JustPearlyThings - Do Feminine Women Simp For Their Man？？

00:00:00.000 if a woman is the prize wouldn't that make the man the simp someone to find 0.84

00:00:05.520 simp for me like putting a woman on a pedestal will smith yeah yeah it wouldn't 0.60

00:00:14.800 make them it would make the man a simp so is there something wrong with a man like 0.53

00:00:21.360 admiring his woman yes because most of the time the woman ends up like kind of 0.97

00:00:26.640 walking over him like jayda and it doesn't really work so so no one has a good example of a man that

00:00:32.080 does it healthily without i've never seen it because i genuinely don't know jay-z and beyonce

00:00:37.680 i've seen healthy yeah so what do you think but jay-z cheated so 0.93

00:00:42.480 but i said wouldn't cheat bro so technically speaking

00:00:49.440 the question is i think there's a difference between admire it's it's like you can give

00:00:54.080 it admiration to a girl if she deserves it but does did jayda deserve the admiration 0.98

00:00:58.560 that she's gotten over the years when she's been giving her kids letters from tupac

00:01:02.880 that's crazy when she has her daughter writing a letter to tupac about how much her daughter misses

00:01:07.040 him even though she doesn't she wasn't even alive when that's that's what i'm saying but that's how

00:01:12.400 crazy like jayda is to the family so do you don't you feel like jayda's jayda's on the mad end of the

00:01:18.320 spectrum it's it's an example it's like okay when we see some something happen to celebrities it's

00:01:23.360 indicative of a society for example amber heard johnny depp that's extreme right but if that

00:01:28.080 happened to a man with money power and privilege what happens to the average guy so if this is

00:01:32.560 happening to will smith on the big screen again he's got money power and privilege who has more

00:01:37.120 leverage than will smith what happens to the normal guy who's just marrying the ran through girls 1.00

00:01:42.480 someone's got to do it i feel that like what he said if there's a healthy type i don't think there's

00:01:47.200 anything wrong with like a healthy if you deserve it but the problem is modern women don't deserve it 1.00

00:01:52.480 because we have nothing that men want anymore if not just that i think for the for most average

00:01:58.000 men they don't know what the the line of healthy admiration is because in order to keep the woman 0.98

00:02:02.560 they think they just got to do everything and just go to the beck and call and we often find that

00:02:07.280 that's not attractive it's not the principle so i think she'll find that 20 elsewhere i think if

00:02:11.520 it was healthy he wouldn't be a sim yeah yeah okay so this means that it's on it's an unhealthy if you

00:02:16.720 if you had to crush yourself to please somebody would you do as a woman if you had to crush yourself

00:02:22.080 to please your man you can identify that that is wrong right that applies this way around what do

00:02:28.560 you mean by crush yourself so an example i see you looking over there but i would say you know with

00:02:34.320 simping so as a simp you crush yourself you you you crush who you are to satisfy the woman that you're

00:02:41.360 with right you put this woman on a pedestal on uh as a you put yourself in the position to for her to 0.98

00:02:51.520 stand on you as a like a leaning pose she treats you with disregard disrespect and you continue to 0.61

00:02:56.640 do the same thing yes so you're crushing yourself to satisfy the woman to to be okay so you're talking

00:03:03.280 about the girls like like bombs basically like they're dating bombs and then the guys don't have

00:03:08.160 anything to offer no but so even if he has something to offer for example will smith he

00:03:13.120 didn't have to go on the stage and embarrass himself like that then jada turn around was like

00:03:18.000 yeah why did he do that like you're undermining the man in your life who you're married to right

00:03:22.640 so if okay let me reward it but if you have to undermine yourself to satisfy the woman you're with

00:03:29.280 you're a simp right but i'm saying like vice versa doesn't the woman have to give up herself in 0.96

00:03:35.440 order to build a family i was gonna say that's part of being a woman yeah but it's like you have 0.89

00:03:39.360 to undermine yourself like part of being feminine is letting the man lead and letting him have the

00:03:43.440 spotlight but the there's no issue it's about having a balance between the two parties if you have to

00:03:49.760 undermine yourself as a man you can't be a leader you can't have the vision and the we weren't i was

00:03:55.520 talking about the other way around oh as a woman yeah so you were saying i i understand what a

00:03:59.840 simp is other way around yeah so as a woman you know well for me i'll talk for myself i don't have

00:04:06.880 a problem compromising if it's for family there's an end goal we have a goal in mind um if what about

00:04:13.680 just for a man but what i wouldn't just do it for a man there must be a common goal but that's that's

00:04:19.040 the problem wait so is it because because that that indicates yourself that you're self-centered

00:04:23.520 because you wouldn't just do it for a man you have to get something let me you have to get something

00:04:27.840 out of it yeah but and and so like if you wouldn't just do it like you put just for a man yeah but

00:04:34.240 for a man you have to have actual value in my life i wouldn't just do it for my friend i wouldn't just

00:04:39.520 do it for the guy down the road right i know but in this conversation we're talking about a guy you're

00:04:43.200 dating oh okay i think like that's easy yeah that's yeah that's part of the relationship dynamic you

00:04:48.160 know compromise understanding having communication skills this is where you find the balance between

