JustPearlyThings - October 21, 2023


Delusional Woman DEMANDS $15,000 For A Holiday

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Rolf Deegan Amaris
Women Are Manipulative And Spiteful This Unhinged Single Mother Gets Kicked Out For Saying This Trash

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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

180.56

Word count

1,543

Sentence count

147

Harmful content

Misogyny

30

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

22

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how the word "partner" has overtaken the term "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" in the dating world, and why this is a problem. We also discuss how women are getting more and more entitled and why we should stop spending money on luxuries.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Guys, I've been in England for about almost, I think, two years now.
00:00:04.760 And one thing I noticed when I came to England, so if you guys don't know, I was recruited
00:00:10.440 from America to the UK to play volleyball, and I play volleyball here in England.
00:00:14.960 And when I first got here, one thing I noticed was how much more prevalent the word partner
00:00:19.780 is than husband or boyfriend or girlfriend.
00:00:23.920 And this just like blew my mind.
00:00:25.640 Every show, so I used to do a show four days a week on relationships, and every show,
00:00:30.400 I would come out and we would talk about all these different things in relationships.
00:00:35.500 And even married women would call their husbands partner. 0.75
00:00:39.000 And Rolf Deegan on Twitter recently put out a study that said, in the past decade, partner
00:00:44.440 has overtaken the term boyfriend and girlfriend on Twitter for one significant other.
00:00:50.480 So, again, husband implies that you submit to their authority.
00:00:56.240 Partner implies that you are equal.
00:00:59.040 And this shows just how deep feminist language is in our culture. 1.00
00:01:04.200 Because language shapes behaviors, and behaviors shape language.
00:01:08.180 It goes both ways.
00:01:09.180 I don't actually know which way it goes.
00:01:11.120 Does behavior shape language or does language shape behavior?
00:01:14.720 But I mean, they impact each other.
00:01:17.240 I don't really think this is disputed.
00:01:19.560 And the fact that the culture is now referring to husband and wife as equal, the same, really
00:01:25.140 implies that men don't have authority in their own household. 1.00
00:01:28.120 So, some individuals have chosen to adopt the gender-neutral term partner to refer to their
00:01:33.020 romantic counterpart in place of the gender terms boyfriend and girlfriend.
00:01:37.120 In the past, partner was used by individuals within the LGBTQ plus community to describe
00:01:43.180 their romantic interests.
00:01:44.400 However, here we explore this linguistic trend with data from millions of individuals, self-describes,
00:01:49.520 descriptions, and U.S. Twitter users' profile bios from 2012 to 2023.
00:01:54.100 We found increased use of partner coincident with decreased use of boyfriend and girlfriend.
00:01:59.080 Wow.
00:02:00.080 I wonder what happened in 2013.
00:02:04.420 It looks like there's like a steep drop.
00:02:06.100 Like, what happened in 2013, guys?
00:02:08.100 Let me know what you think in the comments.
00:02:10.040 I don't even know.
00:02:11.040 But I would say this is a problem.
00:02:13.560 And until we start implementing policies and creating societal change that really implies
00:02:18.760 that men are the head of the household and we should submit to men's authorities, I don't 0.86
00:02:23.060 see this changing.
00:02:24.500 And it's really sad because I really think you're going to keep seeing the breakdown of
00:02:29.140 the family.
00:02:30.140 We're going to keep seeing that it's going to get harder and harder to get into relationships
00:02:34.320 if this trend continues.
00:02:35.860 So, another trend we've talked about on the show, I mean, how many times, is that women 0.97
00:02:42.320 are getting more and more entitled.
00:02:44.460 And the problem we're going to have in 2023 is as the price of women gets higher and higher, 0.99
00:02:49.940 you're going to see less men wanting to buy and sign up for marriage and relationships.
00:02:54.980 Unfortunately, after a certain point, men are going to look and just say the juice is not
00:02:58.920 worth the squeeze.
00:03:00.400 So there is a woman that is going viral because she wanted 15,000 pounds for a holiday. 1.00
00:03:06.160 Let's pull it up.
00:03:07.160 I buy stuff.
00:03:09.580 Even the holidays that he's mentioning is even still a problem.
00:03:12.640 What about holidays?
00:03:13.640 Because when I ask him for holidays, it's not like he even still wants to provide as well.
00:03:17.160 Listen, this woman wants me to give her 15,000 pounds for her to go on a full day trip 1.00
00:03:21.500 to Miami.
00:03:22.500 Oh, okay. 0.97
00:03:23.720 The cost of living is just stupid these days and she wants me to give her 15 grand so she 0.99
00:03:27.280 go, go, go waste on holiday. 0.99
00:03:28.760 You know, you already know how I live my life.
00:03:30.100 She lost her mind.
00:03:30.820 Yeah, I haven't lost my mind.
00:03:34.560 15 grand.
00:03:37.160 Okay, guys, let's just be objective.
00:03:39.260 Wait, can we pull up, pull up, pull her up again? 1.00
00:03:41.100 I want to see if we should rate her one to 10. 0.70
00:03:43.080 King, what would you rate her one to 10?
00:03:45.720 What would you rate her one to 10? 0.86
00:03:46.960 Okay.
00:03:47.760 Okay, that's what I would say to you.
00:03:49.240 Okay, so we have a chick that's maybe slightly above average. 1.00
