JustPearlyThings - July 18, 2023


Delusion FEMINIST Got SHOCKED By Facts


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In this episode, we compare and contrast the wives of 200 years ago and today. We also discuss the impact feminism has had on women and the impact it's had on the way women think about sex and the way they think about marriage.

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00:00:00.000 I wanted to talk about the wives before feminism and after feminism. 0.97
00:00:04.360 So I collaborated with Dr. David Baker, shout out.
00:00:08.640 He wrote The History of Sex.
00:00:10.900 And I wanted to compare the wives of yesterday, 0.81
00:00:13.860 like what you would get out of a wife 100 years ago, 0.84
00:00:18.120 200 years ago versus what you get out of a wife today. 0.98
00:00:21.740 And I want to, it's, you know, I want to compare and contrast.
00:00:25.740 So one, she would not leave you.
00:00:30.840 So if you married her, it was highly unlikely she would leave.
00:00:35.160 Divorce was extremely difficult to obtain.
00:00:38.120 As opposed to today, if you multiply the divorce rate by the percent the woman leave, 0.99
00:00:43.580 there's a 32 to 41% chance that she's going to leave you.
00:00:49.000 Thank you, feminism. 1.00
00:00:50.600 Two, two, depending on the time period or social class,
00:00:54.520 your wife would help out on the farm, doing hard work beside you,
00:00:59.000 like planting seeds, dealing with livestock, helping out the harvest.
00:01:03.220 And at least she'd be a housewife. 1.00
00:01:04.760 In both scenarios, you'd be dealing with cooking from scratch
00:01:08.520 and putting a hot lot of work into cleaning and laundry.
00:01:14.900 No domestic technology.
00:01:16.760 So we'll put on this side today, you get like microwave dinner.
00:01:23.220 But it's not all wives as well, because this is a shame. 0.96
00:01:25.840 Like, there's plenty of good women. 1.00
00:01:27.340 It's just the problem is that the feminists have kind of made, like, women look bad. 1.00
00:01:31.340 Well, I would say, so I, this is what I'll say about it.
00:01:36.060 95% of us would be thrown out because one of the prerequisites back then was a virgin.
00:01:42.400 And today only 5%.
00:01:43.920 So who wants, isn't that a bit outdated?
00:01:46.760 I don't think so.
00:01:48.140 I don't think men, I think men would prefer their wife to have only slept with them 0.98
00:01:53.160 as opposed to multiple men.
00:01:55.160 But why is it it should be like that for us?
00:01:56.860 Yeah, exactly.
00:01:57.720 But what about men?
00:01:59.260 Yeah, it's a big double standard.
00:02:00.620 I don't want a man that slept with over 100 ladies. 1.00
00:02:02.940 It's a biological standard.
00:02:04.540 You guys want some stats on this?
00:02:05.760 Well, it's not actually.
00:02:06.260 Yeah, give them the stats.
00:02:07.220 This comes from Christianity.
00:02:07.960 Give them the stats.
00:02:08.600 I'll give you guys some statistics.
00:02:09.960 So today it's 4% of women that are marrying as virgins, right? 1.00
00:02:12.920 Here's something really 4%.
00:02:14.400 We're not even at 5%.
00:02:15.400 No, it's 4%.
00:02:16.120 Dang it, guys.
00:02:17.400 Okay, I'll give you guys some interesting stats.
00:02:19.480 And there's like a, let's say a common theme to all of these that kind of converge onto a point.
00:02:24.920 But in the 1950s, the birth control pill comes out, right?
00:02:29.060 We now have obviously fewer women marrying off as virgins than before. 1.00
00:02:32.860 It dropped, like the amount of women that were marrying as virgins in the 50s have dropped to like down to 4%.
00:02:38.200 It was at like 80%.
00:02:39.440 Now it's like 4%.
00:02:40.440 85% 100 years ago.
00:02:42.840 What's really interesting is since the 1950s, the percentage of men that are marrying as virgins is actually higher than it was in the 50s.
00:02:48.900 So what happened with the birth control pill is that it basically took out all the, it just streamlined all the sex to the guys that the women wanted to do it with the whole time and without consequence.
00:02:59.700 So that's an interesting outcome.
00:03:00.660 But when you're looking at the marriage statistics, okay, there are two predictors that stand above all else for, three predictors actually that stand above all else for poor outcome to the marriage.
00:03:12.620 Like an unsuccessful, bad breakup, poor marriage, unhappiness.
00:03:15.740 Number one, getting married before the societal standard age.
00:03:18.600 So if you're married at like 18, you're going to fail, it's going to suck, don't do it.
00:03:21.360 Number two, if a woman brings a child into the relationship, into the marriage, that's not the man's child, is extremely high predictor for the woman's unhappiness in that marriage.
