JustPearlyThings - April 30, 2023


Destiny Tries To Corner Pearl with this Question


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

218.6172

Word Count

1,972

Sentence Count

1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what was more chaotic like what was more nothing has been more chaotic than the show was on
00:00:05.440 two nights ago nothing i don't think anything in my life has been more chaotic than that so
00:00:09.700 yeah that's fair that's a fair point i clicked it blessing destiny i feel like women love more
00:00:17.940 i think on average i think women are more emotionally mature and i think that love
00:00:21.280 outside of like the fairy tale book requires a lot of actual like emotional upkeep a lot of
00:00:25.580 emotional labor i think a lot of guys can't put that in i don't think feeling possessive or jealous
00:00:29.360 is love just because you get like really ass mad if your woman does something or if you get like
00:00:33.140 really jealous or possessive what was the question he asked i think women in general
00:00:36.300 i think that's not letting me pause it yeah the question was who loves more men or women
00:00:41.760 how do you quantify love that's such a bizarre question yeah i don't know it's kind of a silly
00:00:46.520 question but they're i think their method of quantifying it is that like any man will love
00:00:50.340 any woman so therefore men love more um whereas i think if you make love more conditional that feels
00:00:55.640 like more of a love thing to me but i mean it's kind of a it's a very subjective question but
00:00:59.340 it's very broad who loves more i feel like when a girl actually like i feel like a girl loves more
00:01:08.800 like when you're that guy but in general like men love more i don't know what that means okay like
00:01:15.720 okay so if i already know he's gonna he's so ready i'm not i'm just chilling i'm just waiting for
00:01:25.260 no go ahead no i just know i know how he is i know how he is okay no i feel like when a girl like
00:01:31.520 okay jack and rose on the titanic right yeah okay rose had this whole fiance right she jumps off the
00:01:39.480 ship for this guy she just met so when she felt like she was in love with the guy she's going crazy
00:01:44.620 she's doing crazy shit okay but i feel like in general like most men are the fiance they're jack
00:01:51.100 but their girl isn't like or they're not jack the other guy's name you know i'm talking about
00:01:55.320 the guy getting left yeah the guy getting left
00:01:57.280 oh my god no yeah did she did rose have a college degree do you think probably probably she was 26
00:02:05.100 oh no on instagram too much probably um yeah i don't that's it's a it's a silly it's hard to
00:02:11.980 quantify like everybody can get obsessed with each other like everybody can be weird every it's i
00:02:15.640 i think it's hard to know yeah but i will it's not like you could find facts that are you know i
00:02:20.860 will say on these shows though that when you're saying that like i don't care what you say but if
00:02:26.160 you're a guy doing a one like advocating for one-ended open relationships it's hard to say that you love
00:02:31.820 there more than your like girlfriend or wife does i think you don't think it's different for men and
00:02:36.480 for women cheating no because you're i'm not you're you're in like the open on both ends yeah okay i
00:02:44.540 don't go ahead i don't know no no go for it i'm trying to be polite i'm trying to be polite i don't
00:02:51.200 no you're not sorry no i just mean like isn't that awkward like isn't that i don't know because i'm
00:02:58.860 just thinking like like if you look at it from a historical perspective like women had to get the
00:03:03.160 highest value guy where men they wanted to like reproduce so from a historical perspective like
00:03:07.760 what value would that bring like a woman being promiscuous well so my approach is is that i want to
00:03:14.420 be promiscuous you know i want to be promiscuous i can't tell my girlfriend not to be promiscuous
00:03:19.940 so it has to be like i don't think relationships work if you have like maximum openness on one end
00:03:25.400 and maximum closing the other that's always going to be a recipe for disaster so then in my world it's
00:03:29.520 either do you want to be monogamous or do you just not want to be like married or date anybody and
00:03:32.800 just be like single be a fuck boy forever yeah i mean i wouldn't really prefer to be in a relationship
00:03:38.960 where someone's open on one end either but i feel like
00:03:43.360 a lot of times like girls do it for free you know what i mean girls do what for free
00:03:49.520 where it's like open on one end and close no that is unbelievably rare and if the girl finds out
00:03:56.480 she's gonna she will get mad and leave the guy
00:03:59.020 you'd be surprised what does for free mean in that context for free she's saying that women
00:04:04.120 naturally gravitate towards or allow guys to like cheat and don't care that much oh i don't think so
00:04:08.700 i don't think so i actually think that like women like to be cheated on
00:04:12.420 no not particularly but it's like every time i ask the girls on the show it'll be like
00:04:20.540 they will talk about cheating right and um they'll bring up their ex that cheated and my
00:04:26.020 next question is always is something wrong blessing oh oh did i oh sorry okay um but my next question
00:04:35.840 is always like did you stay and the question they always say yes yeah but guys and girls and then
