JustPearlyThings - October 21, 2023


Delusional Woman DEMANDS $15,000 For A Holiday


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

180.55934

Word Count

1,543

Sentence Count

131

Misogynist Sentences

30

Hate Speech Sentences

22


Summary

In this episode, we talk about how the word "partner" has overtaken the term "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" in the dating world, and why this is a problem. We also discuss how women are getting more and more entitled and why we should stop spending money on luxuries.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Guys, I've been in England for about almost, I think, two years now.
00:00:04.760 And one thing I noticed when I came to England, so if you guys don't know, I was recruited
00:00:10.440 from America to the UK to play volleyball, and I play volleyball here in England.
00:00:14.960 And when I first got here, one thing I noticed was how much more prevalent the word partner
00:00:19.780 is than husband or boyfriend or girlfriend.
00:00:23.920 And this just like blew my mind.
00:00:25.640 Every show, so I used to do a show four days a week on relationships, and every show,
00:00:30.400 I would come out and we would talk about all these different things in relationships.
00:00:35.500 And even married women would call their husbands partner.
00:00:39.000 And Rolf Deegan on Twitter recently put out a study that said, in the past decade, partner
00:00:44.440 has overtaken the term boyfriend and girlfriend on Twitter for one significant other.
00:00:50.480 So, again, husband implies that you submit to their authority.
00:00:56.240 Partner implies that you are equal.
00:00:59.040 And this shows just how deep feminist language is in our culture.
00:01:04.200 Because language shapes behaviors, and behaviors shape language.
00:01:08.180 It goes both ways.
00:01:09.180 I don't actually know which way it goes.
00:01:11.120 Does behavior shape language or does language shape behavior?
00:01:14.720 But I mean, they impact each other.
00:01:17.240 I don't really think this is disputed.
00:01:19.560 And the fact that the culture is now referring to husband and wife as equal, the same, really
00:01:25.140 implies that men don't have authority in their own household.
00:01:28.120 So, some individuals have chosen to adopt the gender-neutral term partner to refer to their
00:01:33.020 romantic counterpart in place of the gender terms boyfriend and girlfriend.
00:01:37.120 In the past, partner was used by individuals within the LGBTQ plus community to describe
00:01:43.180 their romantic interests.
00:01:44.400 However, here we explore this linguistic trend with data from millions of individuals, self-describes,
00:01:49.520 descriptions, and U.S. Twitter users' profile bios from 2012 to 2023.
00:01:54.100 We found increased use of partner coincident with decreased use of boyfriend and girlfriend.
00:01:59.080 Wow.
00:02:00.080 I wonder what happened in 2013.
00:02:04.420 It looks like there's like a steep drop.
00:02:06.100 Like, what happened in 2013, guys?
00:02:08.100 Let me know what you think in the comments.
00:02:10.040 I don't even know.
00:02:11.040 But I would say this is a problem.
00:02:13.560 And until we start implementing policies and creating societal change that really implies
00:02:18.760 that men are the head of the household and we should submit to men's authorities, I don't
00:02:23.060 see this changing.
00:02:24.500 And it's really sad because I really think you're going to keep seeing the breakdown of
00:02:29.140 the family.
00:02:30.140 We're going to keep seeing that it's going to get harder and harder to get into relationships
00:02:34.320 if this trend continues.
00:02:35.860 So, another trend we've talked about on the show, I mean, how many times, is that women
00:02:42.320 are getting more and more entitled.
00:02:44.460 And the problem we're going to have in 2023 is as the price of women gets higher and higher,
00:02:49.940 you're going to see less men wanting to buy and sign up for marriage and relationships.
00:02:54.980 Unfortunately, after a certain point, men are going to look and just say the juice is not
00:02:58.920 worth the squeeze.
00:03:00.400 So there is a woman that is going viral because she wanted 15,000 pounds for a holiday.
00:03:06.160 Let's pull it up.
00:03:07.160 I buy stuff.
00:03:09.580 Even the holidays that he's mentioning is even still a problem.
00:03:12.640 What about holidays?
00:03:13.640 Because when I ask him for holidays, it's not like he even still wants to provide as well.
00:03:17.160 Listen, this woman wants me to give her 15,000 pounds for her to go on a full day trip
00:03:21.500 to Miami.
00:03:22.500 Oh, okay.
00:03:23.720 The cost of living is just stupid these days and she wants me to give her 15 grand so she
00:03:27.280 go, go, go waste on holiday.
00:03:28.760 You know, you already know how I live my life.
00:03:30.100 She lost her mind.
00:03:30.820 Yeah, I haven't lost my mind.
00:03:34.560 15 grand.
00:03:37.160 Okay, guys, let's just be objective.
00:03:39.260 Wait, can we pull up, pull up, pull her up again?
00:03:41.100 I want to see if we should rate her one to 10.
00:03:43.080 King, what would you rate her one to 10?
00:03:45.720 What would you rate her one to 10?
00:03:46.960 Okay.
00:03:47.760 Okay, that's what I would say to you.
00:03:49.240 Okay, so we have a chick that's maybe slightly above average.
00:03:52.440 She's what, a six, six, five, six?
00:03:55.440 I mean, who knows how under all that makeup?