00:03:30.660 Not the man's unhappiness, the woman's own unhappiness, which inevitably leads to divorce because what, 80% of marriages are, divorces are initiated by women. 0.98
00:03:38.240 And the third factor, and this is really interesting, the third factor today that's the highest correlated statistically with a poor outcome to the marriage is the woman has more than 10 sexual partners.
00:03:47.860 So what happens is the biggest drop for a woman's unhappiness in the marriage is after the woman has one sexual partner, you see the biggest drop in the happiness and the potential positive outcome in the marriage. 0.92
00:03:56.620 And then like between two and five, it kind of like hovers, you know, where it was at two.
00:04:01.900 And then between like six and nine, it kind of gets a little bit worse, but at 10 or more, the drop, the drop is significant and massive.
00:04:09.120 And this is just, this is just measuring, you know, longitudinal studies of the happiness and the outcomes of the marriage.
00:04:14.100 But here's what's interesting.
00:04:16.140 Then they did the same study on men, number of sexual partners that a man has, and then correlated that to the outcome of the marriage.
00:04:21.640 No statistical correlation at all.
00:04:23.300 So why do you think that's the case?
00:04:24.440 Because men don't leave marriages. 0.99
00:04:25.820 Women do. 1.00
00:04:26.260 That's why.
00:04:26.940 So you don't think it's actually because of sex is because women are just more likely to leave.
00:04:31.420 Well, men don't. 0.97
00:04:32.100 So, so it's like this.
00:04:32.940 If a man said, if he's Genghis Khan level, he's got a thousand partners, it has no statistical difference in the outcome of a marriage.
00:04:38.420 If a man's had three partners, it just doesn't like, that's just what the statistics say.
00:04:42.500 Interesting.
00:04:43.080 Right.
00:04:43.560 And so women are like, well, why do men get the privilege? 1.00
00:04:45.440 Because biologically we're different from women. 1.00
00:04:47.360 And I think that's the premise.
00:04:48.320 I mean, historically they had to make sure that the kid was theirs.
00:04:51.720 And they're saying like, what, 10, 20% of men today are raising a kid.
00:04:55.420 That's not theirs. 0.95
00:04:56.280 Paternity fraud. 0.91
00:04:57.020 Yeah.
00:04:57.220 It's not 10, 20.
00:04:58.140 What, is it really that many?
00:04:59.680 It's one out of three.
00:05:00.900 If you have, out of men that, and it depends on the study you look at, but out of men that get it tested, it's one out of three.
00:05:06.420 I know in the UK it's like one in 50 men.
00:05:08.820 Yeah.
00:05:09.280 Well, I mean, it depends what you look at, but I mean, they think it's higher.
00:05:12.700 It would be really interesting to see if they did mandatory paternity tests at birth.
00:05:16.540 I would guess it would go up.
00:05:17.800 But, yeah, I mean, you guys know this on an innate level.
00:05:23.160 Men don't like whores, right? 1.00
00:05:24.580 But don't you think, though, we shouldn't be shaming women because actually when we say that women are whores, what we're actually doing is we're buying into this very reductive, like, virgin, good girl, bad girl dichotomy, which comes from Christianity.
00:05:35.660 I mean, do you actually, you're, you're, you're, you're, sorry, I don't think it's like we're shaming women.
00:05:42.420 You kind of are, though, because actually, if you're going around sleeping with any who and everyone, people are going to look at you and be like, you're a hoe. 0.91
00:05:50.260 But I don't mean we're shaming, it doesn't mean we're shaming ladies. 1.00
00:05:53.600 Who's slut shamed women, men or women? 1.00
00:05:55.540 Well, actually, women do. 1.00
00:05:56.540 It's women. 1.00
00:05:57.020 It's women. 1.00
00:05:57.960 It's women and it's not close. 1.00
00:05:59.540 And do you know why women are the ones? 1.00
00:06:00.820 It's the women that are saying you're slut. 1.00
00:06:02.140 You know why women do it? 1.00
00:06:03.000 It's not jealousy, no.
00:06:03.740 No, it's not.
00:06:04.600 No, it's because.
00:06:05.660 I'll put myself in their shoes and I think, I look at them and I think, no, you're a hoe. 1.00
00:06:10.480 Because I would never.
00:06:11.060 Okay, I'll tell you guys why women slut shamed women. 1.00
00:06:13.460 It's very, it's very simple.
00:06:14.520 Because women control access to the sexual marketplace. 1.00
00:06:16.780 It's women that decide who gets to have sex. 1.00
00:06:18.760 And if a woman's giving it away easily, it actually devalues yourself in the market because a man can get it from her. 0.99
00:06:24.160 So it's women. 1.00
00:06:24.820 What if people just want to have fun?
