JustPearlyThings - March 30, 2023


Do Modern Women Deserve Marriage？


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Length

13 minutes

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146.38815

Word count

1,988

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the modern era of marriage and divorce. We discuss the benefits and drawbacks of the modern marriage system and how we can restore balance in modern society and society as a whole. We also discuss the future of divorce and how it can be better for men and women.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 think women should marry before they carry i don't think it's logical to fully expect that 1.00
00:00:10.820 anymore in our current uh in the new climate of the modern era um to just have that expectation
00:00:18.640 anymore i don't think it's logical okay i we there's been too many benefits no and that's the
00:00:25.500 thing i really don't like saying that like it kind of puts like it makes me feel a certain type
00:00:32.800 of way but i understand it because yeah it's like what incentive do men have to marry you nowadays
00:00:38.580 yeah that right now there's no actual incentive to to marry because we don't gain anything uh from 0.55
00:00:48.860 the act of marriage aside from you know telling the world hey i love this person that's pretty
00:00:54.640 much the only incentive we have i mean there are some like tax breaks and stuff that we get to now
00:00:59.140 take advantage of but it's a very limited scope whereas the other side gets a lot more benefits
00:01:06.680 and upon the destruction of a marriage if that occurs once one side is massively that that
00:01:14.720 destruction is almost completely one-sided um so there's not really any incentive to get married
00:01:21.980 in the western world and mostly the modern world in general but if we restore the legalities and
00:01:29.680 bring and bring back more balance uh for instance uh one brought up the idea of take of putting back
00:01:36.460 into effect like uh taking away um no fault divorce i don't think that's really necessary
00:01:42.040 instead uh separating fault and no fault giving a kind of option and saying like if you're taking no
00:01:49.000 fault divorce you're gonna get less back out of that you know because you're walking away by choice
00:01:56.400 and having a separate one for fault divorce where if something went massively wrong that was out of
00:02:03.640 your control well now those other things that you would do that would be open to you in general now
00:02:08.960 are now a thing so because so you're falling for fault divorce and no fault divorce and there's two
00:02:15.860 different incentives okay that's an interesting idea that's an interesting idea because if you want
00:02:21.800 to walk away that's a choice you should be able to make i mean if you don't care or love about love a
00:02:27.740 person anymore being stuck with them is gonna breed hostility but being incentivized to do so because
00:02:35.940 the option to just walk away makes every single problem that occurs in a relationship that much more
00:02:43.260 appealing it's there i'm like you could just oh cool uh you we had a fight today so uh bye i'm
00:02:49.120 out of 5000 and that's a total option but if you have both you know no fault and fault divorce and if
00:02:56.400 on the no fault one you're walking away doesn't give you all the benefits of i don't know alimony and
00:03:04.140 stuff like that like you walking away means i hope you can support yourself and get your own job right now
00:03:08.880 if you're not working or whatever or you have your own place you don't get to take the house
00:03:13.420 if you didn't pay for it you know those benefits that would come with a natural like a natural divorce
00:03:19.860 now then you're not incentivized to just walk and it still leaves you the option to do so
00:03:27.580 and then there's also fault divorce where if you are in an abusive relationship and the dude just
00:03:33.460 beats the hell out of you you can go yo he just knocked the crap out of me and now the punishment 0.99
00:03:39.440 has is able to fit the crime essentially okay thank you for calling in appreciate it
00:03:45.720 no problem have a good one um
00:03:50.160 fault and no fault um you have the next one blessing also oh wait here i'll do i'll do that
00:03:59.720 announcement after hi this is pearl um you're live on the air what is the solution to modern dating
00:04:05.760 hello oh
00:04:11.800 did you hang up oh hello solution to modern dating sorry you cut out can you hear me yeah i can hear
00:04:19.600 you go ahead hey pearl big fan uh i got the solution to modern uh dating uh teach uh as men
00:04:29.260 turn women into misogynist 0.59
00:04:31.520 teach them to be uh wives like as parents like you're supposed to teach your kids and your 1.00
00:04:39.340 especially your daughters how to treat men in the house that's how my parents treated me 1.00
00:04:43.560 and my one uh my sisters yeah but we can't change society right so we're in modern we're in modern
00:04:50.640 times so do you think that men should just
00:04:54.320 sorry let me ask the question in a different way should men if they find a girl that they deem
00:05:01.000 to be quality sign the marriage contract
00:05:03.380 um if they find somebody that they deem of a quality woman then yes they should get married 0.68
