Destiny Tries To Corner Pearl with this Question
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about love, cheating, and why men cheat on their exes. We also talk about how women cheat on men and why they cheat on each other. We have a special guest on the show, who is a man named Jack.
Transcript
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what was more chaotic like what was more nothing has been more chaotic than the show was on
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two nights ago nothing i don't think anything in my life has been more chaotic than that so
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yeah that's fair that's a fair point i clicked it blessing destiny i feel like women love more
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i think on average i think women are more emotionally mature and i think that love
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outside of like the fairy tale book requires a lot of actual like emotional upkeep a lot of
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emotional labor i think a lot of guys can't put that in i don't think feeling possessive or jealous
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is love just because you get like really ass mad if your woman does something or if you get like
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really jealous or possessive what was the question he asked i think women in general
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i think that's not letting me pause it yeah the question was who loves more men or women
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how do you quantify love that's such a bizarre question yeah i don't know it's kind of a silly
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question but they're i think their method of quantifying it is that like any man will love
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any woman so therefore men love more um whereas i think if you make love more conditional that feels
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like more of a love thing to me but i mean it's kind of a it's a very subjective question but
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it's very broad who loves more i feel like when a girl actually like i feel like a girl loves more
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like when you're that guy but in general like men love more i don't know what that means okay like
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okay so if i already know he's gonna he's so ready i'm not i'm just chilling i'm just waiting for
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no go ahead no i just know i know how he is i know how he is okay no i feel like when a girl like
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okay jack and rose on the titanic right yeah okay rose had this whole fiance right she jumps off the
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ship for this guy she just met so when she felt like she was in love with the guy she's going crazy
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she's doing crazy shit okay but i feel like in general like most men are the fiance they're jack
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but their girl isn't like or they're not jack the other guy's name you know i'm talking about
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oh my god no yeah did she did rose have a college degree do you think probably probably she was 26
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oh no on instagram too much probably um yeah i don't that's it's a it's a silly it's hard to
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quantify like everybody can get obsessed with each other like everybody can be weird every it's i
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i think it's hard to know yeah but i will it's not like you could find facts that are you know i
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will say on these shows though that when you're saying that like i don't care what you say but if
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you're a guy doing a one like advocating for one-ended open relationships it's hard to say that you love
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there more than your like girlfriend or wife does i think you don't think it's different for men and
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for women cheating no because you're i'm not you're you're in like the open on both ends yeah okay i
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don't go ahead i don't know no no go for it i'm trying to be polite i'm trying to be polite i don't
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no you're not sorry no i just mean like isn't that awkward like isn't that i don't know because i'm
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just thinking like like if you look at it from a historical perspective like women had to get the
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highest value guy where men they wanted to like reproduce so from a historical perspective like
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what value would that bring like a woman being promiscuous well so my approach is is that i want to
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be promiscuous you know i want to be promiscuous i can't tell my girlfriend not to be promiscuous
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so it has to be like i don't think relationships work if you have like maximum openness on one end
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and maximum closing the other that's always going to be a recipe for disaster so then in my world it's
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either do you want to be monogamous or do you just not want to be like married or date anybody and
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just be like single be a fuck boy forever yeah i mean i wouldn't really prefer to be in a relationship
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where someone's open on one end either but i feel like
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a lot of times like girls do it for free you know what i mean girls do what for free
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where it's like open on one end and close no that is unbelievably rare and if the girl finds out
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you'd be surprised what does for free mean in that context for free she's saying that women
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naturally gravitate towards or allow guys to like cheat and don't care that much oh i don't think so
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i don't think so i actually think that like women like to be cheated on
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no not particularly but it's like every time i ask the girls on the show it'll be like
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they will talk about cheating right and um they'll bring up their ex that cheated and my
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next question is always is something wrong blessing oh oh did i oh sorry okay um but my next question
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is always like did you stay and the question they always say yes yeah but guys and girls and then
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and then and then i ask them like do when did you guys break up like when did it end it's always when
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they stop cheating and i'm like why why didn't you leave the first time if you didn't like the
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cheating like that doesn't make sense to me okay so what happens is is people get obsessed with each
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other they break up it's called yo-yoing where people will date and they break up and they come
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but i'm saying they didn't break up when they when he cheated the first time so it's like in my head
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if you didn't like the cheating you would leave when he cheated yeah some people i mean there's a lot
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of things that people when i first and when i first heard this i thought it was crazy i was like
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there's no way girls like this stuff to an addiction it's the roller coaster and then they go back
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because they miss yeah but they didn't leave that's what i'm saying okay they go back and
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they have a fight and then they're still together that's the same thing but then why would you leave
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when he stops cheating probably because the rest of the relationship was still messed up in some way
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that's what i would imagine do you really believe that most women like being cheated on i think i do
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i didn't before i started the show okay i did it before i started the show and then i i just had the
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same because it's like i just start to meet the same people over and over again i'm just like
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this is a pattern okay did any of them tell you they liked being cheated on i mean they didn't
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say that but their actions it's like it's like their actions showed it do you think women like
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being abused do i think they like being a b why do we gotta go to abuse well i'm just asking there's
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a lot of women that this is what they do they'll be like we'll be talking about a and then he brings
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up b because a lot of women i didn't say abused i didn't say abused a lot of women like to stay
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in abusive relationships so do they like it because they stay there um see i feel like this
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is like a trap question it's like a trap it's like this is what they do they try to trap you
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like to be addicts well because you're basically saying here's you know honestly i think some
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addicts do i do i know this is i have relatives that are addicts oh and it's like yeah okay they
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freaking they just keep doing the same thing over and over again based okay
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i mean if you're making the opinion based on behavior i yeah okay all right jealous is love
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just because you get like really ass mad if your woman does something or if you get like
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really jealous or possessive but what does it mean you love her more so i think women in general
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we need to put more emotional work in relationships so i'll say that would you also say this out to the
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argument here that women break up with men more than men break up with women what do you think
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uh that has to be true you have to say i don't know yeah i mean i think that's true but it's such
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a dumb question why is it a dumb question because there might be a different tolerance on both sides
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for bad or stupid behavior right yeah but like why don't you just answer the question that's what
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what do you do you like i think i do it's like play the rest of the clip we didn't play the clip
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you'll be like i don't know and i'm like did i say i don't know we'll play the clip
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then i'm gonna get through this video at this right or any two minutes that's why i like having
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destiny on i disagree with destiny i think men love far more wait go back i didn't even hear
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my answer i didn't i didn't i'm just pushing the you're pushing the button i'm sorry i'm i'm
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i'm trigger happy i love this lady that's my future never mind god okay your future second wife do you
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want a second one yeah third and a fourth third and a fourth i'm gonna convert to islam so i get all these guys to come and
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defend me when i do bad stuff okay because you get like really ass mad if your woman does something
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or if you get like really jealous or possessive one doesn't you love her more so i think women in
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general we need to put more emotional work in relationships so i'll say that one would you also
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say this out to the argument here that women break up with men more than men break up with women
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what do you think uh break up with i don't know see he said you said i don't know um you said i don't
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know i don't know see oh he's doing it again listen i know the divorce answer is women i don't know
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for breakup but the divorce answer is women i don't know for the just anecdotally why would i just
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why why would i find anecdotes anecdote oh my gosh it's just like it's like sometimes it's like
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water is wet okay um i don't i don't i know for divorce i think women initiate divorce i don't know
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for breakups wouldn't you think that it's probably similar it might be it might or there might be
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reasons why it's the opposite i don't know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a
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