00:03:57.340 We don't even know what she looks like.
00:03:59.420 And she's demanding.
00:04:01.240 I mean, honestly, I would say that's like nine prices.
00:04:04.980 Guys, look, think about it this way.
00:04:06.960 When you have men spending a bunch of money on women, when you have, I honestly, I've thought
00:04:11.500 about this and I'm playing around with this idea, but you guys can tell me what you think.
00:04:15.460 I think that women should spend money on men.
00:04:18.300 Yes, yes.
00:04:19.680 Okay, hear me out.
00:04:20.860 Hear me out.
00:04:21.320 I think women are in their true femininity.
00:04:24.420 It's not really about money.
00:04:26.240 It's not really about soft life.
00:04:28.360 If you look back, I want you guys to Google a day in the life of the Amish.
00:04:31.640 These women get up at like 6 a.m. to milk the cows.
00:04:35.880 They tow the fields.
00:04:37.300 They help their husbands.
00:04:38.600 Like true femininity is not, it's not the soft life wearing a pretty dress.
00:04:44.280 No, true femininity is serving the men.
00:04:48.500 Yes, yes, guys.
00:04:49.940 I was thinking about this.
00:04:51.200 I'm like, when men are spending all this money on women, really, they're serving the
00:04:55.240 women.
00:04:56.300 So I actually think, I'm going to get so much hate for this opinion, but I actually think
00:05:01.480 it makes more sense for women to serve the men.
00:05:04.060 If you guys didn't know this, chivalry is actually gynocentric.
00:05:07.520 So again, I believe that gynocentrism is basically women good, men bad, and really gynocentrism
00:05:14.960 disrupts the natural order of the world.
00:05:17.160 And I think the natural order is God, men, women, children.
00:05:21.000 And the women have to serve the men.
00:05:22.900 And chivalry started basically a thousand years ago.
00:05:25.740 So a thousand years ago, proposals and just romantic love really started.
00:05:30.900 And it used to be that men would submit to the authority of stronger men and stronger
00:05:35.680 men would submit to the authority of God.
00:05:38.360 And it used to be that men would bow down to the king and they would kneel to the king.
00:05:43.460 And a proposal actually switches it where the woman is in the place of the king.
00:05:48.620 So think about that, guys.
00:05:49.800 What does that do?
00:05:51.160 That implies that the woman is above the man.
00:05:54.060 Chivalry is generally seen as a good thing by the right and the left.
00:05:57.620 It's generally seen as what we are supposed to do.
00:06:00.340 The good old days.
00:06:01.980 I would argue, guys, I'm sorry, guys.
00:06:04.740 I'm sorry.
00:06:05.420 I don't want to ruin this for you.
00:06:06.900 But I would argue it's not.
00:06:08.160 I would argue it is not a good thing.
00:06:09.860 And the reason being is because it disrupts the natural order of the world and puts the
00:06:14.460 woman above the man.
00:06:15.900 Why does the woman deserve the man's hard earned money?
00:06:19.720 Why?
00:06:20.340 What has she done to earn it?
00:06:21.780 Now, I also hear the argument that men are supposed to protect and provide.
00:06:25.220 And that's why they should pay on date.
00:06:27.240 I question this narrative because typically the protection and provisioning, historically,
00:06:33.400 romantic love wasn't really a big thing.
00:06:35.560 And the protection and provisioning was given in exchange for children.
00:06:40.760 And actually, women in a lot of countries came with a dowry.
00:06:43.880 So women would actually spend money first.
00:06:46.080 I mean, it would come from their dads.
00:06:47.460 But you guys see the idea.
00:06:49.260 It was he's offering the protection and provisioning for a lifetime.
00:06:53.740 And he was seen as the prize.
00:06:56.420 He was seen as far more valuable than her.
00:06:58.880 And he was given money to take care of her for a lifetime.
00:07:02.680 So I haven't, I'm not definitive on this topic, okay?
00:07:07.460 I could go both ways.
00:07:08.960 But I'd love to hear you guys' argument in the comments section.
00:07:12.460 Because I think there's a solid argument that could be made for women needing to spend money
00:07:17.500 on men, okay?
00:07:19.040 Just Production said, why would you even entertain a woman like that?
00:07:22.520 Weak man, I agree.
00:07:24.540 Amaris, this woman has standards and under...
00:07:26.760 Oh, no.
00:07:27.900 Why, God?
00:07:28.980 This woman has standards and understands her worth.
00:07:31.740 Really?
00:07:32.300 Okay.
00:07:32.900 I, man, want to be a man until we ask for something.
00:07:36.420 Then they really bring nothing to the table.
00:07:38.780 Fifteen grand?
00:07:41.320 Oh, my gosh.
00:07:44.600 Oh, my gosh.
00:07:46.480 What a...
00:07:46.920 Oh, this is madness.
00:07:48.540 Madness.
00:07:49.280 So there...
00:07:50.020 I watched a documentary this morning, actually.
00:07:52.280 I watched it on A Day in the Life of the Amish.
00:07:54.700 And there's actually a community of the Amish that it's literally like going back in time
00:07:58.560 because they have no contact with the outside world.
00:08:01.360 Like, there's some Amish that kind of are like half in, half out.
00:08:04.280 It was so interesting listening to the women because the women knew that their job was to
00:08:09.460 serve the men.
00:08:10.280 And you had none of this entitlement bullshit.
00:08:13.480 It was literally like going back in time.
00:08:14.960 But I think that's usually really good vibes.
00:08:32.340 Okay.