Destiny Kept Losing the argument so he did this...
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In this episode of the podcast, I sit down with a good friend of mine and we talk about a variety of topics. We talk about why men and women are so different from each other, why women are better than men, and why men are so much better than women.
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secretly into bdsm oh yeah my side and we're asked to describe why do we love each other and i say
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okay i really love my partner because she cooks really well and she's never fucked another guy
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we're dating and it's like okay and then she says oh well i love him because of this and that and
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that and that and that yeah well who loves each other more that just seems like a weird it just
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seems like a weird thing to me it's like oh well i like her because of these two things that i can
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find literally every other woman in the i was gonna ask you all things being equal would you
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prefer it if it was like one-sided open or do you not care um if she did if she was cool with it
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if she was just like you know what that's totally fine i don't i i really don't i would be indifferent
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to it the reason why like if we're saying like in a perfect hypothetical world where there would
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never be a problem i still don't think i would care it's just something i personally care about
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but i think that realistically anytime somebody's allowed to do something in a relationship and the
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other person isn't that's always going to build a lot of resentment i think you don't ever get jealous
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i'm just not that kind of person really no the planet remember the question i said who who is
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closer to unconditional love oh i didn't hear that i thought you said who loves more yeah yeah yeah
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who's closer to unconditional love because i said because i said first okay unconditional love isn't
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realistic okay well in that case in the unconditional love is going to be the one with the lower
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standards so if you're a low standard guy then sure yeah it's easier for you to love it's a guy
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and i mean i i see that you switched the the point a little bit saying no like you know men women love
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more because they have more standards but my thing is who's closer to unconditional love and i would argue
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none it's the men because we have far less conditions than women do sure well in that case
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the closest to unconditional love would be people with like down or something right you see somebody
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you smile that's what he does he'll bring up like this random thing that's such a good counter
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it's true he'll just be like this is we'll be like we'll be talking about a and b down syndrome
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why not just to my kids we'll be talking about a and b and destiny's like well what about c and
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you're like we're talking about a and b what a great example uh that kid's got to love so much
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that's an unconditional love right there just feed them pet them i don't know you do with kids
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with down syndrome you know that's what you want a family a kid why do you have to say down syndrome
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well because i i imagine they have less never mind i mean go ahead i mean kids they do say women
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are children a lot well red pillars do why that's weird because that's what they're looking for the
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perfect wife is a child that cooks and cleans you cannot you cannot tell me that the girls on the
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panel on the last panel we were on we're not acting like children you cannot tell me try they were but
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i think a lot of the i'm going to do the thing i think a lot of guys do too you can no i have done
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i am the only one in this space that have done panels equally men and women i've done full men
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panels i've done full women panels the women are absolutely worse wow they're absolutely worse
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you know if that's the if that's the ideal you want to act like a reason yeah i mean
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i would argue that women are far more selective than men and more intelligent when it comes to the
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mate selection process versus men are quite frankly a lot of the time stupid they'll be with a girl that
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is using them abusing them treating them like maybe yelling at them do you agree with that
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um i do partly i do think women are a little bit more intelligent with their selection after
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when they've grown a bit older i think maybe as teenagers we're equally stupid maybe they just learn
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a little bit faster i feel like i'd have a hard time generalizing because i see like i said you you
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know some i know some women that are insanely amazing people they look good they make all my and
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they're just with the most loserish guys i don't know why i can never explain it uh but i also know
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guys that will do like really dumb things over and over again too that should know better so
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people are real dumb sometimes when it comes to relationships yeah i don't know if i could
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generalize it more to one side or the other i don't know you can't generalize i just don't know
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i know a lot of men that make a lot of bad decisions i know a lot of women make a lot of
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bad decisions in terms of like who stays in relationships more um when dumb stuff like how
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many abused women will stay in abusive relationships for a long time because they end up getting mind
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over at like i think that's stupid do you know how many but you know the other thing i've learned
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about abused well they don't talk about a lot of times they're both abusing each other
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that can happen sometimes i mean like every a lot of girls will come on my show and they'll be and i
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know you'll be like anecdote a little pearl like but okay i'm like reactive abusing so they get abused
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they react back and then it's like a circle well but that's always the assumption but how do you know
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they didn't hit first i mean even if they even if they did hit first i think it's a bit different
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when a guy's hitting a woman unfortunately equal rights equal left baby i seriously i just i feel
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like if you shouldn't hit a guy if you don't expect to get hit back okay hold on weren't you earlier just
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saying there are by are you are there no biological differences between men and women yeah there are
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okay so women hitting men is bad i'm not going to argue against that it's a horrible thing and in
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relationships it shouldn't happen but i think men hitting women is a little different because the
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capacity to do damage there it's a lot higher well yeah so i feel like women then should never
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hit a guy i agree with you so it's like why would you hit a guy if you don't expect to get hit back
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and so an abusive i think under the law it should be equal i don't even know what the question i think