00:06:26.700 People can have all the fun they want, but it's not the men that are saying it.
00:06:30.220 I mean, you can have fun.
00:06:31.200 It's just, they probably won't pick you for a wife later.
00:06:33.680 Well, it depends on the kind of guy you go with.
00:06:35.660 Because personally, I wouldn't want to go with a guy who wanted a virginal wife. 1.00
00:06:40.360 I'll give you an example.
00:06:42.080 90% of men would disqualify a girl just based off of OnlyFans.
00:06:46.220 Yeah, but why would you want a guy who thinks like that?
00:06:49.540 I don't know.
00:06:50.540 I can tell you why.
00:06:52.200 That's a biologically easy answer.
00:06:53.920 I'll tell you why.
00:06:54.400 Why would a guy take a girl home that does OnlyFans to their mom? 0.99
00:06:57.940 I would never.
00:06:58.380 What's wrong with that?
00:06:58.620 If I was a man, that is embarrassing.
00:07:02.160 My mom would look at me and be like, who is this host?
00:07:06.080 Yeah, but don't you, what if she's poor? 1.00
00:07:08.700 What if she's trying to make a living? 1.00
00:07:10.660 Then go to McDonald's like the men.
00:07:12.860 Go to work.
00:07:13.460 Go to make the men.
00:07:14.820 The men have to go get a job at McDonald's.
00:07:17.400 I can't see you.
00:07:18.540 That's the easy way out.
00:07:21.000 OnlyFans is the easy way out for people that are lazy and that don't want to work.
00:07:24.780 It's not, though.
00:07:25.540 That's the realest of it.
00:07:26.500 No, it is.
00:07:27.140 It is because what are you doing?
00:07:28.300 You're flashing your body for some money.
00:07:30.660 What's wrong with that?
00:07:31.580 There's nothing wrong with it.
00:07:32.980 But obviously, we've all got our own opinions.
00:07:36.340 I'm going to give you guys something.
00:07:37.520 I think we should bring back shame.
00:07:39.840 I think we should shame more, not less.
00:07:43.580 Because women respond really well to social shame. 1.00
00:07:46.880 Yes, they do.
00:07:47.780 Women are very easy to propagate. 1.00
00:07:49.580 They learned this in the 20s when they started using radio to influence women.
00:07:54.960 Women are very easily influenced. 1.00
00:07:56.680 It's why we all have the latest fashion trends, the latest makeup trends.
00:07:59.600 Women go with the trends. 1.00
00:08:01.700 And the thing is, when the trend is whoredom, that doesn't make good wives and mothers. 1.00
00:08:05.520 Well, wouldn't you say that the sexual revolution, then, was caused by the absolute obsession with female virginity? 0.59
00:08:11.600 And it's almost like if you have this extreme, you end up going from one extreme to the other.
00:08:15.860 I would say that the sexual revolution was caused by birth control and women wanting to be whores. 1.00
00:08:21.100 When you think about it, guys, feminism let us do anything. 1.00
00:08:24.380 And we chose whoredom. 1.00
00:08:27.160 How crazy is that?
00:08:28.400 We could have chosen anything.
00:08:30.400 We could have been astronauts.
00:08:31.840 A lot of feminists are actually very anti-sexual liberation. 1.00
00:08:34.960 We could have went to the moon, started Fortune 500 companies.
00:08:38.200 But women are doing that. 1.00
00:08:38.700 You know, I mean, and we chose.
00:08:41.420 Excuse me.
00:08:42.080 Can you follow the rules?
00:08:44.920 Oh, sorry.
00:08:45.880 You just keep cutting and interrupting.
00:08:48.160 No worries.
00:08:48.860 My apologies.
00:08:50.540 Women could have did anything. 1.00
00:08:52.200 And we chose whoredom. 1.00
00:08:54.580 And that's the funny thing.
00:08:56.200 85% of us were virgins 100 years ago.
00:08:59.540 Why is that a different thing?
00:09:00.340 Now, now, 95% of us aren't.
00:09:03.820 That's how much we go with trends.
00:09:05.320 So a little shame, I think it's not a bad thing.
00:09:09.100 Sorry, go ahead.
00:09:09.700 So this is really fast.
00:09:10.900 I'm writing a book right now.
00:09:12.060 It's called The Book of Shame, oddly enough.
00:09:13.720 And I've been very, very deep into it for a few months now.
00:09:18.880 It's going to have a leather cover and energy crystals on the cover.
00:09:21.740 But there's a really interesting argument that sort of self-revealed.
00:09:25.380 I didn't expect this to happen.
00:09:26.680 But I started looking into it.
00:09:27.720 It's like, okay, statistically, I can say yes.