00:04:40.360 and then and then i ask them like do when did you guys break up like when did it end it's always when
00:04:45.640 they stop cheating and i'm like why why didn't you leave the first time if you didn't like the
00:04:49.980 cheating like that doesn't make sense to me okay so what happens is is people get obsessed with each
00:04:55.140 other they break up it's called yo-yoing where people will date and they break up and they come
00:04:59.140 but i'm saying they didn't break up when they when he cheated the first time so it's like in my head
00:05:06.180 if you didn't like the cheating you would leave when he cheated yeah some people i mean there's a lot
00:05:10.460 of things that people when i first and when i first heard this i thought it was crazy i was like
00:05:13.880 there's no way girls like this stuff to an addiction it's the roller coaster and then they go back
00:05:18.720 because they miss yeah but they didn't leave that's what i'm saying okay they go back and
00:05:22.900 they have a fight and then they're still together that's the same thing but then why would you leave
00:05:26.720 when he stops cheating probably because the rest of the relationship was still messed up in some way
00:05:31.100 that's what i would imagine do you really believe that most women like being cheated on i think i do
00:05:35.720 i didn't before i started the show okay i did it before i started the show and then i i just had the
00:05:40.620 same because it's like i just start to meet the same people over and over again i'm just like
00:05:44.880 this is a pattern okay did any of them tell you they liked being cheated on i mean they didn't
00:05:50.440 say that but their actions it's like it's like their actions showed it do you think women like
00:05:55.060 being abused do i think they like being a b why do we gotta go to abuse well i'm just asking there's
00:05:59.560 a lot of women that this is what they do they'll be like we'll be talking about a and then he brings
00:06:03.460 up b because a lot of women i didn't say abused i didn't say abused a lot of women like to stay
00:06:08.880 in abusive relationships so do they like it because they stay there um see i feel like this
00:06:16.420 is like a trap question it's like a trap it's like this is what they do they try to trap you
00:06:20.540 like to be addicts well because you're basically saying here's you know honestly i think some
00:06:25.560 addicts do i do i know this is i have relatives that are addicts oh and it's like yeah okay they
00:06:34.940 freaking they just keep doing the same thing over and over again based okay
00:06:38.900 i mean if you're making the opinion based on behavior i yeah okay all right jealous is love
00:06:47.520 just because you get like really ass mad if your woman does something or if you get like
00:06:50.640 really jealous or possessive but what does it mean you love her more so i think women in general
00:06:53.780 we need to put more emotional work in relationships so i'll say that would you also say this out to the
00:06:59.360 argument here that women break up with men more than men break up with women what do you think
00:07:04.500 uh that has to be true you have to say i don't know yeah i mean i think that's true but it's such
00:07:10.160 a dumb question why is it a dumb question because there might be a different tolerance on both sides
00:07:15.080 for bad or stupid behavior right yeah but like why don't you just answer the question that's what
00:07:21.580 what do you do you like i think i do it's like play the rest of the clip we didn't play the clip
00:07:24.760 you'll be like i don't know and i'm like did i say i don't know we'll play the clip
00:07:27.720 then i'm gonna get through this video at this right or any two minutes that's why i like having
00:07:30.560 destiny on i disagree with destiny i think men love far more wait go back i didn't even hear
00:07:34.440 my answer i didn't i didn't i'm just pushing the you're pushing the button i'm sorry i'm i'm
00:07:40.720 i'm trigger happy i love this lady that's my future never mind god okay your future second wife do you
00:07:46.700 want a second one yeah third and a fourth third and a fourth i'm gonna convert to islam so i get all these guys to come and
00:07:51.100 defend me when i do bad stuff okay because you get like really ass mad if your woman does something
00:07:55.120 or if you get like really jealous or possessive one doesn't you love her more so i think women in
00:07:58.720 general we need to put more emotional work in relationships so i'll say that one would you also
00:08:03.140 say this out to the argument here that women break up with men more than men break up with women
00:08:08.420 what do you think uh break up with i don't know see he said you said i don't know um you said i don't
00:08:14.980 know i don't know see oh he's doing it again listen i know the divorce answer is women i don't know
00:08:23.080 for breakup but the divorce answer is women i don't know for the just anecdotally why would i just
00:08:27.920 why why would i find anecdotes anecdote oh my gosh it's just like it's like sometimes it's like
00:08:32.480 water is wet okay um i don't i don't i know for divorce i think women initiate divorce i don't know
00:08:39.840 for breakups wouldn't you think that it's probably similar it might be it might or there might be
00:08:43.880 reasons why it's the opposite i don't know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a
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