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originally was who stays in an abusive relationship now we're trying to say that like well a guy should
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be able to be the shit out of a woman is that a lot of times what they don't talk about is that
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they'll say oh women are staying with these abusive men but a lot of times the women are abusing too
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and if you talk to people that have actually worked in those industries they'll tell you that
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i don't think so because the thing because that's usually a point that i have to fight on a lot of
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people when you talk to these industries the the repeated phrase is actually uh mutual abuse is
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is impossible that's not a real thing they'll say that that's not that that back and forth doesn't
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exist i don't agree with that i think that mo i think we saw it a little bit with the johnny
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deb amber heard stuff that there's like if any relationship that has some abuser probably both sides
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are doing something if that happens to a man with money power and status what happens to the average
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guy and that's the whole point that happens all the time so so when we are talking about where
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women women will abuse men and get away with it and it's really common and they'll say oh they were
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the one that abused me but they don't talk about that they're doing it too sure men abuse women and
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get away with it there's like relationships are hard but that's what you always do is you always say but
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but well no because you're trying to make a point you're trying to make it it's like you're trying
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to make a point that's like women can get away with hitting men they do and men get away with
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hitting women everybody gets ready hitting each other haven't you seen those social experiments
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where like a man will be screaming at a woman in public and then people will stop him and what like
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people will stop him and get involved in whatever and a woman will literally be beating up a guy in
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public and nobody stops nobody does anything if the question is is who can get away with abusing their
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partner in public then i would agree with you that people tend to call out men
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more than women or people tend to call out yeah men more than however when it comes because it's
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not because when people are abusing each other privately when it comes time to hold somebody
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accountable or responsible it's really really hard to bring charges against somebody or go to the
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police station and report anybody who's it harder for men or women it's probably for either oh
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destiny come on there's a fair amount of crime that just isn't processed it is almost impossible
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it is a very lucrative i can't if if yeah if you want to bring like a legal expert but i can't
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argue with like well i had a girl on my panel and she said this the reality is that when you go to the
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police station report even a rape you can do a full rape kit if it is only your word against somebody
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else's that case dies right there you can't just but you can take pictures you can like they take
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pictures of like um if there's like cuts on them bruises like that doesn't necessarily mean you have
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enough to move forward it doesn't necessarily mean that but i'm i'm what i'm saying is that it's more
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common for women to be able to go to the police and get a conviction versus men going to the police
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and getting a conviction for women but i don't know if that's hold on there's there's a lot wait wait wait
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just don't go and report it will they back down there's also a lot going on with what you just said
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there to get a conviction is that's a different type of question i mean let me finish i have to answer a
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single question there's even there's even been cases where the a guy will call the police on a
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girl and they'll arrest him you've never seen those i mean okay a lot of the cases though the
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reason why this happens is because other men are not taking it seriously and the majority of the
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police force is still male also hold on okay you said you mentioned i'm not saying why it's happening
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all my whole point is that it's harder for men okay in that capacity you mentioned get a conviction
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okay if men and women are biologically different if a hundred men attacked a hundred women and a
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hundred women attacked a hundred men and everything was perfectly reported and it was flawless there
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was cameras recordings of everything in that perfect world wouldn't we still expect more men to get
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convicted because it's more gbh it's because it's more because there's a bit bigger power differential
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right if what if i'm in i would expect it to be if it's the same crime equal punishment that's what i would
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expect if a woman punches a man versus the other way around if it's the likelihood the man's going
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to have done more damage if it's the same crime who cares about the damage it's the crime well the
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damage is resulting of the type of crime that you're prosecuting for it's the crime if you haven't
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so why so if what about me and dust i'm a semi-pro athlete so it's like if i punch destiny or
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destiny punches me why would it not be the same crime why would it not be the same prosecution
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i don't know but like why do women why do you do you want the actual answer or do you want to keep
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asking like random questions why do you want women to get special treatment gotcha nice loaded
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question at the end there the reason why it's a different crime is because there's different
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intentions based on who's attacking who right if a if a 16 year old girl that weighs 85 pounds starts
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running up and slapping me in the face she's probably not going to be ever like charged but like she'll get
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charged with assault and battery but it's not going to be like attempted murder or something right if a
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250 pound man jumps on a woman and starts punching her in the face you might get charged with like
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attempted murder or something because the capacity to do damage there in the state of mind when you
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attack the person is going to be a lot differently if we acknowledge that there are biological differences
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between men and women which i thought we all agreed on i think we do then there's going to be a
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different intent behind a woman hitting a guy which i agree is still assault and battery and i agree you
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should still get charged for it and convicted for it if you do it but the capacity for damage there
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shows a different state of mind than if a man attacks a woman you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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