DELUSIONAL Woman Got a REALITY Check
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Summary
In this episode, we have our first guest, Perla. Perla is a woman who has been in a relationship for the past 10 years and has been sleeping with over 20 guys in that time period. We talk about her experience with cheating and how she has dealt with it throughout the years.
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i have a question i have a question got it would you ever break up with a guy for his body count
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who was too high raise your hand if you would yeah depends how far he was okay so 100 okay
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it depends okay i mean this is absolutely ridiculous that you just said that women
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have to be pure but men can go around and whatever they want like that's that's ridiculous okay okay
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i prefer if they're pure for sure yeah of course okay of course that's everyone's preference that's
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a preference for women as well is it yes or no is it a preference would you prefer a guy who
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slept with less or is it going to turn around to you and say oh i'm a dirty dog i've
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fucked everybody i've told you to stop talking like three times okay i'm sorry
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okay so who who here cares body count for a guy who cares is whether it's just yes or no absolutely
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yes okay okay so if it's too high will you break up with him raise your hand if you would no i'll
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just look down on him a lot no at least they've got more experience okay okay okay wait just yes
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or no if there is a number that's too high he's perfect in every other way are you breaking up
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with him yes yeah but if you you wouldn't get in a relationship wait wait okay so out of one two
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three four five six seven eight nine women here i wouldn't i wouldn't either we have one that cares
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okay guys if you found out that your girl you're dating a chick she's perfect down every way and
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you found out she had an insanely high body count would you break up with her raise your hand if you
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would raise your hand if you would yeah okay okay why would they just randomly find out they would have
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name okay i don't know my own no no we're the only the only the only guys guys the only the only
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point is that it's different for men and for women we i don't make the rules but i can observe what they
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are this is why marriages don't last though i care i care i know i know but i'm not talking about you
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why i've said i've said like i said i care does that not matter well you're one out of how many and
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you just said you're in a situationship so you're sharing a guy that's true i'm not sure
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just you then he would be your boyfriend but i don't know yeah but you don't
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most women at some point have that is the point we don't care about sharing a guy based on what we
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do we can live in la-la land and say things that sound nice or i can look at what we do that's what
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we pick perla are you in a relationship she said yes she said she said she's indifferent sorry i don't
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i don't talk in a situation so she's sharing a guy yeah i don't know how situationship defines sharing
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either this is why people could be in open relationships and share situationship doesn't
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necessarily mean you could be you could be married and share yeah so the whole point the whole point
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is women will share women have always shared throughout the test of time the top 15 of men
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have always had a bunch of chicks and it has not been the same vice versa because we've always had to
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ensure paternity i don't make up these rules i just tell you what they are i've interviewed hundreds
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of people women don't care how does women don't care men care go ahead how does less bodies ensure
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like a woman's gonna be more fertile though i don't get that it doesn't know it's not a whole and
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they don't okay if you if you drink alcohol every day are you more likely to do it again yeah probably
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okay so so so if you have been sleeping with a bunch of but what's that to do if you have been sleeping
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with a bunch of different dudes for all of your 20s for a decade don't you think it's going to be
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a little harder to stop no really it's a generation if you get into a relationship
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and you're a girl you're not going to cheat i think anyone under the age of 20 have got an
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expectation where you can sleep with as many guys as you want and you're not going to get judged
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because you're not old enough or experienced enough to know that you will get looked down
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upon i don't think that at all because you will because you just have to not care about what people
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you don't but there's going to be a man who wants to date you who thinks oh i'm going to
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fuck her because she slept with well i don't want to be with that man who cares what i agree with
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though i don't disagree with them saying you are going to get judged based on the amount of what
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we do we get judged anyway when you have no body count when i had no body count guys will say oh
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you're too prude but if you if you sleep around they don't like you when women say well i don't
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want to be with the guy that is going to judge me but the reality is the guy that's not going to
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judge you you don't want to be with him either i don't care yeah i'm judging him as well and i don't
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i i do care about body count everybody judges everybody so my point is the guys that you would
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look at and be like oh this is the kind of guy i would want to be with more than likely is going
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to have the same mentality that we are speaking about that's why women cheat then because because