00:05:15.580 because that's that's a good thing for society to have strong family and strong families um the
00:05:22.360 problem is that like who's teaching young men what a quality woman is 0.98
00:05:27.480 so when they go out and they go out into the world and they vet whatever women they meet
00:05:36.640 how do they know what a quality woman is just because she has a low body count or just because 1.00
00:05:44.020 she's good looking and in shape or something like that doesn't mean that they are
00:05:48.900 quality women what what is a quality woman to you to me a quality woman is somebody that is loyal
00:05:57.180 um that is loving caring loyal uh respectful and that uh doesn't embarrass me in front of public that
00:06:09.060 all basically she needs to make my life better in every way do you think that women can pretend to 1.00
00:06:18.780 be quality in order to get marriage yes they can but then we go back to if okay so if you are a woman 0.97
00:06:30.740 that is pretending to be quality woman a quality woman and you're vetted by somebody that knows what
00:06:37.840 a quality woman is i guarantee you there's no way she can hide it so how long should a guy vet a girl 1.00
00:06:44.400 before considering marriage i think a good solid two years that's what my marriage was i i spent uh
00:06:52.820 two years uh as uh a serious relationship and you know anything that i would have noticed
00:07:02.700 um that was off either by the way she treats her parents the way she treats her friends 1.00
00:07:08.780 the way she treats me um though the her spending habits the way that she uh interacts with uh people
00:07:17.860 at work the way that she responds to a okay to a request that i have so your solution is to still
00:07:25.560 get married look for the quality woman but vet them for at least two years for men i i think that 0.97
00:07:32.980 i think that ultimately it is better for society that if men marry women the problem is that in 0.81
00:07:42.980 society like i said we don't know young men don't know what a quality woman is and the way to fix that 1.00
00:07:50.900 is to have shows like your like your show and other shows that are around the internet to teach young
00:07:56.020 men what a quality a real quality woman is and that would probably fix a lot of the problems that we 1.00
00:08:03.280 have um unfortunately like the previous callers have said they have so many things that
00:08:11.760 of like they have so many women have so many benefits for getting divorced that you could be a 1.00
00:08:19.700 quality woman and be a good happy relationship and then all of a sudden you know hang out with
00:08:26.380 the wrong friends or like get something in your head that like makes it to where all of a sudden
00:08:30.960 you're like quote unquote not happy and decide to leave and then you're incentivized for it so i think
00:08:35.880 also taking away the incentives for people that especially for women that get divorced just because
00:08:42.760 i think that's another solution too so we take away the but right now we can't individually change the
00:08:48.460 laws right so the laws are the way they are so moving forward do you think that we can still
00:08:54.960 build families without marriage 0.99
00:08:56.840 can we build families without marriage yeah without at least legally
00:09:03.260 i yes you can i do not approve of it like you said i don't think women should carry kids before
00:09:17.580 marriage okay okay thank you for calling i don't yes you can because the family all it takes is
00:09:24.820 commitment by both parties right but i still think that marriage is i don't know i'm religious so i think
00:09:32.560 marriage is the way you're supposed to do it okay thank you for calling in
00:09:37.020 um okay wait wait a second for the next okay quality women still divorce men all the time too wake the 1.00
00:09:44.720 hell up the money we pay women to quit that's morally wrong because that's the other i should 1.00
00:09:49.100 have asked this i didn't think of it till now but that's the other thing like if women aren't 1.00
00:09:53.720 religious like i don't i don't know that many i don't want to say i i do know religious women from 0.52
00:10:01.340 like where i grew up however i don't think the majority what percent blessing what percent of women 0.80
00:10:10.420 you think are religious nowadays like actually religious you meet 100 women five okay yeah so
00:10:22.300 five percent of women are religious does it make sense 1.00
00:10:24.880 to have religious outcomes also guys go just quick announcement mid-show
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00:12:09.200 for a monopod okay make tell by logic soon because men will be so against marriage 0.93
00:12:15.580 women will push for laws giving them the right to force a man 1.00
00:12:19.000 to marry her write it down oh my god i could see that happening
00:12:22.500 um tyquel the i think this was inappropriate because someone deleted it
00:12:27.060 um gtip thank you for the super chat
00:12:30.100 um nelson gonzalez i can find out i can't find out how to call but my wife and i got married as
00:12:37.280 virgins and i was broken because of her i read this one already um i think total
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00:12:54.420 mono something monopod anyways marriage is just a piece of paper
00:12:59.880 it's imaginary that's from marriage causes divorce
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