00:04:53.360 each other to have a relationship and i think if as a man you have to undermine yourself to be with

00:04:59.840 that woman she's not for you most men in today's society have to undermine themselves to some level

00:05:06.080 to be um desirable to a woman because even something like monogamy is a man undermining himself

00:05:11.920 to please a woman isn't it well i i wouldn't know you would know more than i yeah why are men expected

00:05:18.160 to deal with our hormones when we're on our period but we're not expected to deal with men's hormones

00:05:22.240 like i'm being corny of course you get it it's youtube yeah corny that's in

00:05:28.880 yeah yeah yeah i get you i get you yeah yeah yeah yeah so so so because we we expect monogamy right

00:05:37.520 yeah but i think you know in this society women are hyper sexualized so if you feel 1.00

00:05:42.960 no we sexualize ourselves don't don't put that hyper sexualized that like that word takes accountability

00:05:47.920 off of women we sexualize ourselves yeah we do sexualize ourselves but we are hyper sexualized

00:05:53.680 in the domain so for me when i'm looking at women twerking jumping up and down and then saying i'm not 1.00

00:05:58.800 gonna you know beat down on my man like how he wants you're a hypocrite you're you're a hypocrite 1.00

00:06:04.720 you're not you're not sure no no really like if a man's asking you you know babe i need this and 1.00

00:06:09.680 you're saying no well there's 300 other girls in his dm that will give that to him without any 1.00

00:06:14.960 questions are so it as i said if you have to undermine yourself to be with somebody man or woman

00:06:21.840 it's not worth but in terms of our reproductive strategies yeah a woman's reproductive strategy 1.00

00:06:25.760 is monogamy that's how you safeguard yourself and and ensure the future of your offspring for a man 0.93

00:06:31.360 um we are expendable like we die and we go to war and we go out and hunt all that kind of stuff so

00:06:35.520 our our reproductive strategy scattergun so we conform to the female standard to keep his little 1.00

00:06:40.000 happy so we essentially minimize our biological impulses to make sure he's not happy so to that

00:06:45.680 you're undermining yourself now well what as a man as a man yeah well in society this is what we've

00:06:52.240 accepted as the norm if you if you could you say yes or no to the question what is he under are you

00:06:57.440 are they undermining themselves in that situation i'm not in that position no but i'm asking you like

00:07:02.960 because a lot of times like when girls are in a corner they don't like they don't answer the

00:07:06.480 question yeah so i yes or no are you undermining yourself whether they're getting rid of yes in

00:07:12.240 the sense of biologically you are undermining yourself but this is what we're talking about 0.95

00:07:16.640 we're talking about standards versus biology biology dictates that boom you can have sex with 100 women 1.00

00:07:23.760 get 100 women pregnant a woman can only be pregnant once a year her bio bio biology dictates that 1.00

00:07:31.840 basically by the time she's 45 she's dried up she's no use to the average man now men are aware 0.96

00:07:37.840 of this yeah biologically and straight away we know this so it's a choice that they make to be with

00:07:44.240 that woman nobody's forcing them to be in that situation i wouldn't necessarily say he's undermining

00:07:50.320 himself but he's making a conscious decision to look at the women available on the market as we've

00:07:55.600 identified low quality not as a majority but as so you're almost flipping your answer you said yes

00:08:01.760 and now you're saying no what do you mean do you think a man is undermining himself no i just need

00:08:06.080 you to answer the question no do i think he's undermining himself biologically yes but societally

00:08:12.560 no because he knows the standards what matters that's not fair is it yeah because that benefits women 0.98

00:08:18.880 well it doesn't benefit so it's like women like we're in a society where everything benefits us 1.00

00:08:25.440 yeah but women dry up go ahead what'd you say because i feel like okay if someone's a christian 1.00

00:08:30.240 you would be putting your body under because biblically you want you want to you are monogamous

00:08:36.160 you're faithful somebody of the islamic faith would say what percent of men do you think really are that 0.94

00:08:41.600 religious that they don't want to have sex with a lot of girls no no what percentage of that i get it but 0.65

00:08:46.640 you know that so so i think if we had a jar in the middle that said but this exception and but

00:08:50.800 that exception most men they would like the mother of their child to only be one right and then they

00:08:56.960 they create offspring the majority of men will say i would like to only have one mother that's cat 0.98

00:09:06.960 yeah they don't want several baby mothers but they like some side chicks 1.00

00:09:11.920 that's true but but but but but jason derulo's little like baby mama can go on social media

00:09:18.720 and complain and cry about how jason derulo cheated on her when you're dating jason derulo

00:09:23.680 what do you think was going to happen so you're saying that whoever you get with you should expect

00:09:27.120 that's what i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying if you want a guy on a certain level he's

00:09:30.800 gonna cheat on you okay like i'm just saying like if it's like don't yo don't yeah don't be dating

00:09:35.280 these celebrities these nba players and confused but and i'm saying like we wouldn't like them

00:09:41.360 if they couldn't cheat we'd like guys like pre-selection is very important for women 1.00

00:09:45.920 so it's really important to us that we see other women as many of you know i was just banned on tick

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JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023

Do Feminine Women Simp For Their Man？？

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