Do Feminine Women Simp For Their Man？？
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the relationship between men and women, and the difference between admiration and healthy admiration. What is healthy admiration and what is unhealthy admiration? Is it healthy to admire a woman or is it unhealthy to crush yourself to satisfy a woman? Is there a balance between the two?
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if a woman is the prize wouldn't that make the man the simp someone to find
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simp for me like putting a woman on a pedestal will smith yeah yeah it wouldn't
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make them it would make the man a simp so is there something wrong with a man like
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admiring his woman yes because most of the time the woman ends up like kind of
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walking over him like jayda and it doesn't really work so so no one has a good example of a man that
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does it healthily without i've never seen it because i genuinely don't know jay-z and beyonce
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i've seen healthy yeah so what do you think but jay-z cheated so
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but i said wouldn't cheat bro so technically speaking
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the question is i think there's a difference between admire it's it's like you can give
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it admiration to a girl if she deserves it but does did jayda deserve the admiration
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that she's gotten over the years when she's been giving her kids letters from tupac
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that's crazy when she has her daughter writing a letter to tupac about how much her daughter misses
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him even though she doesn't she wasn't even alive when that's that's what i'm saying but that's how
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crazy like jayda is to the family so do you don't you feel like jayda's jayda's on the mad end of the
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spectrum it's it's an example it's like okay when we see some something happen to celebrities it's
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indicative of a society for example amber heard johnny depp that's extreme right but if that
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happened to a man with money power and privilege what happens to the average guy so if this is
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happening to will smith on the big screen again he's got money power and privilege who has more
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leverage than will smith what happens to the normal guy who's just marrying the ran through girls
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someone's got to do it i feel that like what he said if there's a healthy type i don't think there's
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anything wrong with like a healthy if you deserve it but the problem is modern women don't deserve it
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because we have nothing that men want anymore if not just that i think for the for most average
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men they don't know what the the line of healthy admiration is because in order to keep the woman
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they think they just got to do everything and just go to the beck and call and we often find that
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that's not attractive it's not the principle so i think she'll find that 20 elsewhere i think if
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it was healthy he wouldn't be a sim yeah yeah okay so this means that it's on it's an unhealthy if you
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if you had to crush yourself to please somebody would you do as a woman if you had to crush yourself
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to please your man you can identify that that is wrong right that applies this way around what do
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you mean by crush yourself so an example i see you looking over there but i would say you know with
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simping so as a simp you crush yourself you you you crush who you are to satisfy the woman that you're
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with right you put this woman on a pedestal on uh as a you put yourself in the position to for her to
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stand on you as a like a leaning pose she treats you with disregard disrespect and you continue to
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do the same thing yes so you're crushing yourself to satisfy the woman to to be okay so you're talking
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about the girls like like bombs basically like they're dating bombs and then the guys don't have
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anything to offer no but so even if he has something to offer for example will smith he
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didn't have to go on the stage and embarrass himself like that then jada turn around was like
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yeah why did he do that like you're undermining the man in your life who you're married to right
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so if okay let me reward it but if you have to undermine yourself to satisfy the woman you're with
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you're a simp right but i'm saying like vice versa doesn't the woman have to give up herself in
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order to build a family i was gonna say that's part of being a woman yeah but it's like you have
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to undermine yourself like part of being feminine is letting the man lead and letting him have the
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spotlight but the there's no issue it's about having a balance between the two parties if you have to
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undermine yourself as a man you can't be a leader you can't have the vision and the we weren't i was
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talking about the other way around oh as a woman yeah so you were saying i i understand what a
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simp is other way around yeah so as a woman you know well for me i'll talk for myself i don't have
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a problem compromising if it's for family there's an end goal we have a goal in mind um if what about
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just for a man but what i wouldn't just do it for a man there must be a common goal but that's that's
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the problem wait so is it because because that that indicates yourself that you're self-centered
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because you wouldn't just do it for a man you have to get something let me you have to get something
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out of it yeah but and and so like if you wouldn't just do it like you put just for a man yeah but
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for a man you have to have actual value in my life i wouldn't just do it for my friend i wouldn't just
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do it for the guy down the road right i know but in this conversation we're talking about a guy you're
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dating oh okay i think like that's easy yeah that's yeah that's part of the relationship dynamic you
