JustPearlyThings - May 08, 2023


Delusional Woman Wants To Be A Cat Mom

Topics
career vs. motherhood
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Sneako Battles Modern Woman Delusional Modern Woman GETS a Reality Check

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

216.81

Word count

1,892

Sentence count

—

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

sentences flagged

Toxicity

11

sentences flagged

Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about the importance of having children and how important it is for women to have children. Is it more important than having a career, mental stability, mental health, or mental health outside of motherhood?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 what's more important than having children name name name five things being healthy no no no i'm
00:00:06.160 not asking you to know what what's name five things um being healthy is a pre-work
00:00:16.720 your actual career your dreams from a little girl yeah we all have we from from a child all
00:00:21.760 girls we all have a dream like whatever the prince charming usually not all of us have the
00:00:26.720 being healthy and being stable okay okay okay okay so wait wait wait i just want to talk to you
00:00:31.680 so so your career what else what else is more important your mental stability your health
00:00:38.400 your um contribution to society outside of motherhood so so you're you're 65 okay by yourself
00:00:47.360 okay your career is more important yeah i'm a cat mom and i've got a great career i've made that
00:00:52.080 i've made i've left i've made my mark in this world just like a mom has like just like because
00:00:56.800 if a man doesn't have kids at 65 the society look at him in any way would you agree that mental
00:01:01.600 stability is important but for me if i hit let's say 30 and i have no kids my mental stability will
00:01:05.840 be very low i will be depressed and even though i want to be this i want to be that i want to have
00:01:10.800 a career so badly if i don't have kids like i wouldn't know what to do you're completely right
00:01:15.120 let me just tell you something right now like you said you're gonna be a cat mom no i'm saying i'm not
00:01:19.600 saying i'm going to be i'm saying there's women like that is that what you're on the right path 0.79
00:01:23.280 and not only that women tend to lesbians is that what you want genuinely i'm not trying to be
00:01:27.280 aggressive do you want to be a cat mom rapper you talk about your contribution to society it's 0.99
00:01:33.200 dropping a rap song having an instagram like where your your tits are out and then having some cats is 0.99
00:01:38.320 that what you want is that what you think women do is that i i haven't seen your instagram of 1.00
00:01:42.320 motherhood that's probably what that's the only value you see in a woman the only thing that i'm 1.00
00:01:46.880 asking you no but i'm saying the only thing the only value that a woman has in your eyes is 0.94
00:01:50.800 motherhood so every that's the most important that's the most every woman you get with as long 0.64
00:01:54.480 as she has kids she's valuable i'm not talking about no but is that what you're trying to say
00:01:58.240 the highest contribution to society a woman has is mothering so what's the what's the highest 1.00
00:02:01.840 contribution that a man has invent build and maintain society can i just challenge you quickly
00:02:07.200 didn't you say that there would be none of this without women having children you said that in the 0.94
00:02:11.520 beginning but i'm what i'm trying to say is i don't like the fact that there's a lot of men
00:02:16.880 who have this mentality towards women i don't see your value as a woman outside of let me marry you 1.00
00:02:22.800 let me breed you like a like a cow and then you know like you're gonna stay there i'm gonna 1.00
00:02:28.560 do what i need to do and all your whole purpose in your whole existence is to do nothing but have
00:02:34.880 my kids but that is why is that but why is why is that a bad thing it's not a bad thing that's what
00:02:41.440 that's what my look at look at that's what my grandma did she had nine kids and now she has over
00:02:45.280 50 grandkids and i feel like you're trying you're making it seem more terrible than what she is you
00:02:50.080 compared motherhood to being a cow you just compared motherhood to breeding being bred like a cow
00:02:54.640 comparing like the attitude that i heard what she said why are you trying to fix because you're
00:02:58.560 misinterpreting what she said i heard something different she's not saying that she's saying the
00:03:03.040 attitude that people have to say that women should just be mothers and your motherhood is
00:03:07.280 the most important and she belittled it no wait wait wait that's wait yeah yeah what she's trying
00:03:11.920 to really say is that attitude that you say that that's what women are for what they are about 1.00
00:03:16.080 makes it look like we're just like little what do you call the cows like cattle like what do you call 0.99
00:03:21.840 the dog the dog girl uh bitch is that what you call it female dog read it no one said that word 1.00
00:03:29.360 i see you starting to realize this you're the jesus lover over here hold on you're starting 0.99
00:03:32.960 to realize the mindset that a lot of these women have they're comparing motherhood to 1.00
00:03:36.080 being bred like a cow i feel like it's just very backwards because i feel like
00:03:39.600 with you and i'm not trying to attack you but i just feel like you're trying to make it seem more
00:03:43.600 dark than what it actually is a lot of men yes they're very privileged by the fact that they've
00:03:48.160 picked the women and they want to have children with them but it's not just centered around them
