Delusional Woman Wants To Be A Cat Mom
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the importance of having children and how important it is for women to have children. Is it more important than having a career, mental stability, mental health, or mental health outside of motherhood?
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what's more important than having children name name name five things being healthy no no no i'm
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not asking you to know what what's name five things um being healthy is a pre-work
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your actual career your dreams from a little girl yeah we all have we from from a child all
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girls we all have a dream like whatever the prince charming usually not all of us have the
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being healthy and being stable okay okay okay okay so wait wait wait i just want to talk to you
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so so your career what else what else is more important your mental stability your health
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your um contribution to society outside of motherhood so so you're you're 65 okay by yourself
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okay your career is more important yeah i'm a cat mom and i've got a great career i've made that
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i've made i've left i've made my mark in this world just like a mom has like just like because
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if a man doesn't have kids at 65 the society look at him in any way would you agree that mental
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stability is important but for me if i hit let's say 30 and i have no kids my mental stability will
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be very low i will be depressed and even though i want to be this i want to be that i want to have
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a career so badly if i don't have kids like i wouldn't know what to do you're completely right
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let me just tell you something right now like you said you're gonna be a cat mom no i'm saying i'm not
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saying i'm going to be i'm saying there's women like that is that what you're on the right path
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and not only that women tend to lesbians is that what you want genuinely i'm not trying to be
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aggressive do you want to be a cat mom rapper you talk about your contribution to society it's
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dropping a rap song having an instagram like where your your tits are out and then having some cats is
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that what you want is that what you think women do is that i i haven't seen your instagram of
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motherhood that's probably what that's the only value you see in a woman the only thing that i'm
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asking you no but i'm saying the only thing the only value that a woman has in your eyes is
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motherhood so every that's the most important that's the most every woman you get with as long
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as she has kids she's valuable i'm not talking about no but is that what you're trying to say
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the highest contribution to society a woman has is mothering so what's the what's the highest
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contribution that a man has invent build and maintain society can i just challenge you quickly
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didn't you say that there would be none of this without women having children you said that in the
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beginning but i'm what i'm trying to say is i don't like the fact that there's a lot of men
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who have this mentality towards women i don't see your value as a woman outside of let me marry you
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let me breed you like a like a cow and then you know like you're gonna stay there i'm gonna
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do what i need to do and all your whole purpose in your whole existence is to do nothing but have
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my kids but that is why is that but why is why is that a bad thing it's not a bad thing that's what
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that's what my look at look at that's what my grandma did she had nine kids and now she has over
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50 grandkids and i feel like you're trying you're making it seem more terrible than what she is you
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compared motherhood to being a cow you just compared motherhood to breeding being bred like a cow
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comparing like the attitude that i heard what she said why are you trying to fix because you're
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misinterpreting what she said i heard something different she's not saying that she's saying the
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attitude that people have to say that women should just be mothers and your motherhood is
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the most important and she belittled it no wait wait wait that's wait yeah yeah what she's trying
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to really say is that attitude that you say that that's what women are for what they are about
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makes it look like we're just like little what do you call the cows like cattle like what do you call
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the dog the dog girl uh bitch is that what you call it female dog read it no one said that word
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i see you starting to realize this you're the jesus lover over here hold on you're starting
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to realize the mindset that a lot of these women have they're comparing motherhood to
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being bred like a cow i feel like it's just very backwards because i feel like
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with you and i'm not trying to attack you but i just feel like you're trying to make it seem more
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dark than what it actually is a lot of men yes they're very privileged by the fact that they've
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picked the women and they want to have children with them but it's not just centered around them
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maybe they just love their company it's not maybe they just love their softness you're just making it
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it seems like men just come and just like let me have your children that's like five percent of
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men it's not it's not that the men it's not in the vast majority of cases it's not that the men
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just look at the woman as this kind of breeding animal he's like right i'm going to impregnate her
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it's this very animalistic thing i mean we're talking about love we're talking about he fought in
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love with that woman he wants to to rebuild a family to build a family with her
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no you're not talking about that can you explain what you're talking about what are you talking
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about then if you're not talking about that no i don't think they're talking about that because
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they haven't made it clear you just said that motherhood's the most important thing so for you
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your sole purpose is to get with a woman and have a kid with her and that's bingo i want to clarify
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career is more important than motherhood yes or no when when so in in a society career is more
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important than motherhood yes or no yes or no depends no yes or no but it depends no because
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because the way you're arguing the way the way you're arguing you're just arguing with everything
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no but you're not you're not even making a clear point like if your point if your point is if your
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point is that career is more important than motherhood say it it depends no but not it depends
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well because she's like there's everyone comes from a different place here what you said
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i'm a teacher i educate children that come from very very difficult background yeah denova what
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are you okay what i'm saying is okay we're dealing with the facts of the west right now in it like
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this is where we're at not in africa not in do you get it like other countries where they have
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these values that oh yeah um and some men still have that mentality that a woman so that woman's not
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it's like so what yeah what results does that does that lead to are women happier in the west i
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think so i don't think so okay so how let's let me just think this through with you okay how would
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we measure if women are happier in the west or in other countries the rate of women on what antidepressants
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because you would agree depressed women take drugs right to not be depressed right okay so if the
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women in the west are on antidepressants higher that means our results are not good
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if we're more obese than other countries our results are not good so yeah we're more successful
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not in terms of happiness you see your basic success monetarily success is about enjoyment of
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life it's not about i thought you weren't paid equally what i thought you weren't paid equally
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that's not what she said financially successful no she means more financially independent success
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is not about how much money because financial independence is important for example i'll give
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you the average the average woman makes like 25 000 a year no financial so they're not that
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successful can i ask you a question that's poverty okay compared to compared to the countries
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where they probably would have a better lifestyle because they live off of their family's income
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yeah of their husbands you know sister can i say something yeah it's important for women to have
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financial stability because you can't always rely on men to be there because it's not just because
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men are trash and men are not reliable everybody dies which means that you as a woman need to also be
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able to count on a way to start to stabilize yourself because if you do have children you also need to
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be able to provide for the children so things go wrong for example so why that's why certain things
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like financial independence and having a career can be important for women and i know this because i
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speak like about my mom from experience if she didn't go to work and she was a a housewife if she
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didn't go to work we would have been suffering we should have had to go jump in bed with somebody else
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to provide for her which she didn't do so she went to work so it's good thing it's a good thing for
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women to go and work and have a career i don't think they i don't think what we're trying to say that
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women is work women working is a bad thing what we're trying to say is women putting work over family
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is a bad thing because if you go back to what pearl said the results have been bad they've been
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horrible also as well a lot of work is not really what it's cracked up to be i mean it seems like
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women have worked really really hard and fought really hard to be able to go and work in cubicles
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for you know eight hours a day which is pretty shit you know let's let's face it not most people
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aren't going to become cardi b most people aren't going to become like a world famous rapper or you know
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like uh a super influencer right most jobs are not very good so why is there this why is this importance
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put on to that when actually most people are trying to get out of work because it's you know
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out of normal jobs because as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized
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