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know compromise understanding having communication skills this is where you find the balance between
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each other to have a relationship and i think if as a man you have to undermine yourself to be with
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that woman she's not for you most men in today's society have to undermine themselves to some level
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to be um desirable to a woman because even something like monogamy is a man undermining himself
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to please a woman isn't it well i i wouldn't know you would know more than i yeah why are men expected
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to deal with our hormones when we're on our period but we're not expected to deal with men's hormones
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like i'm being corny of course you get it it's youtube yeah corny that's in
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yeah yeah yeah i get you i get you yeah yeah yeah yeah so so so because we we expect monogamy right
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yeah but i think you know in this society women are hyper sexualized so if you feel
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no we sexualize ourselves don't don't put that hyper sexualized that like that word takes accountability
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off of women we sexualize ourselves yeah we do sexualize ourselves but we are hyper sexualized
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in the domain so for me when i'm looking at women twerking jumping up and down and then saying i'm not
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gonna you know beat down on my man like how he wants you're a hypocrite you're you're a hypocrite
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you're not you're not sure no no really like if a man's asking you you know babe i need this and
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you're saying no well there's 300 other girls in his dm that will give that to him without any
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questions are so it as i said if you have to undermine yourself to be with somebody man or woman
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it's not worth but in terms of our reproductive strategies yeah a woman's reproductive strategy
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is monogamy that's how you safeguard yourself and and ensure the future of your offspring for a man
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um we are expendable like we die and we go to war and we go out and hunt all that kind of stuff so
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our our reproductive strategy scattergun so we conform to the female standard to keep his little
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happy so we essentially minimize our biological impulses to make sure he's not happy so to that
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you're undermining yourself now well what as a man as a man yeah well in society this is what we've
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accepted as the norm if you if you could you say yes or no to the question what is he under are you
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are they undermining themselves in that situation i'm not in that position no but i'm asking you like
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because a lot of times like when girls are in a corner they don't like they don't answer the
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question yeah so i yes or no are you undermining yourself whether they're getting rid of yes in
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the sense of biologically you are undermining yourself but this is what we're talking about
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we're talking about standards versus biology biology dictates that boom you can have sex with 100 women
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get 100 women pregnant a woman can only be pregnant once a year her bio bio biology dictates that
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basically by the time she's 45 she's dried up she's no use to the average man now men are aware
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of this yeah biologically and straight away we know this so it's a choice that they make to be with
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that woman nobody's forcing them to be in that situation i wouldn't necessarily say he's undermining
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himself but he's making a conscious decision to look at the women available on the market as we've
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identified low quality not as a majority but as so you're almost flipping your answer you said yes
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and now you're saying no what do you mean do you think a man is undermining himself no i just need
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you to answer the question no do i think he's undermining himself biologically yes but societally
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no because he knows the standards what matters that's not fair is it yeah because that benefits women
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well it doesn't benefit so it's like women like we're in a society where everything benefits us
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yeah but women dry up go ahead what'd you say because i feel like okay if someone's a christian
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you would be putting your body under because biblically you want you want to you are monogamous
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you're faithful somebody of the islamic faith would say what percent of men do you think really are that
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religious that they don't want to have sex with a lot of girls no no what percentage of that i get it but
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you know that so so i think if we had a jar in the middle that said but this exception and but
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that exception most men they would like the mother of their child to only be one right and then they
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they create offspring the majority of men will say i would like to only have one mother that's cat
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yeah they don't want several baby mothers but they like some side chicks
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that's true but but but but but jason derulo's little like baby mama can go on social media
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and complain and cry about how jason derulo cheated on her when you're dating jason derulo
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what do you think was going to happen so you're saying that whoever you get with you should expect
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that's what i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying if you want a guy on a certain level he's
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gonna cheat on you okay like i'm just saying like if it's like don't yo don't yeah don't be dating
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these celebrities these nba players and confused but and i'm saying like we wouldn't like them
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if they couldn't cheat we'd like guys like pre-selection is very important for women
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so it's really important to us that we see other women as many of you know i was just banned on tick
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