Deluded Modern Unable To Answer Pearl's Question
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Is loving your job a privilege or a necessity? Is it a necessity to have a job or is it a privilege to be in the workplace? Is work a necessary part of the human condition or a luxury?
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is loving your job a privilege would you agree with the sentiment loving your job is a privilege
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not a right oh 100 yeah but actually i think um that there is a level of ingratitude that is um
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not helping people i think that people are not sufficiently aware that work really is a part of
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the human condition that we need for its own sake just you know to feel useful to have a reason to
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get up in the morning to be part of a team um those things are inherently good for us
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so i think maybe people complain about jobs a little bit too much although you know i do think
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there is a toxification coming from having too many women in the workforce i agree with you and
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disagree with you loving your job is actually a necessity because if we love our what we do
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we are good at it and we want to strive in it and we enjoy it and as simple as that it's easy for us
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to do and we can give more to the society it's definitely a privilege because most people don't
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like where they work but if you like you said uh if you actually love where you work it won't feel
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like a job it only feels like a job when you don't like it so i agree it's a privilege it's not a right
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you're you're privileged to even be employed with so with unemployment rate being so high
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you better be blessed and thankful you even have that job complain all you want but you better be
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thankful you have it yeah and i think um we often hear people not enjoying their job or the workplace
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the people they work with and i think when you catch yourself in that mindset perhaps just remind
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yourself what it allows you to go away and enjoy outside of work and you know in that sense it is a
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privilege to be able to to go to work to do that yeah there's some research that shows i think it's
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seven in ten men are work centered and so the you know part of their life that they get the most
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satisfaction from is work but that still leaves three in ten who actually need to work for various
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reasons including psychological but there are other parts of their life from where they're getting more
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satisfaction and then it's like four in ten women or something like that and so you know women are
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not prioritizing needing to love their jobs um you know some some do and that is lovely and i think you know
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it is there is so much utility in having people who are they have a calling and they're following
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their passion they really do give so much to society but that's not all of us and that's fine we all strive to grow
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right in our personal lives in our relationships and education in careers and things like that so if there is a
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necessity to have a job yes i will do any kind of work cleaning or barista whatever it's it's all jobs are a wonderful thing to have but
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but eventually i will try to grow and develop into the things i enjoy doing in life and i am good at if i have a
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talent in singing i want to be a singer eventually right so just just be yourself and grow and give yourself time and be proud
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are women advancement programs sexist of course no i have no idea no you are discriminating against men like discrimination is it's not
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it's not discriminating it's just saying hey here's a program we need more women in this field
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so we offer this program as an incentive come on why are there no male um advancement programs
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in industries like only fans and modeling it's called women dominate it's called the nba the nfl the mlb
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those are all no no no i said no i asked you i asked you i asked you you don't answer my question
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i asked you in um female dominating industries why are there no incentives for men to get equal pay
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there are like teachers no no i was going to just say that teachers there are there are big incentives
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if you are a especially in in the black no no i asked you about modeling and only fans but this is not
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a real job no no i asked you i asked you modeling and only fans we could do modeling that's a real job
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there are plenty of of of there's no there's no there's no incentive programs and men make
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significantly less money than women and modeling correct anything in monetizing beauty women kill
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well think about it women in the acting field males still dominate everything in that so it's one
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and one entertainment field modeling only so i asked you i asked you modeling that's what i so i asked
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you in industries that are female led why are there not incentives how many men want to model
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how many women want how many women want to know but but how many women want to be engineers we could
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do the same thing but no so i think a lot of men would look okay okay guys guys i work in passion
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industry i have so many models i'm just curious there's the same amounts for random four random guys if
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you guys could just take pictures for money would you do it i have a field modeling career
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if you get paid another money take money out no i asked i asked if they got paid to do it
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of course i literally said i had a field modeling career i'm not lying about that yeah that's what
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i'm saying i'm hiding you but what i'm saying is that most men are not going to sit there and be
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like yeah i want to be a full-time model like they're going to want to go
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but it's like it's so funny you use the same argument like most women don't want to be
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engineers well yeah but they're all good at it i'm shit at being engineers so i don't want to
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be but if you told women if you told more women like hey if you become an engineer you can have
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more men you really need to go after the modeling and really if we told both of them the same thing
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they both would go for it if you told more women you can make over 500 grand a year
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why isn't it just what people like to do like in no in no industry are you going to get 50 50
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like certain groups like certain things based on the culture one and two based on your gender
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your abilities also yeah based on your gender you are going to just like certain things like why do we
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need to like fix it like why do we need to change it like there's no law stopping anyone from doing
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anything so why do we need to encourage people to do other things why don't they just do what they
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like yeah then we'll have nothing to argue about but that's the thing you gotta remember growing up
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you did not see women in wrong wrong it's so wrong because in the media that's all we have like watch
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any tv show it's always a woman doing a job that she would never in never do like you have all these
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women and these ceo no look at the media the last 50 years it's all women's empowerment
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bullshit the last 50 years let me tell you something when i was young you know what i saw
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things like married with children right stay at home mom dad i saw every single family every cosby
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shows homer simpson he's the stupid dad the smart mom family guy the stupid dad the smart mom
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but it don't still show that dad's going to work and mom is kind of a homemaker but they always paint
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the dad is dumb and the woman knows everything i i'm saying like the media like why are we trying
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to push people when there's no barriers anymore people do what they want to do so why do we need
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to change it people do and why do and why like don't feminists and women like yourself have the same
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energy for the men and female oriented careers i have the same energy no you don't listen if i grow up
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right growing up what the what do they encourage women to do be a teacher be a doctor these are
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fields they encourage you to do now with women advancement programs they're now saying we don't
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have to keep telling you go for these same five jobs there are other jobs out there you guys can
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go for and the women say no thank you still not i mean it depends yes not all the time if you if you
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exactly if you sit there and tell somebody right if i come from a poor household you sit there and tell me
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i could make 500 grand a year let's say as a engineer guess what i'm doing signing up for the
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first engineer class right yeah but you know what else you're doing after you've got into the engineer
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class and maybe you know spent a lot of taxpayers or parents money or whoever like whatever you are
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meeting a guy there who's so amazing and you are getting married and you're dropping out of the