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of this exact reason so if you say in the statistics that women cheat more than men then that's the
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problem women women cheat mostly most of the time because they are with a man that they don't want to be
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with no it's because they were a fact it's probably because of this reason man that she's scared to
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lose because men don't give them enough love and attention because they don't bother having a
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connection with or maybe it's because women are maybe or maybe or maybe it's because women are never
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happy maybe it's because the guy's got a small or it could be that's the whole point that's the
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that's the you're proving my point because that's like the number one thing you've talked about
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and nothing yeah nothing that makes a guy a good husband or a good wife a big cock does to be
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honest no it doesn't it doesn't no it doesn't but again it's just because your age you don't you're
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not old enough to realize that it's more than just having a i get bored easy so i don't really i don't
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think it has to do with age i really don't i think it's how your upbringing is because honestly like
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i think you're cool and all but like you're treating this whole thing as a joke
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cock cock cock cock cock like i'm just here to promote my only fans subscribe lily
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i'm not talking about you no but you you're saying this but like i like you told me you did only
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fans before downstairs that doesn't change that you did it you still did it right but i learned from
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my lesson but you still did it like it's you still did it's not going to change that you did it like
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of course not but that's the thing is we grow and we change and we learn but it doesn't change that
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you did it but but her whole point like you guys are just living in delusion okay did did doing only
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fans hurt your dating prospects it yes definitely messed up my mind from 19 to 23 for sure yeah i was
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i literally say this like i don't care because i'm a changed person now how old are you i'm 23.
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and when did you do only fans when i was 19. like just like how we were talking this girl saying it
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depends on your situation and it does i did it i got kicked out i had nowhere to stay and i said how
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the fuck am i going to make money in a pandemic right now i don't have a degree none of that so
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i became a sex worker and was it the right decision no i don't think so i definitely could
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have found another way out for sure but i wanted the easiest quickest option and that was doing
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only instant gratification yeah exactly and now i look back at it and it's like wow that was so
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dumb of me and i was like a really stupid mistake i made but that's not who i am anymore
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and i've grown from that and you know i have a boyfriend now and that's something i was honest
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about with him because that's who i am today but that's the thing it was embarrassing for sure
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nowadays you have to admit that like things because you probably did that during kobe times
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or just before kobe times i think it's a lot the situation i think a lot of people women during that
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situation who did kind of go down the rabbit hole who have exposed themselves and done lots of things
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online which they went to get the instant money because they weren't able to get to the job so you
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now have to live with that kind of shame but i'm not ashamed of it though you don't know you're
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not shamed but you're not proud of it at the same breath of course i'm not proud of what i did
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but that doesn't bother me anymore yeah no i accept that no i expect that i said if you did that
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you did like a changed person that's nice thank you well and i think too guys appreciate reality
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and like you're not it's better yeah honest yeah like it doesn't make you any less of a woman or
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a less no that's exactly what i'm trying to say is like and same as these girls who are young and will
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that's when when you asked me earlier like what do you hate only fan girls no i don't i don't hate
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anyone like i said we have free will as human beings you could do whatever the fuck you want
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i do not care but do i respect it no we're allowed to have you know different viewpoints in life that
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doesn't mean i'm not going to not be your friend because you choose to pop your pussy on the internet
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do you look down at them no because it's your life i don't agree with it that's not something i
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would do for myself do i think it's the right thing no i don't but that doesn't mean i hate you
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it doesn't mean i don't want to be your friend am i going to try to correct you for your wrongs
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of course that's what we're supposed to do if you have an honest open platonic relationship with
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someone you should and i would hope they would do the same for me if i was doing something wrong
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that's what i personally my friends are like woo go girl get that right because well because women will
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lead you down destruction and they won't be honest those are the girls you're choosing for your life
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no even guys say guys say if i was a girl and i was fat i'd do it too but most men wouldn't date
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you because you do only fans which is it's a sad reality because it's true because again you are
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not you as an individual just people who do only fans are kind of viewed as less than the normal
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well i would have an education get a job i actually think that most only i actually disagree with that
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because most my most the girls that i know that do only fans have boyfriends