00:09:30.180 There's very clear data.
00:09:31.720 And it's irrefutable.
00:09:32.940 And it's been replicated many times through many studies that if a woman's got 10 or more sexual partners,
00:09:38.140 the outcome of that marriage is going to be very, very poor.
00:09:40.420 Like relative to other marriages.
00:09:41.820 But the question is like, but why?
00:09:44.980 But why?
00:09:45.840 And then I stumbled upon this one study.
00:09:47.900 And then it led me to another study.
00:09:49.240 And I've collected like seven pages of data from different studies on this.
00:09:52.720 And it's always converging on the same factor.
00:09:54.420 And here's the question.
00:09:55.200 This one's a mind-blowing thing.
00:09:56.600 So pay attention, okay?
00:09:58.460 Is promiscuity a choice or is it a genetic predisposition?
00:10:05.980 That's an interesting question.
00:10:07.020 Like we want to say, okay, let's just say we think it's a choice, right?
00:10:11.820 We want to say it's a choice.
00:10:12.940 You know, you can be like that.
00:10:14.220 You're having fun.
00:10:15.080 Okay.
00:10:15.500 But now watch this.
00:10:16.520 I'm going to give you guys an anecdotal example.
00:10:18.300 Then I'm going to give you some statistics.
00:10:19.340 And it gets really weird.
00:10:20.780 Okay.
00:10:21.600 When you think of a single mother, like just imagine a single mom and she's got a kid. 0.70
00:10:26.280 Okay.
00:10:26.700 You got it?
00:10:27.220 Is that kid male or female?
00:10:28.160 Is it a little girl she's raising or a little boy?
00:10:34.260 I don't know why I see male.
00:10:35.840 It's always a little boy, right?
00:10:36.900 We always go.
00:10:37.520 It's a little boy.
00:10:38.220 That's not by accident.
00:10:39.660 Okay.
00:10:40.020 That's not, there's a very, that's not by accident.
00:10:42.220 This gets really interesting, right?
00:10:43.380 So there's a, there's a ribosome, a sequence of ribosomes in the genes that when it lines
00:10:49.560 up in a certain, in a certain alignment, it has something like a 78% predictive factor
00:10:55.120 of your socio-sexual status.
00:10:57.660 Socio-sexuality is like a scientific way of saying promiscuity.
00:11:00.700 It's how you treat sex, like, you know, just socially and not with any sort of higher purpose,
00:11:05.700 right?
00:11:06.100 And it's genetic.
00:11:07.260 And what else is crazy about it is, well, a couple of things, right?
00:11:10.140 Number one, women that have this particular set of ribosomes are more promiscuous by definition. 1.00
00:11:16.440 Number two, they're more likely to have male offspring. 0.91
00:11:20.240 Wow.
00:11:20.920 Yeah.
00:11:21.200 And it's, and it's like, it's been known for like 40 years.
00:11:25.380 Huh?
00:11:25.700 Why do you think that's the case?
00:11:26.580 There are reasons.
00:11:27.380 There actually are reasons for it, which get very scientific and very interesting.
00:11:30.720 Okay.
00:11:31.000 This is my guess.
00:11:31.880 This is my guess.
00:11:32.840 So back in the day, if you were like a concubine, I'd imagine you'd be a concubine for like the
00:11:39.440 most like alpha guy, like the king.
00:11:42.040 Yes.
00:11:42.280 So maybe there's some genetic variation that happened because the kings wanted sons and
00:11:47.900 they would kind of, wouldn't they kill the mistresses that like couldn't give them sons? 1.00
00:11:52.000 Like wouldn't they?
00:11:52.620 This is just a wild guess.
00:11:53.640 I don't know the answer to that, but I know that female, when, you know, when you have a 1.00
00:11:56.820 girl as opposed to a boy, the sperm gestrates longer in the, in the uterus, right? 0.97
00:12:00.280 Or in the going up and through the fallopian tubes, et cetera.
00:12:02.300 So it's like, um, so there, there is an argument to be said that there's just like a different
00:12:06.860 kind of sex that occurs when a woman is very, very into the sex, which a hypersexual woman 1.00
00:12:11.980 would be because they exhibit more male characteristics.
00:12:14.420 Right.
00:12:15.100 And so one, and I started reading into that and there's like quite, and there's got like
00:12:19.180 a whole chapter on it.
00:12:20.020 And as I, as I'm reading through the studies and I'm like, I'm putting all this data together,
00:12:23.660 I'm going, Oh my God, maybe there's a genetic trigger to tell men to stay away from
00:12:28.660 promiscuous women because they're genetically predisposed to cheat on you. 1.00
00:12:33.580 Yeah.
00:12:34.980 Wow.
00:12:36.460 That's very interesting.