand
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yeah selfie in a relationship cheating no not physical but yeah the attention she will get
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and the replies she will give yeah i think yeah okay yes anyone else say yes okay is a guy dm-ing
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another girl cheating raise your hand yes i mean that's in a relationship yes if the girl does
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the same exactly what is he what is he what is he what is he saying to her well what is she posting
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the selfie for attention she wants it no no not the same no not the same no who who's more likely
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who is more likely um to get attention attention the guy dm-ing a girl or the girl the selfie
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the selfie 100 so why is one so much worse than the other because i think that when you're dm you're
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taking the direct action to do that aren't you taking a direct action to like get attention no from
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everyone yeah from everyone he's just dm-ing one girl and you're just exposing yourself i'm
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thinking about like my mind is a mother that yeah you know we have sometimes do post but even me i
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don't do you do you think it's cheating for women to get attention from other men to seek it intentionally
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yes if she's looking for it yeah if she is like actively looking for she wants to have attention from
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other men i think when you're talking physically like in if you're out and about that's different
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again social media is different thing is like i said is it is it cheating to get attention from
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other men to seek out attention from other men in a relationship yes yeah to seek yes yeah so then
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why wouldn't the the selfie be cheating because that's for everyone exactly who says that she's
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posting a selfie to get attention from men no no it's interesting what you say you say it's from
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everyone but you don't you don't really why why you upload something why you upload a story or a picture
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why not i want you to i want my friends and people i know and whoever to see what i'm getting up to
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what's the outcome i get some likes but i don't really do you ever post selfies to get attention
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from men no never never never you've never posted anything on social media thinking a guy that you
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like would see it no no really in all honesty i everyone needs attention if i think i look good
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we all did that it's not for someone else it's not for someone else you all did it come on come on
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you know what but everyone not cheating now like you know when you upload the story
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do you watch do you check who's who was the story of course only if i'm interested in someone specific
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i might but i don't post a story for a person but i don't post it for that person
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what'd you say what'd you say what'd you say go go go back go back so if i post a story i want
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all my friends to see it i want everyone to see whatever because that's why i'm posting it okay
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and he said would i am i do i go and see if if someone i like in my life if someone you like in
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general no no no like no no but um mostly the people that comments are like friends or like
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people i know and i appreciate that that's what i that's have you ever have you ever deleted something
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that didn't go well no guys guys got their ways as well very quick answer this is how deeply we have
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been programmed and how a lot of us have been brainwashed you think it's bad for you as a woman
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to post something to attract a man but then you think it's perfectly fine to post something just
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to get attention from your friends like in my opinion like that that just sounds kind of backwards
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to me because first of all why are we placed on earth we are placed on earth to build relationships
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mostly with the opposite sex for the purpose of forging the human race because part of making
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relationship with opposite sex is to reproduce so if you're making it seem like trying to attract
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the opposite sex is such a bad thing i kind of think that's kind of weird and then because it's
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true in the western world everyone is just focused on these little things that actually add up to
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nothing everyone wants to get money just to be important everyone wants to be noticed and have
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attention and get all these dopamine hits but then when you ask them would you do this for the opposite
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sex which most humans our lives and our livelihood and us being normal and being um emotionally stable
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actually depends on forming meaningful relationships with the opposite sex but yet you always see
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women fighting this no i can't do this for a man it doesn't make sense but so for example if i go on
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holiday and i post a picture that i'm on holiday is because i i'm sharing the fun time that i'm having
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with the friends that i didn't come on holiday with me that time but do you talk to your friends yeah i do as
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well so why couldn't you just text them a picture i do i do send it but i have quite a lot of friends
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quite a lot how many quite a lot but you see it's like do you think social media is real life no
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okay so why are we so attached to it well i'm not i told you i'd give it up for a great husband
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no but it's like you're fighting so hard for the selfie and i would even i would even challenge what
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you just said you don't have a lot of friends this is also part of the delusion we all tell ourselves
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how do you have a lot of friends because i i have like five different jobs and i have different
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friend groups so it's just those are not your friends and they are they are like i have personal
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friends friends across the world like it is i need to ask one question so if someone goes is your
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instagram like uh private or or public sometimes it's private sometimes it's not i'm not gonna ask
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based on what it changes i'm gonna ask something if if as a some man goes and check your profile
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what she thinks like oh this girl is is to be married i want a wife here um i don't know really
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it's not my my instagram is not like um it's not that it's not that interesting to be honest that's
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not why i think it's interesting i mean it's got some it's not it's not just selfies and stuff it's
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like actually stuff that i do like it's work stuff but it but it doesn't it's not monetized if you want
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i mean do what you need to do do what you need to do you might be surprised at what you find but
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it's not it's not that interesting it's okay if if i was to be with you yeah and i was telling you
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okay i understand you do that some work make it purely professional no more pictures of you
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but some of my work is because i'd have pictures of me like i do a bit of modeling i do a bit of
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acting and stuff so it is it's all relative but i also do some local how long do you plan to model
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and act like till i don't get paid anymore basically it's just interesting oh you said you'd give up
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the instagram for the guy yeah yeah if he's the right like husband husband material we already