00:03:52.440 She's what, a six, six, five, six? 0.90
00:03:55.440 I mean, who knows how under all that makeup?
00:03:57.340 We don't even know what she looks like.
00:03:59.420 And she's demanding.
00:04:01.240 I mean, honestly, I would say that's like nine prices.
00:04:04.980 Guys, look, think about it this way.
00:04:06.960 When you have men spending a bunch of money on women, when you have, I honestly, I've thought 0.89
00:04:11.500 about this and I'm playing around with this idea, but you guys can tell me what you think.
00:04:15.460 I think that women should spend money on men. 1.00
00:04:18.300 Yes, yes.
00:04:19.680 Okay, hear me out.
00:04:20.860 Hear me out.
00:04:21.320 I think women are in their true femininity. 1.00
00:04:24.420 It's not really about money.
00:04:26.240 It's not really about soft life.
00:04:28.360 If you look back, I want you guys to Google a day in the life of the Amish. 1.00
00:04:31.640 These women get up at like 6 a.m. to milk the cows. 1.00
00:04:35.880 They tow the fields.
00:04:37.300 They help their husbands. 1.00
00:04:38.600 Like true femininity is not, it's not the soft life wearing a pretty dress. 0.68
00:04:44.280 No, true femininity is serving the men. 0.99
00:04:48.500 Yes, yes, guys.
00:04:49.940 I was thinking about this.
00:04:51.200 I'm like, when men are spending all this money on women, really, they're serving the 0.89
00:04:55.240 women. 0.81
00:04:56.300 So I actually think, I'm going to get so much hate for this opinion, but I actually think
00:05:01.480 it makes more sense for women to serve the men. 1.00
00:05:04.060 If you guys didn't know this, chivalry is actually gynocentric.
00:05:07.520 So again, I believe that gynocentrism is basically women good, men bad, and really gynocentrism 0.83
00:05:14.960 disrupts the natural order of the world.
00:05:17.160 And I think the natural order is God, men, women, children.
00:05:21.000 And the women have to serve the men. 1.00
00:05:22.900 And chivalry started basically a thousand years ago.
00:05:25.740 So a thousand years ago, proposals and just romantic love really started.
00:05:30.900 And it used to be that men would submit to the authority of stronger men and stronger
00:05:35.680 men would submit to the authority of God.
00:05:38.360 And it used to be that men would bow down to the king and they would kneel to the king.
00:05:43.460 And a proposal actually switches it where the woman is in the place of the king.
00:05:48.620 So think about that, guys.
00:05:49.800 What does that do?
00:05:51.160 That implies that the woman is above the man. 1.00
00:05:54.060 Chivalry is generally seen as a good thing by the right and the left.
00:05:57.620 It's generally seen as what we are supposed to do.
00:06:00.340 The good old days.
00:06:01.980 I would argue, guys, I'm sorry, guys.
00:06:04.740 I'm sorry.
00:06:05.420 I don't want to ruin this for you.
00:06:06.900 But I would argue it's not.
00:06:08.160 I would argue it is not a good thing.
00:06:09.860 And the reason being is because it disrupts the natural order of the world and puts the
00:06:14.460 woman above the man.
00:06:15.900 Why does the woman deserve the man's hard earned money? 1.00
00:06:19.720 Why?
00:06:20.340 What has she done to earn it? 0.97
00:06:21.780 Now, I also hear the argument that men are supposed to protect and provide.
00:06:25.220 And that's why they should pay on date.
00:06:27.240 I question this narrative because typically the protection and provisioning, historically,
00:06:33.400 romantic love wasn't really a big thing.
00:06:35.560 And the protection and provisioning was given in exchange for children.
00:06:40.760 And actually, women in a lot of countries came with a dowry. 0.93
00:06:43.880 So women would actually spend money first. 1.00
00:06:46.080 I mean, it would come from their dads.
00:06:47.460 But you guys see the idea.
00:06:49.260 It was he's offering the protection and provisioning for a lifetime.
00:06:53.740 And he was seen as the prize.
00:06:56.420 He was seen as far more valuable than her.
00:06:58.880 And he was given money to take care of her for a lifetime.
00:07:02.680 So I haven't, I'm not definitive on this topic, okay?
00:07:07.460 I could go both ways.
00:07:08.960 But I'd love to hear you guys' argument in the comments section.
00:07:12.460 Because I think there's a solid argument that could be made for women needing to spend money 1.00
00:07:17.500 on men, okay?
00:07:19.040 Just Production said, why would you even entertain a woman like that? 1.00
00:07:22.520 Weak man, I agree.
00:07:24.540 Amaris, this woman has standards and under... 1.00
00:07:26.760 Oh, no.
00:07:27.900 Why, God?
00:07:28.980 This woman has standards and understands her worth. 0.52
00:07:31.740 Really?
00:07:32.300 Okay.
00:07:32.900 I, man, want to be a man until we ask for something.
00:07:36.420 Then they really bring nothing to the table.
00:07:38.780 Fifteen grand?
00:07:41.320 Oh, my gosh.
00:07:44.600 Oh, my gosh.
00:07:46.480 What a...
00:07:46.920 Oh, this is madness.
00:07:48.540 Madness.
00:07:49.280 So there...
00:07:50.020 I watched a documentary this morning, actually.
00:07:52.280 I watched it on A Day in the Life of the Amish. 0.80
00:07:54.700 And there's actually a community of the Amish that it's literally like going back in time
00:07:58.560 because they have no contact with the outside world.
00:08:01.360 Like, there's some Amish that kind of are like half in, half out. 1.00
00:08:04.280 It was so interesting listening to the women because the women knew that their job was to 1.00
00:08:09.460 serve the men. 0.99
00:08:10.280 And you had none of this entitlement bullshit. 0.99
00:08:13.480 It was literally like going back in time. 0.97
00:08:14.960 But I think that's usually really good vibes.
00:08:32.340 Okay.