00:03:51.360 maybe they just love their company it's not maybe they just love their softness you're just making it
00:03:55.440 it seems like men just come and just like let me have your children that's like five percent of
00:04:00.960 men it's not it's not that the men it's not in the vast majority of cases it's not that the men
00:04:05.520 just look at the woman as this kind of breeding animal he's like right i'm going to impregnate her 1.00
00:04:09.360 it's this very animalistic thing i mean we're talking about love we're talking about he fought in
00:04:15.040 love with that woman he wants to to rebuild a family to build a family with her
00:04:18.400 no you're not talking about that can you explain what you're talking about what are you talking
00:04:25.680 about then if you're not talking about that no i don't think they're talking about that because
00:04:29.440 they haven't made it clear you just said that motherhood's the most important thing so for you
00:04:32.880 your sole purpose is to get with a woman and have a kid with her and that's bingo i want to clarify
00:04:39.040 career is more important than motherhood yes or no when when so in in a society career is more
00:04:44.800 important than motherhood yes or no yes or no depends no yes or no but it depends no because
00:04:50.640 because the way you're arguing the way the way you're arguing you're just arguing with everything
00:04:55.120 no but you're not you're not even making a clear point like if your point if your point is if your
00:04:59.680 point is that career is more important than motherhood say it it depends no but not it depends
00:05:04.480 well because she's like there's everyone comes from a different place here what you said
00:05:08.400 i'm a teacher i educate children that come from very very difficult background yeah denova what
00:05:12.880 are you okay what i'm saying is okay we're dealing with the facts of the west right now in it like
00:05:20.320 this is where we're at not in africa not in do you get it like other countries where they have
00:05:26.080 these values that oh yeah um and some men still have that mentality that a woman so that woman's not 1.00
00:05:32.720 it's like so what yeah what results does that does that lead to are women happier in the west i 0.56
00:05:41.360 think so i don't think so okay so how let's let me just think this through with you okay how would
00:05:48.480 we measure if women are happier in the west or in other countries the rate of women on what antidepressants
00:05:54.240 because you would agree depressed women take drugs right to not be depressed right okay so if the 0.94
00:06:02.160 women in the west are on antidepressants higher that means our results are not good
00:06:06.240 if we're more obese than other countries our results are not good so yeah we're more successful
00:06:13.520 not in terms of happiness you see your basic success monetarily success is about enjoyment of
00:06:18.960 life it's not about i thought you weren't paid equally what i thought you weren't paid equally
00:06:24.480 that's not what she said financially successful no she means more financially independent success
00:06:31.440 is not about how much money because financial independence is important for example i'll give
00:06:35.440 you the average the average woman makes like 25 000 a year no financial so they're not that
00:06:40.960 successful can i ask you a question that's poverty okay compared to compared to the countries
00:06:47.520 where they probably would have a better lifestyle because they live off of their family's income 0.72
00:06:51.680 yeah of their husbands you know sister can i say something yeah it's important for women to have 1.00
00:06:57.200 financial stability because you can't always rely on men to be there because it's not just because
00:07:03.120 men are trash and men are not reliable everybody dies which means that you as a woman need to also be
00:07:08.080 able to count on a way to start to stabilize yourself because if you do have children you also need to 0.98
00:07:13.760 be able to provide for the children so things go wrong for example so why that's why certain things
00:07:18.000 like financial independence and having a career can be important for women and i know this because i
00:07:21.920 speak like about my mom from experience if she didn't go to work and she was a a housewife if she 0.99
00:07:27.520 didn't go to work we would have been suffering we should have had to go jump in bed with somebody else
00:07:31.520 to provide for her which she didn't do so she went to work so it's good thing it's a good thing for
00:07:35.600 women to go and work and have a career i don't think they i don't think what we're trying to say that 0.97
00:07:39.040 women is work women working is a bad thing what we're trying to say is women putting work over family 1.00
00:07:44.240 is a bad thing because if you go back to what pearl said the results have been bad they've been
00:07:48.560 horrible also as well a lot of work is not really what it's cracked up to be i mean it seems like
00:07:52.560 women have worked really really hard and fought really hard to be able to go and work in cubicles 1.00
00:07:56.400 for you know eight hours a day which is pretty shit you know let's let's face it not most people 0.96
00:08:01.440 aren't going to become cardi b most people aren't going to become like a world famous rapper or you know 0.96
00:08:05.440 like uh a super influencer right most jobs are not very good so why is there this why is this importance
00:08:12.160 put on to that when actually most people are trying to get out of work because it's you know
00:08:16.160 out of normal jobs because as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized
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